I Went To A Bathhouse Saturday Night
My previous thread that I posted last night is now inaccessible so I am starting another thread on my experiences there Saturday night. I was lamenting the fact that none of the so- called hot young guys noticed me. I was invisible to them. I am NO spring chicken- but still it hurt. Someone responded and said that bathhouses are like beauty pageants no one cares about your character they only care about looks.
DL people please say some things to cheer me up about my unpleasant experience there Saturday night.
by Anonymous | reply 571 | May 26, 2023 8:31 PM
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Look on the bright side, OP: At least you’re not Kevin Sessums.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | March 22, 2022 2:50 AM
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Nothing like a trip to the tubs!
by Anonymous | reply 2 | March 22, 2022 2:51 AM
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Were there only hot young guys there? Or was everyone else invisible to you?
by Anonymous | reply 3 | March 22, 2022 2:52 AM
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Next time pay for it instead of going to the baths you’ll get just what you want
by Anonymous | reply 4 | March 22, 2022 2:52 AM
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R3- No I had a nice time with a guy who is mature like myself. He gave me an very good blowjob too. I would rate it a solid B+. Later the same guy went into the room of someone opposite to me. This person in that room was morbidly obese ( HUGE stomach). It made me think this mature guy was not particular at all. Later someone new was in that same room. This guy was much younger about 30 years old, muscular- another words HOT. This hot guy did not notice me at all. He left his room and did not return for maybe 75 mins +. Then he got dressed and left. I'm sure he was able to pick and choose ANYONE in the bathhouse and was sated so he left. I know at 56 years old I should not expect ANYONE to be interested in me but it still hurts that all of the young ( under 40) good looking guys were not noticing me at all.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | March 22, 2022 3:19 AM
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R4- I mentioned this on my other thread- I've gone to rentmen.com several times. I find the men there generally VERY average looking. The guys walking around the bathhouse were a lot better looking then the escorts at rentmen.com.
R5- Is also me.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | March 22, 2022 3:21 AM
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Are you mascular? I know an Asian who’d be into you!
by Anonymous | reply 7 | March 22, 2022 3:26 AM
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R7- I'm not into Asian guys with frosted hair and lots of upspeak.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | March 22, 2022 3:28 AM
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He wants to share his knitting needle with you.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | March 22, 2022 3:32 AM
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Well honey,what in the fuck did you expect ? Are you new to gay life ? I had some lovely times in the Tubs but my god,that was 40 years ago and I wouldnt even dream of setting foot in one again. Unless of course you're a masochist.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | March 22, 2022 3:36 AM
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Well at least you know for the next time that you can't be as picky as you think you should be
by Anonymous | reply 11 | March 22, 2022 3:36 AM
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R11- Yes, I guess at my age GAY beggars can't be choosers. I've NEVER used apps like Grindr or Scruff or any others. I don't like the idea of bringing some stranger back to my place or going to their place. A bathhouse ( as dated as it is) is the only place I'm comfortable going to. I have not entered a gay bar since March 2011.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | March 22, 2022 3:47 AM
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R1- One good thing. I'm considerably younger than him. What is the significance about him. Why did you mention him?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | March 22, 2022 3:50 AM
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Everyone I just remembered that there were some attractive guys my age walking around there Saturday night and they walked by my room too. I just wanted everyone to know I'm NOT one of those queens who only wants the young ( under 40) to notice me. I can definitely be attracted to someone 45+ but the attractive 45+ guys ignore me too. Oh well.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | March 22, 2022 3:56 AM
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Dear OP, R12 If you decide to rent a prostitute take them to a bath house rather than have the trauma of bringing a stranger to your home.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | March 22, 2022 3:56 AM
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R15- as I mentioned before the prostitutes at rentmen.com are mostly very average looking. I'm not going to pay $250 for an hour of sex with some average looking person. Some of the guys walking around the bathhouse and especially the guys I used to see in the bars back in the mid to late 1990's were FAR hotter than the escorts at rentmen.com
by Anonymous | reply 16 | March 22, 2022 4:00 AM
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I'm so happy I'm done with sex
by Anonymous | reply 17 | March 22, 2022 4:58 AM
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Yesssssssss, OP, people at the bath house should DEFINITELY be giving you ALL the sex you deserve for your fine character...a character that is just as banal and superficially concerned with others' looks and preferences, as are the characters of the better looking people who don't give you a second glance, let alone a suck or fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | March 22, 2022 9:24 AM
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We did notice your massive 220-lb entity, OP, but we'd rather not hit on you.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | March 22, 2022 9:31 AM
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Surely there’s bathhouses out there that are for mature folks only with a specialty for young guys that love to frequent them.
I hear so many young guys that adore older bears or older fit men period.
I think you to need research some more locations which I’m pretty sure will fit your needs.
Best wishes and all is not lost. Remember that.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | March 22, 2022 9:38 AM
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[quote]My previous thread that I posted last night is now inaccessible
Was that the one about getting herpes?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | March 22, 2022 9:42 AM
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I'm 29 op and women hit on me all the time but not men, to my horror.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | March 22, 2022 9:46 AM
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What is this insanity? Why are we debating bath houses vs taking someone home vs grindr vs scruff. Gays are creeps and nice and cute and ugly and mean spirited and enlightened just like all humans. Why are you trying to justify a pattern of behavior based on random chance? A bath house is just as safe as your home. Grindr is just as dangerous as Facebook. It's all venue, vs the mask it wears. If you go to a bath house, and get a blowjob, and don't get raped, guess what? WIN!!!
by Anonymous | reply 24 | March 22, 2022 10:10 AM
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If you have high standards (like, say, a four expecting to hook up with sevens or higher) and go to cruising spots or bath houses you set yourself up for failure, humiliation and disappointment. Either lower your expectations or hire an escort or hustler.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | March 22, 2022 10:22 AM
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The process of discovering you’re invisible sure can hurt when you need to use your looks to get what you’re after. I don’t even know what to suggest except to say that I hired a trainer at my gym and discovered that I expected him to flirt with me and was mortified when he was thoroughly professional, got over myself, and now have pleasant, unimportant chats with him while becoming familiar with good exercises I should do on my own.
I’m not going to be the hottest thing anywhere I go — and never was anyway — so I wish you luck, OP, because it truly is downhill from here and not in a happy way.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | March 22, 2022 10:28 AM
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Now get checked out for STDs, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | March 22, 2022 10:39 AM
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Datalounge people explain this to me- Over the years and even now I’m often in a situation where I’m at a gay venue and I want some guy to express his interest in me even when I’m not interested in them.
Maybe I need a shrink.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | March 22, 2022 12:49 PM
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Yeah. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Be realistic. Age gracefully.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | March 22, 2022 12:50 PM
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Back in 1995 I was going to the bars heavily. I would get cruised some nights left and right ( LITERALLY) simultaneously by good looking guys. It overwhelmed me. I RARELY went home with anyone back then. Of course if I walked in to a gay bar today ( I mentioned earlier I haven’t been in a gay bar since March 2011) I would be totally invisible. Oh well. Believe it or not I still hold out hope for a relationship- even at my advanced age.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | March 22, 2022 12:58 PM
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Young people don't want to hang around old people!
This doesn't just happen in the gay world, OP. Moms get ignored by their teens, and so on.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | March 22, 2022 1:06 PM
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Go to a darker bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | March 22, 2022 1:18 PM
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What were you doing in your room to be ignored? Sitting on your bed with your legs crossed? On all fours in a caftan? Reading while snacking?
by Anonymous | reply 33 | March 22, 2022 1:23 PM
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R33- I had my towel on and was rubbing my crotch at times.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | March 22, 2022 1:28 PM
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Just hire an escort. That way you don’t waste time and get exactly what you want. Though perhaps the real problem is that you have no idea what to do with your time…
by Anonymous | reply 35 | March 22, 2022 1:35 PM
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R35- The guys that would cruise me in the bars in 1995 were FAR more attractive than any of the men I've viewed on rentmen.com. Why would I pay $250 for an average looking guy that I would have ignored in the bars in 1995. If I saw someone who made my pupils dilate that might be worth paying for. But I have yet to see anyone he meets that criteria on rentmen.com or other similar sites.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 22, 2022 1:40 PM
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R23- Having women flirt with you is better than NO ONE flirting with you.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | March 22, 2022 1:45 PM
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Stopped reading at “NO spring chicken.” In DL talk this means you’re on your tenth year of Social Security.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | March 22, 2022 1:54 PM
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R36 1995 was 27 years ago ,dear. that puts you at what,50-60 ?
by Anonymous | reply 40 | March 22, 2022 2:26 PM
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R40- If you hadn't skipped over this thread I mentioned already that I'm 56 years old.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | March 22, 2022 2:28 PM
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Honey, 1995 is long over. If you didn't have all the sex you could have had back then, there's no making up for it now. If you want a relationship, stay out of the bathhouses and go meet men your own age in a more civilized venue.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | March 22, 2022 2:44 PM
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Old gay men are like trans
They are astonished and angry that no one will have sex with them, but they won’t have sex with each other.
And neither group can see their own hypocrisy
by Anonymous | reply 43 | March 22, 2022 2:58 PM
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R33 If you want your dick sucked you should have it out and be playing with it....90 percent of the guys at bathhouses are looking to suck
by Anonymous | reply 44 | March 22, 2022 3:13 PM
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I also want to a bathhouse on Saturday night - Entourage in Las Vegas. I posted about my Vegas bathhouse plans last week. I’m a 48-year-old bear. A cute, friendly twink blew his load in my mouth and then a quiet, bearded otter gave me a hand job to completion in the sauna. Exactly the experience I was looking for. Sorry, OP! Not sure what I did right.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | March 22, 2022 3:25 PM
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Maybe the overweight guy in the room next to you frequents the place and is "talented" thus why people flocked to his room. If you want to be more attractive make sure you are very well groomed and do what you can to improve your looks. Yes, it's superficial but that is kind of what you are saying you are looking for.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | March 22, 2022 3:28 PM
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R43- You can say the same thing about Asian guys.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | March 22, 2022 3:49 PM
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R44- I never have my towel off when I'm trying to entice someone. I rub myself with the towel on- always. Do you thing that would make a big difference if I was exposed and wagging my boner at guys I would get a much better response?
by Anonymous | reply 49 | March 22, 2022 3:55 PM
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OP why not ask someone on Grindr or Scruff to meet you at a bathhouse? I’m sure *someone* would get off on that idea and it would solve the issue of where to fuck.
Worth a try.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | March 22, 2022 4:03 PM
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R50- That might work but I have never used any of the apps to meet guys for sex.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | March 22, 2022 4:15 PM
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R49 well you couldn't possibly get less of a response than you did....It pays to advertise
by Anonymous | reply 52 | March 22, 2022 4:38 PM
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Op, Have you tried not being a dirty old man?
by Anonymous | reply 53 | March 22, 2022 5:32 PM
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R53- What would I have to do to be THAT dirty old man?
by Anonymous | reply 54 | March 22, 2022 5:36 PM
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Being middle-aged sitting in a small room all night naked, with the door open rubbing your junk hoping a pretty man will come in then come in you. That's a good start.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | March 22, 2022 5:41 PM
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Yeah, The situation is pretty laughable.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | March 22, 2022 5:44 PM
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R55- I did not notice the last words of the first sentence. I'm a Top so I've never had anyone cum in me.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | March 22, 2022 5:47 PM
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R59- That's what datalounge is all about.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | March 22, 2022 6:05 PM
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On DL, I think the proper term is oversharing.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | March 22, 2022 6:07 PM
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DL people I forgot to mention this- There was a guy walking around Saturday night at the bathhouse who was only wearing a towel but he had his mask on. I saw one or two other guys walking around with their masks on ( I can't blame them). He stood at my door then entered and took off his mask ( he can't give me blow job with his mask on - DUH). When he took the mask off he appeared considerably older than he looked with it on. But he gave me a good blowjob so it was worth it after all.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | March 22, 2022 6:17 PM
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No doubt attempting to hide their shame. Lol
by Anonymous | reply 63 | March 22, 2022 6:19 PM
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There are 3 types of people at the bathhouse....those there for drugs....those looking for the porn star guy....Or those who have lowered their standards and are just looking for a couple of hours of fun...I'm the third...There are guys who I'd do at the bathhouse but I would never invite them over my place
by Anonymous | reply 64 | March 22, 2022 7:01 PM
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R64- The first type is ON drugs.
The third is someone you'd have sex with but you're not attracted to- You'd let them suck you off but you'd never reciprocate- did I get that right?
by Anonymous | reply 65 | March 22, 2022 7:19 PM
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R65 Pretty much....on drugs or the dealer is there
by Anonymous | reply 66 | March 22, 2022 7:32 PM
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This is a failure of the gay community to make new spaces and change with the times.
There is no reason that all these places have to close and no new ones open. Get innovative. Start a new club. Make a bathhouse that people want to go to. Clean, entertaining. New. High speed wi-fi for people to use. Bring it into the 21st century.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | March 22, 2022 7:40 PM
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I haven’t been to a bathhouse in years, but I have a friend who goes from time to time. According to what he’s telling me, the trannies have invaded the gay bathhouses too.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | March 22, 2022 7:43 PM
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It's a good guess most of the commenters here have never been to Steamworks Chicago.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | March 22, 2022 7:59 PM
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R69- Why. Do you recommend it?
by Anonymous | reply 70 | March 22, 2022 8:22 PM
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I used to go in the late 70s up to early 80s until the ones in NYC were largely closed due to The AIDS. Those pre-AIDS bathhouses were a different scene and I was in my twenties and drunk or stoned.
Wandered into one about 15 years ago again, the East Side Sauna. Coming from my then job uptown just on a whim got off the subway in the East 80s and went in. After decades away. That started about a decade of popping in randomly, never more than once a month, often less frequently, sometimes once every six months. Never the same day of the week.. I could make many observations but here's one thing that stood out to me as a sort of anthropologist of the bathhouse. No matter when on these truly random trips I showed up there was a core of the same middle-aged or older guys there. They must have been spending a shit load of money. But they were socializing, talking in the hall, watching TV together. It occurred to me that this was as much, or more, about that for them, than sex. This was their local gay bar, their gay community center, their MCC, whatever venue older gays use to socialize and maintain contacts and sorta friends. It seemed OK or even healthy viewed that way.
