Joey Stefano

Hot!!! Best bottom ever! Thanks

Very sexy bottom though sometimes he had an attitude problem. Maybe he was high at the time.

Joey offering a good time. How many times did he assume this position?

He had a great ass but couldn’t live forever…

He’s dead. Time to move on.

Joey Stefano was my brother's freshman roommate at MIT.

saw him strip twice in Frisco at a club in the loin, soma......he was hot and wild. in the shadows at the back he freely gave of his hole to all cocks and mouths....

GREAT PIECE OF ASS

OMFG!!! How ironic to come across this thread when I'd been thinking about him recently after not thinking about him for years! I WAS OBSESSED WITH JOEY STEFANO back in the early 90s - at that time you did not even need to mention his last name, if you just said "Joey" every one knew who you were referring to.... And when I say obsessed, I mean I was OBSESSED over him. As in, I IDOLIZED him - he was EVERYTHING I wanted to be and more... At the time I bought every issue of any magazine he appeared in (99 times out of 100 he was an the cover if he was in it.) Read every word of every interview he gave to print journalists over and over again - keep in mind this was the early 90s. Cut my hair just like his was cut. I wanted to be him. He was my role model, hero, God, everything that I wanted to become!!! I mean it was a sick and twisted and all consuming trip that took over my life for a few years until I got a little older, wiser and he passed and all the terrible facets of who he was became public. It took YEARS of therapy to undo that boy's effect on me. I still adore him though. So sad that he was so tragic and never how much he meant to how many people out there. WOW, that a trip down memory lane. Thanks for listening...

Worst OP on this board.

Well that's an odd trajectory. For YEARS you idolized a porn star, stipping, prostitute and did everything to become just like him? It doesn't seem to difficult to be a pass around whore so I assume you achieved your dream? What job did you do after the party was over?

Did he ever top?

I was elected to Congress, R10.

One other thing - seems funny in retrospect - spent tons of money back then ordering VHS copies of his films. Idol Eyes with the young and once hot Ryan Idol who hand picked Joey for a scene, all his Vivid Videos (less expensive at ONLY $35.00 a movie), had to have the one where Jeff Stryker chose Joey to be the receiver of his VERY FIRST on screen Male on Male kiss. watched them over and over in order to study his movements, gestures, persona, his affect, his speech cadence. EVERY DETAIL about him and then mimic them and apply them to myself in order to try and become just like him. When I think about the money, time, and endless hours of effort, blood, sweat, and tears I invested to understand the psyche of this man and to try and capture his essence and apply to myself in order to be just like him, I now have to wonder - what was I thinking?! Funny how you are when you're young...

When you are done navel gazing about your insanity, remember you are on discussion forum. Why not tell us what became of you, afterwards?

You still sound tragic, R13.

R14 Are you out of ypur flipping mind Christina? I've been on DL for years and I RARELY ever post. This thread just hit a nerve and brought back a flood of memories about a part of my life I'd put away years ago. Offer my flesh up to the hyenas and circling buzzards and vultures of Data Lounge and then watch myself be stripped and eviscerated of every bit ofself esteem and fragile sense of self worth I've worked so hard for? My God man, what you are suggesting is a suicide mission!!! NO THANK YOU!!! Over the years I've many stronger than myself be humiliated to death on this board - Thanks but no thanks!

[quote]Offer my flesh up to the hyenas and circling buzzards and vultures of Data Lounge and then watch myself be stripped and eviscerated

Pics please.

Then why the fuck did you spill such a BIZARE life experience to begin with?

My old roommate was also a Joey Stefano admirer. We went to NYC Limelight nightclub in the early 90’s and while waiting for coat check I spotted Joey in front of us before he did. My roommate was carrying on with a friend while in front of me and not paying attention with his back to Joey so I kept him distracted then suddenly spun him around so he was nose to nose with his idol.

I can honestly say it was the only time I saw him speechless and he couldn’t talk or say anything to him, he was SO ANGRY at me, lol.

R20 Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your amazing story. You GET it! As you witnessed with your roommate's idolization of Joey and you may have seen it yourself - it's so hard to convey to people who weren't around at the time Joey hit the scene. He just had a mystique, an aura, a je ne sais quos about him that drove some of us out of our minds wanting to be him. thank you - you get it! You're cool dude!

Why would anyone idolize a bottom whore?

His fukhole remained tight but after a train of cocks hit it it was big fat and juicy happiness.

Hot slut gone too soon.

I fucked him in the Circus of Books parking lot.

You mean I wasted my time idolizing Linus Pauling and Hans Bethe, when I could have joined the Cult of Joey? Cruel deception of youth!

I ate his cum filled ass out in the dirty book store on Polk ST in San Francisco....line of men waiting to cum and suk on it. HE WAS GEORGOUS AND SWEET. BUT WAY DRUGGY ALAS. it was said chi chi la rue was very in love with him for a time.

I pick him up in NOLA late one night, took him to my hotel and fucked a load into his beautiful pink hole. He said it felt full so I grabbed a metal dome plate warmer from the trolly and Joey sharted out about a quart of unmedicated HIV+ santorum that smelled like ambrosia and was just as delicious. Joey was such a lovely sweet guy.

How dare anyone mock his life giving pussy ??

We cuddled for hours, and he promised to come to tea at my mother's in Scarsdale the next time he was in New York. R21 as it happens I was traveling with pharmaceuticals kept on dry ice so I preserved Joey's anal elixir and later froze it in brown vials with droppers. I still have a few. Are you interested? $$$$$

i have a jar filled with cumwads (now brown and super stinky) from all the major porngods from the ninetys till now. he lives!

It’s sad his vision of a one-man version of “Follies” never came to fruition.

R32, William Ivey Long was doing the costumes.

(WIL received Joey Stefano as a birthday present one year.)

the book about joey, his biography, is pretty dam good, think he was ill toward the end, u know..... god he serviced as many men as xxxx xxxxxx.

The book...

He did top from time to time on film.

[quote] When I think about the money, time, and endless hours of effort, blood, sweat, and tears I invested to understand the psyche of this man and to try and capture his essence and apply to myself in order to be just like him, I now have to wonder - what was I thinking?!

MARY!!

Meh.

I always preferred Tony Davis.

He had a thing with Jon Vincent - they shot heroin together but Jon said he was in love with him.

He was beautiful and probably the first superstar bottom in pron. He truly had a great ass. But he was a druggy mess and a sexual compulsive.

Wasn’t he a pass around bottom boi with the Geffen crowd? Diller, Klein.

Does Charles Isherwood, disgraced ex-critic of NYT, ever talk about his bio?

Dead! And never called me mother!

[quote] Did he ever top?

Shockingly, yes. I think he even fucked hottie Mike Henson (also dead) in one of their lesser movies.

I “dated” him in NYC in the 90’s. We met at the original David Barton Gym, when I complimented his shoulder tattoo and let him listed to the Howard Stern Show on my radio headphones (who he had never heard of). He started hanging around many of the NYC gay nightlife fixtures during a time there.

By “dating him” I mean we had sex twice and hung out for a total of about 12 hours. My two fondest memories of him are taking a hot bath with him in my apartment and each of us eating Ben & Jerry’s and making out with ice cream mouths in the steamy water. And another time we went to The Gaiety after hanging out at Club USA. Everyone at the Gaiety was star-struck by him and ogling over him, and he seemed to know everyone that worked there, he kept running around and acting hilarious, putting his arm around me and saying “this is my boyfriend!” and I thought maybe there was a relationship potential there. LOL!

But I didn’t do drugs and was also a bottom. And 23 and naive. After the Gaiety we were walking in midtown on 5th, I stopped at an all-night bodega and was looking at the fruit and I turned around and he was gone. He literally ditched me! That was the last time I saw him. Looking back, I don’t remember a single conversation with him.

My favourite Joey Stefano scene is in Plunge when he is getting well and truely fucked by Leon Flexx.

Joey was magical, hot guys on drugs are, they operate on a cloud of hope......and we bathe in their bright light of fantasy....joey was a helluva a guy, i have his gold cross necklace, he left it in my bathroom, now my son wears it.

He was a whole lot of nothing in a sort of pretty in the right light package.

He had the best biography title of any pornstar yet. I read it, but honestly, I don’t remember a thing. It may be the only gay pornstar biography I’ve read so far.

If only Josh Weston had finished his autobiography....he was hired by all the velvet mafia, and then some, his dalliances with movie stars/ politicians/ etc was said to be legendary....he was about to spill the beans... god dam drugs, took all the good ones.

Joey learned the hard way: with friends like Chi Chi LaRue, who needs enemies?

You didn't understand the attraction unless you met him in person. At his very peak he was like a tractor beam of energy pulling you in with a megawatt of energy.

