Question about "I've Never Been to Me (Charlene)"
The song is universally panned here on DL, but out of curiosity I went to youtube for the song and looked at the comments. People were saying the song brings tears to their eyes and how moving it is. And they weren't being sarcastic they were serious.
I don't get the huge discrepancy in how this song is viewed?
by Anonymous | reply 233 | January 21, 2022 5:54 AM
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When it first came out, it rode a frau wave of “my life hasn’t turned out like I had wanted.” It tapped into the fantasy life of many middle aged women.
Gay men have an entirely different relationship with the song. They can identify with “I’ve spent my life exploring the subtle whoring” yet they affirm how maudlin, yet cheesy, the song really is.
This song could have only gotten attention in the 1970s genre when these type songs were popular (much like I am woman, hear me roar). If it had been released in mid-1980s, it would have been laughed right out of the recording studio.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 11, 2021 12:30 PM
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But wait R1. It was re-released in 1983 and that's when it became a big hit. So that is the mid 80s.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 11, 2021 12:32 PM
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I think it’s hilarious, but the pathos cannot be denied. The lyrics tell the person with the simple life that they won. The woman undressed by kings envies the frau. You know what paradise is? It’s a LIE.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 11, 2021 12:39 PM
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And the things she wasn't supposed to see...what were those things, anyway? A king without his hairpiece?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 11, 2021 12:41 PM
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So paradise is going to Georgia and California?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 11, 2021 12:41 PM
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It was released in 1977 and bombed. It was rereleased in 1982, partly because someone at Motown heard it and pushed it.
The early 80s was still a time of musical change. Disco was dying but the new styles hadn’t yet taken hold. Donna Summer still had good stuff, Bette Midler’s The Rose and Madonna’s Live To Tell were much better than Charlene’s campy one hit wonder.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | December 11, 2021 12:44 PM
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The song doesn't have an 80s feel to it. At all.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 11, 2021 12:45 PM
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I love the song, but really in a nostalgic way, since I was a kid when it came out. In reality, it is a terrible, schmaltzy, sexist song that tells women that if they don't get married and have children they will regret it:
But you know what truth is?
It's that little baby you're holding
And it's that man you fought with this morning
The same one you are gonna make love to tonight
That's truth that's love
Don't travel the world, don't learn things, don't stretch beyond the limited expectations for your sex or:
Sometimes I've been to crying for unborn children
That might have made me complete
Really dreadful.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 11, 2021 12:47 PM
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For perspective, gay men were wailing this in NYC piano bars.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 11 | December 11, 2021 12:48 PM
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Vulgarians like bathos because it enables self-pity.
DLers see through it and enjoy it for its camp value. But the gay "camp with love" is an understanding kind of aesthetic.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 11, 2021 12:49 PM
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I was a tween in 1982 and listened to Top 40 music all the time. But I never heard of this song until the last few years?
I don't remember them playing it on the pop stations. And trust me I would have remembered this.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 11, 2021 12:51 PM
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I thought she was a Brit. She apparently moved to the UK and worked in a sweet shop after her initial tenure on Motown was a flop.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 11, 2021 1:02 PM
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[Quote] I was a tween in 1982 and listened to Top 40 music all the time. But I never heard of this song until the last few years? I don't remember them playing it on the pop stations. And trust me I would have remembered this.
Do you remember "I Could Never Miss You (More Than I Do)" by Lulu?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 15 | December 11, 2021 1:04 PM
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The song was a paean to the new conservatism that was slowly clawing its way back to the mainstream. Hey girls, we’ve had too much freedom, so now let’s rein it back in.
What self-respecting gay wouldn’t instinctively loathe that sentiment and want to undermine it through parody?
by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 11, 2021 1:09 PM
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"Subtle whoring" is one of the most memorable lyrics in pop music.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 11, 2021 1:10 PM
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Yep, r17. It’s right up there with “the Isle of Greece.”
by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 11, 2021 1:11 PM
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No, they are not comparable.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | December 11, 2021 1:12 PM
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Who thought it was a good idea for The Temptations to record it? Did they play it on Lite Downlow 105 FM?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 20 | December 11, 2021 1:14 PM
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OP. My darling, it’s camp.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 11, 2021 1:15 PM
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Gay men mock it because we can spot campy cheesiness from miles away.
Straight people who collect Precious Moments figurines and hang up "pictures" with "sayings" on their walls take all those shmaltz literally. The camp goes over their little heads.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 11, 2021 1:18 PM
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OP, Priscilla would like a word with you.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 11, 2021 1:20 PM
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The Nancy Wilson version ends all others.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 11, 2021 1:35 PM
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Great. Now this fucking song will in my head all weekend. I have made up lyrics in my head to this ridiculous song: “I’ve been undressed in Queens” and “I moved like jello in Montebello and showed ‘em all my twat”.
I think the Georgia in question is the former Soviet Republic. It’s a kind of exotic land that no one much visits. The American Georgia isn’t an impressive place to have traveled.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | December 11, 2021 1:37 PM
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[quote]And the things she wasn't supposed to see...what were those things, anyway?
"Can't Stop the Music."
by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 11, 2021 1:37 PM
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The problem I have with the Nancy Wilson version is that she talks the middle section. She has an amazing voice and I wish she’d sing the song rather than speaking it.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | December 11, 2021 1:38 PM
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I love the new lyrics for The Temptations.
I’ve been to China and Asia Mina.
