Gen Z and bisexuality

Only the hot guys actually crave cock. The fat ones and the ugly ones are just attention whores.

Why do you assume they “crave cock?” Maybe they just crave boogina!?

Who cares which way larvae wriggle?

I thought people have stopped having sex now.

What’s a tip tok?

Forget guys being Bisexual. Now they're Heteroflexible.

They are mostly straight

I have noticed that many of the young guys come out as bi instead of gay. I'd even say more come out as bi than gay. Is there a reason? I just find it odd. Are some of them gay but come out as bi to get attention? Do they think it makes them more attractive or woke or whatever? We all know gay men worship straight men, so it's probably the same with bi guys. Some of these "bi" guys are femme and only dating guys. Seem more gay than bi to me. Then you have those who claim to be bi but are really just straight. You never see them with guys, they are always dating women. I think some claim to be bi for attention and just to seem more woke.

They do it to seem edgy. Look, at the office here, we have a fag hag with green hair who is super jealous of any woman who is not obese like her and back stabs everyone. Has jeopardized projects both me and my roommate worked on and says she is a "socialist" who won't go to the mall (which is bullshit because in this Romanian town, the local version of Target, big pharmacies (which gave the flu shot which she said she got) and bigger supermarkets are all at the back of malls). She constantly says "I am LGBTQIAXYZF" and everything is "offensive" so she would run to HR all the time. She would follow one of the twinks in our office to the only gay club in town and drink and draw attention to herself when, in fact, she was totally unwanted and the few girls there either worked the coat room or would just stop in a sort of separate outdoor terrace place for a beer and pizza and keep to themselves (it's a different set up here). Totally inappropriate, attention seeking behavior that drew stares (which was what she wanted). One of the twinks at work told me that a few years ago a conservative Dutch fellow in his 60's asked her to live with him and have a baby (she's a very good housekeeper and cook and not ugly in the face) and she abandoned her principles immediately and went with him to Holland but was so odious that he kicked her out.

That is Gen Z....they feel "cool" usurping the LGBTQ identity.

Being bi feels less threatening than all out gay.

I think it's more the fact they're more aware of their sexuality.

Heterosexuality is the norm set by society, but it's not the human norm. A majority of people who call themselves straight are in the spectrum of bisexuality. But be it because they don't understand themselves, are bigots, or some other personal reason, they don't figure it out or refuse to accept their bisexuality.

With gen z tho, they're against against society's norms in general, so they're more open to admit they're not heterosexual, they're more open to experiment with the same sex, and they're more accepting of each other.

So even if their family and friends doesn't accept their bisexuality, they can turn to the internet and find others their age that are also on the same situation.

What the fuck does rolling up/cuffing your pants have to do with being bisexual?!?

(and almost all the guys in that video come off as gay, gay , GAY)

Cis straight oppressors are BORING!

LOOK AT ME NOT BEING BORING! VALIDATE ME!

I believe that has a lot to do with it. Not everything, but much of it.

Yeah, the guys at my school are all bi or fluid, even the straight guys.

I watched the TikTok but I couldn't see any cock.

Bi is so 90s. The kids today are all pan.

If only I'd known that all the dudes that cuffed their jeans in the 80's and 90's were bi, high school and college would've been way more fun.

It's not much different from the past except now a few more males like to pretend they are bisexual just like females. They're really just pandering heterosexuals or cowardly homosexuals. But, at least they aren't calling themselves pan. Progress!

GAY means you have to prance and mince and lisp. They don't want that

I hope for the next generation being the sex-negative generation. We need Sex negativity to progress as a society.

They're too unformed and lazy to BE anything specific.

It's a devolution to amoebae.

Where do you guys live?

Male bisexuality is still extremely taboo

Mostly because women simply won't tolerate and want no parts of it

Even a liberal magazine like Cosmopolitan did a survey and found that almost 70 percent of women wouldn't date a man whose been with another guy at least ONCE

Women won't allow it

They can be bi, and straight guys love that, but men can't

They were lectured to that the existing labels around them were offensive and derogatory. So they created new labels for themselves they feel are inoffensive. Only, the don’t view them as labels, lest they hurt their own feelings.

No one on the DL seems to realise that most people are secretly bi.

Uh, no, R24. Most people are heterosexual. Some people are homosexual. A few people are bisexual. Also, there is a difference between sexual orientation and sexual behavior.