He was "shiny" with beauty and I've only met a handful of guys that shine like that. Years later I hit my peak beauty myself after a lot of work at the gym, fastidious attention to my skincare regimen and diet, as well as some carefully placed blonding. The funniest thing to see is people's reactions when they're startled by unexpected beauty, especially the gheys.

Either they revel in it, or they run screaming with jealousy and hate- like a witch burned with a bucket of water.

I've met NYC men so beautiful it was difficult to look at them directly.

If he had been uncut, he would have been perfect.

R53 Well, he’s started that way.

He was very good looking, but never found his scenes were that hot. It was obvious he was often high in them. Major turn off for me.

I'm not much of a Chi Chi fan, but Joey was already had issues and was an addict when he met him.

Tony Davis (mentioned earlier in the thread, who 'discovered' Joey) is now in pretty bad shape in a nursing home in California. He tested positive for HIV in 1993 and later had a few very bad bouts with meningitis in 2013 and 2014 that left him disabled mentally and physically. He had a wonderful husband named Wayne, who really loved him and was very devoted him, who was his caregiver until last year, when Wayne sadly died.

Any idea which home he is in? I'd like to send some flowers.

Recall sharing a limo with him. I was with my friend Harrison who was mucky-muck at MCA. We were leaving his favorite place Rose Tattoo at Studio One in WeHo. Saw Joey just standing at the valet station. I put down the window and drunk and coked out yelled 'Joey I love your work! He ran over and just hopped in. He said call me Nicky and gave me a kiss on the cheek. He was wearing skin tight white Calvin's and Ugg Boots. Nicky didn't say much or I couldn't hear what he said because his face was immediately in Harrison's crotch. He and some other rent boys/pornies Johnny Davenport was one joined us. They were literally a dime a dozen. I think we all wound up in Harrisons jacuzzi at 4am. I must have had sex with him or someone but it was three decades ago and I can't remember last week. I do remember Nicky had bellissimo feline grey blue eyes. When he OD ed a friend of mine who was tech in porn said "Fuck that cunt Larry (Chi Chi La Rue). Whenever I hear West End Girls I flash back to those nites.

Who dat? Some dead gay porn from 1989?

Nicky

"I've met ... men so beautiful it was difficult to look at them directly."

This thread reminds of some lines from Dancer from the Dance in which Malone having had an affair with a beautiful young man is finally content to just walk past his apartment, look up and see candlelight in a window (the man is in a tub reading).

Erotic, unforgettable. Like Joey is for some of you.

^ reminds me

Dead porno

The threesome with Matt Gunther and Jeff Stryker is a classic.

link pls

A heroin overdose.

What a fabulous a fab-uabu-lous way to die.

Poor thing was so hawt but so troubled.

I was introduced to him by Chi Chi before he had made a film. ChiChi declared him as the new big thing in gay porn. About a year later a local bar in KCMO booked Joey to make an appearance. I spoke to him and he remembered my by name. We hung together that night, no sex but drank together and caught after bar breakfast. Nice kid.

Dead porno!

we heard ya the first time, doll

Beautiful, but dumb. Lackluster performer most of the time. Another sad victim of that creature Chi Chi LaPuke. That thing should have been sent to prison years ago for all the boys it addicted to dope.

Yeah but let that sink in, doll.

Cute as hell but really weak on screen sexual performer. Never looked like he was genuinely into his partners.

Actually I saw one scene with him when he was older and had the pontytail. He was sucking some guy off in a public restroom and he got totally turned on while doing it and jacked off.

Tawdry but true.

I remember watching him on The Robin Byrd Show. He was obviously high and blurted out that he was David Geffen’s boyfriend. I had a feeling he’d regret revealing that.

I was in Rounds one night, he walked in, had a look around and decided none of us “buyers” were to his taste and he went right back out. Well, the place wasn’t exactly hopping at that point in the evening.

R17 contains many of the Bellagio Loon's giveaways.

He was great the first four days and fine until two weeks before Christmas. He did his big chill in November and of course was kept cool and cared for. It came with the terms of the auction.

Well, admittedly after the VIP Select access the first week it was more of a free for all. And his funeral on the Feast of the Holy Innocents on the 28th was very nice, very respectful. A $50 cover charge took care of that.

Where they found lilies in December I'll never know!

Good times. Well, with one exception.

Who got HIV from him?

R57 Those "feline eyes"

R78, they were more “wolf’s eyes,” IMO.

Joey appeared in a bisexual film called "Karen's Bi-Line". One of the co-stars is a hunk named Jimmy Pike, who mostly did a lot of layouts in gay magazines. He was probably straight, but Joey famously cozxed him into sucking his cock (well, at least a few nibbles).

BTW, Jimmy Pike was one of the few guys in porn who actually got better looking the older he got.

Jimmy Pike definitely got hotter with age. Mainly (IMO) because he stopped shaving his body.

I think Jimmy had more experience with men than most think. If I'm correct I'm almost positive I read a few years back that he had died of AIDS. If I'm wrong I apologize to the still alive and probably still gorgeous Jimmy Pike.

R56 I'm not sure facility he's in now, but a friend of theirs started up a gofundme for Wayne's services and Tony's (whose real name is Vito Giustino) care and final arrangements when the time comes. A donation to that would probably be better than flowers.

Interesting thread

Did he really give up his hole to almost anyone or was that just a myth? He was such a huge star I can't imagine he'd let a line of guys fuck him as many have said on DL before.

Why did none of his Johns have him cut his hair? He looked horrible with long hair.

I thought Stefano died of AIDS, but he overdosed. Maybe I’m thinking another really good looking porn star.

R85 People that only look good with certain hairstyles are not really that attractive. He had a lopsided bloated looking face and he kind of looked like a young Ted Cruz blech!

R87, how did he look like ted Cruz?

r87 Honey, if you think Joey Stefano looks like Ted Cruz, you need to go get your eyes examined.

Or, your emaciated brain.

There is a play about him.

[quote]Who got HIV from him?

I thought he was always a bottom.

Did ChiChi laRue direct in drag on the set or as her fat male avatar in jogging pants?

Your dad, R77.

Lord, he really does seem dumb as a bag of assholes in that video at R85. I can't imagine trying to have a conversation with him about anything other than sex. But then, maybe he was drugged out of his mind when he did that video.

^ God divides.

Does Anyone have a link to one of his videos?

Here's plenty of them.

If I'm not mistaken the circumstances of his demise were rather strange he was found inside a garbage can? Seems like that may have been a mafia hit.

Jimmy Pike! I hadn't thought about him in years. Yes, he definitely got more delicious with age. I remember him in a straight video in which he and his "son" where making out with the same women...he was "teaching" in son. Wish I could see that one again.

"...he was found inside a garbage can? Seems like that may have been a mafia hit."

No.

It was a drug overdose. He was at a motel with another friend. Another person from "the industry". They were doing drugs together.

The other guy was almost convicted of being the culprit but I believe he was never found guilty.

There's something you'll never forget. Being in a room when someone is dying.

[quote] My favourite Joey Stefano scene is in Plunge when he is getting well and truely fucked by Leon Flexx.

Plunge was a great film! Joey has another hot scene in it with Steve Kreig and one of my favorites Doug Niles. WHET Doug?

I saw him dance at my local podunk gay club. He was messy as fuck - definitely on something, danced like he was underwater, barely awake. I had such a crush on him and that appearance basically killed it.

So I went down a Gaiety. rabbit hole. Found out this porno shot in 1982 (?) at the Gaiety.. I bet the Howard Johnson was a load of fun after a night upstairs.

Times Square Strip (1982)

He OD's on K ( ketamine) animal tranquillizer.

Nice find, R103. Wonderfully sleazy. Post it on the "What is the sleaziest gay bar..." thread, please.

r105 I would but I've never been to the Gaiety. I was a freshman in high school if it closed in 2005 as others have said.

Stefano was just beautiful and was at his prime when I was first coming out.

I love how bold he was as a bottom and how he looked right at the camera as if this was a secret between him and you, the viewer

To think any gay man in the LA area could have banged Joey Stefano and Corey Haim all in the same weekend for pennies on the dollar. America really has gone go shit since the 90s.

Did Joey have any other goals other than porn? His father died, while Joey was 15. That was devastating. He needed a foundation, yet men exploited him. It’s tragic that he didn’t have real friends who could’ve helped him. I think his family tried to help him, but couldn’t reach him.

The only secret, R107, was what venereal disease he had that shoot.

He exploited himself r109. No one forced Joey to become a hooker. He could have easily become someone's kept boy with a real estate license.

[quote]any gay man in the LA area could have banged Joey Stefano and Corey Haim all in the same weekend for pennies on the dollar

For FREE. He tried to pick up a friend of mine at the Santa Monica beach one day. He was giving it away. Sexual compulsive.

