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Anon Hotel Scene

Once in a while, I see someone on a hookup app advertise that they’re at a hotel, lubed up, asking for men to come by and fuck them raw. Now that I’m on descovy, I’ve been tempted to participate, but something stops me. Have you had any good experiences with this? Or did you regret it?

by Anonymousreply 106September 12, 2022 3:44 PM

I like the sluttiness aspect, but it sounds so risky - what if they're fat when you arrive? What if there's a partner hiding in the closet ready to jump out and rob you? How do you know this person doesn't have a hidden camera and you'll end up on a porn site? But yeh, other than the risky part, random hookups are very hot.

by Anonymousreply 1October 17, 2021 3:25 PM

Live and learn, OP.

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by Anonymousreply 2October 17, 2021 3:27 PM

David Messerschmitt met the Soft Butch Sous Chef at a hotel.

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by Anonymousreply 3October 17, 2021 3:33 PM

Well, “met” is a stretch.

by Anonymousreply 4October 17, 2021 3:35 PM

This requires more commitment than just sticking your ass in the air and collecting the semen. It's a lifestyle. There are whole forums full of dedicated cumdumps competing to be the most depraved, to see who can get the most loads in one day, sharing stories and tips. There is a lot of downtime. You'll likely have to spend many days/weeks hunting loads before you even get close to the experience you're seeking. That's if you are decent looking.

There are a lot of moving parts to consider. You have to find the right room and hope there are a bunch of adventurous spontaneous horny tops around within a very small radius. You have to try and talk them into coming to your seedy motel while you are managing whoever else may be in your room at the time, and making sure you don't alert hotel staff or other guests. It's not impossible to make it all work but it's quite a lot of effort. You might have the same amount of fun (and be more productive) herding cats.

by Anonymousreply 5October 17, 2021 4:03 PM

R3, the horror of it!!! Our worst nightmare. Crazed Lesbians out for blood.

by Anonymousreply 6October 17, 2021 4:05 PM

Picture the 5 ugliest men you've ever seen.

Think of them mounting you in the dark and shooting their yellow, Chlymidiatic-laced sperm into your hole.

Still interested?

by Anonymousreply 7October 17, 2021 4:19 PM

In my younger days I responded to a CraigsList ad where some guy was going to let a bunch of guys fuck him in his hotel room, gang-bang style.

Got there, he was not all that good looking, nor were any of the other potential tops.

Decided it would not even make for good jerk off viewing, so I grabbed my coat and did an Irish goodbye.

by Anonymousreply 8October 17, 2021 4:26 PM

R7 wins for using the biggest, most impressive word. Damn. I really want to be able to use it. Seriously. I love this word. And it's especially wonderful if you have had Chlamydia.....and you know how to spell it correctly.

by Anonymousreply 9October 17, 2021 4:30 PM

Reading though the Soft Butch Sous Chef thread again, and laughing at all the people who were so certain it had to be a man....

by Anonymousreply 10October 17, 2021 4:31 PM

I don’t remember if we were certain it had to be a man or not, but I do remember we were CERTAIN that’s what he was there for.

by Anonymousreply 11October 17, 2021 4:36 PM

[quote] Picture the 5 ugliest men you've ever seen. Think of them mounting you in the dark and shooting their yellow, Chlymidiatic-laced sperm into your hole.

[quote]Still interested?

Well, that depends. Set the scene: how are they dressed? Fancy?

by Anonymousreply 12October 17, 2021 4:37 PM

Right now, on Sniffies in New York, there are three guys hosting Pump-and-Dumps to have their cumholes filled by as many men as possible. It's a thing, so if you're so inclined, go for it.

