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Why Do Gay Men Wear Flip Flops / Sandals

Can someone - anyone - explain why so many gay men love wearing Flip Flops / Sandals

When summer hits, gay men cannot wait to slip on a pair of Flip Flops

Why?

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by Anonymousreply 85October 1, 2022 10:02 PM

Some of us have an interest from a fetishistic standpoint.

by Anonymousreply 1July 14, 2022 12:11 AM

Why not, OP? What's your problem?

by Anonymousreply 2July 14, 2022 12:13 AM

Just gay men?

by Anonymousreply 3July 14, 2022 12:17 AM

OP, when are you going to come up with a "why do gay men" topic that actually reflects something noticeable primarily among gay men?? I live in southern California, and almost everyone wears flip flops and sandals year round...

by Anonymousreply 4July 14, 2022 12:17 AM

[quote] I live in southern California, and almost everyone wears flip flops and sandals year round...

Why not just go barefoot

by Anonymousreply 5July 14, 2022 12:20 AM

For formal occasions we wear socks.

by Anonymousreply 6July 14, 2022 12:21 AM

So hot guys can check out their feet

by Anonymousreply 7July 14, 2022 12:23 AM

Slender feet with long toes are not something I ever need to see.

by Anonymousreply 8July 14, 2022 12:27 AM

Beware!

Healthy men of all ages can be attacked by fungus.

Sandals let your feet breathe but all men can be vulnerable.

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by Anonymousreply 9July 14, 2022 12:27 AM

Majority of younger men wear flip-flops in the summer. I live in a southern city and that’s the footwear of choice for straight guys. It has nothing to do with being gay.

by Anonymousreply 10July 14, 2022 12:28 AM

Flip-flops are my arch nemesis.

by Anonymousreply 11July 14, 2022 12:32 AM

[quote]Why not just go barefoot?

Because the ground is scalding hot or has broken glass/pebbles/grime and stores require footwear. Same reason people most other places wear them.

by Anonymousreply 12July 14, 2022 1:15 AM

It’s summertime, idiot. What the fuck else would we wear?

by Anonymousreply 13July 14, 2022 1:16 AM

[quote]Why not just go barefoot?

Because there’s feces all over San Francisco and LA.

by Anonymousreply 14July 14, 2022 1:22 AM

Men, women and kids wear them every spring and summer, you fucking retard. There’s no reasonable comparison to going barefoot either. Sure, you’re exposed to more elements and ‘things’ than you’d be if you were wearing shoes, but at least you’re not stepping on chewing gum, crap and cigarette butts.

Get over your prissy self.

by Anonymousreply 15July 14, 2022 1:27 AM

The OP has clearly never been to Florida, the flip flop is our official state shoe.

by Anonymousreply 16July 14, 2022 1:28 AM

r13 Boat shoes, of course.

volleyball or rowing sneakers when appropriate.

by Anonymousreply 17July 14, 2022 1:33 AM

I can only imagine how man times you got beat up r17.

by Anonymousreply 18July 14, 2022 1:34 AM

What's wrong with flip flops at appropriate times in the summer?

by Anonymousreply 19July 14, 2022 1:39 AM

r18 fantasize all you like.. but the people prone to pick fights are those that believe everyone should "fight like a man, bruh" - yes, there's orgies but even then most of them have seen too many movies and will try to take you on one bvy one. They tend to think of fisticuffs as a gentlemen's duel. I tend to think of it as foreplay. It really doesn't take much to get them to drop to their knees nor to pin them down and dryhump them into submsission. . . by then, they're butter. They have their version of fisting and I have mine.

by Anonymousreply 20July 14, 2022 1:53 AM

My friend used to live in Hawaii and wore flip flops to school.

by Anonymousreply 21July 14, 2022 1:55 AM

r18

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by Anonymousreply 22July 14, 2022 1:59 AM

^ I meant to say that everyone did, supposedly even the teachers.

by Anonymousreply 23July 14, 2022 1:59 AM

R22

Aw, shit (yeah, yeah)/ Get your towels ready, it's about to go down (shawty, yeah, yeah) / Everybody in the place, hit the fucking deck / But stay on your motherfucking toes / We running this, let's go (hey)

Everybody look at me, 'cause I'm sailing on a boat (sailing on a boat) / Take a good, hard look at the motherfucking boat, yeah / Straight floating on a boat on the deep blue sea (yeah, yeah / wind whipping out my coat / You can't stop me, motherfucker, 'cause I'm on a boat.

