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Gen Z and bisexuality

Why are so many gen z bisexual? It's not only girls anymore, a ton of guys are openly bisexual too. Are we seeing a shift in acceptance? If so that's great.

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by Anonymousreply 585April 8, 2022 12:17 PM

Only the hot guys actually crave cock. The fat ones and the ugly ones are just attention whores.

by Anonymousreply 1April 6, 2020 12:27 PM

Why do you assume they “crave cock?” Maybe they just crave boogina!?

by Anonymousreply 2April 6, 2020 12:29 PM

Who cares which way larvae wriggle?

by Anonymousreply 3April 6, 2020 12:32 PM

I thought people have stopped having sex now.

by Anonymousreply 4April 6, 2020 12:34 PM

What’s a tip tok?

by Anonymousreply 5April 6, 2020 12:39 PM

Forget guys being Bisexual. Now they're Heteroflexible.

by Anonymousreply 6April 6, 2020 12:48 PM

They are mostly straight

by Anonymousreply 7April 6, 2020 12:56 PM

I have noticed that many of the young guys come out as bi instead of gay. I'd even say more come out as bi than gay. Is there a reason? I just find it odd. Are some of them gay but come out as bi to get attention? Do they think it makes them more attractive or woke or whatever? We all know gay men worship straight men, so it's probably the same with bi guys. Some of these "bi" guys are femme and only dating guys. Seem more gay than bi to me. Then you have those who claim to be bi but are really just straight. You never see them with guys, they are always dating women. I think some claim to be bi for attention and just to seem more woke.

by Anonymousreply 8February 9, 2021 7:39 AM

They do it to seem edgy. Look, at the office here, we have a fag hag with green hair who is super jealous of any woman who is not obese like her and back stabs everyone. Has jeopardized projects both me and my roommate worked on and says she is a "socialist" who won't go to the mall (which is bullshit because in this Romanian town, the local version of Target, big pharmacies (which gave the flu shot which she said she got) and bigger supermarkets are all at the back of malls). She constantly says "I am LGBTQIAXYZF" and everything is "offensive" so she would run to HR all the time. She would follow one of the twinks in our office to the only gay club in town and drink and draw attention to herself when, in fact, she was totally unwanted and the few girls there either worked the coat room or would just stop in a sort of separate outdoor terrace place for a beer and pizza and keep to themselves (it's a different set up here). Totally inappropriate, attention seeking behavior that drew stares (which was what she wanted). One of the twinks at work told me that a few years ago a conservative Dutch fellow in his 60's asked her to live with him and have a baby (she's a very good housekeeper and cook and not ugly in the face) and she abandoned her principles immediately and went with him to Holland but was so odious that he kicked her out.

That is Gen Z....they feel "cool" usurping the LGBTQ identity.

by Anonymousreply 9February 9, 2021 7:55 AM

Being bi feels less threatening than all out gay.

by Anonymousreply 10February 9, 2021 8:00 AM

I think it's more the fact they're more aware of their sexuality.

Heterosexuality is the norm set by society, but it's not the human norm. A majority of people who call themselves straight are in the spectrum of bisexuality. But be it because they don't understand themselves, are bigots, or some other personal reason, they don't figure it out or refuse to accept their bisexuality.

With gen z tho, they're against against society's norms in general, so they're more open to admit they're not heterosexual, they're more open to experiment with the same sex, and they're more accepting of each other.

So even if their family and friends doesn't accept their bisexuality, they can turn to the internet and find others their age that are also on the same situation.

by Anonymousreply 11February 9, 2021 8:09 AM

What the fuck does rolling up/cuffing your pants have to do with being bisexual?!?

(and almost all the guys in that video come off as gay, gay , GAY)

by Anonymousreply 12February 9, 2021 8:18 AM

Cis straight oppressors are BORING!


I believe that has a lot to do with it. Not everything, but much of it.

by Anonymousreply 13February 9, 2021 8:26 AM

Yeah, the guys at my school are all bi or fluid, even the straight guys.

by Anonymousreply 14February 9, 2021 8:29 AM

I watched the TikTok but I couldn't see any cock.

by Anonymousreply 15February 9, 2021 8:43 AM

Bi is so 90s. The kids today are all pan.

by Anonymousreply 16February 9, 2021 8:45 AM

If only I'd known that all the dudes that cuffed their jeans in the 80's and 90's were bi, high school and college would've been way more fun.

by Anonymousreply 17February 9, 2021 11:27 AM

It's not much different from the past except now a few more males like to pretend they are bisexual just like females. They're really just pandering heterosexuals or cowardly homosexuals. But, at least they aren't calling themselves pan. Progress!

by Anonymousreply 18February 9, 2021 12:06 PM

GAY means you have to prance and mince and lisp. They don't want that

by Anonymousreply 19February 9, 2021 12:22 PM

I hope for the next generation being the sex-negative generation. We need Sex negativity to progress as a society.

by Anonymousreply 20February 9, 2021 12:25 PM

They're too unformed and lazy to BE anything specific.

It's a devolution to amoebae.

by Anonymousreply 21February 9, 2021 12:26 PM

Where do you guys live?

Male bisexuality is still extremely taboo

Mostly because women simply won't tolerate and want no parts of it

Even a liberal magazine like Cosmopolitan did a survey and found that almost 70 percent of women wouldn't date a man whose been with another guy at least ONCE

Women won't allow it

They can be bi, and straight guys love that, but men can't

by Anonymousreply 22February 9, 2021 12:31 PM

They were lectured to that the existing labels around them were offensive and derogatory. So they created new labels for themselves they feel are inoffensive. Only, the don’t view them as labels, lest they hurt their own feelings.

by Anonymousreply 23February 9, 2021 12:32 PM

No one on the DL seems to realise that most people are secretly bi.

by Anonymousreply 24February 9, 2021 1:08 PM

Uh, no, R24. Most people are heterosexual. Some people are homosexual. A few people are bisexual. Also, there is a difference between sexual orientation and sexual behavior.

by Anonymousreply 25February 9, 2021 2:29 PM

Oh whatever, it's been this same things all the way back to the 80s, when it was briefly cool and edgy to be "bisexual" (without ever acting on it).

by Anonymousreply 26February 9, 2021 2:32 PM


Where a dozen or so attention whores on TikTok are clearly representative of an entire generation.

by Anonymousreply 27February 9, 2021 2:34 PM

Well, some DLers clearly spend all fucking day on Tik Tok.

by Anonymousreply 28February 9, 2021 2:39 PM

Call me when they're actually taking a cock up the ass. Otherwise, it's performative bullshit for people with no personalities. Most of these kids have not even had sex, with anyone, well into their early twenties.

by Anonymousreply 29February 9, 2021 2:50 PM

Again women won't fuck with bi guys, so even if a guy was curious, he probably would never act on it because if it gets out it'll destroy his chances of getting pussy

Ask female friends, they'll all so NOPE

by Anonymousreply 30February 9, 2021 2:56 PM

My gay friends always try to dismiss male bisexuality, even when they have romantic and sexual attraction towards woman, I guess if you want to be in a community you have to be 100% gay, there is a thing called bi erasure in the lgbt community

by Anonymousreply 31February 9, 2021 3:01 PM

All these posts and opinions are violence! LITERAL VIOLENCE!!!!

by Anonymousreply 32February 9, 2021 3:08 PM

R14 and you do understand that they are only calling themselves such in a desperate attempt to find an identity and seem cool, right?

by Anonymousreply 33February 9, 2021 3:20 PM

And boomers and Gen X keep asking why why why on every bloody issue. Sometimes you don't have to understand every thing, nan.

by Anonymousreply 34February 9, 2021 3:23 PM

Another fad like gluten, every kid having ADHD, yoga, it all goes in cycles, next year it will be something else.

by Anonymousreply 35February 9, 2021 3:41 PM

I have a Gen Z brother that's ten years younger. I don't think the men are more likely to be bi than millennial men. There is definitely less stigma around it though so guys that fool around are more likely to be open about it. My brother called himself bi for a while and has definitely hooked up with guys in college. He has a long term girlfriend now, idk what he identifies as currently. In the past, guys who hooked up with guys in college would not openly discuss it or call themselves bi because of it.

by Anonymousreply 36February 9, 2021 3:47 PM

I think the whole issue of Gen Z and bestiality really shows the failure of parents in today's world.

All that fur and all those feathers and scales! Such a mess! Disgusting!

by Anonymousreply 37February 9, 2021 3:47 PM

It’s cause the guys are so hot these days and the girls drab as dishwater like the DAmelio girls and that Rae creature. Who wouldn’t rather fuck with the beautiful boys?

by Anonymousreply 38February 9, 2021 4:00 PM

It's all for likes and followers on social media.

by Anonymousreply 39February 9, 2021 5:43 PM

I don't really get what's surprising about this to people. Twenty years ago, If you were bi there was a huge amount of pressure to say you're straight so almost every single bi person did that. Most of us gay men would have done it too if it was possible for us to get it up for a women and enjoy sex. Society did not tolerate people who weren't straight.

Now there is no stigma attached to being attracted to the same sex so lots of people that were bi that would have called themselves straight 20 years ago now instead are openly bi. This is obviously the case and I don't get pretending you don't understand it just to make some lame joke about Gen Z wanting likes on social media or something else stupid.

by Anonymousreply 40February 16, 2021 5:35 PM

This is funny. You usually see the women do the bi panic schtick but this time there's a guy in the middle.

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by Anonymousreply 41March 8, 2021 10:07 AM

And yes, he's actually bi. He's in a relationship with a guy.

by Anonymousreply 42March 8, 2021 10:12 AM

I'm starting to think that only female bisexuality is genuine. 90% of bisexual men pine for pussy the whole time you're with them and end up ceasing same-sex attraction, marrying women, having kids and staying that way for life.

by Anonymousreply 43March 8, 2021 10:13 AM

The acid test comes when the experimenting is done and family pressure often forces them to marry their much more socially acceptable female partners. We just knew you were straight hon!

by Anonymousreply 44March 8, 2021 10:15 AM

Bisexuality is like alien life. For sure it exists but like UFO's, most bi's turn out to be sounding balloons...

by Anonymousreply 45March 8, 2021 10:19 AM

R44 True, but I have a feeling many of these bisexuals are actually gay leaning. I'm a Millannial so I'm out of the loop, but I do follow quite a few male bisexual gen z guys on tiktok. Many of them admit they are more attracted to one over the other, they usually prefer guys. I think the shift is happening where bi guys who are like 70-30 before would call themselves just gay but are now identifying as bi, even if they do lean gay. I could see it the other way around too. The guys who lean hetero are identifying as bi when they would have identified as straight a decade or two ago. But as I said, at least for guys, many (if not most) of the bi guys I follow do have a preference, a gay one.

by Anonymousreply 46March 8, 2021 11:31 AM

Because all people are bi, OP. Just you wait. Another 30 years max and most will be comfortable realizing and admitting they are bi.

by Anonymousreply 47March 8, 2021 1:44 PM

I think it’s they’s calling themselves “bisexual”, it’s not necessarily true. Most “bisexuals” are in straight relationships according to Gallup.

by Anonymousreply 48March 8, 2021 1:57 PM

[quote]Because all people are bi, OP.

No, I’m not bi. I’m gay.

by Anonymousreply 49March 8, 2021 1:58 PM

A combination of factors, one being a desire not to say no on the principle that, whether they are prepared to act upon it or not, it's negative (and somehow reflects poorly upon them). The other is that same sex attraction grows when there is room provided to act upon the opportunity. (All the bloody whining about "Why would anyone want to be born like this!?" overlooks the possibility that people steer away from/suppress or act upon feelings in some proportion to the idea that they perceive it to be a possibility.

by Anonymousreply 50March 8, 2021 1:59 PM

[quote]Another 30 years max and most will be comfortable realizing and admitting they are bi.

No. I don’t what this is referencing but I suspect it’s that gay or straight men are not into transmen or transwomen.

by Anonymousreply 51March 8, 2021 2:00 PM

[quote]The other is that same sex attraction grows when there is room provided to act upon the opportunity.

If I were trapped on an island with all women, I would never have sex again.

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by Anonymousreply 53March 22, 2021 5:54 PM

Why? Because society is now more accepting of something that is inherent to some degree in all humans. The pressure to suppress these tendencies is not as intense as it once was.

by Anonymousreply 54March 22, 2021 5:58 PM

Probably lots of bi now straight laters.

by Anonymousreply 55March 22, 2021 6:09 PM

Bisexuality was always rampant in the "straight male" community, but the world was too puritanical to accept it. Times change though, Bisexuality is more accepted now so men are willing to explore their inherit same sex attraction.

by Anonymousreply 56March 22, 2021 6:19 PM

I teach at a major university in a big blue city and yeah, they're all pansexual and fluid now. Getting a little more rare to see a jock and sorority girl together, which used to be the norm. Just a lot more diversity and acceptance of nearly everything now with the young college-agers.

by Anonymousreply 57March 22, 2021 10:21 PM

R20 what is that?

by Anonymousreply 58March 22, 2021 10:39 PM

More like this please

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by Anonymousreply 59April 6, 2021 1:43 AM

They’re just trying to be cool it’s not sincere. It reminds me of that line from Not if You Were the last Junkie on Earth “ You never thought you'd get addicted, just be cooler in an obvious way I could say, shouldn't you have got a couple piercings and decided maybe that you were gay,”

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by Anonymousreply 60April 6, 2021 1:48 AM

Not gay. Bi or mostly straight

by Anonymousreply 61April 6, 2021 1:51 AM

This generation will be even more insufferable when they reach middle age.

by Anonymousreply 62April 6, 2021 1:52 AM

No, they are cool

by Anonymousreply 63April 6, 2021 2:10 AM

Only on DL does the notion of defining a generation based on a handful of thirst trap TikTok stars seem like a good idea.

by Anonymousreply 64April 6, 2021 2:18 AM

Now that gay is normal for them and they see their seniors are getting married with kids and Monday night football, bisexuality is the new frontier.