I have heard he was actually bisexual. Is it true? Was he ever with women? Anyone know?

R109 He was a dumb junkie whore dear not Norma Jean.

I think his biggest problem was that he was not very intelligent. The lack of intelligence also transferred into a lack of motivation to better himself probably because to him that was too hard. Boys like him who prostitute themselves are quite lazy and have no interest in working hard for their money.

[quote] I have heard he was actually bisexual.

Well, I don't know about bi, but he was buysexual for sure. He put that tight ass up for sale and people bought it every day.

R113, check out the bisexual movies he did, like the aforementioned Karen's Bi-Line.

Sounds like we may have another Nuremberg trials in the not to distant future. I'd love to see Putin being stood against a brick wall, blindfolded before getting about 15 bullets in his heart.

r115 what surprises me is that he kept his body up. Maybe is just naturally athletic, but even the porn I've seen with him high as a kite, his body and especially his ass remained toned. He was smart enough to hit the gym, despite his addictions.

on topic r118?

the sentiment is fine. but just checking

r112 I heard Haim would give it away for free as well, given one DL poster recollection of watching him getting a train pulled on him at a late 80s or early 90s party. Passed out and passed around one guy after another.

omg the Gaiety was fab !!! and the howard johnsons....fuk guliani for turning it alll intoo disney fuckiing land.

Rounds was divine also, hooker bar with best boys.

R119 it’s not so hard to keep your body up till 26. Even with heavy abuse.

WAit, he was only 26 when he died? His face screamed 33.

his asshole tasted like the nectar of the Gods.

Swear to god a dozen cumwads came rolling out of his cunt by the time he got to my mouth.

He was in Sharon Kane's pussy, like countless other bi and gay men who did gay and bi porn.

Sharon told a story in an interview she did with The Rialto Report about how she Joey went on a trip to Greece together and he just disappeared and went home, leaving her there without money and any means of getting home. I guess he got his fill of Greek cock and went home in his usual drug haze and forgot about Sharon.

R127, he was in Sharon's pussy in real life or just porn or both?

You all are acting like he was some pathetic slob.

He’s a legend.

I read in his biography that he was staying at some gay guesthouse and he had sex with anyone who wanted him. I assume it's true. Probably was high at the time.

R128 Just in porn. They never had sex off screen.

I think his tight body had a lot to do with genes. He seemed to have naturally low body fat in his mid section (despite often looking bloated), and an ass that was probably already defined and muscular even before working out. His slightly elongated torso near his waist accentuated that. His thick, full head of hair, and boyish face gave him a classic beauty look that could withstand his obviously unhealthy lifestyle. Dying in his mid-20’s didn’t hurt either.

Joe Dallasandro had a similar thing going on in the 60’s.

[quote] You all are acting like he was some pathetic slob. He’s a legend.

Plenty "legends" are/were pathetic slobs in their private lives. Stefano was a legend only because horny men who watched porn at the time turned him into one. I don't even think he was, in the classic sense of the word, 'a legend in his own mind'. Otherwise he would have loved himself more and taken better care of himself. True legends have a will to live, not kill themselves with an overdose.

nothing gold can stay, and when they feel that, they lose the will to live... i saw it in alot of pornstars who stayed too long at the fair.

He was found in a bottom floor room at a sleazy Hollywood hotel by Crystal Crawford and friends. That whole porn posse is gone from LA now. Crystal Crawford aka Brian Patrick Maley moved to Vegas. Chi Chi moved back to Minnesota, Chris Green "Johnny Depp Clones" in in Palm Springs, even Sharon Cain / Kane moved outta state. Joey' death really was the end of an era.

Not that you've put too much thought into the topic, r135.

Joey was once in a lifetime phenomenon - I doubt there will be anyone to rival him again.I think what is so sad is that he most likely passed without knowing just how much he meant to SO many people. Rumor is that Concrete Blonde's song "Joey" is about him. Can anyone verify this? Sigh, I know this thread has brought back so many memories of him for me. Poor tragic soul, I hope he's finally at peace now.

It’s too bad he did porn during the period that video production values sucked….with the exception of a couple of Falcon movies he was in.

R137, unless you’ve aimed for parody or sarcasm, how is Joey a “once in a lifetime phenomenon”? America had such towering figures as Lincoln, Harriet Tubman, FDR and Martin Luther King, Jr., among others. I suppose Joey Stefano was among them?

Your post is preposterous.

I’m not judging Joey, but he wasn’t a towering figure of Arts and Letters.

[quote]I’m not judging Joey, but he wasn’t a towering figure of Arts and Letters.

You have a firm grasp of the obvious, R139. Good for you. Thank you for enlightening us.

R114, who hurt you?

Wow are YOU a dipshit, R139. Porn is porn and the arts are the arts. Nobody thought he was anything other than a porn star.

Did he ever talk about Madonna? (Being in her SEX book, etc.)?

Looks like Stefano on the left (Madonna's "Sex" book).

R144. I remember him being in a couple of pic's for the SEX book. I wonder how he ended up in there?

R144 Is that Nick Scotti on the right?!?!

When DL threads converge…

Yes, he was a few different pics. His ass was very prominent in one. He did talk about it at least one. In an issue of Advocate, he blamed the notoriety of being in it got him arrested in a club in Florida for indecent exposure but also said he liked it brought the gay sub-culture into middle America.

She likely sought him out for the book. He, Chi Chi Larue, Damien were also among those hired for her Deeper and Deeper video. Damien said she knew them all by name (apparently, she was gay porn aficionado at the time) and Chi Chi said they weren't allowed to talk to her and poked fun of her facial hair.

R146, the guy on the right is Rocky Santiago. I wish Nick Scotti would have been in the book.

Looks like Joey Stefano, again from Madonna's "Sex" book.

R145, I assume all of Stefano's photos were taken at the Gaiety Theater, a strip club for gay men near Times Square. The Gaiety has been demolished since then. As R147 has already explained, Madonna probably found out about the Gaiety from her gay friends.

Functionaries maybe, R149. The only friend she has is the scalpel. And they're not getting along so well these days...

The introduction to Isherwood's bio says it perfectly: excellence, no matter in what field, should be acknowledged and even celebrated. He radiated sexuality. I knew that the first time I saw him in SF in the late 80s.

Yes there is something about these radiant little whores who are just really good at sex…we have all met them.

I’ve seen a lot of 80’s and 90’s porn. I never understood why Joey got the recognition he did. I always found his performances lifeless and his body nothing spectacular.

Yes, agree his performances were often cardboard and at times practically laughable.

The reason he had such a draw was 90% based on his looks.

In some photos and video I swear he had Streisand’s ever-so-slightly crossed eyes thing.

Joey was straight

^ Straight to my 8 inch cock.

R132 I've always thought of him as a Gay Porn version of Little Joe, so that makes sense. They were both so brave and beautiful.

Joey always reminded me of the male Gia Carangi

R159 Rodney Harvey always reminded me of a male Gia Carangi

Heroine addiction and all Google him

Now he belongs to the ages.

Elder gays have been obsessed with him since I started coming to DL in the early 2000’s. I’m usually a sucker for guys with dark hair and blue eyes, but I don’t get it at all. From his era I find guys like Pavel Novotny, Ryan Idol, and Ken Ryker much more attractive.

^^^^

[quote] Jimmy Pike! I hadn't thought about him in years. Yes, he definitely got more delicious with age. I remember him in a straight video in which he and his "son" where making out with the same women...he was "teaching" in son. Wish I could see that one again.

Jesus! Are you typing with one hand?

It mystifies me why he's held in such high regard. Is it because the other biggest of the time (Jeff Stryker, Ryan Idol, Ken Ryker) were obviously G4P?

I was in the basement of the old Lambda Bookstore in NYC when Isherwood did his reading to sell this book. Eesh.

The crowd was pervy porn fans (like me) but we were all polite and respectful but Isherwood could barely glance in our direction. He walked up to the microphone and started by explaining that he didn't want to write the book but was talked into it by his agent.

He then proceeded to read the most boring part of the book.

He seemed happy to autograph copies but only after showing proof of purchase.

A very strange, memorable book reading event.

One of the most beautiful porn models to work in the industry, at his height of popularity. Yeah he was a diva (loved reading the Isherwood book) and was very demanding and self-centered, but he was so beautiful.

I remember where I was when I heard he had died. What a loss.

R101 I LOVED Doug Niles too! Glad to see someone else remembers him. I have no idea what happened to him, where he was from, his real name, etc. I just remember it was Doug Niles being on the cover of SKINFLICKS magazine (along with Neil Thomas) that prompted me to buy it, my very first porn mag. Great memories, and yeah, his scene with Joey was really good. Do you have any info on him?

