Was an older man ever interested in you?

I had sex with a 37 year old when I was 15 years old. Looking back, it was wrong on his part, and I think it has had some effect on me and my personality.

R1 Yikes. I think when I was that age there was nothing I wouldn’t give to make something like that happen. I felt so alone and like I would never meet a man who was interested in me. Now that I’m closer to 37 than 15 I realize just how young 15 really is and how deeply manipulative and predatory it truly is.

Anyway, I’m sorry that you went thru that. Would you share more details with us about how it started, how long it lasted, and what effect it’s had on you?

Yes ALL THE FUCKING TIME. And I was uninterested in OLDER men for dating until I was late 20s. I did fuck a couple professors in college though. Good times!

Some black gay opera singer was interested in me while I worked at a convenient store adjacent to my university around 2000.I told him I was straight (which i am) and never saw him again I felt a little weird There was a lesbian coworker there that I adored - she was slender with tattoo sleeves and was awesome and had some really handsome friend who dressed like a yakuza member. I had to skip that city after graduating and I lost her number so that's the end of the story - I think she moved to Seattle to become a massage therapist. SAD MEMORIES

OP Perv alert!

A long time ago (1980s), I worked at Roy Rogers and a hot latino guy used to come in and chat me up. He gave me his phone number and room number at the motel across the street. I was 16. He was 27. I never took him up on his offer, of course. Too old! Plus, I was still a virgin and wanted my first time to be with someone my age.

Yes, it just happened to me yesterday at Walgreens actually. Mind you, I'm 45. This guy was probably in his late 60's. I was standing in line behind him at the pharmacy and he kept turning around and glancing my way. Sure as hell, when he was speaking to the pharmacist he started asking questions about his husbands medications.

In my naïve early 20's, I had no idea that it was a thing for guys to cruise other guys by gently touching the palm of their hands. This happened to me several times at Barnes & Noble while I was looking through magazines. Some older guy would just happen to be standing near me looking at a magazine then would gently tap the palm of my hand. Freaked me out.

huh???

Starting in my earlier 30s, I had a male hairdresser, 27-28 years my senior, who, while quite married to his longtime wife & mother of his adult children, took quite the interest in me. He once asked what I liked to do in bed. When I tried to let him down gently by saying I thought that was a conversation best had with my bed partner. Undeterred, he asked if we would ever have that conversation. Dispensing with any subtlety at this point, I said, “No.”

“ Undeterred, he asked if we would ever have that conversation.”

LOL!

The irony (?) is that I have since fallen for willing men where the age gap is even a bit greater.

Miss r5 is clutching her pearls that somebody wants to discuss sex on DL

I was 18, just finished my freshman year at college. That summer, I worked at the reception area of the dorm I lived in while taking a class. The college had a janitor: he was cute, early 30s, great smile, built nice, not too muscular. When I worked the front desk, the janitor would chat and flirt with me. He would ask me out and I would politely refuse, for I was kind of seeing someone then. He became a little persistent, asking what it took for me to go out with him. One day my answer was, “Let me see your dick.” He said, “Sure. When?” “Now. Meet me in the supply closet,” I instructed. He went first, and once I felt no one would miss me, I followed. He had on a green jumpsuit. He unzipped and took it out. It was thick, but not full mast. In hindsight, I should have knelt before him and sucked him off, but I was too afraid of getting caught. I looked up, smiling, and told him, “Gotta go.” And I went. The guy was hurt, felt rejected. He told me later, “it wasn’t hard!”

Before that, I was sitting on a park bench reading a book when a twenty something year old guy approached. He was Latino with a shock of auburn hair and green eyes He stood before me and said, “ You’re so hot, I really would like to fuck you.” I was 12. This time, I kept my mouth shut and sat there frozen, afraid to move. It was the first time anyone ever tried to appeal to me sexually. He asked if he could rub my leg (I had on shorts.) I managed a soft “no.” Then, some people walked by and the spell was broken. Wordlessly, he moved on and I never saw him again. My first time I was 19, and he was 24. We were in my dorm room, and we were the only ones there. My suite mates had not yet returned from Winter break. We’re on my bed watching “A Current Affair.” Then, we are kissing. Then, he took his dick out. It was 10 inches and rock hard. He fucked me into euphoria. After he left, I wrote in journal the date, January 9, and the time we began, and finished: 7:30 pm to 9:25 pm. For six months I wrote down each time we fucked until I lost count. He dumped me a year later for a freshman. 10 years ago he was shot to death after defending a girl who was being beaten by her jealous boyfriend in a night club. He was 45.

r13 dang that was kinda brutal of you to make him whip it out and not do anything with it, but still pretty hot.