Oh whatever, it's been this same things all the way back to the 80s, when it was briefly cool and edgy to be "bisexual" (without ever acting on it).

Datalounge.

Where a dozen or so attention whores on TikTok are clearly representative of an entire generation.

Well, some DLers clearly spend all fucking day on Tik Tok.

Call me when they're actually taking a cock up the ass. Otherwise, it's performative bullshit for people with no personalities. Most of these kids have not even had sex, with anyone, well into their early twenties.

Again women won't fuck with bi guys, so even if a guy was curious, he probably would never act on it because if it gets out it'll destroy his chances of getting pussy

Ask female friends, they'll all so NOPE

My gay friends always try to dismiss male bisexuality, even when they have romantic and sexual attraction towards woman, I guess if you want to be in a community you have to be 100% gay, there is a thing called bi erasure in the lgbt community

All these posts and opinions are violence! LITERAL VIOLENCE!!!!

R14 and you do understand that they are only calling themselves such in a desperate attempt to find an identity and seem cool, right?

And boomers and Gen X keep asking why why why on every bloody issue. Sometimes you don't have to understand every thing, nan.

Another fad like gluten, every kid having ADHD, yoga, it all goes in cycles, next year it will be something else.

I have a Gen Z brother that's ten years younger. I don't think the men are more likely to be bi than millennial men. There is definitely less stigma around it though so guys that fool around are more likely to be open about it. My brother called himself bi for a while and has definitely hooked up with guys in college. He has a long term girlfriend now, idk what he identifies as currently. In the past, guys who hooked up with guys in college would not openly discuss it or call themselves bi because of it.

I think the whole issue of Gen Z and bestiality really shows the failure of parents in today's world.

All that fur and all those feathers and scales! Such a mess! Disgusting!

It’s cause the guys are so hot these days and the girls drab as dishwater like the DAmelio girls and that Rae creature. Who wouldn’t rather fuck with the beautiful boys?

It's all for likes and followers on social media.

I don't really get what's surprising about this to people. Twenty years ago, If you were bi there was a huge amount of pressure to say you're straight so almost every single bi person did that. Most of us gay men would have done it too if it was possible for us to get it up for a women and enjoy sex. Society did not tolerate people who weren't straight.

Now there is no stigma attached to being attracted to the same sex so lots of people that were bi that would have called themselves straight 20 years ago now instead are openly bi. This is obviously the case and I don't get pretending you don't understand it just to make some lame joke about Gen Z wanting likes on social media or something else stupid.

This is funny. You usually see the women do the bi panic schtick but this time there's a guy in the middle.

And yes, he's actually bi. He's in a relationship with a guy.

I'm starting to think that only female bisexuality is genuine. 90% of bisexual men pine for pussy the whole time you're with them and end up ceasing same-sex attraction, marrying women, having kids and staying that way for life.

The acid test comes when the experimenting is done and family pressure often forces them to marry their much more socially acceptable female partners. We just knew you were straight hon!

Bisexuality is like alien life. For sure it exists but like UFO's, most bi's turn out to be sounding balloons...

R44 True, but I have a feeling many of these bisexuals are actually gay leaning. I'm a Millannial so I'm out of the loop, but I do follow quite a few male bisexual gen z guys on tiktok. Many of them admit they are more attracted to one over the other, they usually prefer guys. I think the shift is happening where bi guys who are like 70-30 before would call themselves just gay but are now identifying as bi, even if they do lean gay. I could see it the other way around too. The guys who lean hetero are identifying as bi when they would have identified as straight a decade or two ago. But as I said, at least for guys, many (if not most) of the bi guys I follow do have a preference, a gay one.

Because all people are bi, OP. Just you wait. Another 30 years max and most will be comfortable realizing and admitting they are bi.

I think it’s they’s calling themselves “bisexual”, it’s not necessarily true. Most “bisexuals” are in straight relationships according to Gallup.

[quote]Because all people are bi, OP.

No, I’m not bi. I’m gay.

A combination of factors, one being a desire not to say no on the principle that, whether they are prepared to act upon it or not, it's negative (and somehow reflects poorly upon them). The other is that same sex attraction grows when there is room provided to act upon the opportunity. (All the bloody whining about "Why would anyone want to be born like this!?" overlooks the possibility that people steer away from/suppress or act upon feelings in some proportion to the idea that they perceive it to be a possibility.