This must have been the time when Berry Gordy was putting the entire Motown behind making Diana Ross a star because he certainly wasn’t giving The Temptations any attention.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 11, 2021 1:42 PM
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I'm a woman and I remember this song from the '70's. I hated it and I didn't know anyone who liked it. Everyone thought it was crap.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 11, 2021 1:44 PM
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No. Past "Mahogany," Gordy wasn't a big help to Ross. "The Boss" album was not given the push it deserved, on either side of the Atlantic.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | December 11, 2021 2:04 PM
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[quote]I’ve been to China and Asia Mina.
I think that Asia Minor.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | December 11, 2021 2:05 PM
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I get emotional reminiscing about my time on the Isle of Greece.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 11, 2021 2:07 PM
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OP, I thought this was in reference to Charlene of Monaco.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 11, 2021 2:09 PM
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R25 "I moved like jello in Montebello and showed ‘em all my twat”. I cannot stop crying.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 11, 2021 2:11 PM
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[quote] I think that Asia Minor.
But in the song, they pronounce it Mina to rhyme with China.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 11, 2021 2:18 PM
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Here is Marilyn on Solid Gold. Whenever I heard the line discontented mother I thought muhtha.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 36 | December 11, 2021 2:19 PM
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Howard Keel?!?? So bizarre with crazy alternative lyrics.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 37 | December 11, 2021 2:22 PM
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Sorry about my deep dive in YouTube. I loved this song as a teen for both aspects and am enjoying all of the links I am finding. A little history of the song.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 38 | December 11, 2021 2:26 PM
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[quote] So bizarre with crazy alternative lyrics.
Same stupid lyrics as The Temptations sing above. Apparently, someone felt they should write a male version as well.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | December 11, 2021 2:27 PM
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Well, men don't tend to think about procreation as "completing" a man.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | December 11, 2021 2:30 PM
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"I've seen some Best Men crawl..."
over and suck and my Big Cock
by Anonymous | reply 41 | December 11, 2021 2:31 PM
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Fraus love anything that justifies them pumping out crotchfruit and never doing anything else with their lives, allowing them to look down on the "whores" who did such risqué things as visit the Isle of Greece (there's apparently just one.)
by Anonymous | reply 43 | December 11, 2021 2:33 PM
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The reason I went to YouTube was so share this by Benelecreme. I love what she does with it.
R39 Apparently the male version is the first one according to the short history of the song.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 44 | December 11, 2021 2:34 PM
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A drag queen performing this song is redundant.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | December 11, 2021 2:35 PM
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[quote]Hey Lady! YOU lady!
In my mind, I always hear this line as Jerry Lewis would perform it.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | December 11, 2021 2:36 PM
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Was Charlene not the original artist to release the song?
by Anonymous | reply 47 | December 11, 2021 2:40 PM
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Definitely heard it in 1977 and remember dissecting it with friends in one of our basements, especially scandalized by the veiled reference to abortion.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | December 11, 2021 2:56 PM
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[quote]Definitely heard it in 1977 and remember dissecting it with friends in one of our basements, especially scandalized by the veiled reference to abortion.
Were you smoking pot with the cast of "That 70s Show"?
by Anonymous | reply 49 | December 11, 2021 3:06 PM
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Here is how it should have been sung
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 50 | December 11, 2021 3:07 PM
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It’s too bad someone didn’t perform a response song to this.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | December 11, 2021 3:11 PM
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The original, apparently.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 52 | December 11, 2021 3:13 PM
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Thanks for the link, R38.
So, the male version of the song came first. Knowing that questions all the "frau" stuff.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | December 11, 2021 3:14 PM
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Kirsty MacColl's "What Do Pretty Girls Do" is almost a rewrite, without the sexism.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 54 | December 11, 2021 3:15 PM
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It went to #1 in Australia, Canada, Ireland and the UK.
Oddly enough though, while it got to #3 in the US on Cashbox and Billboard it only got to #7 on the Adult Contemporary chart.
Charlene had recorded "I've Never Been to Me" in 1976 for her debut album, the self-titled Charlene, a Prodigal release (P6 10015S1), and the ballad contained a spoken section. "Songs of Love" came out six months later in 1977 and was essentially a re-issue of Charlene, having a slightly different track listing but retaining "I've Never Been to Me" without the spoken bridge.
The Hot 100 peak of "I've Never Been to Me" in its original formal release without the monologue was #97
[quote]In 1982, Scott Shannon, a disc jockey at Tampa radio station WRBQ-FM, began playing the "I've Never Been to Me" track off the Charlene album (with the original recitative), and response from local listeners was such as to motivate Shannon, a former Motown employee, to alert Motown president Jay Lasker to the track's hit potential. Lasker located Charlene who, discouraged by the poor performance of her 1977 Motown releases and by the label's decision not to release a second album she had recorded, had left the music industry and met and married an Englishman, subsequently accompanying him to England and taking a job at a sweetshop in Ilford.
It subsequently rose as high as No. 3 on the Hot 100, where it held for three weeks during May and June, prevented from further chart movement by "Don't Talk to Strangers" by Rick Springfield and "Ebony and Ivory" by Paul McCartney and Stevie Wonder.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | December 11, 2021 3:16 PM
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[quote]And the things she wasn't supposed to see...what were those things, anyway?
It involved Nancy Reagan and everyone on an aircraft carrier.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | December 11, 2021 3:30 PM
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I remember hearing this song on the radio in the station wagon as my mom drove me to the grocery store. It had a nice melody and the lady's singing voice was pleasant.
