Sharing my cruising experience in NYC's Private Men's Club. fucked by Latin daddies

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I ain't reading all that.

I'm happy for u tho.

Or sorry that happened.

Did you love them long time?

Did they come back an hour later hungry for more?

New York tourism is BACK, baybee!!

Anyone in your program major there? Any cadavers?

Can you show me how to work my camera?

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Don't worry OP. Half the men poo pooing you have already looked up the address, making plans for a Sunday afternoon excursion.

It's "off they go" thing. No one returned as far as I could remember. I did hope the Columbian daddy and the Brazilian daddy could ask for my Ins or Facebook, though. if either of them had offered to go out and grab a beer, I would pay for the drink and bring them back to my hotel. But the popular gay cruising mentality would be that you always think better ones are on the way, which proves to be sort of a wishful thinking in most of the cases.

And this is how omicron made its way into New York

I could contract AIDS, and COVID, just reading this thread. I need to take a bleach bath.

Don't they have bleach dips in the sex club?

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OP is Bradley Cooper

This did not happen.

You can find abundant supply of hand sanitizers, tissues, condoms, lubs, and even mouthwash there. You need Vaccine card to get in and are expected to wear masks. So how is that more dangerous than the random person you hook up on Grindr? Being a foreigner, I actually felt safer meeting people that way. That said, from the small samples I saw there, I was surprised to see Latino immigrants were more likely to use condoms than Caucasians who, I assume, were on preps?? At the end of the day, what matters more is the behavior rather than the occasions. I never let my guard down having anonymous sex.

OP is the owner of Rainbow. Getting free publicity

Haha, I actually won't return to that place in the foreseeable future. It's too bottom heavy. And aside from the fact that it is located in a shady area, the place doesn't have any amenities like steam room, sauna, gym. I will give a shot to somewhere else, like Chicago, Houston, SF... I would appreciate it very much if any DLer here has some good gay bathhouse to recommend.

This is the most informative review I’ve read on Datalounge since the famous Golden Corral thread.

Yawnsville. You're gonna try to fool us with a TLDR story about going to some 'Private Club' several nights in a row. You wouldn't be able to keep your mouth shut long enough to bend over, let alone engage in anything but bumping pussies and trying on hats with the other queens who were passed over, OP.

[quote] You need Vaccine card to get in and are expected to wear masks.

Do people really wear masks in a bathhouse?

arrdrama is a disease

I've been to the Rainbow Playground Club, and yes, if you're an attractive bottom, you will get fucked. Most of the bottoms not getting any dick are older, out-of-shape, and overly desperate.

The black bottoms are usually fucked by the black tops. The black tops fuck anyone they like, since so many of the non-black bottoms fetishize them.

R19 Steamworks Chicago

[25] Thanks! Steamworks Chicago is on my agenda.

I started hitting the baths in NYC in 1975. It was great! I wish everyone could experience the spirit of those times. Fearless fucking. Sigh.

Good Lord in heaven!

I mean I'm a trashy slut and live like a block from a bathhouse here....But 5 days in a row?

[R 20] Yeah, I wouldn't suggest people to spend that much on it. First time was exciting, the second time was fun, but the marginal utility you get from the experience declines dramatically thereafter. One may end up feeling emptier than before even though he was filled physically. I only did it because I wouldn't come back to NYC in the foreseeable future, apart from the obvious fact that I'm a slutty and insatiable bottom. But I did cap the amount of time I would cruise there, with one hour being my maximum. There were times when a super hot guy arrives when I happen to be checking out. I was so regretful until I saw him undress, revealing his slutty Jockstrap underwear!

Yes, Steamworks is the best bathhouse I’ve ever been too—clean, huge hot tub, very friendly and attractive men. But the last time I went was over a decade ago so can’t verify that it’s stayed that way.

Fake! I know fake when smell one, Joe!

R31 Thank you! I'm planning my 5-day-in-a row -Steamworks trip now.

OP Which other sex clubs did you go to? I don't mean bath houses though I agree Steam works was great back when I went.

R34 Rainbow Playground Club is actually my first sex club. I prefer to visit bathhouses which are more relaxing and conducive to socializing. The best gay bathhouse I've been to so far is the one in Tokyo. It's a 8-story building, spotlessly clean. when the midnight comes, there were people fucking everywhere. Japaneses are wild and open in private.