[quote]Another 30 years max and most will be comfortable realizing and admitting they are bi.

No. I don’t what this is referencing but I suspect it’s that gay or straight men are not into transmen or transwomen.

[quote]The other is that same sex attraction grows when there is room provided to act upon the opportunity.

If I were trapped on an island with all women, I would never have sex again.

Song

Why? Because society is now more accepting of something that is inherent to some degree in all humans. The pressure to suppress these tendencies is not as intense as it once was.

Probably lots of bi now straight laters.

Bisexuality was always rampant in the "straight male" community, but the world was too puritanical to accept it. Times change though, Bisexuality is more accepted now so men are willing to explore their inherit same sex attraction.

I teach at a major university in a big blue city and yeah, they're all pansexual and fluid now. Getting a little more rare to see a jock and sorority girl together, which used to be the norm. Just a lot more diversity and acceptance of nearly everything now with the young college-agers.

R20 what is that?

More like this please

They’re just trying to be cool it’s not sincere. It reminds me of that line from Not if You Were the last Junkie on Earth “ You never thought you'd get addicted, just be cooler in an obvious way I could say, shouldn't you have got a couple piercings and decided maybe that you were gay,”

Not gay. Bi or mostly straight

This generation will be even more insufferable when they reach middle age.

No, they are cool

Only on DL does the notion of defining a generation based on a handful of thirst trap TikTok stars seem like a good idea.

Now that gay is normal for them and they see their seniors are getting married with kids and Monday night football, bisexuality is the new frontier.

Nice

Side dude

I think that trend is overly reported. It’s better than in the past, but the boys in this gen are still pretty homophobic. The girls far less so (homophobic), toward gay boys-particularly fems.

Bi athlete

I love Gen. Z

Bi guys who are romantically heterosexual are the least likely of any group to come out. They often view their interactions with men as something purely sexual so they think there's no need to share that with friends, family, or even the women they date / marry.

There's been a movement to get more of them to come out as bisexual if only to raise awareness that it exists and to destigmatize male bisexuality. Most gays are out with family and work, most bi guys are not. so expect to see a lot more coming out

my friends brother did this. he's got a girlfriend but informed the family he was bisexual.

the real reason why Gen Z straights don't have girlfriends and are forced to sleep with each other

Bisexuals treat their girlfriends as badly as they treat their boyfriends.

Anyone who thinks people are just pretending to be bi to score cool points is an idiot. Clearly more people are just reporting as bi now that it's more socially acceptable to do so, whereas in the past people hid that side of themselves. End of story.

I think more people are just open about finding the same sex attractive which is causing them to call themselves "bi". But way too many people seem to not understand acknowledging someone as attractive is not the same as being sexually attracted to them. Also, it's probably the same people who mislabel close same-sex friendships and intimacy as a sign of bisexuality. That's extremely regressive as well. Being bisexual means you enjoy having sex with both men and women. Thinking someone of the same sex looks attractive or being emotionally close to the same sex is not the same as actually being bisexual.

[quote] I think that trend is overly reported. It’s better than in the past, but the boys in this gen are still pretty homophobic. The girls far less so (homophobic), toward gay boys-particularly fems.

I've noticed that too. I think the girls are still a bit homophobic in that they only acknowledge fem gay boys and love to appropriate drag culture and stereotypes. When they met boring/low-key gay boys who don't fit their stereotype and lack interest in feminine things, they tend to act surprised or annoyed.

it's because there's no meaningful way to be cool or different like there was in the past with grunge or emo or other subcultures. everything is available to everyone now because of the internet so all this "open" bisexuality stuff is just a way to signify edginess due to there still being a notable "taboo" around it in most places. also, there is a certain subset of women (mostly women who identify as "bisexual" themselves or dye their hair weird) that is into these very feminine bi seeming guys. zoomer girls LOVE timothee types.

Sexy

I think most everyone is on the spectrum, as Kinsey hypothesized. Gen Z is generally more tolerant of a wide range of diversity, so if they're feeling like they're a 3/10 or a 8/10, it's easier to come out and say it than it was for previous generations. They're not as judgmental . . . well, perhaps it's more accurate to say they judge you for different criteria (e.g., insta-worthiness, etc.)

