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Flirting with a straight man

I took a cooking class and I thought the chef was a hottie. I saw him in his t shirt before he put on the white coat and felt lust in my heart. He did not really flirt back but seemed receptive with smiles etc.

When he left the room for a minute one of other students who knew him told me that he was straight and very married.

After the class I apologized and he said that one should never apologize for being complimentary and kind. I think he meant it.

I wish everyone felt this way.

by Anonymousreply 405January 19, 2022 5:41 PM

He's totally whooping on you after class.

by Anonymousreply 1April 20, 2011 6:47 PM

What does it mean to be whooping on someone?

by Anonymousreply 2April 20, 2011 6:50 PM

You apologized for flirting?

by Anonymousreply 3April 20, 2011 6:51 PM

What the hell did OP do? Flit her eyelashes and twirl her hair?

by Anonymousreply 4April 20, 2011 6:51 PM

Was the "other student"'s name Cheryl?

by Anonymousreply 5April 20, 2011 6:57 PM

OP, for gods sake you didn't do anything wrong.

You are way to hard on yourself. I'm sure a good looking man like that gets flirted with a lot. He's a grown up and works as a chef. Put two and two together. He is probably around gay men and woman all day long.

Don't feel guilty.

by Anonymousreply 6April 20, 2011 7:01 PM

I was going to type the same exact thing as R3.

by Anonymousreply 7April 20, 2011 7:01 PM

Probably Tammy.

by Anonymousreply 8April 20, 2011 7:02 PM

He sounds like a nice guy. Maybe you can still trick him into bed with you. Bribes are also an option.

by Anonymousreply 9April 20, 2011 7:02 PM

Buttering your bundt pan like that was probably a little over the top, OP.

by Anonymousreply 10April 20, 2011 7:42 PM

Totally hawt men are always a little gay, OP.%0D %0D Keep at it, and at the least, you'll probably get to blow him.

by Anonymousreply 11April 20, 2011 7:58 PM

Unless you grabbed his junk while flirting, there was no need to apologize.

by Anonymousreply 12April 20, 2011 8:15 PM

He's the epitome of bi.

by Anonymousreply 13April 23, 2011 4:40 PM

Well, maybe you are just too...ugly...for him, OP?

by Anonymousreply 14April 23, 2011 4:45 PM

R12 is right.

by Anonymousreply 15April 23, 2011 4:57 PM

[quote]He's the epitome of bi.

Oh, god, the "epitome of bi" troll has escaped from his "home" and is back online. :-(

by Anonymousreply 16April 23, 2011 5:03 PM

"Totally hawt men are always a little gay, OP.'%0D %0D No they're not, Noodles. %0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 17April 23, 2011 5:04 PM

Did we lose responses during the downtime?

by Anonymousreply 18April 23, 2011 5:08 PM

Have straight men/women ever flirted with you?

by Anonymousreply 19May 4, 2012 6:06 AM

I almost only flirt with straight dudes.

by Anonymousreply 20July 2, 2013 1:13 PM

He just likes attention, OP.

Alot of people who are a little narcissistic or have a career based on pleasing others thrive on attention, compliments, and praise. So OP, if u were giving him compliments on things other than his cooking, he probably really appreciated it for a change, instead of praise about his food.

by Anonymousreply 21July 2, 2013 5:19 PM

I'll scramble your hole after class, OP.

by Anonymousreply 22July 2, 2013 5:23 PM

Flirting = Muumuu lift.

Cooking class = "Yum."

by Anonymousreply 23July 2, 2013 5:24 PM

lmao @ R10

by Anonymousreply 24July 2, 2013 5:29 PM

[all posts by flame bait troll #11 removed (violent racist homophobic right-wing misogynist), ISP notified with full text of all posts.]

by Anonymousreply 25July 2, 2013 5:56 PM

[quote]He did not really flirt back but seemed receptive with smiles etc.

I think most men seem receptive with paying customers.

by Anonymousreply 26July 2, 2013 6:02 PM

Your flirting was so blatant that third parties intervened? You sound like a real class act.

by Anonymousreply 27July 2, 2013 7:25 PM

Lust is typically felt in one's loins and love in the heart.

So which one was it?

by Anonymousreply 28July 2, 2013 7:30 PM

Putting lipstick on your asshole in full view of the class probably wasn't the best way to go about flirting.

by Anonymousreply 29July 2, 2013 7:37 PM

He was nice about it because he sees you as easy cash. He knows you think he's eye candy and you'll keep coming back just to stare at him. He's hoping you'll also bring some of your gay friends so he'll be able to afford that vacation he's been promising his bitch they'd go on.

by Anonymousreply 30July 2, 2013 7:41 PM

Who cares. Your gay/the chef straight-BTW: does he have a wedding ring?

If so, keep stepping. Find someone who is available. And not pining after someone who isn't-or if available, doesn't meet the fantasy ideal of him you've concocted.

Point blank, you don't know him. Get to know him first, then pine after him if he is receptive and available.

Plenty of fish in the sea.

by Anonymousreply 32July 2, 2013 7:50 PM

And yet r31 finds himself on a gay message board, you know, just hanging out.

Poor guy! "Preyed upon"! Usually the guys who think all the gay guys want him is a hideous troll who takes great pains to hide his junk when changing in the locker room, when in reality NO ONE wants his ugly ass.

by Anonymousreply 33July 2, 2013 7:54 PM


You do know this is a gay commenting board, Right?

I sense a recurring trend here.

Based off your visit, and the post you left for us sickly/perverted/hyper sexual-aggressive predators- I'm left with a a certain impression:

That, you troll nightclubs and other establishments for gay men...only to be insulted when they make a pass at you. That is sound logic there.

Yes. YOU ARE VERY HETERO! STRAIGHT-GUY/TOUGH-GUY; Manly-man. And us "fag" predators can't have you!


by Anonymousreply 34July 2, 2013 7:57 PM

[quote]We don't want gays, we're not gay, we don't need your sex-addicted mnd trying to convince us otherwise, we don't hate you, we're not afraid of you, and if you think we aren't tolerant, women have other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them.

You are deeply disturbed.

by Anonymousreply 35July 2, 2013 7:57 PM

I think R31 is likely an actor, a model or an altar boy. Who else would be in a position to be constantly preyed upon by closet cases?

by Anonymousreply 36July 2, 2013 7:59 PM

Mental illness runs in families.