I love how you journaled every time you fucked! I wish I had done that.

I was 24 and he was 36 is that enough age difference? He kept cruising me at work regularly. That was 30 years ago and here we sit watching TV and telling the other one to get up and let the dogs out again.

I was 17 and he was in his late 30's. He was a bodybuilder and my manager. This was the late 80s. I worked at a drug store as a stock boy and cashier. He would wear these tight polyester khaki pants and no underwear which totally showed off his huge cock head. He would also wear polo shirts that were too small and showed off his muscles.

I made it obvious that I was admiring the outline of his cock in his pants. He told me he would bring a posing suit to work and show me his posing routine after hours in the office. After all the employees were gone we went into the office and he put on the posing suit and started flexing. He had an erection. I was hypnotized.

I started touching his body and he suddenly pulled off my pants and underwear. I was still wearing a dress shirt, tie and loafers. He liked this and each hookup, i had to be dressed this way. (schoolboy fetish, obviously) He sucked me silly and didn't want me to touch him, which frustrated me. He sucked and rimmed me (my first time rimjob) and by the time he was done, my undercarriage was sopping wet with saliva and I had to put on my underwear, (which was like putting on a wet bathing suit) and pants, and race home to masturbate again because cumming once wasn't enough for what had just happened!

When he found out I was still in High School, he fired me. I went "Fatal Attraction" on his ass and was obsessed with hooking up with him more, so I got hired at a nearby franchise and requested a transfer back his store. It almost worked, but He transferred to another franchise far away and I never saw him again. I was devastated.

R16 That was hot until he sucked you. If you're gonna make shit it up, at least make it good.

Back in the late 80's, and living in San Diego, I'd frequent the baths. I had quite a few men in their 40's and 50's hit on me. At the time, I was in my early 20's, and never questioned why I had chemistry with older men, I just went with it. I had a difficult relationship with my father, as I was growing up, so looking back, I wonder whether I was looking for acceptance from a father figure.

That actually happened. Not gay porn fiction.

r17^^

PERV THREAD.....OP is the Older Man trying to share his fantasies of teens....TRUE STORY = I once knew an older man who was interested in me when I was in High School. Then one day the FBI raided his house at 6am. They simultaneously raided his work office. The local newspaper said the warrants were sealed. But I knew exactly why they raided his house. Wonderful Moral of the Story = sometimes Pervs get caught. You queens might want to take notes.

[quote] Back in the late 80's, and living in San Diego, I'd frequent the baths.

Baths in the 80s… were you trying to die? Did people wear condoms and know how prevent getting HIV at that time?

I was 20, he was in late 60s and very rich. I thought it would be fun to have a sugar daddy, but after dinner out, I ditched him at the club. I think his tongue was longer than his cock. He couldn’t stop kissing me and it was not a turn on.

Get a grip R21. I'm a total bottom. Unless a teen who was of age made a move on me, nothing could happen, and that is highly highly unlikely to ever happen.

"Stand by heeum/Doo raght bah heeum..."

I was in the 8th grade, attracted to guys buy sexually naive and he was a high school senior. I don't know how, but we ended up spending a lot of time together during the summer after he graduated. I started puberty early and was getting hairy, but still short (ok - I am still short). He had a car and lived a few blocks away. I knew one of his sisters, who was in my grade. We met via CB radios, which was a craze in the 1970s. He would give me rides to summer school class, take me to movies, we'd go to the mall, and went camping alone a few times, smoked weed and cigs. I remember him telling me how smart and "cute" I was. I had no clue about what was going on, but knew I had a major crush. Just didn't know about the sex part. We talked about sex and jacking off a lot. He was touchy-feely, but I did not know how to reciprocate.

As I grew older, I wondered what that 'peculiar' friendship meant.

About a decade ago, his Facebook profile kept popping up as "mutual friends". I remembered only his first name. We're both from the same East Bay burb and now live in SF. After he commented on a comment I made to a mutual friend's post, I asked him if he is that guy and if so does he remember me from 1976. Oh, yes he did. He knew I had a crush on him because I was "ALWAYS hard".

We've met in person since and told eldergay stories to our friends about "primitive gaydar". It's amazing that our paths didn't cross sooner. The main joke is that we both grew up to be bottoms, so it wouldn't have worked out, anyway. I was completely unaware that our Moms were friends who had supported Dennis hanging out with me that summer.