Most Asian bath houses are Asian only. Is the one you went to in Tokyo one of those?

R36 Yeah, kind of. Bangkok , however, has a lot of saunas where there are a lot of white old Caucasians very sought-after among local Thai twinks. Hongkong and Singapore's saunas can be also quite international in terms of clienteles.

[quote]I'm a young, well-built Asian who just arrived in USA one month ago, and it's my first gaycation spot.

Unconvincing

[quote] stood still in a ascetic way

In this country, we write "an" before a word that starts with a vowel, you stupid fucking whore!

Welcome!

R39 Okay, I would double check next time I post. I do have some typos.

OP wow good for you though I would not dare to do anything in bathhouses.

"not knowing whether Asian face & body would have a good market here."

As opposed to people with Asian faces and non-Asian bodies? or vice versa?

In my years of slutting in NY I've never been to Rainbow actually.

Paddles is another sex club in NY OP. And the Cock is a gay bar where sex is openly allowed and encouraged.

R7 You are bad, LMFAO.

1/10 – Now, once more with feeling

R43 Thank you! I will check out Paddles and the Cock next time I visit NYC.

NYC sucks when it comes to bathhouse. Best city in the world? Please.

And just like that, I’m bored.

"There were times when a super hot guy arrives when I happen to be checking out. I was so regretful until I saw him undress, revealing his slutty Jockstrap underwear!"

reveal that this is an EST. A super hot guy in a bathhouse is never rendered unhot because he wears "slutty Jockstrap underwear" although the odd capitalization does give an authentic veneer of ESL.

Try the Fair Theater in Astoria, OP, if you like Latino cock.

Comment on a review site about Fair:

Mike (saps) on July 17, 2013 at 1:12 pm You plan to go to the Fair for the classic movies? Reminds me of another exchange:

Renault: And what in heaven’s name brought you to Casablanca?

Rick: My health. I came to Casablanca for the waters.

Renault: The waters? What waters? We’re in the desert.

Rick: I was misinformed.

[quote] It's actually packed with POC bottoms, desperately cruising for a top to mate with. The ratio seems to be 3 tops for 30 bottoms on average.

Yuck!

OP is 80 years old and misses phone sex and the Advocate Men sex stories. Get a fucking life.

[quite] who, I assume, were on preps?

If this is an EST, the troll is fresh of the boat Chinese.

Gurl, u seem to have interviewed everybody on their nationality, no talking makes better sex

I like it when girls come to have fun

R50 Thank you! Just Googled it. Look like a fun place to cruise.

Post 50 is missing. What cruise spot was it?

OP: I was there on Wednesday and, frankly, you braying, "Me love you long time, Joe!" over and over again to everyone who passed was quite a turnoff.

Any showers or even water fountains at Rainbow Club?

How long can one stay?

What time does it close?

Is there group play or mostly one on one?

Subway accessible, or you were able to park a car in a safe place?

R55 Haha. You are so funny. I did interview them about their nationalities. I came from Asia, where the populations are very homogeneous. So I was impressed and enchanted by the ethnic diversity of NYC. It's always more fun for me to profile the regional and cultural identity of the cock I'm using. A cock differs from a dildo in that it's on people and has a lot of story to tell. To draw a very lousy analogy, a Columbian cock for me sounds like a exotically flavored ice-cream that I feel compelled to taste. And I also want to know the origin of the place that produce it so that I can plan on my gaycation destinations.

You're new in America, but you write very well in English. Learned English long ago?

R58 is missing.

R60 Thank you for asking, which reminds me that I missed some important information for those who are truly interested. Alas, it doesn't have any showers, to say nothing of steamed rooms, jacuzzi or gym. You do not have limit of time for your stay because their business hours span only from 6 pm to 1 am, meaning itself is very much limited. With regard to the transportation, I don't think the location is friendly to car-users since it's tucked away in a shady neighborhood. There are, however, some subway lines that are within walking distance.

Speaking of the group sex scene, I did see three shows throughout my stay. But for each day I went, I saw no lack of bottoms throwing their legs in the air yet attracting now crowds. So it really depends. If there is match then crowd would gather and lead to more actions, eventually a group sex. Considering the disproportionately few number of tops , it may take time for it to happen. And to make matters worse, there are bottoms like me who have scruples putting on a show in public and would always lock tops inside while having sex.

