The Subluxation Saga

House Bunnies.

I'm confused

Why not both?

We need to have a laserlike focus on the subject, that's why

Two threads? Too many.

"Memories like the corners of my mind..."

I was getting attaboys as they were taking down the thread.

Face it: rehashing content until Bunnika reinstates her blog is downright boring.

*someone* may have clicked into it the second before it was deleted, gotten the Javascript warning and saved the page as html text.

Well in the mean time, when I was reading the thread last night it caused my to have another look at the 'polyam' photo thread on reddit, for more lovelies like bunny, husband, baldy and beloved.

How many spoons does it take to get a thread shut down?

Instead of W&W and F&F, DL should adopted a spoon system. Tedious response? You lose a spoon! Witty response that makes me chuckle? Take a spoon!

R8, I still wonder why she wasn’t on reddit. Or maybe she was.

R8 ugh god MORE new words to learn!

Imma just leave this here.

Isn’t that a BBT episode?

you are a bad, bad boy r13.

R13 didn’t open for me. What was it?

Latex is ableism, you ablest scum!

W&W OP , it might prevent graying and strike through.

It's a lesson, though. People are free to say almost anything they want on social media. But should they? If you spend what looks like 12 -15 hours a day online offering your thoughts to the world, why act surprised if someone reads them and disagrees with what you've said? If you're not prepared to defend it, it's not worth reading.

Is this our world now - "I say it so it's so?"

Call me a skeptic.

It’s okay by me if we never hear from Bunnika again. She’s a broken record. “Boo hoo, I’m a victim”.

She’s a dime a dozen. Tumblr is littered with fat pink-haired hypochondriac grifter.

Attention Cripples: DO NOT GO TO THE MARYLAND ZOO IN BALTIMORE I went today for the “Zoo Boo” trick-or-treating event. Interesting how the website and the person I spoke to on the phone said nothing about it being completely inaccessible to wheelchair users. It was on a hilly slope, with high tree roots jutting out of the ground, and randomly covered with wooden mulch. Four times I would have literally fallen out of my chair if someone hadn’t caught me, and countless times I needed to be lifted bodily under my wheelchair to get around impossible obstacles. Fucking humiliating.

Then the tram, to get to the animal areas: I was told to wheel up the ramp and lock my wheels. I did, then they filled the seats around me (which were so close, people’s knees were touching my wheelchair). They then told me to move 90 degrees so they could strap me in. Why couldn’t they tell me this before filling the car? And why, when I asked them to please empty the car so I could maneuver, did they think the appropriate answer was to just yank on my chair without my permission?

Oh! And there wasn’t even a ramp to get to the asphalt where the tram stops. I had to wheel down backwards off of a curb, because that’s totally fucking safe.

Then the animal areas themselves! Leaves hadn’t been cleared in quite some time, and they were wet, and wheeling on wet leaves is sort of like hydroplaning in your car. Plus, many of the transitions from asphalt to concrete were so steep, my casters couldn’t make it, and I had to wheelie up (which I realized after running into one, my chair stopping at the bump, and me nearly meeting the concrete face-to-face).

And when I talked to a manager, she refused to issue me a refund. She offered me tickets to come back another time. I told her there was no way on earth I would ever be returning to that inaccessible hell hole, and I wouldn’t leave without getting my money back, because it’s the least I deserved after a day of humiliation and agonizing pain. I pointed out the myriad of ways that the park isn’t ADA compliant, and she just shrugged and said there’s nothing they can do about it.

I got my refund. But that manager doesn’t exactly like me.

ableismwheelchair usercrippledisabilitymaryland zoobaltimore zoohandicap accessibilitydisabled woman

She is so fucking insulting to people who actually need to use a wheelchair, r21.

So much drama. So much histrionics. So much need for spoons (for me).

r21 Right but an ice skating rink is totally an ok place to take a wheelchair, and the manager of the rink deserved to be argued with, filmed and put on youtube, and called an 'ablest bigot'.

*all of this happened in the other thread

Her tumblr's gone from being 'you must log in' to 'there is nothing is at this address'

baldy's is still 'you must log in. She might have actually deleted the entire thing. This could be the best thing that happens to her.

Kindergarten, AKA Introduction to Male Privilege

I met one of my daughter’s classmates who’s been infuriating her. He keeps telling her she can’t do things because she’s a girl (this week’s obsession being that she can’t play team sports, she has to be a cheerleader). Well today I watched him grab the glue stick in my kid’s hand, pull with all his might, literally screeeeaaaming in this horrible guttural demon-voice that she had to give it to him for (I’m not fucking kidding) over a full fucking minute. Meanwhile I kept saying no, she would share, but she had it first and he shouldn’t take things without asking. His tiny little face stayed contorted in this horrible grimace while he kept demanding she give it to him NOW and trying to pry it out of her fingers, and his mother (literally right next to him, touching him) just watched and said nothing.

And this is kindergarten rape culture, folks.

So, the other thread was killed? Bastards

R21, typical. R26 this one might be, too.

Her FaceBook is gone, too.

She hasn't had a very good day.

Wait, what?

“I work really fucking hard now, and I make no secret of it. I’m a special education teacher, a job that I took on in August 2015. It’s been a wild first year, and I’ve learned a lot about myself as I’ve navigated my first full-time job since becoming severely disabled. A lot of what I’ve learned hasn’t been about the job itself, but rather about myself and my ability to navigate it. So here are some of my dirty little secrets about being a full-time worker, full-time crip:...”

She was a TEACHER?

An earlier “snippet”:

“Snippet: Why We Should Talk Before I Hit That Posted on April 27, 2015 by bunnika “Can I kiss you?”

According to most of my students (your average group of community-college-attending young adults), this question is just too cheesy...”

R29, not enough spoons.

When did she look like this? She used to be thin and attractive. Maybe that’s when she was a “teacher”.

Preferred nomenclature...Mx.

This is my preferred honorific, jsyk. I got “miss” all the time when I taught high school and didn’t have the spoons to correct anyone. I loved just being “professor” when I taught college, though I told my college students they could just call me Anika. Lots felt the need for a title, though.

Yessss

You guys remembered!

No way she was an actual professor r33. She didn't have enough spoons to correct them, though

Keep Googling. She's an attention whore and she'll be back next week. Otherwise she's gonna have to fill half the day doing something useful.

She'll be back.

It's a shame the blog is gone, she made me feel so good about my own life. If you are watching this bun, a piece of advice, exercises and a better diet would help you feel so much better, but we all know thats the opposite of what you want. And more important, stop fucking your poor kids lives, it's borderline criminal, don't reproduce anymore

I've got a Tumbrel account from way back so I'll keep tracking the other wheelchair blogs; they're bound to discuss her, even if it's just in their tags.

Tumblr needs more enby love.

While I get all the positivity around wlw and mlm on Tumblr, it makes me feel left out. There is no nblnb, and it doesn’t really encapsulate the queerness of most queer enbies anyway (myself included). I want more celebration of nonbinary people, of queer nonbinary people, of the people who love nonbinary people. I want to see enbies represented in the celebration of queerness. I want enbies recognized, appreciated, loved.

R33, "That minx."

And here I thought we were going to talk about chiropractics

She did work as a Special Needs teacher and taught English to Grades 10 and 12. This might have been what attracted the Maths teacher spouse to her.

Remember when she cashed in her teacher's pension and wanted to buy a huge sofa so she could spend all day on it? The Beloved wasn't happy but eventually gave in.

Uh oh...another ailment.

This goes beyond “symptomless” presentation for women, and is heavily rooted in medical misogyny.

My ex-husband infected me with genital herpes before we go married. It took eight years for me to get diagnosed, in spite of regular check-ups, and appointments specifically to try and find out why I was having such bad pain.

See, my (male) doctors knew I was married, so they literally threw STDs out the diagnostic window. What did I get told countless times over the course of my adult life, as I’d suffer through painful exams and explain how sex was agonizing? That I needed to relax, I was too uptight, and if I’d just stop making such a big deal out of it, sex wouldn’t be painful anymore.

After our big, final split, my ex told he he had herpes, and had gotten it from someone when he was a teenager. I went straight to a female doctor, said, “I’ve been exposed to genital herpes,” and she immediately confirmed my diagnosis. Yes, they have to send for testing, but she was able to make a diagnosis visually, and was horrified that no doc had ever even talked to me about the possibility of STDs. She put me on treatment immediately, and I haven’t had an outbreak in almost three years.

This is a disease that comes with risks, especially since I’d been pregnant and had a vaginal birth with my child. In all the medical crap my OB bullied me into doing when I didn’t want to, again, here was a man who couldn’t be shitted to find the root of my problem, even though it could have blinded or even killed my child. Because my pain was, to all of these men, just a woman making a big deal out of nothing. A woman too uptight to enjoy hetero sex. Because my pain didn’t matter to them, all they did was gaslight me and tell me I needed to learn to love the D.

It is disgusting how doctors trained specifically to treat women’s bodies still don’t give a shit about them.

25% of sexually active Americans have genital herpes, just like I do. But women especially are shamed for it, not treated for it, diagnostically ignored in it. And we’re the ones who suffer the biggest risks for it.

All it took was ten pills. Ten pills, and I haven’t suffered any pain since. Years of misery cured in ten pills. It shouldn’t have been so difficult.

For those who missed it, the story of the incontinent cat which she rehomed, pretending she had to move into sheltered accommodation.

This is Morbo, and he is a special-needs kitty looking for a loving, forever home. He lives with his furmommy in Baltimore, MD, and she is willing to travel within a reasonable distance to find him the perfect home.

Morbo is an extremely affectionate, vocal, cuddly, wonderful cat, but he suffers from chronic bladder stones. Medication and special diet have not cured his condition, and he now needs surgery to have the stones removed. He will also need to remain on his special diet for life, and will need check-ups to ensure that the stones do not return.

His furmommy has raised him since he was 2 days old, and is heartbroken to have to give him up now, 8 years later. Unfortunately, she is herself handicapped, and her chronic illness costs a great deal of money to manage. Also, as she is now a wheelchair user dealing with severe chronic pain, she is not able to give Morbo the physical care he needs. She can neither afford Morbo’s surgery, nor the upkeep necessary for his continued health. As she faces moving into a handicap community living space, she is not able to bring him with her. She is utterly heartbroken, but knows this is the best option for him.

Morbo will come with his remaining urinary tract health food (both canned and dry), nearly two full bags of frozen raw food, as well as a giant box full of pee pads (as, until he has the stones removed, he has frequent, small accidents). He is FeLV and FIV negative, up-to-date on shots, and was neutered as soon as he came of age.

Please, if you or anyone you know could find a place in your home and heart for Morbo, you would be inviting into your life one of the most amazing cats you’ll ever know. Even with the pain and isolation he’s dealing with, all he does is cuddle, rub, and purr.

He deserves a home where he can be properly cared for, with someone who will appreciate what a truly spectacular animal he is. Please, please help him find a loving forever home. His mommy may never find a cure, but he has that opportunity, with a furparent able to give him the help he needs.

PLEASE HELP MORBO GET HEALTHY, AND FIND A LOVING FOREVER HOME!]

I’m bunnika, and yes, this is my cat. I’m really hoping thelamedame will let this post through, as I think the cripple community will understand better than most not only the suffering I’m hoping to save my cat from, but the heartbreak of having your own illness/disability force you to rehome a pet you dearly love.

I have contacted charitable organizations to try to subsidize his care, and I have tried to work out payment plans with vets, but I am out of options. I have already spent several hundred dollars, and I have nothing left to give. I also need to move into handicap-accessible housing myself, as my current home leaves me in agonizing pain all day, every day, and I can’t have three uncaged pets. (I also have one other cat and a dog, both of whom hate everyone but me. Morbo loves absolutely everyone, and would be a wonderful addition to anyone’s family.)

This is one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make, and I will not accept one word of criticism about it. You have no idea how many tears I’ve cried over this, and will continue to cry probably for the rest of my life. I just finally had to admit that this was the best choice for both of us, and so I’m reaching out in hopes of finding someone who can give him the love and care he deserves.

Please, please reblog. It would mean the world to me.

This is Morbo, and he is a special-needs kitty looking for a loving, forever home. He lives with his furmommy in Baltimore, MD, and she is willing to travel within a reasonable distance to find him the perfect home.

Morbo is an extremely affectionate, vocal, cuddly, wonderful cat, but he suffers from chronic bladder stones. Medication and special diet have not cured his condition, and he now needs surgery to have the stones removed. He will also need to remain on his special diet for life, and will need check-ups to ensure that the stones do not return.

His furmommy has raised him since he was 2 days old, and is heartbroken to have to give him up now, 8 years later. Unfortunately, she is herself handicapped, and her chronic illness costs a great deal of money to manage. Also, as she is now a wheelchair user dealing with severe chronic pain, she is not able to give Morbo the physical care he needs. She can neither afford Morbo’s surgery, nor the upkeep necessary for his continued health. As she faces moving into a handicap community living space, she is not able to bring him with her. She is utterly heartbroken, but knows this is the best option for him.

Morbo will come with his remaining urinary tract health food (both canned and dry), nearly two full bags of frozen raw food, as well as a giant box full of pee pads (as, until he has the stones removed, he has frequent, small accidents). He is FeLV and FIV negative, up-to-date on shots, and was neutered as soon as he came of age.

Please, if you or anyone you know could find a place in your home and heart for Morbo, you would be inviting into your life one of the most amazing cats you’ll ever know. Even with the pain and isolation he’s dealing with, all he does is cuddle, rub, and purr. He deserves a home where he can be properly cared for, with someone who will appreciate what a truly spectacular animal he is. Please, please help him find a loving forever home. His mommy may never find a cure, but he has that opportunity, with a furparent able to give him the help he needs.

PLEASE HELP MORBO GET HEALTHY, AND FIND A LOVING FOREVER HOME!]

I’m bunnika, and yes, this is my cat. I’m really hoping thelamedame will let this post through, as I think the cripple community will understand better than most not only the suffering I’m hoping to save my cat from, but the heartbreak of having your own illness/disability force you to rehome a pet you dearly love.

I have contacted charitable organizations to try to subsidize his care, and I have tried to work out payment plans with vets, but I am out of options. I have already spent several hundred dollars, and I have nothing left to give. I also need to move into handicap-accessible housing myself, as my current home leaves me in agonizing pain all day, every day, and I can’t have three uncaged pets. (I also have one other cat and a dog, both of whom hate everyone but me. Morbo loves absolutely everyone, and would be a wonderful addition to anyone’s family.)

This is one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make, and I will not accept one word of criticism about it. You have no idea how many tears I’ve cried over this, and will continue to cry probably for the rest of my life. I just finally had to admit that this was the best choice for both of us, and so I’m reaching out in hopes of finding someone who can give him the love and care he deserves.

Please, please reblog. It would mean the world to me.

[quote]Is this our world now - "I say it so it's so?"

That has always been the world. It has certainly become an online, social media, and DL mantra, and hardly germane to Bunnika.

The crazy fraus who spend all day blogging about Sam Heughan being gay took against the OP of the first two threads. I'll copy over what they said.

Boo hoo. So someone interrupted your little schadenfreude circle jerk on DL at the expense of that trans family on Tumblr. Your thread further exposed their already exposed identities and possibly endangered their lives, livelihoods and children, you sociopath shithead. I’m not surprised DL sent your first thread to hell and repeatedly bans your sorry ass.

(from Sam Heughan is Gay, Let's Out Him Part 33)

So Morbo was rehomed five years ago and he is happy and healthy now.

Meanwhile, B was lying about moving into a place which would only allow two uncaged pets as she now has another dog, another cat and a rabbit.

Re r43. You don’t get to give birth in a hospital without STD tests. In fact, it’s an integral part of prenatal care. You get tested for everything at the initial prenatal appointment.

I also don’t believe that every male gynecologist refused to STD test a married woman. That’s utter bullshit. Maybe ONE did. Maybe.

So she’d seen several gynos and an obstetrician and NOT ONE tested her for STDs until she saw a female doctor?

That’s a lie.

Exposed their self-exposed identities? Right? Although I think we should not be discussing the children who have no power.

From one of her enby tumblr friends:

Nonbinaries who happen to be amab and identify as demiboys are handsome and great and so, so valid. All demigenders are amazing, all demiboys are great, all amab nbs are brilliant.

She put all the information out there. We read it. We don't come to the same conclusions. Kill the thread. She exposed herself.

And nobody - except to theyself - is a trans. Not even the little bald enby.

Now I see why all the Trannies resent cishet entitled white women. She’s just as ugly, self-absorbed, and insufferable as they are—maybe even moreso! Even worse than Chrysanthemum Tran, Jacob, Alok, Meredith T and the rest. And yet with the power of her enormous natural boobs and her vagina she’s managed to rope in multiple reasonably attractive young straight men and get them to support her financially, wheel her around, cater to her endless demands and gratefully accept sex on the apparently rare occasions when she feels like having it. Brava, Bunnikins!

She could have gone to Planned Parenthood if she didn’t feel like her gynecologist was taking her seriously. They are affordable and feminist and LGBTQIA-friendly.

But it’s ever so much more fun being persecuted, right?

No one is worse than Tobia.

Unless it’s Alok.

^^ “persecuted”

W&W r56. Those two are vomit inducing, Bunnikins is just nuts with a huge side of victimhood envy.

Don't forget meeeeeee

The thing that set Bunnika apart and made her so interesting was the set up with the Intended/Beloved, Spouse and the Butch Het Partner.

Handfasting!

Every time I see “handfasting” I think “ham feasting”. I’m only surprised she isn’t a militant vegan.

The writing was on the wall as soon as Beloved deleted his account. But on a brighter note, according to many posts on many topics, Beloved has stated his boundaries before and lost every time.

If someone whose identity exists on Tumblr — these people [italic]live[/italic] for online validation which is directly proportional to the number of victim points they can create from whole cloth — shrieks into a pillow in an empty room, does anyone hear? She'll be back. Without it, what is she? Just another frau who got knocked up too young and hates her life, and knows that she's trapped, not special at all, and going nowhere.

Why have multiple partners if the cashier at Walmart doesn't know or care who they are and how special they make her? Why have a handfasting if there isn't an audience to consume the photos. Why bother with any of it, really? Sure, every few months someone may compliment her on how bright her hair is, but she's used to getting round-the-clock attention, validation, and sympathy. Real life won't be enough to feed the beast.

Oh, I forgot about Dakota the Gender Terrier (Yap! Yap!)

R50, she’s a big fat liar. She also claimed she was “cured” after “ten pills” (what?) but you can’t cure genital herpes.

Another of her friends:

I’m 23 and I live in Illinois. I’m agender.

If prefer no pronouns when talking about me (use my name as often as makes sense, but if pronouns are need for clarity or for ease, then use they/them).

I’m white, dfab (not intersex as far as i know).

i: •am autistic •am schizoaffective, depressive type (diagnosed feb 2017, but symptoms since childhood). my psychosis primarily manifests as delusions/paranoia and auditory and tactile hallucinations

•have Ehler’s Danlos Syndrome - hypermobility type. Been in physical therapy since Jan 2017, which helps a lot. I’ve written about the basics of my symptoms here and my eds tag is here.

•am trans (consider myself effectively post-transition)

•have ADHD

•am mentally ill (panic, anxiety, BPD, OCPD, C-PTSD, AVPD, OCD, Sensory Processing Disorder, agoraphobia, dermatillomania, depersonalization, derealization, i am kind of a disaster)

•am a survivor of csa

•am a survivor of physical and emotional abuse

•am a survivor of institutionalization

•am in recovery from disordered eating

•am asexual and aromantic

My queerplatonic partner and fiancé is Cam,who is the floofiest floof. My queerplatonic zucchini (and housemate) is Kai! My queerplatonic floofs are Aretz! Some excellent floofy friends are August, Kai, and Tea!

I have a giant fluffy kitten (well, a 5 year old cat, but) and a soft as fuck Cloud Bunny, as well as a 6 year old boxer.

I’m ISFJ myers briggs and type 6 Enneagram, neutral good (too anxious to be chaotic good), and a major hufflepuff, if you like that kind of stuff.

Feel free to send me a message or just pictures of soft animals or whatever!

