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Which Actor Made You Realize You Were Gay When You Were AKid?

For me it was Robert Urich on Soap and then on Vega$ !

by Anonymousreply 121July 16, 2020 12:42 PM

Alejandro Rey from The Flying Nun

by Anonymousreply 1July 4, 2020 5:26 AM

Mark Goddard on Lost in Space

Gary Conway on Land of the Giants

James Naughton on Planet of the Apes

by Anonymousreply 2July 4, 2020 5:34 AM

Patrick Duffy

by Anonymousreply 3July 4, 2020 5:45 AM

Seeing the postman dance in Sister Act 2! I had to keep rewinding but didn't know why exactly.

I wonder what happened to him.....

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by Anonymousreply 4July 4, 2020 6:03 AM

Jesse Metcalfe on Passions.

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by Anonymousreply 5July 4, 2020 6:05 AM

Richard Chamberlin "The Slipper and The Rose"

by Anonymousreply 6July 4, 2020 6:11 AM

I wanted to be Maurice Evans from Bewitched.

by Anonymousreply 7July 4, 2020 6:12 AM

I wanted to be Uncle Arthur, R7.

by Anonymousreply 8July 4, 2020 6:14 AM

Jan Michael Vincent and Michael Ontkean

by Anonymousreply 9July 4, 2020 6:33 AM

None.

I realized that by myself.

I suppose my first tv crushes were Batman and Robin, Will from Lost in Space, and Jody from Family Affair.

I was very disheartened to find out Will was a dirty hippy in real life as I didn't know Lost in Space was an old show. He wasn't a clean cute hippy like the 30 year olds in wigs who appeared as comic relief on various sitcoms.

And why weren't there cute boys dancing in their swimsuits with flowers painted on them on Laugh-In? Why was it just old men making jokes about their sweet bippies?

Was a bippie a kind of pickle?

by Anonymousreply 10July 4, 2020 6:43 AM

Joe Dallesandro. Christopher Atkins.

by Anonymousreply 11July 4, 2020 6:56 AM

Sean Connery in "Goldfinger".

by Anonymousreply 12July 4, 2020 7:05 AM

Chris Atkins in the blue Speedo on 'Dallas'. I desperately wanted him to be my swim instructor.

by Anonymousreply 13July 4, 2020 7:21 AM

Kevin Dobson on Kojak. I was only six or seven, but I never missed an episode. It took a few more years for me to realise why. By that time he was in Knot’s Landing in that ridiculous poodle wig, and I no longer found him attractive.

by Anonymousreply 14July 4, 2020 7:37 AM

Chad Allen on Dr Quinn Medicine Woman.

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by Anonymousreply 15July 4, 2020 7:58 AM

Collecting gay nude centrefolds and ads of men in underwear from women's magazine's at the age of about 8.

by Anonymousreply 16July 4, 2020 8:54 AM

The first man who made me feel a bit funny was Arnie in Terminator 2 (I know, so embarrassing). But I think I fully realized I was a homosexualist a few years later when I was forced to watch Mexican soap operas with my grandmother who babysat me - I was drooling over Fernando Colunga like a hungry puppy.

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by Anonymousreply 17July 4, 2020 9:12 AM

Howard McNear

Floyd the Barber on the Andy Griffith Show

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by Anonymousreply 18July 4, 2020 9:51 AM

Ricki Ricardo on ILL. Yes, I'm an eldergay. Hispanic and Arab men have been a consistent "type" for men since pre-school.

by Anonymousreply 19July 4, 2020 10:09 AM

Brian Kelly.

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by Anonymousreply 20July 4, 2020 11:19 AM

Pat Boone in Journey to the Center of the Earth.

by Anonymousreply 21July 4, 2020 11:34 AM

As a little boy, I was obsessed with David Cassidy. By the time his brother Shaun came onto the scene, I started to piece together why.

by Anonymousreply 22July 4, 2020 11:37 AM

Michael Landon. I was always hoping Pa would fall off a horse so he'd have to have his ribs patched up and be shirtless.

by Anonymousreply 23July 4, 2020 11:45 AM

[quote]Michael Landon. I was always hoping Pa would fall off a horse so he'd have to have his ribs patched up and be shirtless.

I guess there wouldn't have been any scenes where he spilled coffee or tomato sauce on his shirt while visiting someone, and his hostess (or, preferably, host) offered to throw it in the washer and dryer.

by Anonymousreply 24July 4, 2020 11:49 AM

The man who played 'Seth Starkadder' in the 60's version of 'Cold Comfort Farm'.