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by Anonymousreply 13October 17, 2021 4:39 PM

Some fantasies should remain fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 14October 17, 2021 4:41 PM

R14 is so right.

by Anonymousreply 15October 17, 2021 4:48 PM

Zero self esteem

by Anonymousreply 16October 17, 2021 4:51 PM

What do you do if you get there and the guy has been beaten up or even murdered by his previous punter?

by Anonymousreply 17October 17, 2021 4:54 PM

GTFO

by Anonymousreply 18October 17, 2021 4:59 PM

[quote]I don’t remember if we were certain it had to be a man or not, but I do remember we were CERTAIN that’s what he was there for.

R19 was the first to say it was a woman, R21 agreed and a few others chimed in but most people still resisted the idea. Revisiting those threads has been a fun walk down memory lane.

by Anonymousreply 19October 18, 2021 1:00 AM

OK I read two full Butch Sous Chef threads, the first two. But there was no link to a third.

3...2...1.. OK yell at me to do a search of the threads. Fuck you. No. I want someone to find it and post it so we can all enjoy it.

by Anonymousreply 20October 18, 2021 7:46 PM

[quote]Soft Butch Sous Chef Stabs Married DC Lawyer, Part 3

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by Anonymousreply 21October 18, 2021 7:49 PM

[quote]Soft Butch Sous Chef Who Dunnit - Part 4

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by Anonymousreply 22October 18, 2021 7:49 PM

[quote]Soft Butch Sous Chef Who Dunnit, Part 5

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by Anonymousreply 23October 18, 2021 7:50 PM

Fank you, oh fank you R21,R22 R23...believe me or not, I did try to search for it and came up empty.

by Anonymousreply 24October 18, 2021 7:55 PM

I had to hit pause on reading the first thread, I'll finish it up tonight. We need a commentary thread similar to the way casts revisit movies & TV shows on DVDs

by Anonymousreply 25October 18, 2021 7:55 PM

[quote] OK I read two full Butch Sous Chef threads,

It’s SOFT Butch Sous Chef, dammit.

by Anonymousreply 26October 18, 2021 10:49 PM

I thought Descovy was just a treatment for HIV, and didn’t prevent transmission?

by Anonymousreply 27October 18, 2021 11:03 PM

R27, I found this on the FDA site:

[quote]The U.S. Food and Drug Administration today approved Descovy (emtricitabine 200 mg and tenofovir alafenamide 25 mg) in at-risk adults and adolescents weighing at least 35kg for HIV-1 pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) to reduce the risk of HIV-1 infection from sex, excluding those who have receptive vaginal sex. Descovy is not indicated in individuals at risk of HIV-1 infection from receptive vaginal sex because the effectiveness in this population has not been evaluated.

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by Anonymousreply 28October 19, 2021 12:05 PM

R27, it prevents infection (no pill can prevent HIV being transmitted to your ass).

The transmitted HIV however cannot take residence in your body because descovy blocks HIV from entering your cells.

by Anonymousreply 29October 19, 2021 12:24 PM

Isn’t it just easier to go to a bath house?

by Anonymousreply 30October 19, 2021 12:24 PM

It can be a fun weekend!

by Anonymousreply 31October 19, 2021 12:25 PM

To me it sounds like a fun concept only initially. Being in company of lots of men I may find repulsive is one thing (as a giver or taker).

The medical implications are another, not just HIV related. I would not be able to enjoy myself considering all the crap I could catch that then would have to be treated, including long term repercussions. I don't understand how people can block that out of their brain or how they can accept the ordeal that comes with infections. I couldn't. My only thought would be 'here comes hepatitis, next up is chlamydia and lice.

by Anonymousreply 32October 19, 2021 12:39 PM

A friend did this a few times while traveling. His always recommended at least two tops at about the same time so no one can doing anything crazy to you without a witness

by Anonymousreply 33October 19, 2021 12:47 PM

[quote]Live and learn, OP.

He clearly didn’t, R2.

by Anonymousreply 34October 19, 2021 12:48 PM

Neurotic people acting out. I know. I was one of them one time in my life.

by Anonymousreply 35October 19, 2021 12:50 PM

You will be filmed.

by Anonymousreply 36October 19, 2021 12:54 PM

There's a difference between porn and real life. Learn it.