PLS SEE MY BLACKLIST IF I FOLLOW YOU

this evening i had a hard time

ocd contamination stuff below the cut

we went to a hibachi restaurant tonight (like where they have the grill at the table and cook your food in front of you)

and there was so much cross contamination and i almost had a complete panic attack but powered through the panic because i didn’t want to ruin sammy’s birthday

thank god my food wasn’t cooked on the grill because i couldn’t have eaten it

how can they cook like that what the fuck like they were touching different types of raw meat with the same spatula thing

and like he flipped the raw chicken and then immediately cooked kai’s noodles with the same utensil

and like the raw meats of diff types were touching each other while they were cooking

thank god i’d already eaten

and also it’s major progress for me to be able to sit there and watch it happen without having an actual panic attack

but like ??? this seems to not follow any basic food safety protocols??? is this how it is all the time in restaurants???? how are people not getting sick left and right???

i may never eat out again

Posted 21 hours ago #isaac talks #actuallyocd #ocd #contamination tw

If they delete this thread, we can always check out the kiwi fruit site,

They hate vegans with a passion, r62. I've seen it many times with others of her ilk and she also had a few posts on the topic back in 20014.

Veganism is elitist, racist, classist, and ableist, according to them. What it really boils down to is, "if they're paying attention to the horrors of factory farming and donating to farm sanctuaries, they're not paying attention to the horrors of me, me, me, MEEEEEEE and donating to my emotional-labor fund!!!"

[quote]My queerplatonic partner and fiancé is Cam,who is the floofiest floof. My queerplatonic zucchini (and housemate) is Kai! My queerplatonic floofs are Aretz! Some excellent floofy friends are August, Kai, and Tea!

Dear lord in heaven!

Tips for Trans Guys

If it’s that time wherein your body decides it needs to bleed for a few days, and you require supplies for this dealing with this eventuality, you may experience some anxiety at the thought that, while you are purchasing the said supplies, some asshole might accost you, demanding to know why you, a man, are deigning even to touch these vile items. You may worry that this will induce dysphoria, or even cause you to be outed. Never fear! For I have here assembled a list of strategies for dealing with such assholes.

Strategy One: This strategy should be used if you wish to be seen as a sensitive, kind sort of man. Respond, when questioned, with the classic “Oh, they’re for my girlfriend.” For maximum effect, accompany these words with a tolerant smile and a slight eyeroll, to signify that you are a man, slightly above performing such chores, but nevertheless do so out of kindness.

Strategy Two: Employ this tactic if you wish to cause your questioner some confusion and leave them wondering if they have temporarily entered some alternate universe. Respond with, “Oh, they’re for my boyfriend.” This tactic works best when said cheerfully and accompanied with a slight nod to indicate that of course it’s obvious that that’s why you are purchasing this item and your interlocutor is well aware of that, but is merely asking pro forma, as it were.

Strategy Three: Use this line of attack if you wish to cause your assailant a level of disgust that will cause them to feel physical pain deep in their bones for many days to come. To accomplish this, hold your package of supplies up at eye level, as though displaying it, set your face in an expression of yearning, and say, in a wistful sort of voice, “I just like the way they smell.”

Strategy Four: This is a very serious strategy, and should only be used if your opponent is a particular asshole, because it is guaranteed to induce a deep and paralyzing fear which will haunt them in their dreams for the rest of their days. Stare at them, stone-faced, making your eyes hard and cold, and say, in a voice chill and piercing as the depths of space, “It’s for you.” Then, slowly and ceremoniously hand them your package of supplies. If their hands are folded or otherwise inaccessible, placing the package carefully on their head is also effective. Before they can react, turn on your heel and stride purposefully away, walking the determined and righteous walk of one who has triumphed, utterly and unalterably, over the forces of darkness.

(via spoonie-isms)

Posted 16 hours ago #oh ymgods #ahahahahaha #menstruation tw #shark week tw #funny tag #q

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Jun 3 2018 4:39 am

haleyincarnate: “Based off of this post by @3eyedangel ”

bunnika:

I fucking HATE the term “TAB (temporarily able-bodied)”?

First, it’s fucking wrong, because no, not everyone will become disabled. Able bodied people die all the time, even at very old ages. Second, it undermines abled privilege and cushions ableist assholes under a guise of “oh they’ll see someday.” Third, it implies exactly what we should be trying to AVOID as a community: that disability is a sort of PUNISHMENT, and lol they’ll get theirs just wait!

Seriously couldn’t hate the term more.

(via bunnika-deactivated20180603)

Why do they all beg/

Hey everyone, yesterday bad news hit the family. Our dog Dammit was unusually lethargic most of yesterday but we figured he’d just eaten something bad as he was prone to doing. Around 6 or so, we noticed his legs were stiff and he was having issues walking. A couple hours later they wouldn’t support him at all.

Today we took him into the vet and it was confirmed he has partial paresis due to a collapsed disk in his back. They can treat it and possibly restore some mobility to his legs (although this isn’t guaranteed) but the cost is over a thousand dollars which we currently don’t have.

I know everyone’s funds right now are tight but if anyone can spare a bit, please consider either donating to a youcaring fund I’ve set up or purchasing a tarot reading at my etsy store. I have more reviews of my experience as a tarot reader here and examples of past reading here.

To make things easier, please make use of the coupon HEALING for 15% off any reading in the shop. If a reading type doesn’t match your needs custom orders are open and I’m happy to work with you to craft a reading to your situation’s specifications. Please, please help this sweet little dog get a chance at mobility back when he still has a chance.

A fucking online Tarot reading via Etsy, okay.

Well, at least one person who posted here in the previous threads knew her government/real name. I sleuthed around and found it out and the photos from her real life FaceBook were here in the first thread.

I’m still trying to figure out which guy is which. There’s the semi-cute one and the ugly one who’s the math teacher. Who is she married to?

And she has several aliases. I can’t figure out which is her born name. She said she “chose” Anika, so I guess Nicole is her original name?

R66

This "effectively am trans" is a breakthrough. Think what the insurance companies will save!

No surgery, no pills, no dick, but I'm trans. I'm also mentally ill.

Nicole to Nik to Anika to Bunnika? Makes sense to me.

NB = Nicole Bunnika

Even the cat had multiple ailments and was a victim. Geez.

You know what would help these people a lot? If they just fucked who they wanted to fuck and shit the hell up about it. Maybe Bunnikins is angry and upset that she used to be kind of good looking and her health issues made her ball On up. The cure for which is a treadmill.

Here's the floof transboy's Black List.

my blacklist

Things I need tagged (if we’re mutuals pls pls pls tag these)

•alcohol (mentions of alcohol, alcoholic drinks, wanting to drink, drinking, being drunk, etc) please tag this it fucks me up

•kissing (mentions, pictures, descriptions of anything to do with kissing, making out, etc)

•sex cw or nsfw ( nsfw is for pictures of nudity/sex related things, sex cw is for mentions, pictures, or descriptions of anything sexual. I block them both so tagging either one works )

•rape

•csa (stands for child sexual abuse)

•suicide (graphic descriptions of suicide or suicide plans, or images/gifs relating to suicide)

•body horror (things like extreme body modification) (tattoos and normal piercings don’t fall under this)

•gore (graphic or gross injuries, mutilation, excessive blood/cuts/openings)

•consent tw - this one is more difficult to explain and understand. basically anything that has to do with explaining what consent is or having to do with consent not being given, etc. check out here for examples of things tagged with “consent tw”

•or to be easier, anything that is triggering for me can be tagged “isaac don’t look” (make sure you use two A’s and not two S’s)

that’s it that’s all if you could tag those things it would prevent some nasty panic attacks and shit so. pls and thank you. if you don’t tag them i understand and i won’t be mad or anything i will just have to unfollow you to prevent panic attacks and stuff.

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'The cure for which is a treadmill. '

Excuse me, R78, do you want my hips to SUBLUXATE and DISLOCATE?

Light wheelchair yoga only please.

R79

“isaac” (make sure you use two A’s and not two S’s) is fucked.

They/them are making it harder for they/themselves.

^^^Preferably wheelchair yogurt. Frozen, chocolate strawberry. Anything else is ableist shit.

You're right r80. What was I thinking. Maybe visualizing herself running would help?

From the pic thread r8 posted, I found a group of guys with one girl and some other guy who pretends to be their dog. Good times DL!

Yes, Puppy Play! We need to see this, pictures please.

Here she is going nuts because someone put up a post in tiny font. This is very weird as her whole blog came up in point 6 for me.

Also an ableism ~masterpost~ because even aside from the “fuck you” to bling people by it being inaccessible by screenreaders, it’s also a “fuck you” to other visually impaired folks (hi there hello!) because it’s done with teensy tiny little print.

Did it have to be? FUCK NO, it could have been very readable by sacrificing goddamn colorblocks included purely for aesthetics, or by linking to another post done in plain text, very largely stating, “HERE IS A VERSION FOR THE VISUALLY IMPAIRED.”

Sorry if I don’t want to take a condescending lesson on how to be a proper queer from an ableist. Fuck you, OP.

*ahem* Can you tell I woke up pissed off today?

Never forget. Ariel Saga

FREE WHEELCHAIR TO A CRIP IN NEED!

I’m looking to directly donate Ariel to someone who could use her.

She’s a Crossfire T6 rigid frame wheelchair with an 18" seat, Matrix Elite backrest, and Spinergy Spox wheels. Heavily used, but still has life in her.

This is not a good chair for someone who often needs to be pushed–she has no handles. (This is honestly great for stopping strangers from trying to “help” without asking.) She’d be best for someone who is good at self-propelling (hence my switch; my shoulders and wrists have gone to hell). Her backrest also no longer collapses.

Still, this is a marvelous chair and is a real step up from the standard clunky chairs folks lacking good insurance or supportive docs get stuck with. She’s lightweight and maneuverable, and I always got tons of compliments on her.

I’m located in Baltimore, MD, USA and cannot really travel.

Years ago, Tumblr helped me raise enough money to move away from my abuser. This is me trying to pay it forward–I don’t want anything in return. I just want someone else to be able to feel the freedom and joy Ariel gave me when I first got her.

Please only request via comment (directly or in reblog); I can’t tell who asked first if you directly message me, and it’s first come, first served. Reblogs for boosting welcome.

vorpalgirl

Listen, Bunnika has several aliases. A couple listed at the one address.

Under one, she’s listed on RateMyProfessor, as an English Professor at Howard Community College. There are no ratings or reviews, and it doesn’t list the year of her tenure there. Interestingly there is another professor there ALSO named Anika.

Using Nicole/Nik/Anika; there are several last names. How many times was she married?! I don’t want to doxx her but I wish I could discuss this more.

My something nice: I’ve noticed that she doesn’t misspell or make stupid grammar mistakes.

R86, she was married twice, once to the abusive ex and once to the pushover Spouse.

Thanks, r90. She’s got four last names. Assuming one is maiden name, two are married. Maybe there was another husband? Or her mom remarried and she took stepdad’s?

Oh who cares.

R71, that is the stupidest thing I ever read.

From a post asking for money:

[quote] Unfortunately, what was at first just a painful living situation has now turned into an abusive one. I rent my apartment from my mother, who was extremely neglectful to me as a child (to the point that she is the reason I’m legally blind), and continues her manipulation and abuse to this day. Well, she just came into my home and announced that she’d be moving in. We’d planned to find handicap housing by June, but now I need that date moved up drastically, because I fear for my mental health otherwise, and how such personal deterioration will affect my daughter.

I wonder how her mother made her legally blind.

R93 Maybe Mum told her the truth and it blinded her?

R89, her English is very good, it's the reason these posts make for compulsive reading, whereas the other enby crips' posts don't quite make the cut.

She had a lot of posts on her blog about Klonopin making her blind and destroying her close up vision so she needed bifocals aged 34.

I noticed the same thing, r89. She mentioned having an MA in a post about a minimum-wage job she was on the verge of quitting because answering customers' questions was too triggering. It was an online job, not the one she was quitting because it required talking on the phone.

She wrote about being an English professor at a high school and a community college about five years ago.

If this gets deleted, go to House Bunnies, already started.

All her reblogged posts are still on tumblr but I miss the live updates. The handfasting gave me life.

Hey guys: I haven't read through the thread yet, so if someone already has suggested this I apologize for being redundant.

One thing that can help when a thread keeps getting deleted because of too many F&Fs is to have everyone who LIKES the thread give a W&W to the OP. I know you all are W&Wing individual posts, but that doesn't work as far as saving the thread itself.

If Matt has multiple devices, and I wouldn't be surprised if he is able to give as many as 20-25 F&Fs, then we need just as many W&Ws on OPs title post.

Hey, it wouldn't hurt to give it a try, right?

Good idea!

Also use your F & F on Sam Heugan Part 34 and those fraus are working hard to get us shut down.

Yes, r100. Thanks1. Please W&W this thread everyone!

IIRC, wasn't there a Chinese American woman on Intervention who claimed to subluxate all the time? She was addicted to fentanyl pops and would periodically lay on her back and throw her legs up into the air to pop her joints back into place. She was eventually diagnosed with a delusional disorder. I felt bad for her parents, whom she had essentially backrupted; they spoke almost no English, and their son acted as an interpreter. When the interventionist told them they would have to cut their daughter off if she didn't agree to get help, the son said, "They wouldn't understand that. Cutting off a child is taboo in Chinese culture."

Sad episode.

When someone calls me a “cripple,” I’m not offended because they’re pointing out that I’m disabled. Believe it or not, I already know that. The memo came stuck to the footrest of my wheelchair. Being disabled itself is not insulting, but the privilege it takes to call me a cripple is. An able-bodied person using that word is, purposefully or not, silently expounding, “You’re a cripple, and I’m not, and that’s why I’m better than you are.” That is the root of every single slur: the privileged demonstration of cultural superiority.

Which is translatable to "I'm a cripple, and you're not, and that’s why I’m better than you are." And, of course, "Let me tell you about it."

The privileged - and repeated, ad infinitum - demonstration of her superiority through victimhood.

R105, she is a one trick money. Everything else is there to make this essentially uninteresting person seem interesting to others.

One trick pony.

It has taken me years to settle into my identity, but I am now comfortable saying that I am a nonbinary trans person. I have called myself a “nonbinary woman” in the past, because in spite of my personal gender identity, I am perceived as female by most everyone, and that shapes how people treat me. I will always deal with misogyny, regardless of my gender, because I am FAAB (female assigned at birth) and will always be perceived by most as a woman, simply because of my appearance. This perception does not bother me enough to correct everyone, primarily because I do not feel safe doing such a thing. I wish everyone could just know and understand my gender, but that’s not the world we live in. The world we live in is one where trans people are victimized, and that’s something I live in fear of. Taking this step, saying this publicly here, this is huge to me. This is me putting myself on the chopping block and asking everyone to put down the knife.

So, everyone is “ze” or “they” to me now. And I ask that others use ze/zir/zirs or they/them/theirs for me (or really any gender-neutral pronouns, I’m not picky). This is going to be difficult to implement, and I apologize in advance for the million times I will fuck this shit up. I might misgender you. I will misgender myself. I will not be able to implement this flawlessly, but that does not mean it should be abandoned. I am going to try my damnedest to make this work, and that includes using these pronouns at work. I am an English educator, and I’m making a huge change to my linguistics; that cannot be done in a vacuum. This is something that will take purposeful implementation, explanation, and discussion, but I trust the maturity of my students, and hope I might even open a few minds with this. Above all, though, I hope I am offering a safety blanket to those who are nonbinary, who are trans and using alternate pronouns, who are binary but assumed the wrong gender. Those marginalized people, they are the ones I am doing this for. Because I want the world to have one less hostile person in it–me.

On one level, I kinda feel sorry for her. But then I remember that she is a grifter.

Everyone's a ze to her? What happened to respecting others' identities? The contradictions! None of which matter in an attempt to see who can virtue signal the most and impose the most rules on others. It's a power game pure and simple.

“Non-binary” is entirely meaningless. Lots of people don’t conform to the majority of gender norms (including in particular many gay people), so what? Biological sex is a fact, otherwise ze couldn’t have got pregnant and birthed zir children. In doing that, she’s much more conventional in fact than the average out gay person. Damn, I forgot to say “CW” for the fact of biological sex or for calling her conventional.

I don’t claim to speak for the disabled, as people said I think on the other thread, it’s interesting how some significantly more incapacitated people don’t take the view that they apparently can’t do anything and have to be funded by followers.

R107 I think you were right on the money the first time.

How does this exhaustingly annoying woman have anyone interested in a relationship with her?

[quote]interested in a relationship with her?

"in a relationship with half" of her you mean, she's such a catch you have to share her with another beta cuckold, while looking after her and her two kids from her last two marriages. What a catch.

"Suicide of local Baltimore woman linked to bulling from notorious gay gossip site"

116 = Bunnika

Now I really want a remake of Baby Jane starring Bunnika and Chrysanthemum Tran as Blanche and Jane. Imagine the chair scene!

r118 wins this thread.

"But you ARE Bunny! You ARE in that chair!"

r117 TRIGGERED RRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

I would pay to see r118 movie.

R119

That's OK, I won it the last time

R116

"Dammit, how many times do they have to tell you: they am not a woman."

So, was this on the playlist at the bunny hutch this morning?

Did everyone dance (or roll) out of the house singing this morning?

Content Warning: frequent movements that may induce severe subluxation shown repeatedly. Proceed with caution, especially when riding the garbage truck.

Lady Bunny.

Getting ready to eat one of those uncooperative asshole misogynist shitstain FUCK FUCK FUCK docs who won't sign off on her latest self-diagnosed and amply documented (it's on page 53 of the "illness book") diagnoses.

Bunnika deleted her real FB page, too. The one with one of her many aliases.

But someone here at DL knew where it was, because they posted photos from it that I don’t think were on her blog.

I’m still intensely curious about her teaching career and why it ended. She mentioned having a cert to be a substitute teacher. Why would one choose that course if they had been an English professor?

She wasn't an English professor, r126. She was most certainly an adjunct. She would have made more money being a substitute teacher.

Being an instructor at a community college isn't like being a tenured professor at a research university, less prestige, fewer qualifications needed and wayyyy less pay. Being a high-school teacher could easily pay better.

Honestly, it's all a bit odd. She has two kids and being a halfway decent parent takes time and energy. I expect the legal husband does a ton of it--thus, his disinclination to find another woman.

I've actually lived with a couple of people in wheelchairs--I had a caretaker gig and both my parents ended up in wheelchairs. None of them had time or energy for this identity crap. The one who'd been in a wheelchair for 40 years (polio) wanted to be as independent as possible. For as long as he could, he'd try to get around on crutches designed for people with paralyzed legs. I mean, seriously, this chick has no idea what it really means to be fully dependent on a wheel chair or to be so weak that you can't go to the bathroom on your own, to be in a situation where dependency *isn't* a choice.

I actually thought The Sessions did a good job with this. I think it helped that the director had had polio.

So, yes, I believe something hurts--but she has two kids. If she can walk, she should walk as much as possible. If she lacks the spoons to cook, she should work with the rest of her menagerie to pre-prep enough food so that she's not eating fast food and turning into a blimp.

Okay, rant over.

R127, that makes more sense. I wondered if she had acted inappropriately in some way and they asked her to leave.

[quote]pre-prep enough food so that she's not eating fast food and turning into a blimp.

NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! JUST FUCKING NO!!! I WILL LITERALLY GO INTO A PAIN COMA, YOU ABLED PIG!!!

DID YOU MISS ALL OF THE GIFS, GRAPHICS, AND LINKS I POSTED WHICH PROVE THAT BEANS, GRAINS, VEGETABLES, AND FRUIT ARE CLASSIST, ABLEIST, FAT-SHAMING, AND LITERALLY SOOOOOO MUCH MORE EXPENSIVE THAN FAST FOOD??? FURTHERMORE, I'M SICK TO MY FUCKING BLIND EYEBALLS OF CIS-SCUM TELLING ME THAT I DON'T DESERVE PROCESSED FOOD!!! FUCK OFF!!!!

ONE MORE TIME: IT IS NOT MY FUCKING RESPONSIBILITY AS THE MARGINALIZED PARTY TO EXPLAIN, EDUCATE, ELUCIDATE, ILLUMINATE, SPELL OUT, MAKE CLEAR, OR EVEN JUST FUCKING TELL YOU ANYTHING!!!