For Joey, I think he was the only guy Jeff Stryker ever kissed on camera. I could be wrong, but it was a big deal at the time.

Goodbye, PA's Rose(bud).

I read somewhere that Joey was in love with fellow porn star Jon Vincent.

What a bunch of lying whores! My Joey was straight, damn you!! He loved me!

He really was sex on a stick. So sad what happened to him.

I guess you had to be there.

Anyone ever seen the FULL black and white interview of him? I have only ever seen a short clip of it.

Also, how many known filmed interviews are there of him? Anyone know?

Please help.

Yes, I saw it R174. It was in that old after-hours diner in NYC where people went after clubbing. I think he spills the tea of Geffen in it and just otherwise looks sexy AF. Smoking IIRC.

erm, tea ON Geffen

"For Joey, I think he was the only guy Jeff Stryker ever kissed on camera. I could be wrong, but it was a big deal at the time."

Stryker also kissed Steve Hammond in a video.

"I read somewhere that Joey was in love with fellow porn star Jon Vincent."

They were in a sexual relationship off camera.

R177, I think Jon Vincent had some issues.

I revisited his old clips - bit of a yawner.

There would be a good poll...most important bottom in gay porn: Joey Stefano or that other guy?

Dawson?

Sorry, I forgot his name...Kevin Williams!

I liked him in 'Soul Dad' getting fucked by Gene Lamar and Ty Jones.

The fact that Kevin Williams is still alive is the miracle of our age.

R139 for the win!

Anyone know what Jeff Stryker's sexual orientation is?

I believe Jeff Stryker is straight.

R186 Straight, but he'll never come out and say it. Doesn't want to alienate his fanbase. He may look dumb, but he isn't. Very devoted to protecting his persona.

R89 Oops I made a mistake and mentioned the wrong rightwing fucktard. I meant Ron fucking DeSantis! “Joey Stefano” would probably look just like him if he were still alive today …but probably fatter.

Didn’t he have a cute younger brother to fill his slot after he was gone? Or at least someone to assume the pornstar mantel?

I want someone to do a video montage with his pictures to Patrick Swayze’s Hungry Eyes.

There is no patrick swayze hungry eyes but there’s a hungry eyes by that qanon loon Eric Carmen.

Opps, sorry, then I guess just use “She’s Like the Wind” then.

"I believe Jeff Stryker is straight."

I thought Stryker was arrested for sucking cock in a porn store a few years ago...?

"She's Like The Wind" would be more appropriate for Les Stein.

Stefano is a legend

What kind of music did Joey like?

They should make a movie on his life. Who plays him?

R197, blue-s

He was boring. Not much personality and boring sex.

Wish he would have topped

This is a great song about Joey by Michael Holland. Jon Vincent, whose real name was Jeff Vickers, and whose relationship with Joey was mentioned upthread, lived a couple of blocks away from me as a kid and was a bit of a bully to me. I read a book about him called "A Thousand and One Night Stands: The Life of Jon Vincent" which was all autobiography up until the last chapter. He was writing it, mostly dictating it to a friend, and he was found dead before it was finished, so the friend wrote the last chapter and got it published. In it, Jon admits late in the book that Joey was probably the only person he ever really loved. The book, although terribly written, as Jon didn't have a great education, was compelling. He led a really wild as life.

I remember seeing Jon around NYC over a long span. The last time I saw him was when I bumped into him in the Columbus Circle subway station right around the time he died. He looked ragged and worn out. We made eye contact, and there was a little recognition in his face, but I don't know if he really remembered me or not. He shuffled past me and was gone. He was staying in an apartment close to there, which is where he was found dead, very soon after that encounter. After I heard he'd died, I wished I'd stopped him and said something that day, or any of the other times I saw him. All very tragic.

R202, why and how did Jon Vincent bully you? Just wondering.

And thanks for the song! I have never heard of it before.

He said I was swishy.

R204, sorry to hear he bullied you

Was he gay or bi?

Hi R203. (R204 is not me)

Jeff Vickers lived next door to a girl, Shannon, who I was friends with in the Sherwood Forest neighborhood of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. We'd be outside in her yard and he was around in his, and he'd make fun of me, call me sissy, etc. He wasn't cruel though, the way that many other boys were. I don't think he ever called me a faggot. He came over to her house a few times to swim with us in her pool. He was two years older than I was, and I was intimidated by him, but also attracted, even though I didn't really know what that was. He was a star athlete in high school and was a fantastic baseball player, eventually being recruited by a pro team, which he quickly fucked up by getting involved in drugs. As teenagers, we ran not in the same circles, but overlapping ones, and I had oblique contact with him many times in Baton Rouge. After he destroyed a promising pro baseball career, he re-emerged as Jon Vincent, and became a gay porn icon. I was really fascinated with him then. If you've never seen his films, he was an aggressive, verbal top. I think he was bi-sexual. He was married a time or two and had many girlfriends. He admits in his book however, that even though he had always thought he was only 'gay for pay', he later thought he really did enjoy sex with men in a way. He talks about how much he felt for Joey Stefano, and how broken up he was about Joey's 1994 death. He'd tried to help him stay clean, even though he himself just could not stay off drugs. The book really is a very interesting read.

As I said before, I'd see him in NYC, at clubs, etc. Once I saw him with Joey Stefano at a concert. I regret not saying hello to him when I saw him that last time. He most certainly would have remembered me if I'd said hi.

[Quote] He admits in his book however, that even though he had always thought he was only 'gay for pay', he later thought he really did enjoy sex with men in a way.

This textbook "Fat pornographer constructing a biography/interview text for their model that self loathing porns fans will eat up with a spoon."

*porn

R206, interesting...thanks for the info

Were Matt Gunther and Joey together?

Matt Gunther and Joey were both bottoms, r22

[quote] I IDOLIZED him - he was EVERYTHING I wanted to be and more

One of the most pathetic things I’ve ever read

Back in college, they had an AIDS Remembrance Day, where you could anonymously drop a piece of paper with a name into a box of someone who’s been affected by AIDS, not necessarily dying/died from it. I didn’t know any HIV+ people personally then, & had just learned about Joey’s death, so I wrote down his name & dropped it in. I didn’t stay to hear them read the names. Around the same time, porn star Erik Houston was attending the same college.

Erik Houston. Now that guy had sex appeal and was a great performer. I was very surprised when it was announced that he’d died a couple of years ago at only 46.

I've never surprised to hear a porn performed died young.

^ or a rock star

Joey Stefano was the best-looking porn star ever.

Not at all. Not. At all.

R194 I don't think so. He was such a big name in porn and his real name has been known for a long time, if he was arrested for something like that it would've been covered online and probably even by mainstream press. And that doesn't sound like him, he's pretty reclusive and stays at home a lot since he the soul caregiver of his three minor kids.

R217 Nah , if you look like Ron DeSantis i.e R189, you really can’t be considered the best looking anything.

Joey rules

with the gaiety gone, where does one go too pick up stripper/hores? thx....the gaiety was fab !!!!

There must still be gay clubs with occasional strip shows. If you want to see guys getting undressed, go online to websites like chaturbate. I'll bet most stripping has moved online. Probably have to find rent boys online too.

i want to find whores in nyc, god rounds was a good place....alas gone.

I'm sure rent boys in NYC advertise online, R224.

Looks like some of these places might have strippers, R222. I assume the info is up-to-date.

i want to see them in a bar, then hire them ...

Hahaha, R227. Okay. That's about all I can do because I live thousands of miles away from NYC and don't have first hand knowledge of the scene. Ask around if there are bars frequented by rent boys. Judging from the pics at R226, The Cock on 93 Second Avenue looks like it might have rent boys, assuming it's still around.

Is that Seann William Scott in r226? How much does he go for?

Did Joey ever fart on camera? I wish he would have.

....

[quote] I remember where I was when I heard he had died. What a loss.

Ah, yes, much like every generation, everyone remembers where they were when Pearl Harbor was attacked, or when Kennedy was assassinated, or the 9/11 attacks, and when they heard the godawful news about our lil Joey.

He unleashed upon us the “Pornho Joey Scream” which we all know about.

there's another book on google — Joey Stefano: The Life, Loves & Legacy of the Prince of Passion By David Bret

What do you guys think of his voice?

I didn’t even know he sang?

R236 yep soul music he did

His little sister Gwen is an okay singer.

No doubt

he sang me lullabyes as the cumwads dripped from out his puss

Stella’s was amazing, there were throngs of them. I once met a set of gorgeous twins and a guy with a cock down to his knee.

Anyone know what kind of guys he was attracted to? Who were his crushes? Who was he with?

R242, You were his perfect type

I am missing every other post on this thread.