We drinking Santana champ, cause it's so crisp / I got my swim trunks, and my flippie-floppies / I'm riding on a dolphin, doing flips and shit (yeah) /The dolphin's splashing, getting everybody all wet (oh) / I got a nautical themed pashmina afghan

Fuck land, I'm on a boat, motherfucker (motherfucker) / Fuck trees, I climb buoys, motherfucker (motherfucker) /I'm on the deck with my boys, motherfucker (ayy) / This boat engine make noise, motherfucker / Hey, ma, if you could see me now (see me now)

It's a big, blue, watery road (yeah)/ Poseidon, look at me, oh (all hands on deck) / Never thought I'd see the day / When a big boat coming my way / Believe me when I say / I fucked a mermaid, whoah

I'm on a boat / I'm on a boat / Take a good, hard look at the motherfucking boat / Sha-sha-sha/ Sha-sha-sha / Sha-sha-sha /Shawty, shawty / Yeah, yeah, yeah

by Anonymousreply 24July 14, 2022 2:18 AM

[quote]Boat shoes, of course. volleyball or rowing sneakers when appropriate.

🤮 You sound like one of those fancy pod people who won’t wear white after Labor Day. 🤮

by Anonymousreply 25July 14, 2022 2:31 AM

It’s ghastly, just ghastly. I only wear oxfords and over the calf socks.

by Anonymousreply 26July 14, 2022 2:44 AM

They're the lightest of loafers.

by Anonymousreply 27July 14, 2022 2:57 AM

I would chop off my toes if they looked like those at r9.

by Anonymousreply 28July 14, 2022 3:41 AM

I prefer slides to flip-flops. I can’t stand that thong in between my big toe and second toe. These Hoka slides are super comfortable!

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by Anonymousreply 29July 14, 2022 3:46 AM

R28 Those nails look awful and it takes SIX months after treatment for the damaged nail to grow out.

by Anonymousreply 30July 14, 2022 4:35 AM

Aren’t you more likely to get toenail fungus from a shoe that’s enclosed and promotes a moist environment?

by Anonymousreply 31July 14, 2022 4:37 AM

You're right, R31, but I was I was saying at R9 that all men are vulnerable to it.

by Anonymousreply 32July 14, 2022 4:42 AM

It’s not a crime to wear them as long as you’re not wearing socks with them.

by Anonymousreply 33July 14, 2022 6:08 AM

I'm old enough to remember when flip flops were called "zories"...

by Anonymousreply 34July 14, 2022 6:08 AM

I always went barefoot when I was a kid, at the shore and beach. The roads weren't paved back then and had sharp pebbles...and the sand on the beach was very hot, further away from the water. My feet were hardened. I could never do that today. I'm a tenderfoot now..

by Anonymousreply 35July 14, 2022 6:20 AM

Flip flops are for the selfish among us.

by Anonymousreply 36July 14, 2022 6:22 AM

How so, r36?

by Anonymousreply 37July 14, 2022 6:25 AM

I’m old enough to call them thongs, & wish they’d find a new name for the underwear. Flip flops are for porn scenes!

by Anonymousreply 38July 14, 2022 6:28 AM

R36 Flip flopsh aren't good for walking on shellfish.

by Anonymousreply 39July 14, 2022 6:29 AM

Ask the gay contingent from Palm Springs why they might wear flip-flops.

by Anonymousreply 40July 14, 2022 6:35 AM

I don't wear shoes I can't run for life in. Flip-flops are silly.

by Anonymousreply 41July 14, 2022 6:36 AM

R37, anyone who blithely walks around in public with the sweaty soles of his feet slap slap slapping against a thin piece of rubber is surely lacking in his regard for others.

by Anonymousreply 42July 14, 2022 6:40 AM

My flip flops aren't the thin, cheap ones, so my slap slaps are muffled. I can also run in them, r42.