[bold]PAY ME FOR MY EMOTIONAL LABOR!!!![/bold]

R128, excellent rant.

That’s how you know she’s a big fat faker.

So back in Thread 2 when the blog was still up, I was going to write a post about her opiate and benzo intake, she has quite a time with them. The many posts she devoted to them have of course disappeared but I screengrabbed two to remind me so here they are. This was from about two months ago:

Anon: I'm sorry you're in so much pain and getting so many asshole anons. Have you tried Vicodin?

Bunnika; Thank you, it's nice to have someone not be a dick for a change.

I've been on Vicodin in the past, it does nothing for me. I went through Vicodin, then Percocet, then straight oxycodone, which only helps a tiny bit at max dose. I just don't take to medicine well, or have a high tolerance or something,.

When in the hospital I did get Dilaudid, which definitely helps, but it's hard to get a straight prescription for that. And of course, none of the stuff is baby safe, so with hoping to get pregnant...

Who is she hoping to get pregnant by, dupe no.1 or dupe no.2?

How do they decide that among themselves?

W&W for the deliciously unhinged parody post at R130

Gave me a genuine laugh after a rough Monday at work. You bitches are magnificent!

And there were lots of posts about Klonopin (a very close relative of Xanax) and her enjoyment of it, here's one:

I am so done with today.

My psych called out, so I was scheduled with a different psych. That psych was a no-show, so I was on a long list of patients trying to see the only remaining psych in the office today.

Dosages upped on one script, another script totally dropped, and a new one in its place. Apparently the ones I started 6 weeks ago sort of 'unlocked' a whole new world of crazy. Oh, and I'm out of refills on my Vicodin, and my GP is on maternity leave until Christmas. I scheduled with another doc at the clinic, but I'm worried that they'll think I'm a ~ drug seeker ~ and not give me my meds.

I'm so freaking tired and filled with anxiety, Not enough Klonopin in my pill case for the day I've had.

R133, Dupe 1, the Maths teacher Spouse.

The Beloved doesn't like little children, remember?

[quote]bunnika-deactivated20180603 asked:

[quote]I'm a nonbinary person raising a nonbinary child. I know this is an unusual situation, and I feel like I could use it to help people. I want to be a resource not just for other enbies, but for cis parents raising nb kids, to help them look past their privilege to best help their kids navigate these waters. Problem is, I don't know how to let people know I'm here. Any suggestions for how to let folks know I'm an available resource? Nb kids are so vulnerable, I want to help them be safe and happy.

Damn, R177, DL took away that valuable resource from the internet. Though the last time I looked, the eldest daughter had shoulder length hair and was wearing dresses.

r4

"Misty water-colored memories of the way we were..."

Another tumblr begging post from another Nik with Ehlers whatever syndrome::

Hey, I’m Nik. I’m a 20 year old Jewish lesbian with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which, if you’re not well-versed, basically means that my tendons and joints just absolutely hate staying in place. It’s caused severe chronic pain since I was thirteen, and has ruined my ability to do any kind of physical work.

Regardless, I’ve been working retail jobs on and off; as you may know, minimum wage is not enough to live off of. My story is, in short, my body is all fucked up, my father’s dead and my mother is basically a teenager, and my fiancee & I are all alone in this wild world.

My fiancee, @meanexwife, is also here with me. We are both disabled, we are both doing literally all we can. In our rush to find somewhere to live, and at my mother’s pressuring to stay close to home, we’ve made a pretty grave mistake.

Our apartment complex is having us pay an exorbitant amount for a roach-infested, barely functioning home.

You can see the more detailed receipts on what’s wrong with the apartment here.

All of our plumbing is prone to breaking at the slightest provocation, we’ve got G-d knows how many roaches in our bathroom and kitchen, and their so-called pest control has done literally nothing. We’re also two disabled women living directly adjacent to known sexual predators.

The apartment complex has acknowledged they know the people across from us, who have gone after us both before, are predatory. They have also done nothing about it. As an added fuck-you, they initially tried to give us a (somehow) worse unit; when we complained and tried to get it fixed, they gave us a second floor unit. Both of us have declining mobility. The stairs are not going to be doable for very much longer.

Management here is unavailable almost all the time and has no interest in the quality of life of their tenants. We’re poor anyway, and they are currently doing the wonderful work of exploiting us while keeping us in abysmal living conditions. If we can pay rent, we can’t eat.

So. Help us out if you can. We’re not going to be able to do this much longer, and we have no outside help.

And another:

voidbat:

this is humiliating as fuck.

so! came home from a friend’s house to discover the fuse/breaker/whatever with both my fridge and my AC unit had popped while i was gone. it’s 95° in my bedroom, all my food has gone bad, and i have less than two dollars to my name. current plan is to take sleeping pills until monday when a check will clear. cause uh. i got nothin.

paypal is static.nebulae@gmail.com and venmo is @voidbat if anyone wants to throw $5 or $10 at me.

(via thingsthatmakeyouacey

And another! The beggars are out in force today on Trans Floof's blog.

Struggling NB Trans Gal

spookytransgirl:

So yeah, life has been pretty shit lately and I am struggling to find a job. I have PTSD, Panic Disorder, and Depression and I need help affording meds, food, and appointments.

My paypal is screamboyty@gmail.com

I hate to ask for help but I do not know what to do anymore. I hope your day/week go okay and you deserve to be happy!

(via autisticpadfoot)

R135, these factitious disorder people LOVE their Klonopin.

And this is why I can’t really take people seriously with the opioid debate. There are so many people who say “I can’t function with all this pain!” and it’s not something you can quantify. There’s a rebound effect with this stuff. If people develop a tolerance, it IS painful to exist without their drugs. So.

R143, yep, when I read Bunny bitching about how hard it was to get a dilaudin prescription, all sorts of red flags went off. Dilaudin's artificial heroin and it ain't that artificial. It's highly addictive. When they send you home with it, it's because you're dying of, say, a painful cancer. If you need a home-prescription of dilaudin you're not well enough to form multiple alliances and hit up people for trips to Disneyland.

Our girl's got a prescription-drug addiction and her doctors all know it and that's why they aren't buying her oodles of self-diagnosis. And, yes, she's probably royally fucked up her body's ability to handle pain by having developed a tolerance/addiction to painkillers. The rapid weight gain has done another royal number on those slippery joints of hers.

And, naturally, the last thing she wants to hear is that she should exercise, eat right, and get off the drugs. She has an addict's mentality--endless victimhood and rationalization.

R73, ok, fuck her. I just had to put my beautiful Labrador dog down after 12 years together because he was bleeding too much internally (from fucked-up arthritis meds that the veterinary nurses gave him, twats) and his spine had essentially collapsed. There was little hope surgery would have worked, and even if it had been successful it would have only yielded temporary results (maybe a year with limited mobility, very optimistically) and would have cost many thousands of dollars that neither me or my extended family could spare. So he's dead now and there was pretty much no give in the matter either way, even if we'd had financial aid or means. I'm still feeling guilt and shame over it all, anyway. And I miss him like crazy whenever I walk in the front door.

So I do not want to hear about this creature's fucking made-up ailments and definitely-not-pill-shopping, neither do I care listen to her beg for donations even if it is for something painful like a sick animal. If she can cough up for her dog then she should; if not she should choose the most compassionate course...quietly.

R145, So sorry about your companion. You probably know this, but you did the best thing. It’s still an awful loss.

Sorry to hear that, R145. Dogs are so loyal and loving, their deaths hit us hard.

Bunnika does seem to have got herself a habit. Industrial quantities of benzos and opiates have given her grandiose delusional disorder. She must spend all her time high as a kite.

Note she happily stops taking all these meds in order to have a child, which she just wouldn't be able to do if she were truly in agony. Why doesn't she sink into a pain coma when she's off her meds?

r144 totally agree she is an addict. But having known an addict or two in my day, I think a disordered personality usually causes the addiction, as opposed to the addiction causing the disordered personality. I wonder if she has BPD. It would explain a lot, including her unstable sense of self, apparent factitious disorder, and depression.

She does have it I'm sure, along with PTSD, ADHD, schizophrenia and some other stuff.

She doesn't seen schizophrenic at all r149

Remember when she said her adhd meant she spent all day dreaming and needed frequent redirection? How did that square with teaching high school English? The benzos and opiates have combined to create mental illness where there was none before. The Klonopin has triggered early onset delusional dementia.

So sorry that happened r145. I’m sure they were a wonderful doggo.

Something I must’ve missed- is the math teacher the one with the beard and glasses?

No, the Maths teachers is the guy with blondish hair and no glasses, the heavier guy. The Beloved is taller with dark hair and glasses.

I found this on Trans Floof's blog: Guide to Making Your Own Weighted Blanket

So sorry r145. You did the best you could and he isn’t in pain now.

[quote]found this on Trans Floof's blog: Guide to Making Your Own Weighted Blanket

Ooh, I want a weighted blanket, if you were serious can you post a link please?

R147, Oh yeah, I'm sure she was a piece of work in the first place.

R148, If we're going to play guess the personality disorder, I'm going to go with Narcissistic crossed with Histrionic, though I think she did say something about self injury at one point (or was that another Tumblr Emby?), which would be BPD.

She's just a fragrant bouquet of cluster B symptoms.

I'm so sorry about your beautiful labrador r145 Dogs are the best people.

I'm a little shocked that she completely erased her online presence without a protracted period of posting on tumblr about how she's being victimized by cis-het white oppressors on the internet. It just seems like she would have really milked the negative attention. She would have gotten a lot of mileage and sympathy from talking about how people want to silence her and cripple-shame her into submission. There has to have been something else going on. Like I posted in thread #2, I suspect her husband made her destroy her blogs because he was worried how it could potentially affect his job, given the rapid increase in likelihood that they get doxxed.

r139

"Scattered pictures of the smiles we left behind..."

Spin fast, die young!

I love you, R159.

I'm not R158. I'm thinking there was more, a lot more, and in a moment of clarity, rare as they must be even she realized some of the shit she's written might not jibe with some of the other shit she'd written because let's face it, writing is all she's been doing since Obama's first term. W/some histrionic drug-seeking, blame shifting activities as well. Or maybe some of it, even for her, might not be how she wants to present now. Whatever. But she didn't know which was what and knew someone was following the breadcrumbs but not how close they'd gotten to the total doxx let alone what would happen were that to transpire. Fear sometimes cancels out the crazy (Kissinger said that "even paranoids have enemies" - he would have known) and sure, "Beloved" went dark first but I'm guessing it was one of the SH Part 30-something fuckfraus who had his name from the classroom door. And his face from the Korean BBQ. And as noted, his job prospects on the line.

Plus, she's been hammering on and on and on with the whacked-out recitation of her DQ days that most of us, if we have these sorts of thoughts at all, we keep 'em tucked away for personal reflection before showing them to the world. Buns? She takes her thoughts to the laundromat, so to speak, spins them around and then hangs 'em out to dry on multiple platforms. For all to see. And read. And she's not bad at that in terms of structure, spelling and punctuation. She's a loon, but she's a loon who's smart enough to write if not always focused enough to think. So whatever she's doing or not doing and however she suffers from it as a result, she has to know there's a threat out there to her continuing as it has. She just doesn't know what. So down it goes, one after another. By Sunday afternoon, years and years of typing that almost made her hands EXPLODE - everything she could remember she had up was down, but there's still stuff archived and more that some of you seem to be savoring before sharing.

Her hair is probably still on fire, but she has to know the sky hasn't fallen and Fox Baltimore isn't on her doorstep wanting to talk to her for the 11 o'clock news about internet privacy AND how the cis-het fuckwads, er, elites have crushed and erased another victimized, marginalized, over-medicated wide-load Enby. Not that she wouldn't want to be there in front of the cameras representing that community (or several), but either she hasn't got enough spoons left - and that's after she's borrowed against next week's rota - and hasn't got the stones (literally), either OR else the two GMs have blocked the wheels on the chair and tied her to the floor. One way or the other, she's in a cooling off period now. We have to respect that. If she just bursts into flames, spontaneously, well, there's no fun in that for anyone. Wait and watch and sooner or later, she'll pop up, painfully to be sure, and resume her patented brand of idiocy. And you'll be waiting.

Not "Smiles." That's the chair she left behind. When abuseMom bought her the rechargeable model.

"Hideous tattoos....of the chair we left behind. Chairs we gave to one another....for the way we were"

r161 the beloved/Korean BBQ guy was the handfasted landlord

The 2nd husband was the maths teacher who appeared to be the one paying for everything.

Which guy is obviously grooming the daughter?

I've seen many people seemingly delete their blogs like that but in reality they've just changed its name and kept all their posts and followers.

The trick is to find it. It'll be there under a different name, possibly private but I doubt it as she loves interacting with her crip/trans community.

The Beloved who is also the landlord r164. The Spouse is the second husband who is the math teacher, Baldy is the Partner who is in a heterosexual marriage. I think. It can be difficult to remember without a diagram.

All I know for sure is that Morbo the cat is well out of it. He got adopted elsewhere and landed on his paws.

R165 you can change your blog name on Tumblr and older posts appear archived under your previous name, but when you fully deactivate, it changes your name in all posts to include the word “deactivated” and the date you deleted, which it looks like has happened here.

I have a feeling we shouldn't have messed with one of the 'crip' community.

Lmao, R168

R166, he doesn’t own the house, though. Maybe he’s the one on the lease.

Does she ever mention siblings or a father?

My father was born physically disabled (worked his whole life until retiring) and my mother is now in a wheelchair, and I swear to god they don’t go on about being disabled and needing pain meds as much as this person.

Some straight people just want to be special and will develop many varied ways of saying they’re heterosexual. Drop the Q as well as the T to be honest.

It should just be LGB, let those hoes make up another acronym.

R172 They cannot do anything for themselves, why they attached their sorry shit to us

Not very much, but I found B’s poshmark store... She’s into Lane Bryant and Forever 21...

She'd have a lot more cash if she weren't a crackhead. Time for rehab, Buns.

Look at her eyes.

[quote]but when you fully deactivate, it changes your name in all posts to include the word “deactivated” and the date you deleted, which it looks like has happened here.

This is making me wonder if they got together and either gave her an ultimatum or deleted her accounts without her knowing. It just doesn't compute that she would willingly delete her oeuvre after 5+ years and thousands upon thousands of posts, even after the question about Beloved's job. She had to have been under severe duress to delete it all.

Her pupils are pinned in that picture from the opiates but her eyes are a nice colour.

The Maths teacher Spouse doxxed himself with that blog. He took a picture of his classroom door with his name and uni on it. He posted about his polyam lifestyle for all to see, what an absolute fool!

Oops, I had the wrong one. The only one I'm ever sure of is Buster Bloodvessel; the two cishet patriarchal oppressors just blur together and overlap.

Well done to everyone dragging those hoes on the Sam Heughan thread, keep at it.

Recap

B married Husband 1, who engaged in 'corrective rape' (to 'correct her asexuality') and had her daughter at age 23.

B divorced Husband 1 and married the Spouse, a Maths teacher. They had a son, now two.

Bunnika hooked up with her 'partner', fellow enby Ellie, a butch het married to a guy. They don't have sex or even see each other much.

Bunnika started a three year relationship with the guy who owns her house. We call him the landlord and she called him her Intended but now calls him her Beloved.

I found another of these Tumblrs:

So, you’re nonbinary and asexual, right? Are you aromantic as well? Because if so, I have a LOT of questions.. Answer: I identify as nonbinary, asexual, panromantic, and polyam.

Inspired by the above:

R181 if I remember rightly she wasnt 'poly' when she met the 2nd husband/maths teacher.

They were in a monogamous marriage (like the one he'd signed up to) then she bumped into an old ex boyfriend and wanted she to rekindle their romance.

So she went and told doormat woke math teacher and he ok'd it So she had a husband and a boyfriend, until the boyfriend got bored and fucked her off.

This is was opened the door for her to have an open relationship, the maths teacher has never had another partner. Probably because he's been busy working, she's been unemployed this whole time.

Gone, R174

Did baldy delete her tumblr, too? I can’t remember her handle.

Her husband seems to have some sense, R186, think they were moving far away? Are they currently in Baltimore area too? Feel sorry for the kids of these people, the men can fend for themselves.

So landlord is subletting space to them in the home he rents? Wow.

Rather than spend $10 on my tatty jewellery, spend "at least" $10 on a 1 in 15 shot at winning my tatty jewellery so I can go to Disney World with my friend.

[quote]Help a queer, disabled enby make a big romantic gesture!

[quote]I’m Nik, and the lovely person on the right is Ellie. I’m madly in love with them, and I want to surprise them for our anniversary with a trip to Walt Disney World’s International Food and Wine Festival. Problem is, because of my multiple disabilities, I’m unable to work, and Disney is expensive. So I’m hoping to utilize my talent to get some donations!

[quote]I make jewelry (primarily LGBT+ and spoonie stuff, but I can do anything!). So I’m going to run a raffle: every ten dollars donated earns you one entry for a custom piece of your choice, with free shipping. I’ll draw a winner for every fifteen entries.

[quote]To enter, make a PayPal friends and family donation (no fees that way!) of at least $10 at paypal.me/bunnika and include your Tumblr name or preferred contact method in the note field. I’ll draw a winner for each fifteen entries I receive! If this takes off, I’ll reward additional entries to random rebloggers, so keep this moving! [quote]Thanks for supporting us.

How do you think Bunnika found this (or the earlier) threads?

r186 It's still there, just been set to private.

tbh baldy's not really that entangled in this 'family'. She's got a husband and a house and job and lives in Kentucky. She's doesn't appear to be in any kind of sexual relationship with buns, they both appear to be hetero, it's like she's a special friend that lives far away. And they've only been 'together' for a year, I wonder what her husband makes of all this weirdness.

r17 I remember in one post she says the 2nd husband/maths teacher's paycheque goes into their joint account, then she pays the landlord, who pays the mortgage, it's his house.

R186

GingerPixieDreams

and a dream she is...

R174

If she closed that in the time between when it was open and when it wasn't she's watching.

Everybody wave to Bunnika:

"Hi Bunnika, glad you could join us."

Back when I was on Facebook years ago, I knew a man with BPD. He actually had felony stalking charges pending. Anyway, he had dozens of sock puppet accounts, and would use those accounts to gang up on himself, in a frantic effort to assume the victim role ("Stop bullying me! Everyone bullies me!!!") It took several months before I caught on. Some of the "personas" would rush to his defense. Real people would unwittingly get dragged into the drama, thinking other users really were bullying him.

It was truly bizarre. The stalking charge had to do with making threats to himself via email, pretending to be someone else (a one-time hookup who had slighted him -- be careful on Grindr, bitches.)

TL;DR: I wonder if she is posting in this thread.

I am Bunnika!!

No you're not you lying sack of angry emotional need. So go roll away. It takes a while and a credit card that can handle the $1.50 charge to sign up and get posting rights.

You can't fool us.

R195

Sorry, Bunns: I'd forgotten that if you say you're Bunnika, you are Bunnika. If you say you're a man who's had two kids and needs tampons, you're a man. If you say you're crazy and the docs disagree, well of course you're right - who'd want to be known as cray-cray? If you say you subluxate by rolling over in bed then subluxate you must.

I forgot. Your world is what you say it is, all evidence to the contrary. Sorry.

I wonder how Bugnuts Bunny is coping without an outlet to scold the world for not recognising how unique she is?

r198 with lots and lots of pills, I'd reckon

No, *I* am Bunnika!

Looking at Bunny's online life reminds me of these lyrics from Laurie Anderson's Language is a Virus. Just switch out "TV" for "Tumblr":

Well I dreamed there was an island That rose up from the sea. And everybody on the island Was somebody from TV. And there was a beautiful view But nobody could see. Cause everybody on the island Was saying: Look at me! Look at me! Look at me! Look at me!

So I guess there won’t be a KiwiFarms thread, then, huh?

I'm confused R196, I've never signed up or paid anything to be able to post but I could post as soon as i tried. Have the rules changed maybe? I don't think that was a mistake as I've never been registered.

It changes all the time. It's seven visits (days) now before you can post; starting a thread is a few days longer.

Damn, R185! There was a great note she left for one of her customers - she didn’t get their shit in the mail on time because she was in the hospital, etc, etc. She can’t even sell her worn out F21 without turning on the Munch. It’s quite a skill.