Covid lockdown must have been hard on them.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | March 22, 2022 9:13 PM
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Is that where all the A-level meth sluts go R69?
by Anonymous | reply 72 | March 22, 2022 9:41 PM
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Steamworks in Chicago is much, much better than most. Most of the bathhouses in the US are flophouses for the homeless or drug addicts. Enjoy your bedbugs.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | March 22, 2022 11:27 PM
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R45- That was generous of the Twink to save IT all for you.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | March 23, 2022 1:22 AM
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DL people don't berate me but I'm considering trying my luck again at the bathhouse on Saturday- assuming the weather is not inclement. I bit of a FRAU because I don't like driving on rainy nights. I shall duly report back here all of my adventures or MIS adventures.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | March 23, 2022 1:38 AM
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[QUOTE]an average looking guy that I would have ignored in the bars in 1995
And there, OP/R36, you have your answer. Back in 1995, you would’t give the time of day to guys you considered ‘average’. Well, 27 years later, you’re below average. And your present-day heirs are giving you the same treatment you gave to others.
Ain’t life a bitch, bitch?
by Anonymous | reply 78 | March 23, 2022 2:10 AM
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R78- Back in 1990 to 1992 before I started going to gay bars I would respond to peoples personal ad and I was rejected left and right even by guys who were totally average looking and not out of my league. When I was rejected back then it would take me two or three days to recover from the rejection. I bought an inexpensive set of weights at Service Merchandise ( remember that place) and they sat around for months until my brother assembled the bench. I did not know that having a build was a type of currency in the gay world when I bought the weight set and the bench. By 1993 I had a build and was exploring gay bars regularly and started to do well ( in terms of being cruised not having sex). Why shouldn't have I rejected average looking guys by 1995 now that I was out of their league when back in 1991 most of them rejected me. You take what you can get. Back in 1991 I knew I was a beggar so I would only reject guys who were obese.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | March 23, 2022 2:21 AM
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Steamworks Chicago has been described as the "Disneyworld" of bathhouses in the US, which is a very good description. Very clean, very minimal drug usage, and some of the hottest bodies you've ever laid your eyes (or any other part of your anatomy) on. The places in NYC and LA are complete shitholes.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | March 23, 2022 2:28 AM
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It sounds practically wholesome R80.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | March 23, 2022 6:32 AM
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OP, are you a female to male transgender? No one wants you pussy.
If you're old, you're not wise. Young people don't want to fuck old people for free.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | March 23, 2022 6:37 AM
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R82- I’m a top. I do the FUCKING.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | March 23, 2022 12:37 PM
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Have you tried Palm Springs, OP?
by Anonymous | reply 84 | March 23, 2022 1:34 PM
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R84- I've never been there. Is it nice?
by Anonymous | reply 85 | March 23, 2022 2:31 PM
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Have you tried a homeless shelter, maybe a drug rehab center?
by Anonymous | reply 86 | March 23, 2022 8:05 PM
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R86- Why would I want to go to those establishments.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | March 23, 2022 8:12 PM
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To improve your odds, of course.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | March 24, 2022 12:06 AM
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After my fifth time at a bathhouse, I acquired an STD. I never had one before and I was mortified. It was curable, but I never went back. It’s not worth it. I was 51 at that time. I’m 59 now and I’m still too frightened to go back.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | March 24, 2022 3:16 AM
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R90- The only thing I ever got from a bathhouse was Crabs. But back in the 1990's when I was a youngster I had someone at my place and he gave me Crabs. I was so naive then. I didn't know what these things were that were crawling all over my private area.
If you don't mind my asking- What was the STD you acquired?
by Anonymous | reply 91 | March 24, 2022 3:20 AM
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STD outbreaks can start at bathhouses, there was a place in I think Indiana where a regular gave a bunch of guys herpes.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | March 24, 2022 3:21 AM
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I think there was a motor oil in the 1970's called STD.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | March 24, 2022 3:36 AM
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R91, it was chlamydia. I’m a top, but I think I contacted it through oral sex.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | March 24, 2022 3:53 AM
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R94- Yikes. What were your symptoms?
by Anonymous | reply 95 | March 24, 2022 3:56 AM
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OP take heart. Even sexy.people sometimes have trouble getting laid on a Saturday night. This gal even wrote a song about it.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 96 | March 24, 2022 4:19 AM
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R96- Wish me luck. I'm going back to the same establishment on Saturday. I'm going there partially for sex but also to know that guys are interested in me- still. I'm not just talking about the youngsters but attractive guys my age.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | March 24, 2022 4:28 AM
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In 2018 I was at a bathhouse- not the one I'm going to tonight- It was a Sunday night in February. It wasn't that busy. A good looking (HOT) muscular young masculine white guy ( DL people's FAVORITE type) stopped at my door and said - Are you having a good time? Okay, I've only been here for 8 minutes - I said like a drip. I wanted him to scram. I couldn't deal with having sex with such a HOT guy. I want to enjoy sex not feel like I'm performing.
He entered my room anyway. I did not taking my towel off I just rubbed over the towel a bit. He turned around and walked out. Did he walk out because he did not like what he saw close up or because I did not respond properly to his HOTNESS? Who knows.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | March 24, 2022 2:30 PM
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OP check out this bathhouse in New York. It seems to be more fun.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 99 | March 24, 2022 2:41 PM
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R99- The OP of that thread said the place is packed with bottoms. EVERY gay place- bars, bathhouses, Grindr is PACKED with bottoms.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | March 24, 2022 3:37 PM
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You sound off Op, are you a dreaded Aspie?
by Anonymous | reply 101 | March 24, 2022 5:44 PM
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R95, I had a burning sensation while urinating. Also, my urine was cloudy and it looked milky. I went to my doctor, my urine was tested, and the result was Chlamydia. I took meds and was cured. I never went back to a bathhouse. My nerves can’t handle it.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | March 25, 2022 12:43 AM
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Most places are bottom-heavy. Even older guys can land if they advertise as a top. Take the towel off and show them your raging hard-on. Walk around. Everybody’s there for the same reason. Stop being afraid of rejection, it’s life. Move on to the next guy. People who lack confidence never get what they want.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | March 25, 2022 5:08 AM
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R103- Good advice. I am a top so that helps.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | March 25, 2022 1:03 PM
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One messy bottom and the place becomes a giant toilet stall.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | March 25, 2022 3:05 PM
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This is going to sound harsh but you need to be realistic about your own level of attractiveness and the attractiveness of the guys who you want to have sex with, even though it is a bathhouse environment and everyone is in theory up for sex. Just because they are horny and want to have sex doesn't mean that an attractive man is going to go for you, if you are not their equal.
I have been to a bathhouse/gay sauna more times where I've not actually had sex with anyone than the times I have...I remember one time, I was in one of the porn rooms and still had my towel on and a guy who I had given no prior signals to decided to grab my towel and swooped down to suck my cock and I had to physically push him off. He wasn't unattractive but I wasn't attracted to him and what made it even worse was his comment to me "How much did you pay to get in here?" with the insinuation that since I'd paid an entry fee I must be desperate for sex or had to get my money's worth with whoever approached me. Gross.
Anyway, a bathhouse is a pot luck thing generally, if you didn't find anyone to have fun with this time, don't get depressed thinking you never will - go another day at another time and try your luck again, you never know who you might meat, er...meet!
by Anonymous | reply 106 | March 25, 2022 5:03 PM
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Thanks for the advice UK Guy.
Do mind telling me how old you are?
by Anonymous | reply 107 | March 25, 2022 11:22 PM
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So much work to cum. And then once you do, you have to get out of his room or get him out of yours (or otherwise extract yourself from whatever play space you are in), get dressed, walk to your car, drive home, and then sit there and wonder what venereal disease you just got.
Or you could just look at xhamster, jerk one out, and then sit here and bitch at all the whores.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | March 25, 2022 11:27 PM
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R108- It's much more awkward if someone comes over to your place that you met on Grindr and you're JUST NOT THAT INTO HIM- like SJP said on SATC.
What do you do then? At a bathhouse you just say- I don't think it's going to work or I want to take a break.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | March 25, 2022 11:34 PM
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Dear lord! You're totally missing the point! At your advanced age, who fucking cares what someone thinks or doesn't think?
Once you cum, the world changes.
Who wants to put up with all that bullshit?
by Anonymous | reply 110 | March 25, 2022 11:37 PM
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R110- Actually most of the time I go to bathhouse I don't have any orgasms till I get home and find something or someone HOT to masturbate to on the internet- so it's even worse than you thought.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | March 25, 2022 11:48 PM
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I agree with the confidence - I don't think I am overly attractive, 59, but I like myself and am confident, and have a surprising number of people (to me) show interest. It's kind of weird, but nice. .
by Anonymous | reply 112 | March 25, 2022 11:56 PM
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You know you can jerk off at home to something infinitely hotter than the in-person "local talent" in Albany, right, r111?
by Anonymous | reply 113 | March 25, 2022 11:57 PM
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R112- Is this on Grindr, Scruff or a bathhouse?
by Anonymous | reply 114 | March 26, 2022 12:23 AM
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R103, that’s an excellent idea. I’m a top and I’ll try it.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | March 26, 2022 12:52 AM
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walking around with a hardon never occurred to you, r115?
I smell frau
by Anonymous | reply 116 | March 26, 2022 12:59 AM
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Sounds like you are kinda awkward based on your story with the hot guy. Maybe try talking less, no one is there for conversations.
I also suspect you have too high of standards for your station in gay life. You also seem to have a need to be validated by a more attractive guy flirt with you. This can be unappealing when it’s obvious.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | March 26, 2022 2:54 AM
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R118- When I am really attracted to someone I act indifferent. I can be real friendly to someone when I have no attraction to them- I'm weird like that. The HOT guy that night in 2018 chatted me up first.
A couple of years earlier a so called hot guy- Tall, moderate build, very good looking masculine white guy was walking around the bathhouse ( he did not notice me at all- I didn't mind) he walked up to some guy ( I witnessed this all from my room) and waved a finger at him and said- You've been following me around all night! The other guy who was NOT hot ( he was kind of meek looking and I felt sorry for him) said ( apologetically) I was just admiring your Abs. He was so stricken by the hot guys beauty he had to be near him.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | March 26, 2022 3:20 AM
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I agree with a previous comment. Hire an escort. You can get exactly what you want. Life is short.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | March 26, 2022 3:23 AM
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I am no Brad Pitt but God gave me a huge cock. I would go to the bars and be ignored by the guys I wanted. I went to the bathhouse after the bar one night, got a room laid back, and brought out big willie. I was the belle of the ball. The first guy walks by my door does a double-take, leans on my door until i say "you want to come in?" He shuts the door and proceeds to blow me, He does an okay job but as I said I am blessed. Next thing I know he wants me to fuck him. Hot damn I do. I pounded the hell out o him, moaning loudly, Jesus christ and oh my gods. I thought he was just play-acting but nope, He kissed me gave me his number. Next guy I recognize from the bar. He is a bit older but very well muscled. He has no clue who I am. Same scenario. Daddy is moaning like a whore in church. Wants to lay and cuddle, invites me back to his place. I tell him "you know I know you from the bar," and he is genuinely shocked. I give him a pass because I am not his type and he smiles and says "well you are now,"
by Anonymous | reply 122 | March 26, 2022 3:38 AM
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R122- Some gay men are so FUCKIN shallow.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | March 26, 2022 3:42 AM
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I'm not great with crowds even when I'm fully clothed, so the idea of being nearly naked in a place where strangers are constantly sizing each other up sounds like a true nightmare.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | March 26, 2022 4:31 AM
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R124- Some people there walk around dressed.
by Anonymous | reply 125 | March 26, 2022 4:43 AM
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R122 = yawn. Not buying it....
by Anonymous | reply 126 | March 26, 2022 5:31 AM
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[quote]Surely there’s bathhouses out there that are for mature folks only with a specialty for young guys that love to frequent them
Hey Siri, find the closest mortuary near me.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | March 26, 2022 6:26 AM
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r126 IDGAF. It's true. The funny part is people started approaching me at the bar afterward. My muscle mary had a big mouth. The problem was most of them just wanted to try it, not actually date or hang out beyond me fucking them. Yeah, I was fucking hot guys but they would ignore me at the bars until closing time.
OP you are right very shallow.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | March 26, 2022 2:37 PM
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R128- Don't you HATE people like that. I would think it would be very satisfying to reject them so they can know what it feels like to be ignored and rejected.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | March 26, 2022 2:53 PM
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Datalounge people I went to the bathhouse again last night. I sat in my room for one full hour not even advertising ( rubbing myself) I just sat there with my arms crossed. That mature guy from last time gave me a nice blowjob , a guy who looked like a trucker ( he had sagging tits and lots of tats), and some small Asian queen who snorted popper also gave me blow jobs- nice ones as did some guy with a shaved head. None of these people are what datalounge would refer to as HOT or particularly attractive but at least I had some good sex so that's what matters. There was a slim good looking young Latino guy walking around ( just my type) he did slow down when he went by my room but I did not take off my towel or do anything to indicate my interest- which is not to say he would have been interested in me anyway.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | March 27, 2022 7:37 PM
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Seriously Op, Are you on the spectrum?
by Anonymous | reply 131 | March 27, 2022 7:40 PM
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I assumed everyone who went to bathhouses were guys too ugly to score on Instagram, tinder, or even grindr. No offense. Like maybe because the only bathhouse near me is in the deep south, so maybe my experience is different from people on the coasts.
by Anonymous | reply 132 | March 27, 2022 7:40 PM
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R132- I mentioned it earlier in this thread that I've never been on Grindr, Scruff or Tinder and Instagram.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | March 27, 2022 8:16 PM
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R107 I'm nearly 40, I am not the most handsome guy ever or have a phenomenal body but whenever I've found myself in a sauna environment I can usually get what I want, I just have that swagger I guess.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | March 29, 2022 11:39 AM
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R134- That guy you mentioned who gave you an attitude - he wasn't even someone you were attracted to. Over the years almost anyone who's ever given me an attitude was someone average looking and or someone I wasn't even attracted to.
Who's to say what constitutes a phenomenal body. I like a slim natural body over someone muscular and covered in tattoos.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | March 29, 2022 1:46 PM
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Stick your dick through a glory hole, no one will notice your age or lack of fitness.
by Anonymous | reply 137 | March 29, 2022 2:20 PM
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R137- Who does glory holes anymore this isn't 1977.
by Anonymous | reply 138 | March 29, 2022 2:22 PM
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R131- How am I ON THE SPECTRUM?
by Anonymous | reply 139 | March 29, 2022 2:24 PM
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I assume all baths have them.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | March 29, 2022 3:19 PM
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I went to the bathhouse again Saturday night. I did not really have any sex. This attractive Latino stood outside my room chatting with me then he sat down and closed the door. His English was poor. I've been learning more Spanish on Duolingo for over a year and a half so I was able to speak some Spanish to him. Any after a while we made out- kissed and felt each other up but there was NO fucking and NO sucking. I did not mind really.