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by Anonymousreply 66May 9, 2021 3:40 PM

Side dude

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by Anonymousreply 67May 16, 2021 11:59 PM

I think that trend is overly reported. It’s better than in the past, but the boys in this gen are still pretty homophobic. The girls far less so (homophobic), toward gay boys-particularly fems.

by Anonymousreply 68May 17, 2021 3:06 AM

Bi athlete

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by Anonymousreply 69June 3, 2021 12:16 AM

I love Gen. Z

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by Anonymousreply 70June 6, 2021 5:37 PM

Bi guys who are romantically heterosexual are the least likely of any group to come out. They often view their interactions with men as something purely sexual so they think there's no need to share that with friends, family, or even the women they date / marry.

There's been a movement to get more of them to come out as bisexual if only to raise awareness that it exists and to destigmatize male bisexuality. Most gays are out with family and work, most bi guys are not. so expect to see a lot more coming out

my friends brother did this. he's got a girlfriend but informed the family he was bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 71June 6, 2021 6:06 PM

the real reason why Gen Z straights don't have girlfriends and are forced to sleep with each other

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by Anonymousreply 72June 6, 2021 6:10 PM

Bisexuals treat their girlfriends as badly as they treat their boyfriends.

by Anonymousreply 73June 6, 2021 6:13 PM

Anyone who thinks people are just pretending to be bi to score cool points is an idiot. Clearly more people are just reporting as bi now that it's more socially acceptable to do so, whereas in the past people hid that side of themselves. End of story.

by Anonymousreply 74June 7, 2021 4:42 AM

I think more people are just open about finding the same sex attractive which is causing them to call themselves "bi". But way too many people seem to not understand acknowledging someone as attractive is not the same as being sexually attracted to them. Also, it's probably the same people who mislabel close same-sex friendships and intimacy as a sign of bisexuality. That's extremely regressive as well. Being bisexual means you enjoy having sex with both men and women. Thinking someone of the same sex looks attractive or being emotionally close to the same sex is not the same as actually being bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 75June 8, 2021 5:22 PM

[quote] I think that trend is overly reported. It’s better than in the past, but the boys in this gen are still pretty homophobic. The girls far less so (homophobic), toward gay boys-particularly fems.

I've noticed that too. I think the girls are still a bit homophobic in that they only acknowledge fem gay boys and love to appropriate drag culture and stereotypes. When they met boring/low-key gay boys who don't fit their stereotype and lack interest in feminine things, they tend to act surprised or annoyed.

by Anonymousreply 76June 8, 2021 5:31 PM

it's because there's no meaningful way to be cool or different like there was in the past with grunge or emo or other subcultures. everything is available to everyone now because of the internet so all this "open" bisexuality stuff is just a way to signify edginess due to there still being a notable "taboo" around it in most places. also, there is a certain subset of women (mostly women who identify as "bisexual" themselves or dye their hair weird) that is into these very feminine bi seeming guys. zoomer girls LOVE timothee types.

by Anonymousreply 77June 8, 2021 6:11 PM


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by Anonymousreply 78June 13, 2021 9:16 PM

I think most everyone is on the spectrum, as Kinsey hypothesized. Gen Z is generally more tolerant of a wide range of diversity, so if they're feeling like they're a 3/10 or a 8/10, it's easier to come out and say it than it was for previous generations. They're not as judgmental . . . well, perhaps it's more accurate to say they judge you for different criteria (e.g., insta-worthiness, etc.)

by Anonymousreply 79June 13, 2021 10:00 PM

I agree that most everyone falls somewhere on the bell curve but the lower you are on either side will override any attraction to whichever side you fall on if that makes sense. In other words, there will always be a bias for your preference. Your mind will assume you are straight or gay the lower you are on either side.

by Anonymousreply 80June 13, 2021 10:17 PM

I work with Gen Z'ers. 90-95 of the guys are still straight. Anyone who claims he is bi is either really gay or just seeking attention.

by Anonymousreply 81June 13, 2021 10:25 PM

I meant 90-95 percent.

by Anonymousreply 82June 13, 2021 10:26 PM

R81,Dont be a loon dude

by Anonymousreply 83June 13, 2021 10:30 PM

R20 that is the next trend on the horizon, I think.

Can’t remember the author or the title anymore, but years ago I read a cheap low-rent sci-fi paperback about a fictional future Earth where society had eliminated the need for sex to reproduce, and so sex had become this atavistic backward act that was societally frowned upon (like shitting in the street or in open sewers). People who discovered to still engage in sex on the underground were considered untouchables, and those conceived by sex were derisively called ‘orgs’ and treated like savages.

by Anonymousreply 84June 13, 2021 11:03 PM

I assume that a LOT of people would respond to A LOT of different types of people sexually, but is that really bisexual? I don't know. I can identify beautiful people, especially beautiful women. But I am not attracted to them. It's just an acknowledgement or maybe envy. I still think if you really want to know what your sexuality is, you should think about who you used to have crushes on. OMG my nosy fifteen year old son just looked at what I was typing.

by Anonymousreply 85June 13, 2021 11:16 PM

I have crushes on women and dudes

by Anonymousreply 86June 13, 2021 11:22 PM

I can relate to that R85. My dad always had playboy models pics in his garage. I used to pick out the most beautiful would just stare at them. In my early twenties, I sometimes wondered if I was bi or a lesbian, So I had sex with a woman and was seriously bored. I decided that my attraction to women was that I saw their beauty as purely artistic.

by Anonymousreply 87June 13, 2021 11:24 PM

Did you get it up, bro?

by Anonymousreply 88June 13, 2021 11:27 PM

R87 is female.... bro.

by Anonymousreply 89June 13, 2021 11:32 PM

R87 I went to a strict girls’-only school from age 12-18, and there was a lot of girl-girl romantic & sexual activity going on that in retrospect I would now describe as half-hearted situational convenience.

Many fellow girls I knew at the time engaged in lesbian activity, and dozens even openly called themselves bi or lesbian to friends & family, but a decade on from that time only a handful of all those girls are still actively pursuing women for sex or love. A lot are ‘queer’ women in Hetero marriages with kids.

Interestingly, the few of my old class who are currently dating women or openly calling themselves lesbian were the ones in deep the closet and not the ones having causal lesbian sex or dates back then. The real gays were in hiding as vulnerable kids, because they had much to fear and something to protect.

by Anonymousreply 90June 13, 2021 11:36 PM

[quote] I work with Gen Z'ers.

You work at Pizza Hut?

by Anonymousreply 91June 14, 2021 6:02 AM

Gen Z is lit

by Anonymousreply 92June 14, 2021 9:50 PM

Bi King

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by Anonymousreply 94June 19, 2021 8:05 PM


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by Anonymousreply 95June 19, 2021 8:06 PM

It’s queer pressure.

by Anonymousreply 96June 19, 2021 8:06 PM

If you are anything other than full hetero, it gives you an opportunity to maintain that you are misunderstood, perhaps even discriminated against — dare I say (fully tumescent here) oppressed. That’s the pole position in modern social discourse.

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by Anonymousreply 98June 20, 2021 12:55 PM


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by Anonymousreply 99June 23, 2021 3:54 AM

What label applied when you date non-binary folks?

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by Anonymousreply 100June 24, 2021 1:10 AM

My personal experience as a Millennial with Gen Zs seems to confirm this with some particular observations. Let me remind you that the oldest Gen Z is 26 already, this is not exclusive of teenagers.

I rent from a veteran who seems to love army guys, so basically all my neighbors are either in the military or somehow connected to it. They're between 23-28. My next door neighbor says he's straight, but keeps asking me, an out gay guy what I think about bisexuality, all the time. He's 24, never dates, he's kind of gloomy and sad and once told me he had fucked women for sex only and it was the worst feeling for all of them. He wants true love.

They smoke weed so I've joined them before and that's how the real scoop comes in. Theres an openly gay army guy there, who even hugged me when we met. He's very hot but not really my type, but I was aware that he dated another army guy now in prison for whatever he did, he was also a dirt biker, it has to do with drugs and violence. I sometimes hear him fucking women, I even mentioned this before on DL on other threads, he still calls himself gay and so do his friends, even though he fucks women randomly.

Why? You tell me. Then the other 3 we hang out with, claim to be straight, but all have told me in private they had same sex relations and one of them even is in love with a guy who's married. So in my experience they're really blurring the lines, and this is coming from guys with a very masculine perspective.

by Anonymousreply 101June 25, 2021 9:35 PM

I forgot to mention this dude who's really into showing his videos fucking girls, he really shows them, then one day the other army dude came to me and said they had fucked many times while drunk and that even though he loves to fuck women he thinks the other dude is a closet case with a reputation for rough sex with guys.

by Anonymousreply 102June 25, 2021 9:40 PM

[quote] I'm starting to think that only female bisexuality is genuine. 90% of bisexual men pine for pussy the whole time you're with them and end up ceasing same-sex attraction, marrying women, having kids and staying that way for life.

Not my experience at all. Most of my exes were true bisexual men. Are you from an old generation?

Some are married to women today, others are dating guys. There is a spectrum though on how they relate to it. Some have emotional attractions to one gender and only fuck the other and the other way around. It's as diverse as anything else.

by Anonymousreply 103June 25, 2021 9:50 PM

The oldest GenZ is turning 23, by some definitions 21

by Anonymousreply 104June 26, 2021 2:37 PM

I believe that straight people mostly fake it out. Just because of religious constraints and “how my family will judge me” are why so many men are unhappy with women and in return, their sexuality. A great amount of men are gay — they just choose to fake it out their whole lives.

by Anonymousreply 105June 26, 2021 2:42 PM

R11 That is bullshit. Most people are straight.

by Anonymousreply 106June 26, 2021 2:42 PM

[quote]R56: Bisexuality is more accepted now so men are willing to explore their inherit same sex attraction.

Oh, dear.

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by Anonymousreply 108June 26, 2021 3:01 PM

Alors on danse

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by Anonymousreply 109July 9, 2021 4:33 AM

Just what we needed, more queenie bottoms...

by Anonymousreply 110July 9, 2021 4:41 AM

"It's not only girls anymore, a ton of guys are openly bisexual too"


by Anonymousreply 111July 9, 2021 4:44 AM

[quote]R45 Bisexuality is like alien life.

Is it really that scary??

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by Anonymousreply 112July 9, 2021 4:46 AM

I’m only into bi and mostly straight bros

by Anonymousreply 113July 9, 2021 4:50 AM

[quote]R104 The oldest GenZ is turning 23, by some definitions 21


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by Anonymousreply 115July 9, 2021 12:05 PM

Social media bi

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by Anonymousreply 116July 12, 2021 10:40 PM

They’re not.

by Anonymousreply 117July 12, 2021 10:55 PM

This Russian twink is in dangerous territory with this type of vids. His account was just restored after he got banned probably ordered from the Gulag.

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by Anonymousreply 118July 12, 2021 10:56 PM

Fine AF

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by Anonymousreply 119July 13, 2021 12:32 AM


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by Anonymousreply 121July 16, 2021 9:09 PM

No labels bro

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by Anonymousreply 122July 17, 2021 12:41 PM

[quote]Why are so many gen z bisexual?

Because they are 20 years old! No one knows fuck about themselves at that point. Round them all up by ten years and you’ll see heteronormative square men and women all through them, just like counterculture boomers started out hippies and later because Wall Street lawyers

by Anonymousreply 123July 17, 2021 12:48 PM

Not really r123. This is much different, as researchers note.

by Anonymousreply 124July 17, 2021 1:45 PM

Mass thirst

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by Anonymousreply 125July 18, 2021 12:04 PM

It’s called pink money.

by Anonymousreply 126July 18, 2021 10:57 PM

Boner Alert 🚨

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by Anonymousreply 127July 22, 2021 1:44 AM

Everyone is bisexual. Except Bruce.

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by Anonymousreply 129July 22, 2021 10:07 AM

Bisexual, not biromantic

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by Anonymousreply 130July 25, 2021 12:46 AM

Keeping their options open?

Apparently sex rates have plummeted for guys as a whole (though the ones getting sex are getting more) Which makes sense with hookup apps, social media, online dating.

by Anonymousreply 131July 25, 2021 12:50 AM

R129. Yea, bruce. That one. We all know one.

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by Anonymousreply 133July 25, 2021 1:29 AM

I wonder if the current wave of sexual fluidity we're experiencing might have happened in the mid 1980's if AIDS hadn't slowed the progress of acceptance of homosexuality and bisexuality. It certainly seems like that's where things were headed until AIDS became associated with non-heterosexual sex, and pushed people back in the closet or away from their true sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 134July 25, 2021 3:29 AM

I don't believe everyone is as fluid as they say. Not that no one is; fluidity probably has increased overall, but not as much as it might seem. Kids on social media in this day and age - if they fuck girls, but think a guy at school is cute (or turn that around) - they're bisexual .

by Anonymousreply 135July 25, 2021 5:30 AM

[quote]Apparently sex rates have plummeted for guys as a whole (though the ones getting sex are getting more) Which makes sense with hookup apps, social media, online dating.

I read that study or at least a study on it.

It came down to, young men and women drink less than they previously did so the rate dropped for both groups. Men also play more computer games and live at home with their parents longer. Student debt and financial insecurity didn't play a role. Women who use the internet a lot actually had more casual sex than women who didn't.

Gen Z's parents are Gen X and Older Millennials and I think that plays a huge role in how they have grown to be more open about their sexuality. Both groups grew up in a time where people were pushing for more acceptance. They didn't have Billy Crystal on Soap. We had Ricky on My So Called Life, LGBT clubs in school, A Shot at Love with bisexual Tila Tequila, and Will & Grace. All of that had to make an impression. Gen Z gets to grow up with gay marriage, gay apps and Pride sales from Nike. I'm sure things are terrible in some parts of the country but things are improving from a few decades ago.