Why do ableds think brain fog is funny?

My mind is literally deteriorating. Mental illness crashed into neurological issues and then both were T-boned by an endless stream of medications.

When I’m playing a game, and I have no idea whose turn it is, ever, and that’s not funny. Stop fucking laughing.

When I have a low-alcohol beverage, like a small mimosa, don’t blame my confusion on being drunk. Stop fucking laughing.

When I frantically search for my ECG transmitter, only to realize it was in my hand the whole time, it isn’t funny. Stop fucking laughing.

When I take 30 seconds to read a clock, partly because of my amblyopia worsening, and partly because I just can’t keep the numbers straight in my head, it’s not cute to compare me to a kid just learning. Stop fucking laughing.

I always seem a little dazed anymore. Like I was woken in the middle of the night and asked how many pieces of pie are leftover. ”Uh…what? There’s pie? Oh…yeah. Some…I don’t know, I have to count.”

Stop. Fucking. Laughing.

This is why I write. Because when I write, I can take a bunch of breaks, I can clear up foggy writing, I can make some fucking sense. In the real world I’m a fucking mess, and everyone outside of my partner and daughter seems to just think this is fucking hilarious.

It’s not.

Stop. Fucking. Laughing.

The famous ECG monitor she was so proud to show off to everyone to prove how ill she was

Why does a lazy assed grifter think it’s OK to appropriate the symptoms of real illnesses that other people really suffer from?

R206 Well, she has the awareness people are laughing at her

wanna see someone even worse than her? and ugly enough to scare you (not hyperbole)?

R210 .....maybe

r210 yes, I'd have paid for the tour of Bedlam, I've no qualms.

r206 maybe she wouldn't have brain fog if she wasn't an opiate addict ...

Don't get me started on them, r208. What a fucking waste of good disabilities they are!!

Their internalized ableism has mindfucked them to the point that they just go about their lives quietly; having jobs, paying bills, and demanding neither sympathy nor special treatment!! Literally, what is their fucking point??? Can someone tell me the point of having a fucking disability and LITERALLY NEVER USING IT?!?!

Do you have any fucking idea what I could do if I had been blessed with a visible disability!?!?!? Fuck my life!!!

here's a teaser r212

this sexy bitch

muy picante!!

full free ride and tv appearances faking for YEARS. this is what they (bunnika et all) are aspiring to.

R206, when my factitious frenemy was badly hooked on her klonopin and Ativan and oxys, she has “brain fog”, too. She was especially bad with cigarettes, not realizing she’d dropped them, letting them burn down to nubs and burn her fingers and I LOLed when I read about not being able to tell time.

It’s what junkies DO.

To be fair “cog fog” as it’s known is a common symptom of MS. I bet Bugnuts Bunny is hopping mad that MS can be diagnosed with MRI scans or she’d be claiming that too.

Can you imagine how angry Bunnika is now at being doxxed and having to delete her portal and how many Klonopin she's taking to cope? I feel sorry for the Spouse and the Beloved.

'Knock yourselves out, multiple aliases of SpazPurvMuso! Your despicable threads doxxed and endangered those people. POOF! '

From the OP of the Sam Heughan thread. They'll be trying to get this one deleted too.

If she is disappointed she can't score Dilaudid outside of a hospital, she is an opiate addict, period.

T215. Wtf is that? That’s actually frightening.

I must know more. Can you tell me how to find it on KF, pretty please?

'The important issue here is that as a community what can we do about the abhorrent practice of bearding. Obviously a campaign has to be launched. So it needs people much cleverer than me to run with it. The question is where to start'

The Sam Heughan fraus are Bunnika levels of delusional.

hahaha r224, thats amanda baggs! she's in tumblr.

spoiler alert: there's a plot twist in the last third of the thread!

her YouTube channel. I could not pick just one to post.

A Campbell, California native, Baggs went to Center for Talented Youth summer programs as a child and, in the mid-1990s, was a student at the Simon's Rock College in Great Barrington, Massachusetts. Several classmates of theirs have subsequently claimed that they "spoke, attended classes, dated, and otherwise acted in a completely typical fashion." Baggs does not dispute those details online, but claims they lost their speech in their 20s.[14]

In addition to autism, Baggs has also been diagnosed with and writes about other disabilities, including bipolar disorder, dissociative disorder, psychotic disorder, and gastroparesis.[15] Baggs moved from California to Vermont in order to be closer to a friend in 2005

Okay, you know what gives these assholes away? They can’t stop at ONE disease/disorder/syndrome. There are always a dozen.

My mother is elderly and has an elderly neighbor friend who is like this, too. My mother was hospitalized unexpectedly and was wondering if some renovation work had been completed as scheduled. I said “Can’t your friend Margie pop in and see if they installed the downstairs toilet?” Mom said “Oh no! Margie can’t step a single foot inside my house. She has that chemical sensitivity thing. She can’t be near anything scented.” I said “Mom, you don’t have ANYTHING scented in your house” “oh no, even the liquid hand soap in the bathroom can set her off.” And then she went on to tell me about Margie’s fibromyalgia and autoimmune disease and lupus and blabbinty blab.

I bit my tongue.

psychotic-pisces:

It’s Ace Week and I just want to make a post acknowledging

• ace-specs with personality disorders

• ace-specs who are schizo-spec

• ace-specs with psychotic disorders

• ace-specs with dissociative disorders

• ace-specs who are trauma victims + survivours

We don’t get talked about often but we’re here and we exist. It’s okay to feel pride in your ace-spec identity and your neurodivergence. It’s okay if you sometimes feel “less ace-spec” because your orientation may be informed by your neurodivergence. It’s okay if you worry about being an ableist stereotype (you are not!) or worry that no one could love you (someone will!) because you’re “too different”.

It’s okay. You’re not the only one struggling with these things. We can get through this together.

(via psychotic-pisces)

The best way to upset the SAM HEUGHAN PART 34 fraus is to go on said thread, post a pic of Sam and his girlfriend Mackenzie and then make an explicit reference to the heterosexual sex act. Those fraus get so triggered and go ballistic, but the block button is beyond them.

[quote]We don’t get talked about often but we’re here and we exist.

What is the obsession with “existing”? Or demanding others acknowledge your “existence”? You see this shit a lot with the trans/queer/enby crowd. No shit you exist; you aren’t some theoretical or abstract concept.

Literal violence, r232. Literal violence.

I don’t understand what that other thread has to do with this one. I never bothered with that SH stuff.

^^^^^ Mean girls

Malinger

R234 They used all my spoons

On top of her drug addiction and made up ailments, she's so controlling! Every minute of every single day revolves around her. If it's not about her for ten whole seconds the seas boil over and the skies rain fiery boulders. She's to tiring.

R234, they got both the original Enby threads shut down and still boast about it. Where have you been?

R238, That's why I think it's NPD--she has a holy fit when things aren't all about her. If she has NPD, she's probably pretty charming when she wants to be (Narcissists often are). I mean, she openly talks about how horrible her mother is, but has a major tantrum when mom says she can't give her more money because she needs (at 56) to save for retirement. And her daughter better be like her, by golly, enby with bendy joints.

My theory on the girlfriend, by the way, is that she's a late-in-life-lesbian and the relationship with our star is a way of trying out the persona without committing to it. I suspect she'll meet a real lesbian one of these days and jump off the diving board.

R216’s pic made me lol

No, I know they got the threads shut down but I don’t know why they’d care.

I don’t know why *I* care about them. It’s so odd.

I just want to know more about Bunnika.

Proof those Sam fraus got us shut down:

Your little cybrstalking hatefest get boring after that family closed their blogs? Only a sad, self-loathing, sociopathic POS would do what you did, starting those Queer Enby threads and exposing them to more hate and ridicule.

The bit that surprised me is the Sam fraus have no idea what doxxing means. They doxxed themselves. Nobody here outed them, everything that could possibly identify them was clearly posted on their various sites/blogs.

The absolute arrogance of the sad SH stans demanding that everyone STOP POSTING RIGHT NOW! is breathtaking.

We have Outlander frauen on DL?

R245, you should go there and write a short description of what Sam does with his female partner. Nothing enrages those Larrie type fraus more than the idea of their hero not being gay.

I found this Bunnika gem for us:

I have to ask, Bunnika, why is glorifying obesity a good thing? I'm all for loving yourself but why make things such as health problems into a good thing?

bunnika-deactivated20180603:

1) Obesity is not a “health problem.” Sometimes obese people have health problems, but guess what? So do thin people. The “obesity epidemic” has been proven largely false, as the link between obesity and health problems is not nearly what it’s represented to be.

2) There’s nothing wrong with “glorifying” any body. If I want to glorify tattoos, I will, even though many people condemn me for them (just as people do obesity). If I want to “glorify” my disability, I will, even though that’s a “health problem” that so many people think makes it inherently bad. (This is why the condemnation of obesity for “health reasons” is also ableist.) We all have the right to glorify our bodies, because all our bodies are glorious.

3) No one is “all for loving yourself” if you think people should be ashamed of their fatness, for ANY reason. These are people enacting radical self-love, and you’d have them stop just because they’re fat. That’s not very loving.

R247 So much glory, so many spoons have gone into her fattening up

1: The obesity epidemic has not been proven false. She cites zero evidence. Why? Because there's plenty of it saying exactly the opposite: obesity is not just bad for yo, it's awful for you.

2: The aesthetics are a personal decision one lives with until, well, they don't. Having someone break the cutaneous layer of the skin to ink you can - and has - been a source of infection including including methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA), hepatitis B and hepatitis C. Someone who has as many complaints as she does ought to think twice before potentially signing up for more.

3: Loving oneself means taking care of oneself, not spouting nonsense. No one has suggested people should be ashamed of themselves but rather that they do the things they need to do to help themselves.

And not to do things to get more pills or welfare benefits or unearned sympathy. Free advice is worth what you pay for it and anyone who takes hers is screwing themselves.

Keep 'em coming in the hope she's taking this all in - it can't be pretty for Bunny to have to look in the mirror and see herself as others do. She can write. So why can't she think?

Here’s her response to a man saying he, personally, didn’t find tattoos on women attractive:

“Your opinions on women’s bodies don’t matter, and they should stay right in between your ears. If you don’t find certain modifications attractive, don’t seek romantic or sexual relationships with women who have them. But do not think it is your place to publicly state those personal opinions, as if they deserve consideration next to those of the women choosing to modify or not modify our bodies as we please...”

If she had a fat, but otherwise healthy body, she’d be in a better position to make the argument that “obesity is not a health problem.” Being so fat you technically can walk but opt to use a wheelchair? Taking twenty meds a day, including multiple forms of opiates? SMH. I mean, I ain’t gonna stop anyone from “glorifying” they body but she can’t stop the rest of us from recognizing the difference between a temple and a garbage fire.

It’s like Stephonknee (WEHT him?) screaming that he’s a 6’2”, 260 lb, 7 year old girl. Buddy you can shout it from the rooftops but the rest of us have working eyeballs, ears and brains and we’re never gonna buy what you’re tryin to sell.

From the Twitter account that was linked to the Tumblr which remains open but scrubbed back as far as April; this is from December 17, 2017 captioned, "Because in this house there's only one star."

And who do we think that star might be? Your guess is as good as mine...

R252 I wanna be her fourth I wanna be her star

In the past, if your doctor was literally a big fucking dickbag and wouldn't diagnose you on sight with Ehlers-Danlos even after you cried, your only option was being diagnosed by a painfrau blogger. Prior to March '17, some combination of the following was required for your free online diagnosis:

Fibromyalgia*

IBS*

Chronic Pain*

Anxiety, depression and Autism Spectrum*

Allergies and sensitivities or MCAS (a form of MCAD)*

But now that that it's become a spectrum disorder, most of DL can take part! Just look through this long list and if you find you have some of the horribly crippling disabilities listed, such as bad handwriting, sensitive eyes, stretch marks, or bone spurs, you too can be an Ehlers-Danlos Zebra.....no geneticist required.

*Self-diagnosis strongly encouraged. After all, you know your body better than some idiot doctor.

Pain fraus, love it!

Don't forget chronic fatigue and adhd. Bunnika had both and would 'daydream all day unless frequently redirected'. Copious amounts of sedatives would have made this very easy.

Well, I dunno about the last one. I "daydream all day unless frequently redirected," too. That's one reason I'm here. Besides, I have the DL and when you do, "Who needs pills?" But with fatigue and being scattered, wouldn't she want some stimulants? Was she getting 'em or did she need any? Her writing seems pretty forceful and energetic and God knows, from the volume posted before the lights went out, she was a busy, busy Enby. Think about it: maybe not having a gender frees up a lot of time. Having other people work to support you must free up a lot of time, too.

Still wondering if her fingers have exploded by now... or something else?

Hamfasting!

Told you OP was the spaz troll/Harry Styles troll. Going on about Larries in 2018 in this very thread. He spends a great deal of time on Tumblr himself, claimed he had his own blog. Doubt he is a gay man at all. Go find some UK board to spam. He also starts threads on lesbians and gay male sex, likely some other Harry Styles/Tumblr related thing. Harry aint happening here, back to Tumblr you go.

Which OP? Because I am not the spaz troll/Harry Styles troll, and I've never been on Tumblr.

"My friend told me that today I look like the butchiest dyke who ever crippled. I accept this compliment."

Bunnika@bunnikasblog on May 7, 2017

'But with fatigue and being scattered, wouldn't she want some stimulants?'

She had her Adhd meds and Ritalin combined with the opiates and benzos would have made her euphoric and given her the feeling of being invincible. That's why she went on huge writing sprees and spilt all her secrets to the world.

R258, Harry Styles hasn't been mentioned on any of the threads and the Spaz Troll has not come here to make up fake Bunnika posts, so what are you drivelling on about? Get back to your homophobic Gay Sam thread, moron.

I unearthed this which someone else had reblogged, she's talking about Bald Enby (aka butch het):

bunnika: Thinking of my third partner, LOOK HOW FUCKING HOT THEY ARE BALD.

It was so sweet, they asked my permission to shave their head because they didn’t want me feel like their aesthetic would ruin my ceremony somehow (they’re the officiant). Like, I would never in a million years be a controlling asshole like that, but it was so thoughtful of them to ask. And I think they look DYNAMITE.

@smitethepatriarchy were you the one who shaved their head? ADHD and meds have eaten my memory alive, I just know one of my mutuals did and looked great.

smitethepatriarchy: I did shave my head! And it did look great, almost as great as your partner holy shit!

(via bunnika-deactivated20180603)

Why is everyone who knows Bunnika so fucked up? Look at Smite the Patriarchy's bio:

I have the following privileges: •White privilege

•Cis privilege

•Able-bodied privilege

•Dyadic privilege

This blog is: •Inclusionist (ace and aro people belong in the LGBTQAIP+ community)

•Supportive of all sex workers and listens to what they want

•Fully trans-inclusive (no “gender critical” crap)

•Anti-police and anti-prisons

•Unconditionally body positive and fat-friendly

I have been diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and CPTSD. I was formerly diagnosed with persistent depressive disorder (dysthymia), but therapy and medication have made symptoms associated with that nearly disappear. I still experience depression occasionally.

Aside from the mood disorders, I am neurotypical. I do not have any learning disorders and am not on the autism spectrum.

I am a survivor of long-term childhood verbal and emotional abuse. For information on my survivor status when it comes to sexual abuse/assault, see here:

How can someone want to smite the patriarchy but not also be gender critical?

What is the P in LGBTQAIP+ ?

r266 Pansexual?

Your guess is as good as mine at this point.

Pikachu-loving!

What gets me about these people is how they can be so narcissistic to think people on the internet give two fucks about every minutiae of their sexual tastes/preferences/whims. Hell, I have had lovers who aren't as interested in my own tastes. If I were fucking someone who had to tell me everything about their sexual feels, I would be incredibly turned off.

Isaac. They/them.

I am a tiny queer fluff.

White. Trans. Disabled. Severely mentally ill.

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A while back a new person at work started telling me her pronouns/preferences right off the bat, like “hi, I’m (name) the new analyst, my pronouns are she/her and I’m queer”. I had no clue how to respond to that so just nodded, smiled and said “hi, I don’t care”. She hasn’t spoken to me since. I think she may have thought the out gay guy would be on side with that claptrap.

'Supportive of all sex workers and listens to what they want '

Translation: I'm a prostitute but not quite brave enough to say that here

r271 I'm surprised you haven't been dragged in front of HR.

'queer' trumps gay in today's world

Bunnika is cheap when it comes to birthday cakes:

The cake is shared, 11 candles and a big dragon for Suzume, 1 candle and a baby dragon for Harper. It's a dark chocolate cake, my secret recipe.

r266 could be 'polyamorous' these need to be included because they're also 'oppressed'

Damn anti bigamy laws/hetero-patriarchal-monogamist-society

Bunnika and her fake altruism. The kid ended up cis and wearing dresses.

I'm a nonbinary person raising a nonbinary child. I know this is an unusual situation, and I feel like I could use it to help people. I want to be a resource not just for other enbies, but for cis parents raising nb kids, to help them look past their privilege to best help their kids navigate these waters. Problem is, I don't know how to let people know I'm here. Any suggestions for how to let folks know I'm an available resource? Nb kids are so vulnerable, I want to help them be safe and happy.

It was through her blog that I discovered that the term "trigger warning" is now verboten on account of it being [italic]triggering[/italic] to people who have some type of gun sensitivity. FYI, "content warning" is the preferred term now.

Saw this and thought of bunns

Don't these trans enby types ever wonder why mental illness is nearly always a co morbidity with their gender identification?

R279 The last thing they do is think, or seek actual help or knowledge, they are children demanding their fantasy be accepted. And fuck that

R279 like what? Anxiety? Depression? I'm curious

Well, Bunnika is schizo, had BPD, adhd, GAD. This Isaac Trans Floof is schizo too.

Trans Floof Isaac's Partner is Sex Repulsed:

Following on from the previous reblog about sex positivity and sex-repulsion, and thinking sort-of-aloud about my connection to them both…

At least the first part is easy. Sex positivity is simple enough, aka leave other people to retain control over their own sexual interactions provided all parties are consenting, as should be the case with all kinds of interaction, really.

The second part, however… I wouldn’t necessarily class myself as sex-repulsed, exactly. To a certain degree, as will become clear later, I can watch it, read it, and hear about it, but jokes are fine to all degrees, for some reason.

The big barrier for me personally is bodily fluids: seeing them, reading/hearing about them, and even reading descriptions of them. I’m not sure why that’s the only thing that bothers me, on a sensory level, but it is. It’s generally quite specific to that, and as long as there’s no obvious fluid-y stuff being visible or audible or referenced somehow, then I’m fine.

I have no interest in partaking in sexual things in any way, and I can’t see a situation in which I would consent to do so, so I’m not especially bothered about the prospect of physical contact on a sensory level, although I would be if it ever does become a possibility.

I have definitely sexualised aspects of past trauma (much as I don’t like using that description of it), to the point where said aspects are the main focus of any sexual thoughts I have, but I would absolutely freak the fuck out if it became a multi-person experience.

Posted 2 weeks ago

#thestrangeonewrites#sex cw#sort of#trauma mention#vaguely#sex positivity#sex-repulsion#bodily fluids mention#(as being the Main Issue)#i may add to this if i remember anything else i meant to add#(i should have written this yesterday when the original reblog was more Fresh in my mind... or something to that effect)#but i've been derailed by my own brain today (panicking about Future Things in every possible sense... and for no apparent reason)#so i'm sure i've missed something#anyway

what if I have a sensitivity to content? HOW THE FUCK AM I GOING TO BE WARNED?

Issac Tiny Queer Floof's partner is going to have a hard time being taken seriously as a man but she's going to try anyway:

Twelve Month Measurements

It’s probably best to add a trigger warning for body-related numbers again below the cut. Weight, height, circumference, etc.

•Weight: 7 stone 5 lb

•Height: 158 cm (5’2"ish to 5’3"ish depending on how I’m standing) - I haven’t actually checked this, but I doubt it’s changed much and is really just there as a guideline for the rest of the numbers…

•Chest: 32.5” (I refuse to call it “bust” because I’m irritating); it had decreased enough for my binder to Officially Not Do Its Job Any More, but it’s back up again now.