R62 I really appreciate it that you complimented me on my English proficiency. I 've got some posts making disparaging remarks about it, haha. Yes, we were taught English since primary school. Oral English for us is more challenging a job. When I first arrived, I couldn't figure out what "For here or to go?" means...People may suspect I have autism when ordering the food. Now I can do much better and can speak fluently. And most Americans I meet are very friendly. It's very easy to strike up a conversation with people.

Yu Ho

Yu Ho

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NYC does seem to have either good bathhouses or sex clubs.

I know the apps have become dominant but far smaller cities have far better gay sex venues

I choose to believe this is true.

NYC has been bereft of tops for some time now. That's why New Yorkers are so angry!

OP, you'll need to check out the Fair Theatre in Queens on your next visit. A real zany and weird throwback cruising and sex spot. Glad I tried it out from three hours away, but not for everybody's tastes. Many Hispanics, Blacks, many older, some younger, some whites and Asians.

There are threads here, one of which I commented in around mid-February 2020, just weeks before NYC became the Covid epicenter. I was so lucky I didn't catch it in my few hours there that Saturday night. Small, dark mensroom was packed at times, plus some other play areas not so packed.

Not sure if they still close at 3 a.m. on weekends. It seems they're still operating according to Google reviews. I think they closed for awhile at the onset of Covid.

Not sure if it can survive until your next NYC visit, but I think you may like it.

NYC baths and sex clubs are filthy bogs. Total ewww. They're better and cleaner in smaller cities.

R73 Name a few of them

R72 Thank you.! I have put Steamworks Chicago and Fair Theatre on my gaycation agenda.

R74 Chicago of course, Montreal, Honolulu, Columbus, Washington.

I'm just glad the Aspie Asian is becoming a little less racist.

Stop picking on him you big bully.

OP – Perhaps you can meet up with Jussie or one of the Osundairo brothers when you do Steamworks.

Chicago Sun-Times: “Under questioning, Abimbola Osundairo admitted he and Smollett had gone to Steamworks bathhouse in the Boystown neighborhood several times, though he said he did not know if the establishment catered to gay men.” “You didn’t see the big rainbow flag?” Defense attorney Shay Allen said, noting that gay pornographic movies were also playing on a television near the entrance.

Contact me when you're ready for your advanced oral exam, boy.

R72 Does the Fair Theater in Queens also show non porn films as well? Read that it is frequented by families as well as guys cruising.

Yes, in the main theater, R81. But just as much cruising goes on in there, so no families will be present.

PigHaus

[comment] So after getting inside and quickly familiarizing myself with the environment, I stood still in a ascetic way, with people walking past me one by one.

I see things haven't changed much in the last 40 years since I have been in a NYC baths.

[quote]I went to Rainbow Playground Club in Queens, New York last week five days in a row. The place is dominated by first generation immigrants from various Latin countries, African Americans being the second largest clienteles. You think it would be top-heavy? It's actually packed with POC bottoms, desperately cruising for a top

Well, there goes my breakfast

Strike a pose, girlfriend!

All that, OP, and you didn't even have to trot out the Ping Pong routine!

Did you get a C on this in your creative writing class?

OP = TingTong Macadangdang.

R88 Folks, thank you for all the negative comments on my writing, at least you spent time reading my posts. And I would polish my language more carefully next time. And please come back and be nitpicking next time when I post my experience about Chicago Steamworks.

This never happened but nice try though. Rainbow enforces their no Asians policy very strictly.

[quote]I declined some offer from men who were not total tops. And I was approached by many bottom or vers bottom guy.

How can you tell a guy is a "total top" in a bathhouse encounter?

They should just pass out lanyards at the front desk: Total Top, Total Bottom, Try Me!, etc.

R92 I asked them. I have a couple of invitations from very hot vers who offered me their cocks. People may claim themselves to be total tops if they sniff out I'm aiming at one. You can never verify it since they are basically a one-time encounter. But it's enough for me that at least at that point they identify themselves that way.