There's also a similar close case version of this

I saw a lawsuit on Caso Cerrado (Cuban Oprah/Judge Judy/Rosie. She sings, she hugs, she tricks pedophiles in to confessing and has them arrested on the spot and then tells them she hopes they get raped in prison. And she's a fabulous lesbian.

A Miami woman was suing for divorce because her husband was attending a sex show where there would be 1 woman and 50-200 guys standing around jerking off Her salient point being these guys are gay but can't admit it. It would be in some strip mall or warehouse and they'd pay 10 bucks to watch a show. Not a gang bang for the audience. It sounds hot/pathetic.

Here's a case where a wife sued her husband for 80k for gluing her vagina shut. FYI some of the cases are fiction., It's good clean trash

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by Anonymousreply 37October 19, 2021 1:02 PM

Op will end up dead or with sexually transmitted Ebola.

by Anonymousreply 38October 19, 2021 2:12 PM

Don’t worry, I’m not doing this in the near future, or ever. Although, what’s the difference between this and hooking up with several people over a longer period?

by Anonymousreply 39October 19, 2021 3:42 PM

Be careful with these. Some of them are amateur porn and are being filmed for Only Fans pages. I’ve seen some hotel invitations on Twitter. And one dizzy queen had to end his because hotel management got suspicious.

by Anonymousreply 40October 19, 2021 4:01 PM

[Quote] And one dizzy queen had to end his because hotel management got suspicious.

Most hotels are actually fine with it. That’s what hotels are for

by Anonymousreply 41October 19, 2021 5:48 PM

[quote] Most hotels are actually fine with it.

Most hotels are not fine with it.

by Anonymousreply 42October 19, 2021 5:57 PM

A few tips:

Check to be sure your hotel allows guests up without having to use a key in the elevator or give the guest name at reception

Hide all valuables

Blindfolds are a good idea - the top may not be exactly as you expect but the mental side still works. If you are really concerned about surreptitious photos a hood works well to disguise you.

Don’t expect to have a parade. Even finding one top is a success and the hotel won’t get suspicious

If you are looking on Grindr or Scruff it is a plus if the guy is already close enough to be in the hotel. He’s likely a whore just like you looking for hot anonymous fun

by Anonymousreply 43October 19, 2021 6:17 PM

Have you seen my ad? Give me your loads!

by Anonymousreply 44October 19, 2021 7:50 PM

How much do you value your health? Your life? Come on. Don't take risks like that.

by Anonymousreply 45October 19, 2021 7:53 PM

We do this thread at least twice per year, OP:

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by Anonymousreply 46October 19, 2021 9:02 PM

OP, we're all supportive of this idea you have! One day, when your number's come up, and you're lying in pieces in a bag at the morgue, and the technicians in the breakroom are talking 'that mess brought in in the bag', and how they still can't find one of your big toes to place the tag round, we'll know why you're not posting here anymore.

by Anonymousreply 47October 19, 2021 10:45 PM

I do know a friend who showed up to such a hotel scene with the bottom blindfolded with his legs up in the air.

Turn out the bottom was my friend’s nephew. My friend freaked out and immediately got out of there and never mentioned anything

by Anonymousreply 48October 19, 2021 11:41 PM

These things end badly, as they should.

by Anonymousreply 49October 20, 2021 1:33 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 50March 7, 2022 8:02 PM

[quote]... asking for men to come by and fuck them raw. Now that I’m on descovy, I’ve been tempted to participate...

Interesting almost all people replying here think OP wants to bottom in this scenario.

I assumed he wanted to "participate" as a top. I think it was his use of "participate" that lead me that way.