•Directly under chest: 30” (as used for bra size calculations; not that I really ever used them)

•Waist: 26.5”

•Hips: 32”

Lost weight again. Damn everything. All due to anxiety and depression issues, rather than T or whatever. So. That’s it.

What a shame, she has lovely tiny proportions most women would kill for.

Tagged: transition, transition measurements, specimen12m, agender, neutrois, trans, tw: body-related numbers.

I keep seeing these people use the term Floof. What does that mean? I googled, but all I found was molding clay type stuff, and pictures of cats

Far as I can tell, "floof" is either a subtype or synonym of a furry. They seem to be into anime that centers around cartoon dogs and cats. Which I guess is an orientation now?

These people are all completely ridiculous. They create these whacky identities so they have something to blog about. These identities have little or no relation to the blogger's actual lived experience. For instance, bunnika "identifies" as trans, but in reality she's a heterosexual woman with two kids (conceived the old fashioned way), married to her second husband, and presenting entirely as a female, employing cute outfits and pixie cuts and making no effort to disguise or remove her giant jugs (let alone to correct her downstairs plumbing to better align with her trans identity (which means she identifies as male?)).

Good luck to someone who's 7 stone and 5ft 2 ever passing as a man!

Most women would kill for those measurements.

My sister is 5’3” and was 103lbs up until about age forty (now she’s about 15lbs heavier). She was TINY. Nobody could ever have mistaken her for male. The girl described at r285 will never pass as male.

What? No one wants a 5’2” dickless pocket floof? Ya’ll are such neutrois agender transphobes!

I have to admit r287, I sort of love them because they're so damn crazy. I ususally have a low tolerance for insane people, but for some reason, the ones who jump through hoops convincing themselves that they're some kind of special thing when they're really just painfully painfully boring make me laugh.

(Here is where Buns would chime in and do a lengthy screed if she had been reading this about how her illnesses are not for others' entertainment but goddamn it, she's hilarious.)

I thought of the perfect job for her. Financial dom. She's fine with sex workers, she's controlling, and she could work from home! Bun bun, if you're reading this, do it! It'll keep you in dilaudid for years.

And no, I am not committing a hate crime against you. I'm HELPING.

[quote]It’s probably best to add a trigger warning for body-related numbers again below the cut.

I'm triggered by the word "trigger," bodies, numbers, and cutting.

My weekend starts right now because it's going to take at least four days of round-the-clock self-care to restore my equilibrium. I'll be starting with a fibro manicure.

R262 I don't think it means she's a prostitute - 'sex workers' get a lot of oppression points in that community, and I could actually respect someone who had material experience of trading sex for money and was speaking about it on that basis. This 'pro-sex work' nonsense is, unsurprisingly, completely unfounded in personal material experience.

They seem to think like teenagers but some of them are of an age where they should definitely know better. Suffice to say that if they were prostitutes then I'm pretty sure they'd say it on their blogs and be celebrated for it, instead, they go for the fun option of talking about something they know nothing about.

The harsh reality of prostitution - and let’s drop the sanitized “sex worker” bullshit - is that the vast majority of prostitutes are in a dangerous job they hate but have no choice. It’s no coincidence that hitting rock bottom drug dependency is how they start. At the mercy of violent johns and pimps is not an empowering situation.

Exactly R294, these 'pro-sex worker' idiots with their made-up oppressions have no bloody idea.

The funny thing is that most people could probably claim to be part of this subculture of oppression-competition if they wanted. It is sad that many of the 'non-binary'/trans-identified women and girls (ie. female people) seem to be reacting to actual abuse and trauma in their past, and that the black and white thinking of autism often seems to play a part in these gendered 'identities'. Nevertheless, it is obvious that within these cultures claiming oppression or disadvantage has developed independently as a form of symbolic capital.

There are a whole list of different disadvantages that I (and I'm sure many of us) could claim if we wanted to play that game. The problem isn't that things like bisexuality, dyspraxia, depressive tendencies etc., aren't objectively real- although when you get into the realm of made-up genders and claims that 'aromantics' are oppressed, then that is absurd. But mature adult should not want to build their identities around their disadvantages . I've even seen some on FB comparing oppression points to see how many they can claim. It is a strange game that most of us thankfully don't want to play.

While we're on the subject of attention seeking, grifting, shameless, weirdos....

Why has the Jacob Tobia "The Harsh Realities of Dating for Gender Nonconforming Femmes" thread been deleted?!

It wasn't the Sam Heughan lot again was it?

R297 It appears that it's no longer with us, unlike Jacob. His "Let's discuss Jacob Tobia, Genderqueer Model and Activist" thread is hanging on by, well, how best to say this - a thread? - with about a post a month since all the initial excitement in January. Jacob is still the picture of unusual beauty, nonetheless, in every photo he shares.

The Jazz Jennings thread is gone now too.

Trans have taken over DL!!?

All we want...Bunnika's friends discuss their utopia.

cripples-r-us-swag:

I just want a little off grid land, a bunch of cripples and chronically ill folks and other disabled people and a bunch of greenhouse space for weed.

I think about it a lot, I think about how it would be to wake up in a community where depending on how my day was going, if I needed help cooking food or getting dressed I could ask that, if I was having a good day and had extra energy I could go help someone else get dressed or fed.

I’m just tired of ableds. I hate having to put so much of my already dwindling energy into a song and dance for them that they aren’t made uncomfortable by my ugly disability/disease. I just want to wake up each day around fellow sick people, people in pain, people on my level, and I want us to just totally disconnect from this society because its caustic to us, it nips and burns and your soul over time.

AND with my food knowledge I feel like I’d be really good at feeding large amounts of people, and you know I love lots of veggies and healthy stuff. it would just be such a wonderful change, when so many folks I know rely on frozen pizzas and other convenience foods cause I’ve been there too! But if I could help feed everyone well and we just looked after each other I’d be so content.

Count me in!

And I could help everyone with getting dressed when I have the energy, help to chose outfits and fix clothing according to one’s body/mobility/pockets for hot and/or cold pads / sew nice and practical bags for our daily need. (Now my mind can’t stop thinking about how cool it would be.) (This is so good)

Oh I love it, little practical things like that can be so helpful! When I’m in a flare if someone could help me get dressed and get ice packs it would honestly help so much.

Posted 8 minutes ago #this is the idea! #safe haven #q

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I think she needs to lay off pills and lay off the internet, r300.

'I think about how it would be to wake up in a community where depending on how my day was going, if I needed help cooking food or getting dressed'

She wants to be in a care home lmao

What Bunnikins really wants is a throne and servants (technically speaking she already has those). Little miss I need a safe space is, in reality a dictator, who holds her entire family hostage so every second revolves around her. And she's also a crackhead.

Unearthed this gem. Look how many notes she got from the enbies and cripples of tumblr!

seriously just had to teach my mother some basics of parenting.

Both photos are of my daughter in October, the first in 2011, the second in 2012. I let her pick out her own clothes, shoes, haircuts, hair colors, anything superficial, really. She’s too young to understand the permanence of piercings, so she doesn’t have any. But hair grows, shoes get grown out of, clothes go threadbare. These things don’t really matter—shouldn’t really matter—but anyone raising a gender-variant child knows the world isn’t that kind.

My daughter recently requested a haircut like mine. A long flop on top, pixie-length fade on the back and sides. She’s been bugging me for weeks to color her hair again, I just haven’t had the time.

But today she came to me with the same shyness she keeps developing when outside our home; she’s being pressured by peers and family to look “normal,” to grow her hair long and uncolored, to dress a certain way (she hates to match), to indulge in self-consciousness, and alter or not alter her appearance to gain the approval of others, and society at large.

THIS FUCKING INFURIATES ME.

I called my mother tonight, because my daughter had become shy again, and didn’t want to color her hair anymore, and she said it was because of what her Nana had said to her. My mother told me we should get that spray-on Halloween hair colors, so it wouldn’t be so “permanent” and my daughter could be “normal” again to avoid being bullied.

IT IS NOT THE JOB OF THE VICTIM TO STOP BEING BULLIED. IT IS THE BULLY’S JOB TO STOP BULLYING.

I know she gets teased sometimes, and we always talk about it. She stays strong and confident, so long as she has the support of those around her. But what that support falters, or pulls a 180, she’s left to crash.

She also gets teased for liking dinosaurs and not dolls. She gets teased for preferring roughhousing to playing house. She gets teased for liking Lightning McQueen and not Cinderella. Where do we draw the line?

My mother thinks this is a “minor” thing, that it’s better to just blend in. But it would plant the seed of doubt, it forms the foundation for queer kids staying in the closet, for disabled kids to feel worthless, for young girls accepting abusive partners. This is not “minor,” it is fucking MAJOR, because this is my daughter’s foundation, and it will shape her life.

Support your fucking kids. Let them be who they want to be, look how they want to look, and play how they want to play. And make sure they know that you will love them no matter what.

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r277, you know what's wrong with these people. We all do. We know what's wrong with the incel shooters, too but no one will say anything.

' long flop on top, pixie-length fade on the back and sides'

The way she described it, you can tell she thinks she looks cute and pretty.

The daughter was FIVE when Bunnika sent her to school with permanent hair colour! She should be shot.

I haven’t seen any of bunnika’s friends and followers talking about or lamenting her disappearance. I suppose that for every one of these ridiculous enby’s there’s probably a dozen obese, purple-haired Eve Harringtons waiting in the wings, poised to take stage center in her crowdfunded wheelchair. The oppression olympics truly are cutthroat.

[quote]' long flop on top, pixie-length fade on the back and sides'

[quote]The way she described it, you can tell she thinks she looks cute and pretty.

Lulz. It’s a modified Gosselin aka the “I want to speak to a manager” haircut.

So the Jazz thread is gone? They really get fearful when we discuss the obvious insanity and dangerous nature of what trans activists are trying to accomplish. Fight the fuckers

Why do the DL mods love the trans so much? It's boring.

I miss her madness. Every day another story. Now? Silence.

r304 Sounds like MichFest

That should be r300 not r304

r304 sounds nothing like MichFest....

[quote]So the Jazz thread is gone? They really get fearful when we discuss the obvious insanity and dangerous nature of what trans activists are trying to accomplish.

There are too few places online where people can point out that the emperor has no clothes. I hope we don’t lose DL.

Any updates on this? Or has she been subluxated?

I can't imagine her living without an audience for too long.

Does she have any siblings or a father?

OMFG. I can't believe I have just spent nearly 2 hours reading this thread.

Absolutely fascinating.

If she did would they admit to it r317?

Found her:

New pix from "The Violence of Stairs" tumblr, same POV: "Just me being a generally snazzy and fashionable cripple"

Seeking oppression points (with which to buy spoons) for the outfits, the tats, and the crowdfunded wheelchair.

I wish we still had the old threads. They were vastly more entertaining because there were a lot more of her posts in them. She is unintentionally hilarious. I still can't tell if it's not just some big performance art thing.

What's with the spoons, again?

The spoon theory is a disability metaphor and neologism used to explain the reduced amount of energy available for activities of daily living and productive tasks that may result from disability or chronic illness. ... A person who runs out of spoons has no choice but to rest until their spoons are replenished.

And our gal Bunny is chronically low on spoons...

My favourite bunns story was there one were she went to an assessment with a Social Security appointed Orthopaedics Doctor to determine if she was entitled to SS benefits, and failed miserably.

The doctor was surprised when she wheeled herself into the appointment in her crowd funded wheelchair 'ariel', despite not having a prescription for a wheelchair from an actual doctor.

She also got into a fight with a security guard on her way out after the doctor rubbished her claims of disability.

I had to really look at this one to be sure that it wasn't a picture of her with her shirt pulled up to her armpits.

r324 oh that is truly hilarious.

The doctors know she is a pill-seeking grifter.

r325 'applauds' bravo

When did she get her huge breasts tattooed?

[quote]When did she get her huge breasts tattooed?

Probably when some sap gave the $$$ to her latest 'get bunnika a new tattoo GoFundMe'

R325 are those her tits or her knees? I honestly can't tell.

Where one set ends, the other set appears.

The Tumblr posts are gone, but her archived Wordpress blog can be found in certain corners of the interwebz.

This was (allegedly) before... whatever caused her to blimp out and deface herself.

R333 Also, how did she get so fucking bloated when all she does is beg for money, where does all the food come from

Found some new material! Here's Bunnika getting into it with the Benedict Cumberbatch fandom:

laughingotter It irks me when I see people deliberately making up alternative versions of Benedict Cumberbatch’s name.

Maybe it’s just a holdover from my childhood, when I had an unwieldy (for the region I lived in- amusingly enough, it’s a common surname where I live now that I don’t have that name) last name, and a first name that appeared made for punish jokes, but it just makes me so sad.

He’s not Barneveld Crumplepatch, or Belvedere Crinklescotch, or whatever. His name is Benedict Cumberbatch.

BUNNIKA:

Personally I can’t bring myself to give a shit about a white guy getting his name mocked. It is literally what happens to POC (both famous and not) constantly, and not in an innocent way. (See press refusing to say “Quvenzhané” and calling Ms. Wallis shit like “Little Q.” See every kid I used to hire, or who went to the school I used to sub at, or go to school with my daughter—who has an odd name of her own.)

My original last name was difficult, and everyone mispronounced it, and I was mocked quite thoroughly for it. But it’s so far on the bottom of the List Of Things I Was Bullied Over that I don’t even think about it until someone specifically mentions names in this context.

So it’s a ymmv situation, definitely, but I don’t think there is any overarching reason that should unite people to call this guy always by his perfectly proper name. Personal preference wins here, imo.

The Cumbebatches struck back but Bunnika carried on:

You’re seriously saying that I have no right to comment because I don’t Tumblr Savior a celebrity’s name? You stated from the start that you believed the opinion to be unpopular, you said it without any “don’t comment if you disagree” request, and then get mad because people point out legitimate shit wrong with the person you’re defending. And playing the “but I’m a good white person” spiel does nothing to change that legitimate shit.

Fandom posts have just as much an ability to require ~social justice~ commentary (and are frankly often some of the most bigoted shit on this site). If you only wanted fandom-agreements and no contrary or non-fandom commentary, you could have presented it that way.

I’m not going to be guilted for finding these complaints privileged. I’d’ve apologized if you just said, “This is upsetting me, I really just wanted a fandom discussion,” but instead you pulled some inappropriately indignant, guilting tactics, and that’s not okay. Sorry, I can’t just “turn off” giving a shit about privilege and inequality; I can keep my thoughts to myself on the more innocuous subjects (like this) if it’s requested of me, but it wasn’t, and I am NOT in the mood to be made to feel like shit for it.

On and on she went:

Starting in with “Oh, it’s okay to mock him because these other people get mocked at least as badly or worse”

Except I didn’t say that. I stated that he’s in a privileged position and it’s a privileged objection. Privilege is not just “having it better,” and that is a gross oversimplification.

And don’t you dare try to extrapolate this to my fucking kid, that is a bullshit tactic that I will not tolerate. We’re talking about a celebrity who very knowledgeably put himself in the public eye, who is privileged in every way (which my daughter is not, and her bullying is the result of misogyny) and who is in no way in danger from this goddamn name calling.

OH NO THE RICH STRAIGHT WHITE ABLE-BODIED WILLING CELEBRITY IS CALLED A NAME THAT’S TOTALLY THE SAME AS THE VERBAL AND PHYSICAL BULLYING OF A SIX-YEAR-OLD GIRL FOR NOT CONFORMING TO GENDER NORMS. Or not and FUCK YOU for daring to make this stupid fucking ~name calling~ a personal attack.

I’d link you to intent isn’t magic, but I’m fucking disgusted that you’d try such a manipulative thing as using my child to make a bullshit point so I’m just fucking done.

R43 - I have read all of the replies, but I did want to tell you that there exists no "cure" for the herpes simplex virus. The pills that you were prescribed (likely Acyclovir) will certainly help prevent outbreaks and they do so rather effectively (but not always). That said, the virus lives latently in your body and both can and will certainly outbreak at any time (usually due to a lowered immune system - stress, illness, chemotherapy, sunburn, etc.). Likely, you will experience another outbreak at some point - and probably multiple outbreaks throughout the rest of your life. I am only telling you this because your doctor might have misinformed you and you should know that most patients who have contracted the herpes virus battle with it in some way, shape or form for most of their life. I wish you the best!

Every post of hers that was ever reblogged is still on Tumbrl, it's just finding the stuff.

schizodykey:

why are psychotic ppl always the butt of jokes lmfao like i know why (its ableism) but seriously its not only annoying but also harmful to constantly see ppl who have “odd beliefs” or who “talk to inanimate objects” or smth as the weirdos who in the end somehow get “fixed” and end up “normal” and completely got “rid” of their quirks that were very clearly meant to represent psychosis even if no one ever said the word psychotic.

or as the people who only get befriended out of pity and behind their back theyre still the butt of jokes even by their friends! were real people and yes were not neurotypical but we dont deserve to be made fun of for smth that we cant control!

psychosis isnt funny n its not smth that can be “fixed” by simply realising “oh im odd i should probably be ‘normal’”, its a mental illness n yall preach acceptance of mental illnesses but as soon as someone starts to show psychosis symptoms (which half of yall dont even recognise) theyre suddenly “weird” and “creepy” and “need to get their sh*t together” n dont get accepted at all! its transparent af and yall need to step up in your acceptance n support

nonpsychotic ppl can boost this

(Source: eeveelesbo, via actuallyschizophrenic)

Posted 1 hour ago #saneism #ableism #psychosis #q

R335, I am trying to figure out which “original” name she had that was so unwieldy and ripe for ridicule. Maybe it was Cunningham, which is shared with many black people (and there are plenty in Baltimore).

I’m sort of dying to share all the information I’ve dug up about her, but she had kids and it’s not fair to doxx them. But I found it all.

R341, pleaes share! You don't have to share the kids' info although she already doxxed them with her 100s of pictures of them and by telling the internet their names.

Remember to W&W these threads every chance you get!

Thanks r343

Do YOU have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, DL?

Archive dot org, r341?

Don't kill thread r341

R345 that kind of crap drives me nuts. Do YOU have this incredibly rare, hereditary disease? Take our quiz and see. It’s just as bad as the drug advertising - Do you have any of this list of vague symptoms that make you a chore to associate with? Talk to your doctor about Placebonil today.

Of course the unstable are going to latch onto that kind of thing and self-diagnose. Suddenly the world is full of Fibromyalgia inflicted, IBS suffering, gluten sensitives with endometriosis.

I understand the drive in that direction. My grandfather had Parkinson’s, and I sometimes worry about that and will read into things. I’ve always been a fidgety sleeper with the Jimmy legs. Lately I occasionally have issues with a feeling like electricity rushing up my legs when I try to sleep, or a tingling feeling like when your legs fall asleep. Is it Parkinson’s? No, unlikely, maybe Restless Leg Syndrome (which I always assumed was something that Big Pharma made up to sell Parkinson’s medication to people without Parkinson’s.)

I did some research, and it could be RLS. Bunnifa would run (well, roll) to the doctors and demand meds. Being a rational person, I did some research on the meds: dopamine agonists, no thanks, gabapentin, oh, I don’t think so, and opiates, yeah, I need a monkey on my back.

I don’t have a need to feel special, I’m a homo, so I’m already special. :-) I don’t need oppression points, so I will deal with the jimmy legs.

Bunnifa, and the floofs, and manic pixies will seize on anything that adds the oppression points, so they can bravely face the world, while making sure the whole world knows how brave and oppressed they are, and the world by-god owes them, and articles like that just feed those behaviors.

R348 sounds like you’re describing peripheral neuropathy. Don’t self diagnose neurological symptoms, see a doctor and if they say it’s RLS then fine go ahead and deal with it without drugs but do not ignore it, it may not be that simple. I speak from experience (MS).

I should have added that I made an appointment for next week with my GP (I'll need a referral if I need to see a neurologist.) I was typing on my iPad and it was making me crazy so I cut it short.

R341 maybe I oversold that shit. Just names and addresses. It gives only a little insight. The current address was available on a public page she made available before she deleted everything so I’m not sure it’s fair game.

I wonder if the old address is fair game or of it counts as doxxing.

Anyway, what I found out is that she has a million different names and that’s a red fucking flag. Her “professor name” is basically a completely made-up name. Italian for “rabbit”.