He wore leather trousers so low on his hips I'm sure he would have had to shave his pubes.

by Anonymousreply 25July 4, 2020 11:51 AM

Sam Elliott on Lifeguard was on TV and....

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by Anonymousreply 26July 4, 2020 11:52 AM

This admission should win me a DL award: As a young gayling (4 or 5), whenever 'Facts of Life' came on, I'd run to the bathroom and get my hooded towel, so I could wear it and watch along as Lisa Whelchel sashayed around with her perfect, huge, 80s hair. Any time she flipped her hair, I'd flip the towel over my shoulder. I have no idea how my mother put up with the level of homosexual ridiculousness. (Years later, she heard Lisa speak at a Christian women's conference, and told me I would've enjoyed her talk. I instantly remembered the towel hair flips and told my mum I don't think the other Christian ladies would've tolerated that well.)

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by Anonymousreply 27July 4, 2020 11:59 AM

Oh plenty. I grew up in the 1970's so there's plenty of male eye candy from that era.

by Anonymousreply 28July 4, 2020 12:19 PM

Tim Considine on Walt Disney Presents "The Swamp Fox." Though I was only a little kid, and had no idea yet about the joys of dicksucking, I knew I wanted to invite Tim Considine to sleep over. In my bed, with me, of course.

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by Anonymousreply 29July 4, 2020 12:28 PM

Embarrassing to me now, but what did I know?

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by Anonymousreply 30July 4, 2020 12:34 PM

Billy Zane’s ass in Dead Calm. Costner in “Dances with Wolves.”

by Anonymousreply 31July 4, 2020 12:42 PM

Ewan McGregor belting out “the hills are alive...” in Moulin Rouge!

by Anonymousreply 32July 4, 2020 12:47 PM

Chris O'Donnell in Batman Forever and Batman & Robin

by Anonymousreply 33July 4, 2020 12:59 PM

Several -

Brian Kelly (Flipper), Mark Goddard (Lost in Space) and James Darren (The Time Tunnel)

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by Anonymousreply 34July 4, 2020 1:02 PM

he is not an actor but Morten Harket of A-ha and his appearance on TOTP showing off his looks, muscles , buldge and bum was to die for.

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by Anonymousreply 35July 4, 2020 1:07 PM

Ron Ely, tv’s Tarzan.

by Anonymousreply 36July 4, 2020 1:14 PM

R30 I too used to drool over his ass. He would have to be a Christian Shit Stain fundie too.

by Anonymousreply 37July 4, 2020 4:33 PM

Eric Estrada’s black Speedo, I was a young gayling TRAUMATIZED by so much bulge and leg!

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by Anonymousreply 38July 4, 2020 5:04 PM

You can keep Susan Dey.

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by Anonymousreply 39July 4, 2020 5:41 PM

Rick Schroder on Silver Spoons

Damon Pampolina from the 1980s Mickey Mouse Club

by Anonymousreply 40July 4, 2020 5:45 PM

Forbes Robertson on the stage!

by Anonymousreply 41July 4, 2020 5:46 PM

Probably Lee Majors in 'The Big Valley.' Seeing him shirtless gave me all sorts of funny feelings. I crushed on him pretty hard, but even then knew I had to keep that to myself.

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by Anonymousreply 42July 4, 2020 5:48 PM

^^^ Tight hole.

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by Anonymousreply 43July 4, 2020 5:54 PM

He had been dead for almost a decade, but I remember seeing a magazine article on Elvis Presley's 1956 rise to stardom. He was gorgeous. When I saw a photo of 21-year-old Elvis, I knew I was different and I had no idea what that meant.

by Anonymousreply 44July 4, 2020 5:56 PM

Him.

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by Anonymousreply 45July 4, 2020 5:57 PM

Lloyd Bridges (Sea Hunt)

Robert Conrad (Wild Wild West)

Mark Goddard (Lost In Space)

by Anonymousreply 46July 4, 2020 5:58 PM

R45, I've been re-watching 'The Wild Wild West' a few episodes a day for the past week or so. I'm still in the First Season, B&W.