by Anonymousreply 43July 14, 2022 6:50 AM

Oops, I meant r41. If they aren't too loose, I can run laps with the camp kids in flip flops.

by Anonymousreply 44July 14, 2022 6:52 AM

MANY MANY MEN love flip flops and sandals gay or otherwise

and yes, when summer comes around that’s when people wear them

in. my experience anyway

by Anonymousreply 45July 14, 2022 7:19 AM

From all us blokes 'Downunder' ...we wear flip flops, thongs, jandals...whatever they are called. Straight, gay and anything in-between. Personally I like bare feet 'cos I live on the coast.

by Anonymousreply 46July 14, 2022 7:47 AM

Because we live in "Beach Communities" where wearing sandals is "the norm" and you'll never be able to afford where we live!

Suck my dick, bitches!

by Anonymousreply 47July 14, 2022 8:04 AM

I never realized until I read this thread how little attention I give to what men wear on their feet. I spend so much time looking at their other parts that I never noticed. Next time I'm out and about I'll have to look further down 😉

by Anonymousreply 48July 14, 2022 9:02 AM

Not a good look for men whose toes look like branches.

by Anonymousreply 49July 14, 2022 2:12 PM

I live at the beach and have a collection of flip flops: several pairs of Olu Kai, several pairs of Rainbows, Birkenstocks, many pairs of Havianas - I can’t imagine not wearing them. I do get pedicures quite often and use a daily foot cream at night. OP sounds like an interior state nerd.

by Anonymousreply 50July 14, 2022 2:22 PM

Some of us have a MAJOR Foot Fetish, so the more got guys in sandals THE BETTER!

FUCK YOU

by Anonymousreply 51July 14, 2022 2:23 PM

R50 are the olu kai & birkenstoks super comfy?

by Anonymousreply 52July 14, 2022 7:25 PM

Our summer temps get up to 115-120F. There's no fucking way I'm raising my body temp by wearing shoes and socks, not to mention how gross and chafing soaking wet socks are.

by Anonymousreply 53July 15, 2022 4:23 AM

Because nice-looking bare feet are sexy and it's a hell of a lot better than wearing enclosing footwear in warm weather.

by Anonymousreply 54July 15, 2022 11:56 PM

[quote] Why Do Gay Men Wear Flip Flops / Sandals

This thread has been here for three days and I just realised today it's a satire of silly thread with an even sillier question--

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by Anonymousreply 55July 16, 2022 12:30 AM

Flip flopsch are fabulosch!

by Anonymousreply 56July 16, 2022 12:32 AM

If find beautiful feet very sexy. Especially on a hot twinky bottom. Why hide them?

by Anonymousreply 57July 16, 2022 12:34 AM

Because gay men like things that are FUN and KICKY.

Got a problem with that, OP?

by Anonymousreply 58July 16, 2022 12:45 AM

Sucking on bottom’s toe while you are in him is great fun.

by Anonymousreply 59July 16, 2022 12:53 AM

Your feet are not as attractive as you think they are.

by Anonymousreply 60July 16, 2022 12:55 AM

Growing up my mother told me white trash people do the following 3 things

1. Wear Flip Flops 2. Drink Mountain Dew 3. Buy Groceries at Winn Dixie

by Anonymousreply 61July 16, 2022 5:52 AM

Don't wear Flip Flops in muddy streets.

They flip the wet mud up leaving brown skid marks in your anal area.

by Anonymousreply 62July 16, 2022 5:57 AM

I was born in Hawaii...we went to school barefoot. We left when i was about 5.

I've always worn flip-flops for most of the year (living in CA, whether SoCal or NorCal). I prefer being without shoes whenever possible and shoes have never been allowed in my house. I kick them off as soon as I get home.

I love to hike, and wish I could wear sandals to hike as my feet seem to expand/swell a bit after 2 miles...but it's CA and there are rattlers all over. It's unfortunate.

by Anonymousreply 63July 16, 2022 6:02 AM

Men who Wear Flip Flops have healthier feet.