My nieces and nephews have a cousin who came out as gay. My aunt whispered it to them since she saw it on Facebook. One asked her, "Why are you whispering?" My niece said, "He's gay? Oh." Then they went back to talking about whatever random show they were talking about. They have gay and bi friends at school. They see people on TV. Their moms and dads don't care because they were already prepared for it from seeing it beginning to be brought out more into the open growing up.

by Anonymousreply 136July 25, 2021 7:15 AM

R23 is ancient

by Anonymousreply 137July 25, 2021 7:45 AM

These are kids just playing around and having a quick joke.

Seven of them have already been taken down.

They are fickle and not to be trusted.

by Anonymousreply 138July 25, 2021 8:03 AM

Not bi, Homiesexual or Brosexual

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by Anonymousreply 139July 25, 2021 8:13 AM

Some of it is a fad. A guy jerks off with a buddy and now he's bi or pan or whatever.

by Anonymousreply 140July 25, 2021 8:22 AM

It doesn't even count unless they're capable of sustaining long-term romantic and sexual relationships with both women and men. There are tons of men and boys who will (gladly) mess around with the same sex, but those who are able to go beyond that with both sexes are relatively rare (women, of course, are a different story).

by Anonymousreply 141July 25, 2021 12:18 PM

That’s garbage. Being bisexual or homiesexual or mostly straight does not depend upon ability or preference for romantic relationships. It’s defined by sexual attraction, including sexual attraction that one may never act upon. The majority of mostly straight, homiesexual, and bisexual men will never have a committed relationship with another men. They still aren’t straight or totally straight

by Anonymousreply 142July 25, 2021 1:49 PM

R1 It's the opposite for lesbians. The fat ugly ones are the real deal. The pretty fit ones are in it for clout.

by Anonymousreply 143July 25, 2021 2:08 PM

Bi Panic

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by Anonymousreply 145July 27, 2021 1:12 PM

[Quote] The majority of mostly straight, homiesexual, and bisexual men will never have a committed relationship with another men.

Like homosexuals then.

by Anonymousreply 146July 27, 2021 1:21 PM

Hehe good one

by Anonymousreply 147July 27, 2021 1:30 PM

It’s like being back in the Roman Empire times everyone iis fucking everyone.

by Anonymousreply 148July 27, 2021 1:37 PM

People are more open about their sexual attractions, but there is much less actual sex

by Anonymousreply 149July 27, 2021 2:35 PM

Because being gay isn't woke enough for them. You have to be open and fluid to all ~experiences for gen Z to take you seriously. Notice how a vast majority (85%+) of bisexual women are in heterosexual relationships. A lot of these bisexual men and women will never be caught dead with the same sex. Being straight or flat out gay isn't cool anymore.

by Anonymousreply 150July 27, 2021 2:42 PM

I have to laugh when old gays mirror old straights ("Oh, everyone's X to be fashionable!").

by Anonymousreply 151July 27, 2021 2:45 PM

R150, it’s the opposite of wokemess. Most guys want to avoid identifying as “gay” because they associate it with being uncool or unmanly. Hence, they embrace alternative identities that allow them to express same-sex interest without taking on the crippling baggage and stigma of gay male identity.

by Anonymousreply 152July 27, 2021 5:04 PM

Nah. It's more about maintaining female interest.

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by Anonymousreply 154July 30, 2021 12:54 PM

Get outta your bubble OP! Homophobia's never been the problem for rich White cisgender identifying males that it's been for everyone else.

Everyone else has always been fucked by a homo-hating society which STILL discriminates and bashes gay/bi people.

The tick-tock attention whores will do anything to drive traffic to their pages! Those freak shows don't represent the masses. All are exploiting homosexuality and many are likely not even gay/bi.

I don't believe the younger generation is any more accepting than their parents. They are just more "tolerant." There is a difference.

by Anonymousreply 155July 30, 2021 1:34 PM

R154 lol

by Anonymousreply 156July 30, 2021 1:35 PM

There are not more bisexuals- there are fewer closeted homo- and bi- sexual. While we have a way to go, things have gotten easier for the non straight.

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by Anonymousreply 158July 31, 2021 11:32 AM

Bi muslims

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by Anonymousreply 159July 31, 2021 1:49 PM

R159, I was excited until those words appeared to come out of his mouth.

by Anonymousreply 160July 31, 2021 2:03 PM

As always, the freudian trolls never disappoints in such threads.

Also, women who avoid "bi" men are queens and have self-respect.

by Anonymousreply 161July 31, 2021 2:24 PM


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by Anonymousreply 162July 31, 2021 10:26 PM

Legs wide open bro

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by Anonymousreply 163August 1, 2021 11:31 PM

Stop posting TikTok links.

by Anonymousreply 164August 2, 2021 12:17 AM

Because gay and bi guys are far more prone to become TikTok attention whores than straight guys OP

Nothing to do with Gen Z or there being a lot more bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 165August 2, 2021 12:21 AM

That’s a fanciful lie

by Anonymousreply 166August 2, 2021 12:56 AM

This is a mix of people.

Some are gay (putting their pinky toe outside the closet - fully prepared to say "it was just a joke" if needed).

Some are clearly not gay.

I don't believe ANY of these guys are bi. BTW, are guys really still trying to say "Bisexual" is a thing? Are we still believing that shit? Really?

One thing is clear - they are all attention whores and using the "I may be gay" as a way to generate discussion & traffic to their pages!

It's working! So they will keep doing it!

by Anonymousreply 167August 2, 2021 5:16 PM

The Kiss or Slap bro

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by Anonymousreply 168August 2, 2021 5:17 PM

R167 is so ignorant. Bisexual and mostly straight identity and behavior has skyrocketed over the last decade. In fact, many current surveys show more males identify as bi or mostly straight than gay.

by Anonymousreply 169August 2, 2021 5:30 PM

R169 Are you serious right now? "Mostly straight?" What the fuck is that? LOL Do you realize how stupid you sound right now?

You are either sucking dick or you aint! This aint complicated.

You must be young. The earth has been populated for millions of years. We don't need new terms & phrases. Just admit you're a homosexual. You may still do other things too and that's cool, but you're gay. There is nothing wrong with that. Accept it.

Try telling the a young woman and her parents that you want to marry her and you're "mostly straight!"

They'd throw your looney ass out faster than Uncle Phil threw Jazzy Jeff out on the Fresh Prince of Bel Air! LOL

by Anonymousreply 170August 3, 2021 9:25 AM

R170 is so very ignorant and outdated

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by Anonymousreply 171August 3, 2021 10:52 AM

I read that as Gen Z and bestiality (shudder). And no, most of them are not bi, they're just attention whores.

by Anonymousreply 172August 3, 2021 10:56 AM

More hot, masculine athletic dudes available is a great thing! These are awesome times

by Anonymousreply 173August 3, 2021 11:06 AM

Oh, the stink of the sad, jealous rage coming off this thread.

Come to terms with it Eldergays: the world is better now (in some ways), these kids are sincere, and they are definitely happier than you were at their age. I'm sorry your own youths were so awful, but at least try and take some kind of grandfatherly pride in society's progress.

by Anonymousreply 174August 3, 2021 11:34 AM

Gay adjacent

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by Anonymousreply 175August 5, 2021 3:16 AM

R171, you can call yourself whatever you want, but if you are a man taking another man's cock in your mouth, you are Gay Gay Gay! LOL

by Anonymousreply 176August 5, 2021 4:28 PM

‘Gay adjacent’ sounds like you’re just unwittingly standing next to a gay person in line at the store or sitting next to them on the subway..

by Anonymousreply 177August 5, 2021 4:35 PM

“ [R171], you can call yourself whatever you want, but if you are a man taking another man's cock in your mouth, you are Gay Gay Gay! LOL”

What if you never want to suck Dick, never have, and never will? What if you ONLY liked to be sucked by dudes?

by Anonymousreply 178August 5, 2021 6:10 PM


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by Anonymousreply 179August 5, 2021 6:38 PM

Love the hot pan dudes

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by Anonymousreply 180August 5, 2021 9:38 PM

[Quote]What if you never want to suck Dick, never have, and never will? What if you ONLY liked to be sucked by dudes?

It is the same thing. If you are attracted enough to have sex with another dude, you are gay.

I want all you new fangled people thinking you have come up with something new to look up the definition of "homosexual."

That's what you are. You may not want to be, but you are. You may want to rename it, but that is what it is.

by Anonymousreply 181August 6, 2021 3:42 AM

Things get renamed and parsed all the time

by Anonymousreply 182August 6, 2021 11:30 AM

R182 And it changes nothing. All these knew names are inconsistent with GAY pride. Be who you are and be proud.

by Anonymousreply 183August 6, 2021 2:42 PM

Not really. They are being who they are. Sorry that upsets you dude

by Anonymousreply 184August 6, 2021 3:27 PM

Personally I take no issue with horny young guys getting it on and telling the world all the wet messy details—I think it’s hot.

It’s the way these wains have to turn it into a suddenly-important personal crusade for identity while pretending an enormous historied homoerotic/romantic culture doesn’t already exist having nothing to do with them that irks. You can tell these ignorant slutty hormonal himbos have never actually picked up a history book or read a novel or seen a play with m/m content.

by Anonymousreply 185August 6, 2021 4:26 PM

Huh ?

by Anonymousreply 186August 6, 2021 6:00 PM

[quote] you can call yourself whatever you want, but if you are a man taking another man's cock in your mouth, you are Gay Gay Gay!

R176 None of these millennials doing their one-joke little Tik-Toks are shown taking a man's cock in their mouth nor touching one nor showing one.

by Anonymousreply 187August 6, 2021 9:35 PM

Claiming bisexuality is becoming like another box that kids feel they have to tick in order to be "edgy", without actually doing anything that involves, well, sex with other people. My straight friends have a son and a daughter who claim to be bi (20 & 18). Both have never been out on an actual date, kissed anyone and can't even even look someone in the eye while they're talking to them. I can't imagine how crap they're going to be as sexual partners one day.

by Anonymousreply 188August 6, 2021 10:10 PM

So? Your ignorance about the definition of bisexuality is on full display here

by Anonymousreply 189August 6, 2021 10:14 PM

Nah but your denial and/or ignorance is on full display R189

by Anonymousreply 190August 6, 2021 10:17 PM

Naw dude

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by Anonymousreply 192August 7, 2021 5:32 PM

Media brainwashing!

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by Anonymousreply 194August 7, 2021 5:35 PM

Fine ass bro

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by Anonymousreply 195August 8, 2021 2:04 AM

No. They are just self centered attention whores who like more people to comment on their thirst traps. Most of them are just straight guys who like the adulation.

by Anonymousreply 196August 8, 2021 2:28 AM

Mostly straight bros are hot, and are most of the dudes I mess around with

by Anonymousreply 197August 8, 2021 3:20 AM

It's the same as it ever was. They just might be more open about it than their grandfathers. The amateur pron sites are chockful of videos "married bear cums over to get his ass plowed".

by Anonymousreply 198August 8, 2021 3:32 AM

Baseball fan

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by Anonymousreply 199August 8, 2021 3:52 AM

I get it that a lot of gay guys wanna feel "normal" in a heterosexual world that calls you a freak.

But sucking a guys cock who also sleeps with women (while it may make you feel straight-adjacent) does not make him any more straight than it makes you "normal" in a heterosexual world.

by Anonymousreply 200August 8, 2021 10:04 AM

Seems like the bi guys on tiktok are either mostly gay or mostly straight. Some of the guys who claim to be bi only date women, and some only date men. I think the 90 % straight bi guys claim to be bi because they want to see more woke, and they want attention. The 90 % gay bi guys claim to be bi because bi men are more accepted than gay men, and the fantasy for some of the fangirls will still be alive.

by Anonymousreply 201August 8, 2021 11:17 AM

You realize being bi doesn’t mean you’re equally attracted to both sexes or necessarily open to being in romantic relationships with both sexes? Most bi people are more attracted to one sex than the other, or more willing to be in committed relationships with one sex than the other. In fact, most bi guys tend to only date women, but acknowledge samesex attractions to some males. Many bi people have never had sex with the samesex, despite attractions. It’s 2021. You should already know these basic facts about bisexuality.

by Anonymousreply 202August 8, 2021 11:34 AM

R202 True. And many bi guys love using gay men for sex, yet only officially date and marry women.

by Anonymousreply 203August 8, 2021 11:36 AM

And a huge number of gay men lust over and pursue bi and straight-identified men. So many gay men only want straight and bi men.

by Anonymousreply 204August 8, 2021 11:38 AM

The exact same things were being said about Gen Y/Millennial—“they’re all bi for attention and because they’re sluts!”. In fact feel like older people have been saying this about young people since the 1960s at least.

by Anonymousreply 205August 8, 2021 5:52 PM

Actually I feel like more current teens & college kids identify as ‘trans’, ‘asexual’ or ‘pan’ than bi.

After all, bi is so passé, like something their babysitters or older cousins would have called themselves.

by Anonymousreply 206August 8, 2021 9:27 PM

R202 It’s 2021 and you do not know the basic fact that male sexuality is mostly bimodal between heterosexuality and homosexuality? Please educate yourself:

“Rather, most bisexual men appeared homosexual with respect to genital arousal, although some appeared heterosexual. In contrast, their subjective sexual arousal did conform to a bisexual pattern. Male bisexuality appears primarily to represent a style of INTERPRETING or REPORTING sexual arousal rather than a distinct pattern of genital sexual arousal.”

In other words: Male bisexuality is for show in most cases.

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by Anonymousreply 207August 8, 2021 10:10 PM

R205 It’s called “transitional bisexuality” and serves as a cover up for gay men while they are still figuring themselves out. Please look it up.

by Anonymousreply 208August 8, 2021 10:14 PM

R206, you think contrary what the current scientific polling and surveys on the topic

by Anonymousreply 209August 8, 2021 10:22 PM

R206, you think contrary to what the current scientific polling and surveys on the topic

by Anonymousreply 210August 8, 2021 10:31 PM

R207, the article cited has to be considered in the full context of recent studies, not considered a last word.