Before I fooled around with the attractive Latino and about Fifteen minutes after I was in my room a good looking HUNKY Latino stood at my door ( he wore a neckless too) and smiling asked if I was having a good time, how long had I been here etc. He was a good looking, muscular, masculine Latino hunk - but I blew him off I told him I'm not ready yet and then I yawned- then he said - Oh you're tired, Yes I said. I was not tired I just could not deal with having sex with a HOT guy- Oh well.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | April 3, 2022 6:54 AM
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R141 what was the sauna you went to?
by Anonymous | reply 142 | April 3, 2022 4:38 PM
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So, OP, you are depressed when you don't get to fuck hot guys at the bathhouse but when a hot guy chats you up at the bathhouse you choke.
I don't think you're cut out for the bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 143 | April 3, 2022 5:26 PM
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R142- It's in the Eastern half of the USA.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | April 3, 2022 9:29 PM
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R143- When someone HOT expresses an interest in my I get VERY uptight. Especially if the guy is MASCULAR.
That's a good new dl word taken from that Asian guy . It combines masculine and muscular.
But you might be right. It's a no win situation for me. The thing I do best unfortunately is daydreaming.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | April 3, 2022 9:32 PM
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Obviously, guys are not cruising you because they are bad people
by Anonymous | reply 146 | April 3, 2022 9:42 PM
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How's the bathhouse in Troy, NY? Anyone gone?
by Anonymous | reply 148 | April 3, 2022 10:26 PM
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R148, I've been to the Troy, NY place twice, but it was a number of years ago, so take this with a grain of salt... it's a nice facility (well-lit, nice jacuzzi/shower, comfortable seating area). But the staff are very strict about guys who start playing in public spaces... gonna play, there are spaces for that. Also, it's not 24/7, so you gotta pick the time to visit... I'd recommend calling before showing up and asking when it's busy.
I've thought about visiting again because I've tried the Providence RI places and man they are t-i-r-e-d. Mega-Plex is really grungy.
by Anonymous | reply 149 | April 3, 2022 11:25 PM
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The whole thing sounds stressful.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | April 4, 2022 3:07 AM
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I don't get why you turn a hot guy down who is wanting to have sex with you? I have got with some of the hottest guys ever at a bathhouse, if they are into me I'm not going to act disinterested or be too nervous to go through with it - why go there only to have non-sex with less hot guys? Doesn't make any sense to me.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | April 4, 2022 9:42 AM
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Datalounge people- I have an announcement to make.
Saturday night I'm staying home for a change. I'm NOT going to the bathhouse for the first time in 5 weeks. I need to get up early Sunday morning and go to the bakery to order a Chocolate Easter Bunny Moose Cake 😋 to take to my friends house on Easter Sunday.
by Anonymous | reply 153 | April 8, 2022 4:01 AM
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The guy getting sucked in that photo looks twenty years younger than the other two nursing home escapees.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | April 8, 2022 5:32 AM
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Gonna go to the bathhouse in Troy, NY tomorrow. Who wants to go with me?
by Anonymous | reply 155 | April 9, 2022 10:15 AM
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R155- Tell us about your adventures or lack of adventures there tomorrow here on this thread because most dataloungers including me will be sitting in our LA-Z-BOY Chair in our XXL Caftans eating Haagen Dazs Vanilla Milk Chocolate Almond Bars-(the GIANT 15 count from Costco) will watching reruns of The Golden Girls.
by Anonymous | reply 156 | April 9, 2022 1:05 PM
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FFS get over yourself! When you were 30 would you have looked twice at a 56 year old! You need a does of reality!
by Anonymous | reply 157 | April 9, 2022 1:13 PM
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R153, I have an announcement to make - Easter is NEXT Sunday.
by Anonymous | reply 158 | April 9, 2022 1:23 PM
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R157-What does FFS stand for?
by Anonymous | reply 159 | April 9, 2022 1:32 PM
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R158-I am ordering the Chocolate Moose Easter Bunny Cake tomorrow and I will pick it up on Saturday April 16 so I can take it to my friends house on Easter Sunday April 17.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | April 9, 2022 1:36 PM
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Moose and Bunny? I thought it was moose and squirrel.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | April 9, 2022 1:43 PM
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I'm so glad I hate being around other people.
by Anonymous | reply 163 | April 9, 2022 7:45 PM
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R163- Then how do you ever have sex?
by Anonymous | reply 164 | April 9, 2022 7:47 PM
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Yes, R164 but then I quickly leave.
by Anonymous | reply 165 | April 9, 2022 7:49 PM
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(r156) - Had a surprisingly good time - busy with lots of selections ... of men over 40. But that is not a bad thing at all. Fucked a cute cub in the back room while he was sucking another dad. Had some slap and tickle in the showers and got some primo head in the video room. Not everyone's scene, I'm sure, but I'm gonna go back. I' in my late 50s and I was not invisible ... to all anyway.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | April 11, 2022 10:08 AM
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R166- Post any new adventures at the Troy bathhouse here.
by Anonymous | reply 168 | April 11, 2022 2:22 PM
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OP you seem to want every thing on your own terms: 'I won't go on the Apps', 'I won't meet anyone at home', 'all escorts on rentmen are average looking' , 'I always rub myself over my towel' etc. The definition of madness is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. Maybe just be a bit more flexible in trying new things, and changing your expectations. I'm in my early 50s, never had much of a problem attracting 'hot' guys through my 20s and 30s. I found myself becoming increasingly invisible in my 40s. It's just what happens. You either adjust and change your expectations and behaviour or you turn into a tragic Norma Desmond figure. I don't really understand why you're so bemused by this.
by Anonymous | reply 169 | April 11, 2022 3:02 PM
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Are men feeling comfortable with COVID at this point to return to bathhouses. Considering bathhouse tend to cater to eldergays, I would guess they would still be pretty empty
by Anonymous | reply 170 | April 11, 2022 3:04 PM
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I’ve actually been to the Troy, NY bathhouse—it was years ago but it had a great mix of older married guys and college boys. And everyone had a huge dick! Something about the water in the Albany area.
A college kid with the biggest dick I’ve ever seen fucked me very slowly. I had never experienced anything like that—my whole body relaxed. Heaven.
The place is small but nicely laid out. Didn’t experience much attitude actually
by Anonymous | reply 171 | April 11, 2022 3:10 PM
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R166, your good time was had at the Troy, NY bathhouse? If so, I may make a drive out there. What day of the week did you go? Time of day?
by Anonymous | reply 172 | April 11, 2022 3:29 PM
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Any DL daddy can give me a ride to Troy??? I am a Asian student in Boston and I don't have a car.
Public transportation going to Troy is very inconvenient.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | April 11, 2022 3:45 PM
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There are Daddy chasers and Grandpa chasers, there are many young who prefer old.
I am now in my 40s' and I am catnip to the late 20s crowd, no idea why.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | April 11, 2022 4:03 PM
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R173, the Troy bathhouse isn’t really a destination. It’s somewhere for local boys. I would imagine that the Providence RI bathhouse is closer to Boston
by Anonymous | reply 175 | April 11, 2022 4:23 PM
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I’ve been up to Albany a few times for work and visited the Troy bathhouse (right next to Albany).
There’s a daddy there with a massive cock who shows up a lot. My guess is he’s in his 60’s with a great body, but that cock is legendary. He’s married (to a woman) but spends so much time fucking gay men.
He goes from bottom to bottom and makes them cum with a few thrusts. It’s so long and thick. When he got to me, I was sure I couldn’t take it all, but he was so gentle with me that he slid it in slowly without much resistance. I’m not a seasoned bottom so it wasn’t entirely comfortable in me, but he deep kissed me into submission. What a nice memory.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | April 11, 2022 4:33 PM
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I'm 54. We've had our day in the sun. Treasure those days. Your mindset does not bode well for aging with integrity. You will not be as desirable in those settings. That's life. And stop being a dirty old whore.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | April 11, 2022 4:58 PM
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You write like an old Harlequin novel R176.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | April 11, 2022 5:02 PM
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R178- Yes , but either way it was enjoyable to read.
R177- You put it wrong . You should have said to me-
You’re a WHORE darlin
by Anonymous | reply 179 | April 11, 2022 7:18 PM
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R169- What you mean is - I’m not in a position to be so independent anymore
Believe it I still daydream about meeting a nice guy for a relationship. I used to do lots of stuff- Gay softball team, hiking 🥾 club, Gay volleyball 🏐 team.
When one is single EVERY THING is a place to meet someone.
I bought a book years ago- It was written by a frumpish woman about how to meet a man 👨.
It looked like a book written by a secretary 🧑🏻💼 for secretaries.
In the book she gave one good piece of advice- Alway dress 👗 nice when you go out because you can meet someone anywhere.
by Anonymous | reply 180 | April 11, 2022 7:29 PM
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(r172) Sunday afternoon is the busiest. A large number of license plates in the cark park are from MA and VT. If the Bear Albany has an event on a weekend, both afternoons have proved ... fruitful. I've landed there on Wednesday and Thursday during the day and its been hit or miss - mostly older guys. Evenings are sort of a bust as the place is only open from 11am - 8pm, so the after work crowd seems slim.
Fri-Sun seems to be the best time.
by Anonymous | reply 181 | April 11, 2022 10:04 PM
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Thanks R181... weekends are when I can make the drive, I may head out for a Sunday cruise. I think I fit the profile of the clientele... over 50 (actually, closer to 60 - well, we'll just stop there).
And Albany still has a gay bar? Wow - that's a surprise.
by Anonymous | reply 182 | April 12, 2022 10:34 AM
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So the baths are for old people and young whores?
by Anonymous | reply 183 | April 12, 2022 6:48 PM
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Love bathhouses although I haven’t been to one in quite a long while.
Getting fucked by ten different guys, each with a different look and body type, is something every gay man should experience
by Anonymous | reply 184 | April 13, 2022 2:15 AM
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I do go to the bathhouse for sex but just as important if not more is getting my EGO boosted. A week ago Saturday my ego got a major boost after that HOT Latino guy chatted me up- even though I didn't have sex with him- it didn't matter. I went home satisfied.
by Anonymous | reply 185 | April 13, 2022 4:02 PM
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Well, we know R184 is a diseased mess.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | April 13, 2022 6:35 PM
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OP is probably not real, however, the things I have learned from quite a few bathhouse visits over the years (they're much better in Europe), include:
- a lot of the communication of interest is done subtly and non-verbally, through eye contact and how you position yourself. In the probably fake story at R98 OP expressed such clear disinterest he almost chased the hot guy out of the room. Someone on the spectrum probably would struggle in these places.
- actually, not all the hot guys at these places are having all the sex they want. Some of the guys who go do seem to be very conflicted about being there, either because they are closeted or because they feel shame for having casual sex with strangers - so you do get guys who just walk around and around and seem uninterested in anyone. If they do end up playing it might be only when they are under the influence or in the poorly-lit communal areas.
- gay men are very diverse in their sexual interests. Every other young guy on the apps has 'daddy' listed in his interests, and it's very common to see guys who are, to put it charitably, very different types pairing off. You might have to wait a bit longer and to improve the signals you send out but as a gay man in his 50s you're much more likely to attract a guy in his 20s (assuming no financial element to the attraction) than a straight man is with hot young women.
- if older-younger is your thing, try a specialist website. A friend of mine swore by Silverdaddies.
by Anonymous | reply 188 | April 13, 2022 7:49 PM
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R188-My stories are real. You think my story from 2018 is fake because I didn't show interest in that Hot guy?
I admit I am uptight with some guys especially if they're in the category of hot. But it's not THAT often that I have so called HOT guys expressing an interest in me.
by Anonymous | reply 189 | April 13, 2022 8:36 PM
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Sex clubs are like a buffet. Sometimes you want a plate with a little bit of everything. If you haven't eaten in a while, you can gorge yourself.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | April 13, 2022 8:58 PM
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R189 I don't think you're real because you claim to be 56, a frequent visitor to bathhouses yet you seem to have no idea about how cruising and attraction between men works. I will allow the possibility that you are real but unusually clueless.
Next time, make an effort to show interest in the hot guy, Or else don't complain that he left when you gave him absolutely no encouragement to stay,
by Anonymous | reply 191 | April 13, 2022 10:07 PM
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R191- One problem with that guy in 2018- I had only been in my room for 5 or 6 minutes and I needed to acclimate to being there. I wasn't ready to have sex yet - especially with a hot guy. I guess you're right though- I didn't properly and promptly respond to his hotness when he entered my room so he just promptly left.
by Anonymous | reply 192 | April 13, 2022 10:13 PM
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R192. I'm afraid that is the culture in these places, and with the apps too. You won't be courted.
by Anonymous | reply 193 | April 13, 2022 10:56 PM
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Sounds like bathhouses really are for old men and young whores?
by Anonymous | reply 194 | April 13, 2022 10:56 PM
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Bathhouses are hit or miss. Sometimes it feels like a porno orgy scene on steroids (too much stimulation), other times it feels like everyone there (hot, average, and plain out ugly) are just in walk around and fill their 10,000 step a day quota (no stimulation at all).
Drop the expectations and judgment (self and others). Let loose, look at it as transactional, not some sort of life validation. Go for it with guys who you fancy, some will say no, some may not. Some may be jerks, some may surprise you.
Your being a top helps.
Also try a bathhouse in other countries? In Europe and Latin America, they tend to be far more social and accepted than bathhouses here (they are congregating points for the locals, with full on bars, and on weekends they are the place to be - going through the wee hours of Fri-Sun).
We just came back from living for two months in Mexico City and the bathhouse there is a BLAST. Lots of stylish hot Latinos, many eager to share an experience with foreigners. Also tons of Americans :)
Go back and let loose a little, don't be too cerebral about it. We expect a full report Sunday.
by Anonymous | reply 195 | April 13, 2022 11:10 PM
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R196 LOL. Partner and I.
Infamous last words often heard "Let's leave before 4am..."