However, the lyrics are a shit show. This woman has done fucking EVERYTHING and now she's whining that she doesn't have a husband to cook and clean for and that she didn't pop out a kid. The song is a Republican chauvinist's dream: the only path to happiness for a woman is to get married, pop out babies and dedicate your life to being your husband's subservient helpmeet, maid, and nanny. Forget a career and wild experiences...those things are for men.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | December 11, 2021 3:35 PM
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r57
Oh good grief, take a chill pill dude. It's just one in a line of many schmaltzy songs like "Love Child," "At Seventeen" and "I Just Called To Say I Love You."
by Anonymous | reply 58 | December 11, 2021 3:46 PM
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R58, those songs don't have a political agenda designed to shame women.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | December 11, 2021 3:49 PM
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Obviously it was written by men because no woman who has a baby is going to make mad passionate love to her husband when he comes home.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | December 11, 2021 3:55 PM
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I could tell this shit was awful even when I was nine. I mean, there was schmaltzy stuff in the Top 40 of the time (Journey's "Open Arms," etc) but this was on a whole other level. It wasn't fun pop like Sheena Easton or Olivia or Kim Carnes. I didn't have a clue what camp was back then, or I would have immediately recognized it as that. The cutesy, affected vocal; the nauseatingly saccharine arrangement; the clumsy, overwrought, moralizing lyrics. It remains a mystery why anyone dug this ungainly monstrosity out from the dustbin of history and why it became a hit years later. I guess resurgent conservatism is the only thing that can explain it.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | December 11, 2021 3:59 PM
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I put it on my Apple Music playlist a couple years back because I wanted to hear the familiar melody again. It was OK, even with the sappy lyrics. UNTIL she started doing that cringy speech at the end in an overdramatic voice. I touched the skip button on my phone and hoped that no one nearby on the train heard it through my earbuds.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | December 11, 2021 4:02 PM
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You haven't heard Lorenzo yet.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 63 | December 11, 2021 4:04 PM
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Hey hausfrau, you hausfrau
Cursing at your life
You're an alcoholic mother
A morbidly obese wife
I've no doubt
You dream about the things you'll never do
Like see your toes again or have a husband that doesn’t leave you black and blue.
Ooh, I've vomited vino in a casino in Reno and anywhere I could run
Took the scat of a preacher man
As he called me fat just for fun.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | December 11, 2021 4:07 PM
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It is just an easy song to make fun of but not really bad. It was kind of referenced by poster “Priscilla” but this is what I always think of first.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 65 | December 11, 2021 4:12 PM
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[quote]And the things she wasn't supposed to see...what were those things, anyway?
Danny Thomas's glass-topped coffee table.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | December 11, 2021 4:13 PM
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She intones the words "I've spent my life exploring the subtle whoring that costs too much to be free" with such deadly earnestness. How did anyone, anywhere, take this song seriously?
by Anonymous | reply 67 | December 11, 2021 4:16 PM
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I've always assumed that the narrator is Down and Out. She approaches the lady, you lady in public and tries to warn her about the dangers of yacht girl life.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | December 11, 2021 4:17 PM
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If only Ghislaine Maxwell had taken it seriously...
by Anonymous | reply 69 | December 11, 2021 4:18 PM
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Things a woman ain't s'posed to see: Differential equations
Math isn't for ladies, it upsets the humors, and makes them barren.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | December 11, 2021 4:21 PM
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[quote] Sometimes I've been to crying for unborn children That might have made me complete. I took the sweet Life I've never knew I'd be bitter from the sweet
She's pissed off and angry about all the abortions she had from getting pregnant and sluting around.
It's actually funnier in TAOPQOTD, when Mitzi kicks the baby off the stage.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 71 | December 11, 2021 4:21 PM
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Hy mama, hey mama
Insta-ing your mundane life
gotta be a perfect mother
gotta be a perfect wife
You dream about the things you'll never do
I wish someone told me that college and nice clothes are overrated like I want to tell you.
Ooh, I've been to college and stores that weren't Walmart and I've been on a plane.
Took the hand of a man with no neckbeard
And had sex without getting knocked up
But I ran out of places and friendly faces
Because I had to be free
All the unemployed overweight mamas didn't like their husbands looking at me.
Please lady please Karen
Don't just walk away
'Cause I have this need to tell you
Why I'm all alone today
with a fat bank account
and time to spend with my friends and creative hobbies
by Anonymous | reply 72 | December 11, 2021 4:21 PM
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R68, then she tries to recruit the lady into her Lula Roe multi-level-marketing downline.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | December 11, 2021 4:23 PM
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Things a woman ain't s'posed to see: The Meat Rack on Fire Island.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | December 11, 2021 4:23 PM
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Things a woman ain't s'posed to see: a corporate meeting room
by Anonymous | reply 75 | December 11, 2021 4:25 PM
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But is Charlene still crying over unborn children to this day? Or for the.even more cringeworthy follow up single with Stevie Wonder. That one should have been aborted.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | December 11, 2021 4:27 PM
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The lyrics don't mean she had abortions. Maybe she just used birth control because she didn't want to be trapped in a conventional life.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | December 11, 2021 4:29 PM
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An unfertilized egg is not an unborn baby, hon.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | December 11, 2021 4:34 PM
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But a couple of them could have been potential children if she had gotten laid at the right time without using birth control, R78.