Wishing that human sexuality follows one's biases or declaring it to be so while ignorant of what the research actually says is as fascist as Trumpians. Barking what year it is does not prove anything; sequential or temporal biases reflect bad reasoning and false conclusions.

Many papers on these subjects are based on less-than-robust designs, tainting some results. Larger studies have noted both comparable physical responsiveness among self-identified bisexual men to heterosexual media (FM, FF and FFM) and homosexual media (MM) and a differential response among self-identifying bisexual men.

Bisexual men exist. Research does not indicate anything as simple as bisexuality in men generally being a station on the route to homosexual acceptance. Subjective and/or cultural factors may affect bisexual expression (of course). For samples studied, bisexuality appears to be an individuated node in the complex of human sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 211August 8, 2021 11:18 PM

R199…why did I find that hot?

by Anonymousreply 212August 10, 2021 6:12 AM

MMA fighter can’t wait for his future man to hold his championship belt for him.

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by Anonymousreply 213August 10, 2021 7:03 AM

[quote] And boomers and Gen X keep asking why why why on every bloody issue. Sometimes you don't have to understand every thing, nan.

Nope. Gen Xers know why. It is because they are attention seeking whores who are hooked on social media. Nothing enigmatic about it.

by Anonymousreply 214August 10, 2021 7:12 AM

I love it!

by Anonymousreply 215August 10, 2021 8:25 AM

None of these kids claiming to be "bi" won't be doing so in ten years.

1. They will have lost interest and be with their girlfriends.

2. Someone will invent a new label.

3. The 'bi' label belongs back in the days of Alfred KInsey.

by Anonymousreply 216August 10, 2021 8:46 AM

R211 cute claims. Then why don't you show us the receipt?

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by Anonymousreply 218August 12, 2021 6:59 PM

I think it is more common for men identifying as bisexual who marry women end up cheating with men or getting divorced to be "gay."

Far too often men call themselves "bisexual" because they can't admit to themselves (and often to others) that they are in fact "gay."

by Anonymousreply 219August 15, 2021 2:43 PM

No white dudes

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by Anonymousreply 220August 15, 2021 2:50 PM

They are 'queer' porn addicts whose sexuality has been deformed from growing up in a debased and dying culture.

by Anonymousreply 221August 15, 2021 3:17 PM

I just think Gen Z is more open about their bisexuality. I've hooked up with a lot of married men over the years, most of them were away from home and just playing around so they were very cautious about their identities.

by Anonymousreply 222August 15, 2021 3:38 PM

R222 That's actually not new and not specific to Gen Z. It's called being on the downlow.

by Anonymousreply 223August 15, 2021 3:59 PM

R219, I used to know a C-list actress in Hollywood who divorced her ex-husband after he came out to her as bisexual. However, from what I observed, the ex-husband was only in relationships with women afterward. Also, he was very straight acting.

by Anonymousreply 224August 15, 2021 5:42 PM

You should get some reading comprehension skills, r223. I just stated that Gen Z seems to be more open about their bisexuality.

by Anonymousreply 225August 15, 2021 5:51 PM

R222 is amoral

by Anonymousreply 226August 15, 2021 9:04 PM

Gay guys love DL dudes

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by Anonymousreply 227August 15, 2021 9:20 PM

R207/R217, you're the sniveling snipe who is playing all your jokers in your bigotry.

You try proving something other than your varied impotences, Mme. Cunt.

by Anonymousreply 228August 15, 2021 11:39 PM

R228 Loosing your cool, I see, lol. Again cute assumptions but nothing to back up - that's your signature for sure ;-)

by Anonymousreply 229August 16, 2021 3:24 PM

Stop 🛑

by Anonymousreply 230August 16, 2021 4:11 PM

Bi introvert

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by Anonymousreply 233August 19, 2021 3:02 AM

Brandon Ortega

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by Anonymousreply 235August 19, 2021 6:40 PM

R225 Get some communication skills. I quoted what you wrote... can you even read? What you described IS the "Downlow" google it and learn some gay history while you're at it. That is not a new thing. You ignorant twit!!!

by Anonymousreply 236August 20, 2021 2:36 PM

Oh snap

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by Anonymousreply 238August 20, 2021 3:04 PM

Zach Dodson

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by Anonymousreply 239August 23, 2021 1:59 AM

When I was a young guy. so many other guys had acne and ugly braces, they didn't whiten their teeth or color their hair, they had monobrows, ugly clothes and hairstyles, and they didn't work out. Today guys are so cute and they tend to be more narcissistic, no wonder they're more attracted to each other.

by Anonymousreply 240August 23, 2021 2:18 AM

Thot stuff

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by Anonymousreply 242August 24, 2021 11:47 AM

R240 what kinda trolls were you hanging around with in high school? lol There have always been beautiful guys with nice physiques and big bulges in every era. the jocks, for example, at my school were hot - especially the seniors. Who cares about clothes and hairstyles? Attraction is not based on that stuff. I don't even care about that stuff now. If he's hot, he's hot.

These young guys kissing and touching all over each other are trying to be edgy and push envelopes. Young people have always tried to be edgy. Some are probably not gay (kissing a guy doesn't make you gay), but most of them probably are gay. Straight guys are about as interested in doing these kinds of tiktoks as most gay men are interested in "wasting" an entire afternoon (and part of the evening) at a sporting event.

This is less about bi-sexuality and more about all of these young people being... young! I wouldn't read too much into this behavior.

by Anonymousreply 243August 25, 2021 7:25 PM

This guy would always say he's straight when someone asked him if he was bi or gay. Now he has a boyfriend...

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by Anonymousreply 244September 4, 2021 8:08 AM

Its just an easy identity in their cohort's zeitgeist. Maybe there are a few more bisexuals. A FEW. Most of those kids are straight, and few are gay. Most of the young teen boys claiming to be bisexual will end up gay. Gay guys used to be "bi" in college and their 20s. Now they can identify as "bi" at 12 and nobody cares.

by Anonymousreply 245September 4, 2021 8:13 AM

r11 "Heterosexuality is the norm set by society, but it's not the human norm. A majority of people who call themselves straight are in the spectrum of bisexuality."

Heterosexuality is the norm set by biology, dumbass. Most people are heterosexual and have zero attraction to same sex couplings. Imagine questioning gay guys for lusting after other men or for not being attracted to trans or women. Heterosexuals DO exists and are the majority.

Regarding gen z, they are a bunch of deranged poseurs and everything that comes out of their mouths is crap.

by Anonymousreply 246September 4, 2021 8:40 AM

Angel Garcia

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by Anonymousreply 247September 5, 2021 2:30 AM

Bisexuals of every preceding age group are the most likely group to be in the closet. Here, you've got all the bisexuals coming out and not feeling stigma about it.

by Anonymousreply 248September 5, 2021 3:57 AM

R246 Thank you for saying that. Some on DL need a wake up call.

Many gays are obsessed with the number of gays there are as if that's a way to get mainstream society to acknowledge or approve of them. "Oh see, we're gaining on them." STOP it! You don't need that! Heterosexuals are in the majority. PERIOD! Accept that.

But also understand that the numbers are really irrelevant.

Homosexuals are in the minority world-wide, but in the majority at a gay pride parade. Black and Brown people are in the minority in the United States but they make up the majority of the world! Nobody with a functioning brain is suggesting that the color of someone's skin (or color of their eyes or hair) effects their status as a human being based on the number of them in a particular location.

The number of gays in the world should not impact your self worth.

Heterosexuality is normal. Homosexuality is also "normal." Stop worrying about numbers and just be YOU!

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by Anonymousreply 251September 6, 2021 3:38 PM

It's a fact that all hot guys secretly crave other hot guys. The ones who think they are straight are just repressed, poor guys.

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by Anonymousreply 253September 6, 2021 3:44 PM

For anyone like me who only clicked on the link because of the guy in OP's pic, the timestamp on the video is 6:58.

by Anonymousreply 254September 6, 2021 4:11 PM

They are accepting of bisexuality the same way you eldergays are always on here praising any black person.

by Anonymousreply 255September 6, 2021 4:20 PM

Two best friends

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by Anonymousreply 256September 6, 2021 9:35 PM

R255 are you suggesting that many of the elder gays are racist? [Clutching reams of pearls and pretending to be shocked!!!]

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Cody gene

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by Anonymousreply 259September 13, 2021 4:13 AM

Its "trendy" that's why. Its the "in" thing now. Check back with all of these kids in 10 years and you will find the vast majority happily married to a member of the opposite sex.

by Anonymousreply 260September 13, 2021 5:26 AM

So? Being married to the opposite sex Doesn’t mean someone isn’t bisexual. Duh

by Anonymousreply 261September 13, 2021 12:00 PM

In my book, being married to opposite sex for most of ones life means one is likely hetero. A guy doing a bit of gay stuff in his youth doesn't make him bisexual, it makes him a trendster. That's it.

by Anonymousreply 262September 13, 2021 12:50 PM

[quote] what kinda trolls were you hanging around with in high school? lol There have always been beautiful guys with nice physiques and big bulges in every era. the jocks, for example, at my school were hot - especially the seniors. Who cares about clothes and hairstyles? Attraction is not based on that stuff. I don't even care about that stuff now. If he's hot, he's hot.

I guess it's hard to explain. You're talking about being gay. This thread is about why there seems to be more bisexuality these days. Maybe some bi guys are a little different. (I'm bi.) Today guys are a bit more feminized. They take better care of themselves, their skin, their hair, their clothes, their bodies. A guy who's attracted to women might be more attracted to guys who smell better, dress better, have better skin, etc., because they're closer to what a guy is attracted to in a woman. Get it, now? The more feminized straight guys get, the more they would be likely be attracted to each other.

by Anonymousreply 263September 13, 2021 1:17 PM

R262, you have a weird mind

by Anonymousreply 264September 13, 2021 1:18 PM

R263, that might partly explain the rise in mostly straight or bu guys. But the majority of mostly straight males I know and have encountered aren’t exactly expressing interest in fem or girly guys. I think the male aesthetics and fitness model culture has really made appreciation for the male physique more prevalent and prominent. Guys are openly appreciating each others’ physiques in a way that is very often erotic. Social media is making men complimenting each others’ looks and desirability mainstream and popular. And part of this is not only male appreciation for huge biceps and ripped abs, but also for huge glutes, aka, bubble butts. Male aesthetics is not only narcissistic; it’s also intensely erotic.

by Anonymousreply 265September 13, 2021 1:37 PM

There was a tik tok vid about male bisexuality being real and the comments mostly consist of bisexual males that preferred females and females dating or married to bisexual males.

by Anonymousreply 266September 13, 2021 1:45 PM

R265 Yeah I'm not denying that's also probably true. But part of what I see with young guys on social media (including influencers) is pretty boys, and there are several Tik Toks on this thread attesting to that. Young guys are painting their nails, wearing pearls, and posing seductively in "feminine" ways.

by Anonymousreply 267September 13, 2021 1:45 PM

R267, I guess it depends upon your personal algorithm. My social media is full on ultrajacked jocks and muscle dudes being adored by mostly other males who usually don’t identify as gay.

by Anonymousreply 268September 13, 2021 1:55 PM

I think many young people are just looking for an ‘edge’ or a way to be *~*different*~* now that a lot of subcultures are mainstream and the online world (incl. TikTok) has created really big communities. It’s currently a bit uncool to be a basic straight white person, and many are either looking for something to be oppressed about, or are just a little embarrassed to belong to that ‘status quo’ group that has maligned other groups for centuries.

As a bi man (mid 30s) who has had relationships with both men and women, what I would tell these kids is that it’s probably quite far from the fun, flirty tik tok trend to ACTUALLY be a bi man. Gay men don’t particularly want you (unless they are just coming out and attracted to your ‘straightness’ lol), and the straight women are even more repulsed by the fact that you’ve had any gay activity, despite how progressive they purport to be. You may end up getting less of both pools, than you would if you were just gay/straight.

Playing ‘dress up’ is fun when you’re young, and this is mostly just attention seekers trying to look hot and boost engagement on Tik Tok (more likely to make gay/bi viewers check their tik toks out), so I give it a pass.

by Anonymousreply 269September 13, 2021 3:02 PM

[quote]As a bi man (mid 30s) who has had relationships with both men and women, what I would tell these kids is that it’s probably quite far from the fun, flirty tik tok trend to ACTUALLY be a bi man. Gay men don’t particularly want you (unless they are just coming out and attracted to your ‘straightness’ lol), and the straight women are even more repulsed by the fact that you’ve had any gay activity, despite how progressive they purport to be. You may end up getting less of both pools, than you would if you were just gay/straight.

As an older bi man, I'm confirming this. This is exactly how it is.

by Anonymousreply 270September 13, 2021 3:20 PM

I laigh when I read complaints about 'biphobia' on Datalounge. Straight women in general are way more 'biphobic' than anyone here could be; they do NOT want a down-low husband.

by Anonymousreply 271September 13, 2021 3:25 PM

Why are DLers much more biphobic than gay men in the real world? Older, more bitter? On dating sites, bi men are highly sought after by gay men.

by Anonymousreply 272September 13, 2021 3:39 PM

Dating.... sites? I believe we use apps in 2021.

by Anonymousreply 273September 13, 2021 3:44 PM

Nasty bro

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by Anonymousreply 274September 14, 2021 12:00 AM

[Quote]A guy who's attracted to women might be more attracted to guys who smell better, dress better, have better skin, etc., because they're closer to what a guy is attracted to in a woman. Get it, now? The more feminized straight guys get, the more they would be likely be attracted to each other.

R263 No, I don't get it. In my experience [and everyone I know] that is not how attraction works. It doesn't matter how much hair spray or cologne he uses or how tight his pants are, "straight guys" are not sexually attracted to guys no matter how feminized they are. There is a huge difference between a woman and a feminized man. Hence the whole "straight" thing.

Just like gay men are not attracted to women no matter how butch she is. Hence the whole "gay" thing. LOL You are in fantasyland man. If a gay man wants the world to accept him as a gay man then he's gotta accept straight men as being straight. A gay man wants a man and a straight man wants a woman. Bisexuality [though it is more complicated] means you are attracted to men and women.