Concrete Blond did a nice tribute song to him

[quote]Concrete Blonde did a nice tribute song to him

No, they didn't. That song was recorded before he died. It was written about Johnette Napolitano's relationship with a member of Wall of Voodoo.

He was a very dull performer. He was mechanical and really not into it. He lacked the necessary passion that makes gay porn enjoyable. He was just going through the motions and I never understood his appeal.

He obviously mainly bottomed in porn, but was he mainly or only a bottom in real life too? Anyone know?

R174 I remember seeing the "interview". Stefano appeared drugged and slurred his words. Between drags on a cig he could barely string three words together. In the chandelier of life Nicky was a 5 WATT bulb.

Anyone remember seeing the Concrete Blonde "Joey" fanmade video on YouTube with pictures of Joey Stefano in it? It was a well put together video but was unfortunately taken down a while ago.

I know the song was not about him though.

What was his real name?

Stefan Joeyo.

Nicholas Anthony Iacona Jr., was Joey’s real name. He was born in Chester, PA. It’s 12 miles west of Philadelphia.

[quote] What was his real name?

I guess it’ll just have to remain a mystery.

To you, anyway, not to the rest of us who, ya know, read the thread.

R232 & R233, my heroes of the moment.

r217 naw, Sean Cody and Corbin Fisher have models that a lot hotter or equally as hot as Joey.

r227 go to Prague. Can meet boys at clubs and take them back to your hotel.

It wasn't just Joey's great good looks but his brashness on film that makes him so enduring

R256 Had, they ain’t hot anymore.

R258 Enduring? I thought others said he did so many drugs on set he had trouble keeping it up?

I did coke with him @ some gay video awards show held at a Circus club on Santa Monica. He was a fucking mess

R261 You did coke with him at some broken down club what does that make you?

Date me, r262!!

❤️

He had the face of a bruiser. I presume that was his appeal. It's interesting that he was a bottom star and doesn't seem to be shamed for that.

He reminds me of Goonies/The Accused/Without You I'm Nothing actor Steve Antin, of David Geffen fame.

Steve Antin has had a touchup or two.

he was geffens kept toyboy?

Geffen likes to conquer.

R264, not all bottoms are fem and not all tops are masculine.

R261. I'm living you dumb fuck -

But you suck at referencing.

current vids say he is 55, lots of work done i guess, looks 44.

oops sorry wrong thread...

Ed Westwick is not 55!

It’s nice that despite all the money Geffen blew on rent boys he still has enough money left to buy Avery Fisher Hall and rename it after himself and do a complete redesign.

didnt onne of the loathesome Koch brothers have hiis name put on one of the ny symphony halls at Lincoln Center. disgusting...

did the guy who plays Joker in the Batman have face work done????

Joey Stefano should have dated Nick Scotti.

Someone up thread mentioned porn star Damien having been in the Madonna sex book along with Joey Stefano. Here's Damien today. This photo comes from a Google Group I belong to and his name came up. Someone in the group is acquainted with him and requested a recent image, which Damien obliged. Ignore that creature in the photo with him as he is of no consequence. Apparently Damien is planning a move back to LA soon, but is not planning on a return to the porn industry.

Which one is Damien, which one is you, R279?

Yuck, Damien, another Sharon Kane-fucker.

R281, why don't you like Sharon Kane? Just wondering.

R279 Didn’t he have an onlyfans? I remember someone linked his twitter where he was looking for collab partners.

Exactly two years ago, as the Coronavirus panic was shutting down the world, Damien announced his return, with a new Twitter and OnlyFans accounts (and the pic with Chi Chi LaRue above). He wanted to do "collabs" on OF as well as new studio work.

But that all came to a halt. No idea what he has planned now.

I'm glad.

r285

Damien still looks good, damn. He was a big part of my first forays into gay porn viewing.

I’ve jerked off to him giving a bj and getting fucked by Ryan Idol

damien looks damn good. thought chi chi had passed over....where is the unauthorized bio of her????

Here's a good interview Damien did late last year. He talks about Joey some too.

R290, thank you!

Damien looks cuter now than he did back then.

GEORGOUS AND SMART...

Brad Hunt also tried to make a return to porn a few years back.

I also thought he looked better at 40 then he did at 20.

What about Brad Star?

Or Brenda Starr.

Or Brenda K. Starr.

So pretty. Pretty pretty pretty.

I'm curious to see what adorable little stud puppy Scott Baldwin looks like these days?

He was much cuter than Joey, R299.

Scott Baldwin was very cute (and hot). One of my faves from that era. Like most others, he did a total disappearing act after retiring.

Scott was actually a pretty big star in porn - How do you just disappear?

He joined a convent.

GET THEE TO A NUNNERY!!!

R295, what is Brad Star's sexual orientation in real life? I can't find the answer to that anywhere.

r303

R305, I remember reading Brad is gay for pay. I only saw him in one scene, with Nico Reeves. Brad jacks him off, & Nico ejaculates rather a lot; Brad says "Jesus Christ!" & has kind of a grimace on his face. He didn't seem very turned on, he was more irked, I'd say.

R307, figured he was straight...darn

r308

Has there ever been a porn star more handsome than Jeff Stryker? If so, then who?

R310, Joey Stefano

[quote] Has there ever been a porn star more handsome than Jeff Stryker?

All of them? Stryker's best feature sure wasn't his face

Joey Stefano and Marion Davies were both whores and great light comedians.

I found rick donovan to be most handsome, a real gent, and loved getting his asshole played with hard. delish.

Both embarassed and delighted to say i sucked 5 loads out of joeys ass once in the back room at the campus theatre in sf.

R312 what don't you like about Stryker's face?

We're pretending Jeff Stryker was ugly?

He had mongoloid features.

R318 a mongoloid is an Asian person

r319

Joey had the best butt ever.

Joey

Did the Johnny Depp Clones ever have a shot at a conventional music Career? That was a wild LA group, with Chi Chi, Karen Dior, Chris Green + some legit musicians.

Joey Stefano was very talented

[quote]r129 You all are acting like he was some pathetic slob. He’s a legend.

He was a PROSTITUTION WHORE!

He wore more makeup than Mick Jagger singing Angie in 1975, R316.

[quote]He was a PROSTITUTION WHORE!

yes, but a LEGENDARY prostitution whore!

He was no Casey Donovan.

[quote] He was a PROSTITUTION WHORE!

He was not a PROSTATUTE!

R328 = Christopher Reeve

Hottest

He is right up there with Michelangelo, Raphaël, Dürer, Nijinsky, and Andy Warhol.

Joey Stefano and I were in the semi-finals - the very semi-finals, mind you - of the ping-pong tournament at the club and this ghastly thing happened. We were both playing way over our heads and the score was 29-28. And we had this really terrific volley and I stepped back to get this really terrific shot. And I stepped on the ping-pong ball! I just squashed it to bits. And then Joey Stefano and I ran to the closet of the game room to get another ping-pong ball and the closet was locked! Imagine? We had to call the whole thing off. Well, it was ghastly. Well, it was just ghastly.

I know it's a bit late but to r8: PARAGRAPHS are your (collective) friend.

Meth and paragraphs don’t go together, R334.

Just joined. Is this an AIDS thread or I sucked loads out of a dirty AIDS whore's ass thread?

Y'all are really fucking OLD.

Joey was dead eyed and inexpressive as a dude and porn star. Nice butt but a dead fuck.

A not bad definition of trade - except he was as faggy as any gay boy.

R336 - way to make an entrance, newbie.

Thanks!😉

He was gay for pay.

No, he wasn’t. Tons of g4p in ‘90s porn but he was definitely gay.

He was gay and sexually compulsive.

Read the thread, bitches.

One of the best asses i ever slobbered on. and god knows ive slobbered on thousands.

[quote]and the score was 29-28.

Um, ping pong ends when someone scores 21.

R336, you won’t be around long.

What was Joey's drug of choice?

All of em

Pretty sure I remember he got into heroin. I think that was in Isherwood's book.

Wasn't it?

He’s an after thought. Less than a fart in history

afterthought, you dumm ho

^ it’s spelled dumb

Was meth a big thing then?

Crack is way better than Meth. Heroin is nice too.

How many of us already had R336 blocked before he started shitting all over this thread?

It makes us sad that R353 keeps trying to relive his young gay days with his endless threads and posts about forgotten porn stars and models from the eighties! He makes everyone sad and MAD. Because he stocks and harrases posters and causes such grief on this site. OLD bitch man takes up so much space - posting thousands of times a DAY!!

Many pity him - DON"T. sHe's mean and stupid. I F&F all his posts and accounts.

You got the wrong guy R354. Trolldar me, dipshit and prove me wrong.