R31's family.

by Anonymousreply 37July 2, 2013 8:01 PM


by Anonymousreply 38July 2, 2013 8:22 PM

R31 has a point and this is coming from a gayan. Why would gay guys go after guys that they know are straight and then cry homophobia when they're rebuked?

A straight guy will never ever ever hook up with another dude, shit they would pay a gorgeous call girl if they were desperate enough for no strings attached sex

Queeny delusional gay who flirt with amd try to hook up with men that they know are straight embarass me and set the gay rights movement back 50 years.

And if they take it one step further by touching a straight guy in an inappropriate way, they DESERVE to get the shit beat out of them.

by Anonymousreply 39July 2, 2013 8:36 PM

[quote] Why would gay guys go after guys that they know are straight and then cry homophobia when they're rebuked?

They wouldn't and they don't. Where is the fantasy that this happens coming from?

by Anonymousreply 40July 2, 2013 8:47 PM

R39, homophobic about yourself much?

Deserve to get the shit beat out of them?

No one deserves to be assaulted unless you are in fear for your life. Woman get flirted with all the time by men. I am sure not every unwanted touch ends in violence.

If you are straight or gay it dose not matter. Push the guys hand away and say you are not interested. He will get the hint.

As for you R39, Please seek some therapy for that internalized homophobia and self hate.

by Anonymousreply 41July 2, 2013 8:53 PM

R41 look asswipe I said if a guy sexually assaulted another guy (like grabbing his junk) without consent, they deserve to get a beatdown and most people would agree with me

If a dude groped a woman and the woman hit him with her purse or even got a good punch in that would be OK wouldn't it? She is defending herself

by Anonymousreply 42July 2, 2013 8:56 PM

Apparently, R42 has not sought counseling yet as I suggested.

Look at the rage and anger in his response. Clinical example of projection of self hatred.

He obviously has never been around women in a straight bar. They do not clock off guys left and right with their purses. If anything they call the bartender and have the guy kicked out.

How old are you? This is not 1950, get a grip.

by Anonymousreply 43July 2, 2013 9:10 PM

What is a "gayan," R39 R42?

by Anonymousreply 44July 2, 2013 9:16 PM

A citizen of Planet Gay, duh.

by Anonymousreply 45July 2, 2013 9:27 PM

No, not "duh," R45. He might have been a bro. Or a goy. Or one of those other ungay gays. HTF do I know what a "gayan" is?

by Anonymousreply 46July 2, 2013 9:29 PM

[quote] No, not "duh." . . . HTF do I know what a "gayan" is?

Hint: There is no Planet Gay.

by Anonymousreply 47July 2, 2013 10:00 PM

LOL R3 and R10

by Anonymousreply 48July 2, 2013 10:07 PM

Sorry, meant R5

by Anonymousreply 49July 2, 2013 10:08 PM

That was Julie in OP's class. The chef is gay as a goose but Julie thought it would be fun set the trap and sit back and watch.

by Anonymousreply 50July 2, 2013 10:59 PM

R42 only if it's been clearly defined they don't want it. Straight men often flirt with gays and only go into the "oh no, not that" routine later, after their orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 51July 2, 2013 11:13 PM

whatever, r51. straight dudes don't do gay dudes.

by Anonymousreply 52July 2, 2013 11:26 PM

How do you know for sure? Did you try to do one?

by Anonymousreply 53July 3, 2013 12:44 AM

[quote]felt lust in my heart

Who are you, Jimmy Carter?

by Anonymousreply 54July 3, 2013 12:58 AM

I love it when flirt dudes flirt with me first. Hot

by Anonymousreply 55July 14, 2013 12:02 AM

You never know what will get bumped two years later.

by Anonymousreply 56July 15, 2013 2:38 PM

I only flirt with straight, bi, or DL bros.

by Anonymousreply 57July 18, 2013 3:03 PM

If you think that anyone is going to flirt with a swishy effem-inate, then you have another think coming.

by Anonymousreply 58July 19, 2013 4:55 AM

How embarrassing for you, OP. You actually openly flirted with the instructor during class, in front of everyone, to the point where a classmate had to point out that you weren't going to get anywhere?

You sound like a hot mess.

by Anonymousreply 59July 19, 2013 6:43 PM

[quote]and if you think we aren't tolerant, women have other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them.

Who? Who has "other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them"? Who are these people? How do you know of them? Because it sounds like the plot of a bad TV movie, not an actual "thing". Bull-fucking-shit, "straight guy". No ones buying that.

Here's a clue, straight asshole who hangs out on gay websites bemoaning attention from closet-cases while channeling Lifetime movie plots for added drama: gay bashing IS a thing, it's something many gay people have experienced first hand and it happens everyday from playgrounds to boardrooms. So don't come here and spin some bullshit yarn about mafia princesses or "women on the verge" hiring hitmen to beat up unwanted suitors. You are a jackass of the highest order if you think such bullshit is relevant on a thread about actual, cool straight people who don't mind the occasional gay flirt.

Also: everyone knows you're gay. Your repressed homosexuality can be seen rom space.

by Anonymousreply 60July 19, 2013 6:52 PM

Death to R31.

by Anonymousreply 61July 19, 2013 7:11 PM

[post by racist shit-stain #3 removed.]

by Anonymousreply 62July 19, 2013 8:30 PM

tragic, dude

by Anonymousreply 63July 22, 2013 3:56 AM


by Anonymousreply 64July 22, 2013 4:33 PM

So OP who was it?

by Anonymousreply 65July 25, 2013 1:49 PM

flirting is only fun if the other person reciprocates

by Anonymousreply 66July 31, 2013 12:46 AM

Op didn't do anything wrong. This is the way people should react. Tons of people get hit on by people they're not in to, it's only apology worthy if you keep doing it even after finding out someones not receptive.

by Anonymousreply 67July 31, 2013 1:39 AM


by Anonymousreply 68August 2, 2013 4:23 PM

Don't view your straight male friends as objects of lust or flirtation. Respect people for who they are.

by Anonymousreply 69August 15, 2013 3:31 PM

or just grab their asses

by Anonymousreply 70August 15, 2013 3:36 PM

tell us your true stories, dudes

by Anonymousreply 71September 3, 2013 11:04 PM

If someone had to tell OP that the man was straight and married to get it to stop than OP made an ass of himself.

by Anonymousreply 72September 3, 2013 11:16 PM

"Death to [R31]."