Instead, she responsibly used birth control, and it worked. But now she and the other lady are both experiencing that feeling that "the grass is greener on the other side". The lady posts in reddit everyday about how her husband plays video games all day and won't help take care of the kids.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | December 11, 2021 4:41 PM
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No. Unborn means "stopped from being born."
by Anonymous | reply 80 | December 11, 2021 4:47 PM
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The song only works if you imagine it being sung by an old whore who is now a bag lady screaming at people as they go into Target.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | December 11, 2021 4:53 PM
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[quote] She intones the words "I've spent my life exploring the subtle whoring that costs too much to be free" with such deadly earnestness. How did anyone, anywhere, take this song seriously?
Because they had been to Nice and the isle of Greece and had been undressed by kings.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | December 11, 2021 4:59 PM
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She comes from that long line of performers with only one name:
Cher, Madonna, Lulu
by Anonymous | reply 84 | December 11, 2021 5:17 PM
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Damn you weren’t kidding with the YouTube comments from the straights
Some comments, one from a frau “Such a beautiful song, it actually took me out of my post nasal depression !”
“This song is the meaning of the word deep, such amazing lyrics”
Straights don’t get camp
by Anonymous | reply 86 | December 11, 2021 5:30 PM
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Things a woman ain't s'posed to see: Her father, brother, and husband at the Meat Rack on Fire Island.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | December 11, 2021 5:41 PM
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[Quote] Things a woman ain't s'posed to see: Her unborn babies out back of the hospital.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | December 11, 2021 5:48 PM
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It’s poignant and bitter sweet
by Anonymous | reply 89 | December 11, 2021 5:48 PM
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I think Charlene should bring out a How To guide for Subtle Whoring.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | December 11, 2021 6:03 PM
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She recorded that schlock song in the 70s. It was released by a freak accident in 1982 as a single.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | December 11, 2021 6:10 PM
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No. It was a single in 1977 too.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | December 11, 2021 6:19 PM
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[quote]Danny Thomas's glass-topped coffee table.
Lucille Balls' face without make-up
by Anonymous | reply 93 | December 11, 2021 6:43 PM
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Bette Davis at 6 in the morning.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | December 11, 2021 6:45 PM
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Thank you R63 for the...experience of
Lorenzo Pollastri singing this song
by Anonymous | reply 95 | December 11, 2021 6:46 PM
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[quote] She comes from that long line of performers with only one name: Cher, Madonna, Lulu
Wing
by Anonymous | reply 96 | December 11, 2021 6:49 PM
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[quote]Some comments, one from a frau “Such a beautiful song, it actually took me out of my post nasal depression !”
I suffer from post-nasal depression. Maybe this song will help.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | December 11, 2021 6:50 PM
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I don't like to over-generalize
but YouTube posters are sort of the Walmart shoppers of internet posters
by Anonymous | reply 98 | December 11, 2021 6:53 PM
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But does the song with post-natal drip?
by Anonymous | reply 99 | December 11, 2021 7:48 PM
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[R25] OH MY GOD I will never get this out of my head, damn you. “I moved like jello in Montebello and showed ‘em all my twat”
by Anonymous | reply 100 | December 11, 2021 8:10 PM
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The song "It Ain't Easy Comin' Down" is a good song, as is the B/W from "I"ve Never Been To Me," called "Somewhere In My Life."
by Anonymous | reply 101 | December 11, 2021 8:33 PM
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Her version of "All That Love Went To Waste" isn't a patch on Madeline Bell's or Dee Dee Warwick's.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | December 11, 2021 8:36 PM
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R15 that sounds like something the queens who listen to Donna Summer, Tavares and Manhattan Transfer would listen to.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | December 11, 2021 9:45 PM
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I was underdressed by kings, and I saw some things, that a gayling ain't s'posed to see.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | December 12, 2021 12:02 PM
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[Quote] that sounds like something the queens who listen to Donna Summer, Tavares and Manhattan Transfer would listen to.
I'm confident that they wouldn't end sentences with a preposition.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | December 12, 2021 12:06 PM
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That was DREADFUL, R20. I never knew there was a male version, let alone that it came before the one I know and love (yeah, I love some campy schmaltz occasionally).
R37 I can tell he had a potentially good voice, but by had no idea or at least no direction in the way he used it. Embarrassing. And he had been in "Dallas" recently at that point, and had had a Hollywood career of course, but a "farewell tour"? How many people came out to see that?!
R38 Thanks for sharing that! I love a deep dive from time to time, and I enjoy a bit of backstory. Charlene seems sweet, and it was nice to hear it from her.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | December 12, 2021 2:18 PM
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She lost me at the *subtle* whoring . . .
by Anonymous | reply 107 | December 12, 2021 2:38 PM
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R25 R34 R100
"I moved like jello in Montebello and showed ‘em all my twat”.
In Biarritz I flashed my tits for sangria, and smoked pot
by Anonymous | reply 108 | December 12, 2021 5:04 PM
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Seriously, why didn't they change the "isle of Greece" lyric? "Islands of Greece" would have worked just as well.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | December 12, 2021 5:41 PM
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Islands of Greece adds a syllable, but isles of Greece would retain the structure.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | December 12, 2021 5:48 PM
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I always figured the "Isle of Greece" thing was just one more way the writer was laughing at the rubes who would like the song. "These idiots have no idea there's more than just one Greek isle. And they think traveling to Georgia is glamorous."
by Anonymous | reply 111 | December 12, 2021 5:55 PM
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I've been to Kalispell, and the Wisconsin Dells Where I drank a Pabst on a raft.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | December 12, 2021 6:01 PM
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I got jailed for drunken disorder at South of the Border, after turning tricks on a cot.