[bold]To any of you who answered about bottoming; would your answers be different if he specified he wanted to be one of the tops?[/bold]

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by Anonymousreply 51March 7, 2022 8:56 PM

Common sense is what stops you, OP. But don't let that get in your way. I mean, why start now?

by Anonymousreply 52March 7, 2022 9:21 PM

I've done it a few times. I had fun. I was going through a slut phase.

by Anonymousreply 53March 7, 2022 10:07 PM

[quote] I think it was his use of "participate" that lead me that way.

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 54March 8, 2022 4:44 PM

[quote] I thought Descovy was just a treatment for HIV, and didn’t prevent transmission?

And I thought it was the name of the dude who gave it to you.

Guess I should unblock all those people on Grindr now who said they were on it.

The more you know….

by Anonymousreply 55March 8, 2022 4:46 PM

[quote]What do you do if you get there and the guy has been beaten up or even murdered by his previous punter?

Take selfies and post on Instagram.

by Anonymousreply 56March 8, 2022 4:50 PM

When did the world become filled with mostly whores? I am a gay man and I can't imagine being on either side of this scenario, ever.

by Anonymousreply 57March 8, 2022 4:54 PM

It’s quite hard doing this these days with all the key card elevators and security checks. Works much better in an old school motel with doors to the parking lot from each room.

by Anonymousreply 58March 8, 2022 6:17 PM

Experience chimes in.

by Anonymousreply 59March 8, 2022 6:38 PM

My understanding from guys who've done this is that it's usually a pretty sad scene of a skanky cumdump bottom getting fucked by literally anyone. Tends to skew towards older, fatter, uglier guys. Not the porno fantasy you're picturing at all.

by Anonymousreply 60March 8, 2022 6:40 PM

R60 is correct.

by Anonymousreply 61March 8, 2022 6:44 PM

That app is called Sniffies! ROTFL!!!!

by Anonymousreply 62March 8, 2022 6:51 PM

RawLatinJock was hot and had hot men at his gangbangs.

by Anonymousreply 63March 8, 2022 7:12 PM

Do I get Bonvoy points?

by Anonymousreply 64March 8, 2022 7:14 PM

Has it occurred to you that the blindfold might be for the bottom so he doesn’t have to see the out of shape, old or ugly tops?

Bottom gets to be fucked without having to see how bad the guys are.

by Anonymousreply 65March 8, 2022 8:34 PM

I did this once just because I was curious. The guy had me meet him at a Red Roof Inn, and yes the door was unlocked and he was already naked in bed. I walked in and then walked right back out, and I don't think we said anything to each other.

Never again. It's too creepy.

by Anonymousreply 66March 8, 2022 10:57 PM

Let me tell you about what happened to me at the Holiday Inn !!!

by Anonymousreply 67March 9, 2022 3:19 AM

Miss r57 is clutching her pearls! She gives blowjobs in the bathroom of the gay bar like a respectable working girl.

by Anonymousreply 68March 9, 2022 5:10 AM

[quote] I've done it a few times. I had fun. I was going through a slut phase.

ETA I've done this both as a bottom and as a top. I was a happy slut both ways.

by Anonymousreply 69March 9, 2022 5:47 AM

I mean, I would never, but seeing as i've watched about 99% of these videos on every porn site you can imagine, you're 99.99999999999% going to be filmed on a hidden cam and end up on the internet. Jus' saying.

by Anonymousreply 70March 9, 2022 8:50 AM

I know a guy who decided he was a Massage Whore for a day. He rented a hotel room, put an ad on craigslist and waited. He didn’t get a single customer.

by Anonymousreply 71March 9, 2022 10:47 AM

This is not the kind of experience that adds to your confidence as a human being.

by Anonymousreply 72March 9, 2022 11:09 AM

In my younger days I did this as a top, once. The bttm was actually pretty hot and I would have liked to have normal sex with him, but he just wanted me to stick it in, shoot, and leave.

It was boring. There was no opportunity for sexual chemistry to develop. I did cum inside him, but truthfully I had trouble staying hard.