Oh leave the poor dear alone. R31 is a 15 year old girl with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome playing on the computer while diddling herself thru her cotton panties.

by Anonymousreply 73September 3, 2013 11:31 PM

It's flattering if someone flirts with you. Don't apologize.

by Anonymousreply 74September 3, 2013 11:36 PM

Another example of the demise of DL. Why would someone bump a two year old thread that wasn't all that interesting when it originally appeared.

by Anonymousreply 75September 3, 2013 11:38 PM

In my experience, a 100% "straight man" is a rare find indeed, As rare as a Macedonian dodo bird.

Keep at it, OP. If he smiled at you while you flirted, he's open to having you suck his cock after a few beers.

That nosy bitch in your class is just jealous and has no idea that Hot Chef enjoys the occasional meat dish.

by Anonymousreply 76September 4, 2013 1:26 AM

What if he doesn't drink beer?

by Anonymousreply 77September 4, 2013 12:37 PM

OP: You are a CUSTOMER, paying for his time.

by Anonymousreply 78September 4, 2013 12:46 PM

[quote]What if he doesn't drink beer?

Then drink whatever he's drinking. And ask him a lot of questions about himself; they love it when someone wants to make the evening all about them. And it helps a lot if you pay at the end.

Then invite them over for some weed (or to watch some straight porn, or whatever game is on that night).

Works 9/10 times for me.

by Anonymousreply 79September 4, 2013 2:53 PM

Outside of the gym context, or any other place where men get nude, do straight men check out other men's package?

by Anonymousreply 80September 4, 2013 3:08 PM

R80, I'm a gay-identifying asexual man, and I never check out other men's packages.

by Anonymousreply 81September 4, 2013 3:28 PM

A 100% gay man is a rare creature as well, r76, despite what many gay men want to believe!

by Anonymousreply 82September 4, 2013 5:12 PM

I'm a 100% gay man.

by Anonymousreply 83September 4, 2013 5:15 PM

r76, you sound desperate, thirsty, and slutty, bro.

by Anonymousreply 84September 4, 2013 5:20 PM

Why thank you, R84. I live to pleasure!

by Anonymousreply 85September 4, 2013 5:25 PM

uh ok, dude

by Anonymousreply 86September 9, 2013 3:26 AM


by Anonymousreply 87September 27, 2013 4:52 PM

Flirt dudes straight with me.

by Anonymousreply 88November 18, 2013 3:55 PM


by Anonymousreply 89November 18, 2013 4:11 PM

I love lightly flirting with attractive straight dudes. It boosts both our egos.

by Anonymousreply 90November 26, 2013 4:12 PM

If a hot straight guy notices you looking at him in the gym, and then keeps adjusting his package and flashing his abs, knowing quite well that you are staring (and salivating!), does that mean he wants you? Please say that is what he intents.

by Anonymousreply 91November 26, 2013 4:20 PM

Any Youtube videos of this?

by Anonymousreply 92December 6, 2013 9:15 PM

Yestreday at zgym this superhot guy in late teens went to water fountain before goign to shower. He had a mouthwatering upper body. My locker was right next to fountain so I took in an eyefull. i know he saw me oogling him, and he pretended not to notice, but he started flexing his pecs. I think he liked the attenton.

by Anonymousreply 93December 6, 2013 9:28 PM

[quote]Why would gay guys go after guys that they know are straight

Because straight guys are real men, and that's what we all want. I'm only attracted to straight guys. The minute a guy says he's gay, or I get any inkling of such, my dick goes limp.

And who doesn't love it when the straight guy gets a little rough? It's part of the attraction.

by Anonymousreply 94December 6, 2013 9:29 PM

[quote]Because straight guys are real men..

When did Kordell Stewart start posting on Data Lounge?

by Anonymousreply 95December 6, 2013 9:33 PM

If a straight guy is horny enough, he'll at least let you blow him.

by Anonymousreply 96December 6, 2013 9:47 PM

That's been my experience, r96. And those times when you get the privilege of blowing a straight guy, it's just amazing. Again, it's a real privilege.

by Anonymousreply 97December 6, 2013 10:12 PM

I especially love when a straight guy calls me filthy names when he cums on my face.

by Anonymousreply 98December 6, 2013 11:39 PM

tmi, r98

by Anonymousreply 99December 10, 2013 4:33 PM


by Anonymousreply 100December 23, 2013 5:16 PM

I like to flirt with random hot dudes on subway who appear non-gay.

by Anonymousreply 101May 2, 2014 2:53 PM

I don't think r31, is a straight man at all. The language reads like a straight woman. Pay attention to the language and sentence formation people. I think she either has a man that has made her question his sexuality or she actually is with a closet case. No way this reads like a man wrote it. This coming from a woman, frauen, if you like.

by Anonymousreply 102May 2, 2014 3:11 PM


by Anonymousreply 103May 4, 2014 6:16 AM


by Anonymousreply 104May 5, 2014 12:57 PM


by Anonymousreply 105June 20, 2014 1:06 AM

Ugh that sux! MWC. Married with children.

Of course that doesn't neeeeeeccccceeesssssaaaaarrrrrriiiillllyyyyyyy mean...

by Anonymousreply 106June 20, 2014 1:10 AM

[quote]When he left the room for a minute one of other students who knew him told me that he was straight and very married.

Wow. You must work some kind of subtle.

by Anonymousreply 107June 20, 2014 1:14 AM

[quote] I like to flirt with random hot dudes on subway who appear non-gay.

I completely undress them with my eyes

by Anonymousreply 108June 20, 2014 1:14 AM


by Anonymousreply 109June 21, 2014 8:24 PM


by Anonymousreply 110June 28, 2014 2:55 PM

If a dude identifies as straight, I always let him initiate and lead the flirting.

by Anonymousreply 111July 11, 2014 2:34 PM

I'm the opposite. I flirt shamelessly with a avowed straight guy. He's of course off the hook as far as reciprocating.

by Anonymousreply 112July 11, 2014 2:38 PM

R108 Me too and the way they know I am undressing them. I mean only the hot guys, who seems to like and enjoy it.

by Anonymousreply 113July 11, 2014 3:20 PM


by Anonymousreply 114July 24, 2014 1:42 PM


by Anonymousreply 115July 27, 2014 5:09 PM


by Anonymousreply 116July 29, 2014 2:47 AM

Only flirt with people who flirt with you

by Anonymousreply 117July 29, 2014 11:54 AM

:complimentary and KIND"?!?!?!?

]bold] MARY!! [/bold] [italic] YOO HOOOOOO!!!! [/italic]

Ya wanted to suck his cock, Miss THANG!!!