Sniffed so much cocaine on a train thru Fort Wayne, there was blood in all my snot.
I moved with grace through every jet-set place and flirted in Myrtle Beach.
Met a heel on a Ferris wheel, who squirted in my peach.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 113 | December 12, 2021 6:22 PM
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As a non-native English speaker, I've always been confused by the lyric "I've been to crying for unborn children," but I suppose the 'normal' rules of grammar don't apply and I should just sit back and "enjoy."
by Anonymous | reply 114 | December 12, 2021 6:46 PM
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"I've been to crying" is a signpost to the narrator's po' country roots. She was essentially a "Fancy."
by Anonymous | reply 115 | December 12, 2021 6:49 PM
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R112 Bonked on a hang glider, with Snoop and Flo Rida, got caught in a gnarly updraft.
by Anonymous | reply 116 | December 12, 2021 7:02 PM
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[quote] And they think traveling to Georgia is glamorous."
Georgia was where she would have gotten prime black dick. Many nice Southern gentlemen there.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | December 12, 2021 9:03 PM
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It makes more sense on Randy Crawford's version. She sounds southern.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | December 12, 2021 9:06 PM
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Stupid ass song to make losers feel better about never taking risks in life.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | December 12, 2021 9:10 PM
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I’ve never been to you either….
Heard it’s shitty.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | December 12, 2021 9:11 PM
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Oo-oo
I’ve been to Israel and spilled some jizz meal
While I slept with the hot IDF
I Tik Tocked in Bangkok and Grindred a hot jock
And showed him what I got
But I ran into trouble with Muriel’s double
When she shut down my whole damn account
I’ve been to DataLounge but I’ve never been to me.
by Anonymous | reply 121 | December 12, 2021 9:17 PM
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I've been to Podunk
And I got so drunk
That I was raped by some queens.
by Anonymous | reply 122 | December 12, 2021 9:40 PM
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[quote]And they think traveling to Georgia is glamorous."
No, the line, "I've been to Georgia and California" is a way of saying I've been to the East Coast of the USA and the West Coast and it implies everywhere in between. The use of Georgia and California is for the rhyme or rather near-rhyme in this case.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | December 12, 2021 10:05 PM
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[quote]Her version of "All That Love Went To Waste" isn't a patch on Madeline Bell's or Dee Dee Warwick's.
OMG!!! I thought I was the only one who ever hear of Madeline Bell. She is fantastic.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | December 12, 2021 10:05 PM
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I always thought Georgia referred to the country, not the state. California to Georgia is all of the US and Europe and wasn’t Georgia known for its brothels?
by Anonymous | reply 125 | December 12, 2021 10:55 PM
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Howard Keel does the definitive performance of the "male version":
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 126 | December 12, 2021 11:01 PM
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R126 meet R37
But it’s so weird it should be highlighted twice.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | December 13, 2021 1:09 AM
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[quote]the Isle of Greece
Just the one, dear?
by Anonymous | reply 128 | December 13, 2021 1:55 AM
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[quote]And the things she wasn't supposed to see...what were those things, anyway?
Hillary's emails, Rose.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | December 13, 2021 2:07 AM
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[quote]written by Ron Miller and Kenneth Hirsch
Says it all. Now go make a a sandwich and the suck my dick, bitch!
by Anonymous | reply 130 | December 13, 2021 6:36 AM
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Hey, lady! YOU LADY!!! Wanna hear more about my glamorous live?
I licked an ole dyke off the Jersey Turnpike just to get a puff of her grass.
Became a slatern on the Isle of Staten, taking thug dick up my ass.
by Anonymous | reply 131 | December 13, 2021 1:20 PM
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To R130: this may not balance it out, but feminist anthem "You Don't Own Me" was written by two men as well.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | December 13, 2021 1:30 PM
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I was 10 and received a K-Tel album with this song kicking off the B-Side.
I definitely sung it into a hairbrush for my little sister.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 134 | December 13, 2021 1:41 PM
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OP You don't get it because you're a dumb whore with no sense of irony.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | December 13, 2021 4:38 PM
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Isn't the song written from the perspective of a dumb whore?
by Anonymous | reply 136 | December 13, 2021 5:18 PM
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No. The lady, you lady is the dumb whore.
by Anonymous | reply 137 | December 13, 2021 5:22 PM
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I licked French clits in Biarritz, before I met a Swiss Miss,
With her I scissored during an Alpine blizzard
As we sipped cocoa in a chalet.
I made my home on the Hill of Rome
And used olive oil as lube...
by Anonymous | reply 138 | December 14, 2021 1:51 AM
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never stop with the new improved lyrics / ........ please DL...more!
by Anonymous | reply 139 | December 14, 2021 2:24 AM
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Whoooa, I've been to Lowes And the Isle of Lesbos While I've sipped champagne from a twat I've moved like Ellen on Mount St. Helen And showed 'em what I've got I've been dressed by drag kings And I've seen some things That a cis gal ain't supposed to see I've been to paradise But I've never been to me
by Anonymous | reply 140 | December 14, 2021 1:29 PM
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Whoooa, I've been to Lowes
And the Isle of Lesbos
While I've sipped champagne from a twat
I've moved like Ellen on Mount St. Helen
And showed 'em what I've got
I've been dressed by drag kings
And I've seen some things That a cis gal ain't supposed to see
I've been to paradise
But I've never been to me
by Anonymous | reply 141 | December 14, 2021 1:30 PM
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The song is much funnier if you imagine it being sung to a random stranger on 5th Avenue by Melania Trump.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | December 14, 2021 1:52 PM
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"I've Never Been to Me" is low-hanging fruit for uninspired drag queens.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | December 14, 2021 1:53 PM
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R145 It may be now, but it is the perfect drag queen song.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | December 14, 2021 3:07 PM
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[quote] this may not balance it out, but feminist anthem "You Don't Own Me" was written by two men as well.