But understand, if you are bisexual, "straight" dudes don't want you. They want women.

by Anonymousreply 275September 14, 2021 11:31 AM


[Quote]I guess it's hard to explain. You're talking about being gay. This thread is about why there seems to be more bisexuality these days. Maybe some bi guys are a little different. (I'm bi.) Today guys are a bit more feminized.

Each generation thinks they have come up with something new. LOL But there have always been gay, bi and straight people. Despite the media's attempts to confuse things, there are only two sex organs. You either like dicks or pussies or both. How you dress it up is your choice. Those are the options though, but I digress.

Bisexuality is more complicated because for the general public there is no difference between bisexuality and homosexuality.

Historically, people could not be openly gay or bi. They had lifelong "roommates" or were "confirmed bachelors." Then some homosexuals evolved and began saying they were bisexual because it was deemed easier for society to accept. But even today where more people accept bisexuality as a thing, many gays will date bisexuals, many women will not. They see that as gay.

So when you say you are bisexual, a lot of people are gonna just say you are gay. With "straight" as the default and "gay" as the aberration, nobody cares about the straight side. They only care about the part of you that wants to suck dick. Do I think more guys wanna suck a dick because they like that their buddy smells like "Irish Spring" when he gets outta the shower? LOL No!

My point is that gay and bisexuals have always been around. There are not more of them now. The internet just makes everything more visible. No one is alone anymore. Whatever your group is, you can find them more easily by going online.

Tik Tok , FB and YouTube are not cranking out or turning more guys gay or bi. They are just making some more visible. BUT you have some straight guys who are just there to entertain their largely gay male following. Same thing happens in Hollywood. You're not gonna see many A list actors say anything bad about LGBTQ because those are often their most vocal fans (or critics).

There has always been a myth that gays and bisexuals dress better and take better care of themselves than straight men. I think that is very person specific and is not true across the board. But every generation has had men like this. Even during WWII when our great grandfather's talked about the standard to get ready for a date being to "shower, shit and shave," there were always men that did a little more. LOL

The bottom line is that you shouldn't confuse enlightenment with recruitment. LOL We are a full generation past the beginning of the AIDS crisis and lots of work by gay rights groups which has raised awareness of homosexual humanity. Thank those pioneers who went before us (and the elder gays) for educating the world!

This raised awareness and technology has made homosexuality (and collaterally bisexuality) more palatable to society. But none of that is not gonna create more of them and that isn't gonna make "Straight" men want you.

Young people are freer about admiring each other, supporting each other's sexual preferences, and being on trend with the whole LGBTQ movement (and maybe flirting with it to be "cool") but don't be deceived, men taking good care of themselves and being goofy on the internet doesn't mean they're trying to sleep with their male friends. They're mostly just being young. 🙄

by Anonymousreply 276September 14, 2021 11:31 AM

They call themselves bi or pan to get a foot in the door of LGBT discussions, but the vast majority will never date, fuck or marry the same sex. Chickenshits.

by Anonymousreply 277September 14, 2021 11:37 AM

R277 Very true.

Young people are always dong something to make older generation uncomfortable. Previous things included, rock and roll music, interracial dating, doing drugs, long hair, rap music. This gender "fluidity' is the latest trend. Once it dies down they will move onto the next trend.

The same hippies running around with long hair and doing drugs grew up to put on three piece suits and drive BMWs. The more things change the more they stay the same. No. Bisexuality is not a new thing. No. The percentage of gay and Bisexual people in the world has not changed. While these social media platforms can expose it, they can't control it. People are what they are.

by Anonymousreply 278September 14, 2021 12:03 PM

[quote] [R263] No, I don't get it. In my experience [and everyone I know] that is not how attraction works. It doesn't matter how much hair spray or cologne he uses or how tight his pants are, "straight guys" are not sexually attracted to guys no matter how feminized they are. There is a huge difference between a woman and a feminized man. Hence the whole "straight" thing.

Oh, that's right, straight people never have same sex experiences or are ever attracted to the same sex.

by Anonymousreply 279September 14, 2021 12:56 PM

R279 is making a valid point. The mostly straight category reflects that many straight men are sometimes attracted to other men, albeit infrequently

by Anonymousreply 280September 14, 2021 1:10 PM

R279 Well DUH! Of course straight people don't have sex with same sex or have same sex attraction. That is why they are "Straight."

The homosexual (or bisexual experience) is not unique, but it is YOURS. Everyone does not share it.

Why is it that certain homosexuals are determined to claim everybody is at least a little bit gay? Does that make it ok in your mind to think "well everyone is this way?" NO! They aren't.

Everybody is not gay. You're not sick to be gay or have "Gay feelings." That is normal, but everyone doesn't have them. You're sick for trying to project your orientation onto everyone else. That is not normal. It is ok to be gay. Stop looking for mainstream assurances or approvals.

by Anonymousreply 281September 14, 2021 1:10 PM

R280. Straight means straight. What is it you fail to comprehend about that?

Besides why do you care if some "straight" guy in Bumfuck North Dakota has a fleeting thought about m2m sex? So what? They have probably think about fucking the sheep & the dog too. What does that do for you? Does that make you feel better about being gay? LOL

You gay men and your obsession with straight men and what they think about is crazy. Calling Dr. Freud, calling Dr. Freud! LOL

by Anonymousreply 282September 14, 2021 1:16 PM

We are utterly devoted to straight men. Gay men repulse us.

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by Anonymousreply 283September 14, 2021 1:19 PM

[quote]Of course straight people don't have sex with same sex or have same sex attraction. That is why they are "Straight."

This first line of this thread literally says "Why are so many Gen Z bisexual?" If we're operating on that assumption at all, then there must be a reason why more Gen Z people are saying they're bisexual, or have same-sex attractions or relations. Are the people being referred to seen as formerly straight? Or were they born bisexual? Are there more bisexuals being born in the Gen Z era? If so, why? And if not, then why are more STRAIGHT people turning to bisexuality as a choice? I believe those are the questions this thread is posing.

by Anonymousreply 284September 14, 2021 1:27 PM

R283, I know you are being sarcastic from a personal standpoint, but what is really ironic about gay men's obsession with straight men is that most straight men are repulsed by gay men.

So this obsession comes from a place of self-hate starving for the straight man's approval and plays out in a destructive self-fulfilling prophecy.

Many gay men seem to never be ok with just having a straight guy as an ally and friend. They gotta go the extra step of trying to sleep with them. This is what makes many straight men repulsed by gays. These assholes and their obsessions really do everyone a disservice with being so gauche. It's sick!

by Anonymousreply 285September 14, 2021 1:32 PM

NeoStraight Movement

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by Anonymousreply 286September 14, 2021 1:34 PM

[quote]Many gay men seem to never be ok with just having a straight guy as an ally and friend. They gotta go the extra step of trying to sleep with them.


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by Anonymousreply 287September 14, 2021 1:34 PM

[quote]My social media is full on ultrajacked jocks and muscle dudes being adored by mostly other males who usually don’t identify as gay.

R268 But are these Gen Z-ers identifying as bisexual? Most of the Gen Z actors (for example) currently coming out as "queer" or gender fluid or bi or whatever are the less-than-macho pretty boys or vaguely feminine, not-too-masc guys.

by Anonymousreply 288September 14, 2021 1:40 PM

R284 Stop cherrypicking.

A whole series of questions are being addressed in this thread.

My response was specifically in response to someone talking about same sex attractions and experiences. By definition that makes your orientation at least bi-sexual (if not totally gay).

You seem to be glossing over the "other" question asked by the OP which really is driving this discussion:

[Quote]Are we seeing a shift in acceptance?

For people who claim to be proudly gay or bisexual a lot of you seem very ashamed of it if you have to pretend straight guys are interested in you for you to accept yourself. That is not how it works. If he is straight, he doesn't want you. He is not attracted to you. Face facts.

It is ok for you to be gay or bi. There are plenty of masculine gay and bi men for you to have sex with. It's ok. Really, it is. LOL

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by Anonymousreply 290September 14, 2021 1:44 PM

R285 Nice homophobic rant there cunt, like str8 men are any different. All men are the same str8 and gay, no need to single us out. And lol if you think we want to sleep with a str8 guy just because he's str8. Cunt please we have standards

by Anonymousreply 291September 14, 2021 1:46 PM


I am not seeing your point or why you attached that thread. It has nothing to do with my statement which you quoted. People flirt everyday all day long with people, not knowing their orientation. It gets a variety of responses but the vast majority people are flattered by someone flirting.

But that was not what you quoted from me.

My statement specifically deals with gay men trying to sleep with straight allies/friends. If a straight man is your friend then obviously you know he is straight. Why would you come onto your friend by touching and trying to kiss him etc? Why would you put him in the uncomfortable position of crossing that line and trying to sleep with him? It is a violation of trust. I think he would be repulsed not only by you coming onto him but even more by you're violating your relationship and disregarding his stated interest.

Straight men don't want you! Get that through your thick head. Trying to "get them" is only gonna make them resent you.

by Anonymousreply 292September 14, 2021 1:51 PM

R291 you ignorant CUNT! LOL

I had to read your statement twice because you can't communicate clearly. Work on your writing skills honey because they are atrocious!

You need only to just read a few DL threads to realize that the "straight" man is the holy grail of the homosexual experience for a lot of dumb fuckers on DL.

Getting a straight man's cock in your mouth is the equivalent of a fat ugly straight guy pulling a skinny blonde with big tits. You are gonna slobber all over that penis. Gay men worship at the alter of straight men (most of whom couldn't give a shit whether you live or die).

The truth is straight men are not having sex with gay men. The adoration is one way. You seem angry because you think you are the exception huh? You are pulling "straight men?" LOL Those are not straight men. Wake up Bitch!

by Anonymousreply 293September 14, 2021 2:01 PM

Someone here doesn’t realize the basic reality that many flirt for sport, for an ego boost. Many gay men flirt with women because it is fun and makes them feel desired and attractive. All groups do the same

by Anonymousreply 294September 14, 2021 2:26 PM

Bisexual men exist, but there's a whole lot of gay men going down the bi/pan pipeline to remain open to women for their fans. I suspect we will see Mendez coming out as queer/fluid within the next 5 years. When gay as a label is back en vogue, they will all switch over.

by Anonymousreply 295September 14, 2021 3:09 PM

R293 You sound like a raving lunatic, posting an idiotic paragraph. Take your pills loony cunt. And only self loathing fags are obsessed with straight men. You're most likely one of them. Sad ancient elder queen.

by Anonymousreply 296September 14, 2021 5:48 PM

R296 The bitter OLD straight cock worshipping queen is you! I don't know what has you so angry. Is it that I am forcing you to recognize that straight men don't want you?

I'm pretty sure you get with your circle of other old useless bitter queens and high five about the "straight dick" you had last night. And of course the "Gay" man you sucked played along because he doesn't give a shit about you. He's not gonna tell you any different. He'll let you fantasize since he knows he'll never see your crazy ass again! LOL

by Anonymousreply 297September 14, 2021 6:35 PM

Why is someone trying to convince gay men straight men don't want them? Who's arguing that they do? Your assumptions make very little sense. Are you drunk? This thread is not about that. You glommed onto this issue by misinterpreting some post or other. This is supposed to be about why Gen Z seems to have more bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 298September 14, 2021 11:34 PM

R298 Your bitch ass quoted me outta context! So don't fucking cry oppression now. Know what the fuck you are talking about before you jump into a discussion you stupid CUNT! LOL

by Anonymousreply 299September 14, 2021 11:50 PM

R299 No one is crying oppression. You're seriously loony tunes.

by Anonymousreply 300September 15, 2021 12:44 AM

Fine AF 🔥

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by Anonymousreply 301September 15, 2021 2:33 AM

R293 = Types unhinged.

by Anonymousreply 302September 15, 2021 2:37 AM

R300 The Looniest of the Toons is indeed, YOU! HAHAHAHA!

by Anonymousreply 303September 15, 2021 10:58 AM

R302 is pathetic!

by Anonymousreply 304September 15, 2021 10:59 AM

Stop it

by Anonymousreply 305September 15, 2021 12:52 PM

Nah, let's let this play out and see where it goes. At least it's not a series of boring Tik Tok links.

by Anonymousreply 306September 15, 2021 1:12 PM

More hot TikToks!

by Anonymousreply 307September 15, 2021 1:36 PM

You're the only one posting them, buddy... Everyone else scrolls right by them. Ever notice how very few of them get W&Ws?

by Anonymousreply 308September 15, 2021 1:38 PM

Yes, there are a lot of oldheads here, but it doesn’t have to stay that way yo

by Anonymousreply 309September 15, 2021 2:10 PM

Well, it's clear that DL's younger posters aren't responding to those links either. Too bad, so sad.

by Anonymousreply 310September 15, 2021 2:21 PM

How many DLers are “younger”? 8 percent?

by Anonymousreply 311September 15, 2021 2:24 PM

R305 Go away!

by Anonymousreply 312September 15, 2021 5:28 PM

Younger than what, R311? It only takes one to give your Tik Tok posts a W&W or a response, neither of which happens, clearly, in any sort of consistent basis.

But good luck in your crusade to make Datalounge into TikTokLounge. Everyone needs a hobby, BRO.

by Anonymousreply 313September 15, 2021 5:36 PM

At the club

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by Anonymousreply 314September 17, 2021 11:04 AM

Polo from the 305

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by Anonymousreply 315September 17, 2021 5:02 PM

Jose Antonio

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by Anonymousreply 316September 17, 2021 5:05 PM

[quote]Do they think it makes them more attractive or woke or whatever? We all know gay men worship straight men, so it's probably the same with bi guys.