On one of the discs, there's a special feature, an excerpt from a talk show from 1978 called 'Every Day,' where Robert Conrad and Ross Martin were guests, ostensibly to plug 'The Wild Wild West Revisited.' In the interview, Conrad and Martin throw some kind of shade at Richard Chamberlin, which to my ears sound like they might be casting aspersions on his sexualiity. I've been wondering about it. Check it out - around [bold]7:30[/bold]:

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by Anonymousreply 47July 4, 2020 6:12 PM

Mark Goddard, Burt Ward, the Green Hornet guy, Kent McCord, William Reynolds on The FBI. But the one who really made me squirm was Dick Martin on Laugh-In.

by Anonymousreply 48July 4, 2020 6:16 PM

I practically came from just seeing the ads for this TV movie!

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by Anonymousreply 49July 4, 2020 6:29 PM

The men of Battle of The Network Stars, particularly Mark Harmon. That show is the only time I have willingly watched a televised sporting event, lol!

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by Anonymousreply 50July 4, 2020 6:33 PM

Rr45 -- a (male) friend of mine had an affair with Conrad (he was a bully and a bottom) and said that Conrad was always picking up twinks in LA but was insanely terrified anyone would find out he was gay, or bisexual - he knew it would ruin his macho career. So if he was throwing shade at Chamberlain, it was because he was probably both jealous and scared.

by Anonymousreply 51July 4, 2020 7:57 PM

That's standard homophobic closet-case behavior, r51.

by Anonymousreply 52July 4, 2020 9:02 PM

Are we doing this damn thread AGAIN?!?!?!

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by Anonymousreply 53July 4, 2020 9:07 PM

AND AGAIN?!?!?!

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by Anonymousreply 54July 4, 2020 9:08 PM

And again?

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by Anonymousreply 55July 4, 2020 9:10 PM

And then?

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by Anonymousreply 56July 4, 2020 9:10 PM

And then?

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by Anonymousreply 57July 4, 2020 9:11 PM

And then?

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by Anonymousreply 58July 4, 2020 9:11 PM

And then?

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by Anonymousreply 59July 4, 2020 9:12 PM

And then?

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by Anonymousreply 60July 4, 2020 9:12 PM

And then?

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by Anonymousreply 61July 4, 2020 9:13 PM

AND THEN?!?!?!?

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by Anonymousreply 62July 4, 2020 9:14 PM

The first I recognized as a crush was Peter Duel from Alias Smith & Jones, then young Randolph Mantooth from Emergency!, Erik Estrada from CHIPS, and Jon-Erik Hexum from Voyagers.

by Anonymousreply 63July 4, 2020 9:25 PM

Peter Duel pic. Two out of my four named above ended up shooting themselves. What’s that about?

by Anonymousreply 64July 4, 2020 9:26 PM

Have to hand it to whatever morbidly obese eldergay had time and energy to find all those earlier threads.

Someone give that bitch a cookie.

by Anonymousreply 65July 4, 2020 9:26 PM

Third times a charm

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by Anonymousreply 66July 4, 2020 9:27 PM

I'd say Gary Sandy and Andy Travis's tight jeans on WKRP.

A few soap actors. Mostly because early/mid 80s was the prime time for a lot of them to be seen shirtless or in Speedos, etc. Especially John Wesley Shipp (later Dawson's dad) and Grant Aleksander.

by Anonymousreply 67July 4, 2020 9:28 PM

When I was a kid in the early 90s, Elijah Wood in The Good Son trailer did something for me.

by Anonymousreply 68July 4, 2020 9:29 PM

Gary Sandy certainly did fill out his jeans nicely.

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by Anonymousreply 69July 4, 2020 9:49 PM

I forgot about how my young loins burned for Robert Fuller from Laramie.

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by Anonymousreply 70July 4, 2020 9:53 PM

musclemusclemuscle.... steve reeves, reg park, clint walker and others in sword and sandal movies...

the paul brothers (the barbarian brothers), dolph lundgren in he-man...

robert horton, lee majors, gil gerard, cal bolder, mike henry, jorge rivero, robert conrad, brian kelley, batman tv show, jan michael vincent, tom selleck,

countless 80's and 90's soap opera hunks...

american gladiators and their international gladiator counterparts...

so so many more...

by Anonymousreply 71July 4, 2020 9:57 PM

Antonio Sabato Jr in his underwear ads

by Anonymousreply 72July 4, 2020 9:59 PM

Ah R2, I'm so glad you brought up James Naughton and Planet of the Apes.