As was “I am woman hear me roar”.
by Anonymous | reply 147 | December 14, 2021 3:08 PM
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[quote] It may be now, but it is the perfect drag queen song.
Indeed. It was the opening number in Priscilla.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 148 | December 14, 2021 3:13 PM
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I can see Bonnie Franklin as Ann Romano singing this song in front of a mirror on One Day at a Time
That is all…
by Anonymous | reply 149 | December 14, 2021 5:04 PM
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R149, Her whoring is not nearly subtle enough.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | December 14, 2021 6:46 PM
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Instead of a "male version" there needs to a be a version sung from the young mother's perspective:
Hey Lady! YOU Lady! Why u stalking me? ... I have friends on In-sta-Gram, and I live a very full life And my name's not lady. I have a name, and that name's Hil-AR-ia.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | December 15, 2021 11:25 AM
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Hey, Lady! I never front, you stupid cunt. Lionel Richie sang just for me on the Jersey Shore.
"Charlene, you're once, twice, sixty-nine times a whooooooooore."
by Anonymous | reply 153 | December 15, 2021 1:15 PM
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This song needs to be made into a Broadway show.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | December 15, 2021 1:19 PM
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Mary Testa can have her first nude scene.
by Anonymous | reply 155 | December 15, 2021 1:24 PM
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CHARLENE: "Hey, lady! You lady! Cursing at your life. You're a discontented mother. And a regimented wife."
LADY: "Fuck off, you insulting cunt. You don't know shit about my life!"
by Anonymous | reply 156 | December 15, 2021 2:26 PM
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LADY: "Bag lady! Hag lady! I've got a knife. And I'm a real mutha. I'll end your life!"
by Anonymous | reply 157 | December 15, 2021 2:29 PM
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If it was recorded today, R156 would be followed out by the whipping out of a cellphone, and the beginning of a video recording.
Coming soon to YouTube!
by Anonymous | reply 158 | December 15, 2021 2:30 PM
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There should have been an answer song.
by Anonymous | reply 159 | December 15, 2021 2:31 PM
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Charlene was the first Karen.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | December 15, 2021 2:32 PM
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R152 Apparently, the thing she wasn't s'posed to see was a mirror.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | December 15, 2021 2:33 PM
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Bonnie Franklin as Ann Romano does HER version of “I’ve Never Been To Me”
“Hey Annie, hey Annie! Cursing at your life, you’re a dysfunctional mother and a divorced wife “….
by Anonymous | reply 162 | December 15, 2021 2:36 PM
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I wish I'd had someone like Charlene to talk to me. Back when I was a young whippersnapper.
by Anonymous | reply 163 | December 15, 2021 2:36 PM
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[quote] I think Charlene should bring out a How To guide for Subtle Whoring.
Mark me down for a copy. I’ve got the whoring part down pat — believe me! — but how does one make it “subtle”?
by Anonymous | reply 164 | December 15, 2021 2:55 PM
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I've Never Been to Me: The Melanija Knavs Story
(In her case Georgia really is the Georgian SSR)
by Anonymous | reply 165 | December 15, 2021 3:16 PM
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[quote] The song doesn't have an 80s feel to it. At all.
The song was written (by men) in or around 1976. It is a cabaret tune, that really only works in a live setting. It is a wonder that it was a pop chart hit in the 80s.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | December 15, 2021 3:26 PM
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I always visualized this song as a drunk lady slumped over in a bar bathroom harassing other ladies as they came in to pee.
by Anonymous | reply 167 | December 15, 2021 3:32 PM
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How many times is this subject going to get re-done?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 169 | December 15, 2021 5:31 PM
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And there's more...
I could go on, but I think that's enough. What's the deal with constantly keeping something going about this song?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 174 | December 15, 2021 5:41 PM
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Methinks PoisonedDragon has way too much time on her delicate little hands.
by Anonymous | reply 175 | December 15, 2021 5:43 PM
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It took five minutes, R175, plus the realization that, across the little amount of time I've spent here over the years, I've seen this topic posted again and again and again...
Somebody has too much time on their delicate little hands, and it's not me.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | December 15, 2021 5:47 PM
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So it's illegal now to post about Charlen's ouevre because PoisonHands doesn't like that. Got it.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | December 15, 2021 5:49 PM
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Nope. Just like it's not illegal to point out that a troll (or a troll cohort) is obsessed with it, and serially spams the Datalounge with threads about it.
I don't dislike the song. I read a couple of those threads with interest, and even responded on one or two of them. But here it is again, and I have no doubt this won't be the last one. But you have to admit that repeatedly starting threads about the same topic dozens of times, some only a few weeks apart, is trolling.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | December 15, 2021 6:05 PM
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[Quote] I could go on, but I think that's enough.