Walked out usually around sunrise as the birds were chirping in the AM (as some other Americans leaving at the same time commented once).
by Anonymous | reply 197 | April 13, 2022 11:14 PM
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Is that how you and the Misster bond?
by Anonymous | reply 200 | April 13, 2022 11:48 PM
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R195 Yeah, from what I've heard US bathhouse culture got killed off by AIDS and in most places never really recovered. It's much better in Europe and you get a much better and broader range of guys to play with (in medium-sized as well as large cities). This is what keeps London ahead of NYC for me as a gay mecca, though apps and chemsex culture seems to be putting big pressure on the baths just as with other gay venues.
by Anonymous | reply 201 | April 14, 2022 12:08 AM
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R195- Sunday is Easter and I'm my friends want me ( and the Easter Bunny Chocolate Moose Cake) there by 11 am so I'm going to hold off on any bathhouse adventures until at least a week from Saturday. Part of the fun of going to the bathhouse is not knowing what type of guys are going to show up- it really is an adventure.
by Anonymous | reply 202 | April 14, 2022 12:09 AM
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Was at the Troy, NY bathhouse yesterday early afternoon - rather fun. Surprised. Gonna head back on Friday ...
by Anonymous | reply 203 | April 14, 2022 9:55 AM
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The Troy NY bathhouse has such odd hours and it's not 24/7 - I'm surprised they can remain open.
I was thinking of a Sunday visit, but it's Easter and the childhood Catholic got the better of me, thinking, "really? You're gonna spend a Hold Day of Obligation looking to spend time on your knees and get your cock sucked?"
by Anonymous | reply 204 | April 14, 2022 2:30 PM
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(r204) I'll join you. Meet you there!
by Anonymous | reply 205 | April 15, 2022 10:31 AM
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Who has to clean these places?
by Anonymous | reply 206 | April 15, 2022 1:05 PM
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Concerned European are you the same person as UK Guy?
by Anonymous | reply 207 | April 15, 2022 1:28 PM
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Hilarious how people are overthinking bathhouses here.
“Your story isn’t true!! That would never happen!”
One place to never overthink is the bathhouse.
It’s a nice, safe place where everyone is gay and there for pretty much the same thing. Find someone you’re attracted to and attractive to and go at it. 15 mins later, do it again…and again…and again.
Over thinking it ruins the experience.
by Anonymous | reply 208 | April 15, 2022 6:05 PM
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[Quote] Who has to clean these places?
Poor minorities
by Anonymous | reply 209 | April 15, 2022 6:05 PM
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Safe? R208, I don't think I'd go that far. And R209 Yeah, Probably.
by Anonymous | reply 210 | April 15, 2022 6:13 PM
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R206 how do you get your cock sucked when you are on your knees? Sounds technically challenging to me.
by Anonymous | reply 211 | April 15, 2022 6:22 PM
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I’ve never been to a bathhouse, just a few sex parties. Are there any here in New York…worth visiting?
by Anonymous | reply 212 | April 15, 2022 7:03 PM
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DOes the odler guy with the gigantic cock still go to the Troy NY bathouse? Asking for a friend.
by Anonymous | reply 213 | April 15, 2022 7:27 PM
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R213- I find ODLER guys hot too
by Anonymous | reply 214 | April 15, 2022 7:32 PM
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Troy has a bathhouse ?? Pam Hupp Troy?
by Anonymous | reply 215 | April 15, 2022 8:38 PM
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Had a GREAT time at the Troy bathhouse. Well worth it.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | April 22, 2022 10:59 AM
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A friend of mine went to a bear event in a sauna and they all got little visitors from the seaside. No thanks.
by Anonymous | reply 218 | April 22, 2022 11:07 AM
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R217, when did you go to Troy? I drove out last Sunday (Easter) and it was closed. No signs saying they were closed for the day, nothing on their facebook page or website. I called and all I got was a busy signal.
by Anonymous | reply 219 | April 22, 2022 11:14 AM
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A bathhouse on Easter Sunday?! Have you no shame?!
by Anonymous | reply 220 | April 22, 2022 1:23 PM
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R43 Nailed it. And Bathhouses is not the best place to find hot men, quite the opposite.
You will find only gross pussy chasers.
by Anonymous | reply 221 | April 22, 2022 2:10 PM
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R3 BINGO!
OP is bitching that nobody hot wants to fuck him but of course he doesn't want to fuck anyone who's not hot either. But the hot people are the "problem".
by Anonymous | reply 223 | April 22, 2022 4:04 PM
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I have not gone to the bathhouse in three weeks which makes me practically a bathhouse VIRGIN.
by Anonymous | reply 224 | April 24, 2022 1:41 AM
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Heading to the Troy, NY bathhouse today
by Anonymous | reply 225 | April 24, 2022 10:56 AM
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R225- Good luck. Let us know at this thread what adventures or MIS- adventures you experience.
by Anonymous | reply 226 | April 24, 2022 1:11 PM
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How's the bathhouses in Providence like??
by Anonymous | reply 227 | April 24, 2022 2:11 PM
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so is the older guy with the huge cock still haning out at Troy?
by Anonymous | reply 228 | April 25, 2022 2:20 PM
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The same people screeching about COVID and how they're going to wear a mask until their dying day are also whoring it up at bathhouses. You couldn't make this shit up if you tried.
by Anonymous | reply 229 | April 25, 2022 2:22 PM
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The bathhouses in Providence are old and each need to close and remodel. Honestly, Mega-Plexi is just depressing to be in and Club Body Center, while better has a decrepit entry from the street up a flight of stairs and along a hallway.
Mega's remodel should bein with cleaning the ceiling which looks like a scary biology project for mold.
by Anonymous | reply 231 | April 25, 2022 4:06 PM
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[quote] The same people screeching about COVID and how they're going to wear a mask until their dying day are also whoring it up at bathhouses.
I don't think they are the same people
by Anonymous | reply 232 | April 25, 2022 4:07 PM
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[quote] Mega-Plexi is just depressing to be in and Club Body Center, while better has a decrepit entry from the street up a flight of stairs and along a hallway.
That's sad. I remember when Mega Plex opened 20 years ago. I never went but heard it was really nice.
by Anonymous | reply 233 | April 25, 2022 4:08 PM
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I went to one recently and it was overrun with senior citizens who wouldn’t be there if not for Viagra. I know it is my inevitable future, but the saggy, wrinkled butts, weird behavior and cockblocking/not taking no for an answer was too much. I will definitely not be doing bathhouses or sex parties at that age. It’s definitely an example of just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.
by Anonymous | reply 234 | April 25, 2022 6:11 PM
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It's Sunday morning.......can I have your stuff???
by Anonymous | reply 235 | April 25, 2022 6:13 PM
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Anybody been to the bath in Rochester, NY, an hour out of Buffalo? I read the reviews on Google and I think it's open 24 hours several days again? Seems small but hey, it's a small city. Impressive they even have one, plus colleges there.
Rochester is a few hours by car to Troy, so one could make a weekend of it.
Or even Rochester one day, then to the baths in Toronto, Canada the next might be 2.5 hours by car? How many baths in Toronto nowadays? I assume Steamworks is still in business there?
by Anonymous | reply 236 | April 25, 2022 7:50 PM
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[quote] I will definitely not be doing bathhouses or sex parties at that age.
Don't make promises you can't keep
by Anonymous | reply 238 | April 26, 2022 2:57 PM
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[quote] Or even Rochester one day, then to the baths in Toronto, Canada the next might be 2.5 hours by car?
Is you life that pathetic?
by Anonymous | reply 239 | April 26, 2022 2:58 PM
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Syracuse has a bath too. Syracuse is 2.5 hours from Troy.
Rochester to Troy is 3.5 hours.
by Anonymous | reply 240 | April 26, 2022 3:00 PM
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R240- I don't measure distance by hours. I measure distance by miles.
by Anonymous | reply 241 | April 26, 2022 4:44 PM
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Um, Rochester is farther away from Troy than Syracuse.
That means it takes longer to get there.
by Anonymous | reply 242 | April 26, 2022 4:45 PM
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I might be going back to the bathhouse tonight for the first time since April 2. Unfortunately I've gained about 8 pounds since then so I guess I can't expect too much. I will report back any action or lack of any action tomorrow.
by Anonymous | reply 244 | May 14, 2022 4:49 PM
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The baths can be brutal. I only go for cleanliness purposes, but one weekend some entertainer in a sequined towel was spotlighting all the out of shape losers and wallflowers while singing ‘Saturday Night is the Loneliest Night of the Week’.
by Anonymous | reply 245 | May 14, 2022 5:37 PM
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DL people I went to the bathhouse last night. I was in my room for 1 1/2 hours before I had any action but it was probably mostly my fault because I was not rubbing or giving any indication that I was ready for action. This slim Asian guy in a mask stood in front of my room a couple of times but I did not respond. Later a hot Latino guy slowed down a few times then later he actually entered- this time I did not fuck up but I FUCKED HIM after he sucked me briefly. He seemed to be enjoying it. Then we stopped after several minutes and he left. Later this hot black guy was walking by room slowly and looking my way at times- later he stopped and said to me - Howz it going or similar I said ok- he entered my room I did not take off my towel I just rubbed a bit- he turned around and walked out. I guess I pulled the same thing as I did with that HOT guy in 2018 R98. I had some other action too. I did nicely last night except for the hot black guy which felt like Deja Vu.
by Anonymous | reply 246 | May 15, 2022 1:52 PM
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Sorry to hear you were ignored....you fat whore!
by Anonymous | reply 247 | May 15, 2022 5:06 PM
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And now, the continuing story of a five that won't settle for anything less than a nine or ten
by Anonymous | reply 248 | May 15, 2022 5:07 PM
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R248- GOL
GOL means giggling out loud
by Anonymous | reply 249 | May 15, 2022 5:44 PM
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Incredible that I type this... I've been tempted to go to the Troy, NY or just suck it up and head down to Providence, RI, but gas prices have kept me home. Providence is about 90 minutes away and Troy almost 2 hours.
Damn...
by Anonymous | reply 250 | May 15, 2022 10:10 PM
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Busy afternoon in Troy today. Watched some hairy verbal dad fuck the shit out of an cute Asian kid while another dad was getting some primo head from a hot as fuck black guy who was deepthroating dadto the root. Quite sure the dad dumped his seed in the Asian kid's ass. Lotsa bears and dads - and a few twinks that were in heavy rotation ...
by Anonymous | reply 251 | May 15, 2022 10:55 PM
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It's amazing that some shithole like Troy has such a vibrant bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 252 | May 16, 2022 12:46 AM
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Bring an industrial sized bodle of hand sanitizer and a black light.
by Anonymous | reply 253 | May 16, 2022 6:31 AM
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The Troy Chamber of Commerce obviously has a DL liaison now.
by Anonymous | reply 254 | May 16, 2022 7:56 AM
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R252, well, the bathhouse in Troy is not typical... it's not open 24 hours, it's actually quite nice inside, it's small so it must be easy to maintain and they actually try to enforce the rules of the house.
I've been told that the men there are, by and large, married guys who step on the wife and family for a few hours, get off, get out, get back in the closet.
by Anonymous | reply 255 | May 16, 2022 10:00 AM
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(r255) nailed it. There are a lot of married guys who are stepping out as well as RPI guys - mostly owlish nerds (still hot). And I too, was there yesterday and did see that dad fucking the shit outta the Asian boy on the couch. Big cock. Hot
by Anonymous | reply 256 | May 16, 2022 10:17 AM
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The bathhouse in Troy, New York sounds happening. Maybe I should go there next time instead of my usual place.
by Anonymous | reply 257 | May 16, 2022 1:21 PM
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With all the talk happening here, I decided to stop into the Troy bathhouse. Damn. It was noon when I got there (the hours there are fucked up - they close at 8pm. WTF?) but by 1pm, 4 guys that had mounted and rode my cock - three of them damn cute!. On a WEEKDAY afternoon! Low key, but some nice 35 year old (and up) cock. Recommended. May swing by again this Sunday. Troy? Who knew?
by Anonymous | reply 258 | June 4, 2022 9:47 PM
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A pox on all your bathhouses!
by Anonymous | reply 259 | June 4, 2022 9:49 PM
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Has no one been heading off to Troy, NY for dick (giving or receiving)? We need tales of your fucking and sucking guys... do tell us sex-starved compatriots... if you have a sweat-drenched, cumshot experience from else where you too are welcome to post!
by Anonymous | reply 260 | June 14, 2022 10:09 AM
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Finally ran into the older guy with the huge. cock. Damn people were not lying. Must have been a foot long and thick. I sucked his cock the he told me he wanted to fuck me. I was a bit nervous but he ate my ass till I begged for it. Fuck of my life. Never felt so much dick in me and he flooded my basement like no one else. Damn old man I hope I am that horny when I am his age.
by Anonymous | reply 261 | June 14, 2022 3:03 PM
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[quote] he flooded my basement like no one else.
Your insurance company must have dropped you a long time ago with so many floodings.
by Anonymous | reply 262 | June 14, 2022 6:27 PM
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This is Troy... Wonder if any crew or cast drop by when the Gilded Age shoots on location?
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 263 | June 14, 2022 6:45 PM
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(r260) Was there on Sunday. Actually fairly busy for such a nice day outside. A couple of hot dads - one very hot top (late 50s maybe?). Plenty there to keep one entertained ...
by Anonymous | reply 264 | June 14, 2022 10:38 PM
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OP just be grateful that you didn't go on Christmas day like I did, many years ago. 1985 to be exact. A few hours prior, my obsession-crush "love of my life" showed up at my apartment wearing something that clearly indicated he was getting more and more into another guy, and I just lost it. He said "You look like you wanna hit me. Go ahead." So I slapped him, and he felt the sting; that's when he got a real sense of just how devastated I was. He looked at me, stunned, and left, to go to the other guy's place.
Shortly after that I was at the 1350 Club with my friend Alan, and all it did was make a bad day even worse.
by Anonymous | reply 265 | June 14, 2022 11:25 PM
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Eh, It sounds too cold and impersonal.
by Anonymous | reply 266 | June 15, 2022 9:13 PM
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Oh OP, how sad. Get a mirror. You are 60, fat, not attractive. Little wonder guys in the bathouse do not see you, or do look at you, and no thanks, pass you by. Of course it hurts. Someone notices you, your ego is soothed. But is all this read true? You type so prissily I am sute you are the typist who types as Greg.
by Anonymous | reply 267 | June 15, 2022 11:47 PM
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Could be worse OP, you could be Asian.
by Anonymous | reply 268 | June 15, 2022 11:53 PM
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R267- I'm not FAT ( right now) and I'm not 60 yet - it's still a few years away
I admit that at least half the reason I go to the bathhouse is in the hope that some good looking guy will express an interest in me which boosts my ego and also lets me know that guys are still interested in me and perhaps I can still meet someone for a relationship. I know what you're going to say- A bathhouse is the WORST place to meet someone for a relationship. Not there but somewhere out in the great wide world. I'm going on a hike with a gay hiking group on Saturday. I would say that is a more productive way to spend a Saturday than sitting in my room at my local bathhouse- though that can be fun too.
by Anonymous | reply 269 | June 16, 2022 12:49 AM
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Do you carry cash on you Op, I hear that helps a lot.
by Anonymous | reply 270 | June 16, 2022 12:53 AM
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Nothing screams quality like a guy going to a bathhouse. Give your head a shake.
by Anonymous | reply 271 | June 16, 2022 2:30 AM
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R271- I have no idea what you mean.
by Anonymous | reply 272 | June 16, 2022 2:35 AM
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[quote] Oh OP, how sad. Get a mirror. You are 60, fat, not attractive. Little wonder guys in the bathouse do not see you, or do look at you, and no thanks, pass you by. Of course it hurts. Someone notices you, your ego is soothed. But is all this read true? You type so prissily I am sute you are the typist who types as Greg.