He, Paul Michael Glaser (Starsky) and James Franciscus (Beneath the Planet of the Apes) were a big part of my childhood.

by Anonymousreply 73July 4, 2020 10:03 PM

Steve Guttenberg. The answer to these kinds of questions is always (for me)...Steve Guttenberg.

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by Anonymousreply 74July 4, 2020 10:07 PM

The Hardy Boys

Dukes of Hazard

The Six Million Dollar Man

by Anonymousreply 75July 4, 2020 10:15 PM

r71 I definitely knew by the late 80s but yes, the American Gladiators! Nobody cared that they were total butterfaces.

by Anonymousreply 76July 4, 2020 10:57 PM

Eric Estrada

by Anonymousreply 77July 4, 2020 10:58 PM

[R73] I posted on another thread that I actually had the occasion (after a cast party during the early run of Chicago) to tell James Naughton about my childhood crush on him. He was very sweet about it -I walked away feeling happy that I'd told him, rather than embarrassed.

by Anonymousreply 78July 5, 2020 5:35 AM

Gil Gerard - "Buck Rogers in the 25th Century" Ron Ely - "Tarzan"

by Anonymousreply 79July 5, 2020 6:21 AM

That's a lot of guys, r71. Is that why you're such a slut?

by Anonymousreply 80July 5, 2020 6:24 AM

Dick Martin? R48?

Was it all the bippie references?

by Anonymousreply 81July 5, 2020 6:53 AM

R69 i remember wondering how they let him get away with that. Every pair of jeans looked like that

by Anonymousreply 82July 5, 2020 1:55 PM

Clint Walker. Daddy!

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by Anonymousreply 83July 5, 2020 2:00 PM

[quote][R71] I definitely knew by the late 80s but yes, the American Gladiators! Nobody cared that they were total butterfaces

Turbo certainly wasn’t a butterface. He was my favorite and definitely made me realize that men crank my yank. I couldn’t have cared less about the female gladiators and contestants.

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by Anonymousreply 84July 5, 2020 2:17 PM

Yes, yes, yes, R34!

A tag team with Brian Kelly and James Darren. James Darren was actually hairy. Had Hollywood left that alone, just imagine the photos we would have today!

Heaven!!!

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by Anonymousreply 85July 5, 2020 2:34 PM

I am mortified about this confession. I found my parents old copy of Risky Business in the 90's. I used to j/o to the opening scene where Tom Cruise was fucking the hooker. Tom Cruise - ewwww. I think I always knew I was gay, but he was the first actor or at least sex scene that really got me horny.

by Anonymousreply 86July 5, 2020 2:45 PM

Oh god. Don’t forget Spencer 4 hire. Trying so hard to be a tough guy poet Everyman with his faithful archangel dark skinned sidekick to bail him out. I used to be so impressed by his literary references.

Pulled up some episodes last week. Not awful, but his relationship with the DA (Olivet from L&O) was a bit over the top. But not unwatchable.

by Anonymousreply 87July 5, 2020 2:50 PM

R85 - I didn't know Darren was hairy.

But sorry to admit that I prefer the prettier/shaved version of the guy.

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by Anonymousreply 88July 5, 2020 2:52 PM

I got a little chubby with this thread.

by Anonymousreply 89July 5, 2020 2:55 PM

Lloyd Bridges on "Sea Hunt" raised the question

George Maharis on "Route 66" sealed the deal

by Anonymousreply 90July 5, 2020 3:12 PM

[quote] [R69] i remember wondering how they let him get away with that. Every pair of jeans looked like that

Tight jeans were all the rage back in those days. Displaying the package was all part of the masculine allure and movies and TV capitalized on it in spades. They knew it would be a big draw to the female audience (not to mention, the gay audience). As long as the actual meat wasn't on display all was good.

by Anonymousreply 91July 5, 2020 3:51 PM

With Fred Dryer in HUNTER, he might as well have just whipped it out in every episode because his tight jeans pretty much showed it all.

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by Anonymousreply 92July 5, 2020 3:57 PM

I'm sure Gary Sandy padded his jeans too, but at that time it was all fantasy anyway, and you settled for what you could get.

I mean now you can look at an erect penis on your phone!

by Anonymousreply 93July 5, 2020 3:58 PM

mmm. fred dwyer

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by Anonymousreply 94July 5, 2020 3:59 PM

I wasn't aware of Clint Walker until his heyday had passed. He would have brought those furious and frequent adolescent masturbation sessions to record levels.

by Anonymousreply 95July 5, 2020 4:35 PM

How old are you guys on this thread? I don't know who 95% of these guys are.

by Anonymousreply 96July 5, 2020 5:02 PM

^^ And yet you have this handy piece of equipment connect to this -What do you call it? Internet? Where you might discover things...

by Anonymousreply 97July 5, 2020 5:22 PM

Be still you little sissy.