^ We know who you are gramps.^

I'M R356. I EAT OLD PEOPLES' EXCREMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow - ^ this guy had a breakdown again. Like we all don't know that R353 and R357 are the same old man. Many posts from a few devices. Obsessive, sick and recognizable. He loves John Mulaney, Dionne Warwick, Gia Carangi and dead porn stars of the 1970s! He's also the SCAT Troll! Loves to use shit and excrement and human waste and diaper references in MANY of his posts. Just like the banned miss warwicke of yesteryear. THAT old white man RACIST poster. Or is it all the same?

Joey Stefano looked good on his stomach, face down. I've seen old videos. Then what?

Gurls, GURLS!

Take it out to the litter box.

My thoughts are: That was a long time. It's sad, fellow eldergays, that you spend your last days reminiscing about porn stars off your youth.

Why is it sad r360? It’s gay porn history. May not be your topic of choice but it’s so much more interesting than a fucking soap opera thread. Uh. But to each their own.

[quote] And when I say obsessed, I mean I was OBSESSED over him. As in, I IDOLIZED him - he was EVERYTHING I wanted to be and more... At the time I bought every issue of any magazine he appeared in (99 times out of 100 he was an the cover if he was in it.) Read every word of every interview he gave to print journalists over and over again - keep in mind this was the early 90s. Cut my hair just like his was cut. I wanted to be him. He was my role model, hero, God, everything that I wanted to become!!!

I'm getting the vague sense he was important to you back then.

I can't remember any scenes with him (especially when paired with Ryan Idol) when he did not lseem high as a kite.

I kinda like this thread to tell you the truth. Im very interested in that 90's era of West Hollywood and the gay scene. I ran into Chris Green at The Barracks bar in Palm Springs and had a great conversation with him. Such an interesting time. Chi Chi really is a complex character too, I think the whole gay scene has really evolved since then

Honey, if you dont think some of the porn stars are hot as fuk, then ur dick is dead. stefano was top of the heap, a real pro with his cunt.

He was a plank of wood with a gaping rectum.

Yes, but WHAT a plank, and WHAT a rectum.

He was not gay

his ass....has been surpassed

Anyone know if he was a farter?

Oh, we calling malignant, sadistic, exploitative narcissists 'complex characters' now, are we R364?

Fuck... *we're*.

Zoey

Joey

I thought Joey Stefano was very cute. That's the thing about Italian-Americans. Some of us end up with dark hair, some with blond hair, and eye color from blue to green to hazel but sometimes brown eyes too. I'm Italian-American with dirty blond hair and hazel eyes.

Was hot

r375 it's as if you're like, I don't know, European white people or something with different color hair. It's simply mind blowing!

He was just okay. Overated and he always had a g-string tan line.

His tanline was his talent.

He was okay

[quote] i have a jar filled with cumwads (now brown and super stinky) from all the major porngods from the ninetys till now. he lives!

You could have him cloned! Just find Sir Richard Attenborough...

He looked short. Probably typed short, too.

I ate him out in my car once when we were wasted after a film shoot. he was a hot darling kid.

Was it still spilling out of him? Gross.

"Joey Stefano Your thoughts?"

He dead, OP.

He's cute

Stop talking about me, already! I'M DEAD! Okay, just a few more replies... fuck, you people are sad.

Whatever happened to the movie that was being made about Stefano? It was announced and I think Willam Belli was cast as Karen Dior.

Nothing about Stefano is interesting enough to make a film about. You can't even frame a film around him. He was a pug nosed Italian whore hustler drug addict who didn't even try to do better. His ass was never even clean for clients. That's how he lost out on Geffen.

R389, what do you mean his ass was never clean? And where'd you hear that? Just wondering.

So after all these years we're learning he was a bisexual cunt? Is nothing sacred?

He was bisexual like Lizzo is anorexic.

R6 Yeah, probably.

R17. If your schtick on this thread is a put-on, you're a genius.

His threeway scene with Gene Lamar and another black guy is one of the hottest porn scene of all time, and it is sadly nowhere to be found. These three guys just go to town on each other. It was one of the first scenes I ever saw and it blew my young mind. Does anyone else remember this masterpiece?

Gene Lamar was hot.

WHET him?

His physical beauty was incomparable, but I found his performances mostly lackluster and boring. But there were a few scenes he did where he actually seemed to be enjoying himself. Maybe those where when he was not hopped up on some pharmaceutical.

R90 Record-breaking one-night run!

R162 Did you first come to DL when you were age 0? If not, you're an eldergay yourself.

Zoey

Did he get off on fucking Sharon stankfish Kane?

R401 I think Sharon moved to some real area and out of Silverlake. That whole group of Porn Posse is all broken up. BTW. Is it Sharon Cain or Sharon Kane? Her old FB is Cain but she hasn't posted in years.She fucked some hot gay guys.

r395

R403- thanks but that’s not it. The scene I mentioned is from Soul Dad. Definitely same era (and even I think the same set!) as the one you shared.

[quote]And another time we went to The Gaiety after hanging out at Club USA. Everyone at the Gaiety was star-struck by him and ogling over him, and he seemed to know everyone that worked there, he kept running around and acting hilarious, putting his arm around me and saying “this is my boyfriend!” and I thought maybe there was a relationship potential there. LOL!

He knew everyone because he worked there. The first time I went I opened the glass front door and there was a huge staircase up to the theater. As I start to go up Joey was coming down, met me on the same step, smiled and said "Hi', and then kept going out. Yes, he was a beauty and those eyes, especially in the sunlight supplied by the glass door, were gorgeous. He was headlining and would appear later to Jon Secada's "Just Another Day". Always think of him when I hear that song.

[quote]I pick him up in NOLA late one night, took him to my hotel and fucked a load into his beautiful pink hole. He said it felt full so I grabbed a metal dome plate warmer from the trolly and Joey sharted out about a quart of unmedicated HIV+ santorum that smelled like ambrosia and was just as delicious. Joey was such a lovely sweet guy.

So touching, not since Robert Frost....

This thread refuses to die…unlike Joey.

Im obsessed with this era - David Forrest, Jason Sechrest, Ryan Idol, Chi Chi La Rue, that ugly Crystal Crawford, Marshall O'Boy... They were the basically the "club kids" of LA at the time. Just to easy for Phil and Sally

In that Jon Vincent book 1001 One Night Stands, he says that he and Joey would shoot heroin at some hotel, start having sex, and would nod out and wake up with the needles still in their arms.

^HAWT!

Did they ever find the drug dealer that was with Joey when he died? I remember that was a big thing during that time in LA - I remember drag queen Gender did a tribute number at Rage where he sang "You Made Me Love You" - The intro was Dear Mr Stefano instead of Dear Mr Gable, I am writing this to you..

i ate out alot of asses over sixty years, his was in the top ten. destroyed his tits too.

Stefano gave Donna Summers AIDS.

Not Adam and Steve.

Stefano did what now? When did he know Donna Summer?

Quiet as it's kept, Donna Summer died of AIDS complications. Joey Stefano fucked her in the ass back when she was still a man. Donna partied a lot and Joey could be discreetly bought. He fucked "Donna" quite a few times. Donna was a snow queen. That's no secret.

Donna pre-op fabulosity

Chi Chi posts a tribute to Joey every November. That was the month Stefano died. I think in her own crazy way, she was in love with him

Donna pre-op? Donna was never a man, WTF?

I can't believe someone on here said they rimmed Joey. First rule of being with a whore is to never eat them out. EVER!

I can't believe someone on here didn't know that Donna Summers was born a MAN!

Oh, R415. You do know how to spin tall tales 😆. I admire your imagination though.

I just wanna know why this whore with a drug problem is getting so much attention? Am I missing something? I had to goggle him, watched a few video clips, checked out some pictures and I just don't see the appeal.

^ the power of the mussy

I’m amazed this thread is still chugging on… I’m the poster that met Joey one night at Limelight while checking my coat.

Imagine the hottest guy you’ve gone to high school with. Even though he may have been an insatiable bottom, Joey’s look was of a sturdy, All American guy. You would’ve never thought he was gay if you met him and had no idea who he was. He was also able to turn heads in any room he walked into, which is extremely rare nowadays.He was STUNNING and film or video doesn’t do him justice.

You know how when you see a celeb in person they look so much better than film? Joey was ten times more handsome in person and had a breathtaking, ethereal quality to him, like a young Ashton Kutcher (I met him at NYC Fashion Week). Haunting, effortless beauty, again it’s very rare because once people realize their beauty, they try to improve it and lose it. Joey shined like an athlete that just stepped off a track meet or competition. Mary!

I’ve only met a handful of guys that I couldn’t look directly in the eyes they were so beautiful- Joey was one of them.

Joey was heroin on a stick.

I met him at Arena club on Santa Monica Blvd. It was the GVA and hung out with him doing a bunch of blow. He must have been on the decline by then, he was VERY Nelly. Had the personality of a big bottom. He really wasn't as beautiful as we want to "remember" him.