R346, the address was on her FB page for her jewelry. From there I extrapolated everything. It cannot be found any longer because FB pages can’t be archived. Same with the Etsy and Pinterest.

Plenty of other pages of her writing are still accessible via that website, though.

Can you post a few examples of her writing, R352?

We are deprived here.

R353 There were many examples on the other two threads, but those nasty Sam Fraus had to have those threads removed cause feelings

I found her youtube but it just had one video. She had her daughter all boy-ed up aged about four. What a disappointment it must have been when her daughter went from non binary to cis.

Social Conscience on Social Media: Why I No Longer Talk Politics On Facebook Posted on September 1, 2017 by bunnika I can’t remember the last time I made a political post on my personal Facebook page. Maybe after the election, when I was so overwhelmed by sadness and fear I had to pour it somewhere. But lately, when that overwhelmed feeling starts to sink in, I turn to local outlets. I talk to my family, my partners, and work things out on my own. I realized recently that I simply don’t like getting political on Facebook anymore. But why?

Part of it is that it feels sort of unnecessary at this point in my relationships. I’ve cultivated friendships with like-minded individuals, so largely, Facebook can just be an echo chamber. I don’t need back-pats for caring about equality, so why post something that everyone already agrees with, that someone else could likely state far more eloquently? I’ll still comment on the statuses of friends, and can sometimes enter debate there–that seems healthy. It feels like I might accomplish something, maybe change a mind. But whose mind am I going to change on my own page? Whose horizons am I going to broaden? Likely no one’s, unless my friends are keeping some very ugly secrets. And social justice isn’t about people praising you for caring about equality, so while I might get some solid thumbs-ups for my thoughts, I don’t need nor want that. I want to change minds. And that isn’t necessary there.

Another reason is that I’m just not as present online as I used to be, and my personal Facebooking is now eaten up posting baby photos. I don’t really do that much online anymore, and all the updates I do make are primarily geared around informing my out-of-state family of how things are going for my newest little one. I know “I had a kid and life got busy” sounds like a lazy excuse, but it’s a very real one, one that accounts for my lack of presence here, as well. Life has simply swallowed me as of late, and it’s hard even keeping up on the news, let alone forming coherent posts about what I’m witnessing.

There’s also the very real fact that most of what’s on everyone’s radar these days is not affecting me. That probably sounds callous, but it’s not what you think. It’s not that I don’t care because I’m not affected, it’s that I know my voice is not the one that matters. Not my oppression, not my place to make it all about me and my soapbox. Admittedly, most of my friends are white, and I think an ugly thing happens when white liberals preach to other white liberals about the evils of racism. By clicking “like” and feeling indignant, we pass off our responsibility in the mechanisms that are making racism a continued threat in our world. I don’t want to be another white person getting congratulated for being “one of the good ones” by a bunch of other white people who simply don’t understand the realities of what’s happening.

So I post baby photos and talk about my eldest going back to school. I share the occasional meme or silly cat video, and I do what I can behind the scenes to support those whose words do need to be heard. And hopefully when life isn’t kicking my ass so hard, I can follow bloggers who do have a stake in the game, and I can share their words instead of cobbling together my own.

Maybe it’s cowardly. Maybe it’s lazy. But in the last several months I’ve gotten two new serious diagnoses that are messing with my world so hard, that sometimes I feel like there is no way I can even crawl out of bed in the morning. But I do it, I get up. I try my hardest to stay informed, to stay invested in a better world. And right now, that has to be enough.

This is a magnificent one from 2012, which seems to be when she decided she’d go balls-to-the-wall DISABLED. Sadly, the evidence proves to the contrary, but that won’t stop our plucky Bunnika.

Excerpts, because it’s rather long:

“I’m able to think about buying a single-story home, having ramps built for it, and getting one of those fancy bathtubs installed. I’m contemplating what sort of setup and aids I’ll need in place if I decided to have another baby. I’m assembling a micro-kitchen in my living room, since that’s the only room on a different floor of my apartment ...

Yet, I still have setbacks. That’s what my breakdown last night was. My radiology results were delivered, and I crumbled. Today, I realize that I went through the microcosm of grief all in the span of a couple hours:

Denial — I opened the radiology report, read “Impression: Normal examination,” then folded the report back up and stuck it in with the CD of my x-rays, and pretended I didn’t read it. ...

Depression — And then it hit. I shut myself in the bathroom and sobbed. Apparently I sobbed so loudly my partner heard me from downstairs and ran up to check on me. I had him stay outside at first. When I eventually let him in, I made him place his hands on my knees while I straightened my legs in front of me. This is real, feel this! The grinding, popping, clicking, shifting, it’s there, it’s real, and I needed someone else to feel it, to know I wasn’t making it up. Somehow, that one little radiology report made me feel like my very reality was a joke. I felt like they were telling me this disability was all in my head. And I disappeared inside of the self-doubt that had plagued me from the start.

...

Oh, and:

“Here I was, trying to live my life and make the best out of my situation, and I was being told that I was making my whole family miserable simply by being disabled.“

Maybe it’s because:

“I’ve started buying clothes that are wearable in a wheelchair (yes, there are things you can’t wear based on how a physical disability manifests; you’d be surprised how many things disability affects that you’d never think of until you’re living with such a disability). I actively seek out wheelchair-accessible stores and restaurants, instead of accepting stairs and using my cane/crutches on every out of stubborn pride.”

Her huge melons are so heavy she needs to cart them around in a motorized wheelchair.

She sounds EXHAUSTING. And why would she want to procreate, if her genes are so bad she has 500 disorders? What kind of asshole would want to carry on that DNA?

You know she's got to be pissed that they can only find one vague disorder with her kid (one of those disorders that is likely not a disorder).

She is a grifter, plain and simple.

She needs her pussoi to be boarded up and spackeled over so no man comes near it again.

r357 So the radiology report confirms there's nothing wrong with her.

This is up there with the account she posted about the social security doctor I posted at r324

It's not that the doctors saw through what she was doing, it's the fact that we know about these events because she posted them for the world to see and expects the reader to take her side rather than that of the doctors.

I guess this must be pretty normal in tumblr 'disabled ' circles. They post these tirades and everyone reassures them their delusions/scams are legit.

So far she's had a radiologist, a orthopaedic doctor and a psychologist all call out her bullshit, and we know about this because she posted about them expecting sympathy. I assume there are a few more examples like this.

I am the only one worried about those kids, specially the situation with the girl and the beloved? I guess having a daughter with a personality disorder caused for child abuse is something she can add to her victimization. I have a bipolar mother and that really affected my brothers and I as kids, but not even on her worst times she was this crazy. She really needs help but not in the way she is seeking for

R363, I’m wondering if Suzume’s father and grandparents are looking out for her, somewhat. On Bunnika’s mother’s FB page, there is one old photo with Bunnika and there’s one with a little girl but I don’t know if she’s Bunnika’s, or another relative. The page isn’t very active.

Bunnika’s mother founded and still runs a small food business that’s sort of a local institution. Anyway she seems like a normal middle-class person. She’s probably mortified that her daughter is such a loon. I also think that Bunnika is keeping the daughter away from her normie influence.

OF COURSE she has food allergies on top of everything else:

“The Trials of Invisible Illnesses: My Personal Encounters with Ableism, Part 2 Posted on May 24, 2011 by bunnika ... Of my hidden health issues, the one that’s been most prevalent in my life is something many people suffer from: Food allergies. I’ve run into a lot of frustration when trying to express the difficulty of life with food allergies to folks who suffer with no such afflictions, but it wasn’t until I read someone else’s experiences that I began to see these encounters as manifestations of able-bodied privilege.

My allergies have been a part of my life since before my conscious memory was formed. My original allergy diagnosis was made by my mother, as she logged my food intake and physical reactions as a young child, and slowly learned what items set off a reaction. I lived a relatively food-restrictive childhood, unable to eat the candies my friends did, or share Kool Aid at their houses, or even eat most of the snowballs we sold at our family business. But it was something I always took in stride, acknowledging that my problem could be worse, and I should be grateful for my ability to indulge in what I could. ...... ...Of course, the problem with folks knowing about my allergies at all (let alone the possible severity of them, and which allergens trigger the worst reactions) is that suddenly everyone feels they have the right to police my diet. Demanding, “Aren’t you allergic to that?!” every time an allergy-sufferer knowledgeably indulges in one of their forbidden foods is akin to shouting at every smoker, “Won’t that give you cancer?!” every time they light up. Yet no one seems to recognize the former as irritating at all, while the latter is generally understood as something that’s rude, disrespectful, and not acceptable in adult company. My body is my own to do with as I please, and I will damn well eat that bag of Skittles if I want to.

Beyond allergies, I’ve got a slew of other invisible physical ailments: a chronic problem with intestinal dysbiosis, which led to a surprise hospital stay when it left me too weakened to breathe; chronic pancreatitis that, during a flare-up, makes me wish I could trade it in for the pain of labor and childbirth; a rather tricky bad back, which will leave me unable to move for days if I lift my daughter the wrong way; and an irregular heartbeat that I’ve thankfully only needed constant medication for during pregnancy, but which frequently leads to lightheadedness and occasionally to blackouts.

The first two restrict my dietary options even further, which is especially frustrating when people tell me about certain diets I should follow if I want to be healthier/skinnier/more socially conscious. Never tell someone with dietary restrictions that it’s “so easy” to up their protein intakes/eliminate carbs/go vegan; you know nothing about their dietary limitations and requirements, and assuming that those choices are as simple for them as they may be for you is insulting and ableist ... The latter two have primarily social impacts, as I’m criticized for not participating in things that put me at physical risk (moving is always a problem), or when I need to pause and catch my breath after a near-blackout, and I’m ridiculed for being “out of shape.” I’m called lazy and selfish, and am accused of simply not being up to the physical standards of others. ...

What this entire thing boils down to is simply an issue of respect. Never assume that you know more about a person than they know about themselves; never deem yourself worthy to judge them for their physical limitations, or declare yourself capable of instructing them on how best to remedy their problems. It is not the place of every able-bodied person to play doctor to those of us who are suffering; we have actual doctors for that sort of thing. And we also have the benefit of experience, which is something you cannot feign. I’ve spent 27 years learning to master my body, and I’d appreciate if my expertise on the subject was respected.”

Bunnika on circumcision:

“...All of this said, there is also a flipside to the movement that I feel the need to address through a feminist lens. I am troubled by the intactivist use of the term “Male Genital Mutilation,” and the constant comparison to Female Genital Mutilation. I believe circumcision to be amoral and unconstitutional, and I hope for it to someday soon be illegal, but the sweeping comparisons to FGM are outright appropriation. ”

Oh good lord @ calling it appropriation. Bitch just knows these words and then uses them to fill any gap she wants. It's why things are referred to as "literal violence!" now.

This is the millennial grandspeak - look at any headline on Buzzfeed and you'll see why. It's not a good recipe for chicken fried steak, it's THE BEST RECIPE EVER AND PEOPLE ARE AMAZED!!!@@@ It's the hyperbole of the generation that has bled into every aspect of their lives, so people like Bunnika blow up their minor issues into these earth-shaking pronouncements that naturally do not hold up to actual scientific measurement. But if a doctor doesn't respond with "YES YOU HAVE MELANOMIC PESTILENCE LEVEL II AND HOW CAN YOU STAND! DEAR LORD IN HEAVEN! TAKE THESE POWERFUL OPIATES FOREVER!!!" then she has a "breakdown" which in all actuality is just her being mildly irritated and feeling less grandiose than she thinks she is.

R365

"we have actual doctors for that sort of thing." yeah, and they think you're a crock of shit, hunny. that's why the x-rays say "nothing wrong." that's why the doc said "no disability for you."

the self-diagnoses about allergies and better still, "chronic pancreatitis" are ridiculous. if she had serious food allergies, she'd be in anaphylactic shock. when that happens, if there's one time too often before they get you to the ER she wouldn't be writing anything. or breathing. pancreatitis is totally debilitating, but she'd have lost a lot of weight if indeed she had it. you need a lot of drugs to manage the pain, and the fact she's not on 'em (or on an iv line to replace fluids) says to me it's another bullshit diagnosis and more drug-seeking behavior.

the woman must sit all day looking at the Merck manual for new illnesses she can imagine she has. there're bad consequences to bad behavior, both financial and physical. tests aren't all w/o risk and doing them when they're not needed not only costs all of us money, it delays and denies treatment for people who really need it.

the enby stuff seems so minor by comparison - I mean, she's a guy with no dick who needs tampons, but she's a guy. right. she's a sick person who isn't sick but who wants to be disabled. who in their right mind wants to be disabled or if they are, to keep banging on about it? all the people with disabilities I know have their plates full getting through life. I don't know anyone who is disabled who has the time or inclination to write about it like she has. in a way, we've done her favor by taking away one audience and replacing it with a less appreciative one. not that she'd ever listen to reason, but maybe she'll use the opportunity to get out more.

the woman is a lunatic, plain and simple. whether it's narcissism or von Munchausen's doesn't matter. she needs a long time with a really good shrink but something tells me she knows more than they ever will, or so she thinks. and she'd tell us all about they all suck if she had a platform these days. oh. she doesn't any more. too bad.

In the old days she'd be called a hypochondriac. Now she's got an intersectionality score of 500 and is trying to be the most victimy victim of the victimverse, and she has thousands of people encouraging her to do so.

HAD thousands of people encouraging her.

I think she's reaching fewer people these days...

I only repost this because 1: I found it easily, and 2: someone living on fast food does not have chronic pancreatitis. Or if they do, they most want to keep on having chronic pancreatitis.

"Because they said that eating healthy should be everyone’s top priority, which ignores that someone like me would starve to death if I didn’t have fast food at my disposal, because my spoons need to go into avoiding a pain coma, not steaming my collards.

bunnika's blog: Apparently every doctor who specializes in orthopedics is a GIANT FUCKING ASSHOLE.So three months ago, I literally got told to walk it off. ”It’ll get better, and if it doesn’t in three months, we can try some tests.” She didn’t care that it had been getting steadily worse over the last 1 1/2 years, oh no. Fatty just needs to walk moar. -.-This guy I saw today, the one I was referred to by the Social Security Administration? Well first, he kept asking me to answer a question, only to ignore my answer and have me repeat it. He did this several times. He also essentially mocked me for not being able to pass his physical tests, kept talking to me like I was a child not understanding the assignment. FUCK YOU, JACKASS. I can’t pass those physical tests because I’m fucking disabled. Funny how weakness combined with agonizing pain can make it hard to do physical tasks. -.-And then he just flat-out called me a liar. "When did you go to the emergency room?” "Never. I didn’t have insurance.“ "Most people having pain that bad would go to an emergency room.” "I’m not most people.“ He then continued to insist that if I didn’t go to the ER, I was never really in pain. LOOK, YOU PRIVILEGED DILLHOLE: I AM FUCKING POOR. FUNNY HOW POOR PEOPLE OFTEN DON’T DO EXPENSIVE THINGS, RIGHT? Riiiiiiiiiiiiight. He also thought I was lying because I started using a wheelchair before it was prescribed to me (it has been as of several months ago, I just knew when I was uninsured that I needed one, so I got one).And he kept asking what other health problems I’ve been having, and in addition to making me repeat myself several times, he kept waving me off. "That’s not important.” "Just the important stuff.“ "I can’t sit here with you all day while you read all fifty pages of that book” [referring to my symptom diary]. He’d also never heard of IBS, and insisted that it doesn’t matter. He blew me off when I explained the vision problems I’ve been having lately [loss of sight, stars, double-vision, floating black spots] and kept insisting that he only had time for the important stuff. I told him, “That’s dismissive as hell, and sorry if I think losing the ability to see is important.”OMFG just fuck him so hard. I barely made it out the door before bursting into tears, and in my sobs, I said “goddamn,” and the security guard told me not to use that sort of language. I told him there were no children there, and I had every right to curse after having seen such a fucking awful excuse for a doctor. I also threw out several f-bombs on my way out, BECAUSE FUCK THIS GODDAMN BULLSHIT FOREVER.And that’s been my day thus far. Someone want to treat me to bubble tea? I deserve it after such utter BS. :-(

So I’m officially wearing my ECG for the next month.As I was thinking about it, before putting it on, I was like, “Oh god, what about when I have an anxiety attack? IT’LL SEEM LIKE I’M DYING.” And I seriously had an anxiety attack about having an anxiety attack.Meta illness. Not so awesome, actually.It really is ridiculous, but that doesn’t stop me….I also started freaking out because the monitor doesn’t have a measurement display, so I’m like, “OH GOD WHAT IF I’M NOT WEARING IT RIGHT AND IT THINKS MY HEART IS HEALTHY BECAUSE IT CAN ONLY REGISTER EVERY THIRD HEART BEAT??”#heart health #heart arrhythmia #heart monitor #chronic illness #anxiety #heart health #heart monitor #echocardiogram #meta"

She'll be back! She can't live without the throngs of people telling her she's not insane. I bet her fellow EnBY/husbands or whatever they are, are wanting to smother her with a pillow about now if she's cut off from her supply of crazy reinforcement.

Do the two husbands not have friends or family?

If they were one of my friends we would have staged an intervention by now, complete with an escape plan, packed bag, car running, hideout ready. A fucking kidnap if necessary, why has no one helped these poor saps?

She said in another post, she got into 'poly amours' after she married her 2nd husband the maths teacher, and a year into the marriage she met an ex and decided he still had feelings for him, so told the husband about it and he just said ok to it and she had an affair with the ex until he dumped her. The maths teacher never has any other partners, just gets walked all over (no pun) by this munchhausen cunt.

R371, my frenemy with factitious disorder harangued a pharmacist who wasn’t filling her order quickly enough. She was in SO MUCH PAIN (from an ear infection) and how dare he fill other prescriptions for people who weren’t even standing right there, writhing in agony and how long does it take to put some pills in a bottle? and her blood sugar is low and she needs to get her prescription so she can eat and so on.

And the guy was like “Lady, it’s amoxycillin, not Percocet. Calm down.”

The fact she said she isn't posting on Facebook anymore because she isn't spending much time online is a hilarious lie, all she does is post online the batshit crazy baggage

what is she's been posting here amongst us......

I can't imagine that, there's no posts here supporting her and her spoons.

R373, I think these people who pair up with people like Bunnika have their own damage. They have savior complexes and the Bunnika people make them feel like heroes.

R378 Stupid enablers

I agree with her point above (NB I'm not Bunnika).

[quote](NB I'm not Bunnika).

NB now means 'nonbinary' in today's newspeak.

'nonbinary' means what ever the fuck you want it to. But it is a very real immutable trait, just like sexuality or race.

Please adjust your language accordingly.

R381, I think r380 meant to type “n.b.”, which stands for “nota bene”, or “note well”. It’s a sort of side note the writer wants the reader to know.

The NBs can BITE MY ASS.

r382 please report to the functioning autistic thread....

Haha yes, thank-you R381, I definitely didn't mean Non-Binary! It can be written that way too R382 - in caps and without the full stops (periods in US). The point I was agreeing with seems to have disappeared or ended up way up thread anyway - it was about the difference between female genital mutilation and male circumcision.

I hated that I agreed with that too r384. She’s bugnuts crazy but on that point she’s right. Forget all the “appropriation” stuff, it’s just flat out not comparable to claim circumcision is exactly the same as FGM. It’s like comparing a hangnail to an amputation.

R385 Both are about control, both are about lessening sexual pleasure, so fuck Bukake

The bottom line with Bunnika is that if she really was 100% spazzed with EDS, schizophrenia, pancreatis and her other 497 ailments, she would never be able to come off nearly ALL her meds to conceive another child, which is what she was blogging about when I first discovered her on Tumblr.

Since then she got attacked by the guy who murdered her neighbour and has had to reinstate all her meds and stop trying to conceive, but she did it very reluctantly. In her words 'it makes me want to die'.

Now that Suzume has turned out cis, Bun is desperate to give birth to another potential enby.

I think you're right R387, if she was as disabled as she claims (and I think that there is some medical basis to all of this) but if her joints would 'literally explode' from holding her own book and she slipped into pain comas and subluxated all the time, then why/how would she come off her meds to have a third child. Not a first child, a third child, which is more than most non-disabled people have. Also, with all her poverty ad crowd-funded holidays how could she afford it? pregnancy is an ordeal for a healthy body. God knows, my perfectly healthy sister was very ill for nine months. And then there's the birth.