R93 I saw so many bottoms wearing jockstraps there, so it's actually not hard to figure out in many cases

And in many Japanese saunas, they sometimes have sort-of dress code to help you identify, like bottoms wearing robes, tops wearing towels around their waist or tops hanging keys on the hand wrist while bottoms on the feet ........

[quote] And please come back and be nitpicking next time when I post my experience about Chicago Steamworks.

Oh, princess. Those Chicago boys will give you so much shade your precum will turn into an icicle. They are not fans of dim sum.

Drop dead whores!

R72] Does the Fair Theater in Queens also show non porn films as well? Read that it is frequented by families as well as guys cruising.

—Anonymous Hmmm...I think I read that somewhwre also about families there.

Not whatsoever! They seem to play regular classic movies on the big screen from what I heard...I think I read they could be shut down otherwise?

The night I was there, it was a boxing event on the main screen, maybe even live from some cable service. Actually, the main seating and the small balcony is sparsely attended. And I think smoking is foolishly allowed?

Several arcade-style booths in the nearby hallway. Even a regular lounge and a tv room, but some not there for sex but socializing and seemed to know each other, or watching a PBS repeat of a musical.

Christmas lights, Halloween and Valentine's decor assaulted me once I went thru the turnstile. Weird, but almost appropriate for that strange venue.

Free donuts and I think coffee.

Lockers for the locals to place backpacks if arriving on public transit, likely from working-class areas, often Hispanics. Oh, and some transvestites also.

Not too many young guys but some. Again, hopefully it is still open, and somehow survives.

From outside, just posters for foreign Asian movies or whatever, so doesn't even scream cruise area to passersby.

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And OP, do check out Steamworks in Chicago. I was there ten years ago, great time and busy at 3 am to 5 am on that Sunday for some popular theme, but Monday the next night at 1 am was slow. Not sure how fun it is with possibly masks now. Steamworks in Seattle and Club Z bath there were good on my 2012 visit, but not on Steamworks Chicago level. My 1999 Steamworks visit in Berkeley, Calif. was worthwhile also.

Mega-Plex in Providence, RI, is just meh. I think Eagle's Nest recently replaced Club CBC bath there recently, but can't seem to find any info. Boston hasn't had a bath in almost 20 years, so some go to Providence an hour away.

OP wearing a jock does not necessarily indicate a guy’s a bottom.

R97 Thank you for contributing to the discussion. Very informative!

Granted it was Market Days, but my trip to Chicago this year it was a few hours wait to get into Steamworks. It is definitely still a bustling venue. Right in the Boystown so easy for people to leave the bars and go to the bathhouse.

I do wish NY still had a popular bathhouse, it's one thing the gay scene here lacks

R100 A few hours? That's insane. Were they limiting the number of visitors due to the Covid? Yeah, New York sucks in terms of gay bathhouse.

Troy's in upstate new york was surprisingly good. The closeted, bi, married men employed by our taxpayer money from across the river in Albany were all hung and great sex. Ordinary regular guys are the best in my experience.

Where are the ASIANS?

R102, I had some great experiences in the Troy bathhouse when I’d go to Albany for work. A nice mix of college students and older, married Irish guys. The cocks In that area are something to behold. I’ve never seen such a concentration of big dicked men.

R102 R104 That sounds very tantalizing! I hope I could visit the place. But I don't have a car yet . It's on my New Year resolution now! Thank you for your valued contribution to my travelling agenda.

Any nice daddy offers me a trip there sometime? I can pay the ticket for you in return. drooling face emoji

It's Market Days r101, a gazillion gay men descend upon Chicago for that weekend.

Glad to see there's still some action to be had in Queens. For whatever reasons the bathhouse situation in NYC overall is truly godawful. (If I had to guess, younger guys tend to hook up much more via cruising apps)

R104- That place sounds good but I just went to their website and they are only open till 8pm- That's VERY early to close.

West Side Club Story

R98- I thought it did- generally. I was at a bathhouse on November 6. This hot guy with a build and tattoos wearing only a jockstrap was standing outside my room. Since his ass was on display I figured that meant he was a bottom.

R109- I have several West Side Club stories.

Maria!

From the way this started I expected OP to be a top.

West Side Club closed down. East Side Club is the only bath house left.

R111, do tell!