No, keep going. Give us that dressing down, King.
by Anonymous | reply 179 | December 15, 2021 8:16 PM
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[Quote] But you have to admit that repeatedly starting threads about the same topic dozens of times, some only a few weeks apart, is trolling.
If enough people reply to make it a successful thread, what's the diff?
by Anonymous | reply 180 | December 15, 2021 8:17 PM
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[Quote] PoisonedDragon
I see most of your threads average about 25 replies...
by Anonymous | reply 181 | December 15, 2021 8:18 PM
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I have a voice
and I will not be silenced by Poisoned Dragon!
This is literal violence!
by Anonymous | reply 182 | December 15, 2021 8:59 PM
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[quote]No, keep going. Give us that dressing down, King.
Unlike some, I know when enough's enough.
You're seriously stung - look at the continuing comebacks at R179, R180, and R181.
And look! a far right sock at R182. :D
Go fix your mascara, hon - weeping makes it run. You look like a raccoon.
by Anonymous | reply 183 | December 15, 2021 9:03 PM
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[quote] When it first came out, it rode a frau wave of “my life hasn’t turned out like I had wanted.” It tapped into the fantasy life of many middle aged women.
Did '70s fraus cradle mugs? Did they Live Love Laugh?
by Anonymous | reply 184 | December 15, 2021 9:32 PM
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[quote]Go fix your mascara, hon - weeping makes it run. You look like a raccoon.
Her life is so full she has to come here and count threads about Charlene
by Anonymous | reply 185 | December 15, 2021 9:33 PM
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I've been around this dump since the internet was born, and "I moved like jello in Montebello and showed ‘em all my twat” is one of the funniest things ever written here.
A tip o' the wig to whatever queen came up with that.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | December 15, 2021 11:35 PM
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I've seen massive peens
In New Orleans
and swallowed buckets of spunk
I've taken a load
from a soldier's choad
and slept with him in his bunk
by Anonymous | reply 187 | December 16, 2021 12:18 AM
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I was laughing so hard at this thread last night I had to close the browser window so my snickering didn’t wake my partner up. This is a terrible song but you all are hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣
by Anonymous | reply 188 | December 16, 2021 1:56 AM
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[quote]I've moved like Ellen on Mount St. Helen...
Genius!
by Anonymous | reply 189 | December 16, 2021 2:12 AM
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Every person who disagrees with R183 is a sock puppet. Every idea PoisonedDragon doesn't like is literal violence inflicted on dragon bodies.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | December 16, 2021 12:03 PM
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I. Must. Control. EVERY. THING!
by Anonymous | reply 191 | December 16, 2021 12:53 PM
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The song works best if you imagine the "Hey Lady" part being done in Jerry Lewis's voice.
by Anonymous | reply 192 | December 16, 2021 12:54 PM
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I always think of the speaker as some crazy old harridan like E. Jean Carroll.
Maybe someone could write a short epistolary book out of this song to cash in. "Letters to a Young Billie Eilish"
by Anonymous | reply 194 | December 16, 2021 1:34 PM
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I’d like to see this sung as a chorus piece for a grade school Parent’s Night. 🤣
by Anonymous | reply 195 | December 16, 2021 1:59 PM
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R194 is some putrid MAGA loon.
by Anonymous | reply 196 | December 16, 2021 2:29 PM
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I think the fact that this came out and played on the airwaves had a lot to do with its success.
by Anonymous | reply 197 | December 16, 2021 2:30 PM
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*IN THE SPRING! That its chart success was in the Spring.
by Anonymous | reply 198 | December 16, 2021 2:31 PM
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I remember hearing it on Top 40 radio and thinking it was utterly bizarre. Of course, I was a teenage boy and had no idea what she was talking about. Also, just curious, is Charlene black? At the time I thought she was white. Given how "easy listening" the song was, I pictured a conservative Barbara Mandrell type.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | December 16, 2021 2:39 PM
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[Quote] just curious, is Charlene black?
Videos of her have been posted throughout this thread. You didn't even have to click on them. Observing the thumbnails would have answered your question.
by Anonymous | reply 200 | December 16, 2021 2:51 PM
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Does any wit care write a verse about a PoisonedDragon?
by Anonymous | reply 201 | December 16, 2021 3:17 PM
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The most shocking thing about this song is the lyricist knew the correct pronunciation of Nice.
by Anonymous | reply 202 | December 16, 2021 3:17 PM
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If you been to Nice, you know it's Nice. Ditto Greece.
by Anonymous | reply 203 | December 16, 2021 3:22 PM
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R200 [whiny, scoldy, childish, nasal voice]: "Observing the thumbnails would have answered your question."
You really get your jollies doing that sort of thing? Shaddap.
by Anonymous | reply 204 | December 16, 2021 3:34 PM
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R193 meet a shoe up your ass.
by Anonymous | reply 205 | December 16, 2021 3:35 PM
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This was a song about a gambling addiction, that was changed later on
The line was originally, ...That costs too much to have price...I've never been to me...but I've been to a pair of dice.
by Anonymous | reply 206 | December 16, 2021 3:41 PM
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[Quote] That costs too much to have price
ESL?
by Anonymous | reply 207 | December 16, 2021 3:43 PM
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And it's that man you fought with this morning The same one whose going to slap you and force his penis into your mouth as soon as he gets home. That's truth, that's love
by Anonymous | reply 208 | December 16, 2021 5:39 PM
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Do you have free parking?
by Anonymous | reply 209 | December 16, 2021 8:46 PM
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This should follow R187 lyrics
I've been to paradise
But I've never been for free
by Anonymous | reply 211 | December 16, 2021 9:59 PM
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Did you meet Larry Levan?
by Anonymous | reply 212 | December 16, 2021 10:12 PM
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I was there was a Christmas version of this song.
by Anonymous | reply 213 | December 16, 2021 10:49 PM
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r207
That's another reason it was rewrote.
by Anonymous | reply 214 | December 16, 2021 11:01 PM
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I sucked a lot of cock
Under the Dick Dock
And showed P-Town what I’ve got…
by Anonymous | reply 215 | December 17, 2021 1:20 AM
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In Trump Tower, let bad man devour my Slovenian flower, 45 seconds I never get back.