Sorry, R267, but I did not post this. I don't go to bathhouses. And, more importantly, I know how to spell 'necklace.'
R141: [quote] Before I fooled around with the attractive Latino and about Fifteen minutes after I was in my room a good looking HUNKY Latino stood at my door ( he wore a neckless too) and smiling asked if I was having a good time, how long had I been here etc.
So stop being such a jerk.
by Anonymous | reply 273 | June 16, 2022 6:58 PM
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Have cash or drugs, Op, and you'll be beating them off with a meth pipe.
by Anonymous | reply 274 | June 16, 2022 9:49 PM
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Why put yourself into a situation like that anyway. Communal sex is gross anyway.
by Anonymous | reply 275 | June 16, 2022 11:28 PM
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R275- I'm not into orgies or threesomes. I only have sex with one gay at a time.
by Anonymous | reply 276 | June 18, 2022 3:45 AM
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While in a room full of other guys.
by Anonymous | reply 277 | June 18, 2022 7:32 PM
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R277- I always get a room when I go there. So when I'm having sex with someone the door is closed and it's just me and another guy in my room.
by Anonymous | reply 278 | June 19, 2022 1:04 AM
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Much less weird and transactional.
by Anonymous | reply 279 | June 19, 2022 2:57 AM
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Are they trans friendly? As a Maverique, I hope they are not hung up on gender, and I am welcome with my bio breasts and vagina.
by Anonymous | reply 280 | June 19, 2022 6:18 AM
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Watched a hot, built dad fuck the shit out of a hairy dad in the sling at Troy yesterday afternoon. Happy Father's day.
by Anonymous | reply 281 | June 20, 2022 10:24 AM
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Exhibitionists are obnoxious and needy.
by Anonymous | reply 282 | June 20, 2022 2:25 PM
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R281, is this or are these the same hot built and/or hot hairy Dad others have posted about here? If so, does the bathhouse have just two hot and built and hairy Dads who fuck and get fuck? What's the rest of the clientele like at this steamy little place outside Albany?
I've been pondering the drive for a Sunday... but stopped when I calculated gas... incredible. Price hit $5 a gallon and it's almost two hours each way...
by Anonymous | reply 283 | June 21, 2022 9:46 AM
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I have to say that everytime time I have been there - a half dozen times - its been a different mix of guys. A good number are quite fine, and then there are a few of the walking dead. If you are going for the first time, Sunday afternoons are the busiest.
by Anonymous | reply 284 | June 21, 2022 10:01 AM
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I might be going back to my local bathhouse on Saturday night for the first time in a while. I will report back here any sexual adventures or lack of them.
by Anonymous | reply 285 | June 22, 2022 9:12 PM
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Are they man from the orient there? I am only interested in oriental men, so not sure if this is a good option.
by Anonymous | reply 286 | June 22, 2022 9:48 PM
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R287 now there is a cologne that smells like them.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 287 | June 22, 2022 9:51 PM
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R286- Are you referring to Chinese guys?
I don't know where you are but here in the USA no one says ORIENTAL anymore. Not since at least the 1980's.
by Anonymous | reply 288 | June 23, 2022 1:19 AM
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What's the negative connotation of Oriental? Is the Monopoly game canceled?
by Anonymous | reply 289 | June 23, 2022 3:15 AM
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[Quote] What's the negative connotation of Oriental?
Are you writing from the 1980’s?
by Anonymous | reply 291 | June 23, 2022 3:19 AM
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Its Thursday. I need a trip to the bathhouse. Who wants to come along for the ride?
by Anonymous | reply 293 | June 23, 2022 10:31 AM
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All this bathhouse talk is making me horny
by Anonymous | reply 294 | June 23, 2022 11:12 AM
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Before the pandemic, I’d be up in Albany somewhat frequently for work. Loved the Troy bathhouse—It’s small but nicely layed out—it’s often active with a mix of older and young college guys, almost no attitude. the Albany area has some of the biggest cocks I’ve ever encountered—whether in the bathhouse or through the apps. There must be something in the water.
by Anonymous | reply 295 | June 23, 2022 11:15 AM
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Most white guys in my neighborhood of LA stopped going to the baths because they were filled, filled, FILLED! with Filipinos. I don't know what it is, but they LOVE trolling the bath houses in LA.
by Anonymous | reply 296 | June 23, 2022 11:23 AM
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It was a great Thursday at the bathhouse. ....woof
by Anonymous | reply 297 | June 24, 2022 9:58 AM
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Are you all dead from monkeypox and meningitis yet?
by Anonymous | reply 298 | June 24, 2022 11:47 AM
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Do Filipinos count as orientals?
by Anonymous | reply 300 | June 25, 2022 1:47 AM
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R300- Filipinos would count overall as ASIANS not Orientals.
by Anonymous | reply 301 | June 25, 2022 1:54 AM
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r295 you are officially The Albany Has Big Cocks Troll. As soon as I read "Albany," I remembered previous posts about large verificatia of size meat in the town...ALL by you, surely.
by Anonymous | reply 302 | June 25, 2022 1:59 AM
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Nothing better than a Japanese “banana”! Yum! 🍌
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 303 | June 25, 2022 2:00 AM
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(r297) Troy. Gonna go again on Sunday - great time
by Anonymous | reply 304 | June 25, 2022 10:28 AM
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R296 Maybe some are Mexican. it’s hard to tell sometimes. Unless they were eating balut?
by Anonymous | reply 305 | June 25, 2022 10:42 AM
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LA still has bathhouses? Is The Zone still around?
by Anonymous | reply 306 | June 25, 2022 3:54 PM
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And they say romance is dead!
by Anonymous | reply 308 | June 25, 2022 6:52 PM
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R302, yes, I posted about it before but then others chimed in and verified it was their experience too.
Cocks in the Albany, NY are weirdly large. I’ve had sex with a number of the guys there, while they weren’t all large, a huge proportion of them were hugely portioned.
by Anonymous | reply 309 | June 25, 2022 8:39 PM
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Bathhouses in the US are disgusting. The West Side Club was the worst. Glad it is gone. I sometimes wonder whether the new office tenants on W 2Oth know what was going on there.
by Anonymous | reply 310 | June 25, 2022 8:44 PM
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Steamworks in Chicago is nice but I’ve heard it fails next to bathhouses in Europe
by Anonymous | reply 311 | June 25, 2022 8:47 PM
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R311- The bathhouses in Europe are irrelevant to me. I'm not going to travel to Europe just to GET LAID.
by Anonymous | reply 312 | June 25, 2022 9:00 PM
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[quote]Maybe some are Mexican. it’s hard to tell sometimes.
Mexicans don't go to bath houses in LA, travel in small packs giggling like little girls while speaking Tagalog. ROSE!
by Anonymous | reply 313 | June 26, 2022 2:13 AM
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[quote]Bathhouses in the US are disgusting.
Because they are a thing of the past, like buggy whips or churning butter. Just wait for all the old, old, old Trolls attack me now for saying that. "Oh, you are wrong, they full of young gay men, they are very popular in Europe, it's the only place where I can relax, you just uptight about sex, bla, bla, bla.
Yeah, Sure Jan, Whatever.
by Anonymous | reply 314 | June 26, 2022 2:17 AM
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Giggly twinks of all races should be ejected from bathhouses.
by Anonymous | reply 315 | June 26, 2022 2:17 AM
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So is it no longer a truly oriental massage? A truly Asian massage sounds weird.
by Anonymous | reply 316 | June 26, 2022 2:19 AM
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The Oriental is the decor, the Asian is the massage done by the lady boys.
by Anonymous | reply 319 | June 26, 2022 2:25 AM
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I prefer the oriental bussy of Asian men. I think I said it right.
by Anonymous | reply 320 | June 26, 2022 2:32 AM
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Are you telling me bath houses in the US were clean, well lit, and joyful, as opposed to dark, depressing, and creepy before AIDS?
by Anonymous | reply 321 | June 26, 2022 12:22 PM
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Taking a steam in Troy today. Who'll join us?
by Anonymous | reply 322 | June 26, 2022 1:15 PM
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...pox...still spreading.
by Anonymous | reply 323 | June 26, 2022 8:27 PM
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Doubt bath houses are locations for much pox spread. Eldergays go and they had their smallpox vaccines. Studies show small pox vaccination, even in childhood, offers strong protection against monkeypox
by Anonymous | reply 324 | June 26, 2022 10:14 PM
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Who the heck would remember such a non eventful story from 2018? It really must have scarred you OP.
by Anonymous | reply 325 | June 26, 2022 11:36 PM
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It's not always just geezers R324, it's also younger guys into daddies...or granddaddies, young guys managing to find younger guys, and let's not forget the whores trolling for customers.
by Anonymous | reply 326 | June 27, 2022 6:24 AM
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R326 see R314 You are a little late to the party.
by Anonymous | reply 327 | June 27, 2022 6:31 AM
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I was responding to R324's post, that's all.
by Anonymous | reply 328 | June 27, 2022 6:40 AM
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R306, LA still has two bathhouses; I am not sure about the Zone.
by Anonymous | reply 329 | June 27, 2022 6:42 AM
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Midtowne Spa and Flexx. The former is much more fun.
by Anonymous | reply 331 | June 27, 2022 1:32 PM
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We're all older than we used to be. Why do you think time hasn't done a curtsy on your face? Get over it.
by Anonymous | reply 332 | June 27, 2022 1:35 PM
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...pox...mutating...spreading.
by Anonymous | reply 333 | June 27, 2022 2:18 PM
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I went to my bathhouse establishment on Saturday. I had sex with this portly guy who must have been 76 years old or older. He actually wanted me to suck his 4 incher after he finished sucking me. I had sex with someone who could be best described as a white Latino. He was attractive and I was fucking him with a condom but the condom was too tight so the sex act became a chore even though he was attractive and I was attracted to him. The under 30 crowd did not seem to notice me and that bothered me- I know you dl bitches are going to attack me for mentioning this again but have at it.
by Anonymous | reply 334 | June 27, 2022 2:29 PM
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Why do you keep going Op the experience seems to always let you down?
by Anonymous | reply 335 | June 27, 2022 2:31 PM
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R335- I'm always hoping my experience will improve the next time. I do see a few so called regulars there but there are people I see once and don't see again. There was a guy walking around wearing a cap- he was so interesting looking ( not just because he wore a cap- I do like a man in a cap for some reason). I wanted to know his story and I wanted to see him naked- oh well.
by Anonymous | reply 336 | June 27, 2022 2:54 PM
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R334 Let us know when you're ready to admit that you're a sex addict who has hit rock bottom. The rest of us are already seeing it.
by Anonymous | reply 337 | June 28, 2022 7:08 AM
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[quote]Midtowne Spa and Flexx. The former is much more fun.
Fun? Isn't Midtown Spa downtown LA right next to the real skid row? That area is hyper dangerous. Mostly old trolls, black dudes and homeless guys who dont shower go there from what I have heard.
Dont park your car on the street. Also, Uber may not want to pickup at that part of town, especially at night. Just be warned.
by Anonymous | reply 338 | June 28, 2022 7:16 AM
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^ frequents Midtown Spa and sucks off the druggies.
by Anonymous | reply 339 | June 28, 2022 7:20 AM
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Why does anyone keep fucking people they find disgusting or undeserving? Especially in circumstances that lead to disease? With no thought about anything but the next cum.
It's loneliness, I suppose.
by Anonymous | reply 340 | June 28, 2022 7:26 AM
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^ Having a conversation with herself, not realizing we can hear her.
by Anonymous | reply 341 | June 28, 2022 7:28 AM
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Midtown Spa - World Famous Sling Room.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 342 | June 28, 2022 7:50 AM
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And who said glamour is dead?
by Anonymous | reply 343 | June 28, 2022 11:50 AM
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R337- Hardly. The last time I went there- three weeks before I didn’t bother having any sex. Perhaps 🤔 you’re jealous because you haven’t had sex since the Carter administration and you’ve been living through my sexual adventures vicariously.
by Anonymous | reply 344 | June 28, 2022 12:06 PM
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Is there much oriental bussy to be had there?
by Anonymous | reply 345 | June 28, 2022 12:16 PM
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I hope they re-record this as “Asian Gate” or they are getting CANCELLED!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 346 | June 28, 2022 12:18 PM
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Even when I am 76 I don't think I would let a 76 year old fat guy suck my dick. Jesus OP how big is your dick that the condom was too tight?
by Anonymous | reply 347 | June 28, 2022 1:40 PM
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r348 that is not that big. My husband has a baby arm and before we went full bare he never had an issue. Were they the cheapy free condoms at the bathhouse?
by Anonymous | reply 349 | June 28, 2022 1:56 PM
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R349- They give you condoms and lube- free.
by Anonymous | reply 350 | June 28, 2022 2:14 PM
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I haven't been to a bathhouse/gay sauna since pre-covid. I can imagine the gloryholes are even more popular now?
by Anonymous | reply 351 | June 28, 2022 2:51 PM
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Especially for the pox-faced sluts.
by Anonymous | reply 352 | June 28, 2022 2:55 PM
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R351- My local bathhouse does not have gloryholes- as far as I know.
by Anonymous | reply 353 | June 28, 2022 3:24 PM
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Just stay home and jerk off Op, maybe you'll be less mopey afterward.
by Anonymous | reply 354 | June 28, 2022 3:27 PM
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R354- I hardly ever have an orgasm at the bathhouse. I usually have to masturbate to something on my computer when I get home.
by Anonymous | reply 355 | June 28, 2022 3:28 PM
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That sounds sad and pointless Op.
by Anonymous | reply 356 | June 28, 2022 3:31 PM
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OP hasn't heard about Monkey Pox, I'm sure....or condoms.
by Anonymous | reply 359 | June 28, 2022 4:11 PM
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I wouldn't mind seeing someone like that Frat Boy from the Bronx who doesn't like Bodegas- at the Bathhouse and having some HOT , SWEATY action with him.
by Anonymous | reply 360 | July 2, 2022 2:23 PM
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Not really. I just said that to get attention. The frat boy in Chicago who shoved the trainer- he was HOT to me. Much more my type- slim and good looking.
by Anonymous | reply 361 | July 2, 2022 11:56 PM
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I went to The Fair Theatre in Queens about 6 or 7 years ago on the advice of an acquaintance. He said it had a definite hustler/trade vibe. Out of my lifelong circle of friends, i've always been the most sexually curious/adventurous, with my compass, map and machete on-hand as I clear a path through boroughs unexplored, boldly forging ahead while the more sensible ones trail behind me, sometimes a bit reluctantly. So I just had to check it out.