I agree that most everyone falls somewhere on the bell curve but the lower you are on either side will override any attraction to whichever side you fall on if that makes sense. In other words, there will always be a bias for your preference. Your mind will assume you are straight or gay the lower you are on either side.

I work with Gen Z'ers. 90-95 of the guys are still straight. Anyone who claims he is bi is either really gay or just seeking attention.

I meant 90-95 percent.

R81,Dont be a loon dude

R20 that is the next trend on the horizon, I think.

Can’t remember the author or the title anymore, but years ago I read a cheap low-rent sci-fi paperback about a fictional future Earth where society had eliminated the need for sex to reproduce, and so sex had become this atavistic backward act that was societally frowned upon (like shitting in the street or in open sewers). People who discovered to still engage in sex on the underground were considered untouchables, and those conceived by sex were derisively called ‘orgs’ and treated like savages.

I assume that a LOT of people would respond to A LOT of different types of people sexually, but is that really bisexual? I don't know. I can identify beautiful people, especially beautiful women. But I am not attracted to them. It's just an acknowledgement or maybe envy. I still think if you really want to know what your sexuality is, you should think about who you used to have crushes on. OMG my nosy fifteen year old son just looked at what I was typing.

I have crushes on women and dudes

I can relate to that R85. My dad always had playboy models pics in his garage. I used to pick out the most beautiful would just stare at them. In my early twenties, I sometimes wondered if I was bi or a lesbian, So I had sex with a woman and was seriously bored. I decided that my attraction to women was that I saw their beauty as purely artistic.

Did you get it up, bro?

R87 is female.... bro.

R87 I went to a strict girls’-only school from age 12-18, and there was a lot of girl-girl romantic & sexual activity going on that in retrospect I would now describe as half-hearted situational convenience.

Many fellow girls I knew at the time engaged in lesbian activity, and dozens even openly called themselves bi or lesbian to friends & family, but a decade on from that time only a handful of all those girls are still actively pursuing women for sex or love. A lot are ‘queer’ women in Hetero marriages with kids.

Interestingly, the few of my old class who are currently dating women or openly calling themselves lesbian were the ones in deep the closet and not the ones having causal lesbian sex or dates back then. The real gays were in hiding as vulnerable kids, because they had much to fear and something to protect.

[quote] I work with Gen Z'ers.

You work at Pizza Hut?

Gen Z is lit

Bi King

Gabe

Gabe

It’s queer pressure.

If you are anything other than full hetero, it gives you an opportunity to maintain that you are misunderstood, perhaps even discriminated against — dare I say (fully tumescent here) oppressed. That’s the pole position in modern social discourse.

Huh?

Hottie

What label applied when you date non-binary folks?

My personal experience as a Millennial with Gen Zs seems to confirm this with some particular observations. Let me remind you that the oldest Gen Z is 26 already, this is not exclusive of teenagers.

I rent from a veteran who seems to love army guys, so basically all my neighbors are either in the military or somehow connected to it. They're between 23-28. My next door neighbor says he's straight, but keeps asking me, an out gay guy what I think about bisexuality, all the time. He's 24, never dates, he's kind of gloomy and sad and once told me he had fucked women for sex only and it was the worst feeling for all of them. He wants true love.

They smoke weed so I've joined them before and that's how the real scoop comes in. Theres an openly gay army guy there, who even hugged me when we met. He's very hot but not really my type, but I was aware that he dated another army guy now in prison for whatever he did, he was also a dirt biker, it has to do with drugs and violence. I sometimes hear him fucking women, I even mentioned this before on DL on other threads, he still calls himself gay and so do his friends, even though he fucks women randomly.

Why? You tell me. Then the other 3 we hang out with, claim to be straight, but all have told me in private they had same sex relations and one of them even is in love with a guy who's married. So in my experience they're really blurring the lines, and this is coming from guys with a very masculine perspective.

I forgot to mention this dude who's really into showing his videos fucking girls, he really shows them, then one day the other army dude came to me and said they had fucked many times while drunk and that even though he loves to fuck women he thinks the other dude is a closet case with a reputation for rough sex with guys.

[quote] I'm starting to think that only female bisexuality is genuine. 90% of bisexual men pine for pussy the whole time you're with them and end up ceasing same-sex attraction, marrying women, having kids and staying that way for life.