His toadstool dick made hardly a prick as he slobbered on my new rack.
by Anonymous | reply 216 | December 17, 2021 1:43 AM
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I turned some tricks with a bunch of hicks, out behind the Burger King.
Whatever their size, for a serving of fries, I'd go down on their smelly thing.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | December 17, 2021 2:36 PM
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[Quote] The problem I have with the Nancy Wilson version is that she talks the middle section. She has an amazing voice and I wish she’d sing the song rather than speaking it.
Nancy said "Fuck the melody!"
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 218 | December 18, 2021 6:18 PM
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Hey, you know what paradise is? It's FAN-FUCKIN' TASTIC
A fantasy I've lived about people and places, that are better than imagined
But you know what truth is? That babies crap and smell bad
And it's that man you fought with this morning, that knifes you and gets off because the glove doesn't fit
That's truth that's love
by Anonymous | reply 219 | December 18, 2021 6:44 PM
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The "crying for unborn children/that might have made me complete" — do we think they were abortions, or was she just so busy moving like Harlow in Monte Carlo that she never got around to a relationship and pregnancy?
by Anonymous | reply 220 | December 21, 2021 3:16 AM
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^ Probably both. What a dumb slut.
by Anonymous | reply 221 | December 21, 2021 3:55 AM
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[quote] [R37] I can tell he had a potentially good voice, but by had no idea or at least no direction in the way he used it. Embarrassing. And he had been in "Dallas" recently at that point, and had had a Hollywood career of course, but a "farewell tour"? How many people came out to see that?!
I'd say Keel was probably much more popular in the UK than the US. During his time on Dallas he released two top forty albums in the UK, and another that peaked at #51. He also had successful concert tours of the UK, at the time. So I'd imagine, a farewell tour was warranted. And that clip is from the perfect show. I'd imagine Bruce Forsyth and Keel probably appealed to similar audiences.
Some of the lyrics are bad, but they are in the original one as well. I think Keel's rendition is pretty good, because the song sorta screams for an older person to sing it.
Someone up above mentioned Fancy and it does feel like the flipside of that story. In Fancy you have a whore that is satisfied with her life, in this one the whore isn't. I would now, like to hear Reba cover it. Also. Charlene in the music video looks like she stole Loretta Lynn's dress from Coal Miner's Daughter.
by Anonymous | reply 222 | December 21, 2021 5:34 AM
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She moved like Harlow, wore a shirt that said "I blow"
by Anonymous | reply 223 | December 21, 2021 11:21 AM
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I went to Brussels and got into a tussle with a tranny protecting her turf. Did some meth with Johnny Depp and took him for all he was worth. Fucked a donkey as a man yelled out “honky” when I rolled around in the dirt. Showed my vagina to the leader of China, and all I got was this tee shirt.
by Anonymous | reply 224 | December 21, 2021 2:15 PM
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Does Utah have a state song? This could be it.
by Anonymous | reply 225 | December 21, 2021 7:25 PM
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[Quote] The "crying for unborn children/that might have made me complete" — do we think they were abortions, or was she just so busy moving like Harlow in Monte Carlo that she never got around to a relationship and pregnancy?
If she had never been pregnant, she wouldn't sing of children, she'd sing of a child. She had experience.
by Anonymous | reply 226 | December 21, 2021 7:49 PM
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Here’s a karaoke video you fat whores can sing along to.
That is if you can stop laughing long enough to get any of the lyrics out.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 227 | December 24, 2021 3:31 AM
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The YouTube posters like it...
because they're all WHORES!
by Anonymous | reply 228 | December 24, 2021 3:35 AM
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[quote]Someone up above mentioned Fancy and it does feel like the flipside of that story. In Fancy you have a whore that is satisfied with her life,
Why, I Never!
And I never had a roach crawl across the toe of my ivory shoe!
by Anonymous | reply 229 | December 24, 2021 3:38 AM
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Oh, I've been to Bruges and to Baton Rouge
Anywhere I could go
I rode like Tonto through old Toronto
Except Tonto wasn't a ho
by Anonymous | reply 230 | December 24, 2021 3:46 AM
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I met some queens down in New Orleans who taught me how to go down.
With no gag reflex, I had lots of sex with every passed-out wino in town.
by Anonymous | reply 231 | December 26, 2021 11:50 PM
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I've done some crimes and I've pulled some triggers.
And countless times I've been raped by [unintelligible]
by Anonymous | reply 232 | December 28, 2021 10:54 PM
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R38. Thanks for that youtube link. Answers a number of questions. In that less than 6 minute video there's reference to Jaws, ONJ, practically Willy Wonka and at times she looks like Stevie Nicks. Most importantly didn't realize there was actual behind the scenes pain involved. I've now almost been to me.
by Anonymous | reply 233 | January 21, 2022 5:54 AM
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