I went in with expectations lowered as a coping mechanism. From the street it appeared deserted and past its prime, but once inside it was lively and crowded. I stayed for an hour, but it just wan't for me. It caters to an entire subset of gays that is just as gay as I am, but the commonalities end right there. Just checked on line via yelp and it is still up and running.
A big part of the visit that tainted my mood was this: the theatre was built in 1939 as an offshoot of the 1939 NY World's Fair in Flushing Meadows, Queens. Hence the name. Having attended the 1964 NY World's Fair, I appreciate NY WF trivia of all kinds. It saddened me to see a tawdry porn palace (there are three movie screens running non-stop, some with legit movies) in what could have been historically preserved as an art deco treasure .
by Anonymous | reply 362 | July 4, 2022 2:09 PM
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R362- A lot of the theatres in Times Square were beautiful Art Deco palaces that by 1968 had been reduced to PORN palaces.
by Anonymous | reply 363 | July 4, 2022 2:14 PM
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Do you have Monkey Pox in your urethra or anus yet, Op?
by Anonymous | reply 364 | July 4, 2022 3:47 PM
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R364- I'm not a bottom. I never get fucked and the only thing I ever GOT was Crabs.
by Anonymous | reply 365 | July 4, 2022 4:24 PM
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Miss Sorvino you were FABULOUS in The Bucaneers.
by Anonymous | reply 367 | July 4, 2022 4:41 PM
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So just your urethra then R365?
by Anonymous | reply 368 | July 4, 2022 9:45 PM
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OP - Very curious. In your late 30's, how many guys did you hook up with that were 55 or over?
Also, the comment here is telling: "I've gone to rentmen.com several times. I find the men there generally VERY average looking. The guys walking around the bathhouse were a lot better looking then the escorts at rentmen.com." They are not "very average looking". The average American man is 5'9 and over 190 lbs. The average escort on rentmen is in very good shape, most are under 35, the tops tend to be average to very well endowed and the bottoms tend to have great asses.
The idea of hiring a sex worker so you can fuck a 10 (whatever that means to you) will probably result in disappointment on your end. First, nobody looks like the 10s in real life modeling photos. Instead, find the escorts in your cities and see if any you like have onlyfans. Or twitter accounts. See if they're open to a variety of guys (or older guys in your case). Also if you go in through the .eu portal on main page, you can click on reviews...and you can then click on the men reviewing the escorts. Some have pictures and stats. If a 300lb guy gave the escort 5 stars, you dont have to worry if that extra 25-40 lbs you're carrying around will bother him. if you see photos of guys in their 70s giving him great reviews, he's willing to fuck a 50 something and have a good time.
by Anonymous | reply 369 | July 4, 2022 10:18 PM
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Anyone headed to the bathhouse in Troy this week?
by Anonymous | reply 370 | July 12, 2022 11:26 PM
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What kind of guys tend to go there?
by Anonymous | reply 371 | July 12, 2022 11:29 PM
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Mostly guys over 35yrs. Laid back place.
by Anonymous | reply 374 | July 12, 2022 11:35 PM
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Guys without pox go there.
by Anonymous | reply 375 | July 12, 2022 11:37 PM
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Datalounge people- I do go to the bathhouse for sex- of course, but more important. I go there to be desired. I went to my bathhouse on Saturday. A REALLY good looking guy ( white, with a moderate build about 37 years old) was walking around the place - ignoring me- which bugged me of course but even if he had stopped at my door and said - How's it going? I would have rejected him. I just like knowing he was interested in me. I need a shrink sometimes. I used to do that back in the mid to late 1990's . A good looking guy would be cruising me at a bar and I would walk out of the bar as said good looking guys was cruising me- it gave me more of a high when I did that. I only did that occasionally.
by Anonymous | reply 376 | July 13, 2022 1:56 PM
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I wasn't ignoring you r376, I was just waiting for something better. As were you.
by Anonymous | reply 377 | July 13, 2022 3:21 PM
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R377- You were definitely the HOTTEST guy at the bathhouse Saturday night.
by Anonymous | reply 378 | July 13, 2022 3:51 PM
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We met our gorgeous horse-hung and fishfucking fourth husband on Christmas Eve at the 8709 bath house!
by Anonymous | reply 379 | July 13, 2022 7:05 PM
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Hello- why would anyone go to the baths (they distill exist?) and think character counts? It’s all about instant attraction, lust, physical attraction.
by Anonymous | reply 380 | July 13, 2022 7:49 PM
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R3 Brilliant! I had a friend who would invariably, when we were out, hit on the hottest guy in the bar, who invariably said no. My friend would get really angry and rant about how looks-ist and shallow gay men were. Once he threw a glass at the head of a guy who'd rejected him. It never seemed to occur to him that his coming on to ONLY the hottest guys in the bar was looks-ist and shallow itself.
by Anonymous | reply 381 | July 13, 2022 8:14 PM
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Why not set up a networking party at the bathhouse for guys over 40. put it on Grindr or where ever, and see what kind of response you get. You can hype it for a few weeks ahead of time and even say that the first 10 guys will be eligible for a fifth of rum or something. it might catch on. You can always raffle off Metamucil.
by Anonymous | reply 382 | July 13, 2022 8:19 PM
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OP - you sound like a very rejectful kind of guy. You are very clear that you would "reject" this guy and that guy, and you consider yourself above this one and that one and the other one. And why would you condescend to allow those other ones, etc. etc.
It's all coming back to haunt you. The same contempt you have for others is coming back to make you feel like shit. You earned it.
by Anonymous | reply 383 | July 14, 2022 12:04 AM
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R381- It sounds like your friend needs to get back on his meds.
by Anonymous | reply 384 | July 14, 2022 12:56 AM
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Are they bringing back bathhouses in San Francisco? They've been banned there since 1984.
by Anonymous | reply 385 | July 14, 2022 7:56 AM
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Um... This isn't exactly a great time to be fucking a building full of strangers.
by Anonymous | reply 386 | July 15, 2022 9:56 AM
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R386- When is a good time?
by Anonymous | reply 387 | July 15, 2022 1:09 PM
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There is a bath house in Barcelona where one can charge for one's 'time'!
by Anonymous | reply 388 | July 15, 2022 1:43 PM
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Maybe when there isn't a highly contagious virus spreading through the gay slut community.
by Anonymous | reply 389 | July 15, 2022 2:49 PM
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That's not likely to happen, R389. So, fuck Luke there's no tomorrow.
by Anonymous | reply 390 | July 16, 2022 12:11 AM
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I need another dose of validation so tomorrow night I'm planning on going back to the bathhouse to have attractive guys express an interest in me and I will reject them then go home feeling validated.
by Anonymous | reply 391 | July 16, 2022 12:56 AM
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Going to the Troy, NY bathhouse on Sunday.
by Anonymous | reply 393 | July 16, 2022 10:28 AM
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R393- Why not on Saturday? It should be a lot busier on Saturday.
by Anonymous | reply 394 | July 16, 2022 12:01 PM
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We know an ancient eldersister with 10 inches who used to go to the baths.
She said that the 10 inches were "the only thing that saved me at the baths"
by Anonymous | reply 395 | July 16, 2022 2:09 PM
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R395- Because most are BOTTOMS and SIZE QUEENS.
by Anonymous | reply 396 | July 16, 2022 3:51 PM
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r394 Sunday is usually busier in Troy
by Anonymous | reply 397 | July 16, 2022 7:48 PM
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R397- 0h, okay. Have fun and report back your adventures here.
by Anonymous | reply 398 | July 16, 2022 7:55 PM
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The weather here in the Northeast is just too nice to be indoors cruising for cock on a Sunday... of course we really need rain, but that's a different story. So I'm not driving to Troy.
I'll be at an outdoor bathhouse on Sunday... here in western MA, there's a nude beach, very gay, can be very cruisy. Two weeks ago I shot a load for a hungry cocksucker... face, chest, mouth. Fingers crossed I do that again.
And others in this region will head to VT and hang their cocks in the sun (and get in some fucking and sucking) at Rock River.
by Anonymous | reply 399 | July 16, 2022 9:17 PM
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With all the dumb sluts spreading the pox R390 there may not be.
by Anonymous | reply 400 | July 17, 2022 1:57 AM
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Bath houses are for old trolls, they probably remember this commercial.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 401 | July 20, 2022 10:01 AM
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R401- I used to go there ALL the time when I was in my 40's back in ca. 1977.
by Anonymous | reply 402 | July 20, 2022 12:47 PM
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Maybe in the US R401 but in Europe the age is much lower and the men are much hotter.
by Anonymous | reply 403 | July 20, 2022 12:57 PM
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R403- I'll have you know I'm hot. My ass is high and tight!
by Anonymous | reply 404 | July 20, 2022 12:59 PM
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When I was at the bathhouse a week ago Saturday ( though I was there last Saturday too) something occurred that was FAR MORE annoying than hearing a guy moaning who's being fucked - which is annoying.
Someone in the room next to mine was sleeping and SNORING!
I was climbing the walls being forced to endure his snoring.
by Anonymous | reply 405 | July 20, 2022 4:59 PM
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R401 My cousin grew up on that block between 5th and 6th. My uncle worked for the Shubert organization. Where was that commercial aired?
by Anonymous | reply 406 | July 20, 2022 5:10 PM
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R406- On a Manhattan public access channel.
by Anonymous | reply 407 | July 20, 2022 5:21 PM
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Sometime in 2000 I went to one in Toledo Ohio of all places. I was there overnight on business and figured what the fuck. I got a room and as I walked to the room this collegel age kid in a towel cruised me. He asked me if I got a room and I say yes, he wants to come with me. He is not bad looking, some what in shape kind of average. I figure sure why not thikning I can fuck him and get the hell out of dodge. We get in the room, I close the door and we start making out before I am undressed. then I feel it against my leg. Fucking baseball bat sized cock. Prettiest thing I ever saw. Like a model of what a cock should look like. Long, thick, veiny, smooth shiney head. I changed plans fast. I kept that kid for two hours in my room, then took him back to my hotel. God love 20 year olds with dicks that don;'t go down. He must have came 5 time befoe I was done.. I blew him at he bathhouse and deep throated him. He went "whoa, do that again," lol. He said no one could ever do that to him, that he never enjoyed head until now. He wanted to fuck me and I told him he could but we would have to go back to my hotel because I was not expecting to find porn star dick in toledo. Poor kid. He told me he was not out, only came to the bathhouse for sex so his experience was limited.
by Anonymous | reply 408 | July 21, 2022 2:21 PM
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Has anyone been to the Troy, NY bathhouse lately?
by Anonymous | reply 409 | September 26, 2022 10:13 AM
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Has OP gotten the 🐒 pox yet?
by Anonymous | reply 410 | September 26, 2022 10:47 AM
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[quote] He wanted to fuck me and I told him he could but we would have to go back to my hotel because I was not expecting to find porn star dick in toledo.
Did you go back to the hotel to clean out or because you're too good to get fucked in a bathhouse? If so, what did the poor kid do while you while you were giving yourself an enema?
by Anonymous | reply 411 | September 26, 2022 12:05 PM
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R409, I'm with you... anyone have anything to report from Troy, NY bathhouse?
Outdoor nudity by a river season is coming to an end here here in New England... finding more nudity/cock for the fall/winter would be nice.
by Anonymous | reply 412 | September 26, 2022 12:12 PM
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R393 I hear Oneonta has a great one, too.
by Anonymous | reply 413 | September 26, 2022 2:25 PM
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I'm fully vaxxed for the MP - and apparently so are a lot of others as the Troy bathhouse was hopping last Wednesday at lunch.
by Anonymous | reply 414 | September 26, 2022 2:38 PM
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R415 I was going on the assumption that there's no gay bathhouse in Troy.
by Anonymous | reply 416 | September 26, 2022 2:47 PM
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eldergays already have a monkey pox vaccine, since childhood.
by Anonymous | reply 417 | September 26, 2022 3:01 PM
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(r415) riverstreetclub.com
by Anonymous | reply 418 | September 27, 2022 9:56 AM
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I haven’t gone to a bathhouse in four and a half weeks. I feel like a bathhouse virgin again.
by Anonymous | reply 419 | September 27, 2022 12:33 PM
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Anyone headed to River St this week?
by Anonymous | reply 420 | September 28, 2022 10:59 PM
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OP is a whiny, pathetic asshole.
First he complains about better looking men not paying attention to him, but he himself obviously has some standards.
He refuses to go on apps where his chances of finding a younger guy into older guys increase due to the huge number of guys there compared to the bathhouse.
Then he says he goes to the bathhouse 'cause he likes to feel validated and that he likes to reject guys into him even if he finds them attractive.
I'm sure there's more to the story that I missed in this long, long thread, but come on.
by Anonymous | reply 421 | September 28, 2022 11:46 PM
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Bathhouse was hopping today - lots of hots dads!
by Anonymous | reply 422 | October 2, 2022 11:32 PM
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Did you hook up with any of them?
by Anonymous | reply 423 | October 2, 2022 11:59 PM
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Bring back the bathhouse. I hate online hook-up bullshit.
by Anonymous | reply 424 | October 3, 2022 2:20 AM
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I went to Troy, NY bathhouse Sunday. As others have noted, it has a lot of older, overweight men, but there were a could of guys who were good looking, in better shape... I got to fuck one (used the sling) and ended up fooling around with another - nicely built, graying daddy-type in his room. Definitely a good time.
Kicker is, it's a 90-minute drive each way, and if I've shot my load in the first hour, well, I'm done and think I should leave.