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by Anonymousreply 98July 5, 2020 5:28 PM

Kurt Russell - The Travels of Jamie McPheeters 1963- 1964.

by Anonymousreply 99July 5, 2020 5:37 PM

[quote]And yet you have this handy piece of equipment connect to this -What do you call it? Internet? Where you might discover things...

And if there were only some sort of [bold]D[/bold]ata[bold]b[/bold]ase for [bold]M[/bold]ovies and television on this [bold]I[/bold]nternet thing somewhere.

by Anonymousreply 100July 5, 2020 9:28 PM

A few more drinks and you’ll be fine r100

by Anonymousreply 101July 5, 2020 9:34 PM

This guy!!!!!! I found my spirit animal when I saw him the first time!

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by Anonymousreply 102July 5, 2020 9:46 PM

The Fred Dryer images posted so far don't tell the full story. This is a better example of his obscene bulge.

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by Anonymousreply 103July 5, 2020 10:05 PM

And this one.

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by Anonymousreply 104July 5, 2020 10:05 PM

And of course, we can't forget this display.

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by Anonymousreply 105July 5, 2020 10:06 PM

^You can see dick AND what is obviously a heavy sack. I know his jeans smelled heavenly at the end of a day.

by Anonymousreply 106July 5, 2020 10:25 PM

Gil Gerard in Buck Rogers.

by Anonymousreply 107July 5, 2020 10:32 PM

Few have aged as badly as the formerly gorgeous Gil Gerard.

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by Anonymousreply 108July 5, 2020 11:19 PM

Interestingly English is what is known as a West Germanic language along with German and Dutch. In fact I think it was the movie Downfall all ib German but certain phrases in German are exact as they are in English. Surprised the hell out of me when I watched that movie, and Hitler melting down was funny.

by Anonymousreply 109July 14, 2020 11:46 PM

Christopher Reeve

by Anonymousreply 110July 14, 2020 11:53 PM

The Rock (98/99 version)

by Anonymousreply 111July 15, 2020 2:05 AM

Christopher Atkins

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by Anonymousreply 112July 15, 2020 2:25 PM

David Soul

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by Anonymousreply 113July 15, 2020 2:29 PM

Watching afternoon reruns of Leave it To Beaver I discovered Tony Dow aka Wally. I haven't been the same since.

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by Anonymousreply 114July 15, 2020 2:40 PM

Definitely Zac Efron.

by Anonymousreply 115July 15, 2020 3:07 PM

Brian Wimmer (Boonie) of China Beach

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by Anonymousreply 116July 15, 2020 3:14 PM

[R112]Sigh. Me too. Face it though-terrible actor, great ass!

by Anonymousreply 117July 16, 2020 4:01 AM

r112 and r117 you must remember his male-stripper movie, right?

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by Anonymousreply 118July 16, 2020 12:08 PM

There was always s rumor - urban myth? - that he actually put his dick in her during one of their loves scenes and that you can tell the moment when you watch it

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by Anonymousreply 119July 16, 2020 12:12 PM

Her...

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by Anonymousreply 120July 16, 2020 12:19 PM

speaking of "a night in heaven" with atkins.... their sex scene on the bed and in the hotel room was pretty scorching soft porn in it's day,even now it's pretty amazing, i mean they showed atkins erection in side profile for a few moments! lost track of how many times i whacked off to this scene over the years.. but i've always wondered ....

based on her, lesley ann warren's teacher character's physical and facial reactions and her orgasmic cries/crying during the screwing of her by her much younger male stripper student, were we the audience suppose to think while watching this that either 1) atkins' character was so great in screwing women (and a great dick as well) to make her react this way? or 2) that she was so damn horny, lonely, desperate for sex that any guy would have made her react this way?.... heck, maybe a combination of both #1 and #2?..

funny though in that looking at this movie, now the husband of her character was waaaaaaaaaaaaaay hotter then atkins! he was a MAN, and atkins in real life and his character was a boy.... the husband was handsomer, more masculine, bigger, taller, everything...

by Anonymousreply 121July 16, 2020 12:42 PM
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