Pretty much. Gay is bad to them. They don't think gay means dick for dick like it should, they think it means stereotype. That's probably why all the guys who identify as gay now are embarrassments 99% of the time.

by Anonymousreply 317September 18, 2021 12:33 AM

Huh 🤔

by Anonymousreply 318September 18, 2021 1:06 AM

R260 It's the invincibility of the young and pretty.

by Anonymousreply 319September 19, 2021 8:02 AM

I had no idea so many straight guys are desperately curious to know how to kiss their guy friends on the lips without looking gay until I read this comment section.

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by Anonymousreply 321September 29, 2021 12:15 PM

By himself

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by Anonymousreply 322October 2, 2021 3:19 AM

i only have gay sex with 100% hetero gen z guys... the key is never making eye contact!

by Anonymousreply 323October 2, 2021 4:17 AM

I only like muscled homiesexual bros

by Anonymousreply 324October 2, 2021 1:12 PM

There have always been gay men who cannot (for as many reasons as there are men) acknowledge being gay. This is not generational.

They can call themselves whatever they want as long as their dicks goes in the hole! LOL

by Anonymousreply 325October 2, 2021 4:32 PM

Naw this is special

by Anonymousreply 326October 2, 2021 4:35 PM

Anyway my broskies

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by Anonymousreply 327October 2, 2021 5:17 PM

Black bi dudes are having a moment

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by Anonymousreply 328October 2, 2021 5:54 PM

They are gay, OP. Calling themselves bi makes them trendy and cool, so they think.

by Anonymousreply 329October 2, 2021 5:58 PM

I learned the phrase “bi cunt” from DL and I love it.

by Anonymousreply 330October 2, 2021 5:59 PM

I really love vibin with Mostly Straight guys. I’m kicking it with this very hot dude who has never had sex with a guy but says he finds elite hot guys attractive. He doesn’t want to have sex with guys but is open to making out. He is the best kisser I have ever experienced.

by Anonymousreply 331October 2, 2021 6:04 PM

A hole is a hole.

by Anonymousreply 332October 2, 2021 6:07 PM

No, looks matter

by Anonymousreply 333October 2, 2021 6:08 PM

Star fuckers don't care what gender they are spreading their legs for.

by Anonymousreply 334October 2, 2021 6:13 PM

R329 Yup! It is the 1950s version of a "confirmed bachelor" in his 40s with a male "roommate."

by Anonymousreply 335October 2, 2021 6:16 PM

Nope, they have girlfriends and wives

by Anonymousreply 336October 2, 2021 6:46 PM

And baby mamas. Plural.

by Anonymousreply 337October 2, 2021 6:48 PM

My stepsons are Gen Z and are super straight—at least as far as I know—but super open minded. A lot of their female friends are “fluid” or bi, and they have even had some guy friends who have openly dabbled with guys. My stepsons aren’t bothered by it. They have a couple of guy friends who have have come out as totally gay. I wasn’t surprised about either of them. I clocked that when they were kids! Another kid is now transitioning to female. That one did take me by surprise.

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by Anonymousreply 340October 3, 2021 1:21 PM

I think some of those TikToks are just queer baiting for money. I bet all those guys have their Cash App listed somewhere and Amazon Wish Lists.

by Anonymousreply 341October 3, 2021 1:37 PM

As king as they are hot

by Anonymousreply 342October 3, 2021 1:42 PM

All these supposedly bi guys looks incredible gay….

by Anonymousreply 343October 3, 2021 10:51 PM

Baseball player

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by Anonymousreply 344October 4, 2021 1:26 AM


I don't think these TikTok guys are incredibly gay. They are probably just regular gay...

by Anonymousreply 345October 4, 2021 2:03 AM

If you're in a college or upscale urban area, you'll see a lot of guys claim to be bisexual or queer (even if they're not). If you're in a blue-collar urban or rural or suburban area, not so much... TikTok is not reality, it's basically the online version of a high school popularity contest, no substance, all show.

by Anonymousreply 346October 4, 2021 8:43 PM

The bi gaze

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by Anonymousreply 347October 9, 2021 3:00 AM

Looks like Charlie Puth's little brother

by Anonymousreply 348October 9, 2021 4:32 PM

R347 Does lip synching on your porch with no shirt mean he is bi or gay?

C'mon fellows a lot of you are reaching with this theory that all these young guys are bi or gay. They are just having fun. Is it their fault that you and others openly lust after them? That is not new.😁

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by Anonymousreply 350October 9, 2021 4:45 PM

R348 He'd certainly get laid in WeHo.

by Anonymousreply 351October 10, 2021 1:20 AM

Much hotter than Puth

by Anonymousreply 352October 10, 2021 1:59 AM

Puth should definitely fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 353October 10, 2021 2:00 AM

It must be liberating to have so much self-confidence. We do reward pretty white boys quite well.

by Anonymousreply 354October 10, 2021 2:39 AM

I thought I was quite full of myself in my glory days but these boys make me look like a piker ! Id sell my soul to Satan to look like I did at 21 again and have social media at my fingertips. I was quite the slut,but if I had Tinder and the like Id have been THE slut !

by Anonymousreply 355October 10, 2021 3:23 AM

Times change

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by Anonymousreply 356October 10, 2021 3:49 AM

It’s all a fad if you ask me. The cool thing to do nowadays is be queer apparently. God, I was so ahead of my time. 😒

by Anonymousreply 357October 10, 2021 3:51 AM

Boss Baby

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by Anonymousreply 358October 10, 2021 6:27 AM

The only thing I like about TikTok is that the sound is off by default.

by Anonymousreply 359October 10, 2021 11:22 AM

R347 Is it like Samson, does he lose his power if his hair is cut?

by Anonymousreply 360October 10, 2021 2:06 PM

The first guy on TikTok I really noticed being seductive and provocative on TikTok was Vinnie Hacker. My first thought is he's at least bi because straight guys don't pose in this way - usually it's gay guys or women. But he's straight as far as I know. I think this is a weird trend in a way because at one time guys who considered themselves straight and masc would have considered acting like this to be too narcissistic and fem.

by Anonymousreply 361October 10, 2021 2:07 PM

(...And now it's just thoughjt of as a normal way guys are, on social media. Seductive, eye-fucking the camera, touching yourself, etc. It became normalized pretty quickly. lol)

by Anonymousreply 362October 10, 2021 2:12 PM

R361 There definitely has been an emergence of the straight man as a sexual object. The idea that an attractive young man might actually earn $$$ just from videos not involving sex has surely helped as well. Which is not to say that guys like R347 wouldn't still get mocked and/or bullied for it in a public school.

by Anonymousreply 363October 10, 2021 2:13 PM

This is who the gays on tik tok are recently going nuts over. He has the ultimate twink ideal looks and is 19 but looks younger in the face that twitter even banned him .

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by Anonymousreply 364October 10, 2021 2:18 PM

R364 Nice body, but the face is basic meh. Scary to think how much ink he'll have in 5 years.

by Anonymousreply 365October 10, 2021 2:37 PM

Too young for me

by Anonymousreply 366October 10, 2021 2:55 PM

big hands big feet.

by Anonymousreply 367October 10, 2021 2:56 PM

R361, times change. Social media has changed the world. Why do people on DL like to cling to old, tired motions and mindsets?

by Anonymousreply 368October 10, 2021 3:18 PM

Pesky social media. These pretty white boys are supposed to peak in school and then go sell cars while their gf gets fatter with each of her 5 pregnancies.

by Anonymousreply 369October 10, 2021 3:33 PM

R368 Did you mean notions?

I'm not clinging to anything. I'm noting a change over time in behavioral norms. It's just interesting to me. Never said I wanted to return to the past.

by Anonymousreply 370October 10, 2021 5:36 PM

I’m sure many researchers are studying how social media has changed culture and society. It’s quite profound

by Anonymousreply 371October 10, 2021 8:48 PM

Well I want to return to the past R370 ! the 70s and 80s had their issues no doubt but at least hope was still alive. these last 5 years have been unbearably depressing with no end in sight.

by Anonymousreply 372October 10, 2021 9:55 PM

You should use the WayBack Machine.

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by Anonymousreply 373October 10, 2021 10:53 PM

R354 Cute White guys have a very short shelf life. They look their best between about 18 and 25. That's through college and the 1st job.

And if they are a really pretty White boy during this period then the world is at their feet. They can do no wrong. Jobs/raises/promotions fall in their laps. They can commit crimes. Cheat on women. Be total assholes and everyone says "boys will be boys." They get a total pass!

However after 25 they are no longer the hot fresh idealistic White boy that the world was waiting for. By then there are younger, prettier, fresher White boys that everyone is noticing.

At 25 he's stale. If he hasn't began his hustle (scam) by then (or has family money) then he's gonna have to work a lot harder to get that hustle.

By 25 he's really past his prime. His douchey frat boy behavior is annoying. His ditzy decisions, farts and bad breath are no longer cute. LOL

And the visual signs of aging will be kicking in HARD after 25. Many will start wrinkling, have yellow teeth, receding/balding hair, and effort will be required to keep a physique. If they didn't develop good habits when they were younger chances are they won't start them after 25.

Once White guys start to decline, that drop is RAPID. It's like every 5 years is double time. LOL They drop A LOT faster than any other race.

This is why you have a lot of bitter angry old White Queens. So cut them some slack. They probably weren't always that ugly. LOL

by Anonymousreply 374October 11, 2021 12:41 AM

R374 Ohoho, do I see a little frustrated racist. You Americans are crazy, you went from full black hating to white hating, never in the middle.

by Anonymousreply 375October 11, 2021 9:48 AM

I used to think I was miserable being born in Balkans. But the more I am on this forum the more I realize how much healthier as a society we are. Ok, everybody knows we were literally slaughtering each other some 30 years ago, but we never enslaved and abused colored people and neither would be such pussies to allow to be spat upon for the white skin color. I mean if you want to offend based on the skin color we can talk differently and not kissing asses of racist assholes no matter their race.

by Anonymousreply 376October 11, 2021 9:55 AM

A lot of these guys are ugly in real life. Those lights, angles, filters, hats, and all kind of tricks go a long way.

by Anonymousreply 377October 11, 2021 10:00 AM

Uh, colored people???!!!

by Anonymousreply 378October 11, 2021 12:27 PM

Kids will be kids. They still don't know what they want, they are exploring and experimenting. That doesn't make them bisexual really. And it is fashionable to say you 're bi if you once held a girl's hand.

by Anonymousreply 379October 11, 2021 12:28 PM

More hot bisexuals and mostly straights!

by Anonymousreply 380October 11, 2021 12:35 PM

R378 It is really more shocking to use the term color than to enslave, mistreat and kill, uh what is the correct term,... people for centuries. You hypocrites!

by Anonymousreply 381October 11, 2021 12:36 PM

I was a cute white boy and at 25 I was just getting started. Looked better at 25 than I did at 18, and even better at 30. It's like this person never saw an attractive white man over 25. lol

by Anonymousreply 382October 11, 2021 1:32 PM

R382 He/she is just rabid anti white.

by Anonymousreply 383October 11, 2021 1:47 PM


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by Anonymousreply 384October 11, 2021 2:16 PM

Samuel Lopez

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by Anonymousreply 385October 11, 2021 2:20 PM

BRandon Ortega

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by Anonymousreply 386October 11, 2021 2:28 PM

Some posters here mentioned how women discriminate against bisexuals. You bet I do. Do I want a guy that will crave dick and catch each opportunity to go and chase men. No way!

by Anonymousreply 387October 11, 2021 2:56 PM

R387 A straight guy is just as likely to crave someone else's pussy and chase women. If he's that type. Bi people are no more promiscuous than anyone else. There are promiscuous straight people as much as gay or bi people. There are also monogamous people of all orientations. Don't be so ignorant.

by Anonymousreply 388October 11, 2021 3:09 PM


by Anonymousreply 389October 11, 2021 3:09 PM

Popular on Tinder

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by Anonymousreply 390October 11, 2021 3:12 PM

Lady on 387 is right. A straight man might be whore, but there is a chance he will be a devoted husband. With a bisexual she will surely get a whore.

by Anonymousreply 391October 11, 2021 4:24 PM

R387 Has every right to discriminate in her love life. Everyone does. I just don't like when people are unnecessarily cruel.

"No fats no fems no Blacks, no Asians etc." is just bullshit.

On an app people should say what they are looking for, not what they are "not looking for." I cannot believe we are in 2021 people are still being ignorant and nasty in their dating profiles.

If someone contacts you that you don't want for whatever reason. "No thank you" is the appropriate response.

My question for R387 though is - if you are only into straight men, why are you on DL? You're not likely gonna find any of those on here talking with the "gurls." LOL

by Anonymousreply 392October 11, 2021 5:29 PM

R391 Exactly. A bi guy will choose to be with a woman because it's socially more acceptable and easier to live this way, but how long before he starts cruising guys? So, no thanks.

by Anonymousreply 393October 11, 2021 5:30 PM

R392 I didn't come here to search for guys, but to chat, because it's an interesting forum.

by Anonymousreply 394October 11, 2021 5:35 PM

[quote][R391] Exactly. A bi guy will choose to be with a woman because it's socially more acceptable and easier to live this way, but how long before he starts cruising guys? So, no thanks.

What you're describing is a closeted gay man. Not a bisexual man. They're not the same thing. Unfgortunately, many gays here think they are. They think they know what bisexuality is all about, even though they aren't bisexual - and they don't. Or they think bisexuals are just closeted or confused gays - which they aren't.

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by Anonymousreply 396October 11, 2021 5:44 PM

[Quote]He/she is just rabid anti white.

Not at all. R383 I was actually being complimentary.

I never said a White man could not be attractive for his age after 25. I said he is at his peak between 18 and 25. That is usually when he looks his best.

And I am not the first one to ever say that. There is a whole "twink" phenomena. Ever heard of it? LOL

"Some" White guys are really cute in that age range. And while he can do all the working out, get all the face lifts and hair plugs in the world after 25, he is never gonna be that pretty again. And the difference can be quite drastic! You know I'm right.