We lived through so much -- the Milk/Moscone murders, protests, the AIDS epidemic. We'd planned on getting together (i.e. drinking heavily, getting stoned, and reminiscing) more but then COVID happened. Might just copy and paste this post and email it to him.

Lots, but I was more interested in them. Started cruising at 13. I was always the sexual aggressor. I think the men were slightly intimidated by this suburban blond kid in a button down shirt who was so desperate to get his rocks off. Was smart enough to avoid creeps, although when I think back, I could easily have been taken advantage of. Was once put up for the night by a kind gay Catholic priest, who simply gave me his spare bed, so no Vatican complaints there! When I couldn't find men, and as I was too young to be allowed in a sex shop to buy a dildo, in a Joan Crawford nightmare, I used to fold up wire coathangers, wrap them in newsapaper, smear the paper with vaseline, and shove them up my arse. Crazy, right? But I was so constantly horny I felt like I was going to literally explode! I couldn't think straight! My entire teenage years were an absolutely driven hormonal haze. I suspect I wasn't that exceptional, but have no idea. No one talks about such stuff.

R26 = PERV. Nobody cares about your puberty or talking about jacking off as a kid. You are just sharing for other pervs. OP and R26 need to banned immediately.

It was only a brief encounter (meaning we met briefly at a party) and I'll never know for sure; I was too young (mid-20s but SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO inexperienced) and he probably sensed that.

It was Merv Griffin.

Some older man needs to give miss r28 a good fuck. She’s hysterical.

I’ve rarely dated in my age group...when I was in my teens and twenties they were 15 - 20 years older...later in my life they were 15 - 20 years younger.

I always longed for daddy types; sadly, more 'father' types.

or big brother types; both were lacking in my life ...

Found only crazies; fell for assholes after projecting onto them they were someone they simply weren't.

It all went by so fast...too old now to find someone.

R31 why do you think that is? And which role did you enjoy more, being the junior or senior companion?

Last week a guy at the bar tried to hit on me. At first I was flattered but when he took off his mask, he was OLD! It was a complete dick downer. He had to be at least 40 or something. Now I always ask for mask off before beginning a conversation.

Dear Torso Reader's Forum,

I never dreamed I'd be writing to you, but you'll never guess what happened to me.

r31 Good question. I was always more comfortable around adults when I was a kid. I think that transferred to romantic relationships. I found older people easier to speak with. Plus, I was insecure at that age and really appreciated how unabashedly enthusiastic men were about being with me. I felt that men my age were too competitive/played too many games. I also liked being the nubile young thing. It was not something I needed to work for because it just “was.” I remember one guy asking “How old are you?” I answered “21.” He said, “I can’t believe I’m kissing a 21 year old.” He was thrilled. He was 35 max.

But I also felt objectified. The very thing I liked I later disliked (the ease of being liked for my age). I also almost exclusively bottomed then.

I spent my 30s in a relationship with a guy close to my age. At some point late in the relationship, I realized I disliked bottoming and liked topping. I began seeing mostly younger (10-15) men and exclusively topping.

I definitely prefer the senior role. It fulfills me emotionally and sexually.

R31 goes to gay parks and bathhouses. Probably has a wife. Without a doubt.

Yes. While looking at a university bulletin board many many years ago.

He was very distinguished, like a famous professor, and staring at me. He pointed to my hand that didn't have a wedding ring. I suddenly realized what he meant, got frightened and started to run out.

He asked what was the problem, didn't I like him. Then I heard behind me those awful unforgettable words:

"I can pay you money!"

R35 I know they’re all just faceless nameless torsos to you, but they’re not to some of us, ya fuckin slut.

R31/r36 I’m glad you came full circle and really grew into accepting who you are as a man.

.,.,

R41 stop posting that everywhere

[quote]Then I heard behind me those awful unforgettable words: "I can pay you money!"

Beautiful words. Important words. Life changing words.

R43 He thought I was a whore! That still bothers me. And I was a mid-20s grad student, not an undergrad. But undeniably really cute, though I didn't realize it at the time, unfortunately.

He did not think you were a whore. He wanted you and you were reluctant so he offered enticement. I'm sure he knew EXACTLY who you were - a nice juicy grad student

I was holidaying with my family when I was 17 and struck up a conversation with an older guy (37!) who owned a a mens' clothes shop. He was interesting and cute and really loved being around him.I wanted to kiss him SO badly! In those days. parents would let kids go out all day alone so I would go to the beach and then go and sit in his store and talk to him. Eventually his boyfriend showed up at the shop and was the most obnoxious, nasty queen I have ever met. Clearly felt threatened and said so many horrible things to me ("You'll probably d of AIDS", "You'll be a lonely old queen one day", "Your so skinny. no-one would ever want to have sex with an ugly runt"). This was at the height of the AIDS crisis so statements like that terrified me.