But I'm glad I went and got off with the daddy-type guy Maybe I should have asked for his number so we could hook-up again, even if at River Street.
by Anonymous | reply 425 | October 3, 2022 10:02 AM
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(r425) Glad you had a swell time in Troy. Tell us more about the daddy you met up with - but maybe he wasnt all that since you didn't ask him for his number! I may go check this place out - sounds promising.
by Anonymous | reply 426 | October 4, 2022 9:45 PM
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I was there too on Sunday. I have an idea who you hooked up with - he was hot. I think I gave him some head in the video room. Beautiful cock
by Anonymous | reply 427 | October 5, 2022 9:11 AM
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R426, I didn't ask for his number because I found out he has a partner.
R427, he did have a great dick. Guy was late 50s, tall, hairy-chested. he had a beautiful, thick (and very soft) mustache.
Honestly, if I knew when he would be there again I'd make the trip.
by Anonymous | reply 428 | October 5, 2022 9:25 AM
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(r428) On a whim I check the DL this morning and suddenly find I've been cast in the bathhouse remake of SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE. ... No one has ever said that about my mustache before. Next time I get to dump my load on YOUR chest. Thanks.
by Anonymous | reply 429 | October 5, 2022 1:07 PM
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R429, you're welcome... and yes, if you want to cum on my chest, you're welcome to do that...
by Anonymous | reply 430 | October 5, 2022 2:52 PM
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I hope you're not watching this season of American Horror Story, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 432 | October 21, 2022 6:08 AM
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R429 - I've been thinking about another visit to Troy... if only there were a way to know if you'd be there as well.
** sigh **
See you in November?
by Anonymous | reply 433 | October 21, 2022 9:12 AM
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r433 I bet you'll find someone hotter.
by Anonymous | reply 434 | October 21, 2022 10:40 AM
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Women can still pull men when they are 56 yo.
by Anonymous | reply 435 | October 21, 2022 11:54 AM
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r433 Probably stop in this Sunday. And the first Sunday in Nov.
by Anonymous | reply 436 | October 21, 2022 10:46 PM
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R433 - October not possible, but November has possibilities.
by Anonymous | reply 437 | October 21, 2022 11:15 PM
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Datalounge people- I went to a bathhouse for the first time in NINE weeks on Saturday but I did not have any sex. Oh well.
by Anonymous | reply 438 | October 31, 2022 2:14 PM
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god dam bathhouses....super spreaders of all viruses known to man. ALL
by Anonymous | reply 439 | October 31, 2022 2:21 PM
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R439- Maybe I should be glad that I had no action there the other night.
by Anonymous | reply 440 | October 31, 2022 2:45 PM
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[quote] Datalounge people- I went to a bathhouse for the first time in NINE weeks on Saturday but I did not have any sex. Oh well.
Why?
by Anonymous | reply 441 | October 31, 2022 2:53 PM
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R441- I guess I wasn't in the mood and it's been a bit over two months- I'm a bit rusty interacting with people in that setting. I was looking forward to it to. I had some expressions of interest but I did not respond to them. Oh well.
by Anonymous | reply 442 | October 31, 2022 2:57 PM
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You're of a mature age and feel invisible?
by Anonymous | reply 443 | October 31, 2022 3:24 PM
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Gonna try the Troy place - finally - tomorrow.
by Anonymous | reply 444 | November 5, 2022 10:34 PM
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Did a crowd surround you and mock you puny cocklet?
by Anonymous | reply 445 | November 5, 2022 10:38 PM
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welcome to the place most likely to spread covid, monkeypox and every kind of virus/flu.....nice.
by Anonymous | reply 446 | November 7, 2022 3:56 PM
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^Who are these Carrie Nation Christianist intolerant sex-phobic jerks who jump on every thread where sex is mentioned?
by Anonymous | reply 447 | November 7, 2022 4:42 PM
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Theyr the ones who escaped hiv and covid by avoiding bath houses...
by Anonymous | reply 448 | November 7, 2022 5:12 PM
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I hope you washed your pits, feet and ass
by Anonymous | reply 449 | November 7, 2022 5:46 PM
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OP, a bathhouse is a brutal leveler. Only your body matters. Without a great one, fewer to none will approach you. Go without expectations, so you won't be disappointed.
by Anonymous | reply 450 | November 7, 2022 6:58 PM
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Maybe someone should open a fat whore bathhouse. You must be at 30 pounds overweight and love junk food. Caftans required, tiaras optional.
by Anonymous | reply 451 | November 7, 2022 7:36 PM
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R450, I find men of all ages and shapes can have lots of fun at bathhouses. Jacked hot men tend to be the minority actually.
You definitely don’t need a perfect or even great body to enjoy yourself
by Anonymous | reply 452 | November 7, 2022 7:41 PM
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R452- You sound like a nice person.
by Anonymous | reply 453 | November 7, 2022 8:24 PM
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R450- It had been a bit over two months since I had last been there so for me it was a clean slate. I had no expectations.
by Anonymous | reply 454 | November 7, 2022 8:25 PM
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R451- Your description sounds like a typical datalounger.
by Anonymous | reply 455 | November 7, 2022 8:48 PM
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The question to be answered, is this: "R444, did you enjoy your visit to Troy's bathhouse? I enjoyed me visit earlier this fall. I'm busy right now, wish I could find a Sunday to drive out...
by Anonymous | reply 456 | November 7, 2022 9:07 PM
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"I enjoyed me visit."
Popeye, did you leave Olive Oyl at home, let's hope?
by Anonymous | reply 457 | November 7, 2022 9:37 PM
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Good god. cannot believe those caverns of disease are open again.
by Anonymous | reply 458 | November 8, 2022 12:19 AM
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R457 - poor proof-reading on my part. Mea culpa. But it's true - I enjoyed my visit to Troy's bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 459 | November 8, 2022 8:37 AM
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Monkeypox,HIV,Hep B and C are still around but let's get tawdogged at the bathhouse! Unreal I tell you the more things change the more they stay the same......
by Anonymous | reply 460 | November 8, 2022 8:42 AM
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No shit, its like asking for some illness....for what, a fuk or suk?
by Anonymous | reply 461 | November 8, 2022 11:10 AM
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Cold outside. Time for a sauna. Who's going to Troy this weekend?
by Anonymous | reply 462 | November 19, 2022 12:21 PM
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R457- Contrary to popular belief, Brutus is not a top he's a TOTAL BOTTOM.
Shocking. Isn't it?
by Anonymous | reply 463 | November 19, 2022 1:59 PM
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I LOVE massive hairy bottoms.
There's a hot member video on Squirt, I believe, where a hunky, hairy daddy is getting fucked from behind. So fucking amazing
by Anonymous | reply 464 | November 19, 2022 3:49 PM
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I wish I had the time to visit on Sunday...
by Anonymous | reply 466 | November 19, 2022 3:50 PM
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I haven't been to a bathhouse since just before the pandemic. I'm getting the itch.
Are there ever many guys there anymore like in the past or are people still wary of Covid, monkeypox, the flu, etc?
by Anonymous | reply 467 | November 19, 2022 3:57 PM
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R467- I went to a bathhouse three weeks ago today and I arrived kinda early. It was only 9:30 pm and it was quite busy already.
by Anonymous | reply 468 | November 19, 2022 3:59 PM
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You are old and ugly, OP. Just give it up.
Young guys want other hot young guys. Only ugly and fat people want you because you are old and ugly. People did not notice you because you are ugly and fat, not because you are are old.
by Anonymous | reply 469 | November 19, 2022 4:03 PM
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R469- Au contraire , I am sometimes able to get the young, slim , good looking guys. I can even be attracted to guys considerably older than me but I'm NEVER attracted to the OBESE.
by Anonymous | reply 470 | November 19, 2022 4:37 PM
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I’m the guy who comes in knowing he’s Poz. I don’t wear condoms. Tomorrow, I’ll go to my slaa (sex addicts) group and tell everyone I was taking and giving loads and remember nothing. It was a blur. I say I hope I didn’t infect anyone.
by Anonymous | reply 471 | November 19, 2022 8:28 PM
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Big voyeur so I go to watch and jerk off. It's safe, especially these days with Covid and the 'Pox
by Anonymous | reply 472 | November 19, 2022 8:56 PM
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yes, R473... dish on the 'fun' you had or watched in Troy. And, hey... do you know why the hot tub's been out of commission?
by Anonymous | reply 475 | November 21, 2022 9:20 AM
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Hot tub is back. A couple of big dick dads and eager cubs. A tall, hairy cute thrirtysomething was passed around most of the afternoon. Great cock sucker, but loved taking up the butt. Watched him getting plowed in the sling, in the back room ... He ended up in the VIP room with three dads plowing him with some size meat. Watched thru the blinds. The kid shot with one of that dads cock shoved all the way down his throat. HOT Great mix - young and old, furry and massive and jocks. There was a smooth tatted muscle guy that was VERY eager. Great Sun afternoon.
by Anonymous | reply 476 | November 21, 2022 10:26 AM
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Nice to read man... especially the hot tub being back.
by Anonymous | reply 477 | November 21, 2022 10:37 AM
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I go to the baths in Europe and don't get much action...they don't like my darker skin.
by Anonymous | reply 478 | November 25, 2022 4:39 AM
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r471, if your medical provider were even slightly competent, you'd be on medications and undetectable and incapable of passing along HIV. However, it's obvious you're just a troll, apparently posting from the year 2000. An updated version *2022) would be that you had a strange circular open sore AND your penis was constantly dripping a white mucus-like substance, making urination painful - because at least those would indicate diseases that must be fully cured before you'd be safe to have sex with without a condom. I'm sure the vast majority of people visiting bathhouses today are either on PREP or already taking HIV medications for their own health. Condoms are always a good idea for insertive sex, but anyway, lots of people at the bathhouse are mainly into JO and oral, and/or voyeurism, like r472
by Anonymous | reply 479 | November 25, 2022 7:41 AM
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^OP are you Muriel, drumming up content on a quiet DL day? I’ve never laughed so much!
by Anonymous | reply 480 | November 25, 2022 10:53 AM
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I'm thinking Troy's bathhouse will be busy this weekend. Could be worth a drive... maybe R429's planning another visit as well...
by Anonymous | reply 481 | November 25, 2022 11:05 AM
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R478- Are you Indian? I like Indian guys.
by Anonymous | reply 482 | November 25, 2022 4:17 PM
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r481 What day are you going?
by Anonymous | reply 483 | November 25, 2022 11:05 PM
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R483, I'm thinking Sunday... close T'giving weekend cruising for cock. Get to club around before 1:00. You?
by Anonymous | reply 484 | November 26, 2022 8:50 AM
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R471 you need to be in jail for knowingly spreading an STD. Stop being a slut and wear a body condom when you have sex. Or stay at home pumping your infected baloney pony.
by Anonymous | reply 485 | November 26, 2022 10:20 AM
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Get on a plane and go to the bathhouses in Kuala Lumper Lots of Arab guys there. You will be the toast of the town.
by Anonymous | reply 486 | November 26, 2022 11:01 AM
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R486, U= U + PrEP stops the spread of HIV. If you bareback, HIV is the risk you take. So, I can only hope everyone is protecting himself
by Anonymous | reply 487 | November 26, 2022 12:32 PM
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Sunday is a good day to go ...
by Anonymous | reply 488 | November 27, 2022 11:03 AM
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Really? I thought Friday or Saturday night would be the busiest at a bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 489 | November 27, 2022 11:37 AM
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R489 - bathhouse in Troy's unusual... it's not 24/7. It's closed 2 days a week... they don't want a lot of public play going on common spaces.
Saturday and Sunday late morning and afternoons are busiest times. I was told that's because many of the men are married and they're sucking dick and getting fucked when the wife thinks he's out running errands or playing golf, etc...
Sunday's a good day to go. I'm heading there today.
by Anonymous | reply 490 | November 27, 2022 12:42 PM
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R490- Have fun and report back your adventures here on the datalounge.
by Anonymous | reply 491 | November 27, 2022 1:20 PM
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Oh, sure. You had to pick the biggest planet?
by Anonymous | reply 493 | November 27, 2022 10:40 PM
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... if the condom fits. Which it did barely.
by Anonymous | reply 494 | November 28, 2022 10:05 AM
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Sunday in Troy was fun... I crossed paths (again) with an attractive man who's about my age. He's an excellent kisser, has a furry chest (which I love) and very nice dick I got suck multiple times. Bonus, he'll talk dirty (loudly) and he's good with taking a facial.
Club itself was busy, many of thee other guys were not my type (besides the hairy chested cock sucker was in the house). We did participate in one group scene, two younger guys were open to having guys watch them fuck and suck and I joined in a for some additional fun.
I left totally satisfied, having spent time with that hairy-chested man, shooting a load...
by Anonymous | reply 495 | November 28, 2022 10:14 AM
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I feel like I am in a porn version of a Nora Ephron movie ... "Sleepless in the steam room"
by Anonymous | reply 496 | November 28, 2022 10:44 AM
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R497 - perhaps you meant, "You Got Nailed" because there was a very hungry bottom who I fucked while he had cock in his mouth. And I was not first dick to fill his hole.
by Anonymous | reply 499 | November 28, 2022 10:03 PM
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...nor likely the last ...
by Anonymous | reply 500 | November 29, 2022 7:28 PM
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r495 - did the guy you were playing with look like a daddy bald Bo Burnham? I think I know who you are talking about?
by Anonymous | reply 501 | November 29, 2022 11:20 PM
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I have not had any sex since August.
Does this make me a virgin again?
by Anonymous | reply 502 | December 1, 2022 3:14 AM
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R501, I don't know who Bo Burnham is, so I can't make a comparison. And it's my place to identify someone I met at a bathhouse online.
by Anonymous | reply 503 | December 1, 2022 10:01 AM
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Hey, I do kinda look like Bo. Well ... I did.
by Anonymous | reply 504 | December 2, 2022 1:28 PM
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R504- If you look like Bo Duke from the Dukes Of Hazzard I would definitely want to do you.
by Anonymous | reply 505 | December 2, 2022 1:35 PM
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One of the most beautifully hairy men I’ve ever had sex with was at the Troy Bathhouse. Very sexy bottom—maybe in his 40’s. So handsome and sucked like a champ.
The problem is he kept getting texts during sex and he would stop to answer them. I saw him later on some hookup site but couldn’t hookup at the time. I only go to the Albany area every now and again for work and haven’t been there in a while. The Troy bathhouse has always been fun but so hit or miss.
by Anonymous | reply 506 | December 2, 2022 11:25 PM
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I would never have guessed in a million years that a bathhouse is Troy, NY would be a hotbed for such fun times.
by Anonymous | reply 507 | December 3, 2022 2:39 AM
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R507, heed the words of R506 - it's hit or miss. I feel the same way, lucky I crossed paths with one guy while there who really got me going.
by Anonymous | reply 508 | December 3, 2022 9:46 AM
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At the Troy bathhouse, sometimes it’s filled with college students and hot daddies. Other times there are literally two trolls.