Stop assuming everything is racist and looking for things to flame about. Geez Louise!

by Anonymousreply 397October 11, 2021 5:45 PM

R395 Maybe not closeted but confused and undecided.

by Anonymousreply 398October 11, 2021 5:47 PM

R394 You are right about that. It is interesting. LOL

by Anonymousreply 399October 11, 2021 5:48 PM

R397 Well, I am afraid it applies to everyone.

by Anonymousreply 400October 11, 2021 5:49 PM

R395 Are you a bisexual. If you are didn't mean to offend you.

by Anonymousreply 401October 11, 2021 5:51 PM

I meant R392

by Anonymousreply 402October 11, 2021 5:53 PM

Bisexuals ARE attracted to women. And men. Hence, "bisexual". If a man is not attracted to women, and uses them to cover for his homosexuality, he's not bisexual. This is not the description of a bisexual.

R397 There are so many movie stars and athletes and other examples of attractive and hot men, WAY over 25, that your whole argument is nonsense.

by Anonymousreply 403October 11, 2021 5:53 PM

R403 Ok, maybe I haven't explained it well. Even if a guy is attracted to women and has a relationship with her, how long before he doesn't start wanting to meet guys secretly. There is something hypersexual about these guys. And, of course there is always this doubt that a bisexual man is a gay man in denial. I believe most women have these doubts about bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 404October 11, 2021 6:01 PM

R400 actually it doesn't apply equally to everyone. All the other races have some melanin in their skin so they generally don't wrinkle up as fast. The original comment had to do with shelf life.

by Anonymousreply 405October 11, 2021 6:02 PM

R405 Now you prove you are racist. White people don't get wrinkled at 25.

by Anonymousreply 406October 11, 2021 6:04 PM

And it's not just about the wrinkles, but the face expression as well. Darker people have firmer skin, but they have rougher features which make them look older. Just as mediteranian nation, they are darker and have thicker skin than nordics, but they look coarser with age.

by Anonymousreply 407October 11, 2021 6:10 PM

The Racist is you R406 / R407

[Quote]Darker people have firmer skin, but they have rougher features which make them look older. Just as mediteranian nation, they are darker and have thicker skin than nordics, but they look coarser with age.

Get the fuck outta here! LOL

by Anonymousreply 408October 11, 2021 6:17 PM

R404 What you're suggesting is a misunderstanding. Bisexual doesn't always mean you're attracted to men and women at the same time, all the time. If you're in a relationship that makes you happy, with a woman or man, you're not more likely to miss being with the other gender, unless you're *heavily* leaning to that gender all the time. This is what makes a lot of gay and straight people wary of bisexuals. It's a very old misperception, that whichever gender you're with, you will miss being with the other gender, and want to break up/cheat. But it could just as easily happen with the same gender. Every case is actually different, so it's wrong to stereotype.

by Anonymousreply 409October 11, 2021 6:26 PM

"All the other races have some melanin in their skin so they generally don't wrinkle up as fast. The original comment had to do with shelf life."

And this is less racist than mine?

Btw, I am mediteranian.

And watch your language.

by Anonymousreply 410October 11, 2021 6:27 PM

It's not true that tons of guys identify as bi, but believe what you want. Girls are still significantly more likely to identify as bi

by Anonymousreply 411October 11, 2021 6:29 PM

[Quote]And watch your language.

R410 Watch your language mother fucker! What the fuck are you even talking about?

I am talking about science. Go talk to a Doctor about White skin. They will tell you it wrinkles faster - especially if it is in the sun!

Don't blame me because you are fact resistant.

by Anonymousreply 412October 11, 2021 6:35 PM

R412 And why does this matter. What are you trying to prove. Why does it matter to you how fast do the white get wrinkles.

by Anonymousreply 413October 11, 2021 6:45 PM

I love bicurious men

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by Anonymousreply 415October 11, 2021 7:58 PM

R412 See you are a twink lover. But what about us older wrinkly guys. You would put us to sleep?

I am also into young guys, but the other day I was in the company of this guy who is almost 50. Lean and tall and moderately wrinkly. Ex blonde, now grey, grey eyes. Eloquent, educated. Charmer. An architect. Alas, I think he is straight.

by Anonymousreply 416October 11, 2021 8:11 PM

R416 I am not really into twinks. My commentary is simply based on White male beauty as others were addressing a twink on tiktok.

Generally speaking, White men look drastically different as they age. What may have started out pretty is often not pretty for long.

I like good looking men which means I am open to all ages, races and sizes. And There are "some" older White men who are attractive but in my opinion a lot more of them are NOT. Most blondes and red heads are destroyed.

Beauty is subjective and others are free to disagree. That is fine. But the arguing is unnecessary. It is not gonna change my opinion, But to those who want to argue, if it makes you feel good, knock yourself out!

by Anonymousreply 417October 11, 2021 9:23 PM

R415 Ah the "desperate to look cool" flipping off in a video never gets old. No doubt their lives have many challenges to overcome.

by Anonymousreply 418October 11, 2021 10:00 PM

R368 times changing: obviously gay guys now claim to be queer, pan, bi etc.

by Anonymousreply 419October 11, 2021 10:21 PM

R417 I won't force you to like old white guys, but you gained attention by putting the limit on 25 yo. Most of people aren't really wrinkled and bloated at 25. Maybe they lose some freshness of first youth, but it's the same for other races, even with the firmer and thicker skins and bodies. But hey, you don't like what you don't like.

For me, event though you're right that some white guys age horribly, there are some middle aged white guys that have certain easyness, smoothness and elegance that is rare in ther races. Like Daniel Day Lewis, middle aged Jagger, Clooney when he was few years younger. Of black guys Obama had it. Well, to each their own.

by Anonymousreply 420October 11, 2021 10:44 PM

Stop 🛑

by Anonymousreply 421October 11, 2021 10:52 PM

R420, Yes but both of your examples kinda show that honkies don’t age well. They both looked like hell early on.

I think it’s the sun. White people get destroyed by the sun until they look like complete hell by 28. Some make it to 38 but that’s the end of the road for whitey.

Don’t get me started on the blondes with light eyes. They are lucky to make it to 30. And then they look horrible. Many fair blondes hit the wall at 21. I’ve seen it happen at 18. Totally bald. Wrinkles not far behind. I wish I was joking.

by Anonymousreply 422October 11, 2021 10:54 PM

R419, but the number of people claiming to identify as gay hasn't gone down, which disputes that theory. The number of people identify as gay AND bi have gone up. Also women are more likely than men to identify as "pansexual" or whatever

by Anonymousreply 423October 11, 2021 10:56 PM

R423, depends on the survey or poll. At best, it has plateaued, while bi, fluid, and mostly straight identity have skyrocketed

by Anonymousreply 424October 11, 2021 11:01 PM

R423 only if you assume that the number of visible, obviously gay men hasn’t gone up…..Social Media gives these people a kind of publicity that they wouldn’t have been given years ago.

by Anonymousreply 425October 11, 2021 11:28 PM

I believe it's called DENIAL.

by Anonymousreply 426October 11, 2021 11:31 PM

R422 You are really full of hate for whities honkies. I pity you, because a hater is a sad person. Must have had a horrible life to speak so bitchy about other human beings because of their skin color.

Maybe they are not so ugly, it is just that you don’t have taste.

by Anonymousreply 427October 11, 2021 11:38 PM

Everybody speaks about racism on DL, but so far I have noticed more posts of blacks hating whites than the other way around. I know, the history and all, but get a grip guys, time to move on and stop hating on the whole race for the injustice done to you by a small percent of white people in power.

by Anonymousreply 428October 11, 2021 11:46 PM

And you R422 only a truly ugly person can say such ugly things as you.

by Anonymousreply 429October 11, 2021 11:48 PM

And you white Americans gays are sissies for letting someone insult you and staying mute as a fish.

by Anonymousreply 430October 11, 2021 11:49 PM

R429 Girls, Girls - you are BOTH fucking ugly!

by Anonymousreply 431October 11, 2021 11:49 PM

No, R422 is fuckin ugly and full of hate, I am not.

by Anonymousreply 432October 11, 2021 11:50 PM

R431 Maybe you have your white liberal guilt but I have never done anything wrong to a black person and I won’t take their insults and spitting silently.

by Anonymousreply 433October 11, 2021 11:54 PM

R433 The guy is a jealous bitch who, unlike "honkies" couldn't end destroyed cause he already started this way.

by Anonymousreply 434October 12, 2021 12:27 AM

Back on topic. I have noticed that Gen Z girls are more likely to claim bisexual or pansexual as well as nonbinary and genderfluid. Gen Z guys are still mostly identified as straight but many have no issue with gays or bisexuals hence the queer baiting among the male social media whores. I think more bisexual men and masculine gays are out now though due to less stigmas.

by Anonymousreply 435October 12, 2021 12:49 AM

R435, have you just realized this? Have you missed this conversation and observation over the last decade, since the advent of Instagram? Not to bust your balls, but you said it like it’s breathing news

by Anonymousreply 436October 12, 2021 12:54 AM

R436 I don't live on social media and it's something I've just noticed in recent years. Plus this thread got derailed. I really don't see what is your issue anyway.

by Anonymousreply 437October 12, 2021 1:06 AM

This account is satire of all the gay pron situations. In this hilarious clip he discussed one of his sexapades in Steve Irwin style.

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by Anonymousreply 438October 12, 2021 1:59 AM

[quote] I have noticed that Gen Z girls are more likely to claim bisexual or pansexual as well as nonbinary and genderfluid

Because they're annoying little bitches in desperate need of attention!

by Anonymousreply 439October 12, 2021 4:04 AM

R438 Does anyone think this flaming homo is bisexual?

I'm pretty sure that astronauts can see his limp wrist and cum-stained teeth from outer space.

by Anonymousreply 440October 12, 2021 9:47 AM

R440, I like their step dad and step son skits

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by Anonymousreply 441October 12, 2021 10:31 AM

R441 The woman's voice at the beginning was weird. Why would she even be there?

by Anonymousreply 442October 12, 2021 10:43 AM

R422 You trolling cunt.

30 yo blondie

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by Anonymousreply 443October 12, 2021 11:05 AM

30 yo guy with superior genes

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by Anonymousreply 444October 12, 2021 11:07 AM

LOL This thread is hilarious. But you must admit he's got a point about MOST white guys, especially blonds. And r444? True, Tyler the Creator looks a hot mess now. But here's the twist: he'll look exactly the same at 60.

by Anonymousreply 445October 12, 2021 11:18 AM

There is no hotter guy than this middle aged white guy from Balkans.

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by Anonymousreply 446October 12, 2021 12:56 PM

I really don’t find Gen Z guys attractive. I guess I’ve never really been into younger guys, but while millennials got a bad rap, we have nothing on the narcissist Tiktok floppy haired obligatory he/she/them pronoun generation. I’m officially ready for my pipe and slippers.

by Anonymousreply 447October 12, 2021 1:01 PM

Darko in his twinkish days

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by Anonymousreply 448October 12, 2021 2:53 PM

And in his 30s

Beautiful at any age

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by Anonymousreply 449October 12, 2021 2:55 PM

[quote] But you must admit he's got a point about MOST white guys, especially blonds.

There's a line in All About Eve (1950) spoken by a woman who's turning 40, about her boyfriend: Bill's 32, he looks 32. He looked it five years ago. He'll look it 20 years from now. I hate men.

This was about a white guy. It always gets a laugh because people recognize the truth of it. White guys don't suddenly fall apart at 25, not usually even at 45. Blondes? Robert Redford looked good for years. Brad Pitt. Ryan Gosling. Why persist in this stupidity?

by Anonymousreply 450October 12, 2021 3:13 PM

How did this get twisted into a racial matter?

by Anonymousreply 451October 12, 2021 3:15 PM

Some rabid anti white wanted to prove that white guys become ruins at their 25 th birthday, while he will remain forever young.

by Anonymousreply 452October 12, 2021 3:20 PM

R446 The guy has beautiful eyes. We girls, unlike you guys, love mature sophisticated white guys.

by Anonymousreply 453October 12, 2021 3:25 PM

Every bisexual guy I know bud closeted and no one knows and I’ve known a lot, so of course more women are going to IDENTIFY (key word here) as bisexual than men

There was a period when I was hooking up with bi guys like crazy

And the women who don’t want to date bi guys have nothing to do o worry an since almost every bi guy I’ve known is secretive about, the women would have no idea

by Anonymousreply 454October 12, 2021 3:59 PM

R454 Women have absolutely nothing to worry about

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Here is your non-movie star average 30 yo Blond White guy!

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by Anonymousreply 456October 12, 2021 4:46 PM

R465 I don't get it. What's his age? Are there pictures of him when he was younger that were more attractive? (He's not bad looking.) You're not proving anything posting a random picture of a guy.

by Anonymousreply 457October 12, 2021 4:53 PM

And this is our Slavic average 30 yo blond guy

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by Anonymousreply 458October 12, 2021 4:53 PM

R456 He is about 40.

by Anonymousreply 459October 12, 2021 4:55 PM

R459 And...what's your point?

by Anonymousreply 460October 12, 2021 4:57 PM

He is not bad for 40

by Anonymousreply 461October 12, 2021 5:00 PM

R443 Here's another 30 year old White guy!

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by Anonymousreply 462October 12, 2021 5:01 PM

This one is 35 (1986)

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by Anonymousreply 463October 12, 2021 5:02 PM

R462 Sweet bear

by Anonymousreply 464October 12, 2021 5:03 PM

Ilya Shakunov (13 August 1970, Leningrad)

This one is average 50 yo, well 51

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by Anonymousreply 465October 12, 2021 5:15 PM

R457 Who are you asking?

by Anonymousreply 466October 12, 2021 5:32 PM

Here is another "gorgeous" 30 year old White guy! LOL

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by Anonymousreply 467October 12, 2021 5:38 PM

My grandpa. He works in Germany

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by Anonymousreply 468October 12, 2021 5:39 PM

I think we found the missing link! LOL Look at this 30 year old cro magnon looking motherfucker! HAHAHAHA

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by Anonymousreply 469October 12, 2021 5:45 PM

Somebody please feed this ugly bitch! LOL

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by Anonymousreply 470October 12, 2021 5:46 PM

I don't know what this thread has become, but post number 600 can't come fast enough for me.