They aren't malformed by heavy leather.

by Anonymousreply 64July 16, 2022 6:04 AM

R61, was she making these statements from her trailer?

by Anonymousreply 65July 16, 2022 6:39 AM

LOL r65

People who insist on wearing full on shoes all the time (except in cold weather) are weird.

by Anonymousreply 66July 16, 2022 6:48 AM

Because no gay man would be caught dead in these:

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by Anonymousreply 67July 16, 2022 7:06 AM

They're comfortable to wear? Easy to slide in and out of? Lightweight and cooling for the feet? Only ppl unstable on their feet should avoid wearing flip flops, like pregnant women or ppl using painkillers.

Clothes, like shoes, should serve our needs first and foremost. Fashion and style are secondary for most ppl. This isn't a gay men issue. This is about living in a summery environment or puttering around home any time.

by Anonymousreply 68July 16, 2022 7:09 AM

Um, crocs are out for me except for gardening.

by Anonymousreply 69July 16, 2022 7:22 AM

I live on a beach town in SoCa and wore nothing but flip flops year round for about a decade, except when I had to wear shoes to go to work. I have many pairs, some leather (the "nice" flip flops) and some that are of questionable quality for things like going to the grocery store or taking out the trash. I now wear sneakers when I go walking, but otherwise still flip flops unless it's raining. Oh and I only wear pants if I have to go into the office for work which is now rare. Otherwise I'm in shorts year round. If it's "cold" I put on a hoodie/sweatshirt over my tshirt. At home I am barefoot from the minute I walk in the door. I like the comfort and simplicity of this life and don't give a shit what anyone thinks.

by Anonymousreply 70July 16, 2022 8:31 AM

Gays and soccer dads

by Anonymousreply 71July 16, 2022 8:45 AM

Just FYI this is mostly a WHITE male thing, gay or straight. You know winter is almost over in NYC when the first 50 degree day hits and white dudes are out in their flip flops. It is a stereotype for sure with some validity to it.

by Anonymousreply 72July 16, 2022 8:51 AM

Ingrown toenails.

by Anonymousreply 73July 16, 2022 8:52 AM

So what R72? What does the race of flip flop wearers have to do with anything? Unless you're a bigot the man's color is irrelevant.

by Anonymousreply 74July 16, 2022 9:06 AM

Dude you are in a thread that pins it on someone's sexuality and you're fine with that? Take the stick out of your ass and relax.

by Anonymousreply 75July 16, 2022 9:27 AM

r72 I think black men should start wearing flip flops en masse, I bet white guys would stop wearing them lol

by Anonymousreply 76July 16, 2022 1:40 PM

Already been posted

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by Anonymousreply 77July 16, 2022 1:49 PM

Hitler loved flip flops!

by Anonymousreply 78July 16, 2022 2:02 PM

1. They are comfortable if you buy a quality pair (Olukai is our slippa of choice)

2. They go with everything

3. CONVENIENCE

There are entire areas of the world where flip flops are everyday wear and rubber shoes are a luxury.

by Anonymousreply 79July 20, 2022 8:05 PM

I just realized OPs pic actually shows a pair of Olukais. Yaaaas. Get into it bitches.

by Anonymousreply 80July 20, 2022 8:07 PM

I wore them all the more to piss off my control freak, sociopath, narcissist ex who DESPISED them. He had an abnormal foot fetish and wanted me to treat my feet like they were the Holy Grail.

Step out of the shower, immediately onto a fresh (had to be) white towel, fresh from clean laundry. Dry off standing on the sterile towel and immediate put on (had to be) white socks to keep my precious feet protected from, I guess the harsh elements of the house.

I wish I could have put up with him longer, as he had a 10" uncut cock, but all the above about him with the added control freak thing got to be too much, despite the deep plunges.

by Anonymousreply 81July 20, 2022 8:13 PM

Everyone wears flip flops of varying types and have been doing so for decades.

by Anonymousreply 82July 20, 2022 8:23 PM

In favelas maybe.

by Anonymousreply 83July 20, 2022 8:24 PM

As long as I can't hear your flip-flops, or any other footwear (women wear some noisy-as-fuck real shoes), I do not care what anyone wears on their feet.

by Anonymousreply 84July 20, 2022 9:01 PM

Now that summer is over - do you miss wearing your flip flops?

by Anonymousreply 85October 1, 2022 10:02 PM
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