R424 Some Italian dudes are incomparably beautiful, like Tony Capucci.

R427, is Tony gay in real life?

I wish there was more video and audio of him talking. I would love to hear more of his voice. If anyone has anything, please post it on here.

R428 I don't think so. He dropped out of porn in 2009 to marry his pregnant girlfriend, according to his agent.

if chi chi loved him so much why didnt she save him?????

R431 Chi Chi was no angel, but addiction, if you want to talk realistically, is way more complicated than that.

That B&W video interview is adorable

r429 there a whole long as interview of him on YuoTube.

r432. Chi Chi was in love with him, but she was a fucking mess herself. She had no chance of hooking up with Joey. I had a strange friendship with her, and honestly she would get guys to suck her dick by promising to get them in gay porn. Fucking low-end dumb guys. Someone needs o start a thread about her. She kinda ran the gay West Hollywood scene for awhile. Yuu'd see her all over West Hollywood, restaurants, beauty salons, night clubs. She had the BEST birthday parties! It really was a completely different time in West Hollywood. Saban, Mike Skee, Jason Sechrest, Bryan Rabin, April La Rue, Marshall O'Boy, Jackie Beat - I fucking hate all the social media and miss how the community has really changed.

R435, what did Joey think of Chi Chi as far as in a sexual/romantic way? What was Joey's type? Who was Joey attracted to, etc?

"she would get guys to suck her dick by promising to get them in gay porn."

Her dick? I'm very confused. I've never heard of Joey Stefano or Chi Chi before I read this thread so I'm very confused. She? Her dick? What gives?

^ never mind, doll

try this thread instead

Why do you guys keep insisting Joey was bisexual?

R439. 100% GAY as a mother fucking goose. I remember him laying out naked at the old Athletic Club on SM Blvd. Beautiful ass.

[quote] What was Joey's type? Who was Joey attracted to, etc?

The impression I've gotten from this thread is Joey's type was usually thin, white, and easily put in one's nose or injected into a vein. But also hung and shot big loads.

From reading the book on him, I remember Joey was devastated when one of his bf’s turned out to be an actual Gay, & not the straight trade he’d imagined.

Great back story article

R442. Why was he devastated he was gay? And what book?

Joey was into macho straight types, & often bragged that that one I referenced was straight. The book is called Wonder Bread & Ecstasy.

He picked me up outside of Rage one night. I think it was 1990. He took me to his place, a 3-bedroom he shared with two others. Off Melrose, Pointsettia maybe? He had this big sign on his door "Yes, I'm a Porn Star." I recognized him from the covers of gay magazines, but I'd never seen any of his movies.

As for the sex, I was barely out and very vanilla. I think he got bored very quick.

Anyone know how many filmed and/or recorded interviews there are of him? And what ones?

Also, how many books are there on him? And what ones?

Trust me, neither joey nor anyone was attracted to chi chi....

R448, why don't you think Chi Chi is attractive?

R448 - R u fucking kidding me? She's ugly now, but back when she was hanging out with Stefano she was grossly over weight. This was before her stomach stapling surgery. She a beast with an awful drug habit. She was in and out of rehab. Even did a Go Fund me to have her fans pay for rehab one time.

Are there any shirtless photos of Chi Chi? If so, please post them. Thanks.

Chi Chi was brilliant, funny, and a master manipulator. It was easy to seduce someone if you got them high on crystal.

That fat crystal meth addict went back home to Minnesota with her tail between her legs. She has the blood of many gay porn stars on her hands - 2 years later Christian Fox was the last person Chi Chi hangout with in New Orleans before he killed himself. Chi Chi wrote a book and came across as an absolute CUNT. Very bitter sad man

i sat near her yrs ago at a special show at nob hill theatre that gave an award to josh weston, she was mega trashy.

Chi Chi is the skankiest skank who ever skanked

There needs to be a Joey Stefano documentary.

Almost 30 years after his passing and not even 1 doc on him. Makes no sense...

Not even 1 biopic either.

Why is he always brushed aside?

WTF?

Because he was a bottom.

There's no doc on Jeff Stryker, and he was a much more famous performer in the gay porn industry.

Besides, no one watched King Cobra.

Do you really think anyone cares about a dim-witted, drug-addicted power bottom?

Joey if you're hurting so am I...

[quote]a dim-witted, drug-addicted power bottom

You say that like it's a bad thing.

^Hehe, you funny lady!

R458. I wanted to watch King Cobra. How was it? That movie actually had a storyline. Joey' story is good looking guy is lazy, does gay porn, drinks and does drugs, & dies.. - Credits roll

Joey was actually very intelligent from what I have heard.

R463. R u fucking kidding me? Outing David Geffen on Public Access Television? Drugs, porn, od'ing in a gross Hollywood Blvd motel? Yes, he was a real genius..

What were Joey's interests/hobbies? Fave music, movies, singers, sports, celebrities, crushes, etc.? Anyone know?

R465 Hobbies? Interests? How about...drugs, guilt...shame.

Has any porn star ever had a documentary or biopic done on them?

See King Cobra mentioned above about Brent Corrigan

WHET Garrett Clayton? Was she abducted by aliens?

I wish there were more pics of Madonna and Joey together

[quote] I had to goggle him

Oh dear!

R469 garret just got married! Good for him. He looks like a human Ken doll…

Garrett Clayton is so fem

I remember from Wonderbread Ecstasy that he liked Hitchcock's The Birds.

porngod peter berlin had a fab documentary bout him, and that director wanted to do one bout josh weston but josh was too shy and not into it. alas....

Are there more than 2 books on Joey? I have only heard of 2 but wasn't sure if there were more...

Joseph

The porn stars of that era were all good looking - Now everyone is a gay porn star, everyone is so ordinary. Alex Powers, Adam Hart, Gianfranco, Scott Baldwin, Dino DiMarco,

We have so many beautiful black MEN and hispanic beauties, gorgeous boys from Brazil and Asian porn stars now. It's a global village of male beauty making love and riding wild. Sex on cam is way more exciting now. Xtube changed the mainstream porn market. Look like you're enjoying the way real men do. Get KINK. Take LOADS. Stretch young boy pussy and don't suck cock like a frat girl from the fifties! If you're not great looking, then develop your sexual talent. If you have both - you still have stiff competition. A great ASS don't make you a great bottom. Stefani would never make it in today's porn world.

Skinnny blonde twinks, fake rough trade like Stefani and OLD clones are from the DISTANT DL past. A lot of them were goodlooking. But nobody knew how to FUCK!!! Joey Stefani's ASS was on qualudes. What a boring ride. RIP.

R480, MARY!

Did Joey ever take a fist or two?

[quote] Your thoughts?

He's dead?

Don't think so, R482. That wasn't his scene.

Heroin and coke and whatever else -- that was his scene.

Joey looked like an ACTUAL all-American high school jock from the California area (his accent reads as CA, to me) that was lost and fucked up and super slutty and GAY and ready to do anything you might want. No boundaries. He also looked a little nuts. He was handsome (for his time) but came across as malleable, kinda desperate, and with self esteem issues. So it’s like you could get him to do… anything. That was the fantasy. Your read it in his eyes.

Unfortunately that was close to the ACTUAL Joey and his performances in porn could be a total mess. Like even boring. But all that still came through even when he was a dud on camera. Somehow it created an aura and he maintained his popularity for the most part. Then he died before he really began to age or people got really tired of him.

^ Wow you thought about this a long time, didn't you?

Just curious to know how he looked like a jock...

his asshole was pretty tight considering....i cant see how a fist would fit. he loved rimming surfers. had the pleasure of swallowing his butthole juice nectar. very sweet man. just druggy.....

Topped

Who is R480 talking about? Gwen Stefani?

joey had a very tasty cunt, and he was fun to smoke wid....

Chi Chi knows what he did to Joey and that fat pig will pay for it

Joey was gay for pay

Joey was straight?

R494. r u kidding me? Read the fucking thread - GAY 100%

I posted these on another thread, but I'll add them here as well, because this is where they belong. Joey's high school pic #1:

High school pic #2:

Thanks R496. He was a real cutie. I always wished i'd gotten to see Joey in person, he sounds like he was quite stunning. He seemed to be a decent performer but would have loved to see the qualities that he had in person.

I knew him in LA - He was always sucking dick, playing grab ass, or laying out naked at the Athletic Club "gym" in West Hollywood. Did blow with him a bunch of times. We hung around the same group of gays back then, definitely the "A" list of West Hollywood. It was all actually very sad looking back. I got out of the scene, Joey didn't. Most of these friends have all moved out of LA. I never thought Id see Chi Chi pack up and move. Crystal Crawford is in Vegas, Chris. Green is in PS, Micky Skee, Sharon Kane - Al. of them are gone. Aghh, now Im sad..