The pictures of these guys don't prove they deteriorated with age. They probably looked the same when they were 21. I don't want to say you're stupid, but - you're stupid.

by Anonymousreply 471October 12, 2021 5:52 PM

R471 Is one of those pictures you???

You seem a little too vested in this. Calm down you ugly motherfucker.

Ugly is not a sin. It will be ok. HAHAHAH

by Anonymousreply 472October 12, 2021 6:06 PM

R472 Keepin it classy yo

by Anonymousreply 473October 12, 2021 6:38 PM

R473 Why don't you keep it classy by not calling people "stupid" who you don't know. You fucking moron. If you don't like or care about what I posted then why are you responding directly to me? Quit being a dick. You get what you give!

by Anonymousreply 474October 12, 2021 7:08 PM

R474 I didn't even put a number in my post. What makes you think I was talking about you? Then you call me a stupid motherfucker. lol

by Anonymousreply 475October 12, 2021 10:41 PM

Bonkers thread

by Anonymousreply 476October 13, 2021 3:27 AM

R349 embarrassed himself and exposed his eldergayness. LOL.

by Anonymousreply 477October 14, 2021 1:44 AM

Zan .

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by Anonymousreply 478October 14, 2021 4:12 PM

R477 exposed he is old and feeble minded. LOL

There is no fool like an old fool!

by Anonymousreply 479October 14, 2021 4:17 PM

A lil

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by Anonymousreply 480October 14, 2021 7:00 PM

^ again the fucking horrible permed mop top. That hair looks good on no one.

by Anonymousreply 481October 14, 2021 7:19 PM


Mothers go through so much with gay sons. Many moms wanna think it is a phase or maybe he can still meet a nice girl who can "change his mind." Although most moms say right away that they accept it, I think they have a hard time doing so and still hold out hope for a while.

Dads are usually one note. They either accept it or reject him because Dad's know how dicks work. If the boy says he's gay then that means he's getting hard thinking about guys. It's a wrap! The boy is gay. Bisexuality is rarely a consideration since a lot of people consider that gay. LOL

by Anonymousreply 482October 14, 2021 7:20 PM

R482 Think that fathers know how busexuslity is rare and there is mostly a single thing that makes a guy hard.

by Anonymousreply 483October 14, 2021 9:10 PM

R480 I don't even need to look at the video to want to slap him across the room.

by Anonymousreply 484October 14, 2021 11:55 PM

R483 That too! LOL

by Anonymousreply 485October 15, 2021 2:50 AM

R483 I don’t think bisexuality is rare

According to people, if a guy does stuff with a guy just once he’s gay

And. Recent poll found 33%?of men have had at least ONE sexual experience another guy, but yet only 9% claimed to be fully gay

That leaves 24% as… bisexual at least

The big problem with bi men, because of the stigma, that ironically gay men promote, they are never never ever rarely open about it so they fly under the radar since most bi guys are indistinguishable than your typical straight guy and they’re almost always in relationships with women

I posted in another thread how I was hooking up with bi guys, real masculine pussy loving dudes too, in my old neighborhood like crazy, it was like every guy I became friends with turned out to be secretly bi and opened to fooling around with another guy

It actually got annoying after awhile because we were all closeted bi’s and a lot of times I just wanted FREINDSHIPS with these guys

by Anonymousreply 486October 15, 2021 3:13 AM

R486 here, also as a masculine bi guy, I hear straight men talk all the time about how pussy is so wonderful that it makes sense for a woman to be bi and like both pussy and dick

But wouldn’t that apply to gay men as well? I mean pussy is so great then why wouldn’t men who also like dick like pussy , why does one have to cancel out the other

I actually know a mostly gay guy, who came out and is in the scene and sometimes will hook up with women be he loves the feeling of pussy but he’s scared to tell people that’s he’s basically bisexual and he won’t even comment on a woman’s attractiveness on social media or in public

Yet straight women can constantly comment on a woman’s attractiveness

Society is really freightened by any type of male sexuality that’s fluid

It’s really weird

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by Anonymousreply 488October 16, 2021 3:38 AM

[quote]^ again the fucking horrible permed mop top. That hair looks good on no one.

I'm always reading variations on this comment on DL threads- maybe it's all the same person. Finally I'm going to reply. I think this haircut is really cute. I don't think it's usually a perm, either. It can be cut this way with curly, wavy, or straight hair. I think it's flattering and cute and I like it.

by Anonymousreply 489October 16, 2021 4:38 AM

Model Julian Horne

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by Anonymousreply 490October 18, 2021 1:39 AM

Dudes bisexual until Florida brunch squirts her pussy in his cookie eating face.

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Check out my 7 way vacation fuck on my OnlyFans.

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My type

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by Anonymousreply 494October 21, 2021 3:34 AM

R487, you sound stupid as hell. FUCK OFF with the gay conversion bullshit. You're that damn dense you don't understand why gay men are gay?

by Anonymousreply 495October 21, 2021 10:42 AM

R495 Oh God, all that fluidity, bi and multi sexuality, pan(demic) etc. I must be getting old for all this.

by Anonymousreply 496October 21, 2021 12:18 PM

Bi men do these stupid flexes, I hate it when someone else in the lgbt whatever world tries to regulate gay men. Just because you can pass for straight doesn't mean you dictate to me who to fuck or that I need to be "fluid." I am a gay man who wants male MEN with a dick.

by Anonymousreply 497October 21, 2021 11:56 PM

Dirty dog

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by Anonymousreply 498October 27, 2021 1:30 AM

Goddam is he ever pretty R498 !

by Anonymousreply 499October 27, 2021 1:54 AM

I don't know, most of those Tiktok "bi" guys seems attention seekers. I personally think they will end up with women.

by Anonymousreply 500October 27, 2021 1:55 AM

Newsflash R500. Bi guys always end up with women. Every queen over the age of 15 knows this. I think its even in the gay handbook.

by Anonymousreply 501October 27, 2021 2:13 AM

r487 jump off a cliff already, Jesus Christ you bishits are all insane. Also lol, 'masc bi guy' who is spending his time writing little bitchy posts of DATALOUNGE? Yeah, real masc.

by Anonymousreply 502October 27, 2021 2:31 AM

R502 except masculine bi guy hasn’t written anything on here that can be considered “bitchy”

Many people find this site from Googling a topic and three they’re brought in here

by Anonymousreply 503October 27, 2021 9:40 AM

R503, that comment that basically says all gay men should be bi was bitchy and stupid as fuck. He's either irredeemably dense or a sociopath, fuck that piece of shit.

by Anonymousreply 504October 27, 2021 10:18 AM

R504 it was dumb but it wasn’t bitchy In fact, most straight men think the same thing about gay men (“How could a man not love pussy, what’s wrong with them “)

by Anonymousreply 505October 27, 2021 10:21 AM

It wasn’t bitchy, dude

by Anonymousreply 506October 27, 2021 1:08 PM

Dude, bruh… #nohomo

by Anonymousreply 507October 27, 2021 1:15 PM

I’m on the cusp of Gen Z. I am very, very delved into gayity, but there was one girl I truly loved. I guess I was a one-time homoflexible? Yet, my music tastes come straight from baby boomers. I’m sorry, trap music fans, your ‘woke’ music sounds like shit.

by Anonymousreply 508October 27, 2021 2:06 PM

R505 Most straight men are not only puzzled about gays not liking pussy, but they can't understand how can a man be attracted to another men and do sexual things with him. And the homophobes mostly mention anal sex between men as something gross.

by Anonymousreply 509October 27, 2021 2:10 PM

Eldergays, I was born in '52, and really have no memory of anyone IDing as bisexual through the 60s-70s ..... My memory is Elton John Rolling Stone interview in '76 sort of threw it out there for the mainstream. Am I remembering correctly?

by Anonymousreply 510October 27, 2021 2:11 PM

R508 Many gay men truly loved one girl, and it was mama.

by Anonymousreply 511October 27, 2021 2:11 PM

I’ve had crushes on girls, but have never wanted to have sex with them.

by Anonymousreply 512October 27, 2021 2:19 PM

R512 That is not real crush, it's like my love for Liz Taylor.

by Anonymousreply 513October 27, 2021 2:25 PM

R509 most straight people think that even those who claim to be pro gay allies

There’s something very sad that happens when a masculine guy comes out as gay or even bisexual , which is why they’re more likely to stay closeted, your manliness, masculinity and even humanity is devalued by people, aka straight people majority, I’m only out as bisexual to close friends and I remember telling my straight buddy how it feels to be a bisexual man, “I said imagine being the same masculine guy you are now, same personality, same likes , you love being a man, and then once you come out as bisexual, you’re suddenly constantly being told that you’re not a real man anymore , you’re not one of the bros anymore and you’re not good enough “

He said “I never thought of it like that before “

Of course bisexual/lesbian bisexual women don’t have to put up with this crap

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by Anonymousreply 516October 28, 2021 7:38 PM

[quote]Goddam is he ever pretty [R498] !

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, isn't it?

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by Anonymousreply 518November 5, 2021 4:15 AM

R518 Looks like he's been rolling around in the newspaper recycling again.

by Anonymousreply 519November 6, 2021 8:18 AM

I love homiesexuality

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by Anonymousreply 520November 6, 2021 2:35 PM

This thread is full of guys who seems super gay but claim to be bi….how exciting, brave, inspirational, progressive etc……

by Anonymousreply 521November 7, 2021 8:49 AM

Bi King

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by Anonymousreply 523November 8, 2021 5:05 PM

Zach Dodson

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by Anonymousreply 524November 10, 2021 2:32 AM

r524 'stop putting us in a box!'

by Anonymousreply 525November 10, 2021 2:50 AM

On Amazon

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by Anonymousreply 526November 10, 2021 3:01 AM

r526 words cant express what a annoying fucks these smug faced zoomer 'bi' boys are.

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by Anonymousreply 528November 14, 2021 2:54 AM

Every man was gay or bisexual in ancient times, then christianity happened..

by Anonymousreply 529November 14, 2021 2:57 AM

R529 Don’t forget about Islam

by Anonymousreply 530November 14, 2021 8:29 AM

R524 Put him in a box, and nail the lid shut.

by Anonymousreply 531November 14, 2021 1:30 PM

Zach is cool

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by Anonymousreply 533November 17, 2021 5:12 PM

Are people still bi these days? I thought the trend was to be non-binary or pansexual.

by Anonymousreply 534November 17, 2021 6:42 PM

Doesn’t matter. I’m a decent person

by Anonymousreply 535November 22, 2021 4:53 PM

That leaves a third of women who will date but dudes, and even higher with Gen Z women. That’s many millions of women

by Anonymousreply 536November 22, 2021 4:55 PM

Jay M

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Can’t suck D

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Home girls

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I only date bi and mostly straights

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by Anonymousreply 541December 18, 2021 4:20 PM

When sex becomes a chore.

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by Anonymousreply 543December 18, 2021 4:40 PM

I love it how this dude started off seeming like a cocky misogynistic womanizing gymbro, and now is obviously into trans women and femboys

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by Anonymousreply 545December 31, 2021 12:46 AM

Damian Townes

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by Anonymousreply 552January 17, 2022 12:52 AM

I'm of Robby Benson's generation - we were either straight or gay, none of this bisexual business.

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Well we don’t care what you think

by Anonymousreply 554January 17, 2022 1:11 AM

Corey Winn

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by Anonymousreply 555January 17, 2022 1:05 PM

r555 That queen really thinks he is hot shit huh. All his videos are cringe.

by Anonymousreply 556January 17, 2022 6:44 PM

He thinks he’s hot because hundreds of thousands of drooling people have told him so on TikTok

by Anonymousreply 557January 18, 2022 8:18 PM

bi queens are so tiresome!

by Anonymousreply 558January 18, 2022 9:02 PM

Its not just zoomers, there were raging queens back in the day who were/are 'bisexual'. I mean look at the total prisspot Sir Roy Strong

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by Anonymousreply 559January 19, 2022 8:10 AM

Gay men will fall for anything, especially believing that more guys are bi now. Check out the profiles on the hookup apps. Most guys claim they’re bi, but they are gay as a goose.

by Anonymousreply 560January 19, 2022 9:17 AM

There are levels of bisexuality

by Anonymousreply 561January 19, 2022 12:10 PM


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by Anonymousreply 563January 21, 2022 4:40 AM

Everyone is okay with Chinese spyware just like they're okay with Facebook's CIA surveillance.

by Anonymousreply 564January 21, 2022 11:51 AM

I don’t mind

by Anonymousreply 565January 21, 2022 12:19 PM

Baby mamas

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by Anonymousreply 566January 29, 2022 3:38 AM


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by Anonymousreply 570January 31, 2022 12:09 PM

It's impossible to believe that some of the guys in OP's video have any interest in girls at all.

by Anonymousreply 571January 31, 2022 12:36 PM

Effeminate gay men coming out as bi are forcing bis to come out as brosexual or straight feme fucker etc. It's the legacy of butch lesbian Judith Butler.

by Anonymousreply 572January 31, 2022 6:55 PM


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by Anonymousreply 573February 1, 2022 2:43 PM

r573 The actual worst type of bi guy. Calls himself gay all the time. Lives a very 'gay' lifestyle (I mean who even owns a nasty pig hat?) Thots out on instagram BUT needs it know that while he calls himself gay, he also wants to fuck women, y'all!!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 575February 3, 2022 3:03 AM

Bisexuality is a mistake. I could never date a bisexual. STDs and infidelity is already a big problem in the gay community... I'd imagine it's even worse with bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 576February 3, 2022 3:05 AM


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by Anonymousreply 578February 5, 2022 4:41 AM

Cory Winn

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by Anonymousreply 580February 9, 2022 4:27 AM

I love Cory

by Anonymousreply 581February 9, 2022 10:52 AM

Full disclosure

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by Anonymousreply 584March 20, 2022 3:27 AM

Hair bro

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