"complimentary and kind" OH MY SIDES!!!!

by Anonymousreply 118July 29, 2014 12:41 PM

Frankie on Big Brother is embarrassing trying to get dudes who clearly do not identify as gay to have sex with him. Have some self respect.

by Anonymousreply 119August 4, 2014 5:46 PM

You can't bake your cake and eat it, too.

by Anonymousreply 120August 4, 2014 6:18 PM

I'm an old gay guy over 50 and we have a young straight guy that is so hot it's ridiculous. I thought I was impotent for the last ten years, but when he was around I had to hide my shame and run in the bathroom.

And he has no idea he is even hot, which makes him all the more hotter.

He's only 22, but man I am so grateful when he's not around so I can go back to being old.

by Anonymousreply 121August 4, 2014 8:54 PM

dude flirting

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by Anonymousreply 122August 17, 2014 2:01 AM

As more bi/gay dudes are open to their straight bros, I wonder how prevalent romantic overturns between the groups.

by Anonymousreply 123August 20, 2014 11:13 PM

I like to flirt with straight Arab and Hispanic dudes.

by Anonymousreply 124September 7, 2014 11:10 PM

I was just to post about Arabs, R124. I was just in Middle East recently and it's so funny how easy it is to flirt with most of them.

I guess being sexually repressed and frustrated, they are ready to flirt back to any foreigner who has shown any interest with them.

by Anonymousreply 125September 7, 2014 11:40 PM

I love heteroflexible brahs

by Anonymousreply 126October 27, 2014 3:35 AM

I do it everyday

by Anonymousreply 127January 7, 2015 6:20 PM

r125, are they being flirtatious or platonically friendly or curious?

by Anonymousreply 128January 15, 2015 9:52 PM

There's a guy at my office who is, to be honest, perfection. He's warm, funny, good-looking, charming and an all-round decent guy. And yeah, I started by thinking he was gay. Turns out he's not. I was embarrassed, told him this and he got angry with *me* because I was apologising to him for flirting. He's probably my biggest ally in that office and definitely one of the loveliest, sweetest guys I know - except when you steal the last chocolate Hob-Nob. Not all straight guys get offended when you flirt with them - I've often found them to respond either by flirting back, or taking it as a joke, or a compliment, or just as harmless banter. Just don't expect them to always replace the biscuits.

by Anonymousreply 129January 15, 2015 10:02 PM

Gay men flirting with obvious straight dudes, is painful to watch. Why do gay men embarrass themselves that way?

by Anonymousreply 130January 15, 2015 10:12 PM

More painful are straight dudes flirting with lesbians.

by Anonymousreply 131January 15, 2015 10:15 PM

And straight women flirting with gay men.

by Anonymousreply 132January 15, 2015 10:18 PM

I know a lot of lesbians that flirt hard with straight dudes, particularly lipstick ones.

by Anonymousreply 133January 15, 2015 10:30 PM

I flirted with a str8 guy once. He kicked me in the face. Son of a bitch.

by Anonymousreply 134January 16, 2015 6:47 AM

Is having sex with a straight man, an honestly straight man, the ultimate power trip for a gay man?

by Anonymousreply 135January 16, 2015 7:13 AM

"You have awfully big FEET for a master chef!"

by Anonymousreply 136January 16, 2015 7:25 AM


by Anonymousreply 137January 29, 2015 2:53 PM

i think it was nice you apologized, but heres my question, would you have apologized if he had been bi. you cant justrandemly compliment people

by Anonymousreply 138January 29, 2015 3:44 PM

Why can't you randomly compliment people? Most people like to be complimented.

by Anonymousreply 139January 29, 2015 3:58 PM


by Anonymousreply 140March 2, 2015 4:29 PM

I don't understand why gays humiliate themselves by flirting with obvious straight men. It's seriously cringeworthy.

by Anonymousreply 141March 2, 2015 4:49 PM

any Tumblrs with pics of this?

by Anonymousreply 142May 12, 2015 6:35 PM

So, there is this hot buff, tall dude at the gym. I think he is a former athlete or something. I never sensed he was into dudes or anything over the many years I have seen him at the gym. A couple of months of ago, I was in the gym minding my business, when he walked over to me and asked me to spot him. He seemed to be giving me some flirtatious signals with his eyes, but nothing unmistakable. Over the weekend, I saw him leaving the gym. I assume he is gonna just walk by and not acknowledge me. Instead, he strikes up a conversation about how late I was for the gym. His demeanor was very playful and his eyes were checking me out. I was sort of playfully matching his banter, but I didn't want to do anything that presumed he was flirting with me. I am interested in seeing what happens the next time we meet.

by Anonymousreply 143May 26, 2015 4:02 PM

The chef sounds like a homosexual to us, Mary OP.

Try putting $500 in an envelope with a note saying that there is more where that came from if he will 'visit' you for an hour!

by Anonymousreply 144May 26, 2015 4:05 PM

After he said all that syrupy dialogue, you should have groped his crotch and said, "Since my flirting is OK, can I suck your dick now?"

by Anonymousreply 145May 26, 2015 4:37 PM


by Anonymousreply 146May 26, 2015 5:58 PM

This thread is still around?

It's 2015 for Christ's sakes. Move on! There's plenty of gay fish in the pond

by Anonymousreply 147May 26, 2015 6:10 PM

I love it bro

by Anonymousreply 148May 30, 2016 5:31 PM

Chef is a fairy who is not interested in you, OP.

Deal with it.

by Anonymousreply 149May 30, 2016 6:00 PM

So, did you finally get something from him? And I mean SEXUALLY!

by Anonymousreply 150May 30, 2016 7:31 PM

Old threads never die.

by Anonymousreply 151May 30, 2016 8:02 PM

Keep pubic hair out of the food at all times.

by Anonymousreply 152May 30, 2016 8:59 PM

R152 Pubic hair is extra.

by Anonymousreply 153May 30, 2016 9:13 PM

Ewwww dude

by Anonymousreply 154May 30, 2016 9:26 PM

He wants your money, OP.