Sharon Kane still lives in LA, doesn't she?

Brandon from Sean Cody looked sort of like Joey’s high school picture when he debuted on SC. No wonder the gays fell head over heels for him as well.

R500 Nope Sharon Kane moved away to some rural area I can't remember off the top of my head. 100% distanced from her porn past and her gay boys. NO recent pics either..

I think I need a complete STD panel and a monkeypox test just from this reading through this thread.

Monkey

Did he like sports?

R496 Where the heck did you find those?!

The only way to rationally explain Joey Stefano’s continuing appeal is the “little boy lost” vibe he gave off-the messy early death certainly supports that. Forever young and all that blah blah.

He was cute, but there’s cuter. He had a nice ass, but there’s nicer. I’m in the camp that thinks that he was mostly lacklustre as a performer. Someone else on another Joey thread put it best-“bored hooker gets plowed”. Pretty much sums up his filmography.

But there’s something there. I get why there’s books and plays about him where most gay porn stars fade into oblivion. It’s the rescue fantasy. Pretty, fatherless, underage hustler goes to Hollywood, makes it big in gay porn, flames out by overdose in a seedy hotel at 26. It’s the Marilyn legend male division. Oh if I’d only been there he would have been saved!

He was gorgeous and an aggressive, take charge, I’m the star bottom.

There’s never been anyone like him since. The self confidence was alluring,

I'm still jealous of all the guys that got to watch him perform in person or hire him as an escort. He sounded a lot more obtainable than I would have guessed.

R506 - on Ancestry.com in their yearbook collection.

Could someone please see if they can find yearbook/early photos of porn star Chloe Jones (her real name is either Melinda Dee Jones or Melinda Dee Taylor.)

Thanks!

I want Chi Chi Larue's high school yearbook pictures, the fat old bitch!

R508 You obviously saw a different Joey Stefano than I did.

Such a nice looking boy.

What did he die of, may I ask?

r514 Stefano died of speedball overdose (cocaine, morphine, heroin, and ketamine.) Officially his death certificate states he died on 11/21/1994 at age 26 in room 122 at the La Brea Motel on Sunset Boulevard in Hollywood, California from "multiple drug intoxication".

This pic was also in Joey's high school yearbook without a name on it. I think it might be him.

R516 Certainly looks like him.

i also saw his strip show in person, he did indeed sit on cocks in the back row and wallowed in urine. he was very cute.

I keep forgetting he died so young. He was just a few years older than me.

“Wallowed in urine” and “cute” in the same post? There’s a first for everything I guess.

Why didnt Geffin or even fucking Chi Chi help the poor kid? Was he a situational whore or just a basic drug addict low end self destructive gay porn star?

R521 Helped him how? I’m not defending them necessarily, but it can be very hard to help an addict. And Geffen was hiring him as a hustler. It wasn’t like they were lovers. Apparently they did discuss his drug taking. That’s from Joey’s own mouth.

R522 I wonder what Chi Chi did for joey besides pimp his ass out? He "was in LOVE with Joey" but had him filming bare back sex scenes and seemed to encourage Joey to stay in the business. I'm romanticizing the Geffen relationship, but you'd think that with how Geffen was into Joey that he'd have tried to get him into rehab. I wanna hear what the ugly Drag Queen Crystal Crawford who FOUND Joey dead in the hotel has to say about he whole scene. Last I heard, he was working at a private butler in Las Vegas in one of the casinos. His real name is Brian Patrick Maley. If you google Crystal Crawford gay porn it will take you to videos with Maley dressed up like an ugly trans queen and perform ALL kinds of sex. Crazy that the videos iare still out there - forever..

In some of his films, like "Idol Eyes," you can tell he's high as a kite.

His face was busted. Nothing special.

R525, which features didn't you like?

He was a helluva trick, wild and kinky as fuck. no wonder geffen loved him. had the best ass in the business. and smooth tasty fukhole. the whore was up for any damn thing. def worth the fifty bux.

He had a busted face and dead hole. Nice ass for back then.

Did he enjoy sex with Sharon Kane?

joey loved all sex, his cunt was legendary and sweet juice filled.

He took a lot of dick.

[quote] He had a busted face

Uh-huh...

"busted face"

Who is this Sharon Kane to him? Was she another pimp?

R535 Sharon Kane is a former American bondage model and pornographic actress. She has appeared in many bisexual pornographic films, in both dominant and submissive roles. She wrote the scores for 1997's The Hills Have Bi's and Chi Chi La Rue's Idol in the Sky. She was a BIG fag hag and fucked so many of the gay actors. She was part of the West Hollywood "Porn Posse". Kinda like the Brat Pack of gay porn in that era. There was no social media back then, so it was a major deal to see them all hang out in West Hollywood. That whole era is such an interesting time in LA.

His face was busted. And those photos prove it.

"and fucked so many of the BISEXUAL actors" -- fixed that for you.

If you find that face busted, I have no answer for you.

It takes all kinds to make a world, I guess. But I wonder what your own face looks like.

So "gay" actors were fucking some hoe named Sharon Kane? For pleasure? For work? In either case she's just another conversion fetishist, I hope that fetishist bitch is dead now.

The OP keeps talking back and forth to himself, pretending to be different people.

The OP is also that fake dying "Joe" poster. Most all of the posts on that threat are his but he's getting some other attention too. He's a sick sad fuck who posts all day and night on Datalounge, from different accounts. But he always slips up. Ha.

The Joe story is so fucking boring. Hurry up and die.

Look and see when this supposed 20 years poster to DL first started threads!?! Late Sept, 2022. One day he's posting about caftans, two weeks later he's terminally ill.

OP is a very sad old man. He was at least 45 years old when Joey Stefanie did porn.

Joey should of wore condoms. He might still be alive if he did.

he loved the taste of cumwads mixed with his asshole juice. his kink was thirsty and he loved piss drinks.

r538. I don't think any of those guys fucked women except for Sharon. She was more like a dude and had that energy. They fucked her on film and it was a job. I'd see her out with Devyn Foster in West Hollywood.

R 545, a dude with a pussy huh? So people were into gays guys fucking pussy even then?

r545, she sounds hideous

r547 She's a fucking beast. Great article about the time in 90's gay porn

What men did he have crushes on?

What was his type?

Joey's best scene ever was his seduction of "married man" Jimmy Pike in "Karen's Bi-Line".

Was he a nice person?

He was a very boring performer, at least onscreen. He was handsome and had a great body, but that's it.

He was so beautiful.

In what all movies did he mess around with women?

Why do people say he was dumb?

Just wondering.

they jealous of his legendary status as gay icon.

Joey Stefano is the patron saint of "he had a hot ass, but couldn't live forever" on DL.

R557, agreed

Great butt

His divine ass once took 12 loads at an orgy party filming...

I wished he would have stayed gay.

R561, when did he stop being gay?

R562, when he started fucking women.

R563, where's the proof he was with women?

It's part of his filmography, he did M/F porn. Some faghag porn actress was fucking these Who gay porn stars. Sharon something or other.

Who = Weho

He was exceedingly dull and mechanical. If anything, he was practically asexual on screen. There was no passion and no enthusiasm.

To his credit, he never had sufficient.

Sharon Kane was the stunt female on all those films. Joey was certainly gay -- his bio talks about his stage performances in which he'd hang a towel over his erect penis for a long time while he toyed with the other male actor.

Didn't he fuck Sharon?

What is a "stunt female?"

If he was gay he wouldn't being fucking broads.

Fantastic ass. Hot little slutty guy.

he let every damn man in the theatre suck his cock or ass out when he stripped. a hot slutty fukker.

I watched an old porn of this unknown Joey Stefani. All he did was lie on his stomach and sqirm his ass until he was silently mounted by some dude. He was fucked and looked back a few times. Dullard.

It was like what eldergays must have done at the bath house? Nice ass - but the sex was so tame. No kink, no cum.

I'm grateful for PreP. Why die of AIDS for all that dead ASS? RIP.

He was so dumb and average looking. Trying hard to be sexy. Tiny dead eyes, no lips, a blank expression. A good bottom should be a good FUCK. Joey was just a numbed out whore. Nice hair.

Even cheap TRADE looks better than that. Gays must have been desperate back in the seventies for guys who could "butch it up" as long as they didn't smile or talk. Joey was a poseur.

and yet years later he still warrants attention.......I SAW HIM UP CLOSE AND HE WAS DROP DEAD GEORGOUS. AN ASS FIT FOR A KING TO SUK OUT NIGHTLY.

No king came for Joe's ass. He was a tacky dead eyed stripper. A sexless slut. Geffen didn't even enjoy him.