Perhaps she literally exploded and that's why her FB and Tumblr are disabled, out of respect!

[quote]but if her joints would 'literally explode' from holding her own book

That was ME!!! I am sick to death of Bunnika appropriating MY PAIN when I have literally been 300% more disabled in the first five months of 2018 than they have been in their ENTIRE life, cumulatively!! Let me tell you about MY PAIN...

Do they suffer from projectile subluxation*? Nope, didn't think so. You know why? Because I am literally the ONLY PERSON who has it. I've had doctors from EVERY country in the world LITERALLY BEG to study me. Could I go? FUCK NO!!!!

Do you have ANY FUCKING IDEA what would literally happen to MY BODY if I got on a fucking plane!?!?!

*To give you some idea of MY PAIN, the projectile subluxation is the LEAST painful of my disabilities. THE LEAST!!! Think about that for a minute and then go straight to my GoFundMe, because I am LITERALLY FUCKING EXHAUSTED FROM INTERACTING WITH YOU FUCKING ABLEDS!!!!

[bold]NOW FUCK OFF AND PAY ME!!!!!!!!![/bold]

Love you, R390.

You'd think the combined weight of her breasts and pregna t belly would cause such severe subluxation and dislocation that she'd spend the entire nine months in a pain coma.

I remember her saying she wanted 5 children and wondered why she is so keen to pass on all her defective DNA.

Check later guys; I found a lot more Tumblr blog posts from Bunnika which her friend had reblogged.

R392, oh good. We are able to see her blog via archives, but the Tumblr was better. More concise and the interactions with anons was deeeeeelightful!

Bless the Wayback Machine.

April 23, 2015:

"I changed my name, years ago. I was born Nicole, went by Nik because I liked the ambiguity. I specifically chose a new name (Anika) with N-I-K in it so I could keep my nickname if I wanted. Now that I’m settling into nonbinary life, I sort of wish I could use it, but it’s entirely tied up in how my mother (who was abusive/neglectful) and rapist called me that. I hear it in their voices.

Names are hard and I’m tired of changing them. I hate that the idea of using my own fucking name is tied up in abuse and pain. I want a clean slate and a new name with no gender attachment and no ties to abuse. I want a whole new life without any of this."

As if a name change would change history. Such is the power of magical thinking.

But did you send a card? "Someone please just remind me that killing myself on mother’s day would make me an even worse person."

Is I is or is I ain't? "I am fairly certain I am not bipolar and might be schizoaffective and/or dissociative. I’d be at the ER if it wasn’t mother’s day weekend. That’s not a memory I want to create for my children."

Don't bet on it: "I made a post to Facebook that I thought I’d filtered from work people but WHOOPS I missed the biggest gossip in the building and she just liked the post. It’s fine I was only confessing to being a schizo it’s chill not like literally everyone will know by this time tomorrow."

"Sometimes I think the light in my eyes is gone."

Has this past week been one of those times?

The best thing for her mental health would be to limit herself to like 30 mins online a day, for imperative stuff (bills, banking, emails, etc). Delete all social media.

Her only mental illness appears to be her internet addiction. (And opiate addiction.)

September 2017: "I'm Still Alive."

"Which I say not at all in that sarcastic way most people do when they’ve been gone a long time, but rather the reassuring way you do when people might seriously have been wondering if you killed yourself." Unh-huh...

"I’m dealing with my mental stuff as well as can be expected. I’m on solid new meds, and am making good progress. I’m also seeing a new pain doctor, one who actually seems to believe that I have pain, and who is willing to treat it. It’s a relief." She's found someone to give her drugs. Oh happy day!

"My eldest child is back in school now, and my littlest is on track developmentally. We started setting up baby gates tonight, preparing for when he is mobile, but I’m just not ready for it. I want him to be teeny forever." She's a weird control freak.

"I’m doing alright, on the whole. I’ll be okay. I just need to keep repeating that to myself until I believe it 100%." Keep on keeping on, I guess.

NO, r397! The abled literally do NOT get to tell cripples how to spend our fucking time!!!! The ONLY opinion of yours I care about is this: which do you prefer using?

A. GoFundMe

B. PayPal

C. Patreon

D. YouCaring

E. Apple Pay

The most annoying thing about the Tumblr activists is their unbridled use of the word "literally"

^^^^^^

Bunnika ranting because she wouldn't be approved to adopt children:

Anti-vaccine parents need to be hurled into the sun. “Oh I’d rather have a dead kids in an autistic kid.” Like seriously these people need to not be parents. Ever. They need to give their poor desperate children to me because they need some fucking love.

It honestly bothers me that I’d never be approved to adopt children. There are a lot of kids that seriously need love, especially disabled kids, especially autistic kids, especially the kids the most able bodied parents don’t want. And I really feel like I’m equipped to care for them.

But the fact of the matter is I’m a severely disabled, incredibly crazy person, who lives with two partners and children by various men. It does not look good to an adoption agency. If there’s one thing I believe about myself, it’s that I’m a good parent.

But outsiders look at the amount of agency I give my children and assume I have no guidelines. They see kids free to be trans and say I must be manipulating them. On paper, to these damn normies, I’m a terrible parent.

And it hurts me, because I want so many more children, but I’d prefer to be done carrying my own.

She can barely look after herself, let alone more children.

'They see kids free to be trans'

This is abuse in itself.

She seriously wants to adopt? She barely has enough spoons to make it through the day as it is!

One of Bunnika's friends, begging:

Help a black trans woman survive another week!

I hate asking but i’m currently in need of donations so I can eat this week. CVS caremark took my last little bit of bread for my prescriptions & i’m assed out for the rest of the week. If anybody wants donate my paypal is paypal.me/brienicol3 & my square cash is cash.me/briellenicol3.

Disrepectful/condescending/patronizing comments on this post will get you clean cussed out so let’s keep it respectful please🙏🏾 literally anything helps at this point. Thanks in advance y’all💜🦄🌹

Source: compassionlotion

I found a tumblr blog called fancyfade with a lot of reblogged bunnika posts, but damn I think she possibly closed the search feature just today, after I reblogged the adopting children post.

If anyone wants to try, just type bunnika in the search box and see if it works for you, it might just be my phone glitching.

R404 That shit is scary

January 30, 2018: from "Vaylin, but with good writers"

Where Bunnika says:

reminds me of that tumblr post w/ some people use respect to mean treating someone like a person…

that line of thinking reaaaallly leads to authoritarian parents who treat their kids like little mini obeyers. its like people liek that wonder why their kids don’t talk to them when they leave the house. it’s like.. because your only interaction was based on force. when they no longer *have* to put up with you, they won’‘t

The above blog's creator/creatrix is Fade. She self-identifies as follows: Fade is a white queer autistic girl in a wheelchair who reblogs a lot of random shit. ATM, my special interest is Star Wars, so expect that intertwined with the usual autistic spoonie blogging.

They said: "also, while we’re having this medical rant, if i never heard another dr tell me how rare it was for someone in fibro to need a wheelchair and insinuate i wasn’t actually disabled again in my life, that would be too soon"

All these pain fraus just love getting themselves a wheelchair just as fast as they can.

Remember Bunnika saying she could barely move and the next day telling an anon that she had the strength and energy to walk a big German Shepherd dog?

One day she's in a pain coma and penniless, the next she's got the money and ability to look after her own kids plus a brood of adopted ones!

The pretend disabled thing is just foul, their parents must be so ashamed

[quote]But the fact of the matter is I’m a severely disabled, incredibly crazy person, who lives with two partners and children by various men. It does not look good to an adoption agency.

You don’t say!

R405, she doesn’t want to adopt any more children. She’s bluffing and virtue-signaling. She gets credit for WANTING to, but she doesn’t have to put her money where her mouth is.

My factitious/histrionic frenemy does this. “When I’m feeling better, I’m going to come visit you and treat you to a really nice day out on the town. We can get our nails done, my treat, and then go have lunch! But my knees are really bad and the doctor said I can’t have surgery because my apnea from my deviated septum makes it hard to wear the oxygen and I’m too young for a replacement. And it’s hard for me to walk right now. But as soon as I’m feeling better I’m treating you to a really fun day! And then I’m gonna babysit your kids so you can go do whatever you want to do. But I am feeling so bad, honey. You’re so lucky to be healthy...”

Whoops posted too soon.

These people appear generous and know that no one will call their bluff.

R412. It’s disgusting. Especially when they’re trying to get disability. Fuck that.

It reminds me of those “stolen valor” people (usually men). It’s a slap in the face to those who actually serve.

Good news, guys!

The homophobic Gay Sam Part 34 thread, run by the rancid fraus who got the Queer Enby threads deleted, has been shut down!

They all admitted to trying to out him by writing 'gay actor Sam Heughan' as often as possible in order to trigger Google searches.

It has disappeared. Those fraus are weeping now.

Good news r417.

Damn, the thread seemed to have disappeared but is now back again.

These pathetic Sam fraus are persistent.

Keep criticising the homophobia on the Sam thread.

Who cares about a threat about a minor actor who is probably bi. Let them fantasy that he is bottom

They closed down the other two threads and will shut this if they can.

There's evidence Bunnika and the other pain fraus are stalking this thread, why else would disabled trans Fancyfade have disabled the search function on her blog? It was working around 7pm gmt yesterday when I copied that adoption post.

What the fuck are you queens up to in this thread - EXPLAIN YOURSELVES

I remember that r422, they are delusional thinking this is a hate thread about a poor trans family, missing the point that Nik is nothing but a grifter that make ppl think that LGBTQ communities are all fucking nuts just like her. This thread only comments based on her blogs, and yes, we have our opinions about it. My opinion is that she is nothing but a selfcentred straight woman playing the victim on every aspect of her life just to get her way. I think a thread in a gay site calling out her bullshit is almost necessary.

I agree, R424, Bunnika and her ilk attach themselves to the lgb community and make a mockery out of us all. Just when things were settling and we could get married and were getting some real equality, along come these freaks to make the whole community look ludicrous.

Bunnika giving her advice to young girls:

Notice that when these people misgender us, they also infantilize us by calling us “girls” instead of “women”? It’s because this has shit-all to do with who we are, and everything to do with making us seem inferior.

The best advice for younger girls trying to figure out life is to ignore men. In all seriousness. Ignore men’s judgments, men’s insincere compliments, men’s half-assed attempts at romance. Focus on yourself, on developing the true you. Practice your art, volunteer, act in theatre, play sports, invest in your friendships. Do not pour your energy into pleasing men.

If you decide to pursue men down the line, they will be there. But striving for male acceptance will waste your youth. You deserve better than anything those men can give you. You deserve a fulfilling sense of self.

And yet here she is, shacked up with not one but two white cishet males, taking every penny they earn and spending it on hair colour and dogs.

Whoops, Isaac the Tiny Trans Floof who gets triggered by mentions of alcohol and bodily fluids has deleted his blog too! The whole crip/trans/enby/wheelchair/begging community are watching this thread evolve in horror.

I wonder if they’re shit scared they’ve given out so much information about themselves that their various benefits scams / doctor shopping / opiate seeking are in jeopardy?

R423

Cheryl who?

Yes, r424. There is nothing to indicate Bunnika was ever anything but straight. I wasn’t able to see what her deleted plentyoffish account said, but she didn’t participate in any specifically les/bi forum discussions. (Bunnika joined in 2009, not sure if she was married or divorced or what.)

And if I may do some armchair psychiatry... I like to compare my factitious frenemy with Bunnika because they share many traits. My friend didn’t develop the factitious thing until her 20s. She was always a little histrionic and a bit of a hypochondriac, but the affection for medical devices and “disability” didn’t start until after she was in a car accident.

I theorize that the attention and concern for her wellbeing triggered it. All of a sudden, people were catering to her and she didn’t have to work and she got nice pain meds. Who wouldn’t want to prolong the special treatment? If you’re a young woman using a walker, people bend over backwards for you. If she wants to go somewhere and have fun, it’s because she’s having a “good day” and wants to make the most of “getting to be normal like you!” for a day (Bunnika at Disney!). If it’s something boring and drudge-y (like getting a job), she just can’t. She’s disabled!

But neither woman was always like this.

r431

Yes, she reminds me of me one time in primary school when I faked being ill to get two days off school, then when the weekend arrived I was suddenly all better to go out and play with friends etc. Then I remembered what the scam I was supposed to be running, come Sunday night the 'symptoms' miraculously started returning. Of course I was a 10 year old, not a thirty something woman with two kids.

r428

I think she already said the only income they have is the maths teacher's pay cheque, she failed all her social security disability tests with the doctors/psychologists, and posted about them expecting the reader to take her side.

R432, she did and she wrote in the full expectation of empathy from all the other wheelchair trans enby floofs on Tumblr. When she saw us here reviling her, she couldn't cope as she's been babied along by her spazzy online crip community for years.

R432, don't forget that the Landlord's pay has been more integrated 'as we face new struggles', meaning she's trying to get his entire pay packet off him for her, the Maths teacher and the two non binary kids.

I get the impression that the Beloved wanted to keep his money separate, but Bunnika was having none of that.

Now they're handfasted, the Beloved is going to be giving up his entire pay packet to pay for the third kid, new wheelchair, expensive computer games.

Whoa one of the Sam hoes has lost it and posted a monologue in German. A true frau!

She thinks everyone on this thread is a tv producer called Paul Comuso.

R437 This thread and the earlier ones really triggered one of the really messy Sam hoes, all those cunts are nuts

Yeah R431, like when you were allowed to stay off school for an extra day to make sure you were probably better, but you were basically fine and well enough to enjoy a duvet day in front of daytime tv and your lunch on a tray - except most us know that can't last. Interesting psychology with your frenemy, the funny thing is I understand that impulse (although I don't share it of course), especially for someone who may have been deprived of love and affection in the past (which may have been at the root of her previous hypochondria).

The weird thing about the body is that I think people can almost wish themselves ill, as well. If you start hyperfocusing on any aspect of your body you're probably going to start noticing fatigue or minor aches and pains, and if you convince yourself you have something then your body can start to mimic the symptoms a little (psychosomatically of course), plus the less you do the less you feel capable of doing.

I can really see how something like that can snowball until a person does experience some symptoms, or exacerbates some more minor ongoing problem (of the type most people have). The line between the psychological and the somatic can be quite thin can't it?

R439, yes, it’s a thin line. I know that older people get very invested in their poor health and enjoy the attention from doctors. Both of my parents would speak at length about their doctors. This one is so caring, that one is dismissive; it was like they were taking about romantic partners. It’s a way of feeling cared-for and listened-to as they approach irrelevance. Which is sad, but it makes sense.

When young people do it, it’s sad. Bunnika could be getting positive attention and doing good things with her time, but this is how she’s getting her needs met. It’s stupid.

My sister faked an illness and got several months off school as a teenager, and I got into huge amounts of shit with my parents for saying there was nothing wrong with her. Twenty years later, she finally admitted it.

A lesbian friend of a friend is, in my opinion, currently faking a chronic illness for attention, although I think she may have herself somewhat convinced that there really is something wrong with her (there isn’t), and she also now uses a wheelchair even though the doctors are really unable to find anything wrong.

I appreciate some illnesses have started out being dismissed as all in someone’s head and then turned out to be real, but there’s no denying some people exaggerate minor complaints or just plain make shit up. Bunnies probably has depression and some health issues with her joints etc from being overweight, and simply needs to stop sitting around whinging and do things (and I say this as someone with depression myself).

Lol sorry Bunnika not Bunnies. Clearly my phone found the name ridiculous.

I think that’s a valid point r441. Exercise improves both physical and mental health. If she can walk a large, strong dog she can take twenty minutes of brisk walking every day. If she can walk for twenty minutes she can cook instead of eating high fat fast food crap. Walking and eating some vegetables would cure a whole lot of her problems but that doesn’t bring internet sympathy and donated dollars.

Oh! But the spoons all those activities require, R443!

Thing is, when you get older, you do start various kinds of chronic pain, but how you deal with it makes a difference. I did a number on my back a few years back, so it hurts every day, but my response to it is to exercise and stretch so that it hurts less. Excess weight exacerbates just about everything, so the last thing I'd want is to put on a bunch of weight quickly.

Sitting isn't really good for you--the last thing you should want is to be in a wheelchair if you can manage without one. Of course the doctors see through her shtick.

At a certain point (usually when you're older), you realize you're not going to feel great, but exercise and eating well will help you maintain what you have. Which means you can do things.

But the Bunnikas of the world like being victims. I feel for her kids.

It's a fascinating subculture. I never knew there were any - let alone so many - people, almost all of them female despite what she/"they" say, who will go to these lengths for sympathy as well as cash and prizes in their fucked up oppression/pain/sympathy sweepstakes. Let's face it, half of Bunnika's appeal is that she can write. It's just that when she does, most of what she has to say is looney tunes. It's not just the NB "politics" around everything gender-related (or rather, the absence of gender-related because, hey! What you see isn't necessarily what you get) but rather the sheer volume of her prolific postings until she became "Girl, Interrupted" by suddenly having, how shall we say it - a less sympathetic audience? - starting to question her. I do wonder about the cumulative effects of offering the world so much information. She must not have enjoyed that Sunday when she realized that others outside her pain circle were slicing and dicing all she's written but I have to wonder what else she's been doing for the last five years or more. Where to find the time? And I wonder, too, if she ever thought it would come to this: all gone. Off the air. Silenced. Oppressed and alone.

It's summertime. She's not posting all day now so I hope she's getting outside a little and getting some exercise. It might use a few spoons but I have to imagine it'd do her a world of good.

Let's hope you are right r446, maybe this is a breaking point, an opportunity for her to change her life. It's really shocking when you see someone trapped on situations where they are very unhappy just for their own decisions. It's easy to spot from outside, but almost imposible when you are involved. She could use the blogs and talent to write a book; "What not to do to be happy and healthy". I know she inspired me to do some changes.

I can't believe Trans Floof Isaac (a 5ft female) has deleted her blog too.

Brand new Bunnika post:

bunnika:

I want to do a day of Exquisite Enbies. I’ve seen amazing love going around for other minorities under such tags, and today has proven to me how important it is for the nonbinary people here on tumblr to get some love, regardless of how we present.

I thought maybe if we can get enough high-profile enby-friendly bloggers supporting the idea, we could flood tumblr with photos (selfies and otherwise) celebrating the unique beauty and handsomeness of nonbinary folks. Text is of course welcome to accompany photos, but I want to see those diverse faces and bodies!

I’m more than happy to start it and reblog my heart out, but I need the support of as many folks as I can get.

How about April 30th? It’s close enough that hopefully this won’t be forgotten, but far enough off to build a good network of support.

So what I’m asking:

Reblog the hell out of this post! Tag enbies and nonbinary-friendly bloggers and ask them to help spread the word! Start snapping those photos!

This is needed. This is important. Help me spread the love.

On the one hand, her docs see through her BS when it comes to her [not] needing a wheelchair and not qualifying for disability benefits no matter how many dozens of pages of notes she shows them from her symptoms journals. On the other hand, she said she’s on 20(!!!) different meds at once (several of them opiates) and one would hope the docs would collectively or individually say “Wait a minute, no one should be on so many meds: you’re an addict and you need to get treatment for addiction.” I guess they see the futility of arguing with her and there aren’t enough treatment options for hardcore heroin addicts as it is so maybe they shrug and send her rolling on her merry way to the pharmacy.

The daughter appears to be healthy and doing reasonably well socially. Probably the influence of her grandmother and father, both of whom Bunnika seems to loathe, which indicates they’re pretty sane.

This hatred of her mother only appeared after the Beloved came on the scene and provided a much needed second income.

Prior to that, I found references to her mother paying for a secondhand mobility scooter and paying towards the rent every month. She got no thanks for it at all.

R451, that’s an interesting observation. Agree.

Bunnika also mentions that her mother observed her “allergic reactions” and wouldn’t allow her to eat candy and the snowballs that her family business sold.

And there has never been a mention of a father, which I find even more interesting.

One of Bunnika's friends talking about zir pronouns:

//Brin/Bo, 18, nonbinary and trans masculine(they/them, he/him, zu/zur/zurs/zurself, hi/hin/hins/hinself, hae/hem/hez/hez/hemself)// A place of support and positivity for all transgender and nonbinary people; You can also find me at raine-bo [TERFs, Aphobes, Transmeds, etc. don't interact]

Good Christ, how many sets of pronouns does one person need?!