The bttm wants to play at being submissive, but as a top you’re just a prop in someone else’s fantasy. The bttm might as well be using a dildo. I’ve had a lot of adventurous sex. But this is one of the scenarios that left me feeling dehumanized.

by Anonymousreply 73March 9, 2022 11:48 AM

[quote] but seeing as i've watched about 99% of these videos on every porn site you can imagine, you're 99.99999999999% going to be filmed on a hidden cam and end up on the internet. Jus' saying.

By this logic, every plumber that comes to everyone’s house is having sex with the owner of the house because porn.

by Anonymousreply 74March 9, 2022 2:51 PM

[quote] Let me tell you about what happened to me at the Holiday Inn !!!

Two words, Connie: Days Inn.

by Anonymousreply 75March 9, 2022 3:12 PM

“ but as a top you’re just a prop in someone else’s fantasy”

R73, is it only now occurring to you that this is how many bottoms think of tops? What made you think they want to get to know you? They want to get fucked, not go on a date.

by Anonymousreply 76March 9, 2022 4:41 PM

[quote]This requires more commitment than just sticking your ass in the air and collecting the semen. It's a lifestyle.

For some reason this made me laugh, picturing [italic]Cumdump Lifestyle[/italic] Magazine.

by Anonymousreply 77March 9, 2022 5:55 PM

BBRTS

How naive are you (non)fuckers?

by Anonymousreply 78March 9, 2022 6:08 PM

I would enjoy perusing [italic]Cumdump Lifestyle[/italic] whilst waiting in my dentist's office.

by Anonymousreply 79March 9, 2022 10:34 PM

I found a copy of Cumdump Lifestyle tucked inside a Highlights. I wonder if the cumdump was Goofus or Gallant.

by Anonymousreply 80March 10, 2022 12:31 AM

I knew a guy who found a copy of Cumdump Lifestyle tucked inside a Highlights.

Then he died.

by Anonymousreply 81March 10, 2022 12:33 AM

About a year ago I was getting vehicle warranty calls all the time on my direct dial no. at work. So I picked up one day and told Melania that yes, I was quite interested in getting a warranty for my car. So she asked me what make and model it was. I said it was a 2018 Cumdumpster. She asked me to spell it. I got to C- U- M- D- U- M- when I heard her make a noise of disgust and hang up.

by Anonymousreply 82March 10, 2022 12:36 AM

Like weddings, funerals and other events, I tend to be removed from those situations pretty quickly.

They're rarely organized correctly.

by Anonymousreply 83March 10, 2022 12:40 AM

I've done it both as top and bottom. I'll do it again. The biggest issue is finding participants. It's not as easy as you might think.

by Anonymousreply 84March 10, 2022 2:07 AM

r84 completely. There's a lot of if you build it, they will cum mentalities out there... that set themselves up for lawsuits or worse.

Organizing a group sex event is like organizing any other group event. It requires greater planning for both the hosts and the participants.

When I'm involved in those scenes, I'm involved with an "event" - sometimes it's a pseudo porn shoot that might be sold to several commercial entities, other times it's a party train, or a warehouse rave, or whatever. . . the more elaborate could be considered the sex and kink version of LARP, often without filming but having scripts to be followed (like theatre, not everybody is a star for every production... some people have to participate from behind the scenes). There's usually some fees involved, legal/medical/security support on site, adhering as close to the laws as the situation allows (i.e. carding, consent, background checks, tests) -- so the participants may be anonymous to each other but have to submit applications to the organizers.

but you find more people in Western Europe and Eastern Asia willing to go through that than in the U.S. (and most everywhere else, too!) -- though some of the hottest events to become the porn that makes people want to DIY come from North America. They're just unaware of how much planning it can require. The truth is you can host an event in abandoned factory with fucking in the muck and mire of a homeless drug den without much effort at all but then, you might ask if would you want to?

