[quote]R28: It's merely a bronze-age book of fables compiled by ignorant men and should be given exactly that much credence.
True enough, except that there's nothing in it as old as the 'Bronze Age.' Late Iron Age at the oldest; 4th century CE at the latest, a span of some 800 to 900 years in total.
[quote]Why go through all these textual contortions try to soften this?
Because it already took considerable textual contortion to get it to that point. It's only the weight of traditional interpretation holding it down; no one during the times it was written had any idea what a 'homosexual' was, so they cannot have been writing about it. It's just crap that people 𝑎𝑠𝑠𝑢𝑚𝑒 is in the bible. For instance, on some thread I was reading last week, someone was claiming that the bible says that suicide is a sin. It doesn't. They've simply been told that it does, and believed it.
Another façade is all that crap supposedly from the New Testament about traditional marriage, drawn from passages where words like 'wife' and 'husband' proliferate. But these buzzwords have been placed in those translated passages by tradition; none of it is in the original Greek, which used terms like γυναῖκες ('women') and ἀνδράσιν ('men') in passages like Ephesians 5:22. The context of marriage is something which has been added to the passage by the translators, in support of what has essentially been a Church-engineered institution (the Catholics call it a 'sacrament') over which up until relatively recently the clergy had complete control.
If one objects that a passage like Ephesians 5:22 would make less sense rendered that way - "Women, submit to your men as to the Lord" - that's true; rather than marriage, it speaks to a social order where women, all women, were subordinate to any and all men in a way which is completely unacceptable today, and that's the correct conclusion. Of such was the Iron Age, and we have no business letting it shape our lives today.
[quote]Throw it out and shrug off the baggage of "church" once and for all. I can tell you from personal experience, it can be tough but It's very liberating.
If you can do it. Quite often it means throwing out family and friends who remain captive in religious institutions. If, as gay men, families have thrown us out, it makes it that much easier to do, for no other reason than because one has to. But not everyone has that experience, or is prepared to undergo it. Then there's also the mess of those who find it easy to abandon 'church', but not the beliefs which underlie it, what they believe the bible says, and superstitious fear of the deity they still believe enforces it.
It can take something akin to deprogramming, where one is led around to all of those fearful passages, and shown the truth about them. If you were able to throw it all out and never think about it again (although I think discussion of it makes you nervous; you still think it says what you were brought up to believe), then kudos to you. Others need to know 𝑤ℎ𝑦 they can disregard it, which can give them the strength to stand up to those who tout the traditional views of religion.