Of course he was still friendly.

by Anonymousreply 155May 30, 2016 9:59 PM

It's fun flirting with straight men, especially when they get all nervous at first. Then after awhile, it's funny to see how most of them end up becoming comfortable with it and flirting back.

by Anonymousreply 156May 30, 2016 10:02 PM

He was being nice to you because you were paying for the class not because he liked you especially.

by Anonymousreply 157May 31, 2016 12:20 AM


by Anonymousreply 158May 31, 2016 12:46 PM

Don't be desperate dude

by Anonymousreply 159May 31, 2016 3:42 PM

Lony Pizarro

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by Anonymousreply 160May 31, 2016 3:48 PM


by Anonymousreply 161January 3, 2017 3:22 AM

R9 is why they hate us.

by Anonymousreply 162January 3, 2017 3:35 AM

Just don't do it in front of other people. Keep it one on one. His bros and girl can't be around

by Anonymousreply 163January 3, 2017 3:40 AM


by Anonymousreply 164July 29, 2017 6:50 PM

Uh huh

by Anonymousreply 165July 29, 2017 10:32 PM


by Anonymousreply 166August 4, 2017 5:59 PM

I'm dealing with a situation at the gym wherein this dude at the gym has been increasingly flirting with me at the gym, and now I learn he has a girlfriend. I pulled back and started ignoring him, and now he seems to be upset at me.

by Anonymousreply 167August 23, 2017 8:40 PM

Get drunk with him and offer to blow him OP. His wife probably hasn't done it for ages, so there's some chance he will let you.

by Anonymousreply 168August 23, 2017 8:46 PM

You have no morals r168

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by Anonymousreply 170August 23, 2017 10:46 PM

I've been flirting with this hot Latin or Middle Eastern dude at the gym all year. He apparently has a girlfriend, so I got upset, and ignored him all week. Now, I feel guilty.

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by Anonymousreply 173November 26, 2017 5:47 PM

I went to a gay bar with a straight female friend, who was very hot. She felt that, in a gay bar, we could have a nice long talk in peace, as straight guys wouldn't be hitting on her and disturbing us. Turns out that some of the lesbos in the bar were htting on her, sending notes etc. She laughed it off and felt very flattered.

by Anonymousreply 174November 26, 2017 6:02 PM

I hope the posters that ignored their gym buddies after finding out they had girlfriends are either trolling or are teenage girls.

by Anonymousreply 175November 26, 2017 6:35 PM

I hope the posters that continue to flirt EVEN AFTER finding out the person is straight get smacked in the face. That's annoying - gay or straight.

by Anonymousreply 176November 26, 2017 6:49 PM

Only if it’s not mutual

by Anonymousreply 177November 26, 2017 6:54 PM


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by Anonymousreply 179November 27, 2017 4:47 AM

I've become good friends with a former co-worker who, at 30, is 30 years my junior. Very nice, I like him very much, but he's not someone I've fallen for (as an aside, I've fallen for maybe a handful of men in my life). When we first met, he was in a long-term relationship with a woman & he told me then they would soon be engaged. The engagement never came, & the relationship ended this year. I enjoy his company, which, outside of work, has consisted of exclusively of attending sporting events together. At our first such event, he made a point of leaving a seat between us, saying something to the effect of 'bro rules.' Note that I've never said I'm gay (my gay bona fides aren't great, as gay friends over the years have doubted that I'm really gay). Once, when we worked together & others commented on how close we were to the extent that there was talk of us being together, I looked at him with faux puppy eyes & he said "that would never happen."

Well, last night we went to another sporting event (I bought him a ticket for his birthday) & we were joined by my friend of over 40 years, who, btw, after nearly 30 years of marriage to a woman, came out to me a few years ago. This was this friend's first time meeting my young friend. My older friend confided in me that based on the way my young friend looked at me it was obvious he had feelings for me. I'm now torn about what to do.

by Anonymousreply 180November 27, 2017 5:08 AM

Judd continue chillin with him, no pressure or expectations

by Anonymousreply 181November 27, 2017 1:20 PM

Just continue

by Anonymousreply 182November 27, 2017 3:50 PM

This thread turns me on 🔥

by Anonymousreply 183November 28, 2017 2:09 PM


by Anonymousreply 184February 9, 2018 4:10 PM

Just keep it lowkey, subtle, and G-rated

by Anonymousreply 185May 28, 2018 5:36 PM

Flirt like this

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by Anonymousreply 186July 17, 2018 2:23 PM

You have to keep it low key and discreet

by Anonymousreply 187August 4, 2018 6:11 PM

This is his uoir

by Anonymousreply 188May 15, 2019 3:48 PM

THIS is how it’s done. Be masculine, say “bro,” “dude” a lot and any physical compliments must be done in brospeak such as “your calves are sick,” or “yo, I like your style, bruh.”

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by Anonymousreply 190May 15, 2019 7:22 PM

I do it daily

by Anonymousreply 191January 31, 2020 7:40 PM

OP is weird for apologizing. Way to make it super awkward.

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by Anonymousreply 193February 11, 2020 1:10 PM

I like the tips in r189.

by Anonymousreply 194April 27, 2020 4:44 PM

Gay guys often the mistake of trying to flirt with nongay when in public

by Anonymousreply 195May 8, 2020 11:57 PM

“mistake?” “trying?”


by Anonymousreply 196May 8, 2020 11:59 PM

So what do you do when gay guys dare to flirt with you in public, R195?

by Anonymousreply 197May 9, 2020 12:01 AM

OP you are a paying customer so he has to be polite if he wants to continue in his profession

by Anonymousreply 198May 9, 2020 12:06 AM

R197, it depends if I think he’s hot

by Anonymousreply 199May 9, 2020 12:10 AM

Give us both scenarios. If he's hot, and if he's not.

by Anonymousreply 200May 9, 2020 12:12 AM

I flirt with hot dudes unless married

by Anonymousreply 201May 9, 2020 12:16 AM

I don’t understand why straight men don’t flirt with gay men more often, just to get stuff.

by Anonymousreply 202May 9, 2020 12:16 AM

How about baby daddies, R201?

by Anonymousreply 203May 9, 2020 12:18 AM

This is embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 204May 9, 2020 12:58 AM

R202 must order everything online because straight men do that ALL THE TIME.

by Anonymousreply 205May 9, 2020 1:17 AM

R203, almost all dudes I mess with are unmarried baby daddies

by Anonymousreply 206May 9, 2020 1:20 AM

Y’all have no chill

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by Anonymousreply 207September 3, 2020 10:27 PM

I’m a straight 20-something male and I’ve only had sex with women.

But I haven’t been with any women in a while because I’m a pretty picky dude.

Recently, I’ve been going on Grindr and talking to other men with no intention of ever meeting them. I just like flirting with the people on there.

But one time, I decided to meet up with one of the men. It was great at first, but things got sexual and when I saw his penis, I freaked out and immediately left. Why did I react that way? Am I definitely straight?