Not my experience at all. Most of my exes were true bisexual men. Are you from an old generation?

Some are married to women today, others are dating guys. There is a spectrum though on how they relate to it. Some have emotional attractions to one gender and only fuck the other and the other way around. It's as diverse as anything else.

The oldest GenZ is turning 23, by some definitions 21

I believe that straight people mostly fake it out. Just because of religious constraints and “how my family will judge me” are why so many men are unhappy with women and in return, their sexuality. A great amount of men are gay — they just choose to fake it out their whole lives.

R11 That is bullshit. Most people are straight.

[quote]R56: Bisexuality is more accepted now so men are willing to explore their inherit same sex attraction.

Oh, dear.

Inherent

Alors on danse

Just what we needed, more queenie bottoms...

"It's not only girls anymore, a ton of guys are openly bisexual too"

Mmmmmm......no

[quote]R45 Bisexuality is like alien life.

Is it really that scary??

I’m only into bi and mostly straight bros

[quote]R104 The oldest GenZ is turning 23, by some definitions 21

#iStandWithThem

Pansexual

Social media bi

They’re not.

This Russian twink is in dangerous territory with this type of vids. His account was just restored after he got banned probably ordered from the Gulag.

Fine AF

Cutie

Sexy

No labels bro

[quote]Why are so many gen z bisexual?

Because they are 20 years old! No one knows fuck about themselves at that point. Round them all up by ten years and you’ll see heteronormative square men and women all through them, just like counterculture boomers started out hippies and later because Wall Street lawyers

Not really r123. This is much different, as researchers note.

Mass thirst

It’s called pink money.

Boner Alert 🚨

Everyone is bisexual. Except Bruce.

Bruce?

Bisexual, not biromantic

Keeping their options open?

Apparently sex rates have plummeted for guys as a whole (though the ones getting sex are getting more) Which makes sense with hookup apps, social media, online dating.

R129. Yea, bruce. That one. We all know one.

Meme

I wonder if the current wave of sexual fluidity we're experiencing might have happened in the mid 1980's if AIDS hadn't slowed the progress of acceptance of homosexuality and bisexuality. It certainly seems like that's where things were headed until AIDS became associated with non-heterosexual sex, and pushed people back in the closet or away from their true sexuality.

I don't believe everyone is as fluid as they say. Not that no one is; fluidity probably has increased overall, but not as much as it might seem. Kids on social media in this day and age - if they fuck girls, but think a guy at school is cute (or turn that around) - they're bisexual .

[quote]Apparently sex rates have plummeted for guys as a whole (though the ones getting sex are getting more) Which makes sense with hookup apps, social media, online dating.

I read that study or at least a study on it.

It came down to, young men and women drink less than they previously did so the rate dropped for both groups. Men also play more computer games and live at home with their parents longer. Student debt and financial insecurity didn't play a role. Women who use the internet a lot actually had more casual sex than women who didn't.

Gen Z's parents are Gen X and Older Millennials and I think that plays a huge role in how they have grown to be more open about their sexuality. Both groups grew up in a time where people were pushing for more acceptance. They didn't have Billy Crystal on Soap. We had Ricky on My So Called Life, LGBT clubs in school, A Shot at Love with bisexual Tila Tequila, and Will & Grace. All of that had to make an impression. Gen Z gets to grow up with gay marriage, gay apps and Pride sales from Nike. I'm sure things are terrible in some parts of the country but things are improving from a few decades ago.

My nieces and nephews have a cousin who came out as gay. My aunt whispered it to them since she saw it on Facebook. One asked her, "Why are you whispering?" My niece said, "He's gay? Oh." Then they went back to talking about whatever random show they were talking about. They have gay and bi friends at school. They see people on TV. Their moms and dads don't care because they were already prepared for it from seeing it beginning to be brought out more into the open growing up.

R23 is ancient

These are kids just playing around and having a quick joke.

Seven of them have already been taken down.

They are fickle and not to be trusted.

Not bi, Homiesexual or Brosexual

Some of it is a fad. A guy jerks off with a buddy and now he's bi or pan or whatever.