The more spontaneous orgies and group sex events are better tailored around bigger party events, especially kink and leather related events. You'll find a more steady mix of hardcore eldergays and naive farm kids that escaped the family cult and dropped out of college to become a whore.

by Anonymousreply 85March 10, 2022 4:13 AM

^from hookup app to international event in the blink of an eye. Gays complicate things sometimes.

by Anonymousreply 86March 10, 2022 4:31 AM

I'm so grateful I never get that horny. I have friends that used to whore it out from time to time. But it just skeeves me out too much. Some might say, I don't know what I am missing. I'm just glad I don't.

by Anonymousreply 87March 10, 2022 4:32 AM

I host anonymous sessions at my own home (I'm married but in a open relationship). When my adopted sons are out I occasionally do an all loads cumdump. Just leave my house door open and let anonymous men use my hole. I'm 60, fem, chubby, and balding, but have taken three dozen loads on a good day.. A surprising number of masc, SASA men need to get their rocks off and don't care if they dump their babies in a bottom's bussy.

by Anonymousreply 88March 10, 2022 4:49 AM

I've been to your home, r88. Your hole was exquisite, and your puny cocklet was laughable.

by Anonymousreply 89March 10, 2022 5:13 AM

So, Who gets Op's stuff...after it's been sanitized of course?

by Anonymousreply 90March 10, 2022 6:13 AM

R88 aren’t you afraid of getting a disease or getting robbed/murdered or of somebody you know finding out what a slut you are?

by Anonymousreply 91March 12, 2022 5:19 PM

I don't think R88 is very capable of critical thinking R91.

by Anonymousreply 92March 12, 2022 5:25 PM

R88 what would you do if your sons came home early and witnessed this? Have you no shame?

by Anonymousreply 93April 3, 2022 4:37 PM

[quote] [R88] what would you do if your sons came home early and witnessed this? Have you no shame

Someone PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN! No seriously, someone should because R88 is a fucking whore who is endangering his kids' safety

by Anonymousreply 94April 3, 2022 4:53 PM

I'm glad I'm old. Hearing about this scenario makes me feel tired, not horny. .

by Anonymousreply 95April 3, 2022 4:57 PM

R1 whats wrong with a fat person showing up? You aren't no spring chicken either...

by Anonymousreply 96April 3, 2022 5:04 PM

Anonymous hotel stuff is very sexy

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by Anonymousreply 97April 3, 2022 5:09 PM

Realistically, for this scenario to succeed, some of the people involved would have to be paid.

by Anonymousreply 98April 3, 2022 5:15 PM

Broken people make broken choices.

by Anonymousreply 99April 3, 2022 5:51 PM

R97 linky stinky

by Anonymousreply 100April 10, 2022 5:54 PM

If this is a cumdump scenario, why would looks enter into it? It's all ass, yes? He should be face down in a pillow...

by Anonymousreply 101April 10, 2022 6:34 PM

I did this about 15+ years ago, but I didn't offer anal sex or get fucked.

I'd just broken up with a BF and was back in a town where we'd lived for a while and worked, in the core business district downtown. Had a room in the old grand hotel and put up a Craigslist ad at 10:30 AM saying I was looking for hot professional guys to come by at lunch - a guy that would let me watch him stroke, let me suck him off and/or stroke until he shot a load all over my face. As I remember, I blew at least two of them and swallowed their loads, and at least 4 or 5 more shot all over my face. The last two there - guys that apparently knew each other - then stood me up and jacked a load out of me. Pretty perfect for something risky.

by Anonymousreply 102April 10, 2022 7:00 PM

R102 Did you ask to see what the guys looked like before? How do you ensured you're not getting trolls?

by Anonymousreply 103April 10, 2022 7:01 PM

Hotel?

More like a cheap MOTEL!

by Anonymousreply 104April 10, 2022 7:16 PM

R102 I asked for photos and sent the address to the ones that came through.

Other guys on CL put their room number in the ad and just take all comers (literally) but I didn't want to do that, obviously.

by Anonymousreply 105April 10, 2022 7:28 PM
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