I feel so uncomfortable asking these questions, especially since I see myself married with a wife and kids in the long run.

Why do I like going on gay dating apps when I’m horny?

[RELATED: “Mostly Straight” Guy Falls for Roommate While on Lockdown]

Dear “straight”,

First and foremost, I totally understand your predicament as a picky dater. It’s quite common, actually. There are some men who can only date blondes, or geeky girls, so for you to desire one with a penis, is also fine!

But hold up… men actually flirt on Grindr? Honey, you can’t fool a seasoned hoe. Unless one word conversations and hole pics are what you consider flirting?

There’s a good chance that what you like about conversing with other men, especially in a sexual manner – is the fact that they can be very forward when it comes to their wants or needs.

However, the simpler answer as to why you go on dating apps when you’re horny, is because you’re sexually attracted to them.

The freak-out you’re describing is known as “gay shame” (although isn’t exclusive to gay people), and it’s a thing that most of us encounter during the first sexual interactions with other men. Only pure cock sluts are exempt. It’s because society has taught us that our attractions to the same-sex are wrong and something to be ashamed of.

It’s not. Unless you have ‘no fats, no fems, no asians’ in your profile text. Then yeah, you can be ashamed.

The fact you have to question your sexuality, means that no, likely you’re not straight… but is that so bad? It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re gay either, (there’s an entire alphabet of identities now!) or that you won’t end up with a wife and kids…

But don’t be afraid to let go of that traditional family brainwashing we all experienced: I thought I was gonna become a doctor. You know what I became? A slut.

Embrace and explore your identity, even if you’re not sure what that is yet.

Happy cruising! Xoxo

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by Anonymousreply 209September 4, 2020 5:11 AM

I love straight men. I was dating a straight man once but he left me for another straight man.

by Anonymousreply 210September 5, 2020 1:41 AM

I prefer mostly straights and heteroflexibles

by Anonymousreply 211September 5, 2020 1:55 AM

If your chef-teacher went to cooking school, he's probably being around gay guys.

by Anonymousreply 212September 5, 2020 1:58 AM

I flirted in the most innocent way I know how by grabbing my junk, licking my lips and shouting "yum."

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by Anonymousreply 214September 7, 2020 3:55 PM

Watch and learn

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by Anonymousreply 215September 15, 2020 9:32 PM

I love the way straight-identified dudes flirt with dudes. Testosterone and bravado is so attractive

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by Anonymousreply 216September 17, 2020 7:27 PM


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by Anonymousreply 217September 18, 2020 2:23 AM

Coochie drips for straight dudes

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by Anonymousreply 221November 22, 2020 8:18 PM

just grab him by the pussy, when you're famous you can do it

by Anonymousreply 222November 22, 2020 8:19 PM

R219 This is why they hate us. Poor guy.

by Anonymousreply 223November 22, 2020 8:34 PM

That cop is hot

by Anonymousreply 224November 22, 2020 8:37 PM

Like this

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by Anonymousreply 225November 24, 2020 11:57 PM

I am paying a husband and father of 3 to stuff his feet and cock in my holes

by Anonymousreply 226November 25, 2020 12:00 AM

Those TikTocs are great!

by Anonymousreply 227November 25, 2020 12:17 AM


by Anonymousreply 228November 25, 2020 12:30 AM

This dude is teaching masteclass on luring bros

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by Anonymousreply 231November 27, 2020 2:07 PM

R223 they don’t hate us they just hate you and I can’t blame them since you obviously hate yourself

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by Anonymousreply 236December 5, 2020 5:38 PM

Almost this exact thing happened to me once, with one exception. After he reassured me, he unzipped and finagled a massive, throbbing erect prime from his pants and then pointed at it, looking at me and making O shapes with his mouth.

I said, oh, thanks for the reassurance, and left, because I wasn’t certain he was flirting with me or not. What do you think, DL?

by Anonymousreply 237December 5, 2020 5:43 PM

prime = penis, but actually I like the idea of a penis being called a “prime”.

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by Anonymousreply 239December 9, 2020 4:26 AM

When your bro has questions....

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by Anonymousreply 240December 30, 2020 8:15 PM

OP, you sound thirsty. Did you stand on your work station, drop your pants and present hole? With a little ribbon on it.

by Anonymousreply 241December 30, 2020 8:33 PM

Oh wow bruh 😯

by Anonymousreply 242December 30, 2020 8:59 PM

I flirted shamelessly with a straight guy at a banquet. He loved every minute of it. His wife wasn't quite as enthusiastic, but she hated me anyway, so I had nothing to loose. This was when I was much younger and wilder.

by Anonymousreply 243December 30, 2020 9:06 PM

Flirting with straight men depends on the straight man in question. Some are attention whores who will enjoy it, some are fragile about their sexuality and will kick your cunt in. Not worth it.

by Anonymousreply 244December 30, 2020 9:37 PM

I just noticed in R243 that I had nothing to LOOSE. I had nothing to LOSE, either. Blah!

by Anonymousreply 245December 30, 2020 9:57 PM

“I like your vibe bro.”

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by Anonymousreply 246January 3, 2021 7:20 AM

How does Joel fit into this scenario?

by Anonymousreply 247January 3, 2021 7:23 AM

I saw him in his t shirt before he put on the white coat and felt lust in my heart.

That could be from one of Taylor Swift's songs.

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by Anonymousreply 249January 29, 2021 3:37 PM

[quote] "I saw him in his t shirt before he put on the white coat and felt lust in my heart."

Honey, that wasn't lust. That was angina.

by Anonymousreply 250January 29, 2021 3:45 PM

You have to know the vernacular

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by Anonymousreply 251January 30, 2021 1:45 PM

So romantic.

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by Anonymousreply 252January 30, 2021 2:05 PM

I love it when straight dudes call me “boss,” “baby,” Or “King.” Turns me on

by Anonymousreply 253February 14, 2021 11:11 PM

Straight men <3

by Anonymousreply 254February 14, 2021 11:13 PM

Gen Z hits different bruh

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by Anonymousreply 255February 17, 2021 5:41 PM

Straight guys never speak to me. So when one is cordial to me, I know he wants some head.

by Anonymousreply 256February 17, 2021 5:46 PM

That’s outrageous bro. Using you as a sex object

by Anonymousreply 257February 17, 2021 6:06 PM

Even lusting in your heart is a SIN!