Totally the luck of the draw
by Anonymous | reply 509 | December 3, 2022 11:59 AM
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today? Definately troll time ...
by Anonymous | reply 510 | December 3, 2022 6:47 PM
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Good. Take the time to brush up on your spelling.
by Anonymous | reply 511 | December 5, 2022 6:16 PM
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You need to have your ESTs in tip top shape next time you go. Those boys are dying to hear all your cool stories bro…
by Anonymous | reply 512 | December 5, 2022 6:20 PM
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Here's a song to cheer you.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 513 | December 5, 2022 7:01 PM
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R513- The Bay City Rollers never seemed particularly heterosexual to me. I could easily most of them spending Saturday Night at a gay bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 514 | December 5, 2022 11:54 PM
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I could easily PICTURE most of them spending Saturday Night at a gay bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 515 | December 5, 2022 11:55 PM
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R512, what are you referring to?
And what could R513 have typed that got the post deleted?
by Anonymous | reply 516 | December 6, 2022 10:51 AM
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Got some tail yesterday at River St ... nice time
by Anonymous | reply 517 | December 11, 2022 10:23 AM
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Good for you R517. Was River St busy? I often wonder if crappy weather on the weekend brings more men to the club.
by Anonymous | reply 518 | December 11, 2022 10:30 AM
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Crappy weather usually keeps people away. I went on a snowy day a few years ago and it was only me and one other guy. We fucked our brains out but it would have been nice to see other guys
by Anonymous | reply 519 | December 11, 2022 3:54 PM
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I might go to the bathhouse again on Saturday night for the first time in seven weeks. I did not have any sex the last time I was there. The last time I had sex was August 27th. Sometimes I go there just to be desired and leave there completely satisfied because attractive guys expressed an interest in me even though I left having had no sex.
by Anonymous | reply 520 | December 14, 2022 7:14 PM
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R520, that sounds really strange. You have such low self esteem that you feel elated just because you were desired in a bathhouse.
Um, sorry to break it to you...but, considering what bathhouse are for, people desire all sorts of other people for the moment.
by Anonymous | reply 521 | December 14, 2022 7:35 PM
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R521- If I weighed 400 pounds I doubt anyone would be interested in me except for the super morbidly obese chasers.
I have seen guys there who don't get any action and just leave after an 1 1/2 hours. They can't find anyone interested in having sex with them. These people are not considered HOT by any means.
by Anonymous | reply 522 | December 14, 2022 8:20 PM
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R522, I’m not talking about the 400 pounder (who have their own admirers) but the average guy. There are many at bathhouses and everyone is having sex. That’s what you’re there for. You lower your “standards” and just have fun.
by Anonymous | reply 523 | December 14, 2022 11:36 PM
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R523- I don't think people generally have sex with people they are not attracted to unless they're a prostitute. The place was busy the last time I was there. It it was slim pickins I could see guys having sex with whomever was there but when it's busy there is plenty to choose from.
by Anonymous | reply 524 | December 15, 2022 1:02 AM
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May go to Troy tomorrow. Are Sundays usually busy?
by Anonymous | reply 525 | December 17, 2022 11:47 AM
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Okay did anyone have a good time in Troy on 12/18? Wish I had been able to make the drive...
by Anonymous | reply 527 | December 18, 2022 10:41 PM
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Nice crowd yesterday in Troy - very full, rooms were gone by the time I got there!. Played with a could of hot dads - one with a beard and furry chest and smooth chested hottie with a beautiful butt. The staff put together a bbq buffet from Dinosaur BBQ which was free and very tasty. left satisfied ... in many ways.
by Anonymous | reply 528 | December 19, 2022 5:07 PM
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Has anyone had any bathhouse house adventures lately? I have not been to my bathhouse in over two months. I'm out of the habit of going there. Which is a good thing because I was going there too often for a while. My entire gay social life nowadays is right here on the datalounge which I'm not sure is a good thing.
by Anonymous | reply 529 | January 8, 2023 2:13 AM
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everyone i knew that went to bathhouses died of aids. so dam sad. be careful u guys
by Anonymous | reply 530 | January 11, 2023 4:08 AM
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R530- I never have sex without a condom.
by Anonymous | reply 531 | January 11, 2023 4:34 AM
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A drag that this thread's dying a slow death... has anyone visited "The Best Little Bathhouse in Troy" recently?
I haven't, which is a drag, but I have to build a day around the drive to and fro.
by Anonymous | reply 532 | January 19, 2023 10:51 PM
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I like to do a little bathhouse in-person research periodically. I was sad to learn that Midtowne Spa in LA closed suddenly at New Years this year. It was a strange place, plopped in the middle of the very worst part of skid row in LA, but it was very large, the layout was well-organized, and there were good opportunities for voyeurism or participation. The clientele was extremely diverse - Latino, Asian, White, Black - some very good-looking. I checked out Flex on Melrose after I learned that midtowne was closed. The clientele was almost entirely Latino (not a problem for me), but I thought it felt dirty (a dubious rug lined all the hallways), with a confusing layout and I didn't enjoy it. However, the gym there was very large and pretty complete for a bathhouse gym. I didn't try the pool or any of the wet areas. To me, those are petri dishes. I think Flex is the LA area's last remaining gay bathhouse, although I see there is something called North Hollywood Spa that might bear checking out.
by Anonymous | reply 533 | January 20, 2023 8:03 AM
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Actually, landed at the Troy bathhouse last Friday around lunchtime. Active, with most guys older than me (I'm 58), but many still in good shape. Plowed and eager bear in the back room three times over the course of my visit. Very nice hole, and very vocal - big turn on for me. About an hour after I got there a compact "pocket cub" showed up who glomed onto me and chest. Genius with my nips. Gave him my seed on his full silky beard. Just before I left, a bear with a big ginger beard (and great smile) jumped on my cock and pumped out his load all over my chest - great kid. Fewer trolls that had been reported here, but enough to keep me moving round the hallways. This place is hit or miss - days that you think would be active (Rain and clouds) are often light and days where the sun is shining and its in the 50s are packed. On a beautiful sunny Saturday I saw the lot was full at NOON - not a room to be had ... grabbed one of the last lockers and stayed for three hours. Staff is mostly a friends crew as well - doesn't interfere.
by Anonymous | reply 534 | January 20, 2023 10:52 AM
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^^^ "Staff is mostly a friendLY crew as well"
by Anonymous | reply 535 | January 20, 2023 10:54 AM
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Lucky, lucky you R534... wish I had been there to see you shoot a load into a man's face/beard. Pig - gives me a stiffy thinking about it.
by Anonymous | reply 536 | January 20, 2023 4:07 PM
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Stopped into the Troy bathhouse yesterday afternoon to check it out after the buzz on here. Wasn't in the place 10 minutes and I had a attractive bearded African American man on my junk - who swallowed it whole and then spun around and took it up the butt. Not a huge crowd in number but very diverse in age and race, More bottom boys than tops so i was in demand for a bit. Not my favorite place, but I'll be back - might pick a different time of day though. There was a very handsome, built, 50something bald bearded dad that I was after but he wouldn't give me a tumble, just made out a bit. He was very verbal which turned me on .... Hooked up with a couple of others before I had to leave. I'll be back.
by Anonymous | reply 537 | January 21, 2023 10:23 AM
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Headed to the Troy bathhouse today - this place may need its own thread!
by Anonymous | reply 538 | January 22, 2023 12:13 PM
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I haven't been in ages... did anyone else strip down, get wrapped in towel and hang out at Troy's BH on Super Bowl Sunday?
by Anonymous | reply 539 | February 13, 2023 9:59 AM
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Yup. Laid back crowd. Many dads and a few boys.
by Anonymous | reply 540 | February 13, 2023 3:12 PM
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[quote]Headed to the Troy bathhouse today
Say 'hi' to Achilles for me!
by Anonymous | reply 541 | February 13, 2023 4:11 PM
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Anyone been to any of the gay saunas/bathhouses in Paris and has recommendations?
by Anonymous | reply 544 | March 7, 2023 2:28 PM
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I went to Troy today... very, very busy. Lucky me I crossed paths with a guy I've met with before, another guy who was fun and got to watch a burly guy who actually used the weights - nude, of course. Shot a good load...
by Anonymous | reply 545 | March 12, 2023 8:34 PM
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I went to the bathhouse for the first time since October. This one guy kept stopping at my room. I kept saying no. He was young and attractive but at first I wasn't ready for sex then later he was just annoying because he wouldn't take no for an answer. He probably stopped at my door 10 times. The last time he said my time is almost up- I said to myself- GOOD and good riddance.
One of the many times he stopped at my door he said he wouldn't touch me but just wanted to give me a message- I said no. He asked how tall I was. It would have been flattering if he wasn't so annoyingly persistent.
by Anonymous | reply 546 | March 13, 2023 2:36 PM
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I'm sorry but my spelling sucks nowadays. I meant to to say MASSAGE not message.
by Anonymous | reply 547 | March 13, 2023 4:03 PM
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Thanks, R547, we never would have figured that out.
by Anonymous | reply 548 | March 18, 2023 12:37 PM
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R548- If I didn't point that out the OH DEAR troll would have appeared to point it out.
by Anonymous | reply 549 | March 18, 2023 12:57 PM
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You were right to turn him down R547, I remember one time being in a sauna and a guy that was reasonably attractive but just not my type kept hitting on me and I turned him down a few times, he then found me again in the porn room and asked if he could just give me a foot massage, I agreed because I thought that was fairly harmless but the moment I took my eyes away from what he was doing he tried to suck my toes and I jerked so violently I nearly kicked him in the face. That was a lesson to me when it comes to bathhouses/saunas - if you give an inch, they will take a mile. I also once had to tell an overly persistent guy that if he touched me again I would knock him the fuck out, it's so weird to me that a lot of guys think if they keep asking, eventually you'll give in. So creepy.
by Anonymous | reply 550 | March 20, 2023 2:06 PM
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R550- I've had guys that were persistent before that night but usually they were on drugs. This guy a week ago Saturday was not on drugs- he seemed quite sober. I don't like to be too confrontational with guys I'm not interested in but maybe in hindsight I should have bee more firm with him.
by Anonymous | reply 551 | March 20, 2023 4:14 PM
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Wow. That's sick.
Today is exactly one year since I started this thread. Time goes fast.
by Anonymous | reply 552 | March 21, 2023 1:45 PM
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Feels like a Troy NY day... make the drive hoping to get my cock sucked, go down on a couple of guys... thinking I should get there for 12noon before the place is full and there's a wait to enter.
by Anonymous | reply 553 | March 26, 2023 10:37 AM
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So did you go to River Street?
by Anonymous | reply 554 | March 26, 2023 10:46 PM
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R553 here, yep I did. Busy, but the guys there really were not my type, except for a guy I've met before.. a good time (I think) was had the two of us.
by Anonymous | reply 555 | March 26, 2023 10:50 PM
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Anyone been to the bathhouse lately?
by Anonymous | reply 556 | April 11, 2023 8:59 PM
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Was your visit on Saturday as disappointing as the the visit you made to start this thread of lament and cock sucking?
by Anonymous | reply 558 | April 12, 2023 9:05 AM
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R558- I had a nice time with this cute/good looking guy of indeterminate age- 38 to 43 ish.
by Anonymous | reply 559 | April 13, 2023 3:09 AM
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Lucky man. I had some premium slap and tickle with a hot bearded African American man with THE most beautiful ass. Unfortunately he is not local - was visiting from Western MA . So want to tap that again. And again. And again ... Damn
by Anonymous | reply 560 | April 13, 2023 8:23 PM
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Hey R560 - your :premium "slap and tickle" was in Troy? Good, For. You. You should have gotten his digits - then you could have scheduled a repeat! The scene in Troy's small, others would dig hearing the two of you going at it again.
by Anonymous | reply 561 | April 13, 2023 8:37 PM
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I ventured out to Troy for a rainy Sunday afternoon. Lucked out that a guy I've played with before was also there. Had a 3-some with him and a hungry cocksucker. Fucked the cocksucker too - ding, ding, ding, jackpot!
Was surprised to see a very good looking guy arrive... definitely a tight little gym bod (he wasn't very tall. He started his visit parading around in a very sexy blue jock (he had a fine ass. But he switched to the towel look, which was a drag. He was definitely several notches above anyone else at the club... think he decided to just hang out and watch the guys walk about.
by Anonymous | reply 562 | April 24, 2023 9:24 AM
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R562 - He probably decided there was no one there of his caliber.
by Anonymous | reply 563 | April 28, 2023 1:48 PM
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Wouldn't surprise me at all R563. And since I was there, he was right.
by Anonymous | reply 564 | April 28, 2023 5:37 PM
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[quote] as I mentioned before the prostitutes at rentmen.com are mostly very average looking.
In your area. Where are you living?
by Anonymous | reply 565 | April 28, 2023 6:04 PM
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r565 Oh, so you were not his caliber?
by Anonymous | reply 566 | April 29, 2023 11:00 AM
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Nope. The man had fine, gym tight build, nice head of brown hair. I'm years older, gray-haired... the body's definitely good (esp for my age), but he was f-i-n-e.
by Anonymous | reply 567 | April 29, 2023 11:10 AM
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Anybody gotten any hot ass at the bathhouse in Troy lately? Thinking of headed there tomorrow ...
by Anonymous | reply 568 | May 23, 2023 8:31 PM
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I'm headed there tomorrow for lunch
by Anonymous | reply 569 | May 26, 2023 7:41 PM
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R569... lunch? You're going Saturday afternoon on Memorial Day Weekend? Are Saturdays a good time to visit RSC? I've spent a number of Sundays there, left after shooting a load, so it was worthwhile.
BTW, i went to Providence for an early Saturday evening... got to fuck and suck, which was the goal, so good on me. But man, Mega Plex is a dump. Damn that place needs to shut down for a fucking month (or one week each month for a year) and do some clean-up, construction and plumbing repair. If I head to Providence again, I'll try the bathhouse near The Eagle.
by Anonymous | reply 570 | May 26, 2023 8:04 PM
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Holiday weekend? May not be many people, but then again ... who knows always a crap shoot
by Anonymous | reply 571 | May 26, 2023 8:31 PM
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