It doesn't even count unless they're capable of sustaining long-term romantic and sexual relationships with both women and men. There are tons of men and boys who will (gladly) mess around with the same sex, but those who are able to go beyond that with both sexes are relatively rare (women, of course, are a different story).

That’s garbage. Being bisexual or homiesexual or mostly straight does not depend upon ability or preference for romantic relationships. It’s defined by sexual attraction, including sexual attraction that one may never act upon. The majority of mostly straight, homiesexual, and bisexual men will never have a committed relationship with another men. They still aren’t straight or totally straight

R1 It's the opposite for lesbians. The fat ugly ones are the real deal. The pretty fit ones are in it for clout.

Bi Panic

Israel

[Quote] The majority of mostly straight, homiesexual, and bisexual men will never have a committed relationship with another men.

Like homosexuals then.

Hehe good one

It’s like being back in the Roman Empire times everyone iis fucking everyone.

People are more open about their sexual attractions, but there is much less actual sex

Because being gay isn't woke enough for them. You have to be open and fluid to all ~experiences for gen Z to take you seriously. Notice how a vast majority (85%+) of bisexual women are in heterosexual relationships. A lot of these bisexual men and women will never be caught dead with the same sex. Being straight or flat out gay isn't cool anymore.

I have to laugh when old gays mirror old straights ("Oh, everyone's X to be fashionable!").

R150, it’s the opposite of wokemess. Most guys want to avoid identifying as “gay” because they associate it with being uncool or unmanly. Hence, they embrace alternative identities that allow them to express same-sex interest without taking on the crippling baggage and stigma of gay male identity.

Nah. It's more about maintaining female interest.

Grindr

Get outta your bubble OP! Homophobia's never been the problem for rich White cisgender identifying males that it's been for everyone else.

Everyone else has always been fucked by a homo-hating society which STILL discriminates and bashes gay/bi people.

The tick-tock attention whores will do anything to drive traffic to their pages! Those freak shows don't represent the masses. All are exploiting homosexuality and many are likely not even gay/bi.

I don't believe the younger generation is any more accepting than their parents. They are just more "tolerant." There is a difference.

R154 lol

There are not more bisexuals- there are fewer closeted homo- and bi- sexual. While we have a way to go, things have gotten easier for the non straight.

Whoa

Bi muslims

R159, I was excited until those words appeared to come out of his mouth.

As always, the freudian trolls never disappoints in such threads.

Also, women who avoid "bi" men are queens and have self-respect.

Cute

Legs wide open bro

Stop posting TikTok links.

Because gay and bi guys are far more prone to become TikTok attention whores than straight guys OP

Nothing to do with Gen Z or there being a lot more bisexuals.

That’s a fanciful lie

This is a mix of people.

Some are gay (putting their pinky toe outside the closet - fully prepared to say "it was just a joke" if needed).

Some are clearly not gay.

I don't believe ANY of these guys are bi. BTW, are guys really still trying to say "Bisexual" is a thing? Are we still believing that shit? Really?

One thing is clear - they are all attention whores and using the "I may be gay" as a way to generate discussion & traffic to their pages!

It's working! So they will keep doing it!

The Kiss or Slap bro

R167 is so ignorant. Bisexual and mostly straight identity and behavior has skyrocketed over the last decade. In fact, many current surveys show more males identify as bi or mostly straight than gay.

R169 Are you serious right now? "Mostly straight?" What the fuck is that? LOL Do you realize how stupid you sound right now?

You are either sucking dick or you aint! This aint complicated.

You must be young. The earth has been populated for millions of years. We don't need new terms & phrases. Just admit you're a homosexual. You may still do other things too and that's cool, but you're gay. There is nothing wrong with that. Accept it.

Try telling the a young woman and her parents that you want to marry her and you're "mostly straight!"

They'd throw your looney ass out faster than Uncle Phil threw Jazzy Jeff out on the Fresh Prince of Bel Air! LOL

R170 is so very ignorant and outdated

I read that as Gen Z and bestiality (shudder). And no, most of them are not bi, they're just attention whores.

More hot, masculine athletic dudes available is a great thing! These are awesome times

Oh, the stink of the sad, jealous rage coming off this thread.

Come to terms with it Eldergays: the world is better now (in some ways), these kids are sincere, and they are definitely happier than you were at their age. I'm sorry your own youths were so awful, but at least try and take some kind of grandfatherly pride in society's progress.