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by Anonymousreply 259February 23, 2021 12:54 PM

straight guys are cheap bitches

by Anonymousreply 260February 23, 2021 1:25 PM

I love it when a hot straight bro puts his hands around my waist

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by Anonymousreply 261February 25, 2021 1:01 PM

Leg hair

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by Anonymousreply 262February 27, 2021 5:38 PM

I was a in sitcom class and there was an impossible Abercrombie & Fitch type cutie in the class.

this plain middle-aged frau with a horrible body snarked once to me: "He's ours! He's straight! He's OURS!"

Well, he may -- or may not -- be straight. But he's far from 'yours'

by Anonymousreply 263February 27, 2021 5:42 PM

I once apologized for flirting with a straight man. I told him I was sorry for insinuating that I’d like to tie him up and drink his blood.

by Anonymousreply 264February 27, 2021 5:47 PM

[quote]I was a in sitcom class and there was an impossible Abercrombie & Fitch type cutie

You were in WHAT?

by Anonymousreply 265February 27, 2021 5:50 PM

Sitcom class?

by Anonymousreply 266February 27, 2021 6:07 PM

a sitcom writing class

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by Anonymousreply 268March 6, 2021 2:47 PM

Gay guys are shooting their shot with straight guys

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by Anonymousreply 269March 10, 2021 7:56 PM

The rule

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by Anonymousreply 272March 20, 2021 5:29 AM

Str8 men 😍

by Anonymousreply 273March 20, 2021 5:31 AM

Pickup line

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by Anonymousreply 275March 23, 2021 12:20 PM

These TikToks fucking suck.

by Anonymousreply 276March 23, 2021 12:32 PM


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by Anonymousreply 278March 29, 2021 3:31 AM

Watch and learn

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by Anonymousreply 280April 2, 2021 6:39 PM

it's the kind ones I fall for the most.

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by Anonymousreply 282April 4, 2021 5:16 AM

Thank you

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by Anonymousreply 283April 4, 2021 5:54 PM

Getting caught creeping

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by Anonymousreply 284April 13, 2021 12:59 PM

You’re pretty cut up

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by Anonymousreply 285April 16, 2021 11:44 AM

How did this become a dreadful ticktok thread?

by Anonymousreply 286April 16, 2021 11:48 AM

People would rather demonstrate that write about it

by Anonymousreply 287April 16, 2021 1:20 PM

I flirt with straight guys all the time, and yes, I'm deferential and will apologize for my forwardness but nearly all take it in stride. not a big deal

by Anonymousreply 288April 16, 2021 1:43 PM

Don’t be forward with people who aren’t forward with you first

by Anonymousreply 289April 16, 2021 1:45 PM

What a cringe thread

You old queens have some embarassing habits

by Anonymousreply 290April 16, 2021 1:50 PM


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by Anonymousreply 291April 16, 2021 9:13 PM

I need tips

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by Anonymousreply 296May 6, 2021 3:18 PM

Seriously, this is how you score with gym bros. Seriously

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by Anonymousreply 297May 7, 2021 2:53 PM

R297 Hot! I do think that would work, but not if you have the physique of a summertime jello salad as I do.

by Anonymousreply 298May 7, 2021 3:17 PM

This was the plot to a "Will & Grace" episode, in the later seasons I think. So, I'm not buying it.

by Anonymousreply 299May 7, 2021 3:21 PM

This was the plot to a "Will & Grace" episode, in the later seasons I think. So, I'm not buying it.

by Anonymousreply 300May 7, 2021 3:22 PM

R299 it depends on how you do it. It wouldn’t work for most of us because we would sound like hissing queens doing it.

by Anonymousreply 301May 7, 2021 3:26 PM

R301, you have to be credible and authentic as a bro. If you normally speak bro, it works. Gym bros are truly flattered and enamored when you compliment their gains (physique) in bro language.

by Anonymousreply 302May 7, 2021 3:29 PM

The secret is talking in a manner that connects to mainstream guys.

by Anonymousreply 303May 7, 2021 3:36 PM

Language and body language are critical to establishing a connection with guys.

by Anonymousreply 304May 7, 2021 3:37 PM

i hit on a hot brutha working on my mothers basement foundation. Tells me he has a girlfriend that gives him a "dick check" each nighgt when he gets home from work, otherwise said it wasn't anything against me, his decline !

I wanted to know her methods, haha!

by Anonymousreply 305May 7, 2021 3:44 PM

Not necessarily gay

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by Anonymousreply 306May 7, 2021 4:01 PM

Dudes love this

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by Anonymousreply 307May 8, 2021 3:48 PM

If the tik tok trolll dies will anyone care?

by Anonymousreply 308May 9, 2021 5:00 PM

Try it

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by Anonymousreply 309May 11, 2021 6:41 PM

Don’t get rejected like this

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by Anonymousreply 310May 14, 2021 1:49 AM

Stick around

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by Anonymousreply 311May 26, 2021 4:53 AM

Compliments welcome

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by Anonymousreply 313June 3, 2021 1:51 AM

Fuck, this thread has been limping along for 10 years!

by Anonymousreply 314June 3, 2021 2:14 AM

Watch and learn

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by Anonymousreply 316June 6, 2021 1:38 AM

Flirting vs Harassment

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by Anonymousreply 317June 6, 2021 2:18 AM

I prefer- Flirting With A Straight ACTING Man

by Anonymousreply 318June 6, 2021 2:24 AM

“Straight-acting” is an archaic, offensive term that hasn’t been acceptable for decades

by Anonymousreply 319June 6, 2021 2:47 AM

Straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting straight acting

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by Anonymousreply 321June 6, 2021 3:21 PM

I worked for a chef who relentlessly flirted with straight guys, hoping to have sex. Of the few who said ok, the sex was always a very quick one sided blow job. My boss would be so frustrated. "He just stood there with his arms folded"

by Anonymousreply 322June 6, 2021 3:38 PM

What does he expect? Flowers and romance?

by Anonymousreply 323June 6, 2021 3:44 PM

Rating their thirst traps

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by Anonymousreply 328June 30, 2021 4:28 AM

Observe first

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by Anonymousreply 329July 5, 2021 6:23 AM

R329 Was that guy actually gay?

by Anonymousreply 330July 5, 2021 6:41 AM

I dunno

by Anonymousreply 331July 5, 2021 6:55 AM

Yo, can I have your number?