[quote] West Side Club closed down. East Side Club is the only bath house left.

Has anyone been to the ESC lately. Is it still Tales from the Crypt? Even for someone who likes daddies, like me, everyone was just too ancient.

I've never actually been r116. The couple guys I've known who have gone told me it was expensive and a waste of time. Most gay men in NY have never been

For me when I want to hook up my go to has been the Cock.

There are also lot of sex parties if you want to get involved in that scene, I should probably check it out at some point.

R117, were do you find the parties?

R116- I was there in early November. There is definitely a significant number of younger (under 40) and HOT guys that were there that night. Now that West Side Club is out of business it's the only bathhouse in town. It was so busy they only had one room left on the lower level.

R119. wow! good news

"overly desperate"

So just plain desperate might get you laid?

R115- Maybe this belongs on the rejection thread that someone started- One night about 2 1/2 years ago I was at West Side Club and this husky muscular bearded guy entered my room. He was inexpertly sucking me and praising my cock. He kept pressing me to let him video me on his cell phone. I kept saying no ( I don't need to see myself on pornhub). Then his attitude changed. The music was blaring so I'm not sure about the first thing he said- something like - You're lucky I'm in your room. The second thing he said to me I heard clearly - I WOULDN'T LOOK AT YOU ON THE STREET. That would have hurt if he had been my type. He was considered hot but not the type that I go for. I said - goodbye and he left. I never had someone give me such attitude in my life.

R110 I agree. Being a strict bottom, I wouldn't let a guy wearing jockstrap top me.

Its heart warming that DL has been so welcoming and informative for our new young Asian sexual adventurer. I though I should make a few recommendations of my favorite clubs in Asia.

Madame Nodokirisaku runs the wild L'entaille chaude in Shanghai's French Concession. With sing song boys and rough trade from the Green Gang, but well protected by Big Dong Du. EXPENSIVE. Clientele is French and English gentleman with very kinky appetites and best times are weekday afternoons. If you're passing through Macau don't miss the private men's salons deep in Madame Gin Sling's casino. Never closes. The best times are very late. It's quite druggy, with a Eurotrash crowd mixing with young adult children of oil oligarchs, mid-east royalty, some African dictator spawn. You can gamble if you wear black tie. It's been a few years since I last visited, 1936 for Shanghai, and then during the Great War in Macau, but I'm sure they are still filled with hot guys. Try them, OP!

R119 Sounds great. I was discouraged from visiting the ESC during my stay, having read overwhelmingly negative Google comments on it. I should probably give it a shot next time.

R124 Thank you ! Yeah, Asian countries have a lot of fun to offer.

R125- There is still the OLDER contingent too. But plenty of good looking younger guys too. This was not the case there two years ago. You would see only a handful of hot/younger guys there.

R122 What a horrible person he is!

There are some well known gay sex parties that happen on a regular basis, they advertise r117. Private Party and GBU throw regular sex parties but you have to be accepted in, have the right look. Then there are some like SCUM which have a more open door door policy to attend.

Of course there is also the NYC Jacks and Blow Buddies where are events for wealthy what is says in the name. if you don't want full sex.

Wealthy was a weird autocorrect.

Stephanie St. Clair runs a gay party night at her speakeasy on Lennox at 128th Street. Lots of horse hung black men. I was there in '18 and took about 6 loads. I'm sure it's still hot. These hush hush places and parties stay in business for years.

When you whores create super Covid, just remember to aim for all the closeted Republicans.

R98 here. Yes a jock at a bathhouse would signal being a bottom. At a sex party I'd think a little differently. But perhaps I'm naive/wrong!

Any good clubs in Akkad and Persepolis?

[quote] Yes a jock at a bathhouse would signal being a bottom.

What do the tops wear?

R135- Generally they sit in their rooms rubbing their cocks over their towels.

Is The Cock open for business? I really didn’t like it when I went there a few times after they “moved house” a few years ago. I had so many extraordinarily hot nights at the 2nd & 2nd location.

R74 anywhere but NY. Club San Diego, Ft. Lauderdale . . .

OP doesn't understand what "Private"means.

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He seemed sober at the beginning of this epic then... ... .. .

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Where do all the white immigrants go? I'm talking the Polish and Ukrainian guys you see around NYC.