What's a transmed?

How the hell are you supposed to know which set of pronouns to use in which situation? Is it a free-for-all and you can use hae in one situation, zu in the next sentence, and wrap it up with hi later.

And hi? Really? That's already a word.

Hi walked down the stairs, trying not to trip on zur sweater that hae dropped there earlier. He laughed at hemself. "You're such a slob."

This is not how language works.

It’s a trap to confuse you into using the wrong pronoun at the wrong time.

Then, watch out!

These freaks and their pronouns crack me up.

............

I just saw there is a Subluxation Saga 2 ?

This one isn't finished yet.

Back up in case the Sam Huehghan trolls get this thread closed down as well, maybe?

House Bunnies awaits as well.

Sublux II seems a bit premature. But if this one goes, we know what to do with the SH trolls, no?

[italic]“Nolite te Bastardes Carborundorum” [/italic]

Yep, R462, we persist, these freaks are better entertainment that the Handmaid's Tale.

Just the title of the thread makes me smile.

I love how a white woman has twisted herself, her psyche and her entire family into contortions convincing herself that everyone has privilege but her. She does nothing but pop pills, sit on her ass, and make up ailments both mental and physical to make sure everyone is paying attention to her at all times. If this isn't an example of white tears I don't know what is.

I suspect Bunny the Berater was in the SH is closeted threads trying to get these threads shut down.

vijara:

trans people do not have to medically transition to be valid in their gender identities

lots of people cannot medically transition at this point in their lives

lots of people don’t want to medically transition

trans people who don’t transition are still 100% valid in their gender identities

What about someone who talk like a woman, dress like a woman, reproduce like a woman, take the rol of a mother like a woman, but they are enby? How they validate what they are?

Bunnika:

I’ve got IBS, intestinal dysbiosis, chronic pancreatitis, and dietary restrictions flying out my ass. I don’t consider them as “disabilities,” nor would I class them with my mobility impairment, my heart condition, or my legal blindness. Fucking hell

I have no idea what that even means.

R469 Allow me to translate 'SEND ME ALL THE MONEY' Now you speak enby

Her 'legal blindess' is just being below -6 in your spectacles prescription. Millions of people fall into this category but contacts or glasses correct their vision so they're not blind at all.

I love how she keeps throwing out "legal blindness". My eye doctor told me that too, because I have terrible eyesight, but remarkably I pop in a pair of contact lenses or put on my glasses and suddenly I have 20/20 vision. And yeah I've said to people "without my glasses I'm legally blind" before, but I never used it in context of a "feel sorry for meeee" montage because it's a problem that is easily corrected. And I expect she's fine when she's wearing corrective lenses as well. The fact that she mentions it in her list of ailments just cements her attempts to go for the Oscar with how truly VICTIMIZED she is by the universe! Bitch, please.

Massive new Bunnika rant from another blog:

Since you were too fucking ignorant to comprehend before, allow me point out again: I have IBS. So keep that shit in mind, yeah? Keep it in mind when I say YOU ARE AN ABLEIST DICKBAG.

Wheelchair users “don’t have to regulate everything you eat”? Way to make fucking assumptions about why people are in fucking wheelchairs. Many land there from autoimmune diseases that drastically affect what we’re able to eat. Or you know, we’re just as fucking likely to have other diseases and illness, like I have IBS you ableist dickbag.

Wheelchair users don’t have to “make excuses about not going to school or hanging out with friends”? Oh yeah, maybe because most of the fucking world is inaccessible, so we just can’t go there. That’s our excuse. Can’t go to freinds’ houses because our wheelchairs won’t fit. Can’t go to that trendy coffee shop because there’s a step at the threshold. Can’t hit the club because it’s got a sunken dance floor. GO FUCK YOURSELF.

Wheelchair users are “protected by the law”? What fucking law? They don’t even fucking ticket ableds who park in our parking spaces. We’ve got no fucking laws on our side, because the ADA isn’t enforced at-fucking-all. But winglssdemon already ripped you a new asshole on that, so I’ll bow out on this point.

Wheelchair users “know people will get told off if they make jokes about [our] disability”? Are you fucking kidding me? Ever seen Family Guy? You know, one of the most popular shows on television? Ever seen how they treat the character in a wheelchair? OH RIGHT THEY MOCK HIM CONSTANTLY AS A SEXLESS, WORTHLESS ASS STRUGGLING TO COMPENSATE FOR BEING ~HALF A MAN~. And that’s only one fucking example you ignorant shitwaffle.

Wheelchair users “don’t have to justify [our] medical expenses”? WTF is this even? How do you know what sorts of trials we’ve had to go through to get diagnoses and proper treatment? I dealt with doctors gaslighting me and telling me “you’re fine, take some advil” for TWO FUCKING YEARS before I got a goddamn diagnosis and anyone began to take me seriously. I’m still being gaslit on the heart condition that’s related to my disability, so FUCK YOU for assuming you know anything about our medical experiences.

Wheelchair users “don’t get disgusted looks when [we] talk about [our] problems”? Again, how the fuck would you know? You don’t know why we’re in our chairs, or what experiences we have in them. I’ve had my own fucking sister shout and avert her eyes in horror when she saw my subluxed knees, so again, FUCK YOU AND YOUR ASSUMPTIONS.

Maybe YOU aren’t being discriminated against, which I can believe, because I’ve never felt particularly victimized on account of my IBS, but that’s because it’s a fucking drop in the bucket compared to the other bullshit I’m dealing with. If I could *just* have IBS, I’m sure I’d have enough fucking privilege to believe ableism isn’t real, and then ablesplain all over a bunch of actual targeted minorities about their oppression. Because shitting my pants doesn’t quite compare with the systemic abuse we suffer because of people like you.

It's a harrowing story she tells at r473. That said, it must be nice if when there's a sunken dance floor at the clurb you can simply stand up and park your wheelchair in a corner and then walk down and bust a move. Paraplegics should have it so easy. Does this wo-manatee know any war-wounded?

[quote]I have IBS. So keep that shit in mind

I’d much rather not.

Is that a recent post? Doesn't sound like she's having a good day.

[quote] I’ve had my own fucking sister shout and avert her eyes in horror when she saw my subluxed knees,

Wait so this is why she claims she needs a wheelchair?

The knee thing that she was sent for (demanded prob.) tests and x rays for only to be told there was nothing wrong with her knees.

[quote] Yet, I still have setbacks. That’s what my breakdown last night was. My radiology results were delivered, and I crumbled. Today, I realize that I went through the microcosm of grief all in the span of a couple hours:

[quote]Denial — I opened the radiology report, read “Impression: Normal examination,” then folded the report back up and stuck it in with the CD of my x-rays, and pretended I didn’t read it. ...

[quote]Depression — And then it hit. I shut myself in the bathroom and sobbed. Apparently I sobbed so loudly my partner heard me from downstairs and ran up to check on me. I had him stay outside at first. When I eventually let him in, I made him place his hands on my knees while I straightened my legs in front of me. This is real, feel this! The grinding, popping, clicking, shifting, it’s there, it’s real, and I needed someone else to feel it, to know I wasn’t making it up. Somehow, that one little radiology report made me feel like my very reality was a joke. I felt like they were telling me this disability was all in my head. And I disappeared inside of the self-doubt that had plagued me from the start.

All this crap about not being able to walk when we know she can; she was standing for her handfasting and said she could walk a German Shepherd dog when surely the pulling would cause her shoulders to subluxate.

R473, she shits her pants? Ewww.

She use the excuse about the subluxation to avoid excercise, you know, highly recommended on many of the illness of her book. The other allergies and IBD are the excuses to eat more healthy. She just put excuses to perpetuate her disabilities and victimitation.

IBS*

I really feel sorry for the kids. That type of self obsessed lazy assed narcissist cannot be a good parent. She spends hours upon hours every day whining and haranguing strangers online, begging for money, posting pics of her three partners and pestering doctors, where is the involvement in her children’s lives?

R482 "She spends hours upon hours every day whining and haranguing strangers online, begging for money, posting pics of her three partners and pestering doctors"

Not so much these days, wouldn't you say? Is she actually silent, or is she busy offline composing her [italic]magnum opus[/italic] about her pain because, remember, "it's all about me" and it's all about "my pain." She has thousands of posts to draw on in case it's a bad day for brain fog. I can't wait until her manifesto comes out - if indeed it does - as it'll provide lots of new material.

Until then, I hope she's getting out more.

I think the trauma from this thread and the other two caused her to fall into a pain coma from which she has yet to emerge.

And miss the oportunite of being the victime ?? Not happening

I'm busy subluxating, you fools!!!@ My life is constant agony!!!#

She is the disabled Übermensch.

I looked up 'pain coma' in online medical dictionaries and there's no such term!

What a lying hypochondriac she is.

Xyrlfriend in a pain coma, I know

I know, it's really serious

I’m comatose yet tender to the touch awaiting any glimmer of an update from our lovin’ spoonful

Love you, r489

So curious to see if we could flush BunBuns out of the bushes she's been hiding in, I typed 'subluxation' in the search bar of tumblr.... Here are a few of the bios of just the top few posts:

[quote]Adventures in autism, mental illness, and spoonie life. I blog about neurodivergence and chronic illness interspersed with feminism and fandoms.

[quote]Sabrina. 28. They/them. Queer. Autistic. ADHDer. Spoonie (endometriosis, fibromyalgia, and Ehler's Danlos Syndrome). Feminist.

....

[quote]MENA and mixed. Nonbinary. Pansexual/queer. Neurodivergent. EDS III. Dysautonomia. Writer. They/them

....

[quote]My name is Annie Segarra (aka Annie Elainey), I am a disabled queer woman of color and I am a YouTuber, writer, artist/singer/actor, speaker, and advocate.

[quote]I write blogs and create videos (as long as my health allows) on various topics including my observations and experiences with body image, gender, race, LGBT+, disability, chronic illness, and mental health. In addition, I perform creative work on the same channel; I share music performances, visual art, pieces of writing, as well as influences.

[quote]Please consider supporting my work by becoming a Patreon patron or you can also send one-time donations using PayPal.

....

[quote]|| hannah corinne | 21 | she/her | queer ace | disabled/bitter cripple | part-time student | cat mom ||

....

[quote] I'm Lia (she/her). I'm 29 and live just outside San Francisco. This is my disability-focused blog, but I often reblog posts about feminism, bisexuality, mental illness, racial representation, etc..I have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome type III (hypermobility type), POTS, and endometriosis.

....

[quote]Dayna | 24 | queer disabled jew |pronouns: she/her

....

[quote]My life under the Ehlers-Danlos Hypermobility/Type 3 big top trying to manage this syndrome and the multiple other disorders and issues that fall under it. It took 30 years to get a proper diagnosis and I did the majority of the work to figure it out. Sadly not an uncommon story.

[quote]Official Diagnoses: Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Mast Cell Activation Syndrome, Fibromyalgia Things on the List to Discuss: Gastroparesis, CCI (I think we're going to sort of be treating my neck issues as CCI a little) Things They Don't Seem to Care to Help Me With or Dx: Dysautonomia (POTS), pain management, GI/GP stuff,

[quote]I also have a couple mental health things but I don't really want to go into specifics here. I'm also a transracial trans-national adoptee

[quote]Wishlist Amazon wishlist Paypal PayPal Or you can send an anonymous $ tip even if it's $1, through: [html removed]

The Amazon wishlist if full of video games and gadgets.

....

[quote]Just Another Spoonie Blog .... 22 • unfortunately collecting mental and chronic illnesses • ASD • ADHD • IBS • ME • Anxiety • OCD • POTs • HSD • suspected MCAS

....

[quote]MENA and mixed. Nonbinary. Pansexual/queer. Neurodivergent. EDS III. Dysautonomia. Writer. They/them

....

That's just the first few I could be bothered to put up, but looking through the rest of them, all of them had at least one of the following: A reference to being queer/non binary/GNC/ace etc. A link to a begging account for money or gifts. Some type of or list of mental illnesses.

The "they/them" shtick is so exhausting.

Wow, so this a community, no just a few disable/ill/mental/queer/beggers. Seems like a syndrome. Im running out of spoons using all those / /

*Beggars

Nearly 500 comments on this, the third thread, and this one didn't even have any new quotes in it.

Bunnika you need to come back!!! We love you and your escapades here on DL

Let’s try to tempt her....

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FREE SPOONS! GET YOUR FREE SPOONS HERE!

Free Bi-Polar Pride Tattoos!!, 🎭

Her most famous post, liked or reblogged 185k times:

I seriously just had to teach my mother some basics of parenting.

Both photos are of my daughter in October, the first in 2011, the second in 2012. I let her pick out her own clothes, shoes, haircuts, hair colors, anything superficial, really. She’s too young to understand the permanence of piercings, so she doesn’t have any. But hair grows, shoes get grown out of, clothes go threadbare. These things don’t really matter—shouldn’t really matter—but anyone raising a gender-variant child knows the world isn’t that kind.

My daughter recently requested a haircut like mine. A long flop on top, pixie-length fade on the back and sides. She’s been bugging me for weeks to color her hair again, I just haven’t had the time. But today she came to me with the same shyness she keeps developing when outside our home; she’s being pressured by peers and family to look “normal,” to grow her hair long and uncolored, to dress a certain way (she hates to match), to indulge in self-consciousness, and alter or not alter her appearance to gain the approval of others, and society at large.

THIS FUCKING INFURIATES ME.

I called my mother tonight, because my daughter had become shy again, and didn’t want to color her hair anymore, and she said it was because of what her Nana had said to her. My mother told me we should get that spray-on Halloween hair colors, so it wouldn’t be so “permanent” and my daughter could be “normal” again to avoid being bullied.

IT IS NOT THE JOB OF THE VICTIM TO STOP BEING BULLIED. IT IS THE BULLY’S JOB TO STOP BULLYING.

I know she gets teased sometimes, and we always talk about it. She stays strong and confident, so long as she has the support of those around her. But what that support falters, or pulls a 180, she’s left to crash.

She also gets teased for liking dinosaurs and not dolls. She gets teased for preferring roughhousing to playing house. She gets teased for liking Lightning McQueen and not Cinderella. Where do we draw the line?

My mother thinks this is a “minor” thing, that it’s better to just blend in. But it would plant the seed of doubt, it forms the foundation for queer kids staying in the closet, for disabled kids to feel worthless, for young girls accepting abusive partners. This is not “minor,” it is fucking MAJOR, because this is my daughter’s foundation, and it will shape her life.

Support your fucking kids. Let them be who they want to be, look how they want to look, and play how they want to play. And make sure they know that you will love them no matter what.

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[quote]My point was that people shouldn’t feel like the only time their house should look nice is when company’s coming. It should be somewhere that you love and where you’re comfortable. And, as an extension of that – and this is something I practice in my own life – if someone feels that what I consider to be an appropriate level of clean isn’t good enough for them, they don’t need to be in my house.

"So far, Bunnika is not a chewer on the rugs, but she's barely 5 weeks now..."

Maybe she's chewing the rugs now. It's not like she's writing and posting and using up all her spoons that way.

'If you want vegan pets, adopt vegan animals. Get yourself a damn rabbit and stop abusing dogs and cats who require meat to live healthy lives.' (new Bunnika snippet)

Wheelchair tats on her legs - SPIN FAST, DIE YOUNG

'And this is just me being a generally snazzy and fashionable cripple.'

SHE ISN'T A GODDAMNED CRIPPLE.

Oops. Meant to post this, although r506 is relevant I suppose, since Bunny is an addict.

I was at my sister in law’s house today and we were sitting outside when youngest niece brought out her elderly pet rabbit, Bunky Bunny, to get some outside yard time. The rabbit ran about five steps, fell over and lay on his side dead still. I thought he was a goner but niece said “he does that all the time, Bunky just pretends to fall so you pick him up and make a fuss of him”. I was laughing so fucking hard, all Bunky is missing is a prop wheelchair and an unfortunate tattoo.

I just had breakfast with a friend and it made me think of this thread. His sister-in-law, after a couple of years spent obsessing about televisions watching her and cellphones recording her, has just diagnosed herself with electromagnetic hypersensitivity and a brain tumor caused by WiFi. She won't go to a doctor about this deadly tumor because having an MRI would kill her on the spot. And on and on the story went...

I just thought it was funny that with all of the made-up maladies the Bunnikites have, they never fall prey to the one that would keep them from their Tumblr habit.

Ehler-Danlos? I'll have one of those!

Fibro? Sign me up!

Morgellons? Yes, please!

Wilson's syndrome? Gimme!

Electromagnetic hypersensitivity? Nuh uh, no fank you!

Has she fully subluxated yet?

Let's hope she's not the next...

R511 Hope you are next

The homophobic SAM IS GAY threads have disintegrated, well done guys.

The raging OP who got our first threads deleted is the only one late. The sensitive German frau with the terrible English was offended by being compared to Hitler and stopped posting.

R153 Wrong. They are still going and still 5alking total fucking shit. They really are cunts

trans people do not have to medically transition to be valid in their gender identities

lots of people cannot medically transition at this point in their lives

lots of people don’t want to medically transition

trans people who don’t transition are still 100% valid in their gender identities

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R516, that is just so gross. No judgement from the Mail though because it's the liberal spazzy UK.

No online reappearance under her old name - I wonder what she's doing and what she's calling herself these days.

It’s probably hard for her to go without internet presence for any time so I’m guessing she’d go for something completely anti-rabbit but I can’t think what would be the Bunny antithesis.

It's just that my life isn't the same without the handfasting and the subluxating and the wheelchair giveaway (and the cat giveaway: can't forget that) and the many and varied factitious diagnoses and the two partners and the Enby-isms and the spoons and the eyeglasses and the huge ta-ta's and the fast food dispensation (healthy food prep uses too many spoons) and the Sunday in the Park with Bunnika photo, too. I miss it all.

It's exhausting just remembering it. How did she live it?

[quote]And this is just me being a generally snazzy and fashionable cripple. :-P

I reckon she'd go with something more hardcore this time, tying her flag to the enby world or the trans world or the schizo world or the wheelchair, pain coma world.

Maybe even enbynik or something.

Otherkin seems to be the only “ism” she hasn’t trespassed on yet. Wait for the trans-dragon drama. Oh, wait - better yet, trans-llama then she could be a full on drama llama.

I don’t think we should just assign otherkin status to her. She should have to work for it.

Bunnika v. trans-bunnikin would be a fair fight. I’d even be willing to chip in for a restaurant-sized container of Chubby Hubby for the winner. It will give them more incentive to fight dirty and win.

Tit-twisting, eye-gouging, paw-stomping, and hitting below the gunt are not only allowed, they’re encouraged!

The winner will be declared the most-oppressed otherkin in all of Tumbldom. The loser will be forever known as a winner, and no one wants that.

Her tumblr's back up!!!

It may be fake though...some of her reblogs seem odd.

as what? I find nothing new under the old name.

I just searched under "Bunnika" and "tenacirvescent" came up with her old picture.

They’re not active, but she had some jewelry stuff under “BrunswickBunny”.

When I try her Tumblr it goes to a shady dating site.

Yeah - it's "Explicite"

Couldn't find her blog, it just went to a dating site.

In the mean time to tide us over until bunbun's return, I suggest the adventures of whom Reddit has dubbed 'Mobility Mary' to binge watch who is very similar to bunikka.

She rents a mobility scooter from a scheme in west LA similar to the city bike program on your phone, and rides around LA with a GoPro mounted on it and documents her interactions with the world.

I don't know whether or not she actually needs the scooter but that's not important. She's very Bunikka-esq in her entitlement she is so sure that everyone is in the wrong that she's documenting it and posting it for the world to see.

That and the quite obvious cluster B personality disorders/autism.

It's not much fun when it's all on youtube.

I liked reading the bunnika blog entries here.

She's fucking insane, I'm amazed she posts up these things for all to see, thinking she's in the right.

What's so fucked about her is that driving in - clearly shown on her frikkin' video - she takes a left where it clearly says "No Left Turn. Right Turn Only."

"Rules are for thee, but not for me" is my takeaway from Crazy Lady's video encounter.

The Sam threads got shut down finally! Those hoes got our original threads banished.