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by Anonymousreply 332July 5, 2021 6:56 AM

Always falling for straight Bros

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by Anonymousreply 333July 7, 2021 10:49 PM

And they say romance is dead

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by Anonymousreply 336July 15, 2021 1:50 PM

Who bumped this fucking Thread?? It's from 2011 FFS! STOP SPAMMING DL.

by Anonymousreply 337July 15, 2021 2:07 PM

I picture OP as a wheezing, diabetic, Jabba-incarnate kinda dude, who's on her last legs. Yes, having someone like you lusting after a hot straight man is always appreciated.

by Anonymousreply 338July 15, 2021 2:34 PM

Legacy threads are the best threads

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by Anonymousreply 340July 16, 2021 9:30 PM

I LoVe the old threads

by Anonymousreply 341July 16, 2021 9:34 PM

Many of us do

by Anonymousreply 342July 16, 2021 9:56 PM

The irony of R3's post is that 10 years later, he WOULD have to apologize for flirting.

by Anonymousreply 343July 16, 2021 10:27 PM

I used to work with a handsome straight guy and I would flirt in a mild way, tell him he looked good, liked his suit and things like that (10 year age difference). He was always receptive and polite about it. On his last day he personally went around and thanked/farewelled every person in the office except for me.

I don't flirt with straight many anymore. Most are just not into it.

by Anonymousreply 344July 16, 2021 10:38 PM

If he didn’t reciprocate, you should have ceased flirting. I mostly flirt with dudes who identify as nongay, but only with dudes who mutually flirt

by Anonymousreply 345July 17, 2021 3:17 AM

R345 what about when they watch you a lot or grab their shorts where their cock's are a lot around you?

by Anonymousreply 346July 17, 2021 8:07 AM

That’s subtle at best, ambiguous, and can be misinterpreted. Don’t assume it’s flirting

by Anonymousreply 347July 17, 2021 2:46 PM

This way

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by Anonymousreply 350August 10, 2021 12:20 PM

When he is DL

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by Anonymousreply 351August 16, 2021 2:40 PM

This is how I vibe with my buff latin gym crush bro

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by Anonymousreply 353August 21, 2021 7:09 PM

My friend Julie told me I'd better apologize.

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by Anonymousreply 355August 28, 2021 3:52 PM

Straight men 😍

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by Anonymousreply 357September 6, 2021 10:35 AM

I wondered why this stupid EST thread keeps coming back, and now i realize it's because it's a Bump Bitch thread. Morning but bumping ugly pussies.

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by Anonymousreply 359September 7, 2021 9:47 AM

Gym flirt

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by Anonymousreply 360September 9, 2021 1:13 PM


This is why no one wants to come over to your house for dinner. You still haven't learned to cook!

Leave the poor straight man alone and concentrate on your culinary studies.

by Anonymousreply 361September 9, 2021 1:15 PM

This is how

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by Anonymousreply 362September 9, 2021 11:12 PM

So much gay thirst for straight dudes on social media.

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by Anonymousreply 364September 13, 2021 12:57 PM

In conclusion: gay men hate other gays and only lust after straight men. You really have low self-steem and a lot of self-hatred. I wouldn't dare to mess with straight men since homophobia is on the rise and people have a short fuse these days.

by Anonymousreply 365September 13, 2021 1:19 PM

It obviously works for a lot of gay dudes

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by Anonymousreply 367September 14, 2021 2:34 PM

When he compliments you

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by Anonymousreply 368September 14, 2021 3:30 PM

This is so textbook

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by Anonymousreply 369September 15, 2021 2:08 AM

R362, r363, r364

Where did they go?

by Anonymousreply 370September 15, 2021 2:21 AM

I love it when he says this to me at night

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by Anonymousreply 372September 15, 2021 6:43 PM

Respect the gains, bro

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by Anonymousreply 373September 30, 2021 4:04 PM

OMG, I can fucking post again!

by Anonymousreply 374September 30, 2021 4:37 PM

Expose (just one) sagged, wrecked teat (let it fall out of your blouse) then lick your lips hungerously. Ask if he likes your décolletage. Do a twirl and a hot little modern dance for him.

by Anonymousreply 375September 30, 2021 4:48 PM

Me and my gym crush

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by Anonymousreply 376October 3, 2021 2:15 PM

“You lookin good bruh.”

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by Anonymousreply 378October 4, 2021 4:27 AM

Nice guns

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by Anonymousreply 384October 12, 2021 3:12 AM

I have a very attractive straight friend who is of MiddleEastern ancestry. I try not to flirt with him, but he likes to tell me how big his penis is and how he has so much stamina he has. Recently, he golfs me he likes to eat ass and graphically Mimicked him relishing performing the explicit act. It really turned me on, but all I could do is blush. I think he’s trying to turn me on

by Anonymousreply 385October 28, 2021 2:52 PM

I like asking straight dudes which dudes they consider hot

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by Anonymousreply 387November 3, 2021 5:42 PM

Spitting game to homies

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by Anonymousreply 388November 10, 2021 12:43 PM

Happy Birthday Marines!

by Anonymousreply 389November 10, 2021 12:44 PM

I'm impressed that such an old thread is still active. Also, I can't recall ever seeing it before. Wow.

In general, I find flirting with someone while he's on duty, WHEN he doesn't initiate it (say, a waiter or bartender working for tips), a strict no-no. To me it's a power imbalance issue.

If a gay guy goes for straight guys only, he's not looking for love. He's looking for drama, humiliation, and heart break. That is the more likely outcome than receiving the thrill of having turned an actual straight guy to the dark side of gay pleasure without any exchange of money and other means of bribery or force.

by Anonymousreply 390November 10, 2021 1:27 PM

TikTok is filled with gay guys bragging about how they pull so many straight dudes

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by Anonymousreply 391November 10, 2021 4:12 PM

R370, what if the person on duty initiated the flirting?

by Anonymousreply 392November 10, 2021 4:12 PM

Do you smoke bro?

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by Anonymousreply 393November 18, 2021 4:27 AM

Social media fitness culture has made men aware of just how much they love being complimented by dudes

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by Anonymousreply 394November 26, 2021 3:55 PM

This is the way to flirt

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by Anonymousreply 396December 1, 2021 4:51 AM

Swag flirting

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by Anonymousreply 397December 8, 2021 12:12 PM

I love it when straight dudes touch my waist to get around me

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by Anonymousreply 399December 20, 2021 3:43 PM

To gym bro: I’m tryin to get like you

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by Anonymousreply 400December 31, 2021 11:16 PM

You look good bro

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by Anonymousreply 401January 4, 2022 3:39 PM

You’re gay, bro? This is how you make me feel

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