Many years later I discovered that the same couple had been involved in a threesome gone wrong and their playmate had murdered them both, mutilating the body of the obnoxious guy so badly that forensics had difficulty identifying the body. Not surprised at all.

When I was 18 I hooked up with a 26 year old who happened to be my dorms head RA. He really fit the stereotype of the stunted loser who hooks up with much younger guys because they won't realize how much he sucks. He was really into Glee. I wouldn't be surprised if he's still at that university and still hooking up with teenagers.

[quote]He thought I was a whore!

So?! You threw away a lucrative career because of distaste of a potential client and a piffling moral quibble! You could have bestowed some light and joy in a life.

And now you have the temerity to come here, before The High Whores Of DL, and expect respect? How very dare you!

With a few stepping stones you could have been sharing Instagrams from Uncle Don's learjet! Instead: a life of non-ending suburban toil for a false god of respectability lies ahead! Crawl back to your miserable cubical, and think on this, you failed Jezebel!

The only thing sadder than a failed slut, is a born slut who thinks herself better than her calling. – Socrates (loosely translated).

[quote] When I was 18 I hooked up with a 26 year old who happened to be my dorms head RA.

26 year olds can be RAs? How did you find out his age?

No OP. Older men rarely hit on young people, not sure why you would ask such a question.

Just checking in....Still a PERV Thread. You girls are slipping---50+ posts and not one "the 19 year olds are hitting on me all the time for my 65 year old body" fictional story?...Yep...Slipping...

Miss r51 is just bitter because nobody hits on her

R52 Um that would be the opposite of this topic you stupid fuck

My first hospitality job was when I was 19 at a small Holiday Inn Express. (It had been built in the late 60s/early 70s and the lobby was a detached building from the motel wing of 60 rooms.) I worked overnight alone with no security, and the small lobby was completely surrounded by glass walls, floor to ceiling. A huge Lincoln Town Car pulled up and whomever was in it sat there for a few minutes. Finally, a nice-looking gentleman got out and I buzzed him in the front door. He was clearly just passing through, as he was entirely too debonair to be from around my hometown. He said he just needed a room for a few hours, so I quoted him the rate and he took the room. He didn't say anything at all to lead me to think he was gay when he was in the lobby. (I'd only been with x1 guy sexually at this point.) He was probably mid-50s.

About an hour passed and he called from his room and said something to the effect of that he knew I was gay and would I like to come to his room. I was taken aback and asked him how he knew I was gay. He said he could just tell, and that we could make one another very happy if we spent some time together. I told him I wasn't sure about that and hung up. (I was very nervous, especially being there alone at 2am.) He waited about 20 minutes and called back again, allegedly to apologize. I told him I appreciated that, but that I preferred to be left alone. He then offered to pay me if I'd come to his room when I got off work. Said I could let myself in with the pass key, etc. I agreed to it just so he'd leave me alone, and then once I was off work I drove straight home. Something about the whole situation made me uneasy. Needless to say in the years since, I've hooked up with several guests, usually via the apps. I've never been paid for sex; I think that's the main thing that bothered me about this guy. He just assumed a young 19 year-old would jump at the chance to suck him off for $60. (Yes, that was the amount.)

[quote]I used to fold up wire coathangers, wrap them in newsapaper, smear the paper with vaseline, and shove them up my arse.

Mary!

[quote]Many years later I discovered that the same couple had been involved in a threesome gone wrong and their playmate had murdered them both, mutilating the body of the obnoxious guy so badly that forensics had difficulty identifying the body.

Mary!!

[quote]I told him I was straight (which i am)

MARY!!!

R55 I think you dodged a bullet actually. Also, what was he going to do by himself in that room if the guy working the lobby wasn’t gay?

Why does it feel like the last line of OP should be :"Asking for a friend"

Not reading through replies but I suspect this has turned into a [bold] Stealth NAMBLA thread

I was very pretty when I was young, and I got a lot of attention that was inappropriate when I look back. I was far too scared to take up any offers, even though my hormones were standing up and barking. The number of married men who not so discreetly tried it on with me was ridiculous. It made me quite paranoid because I was nowhere near ready to come out, and my circumstances made that impossible.

You’re fucking retarded r58. I can’t speak for others, but I clearly see myself in the role of the younger guy being led by a handsome mysterious older stranger.

Now shut the fuck up and let us circle jerk in peace. I don’t wanna tell you again.

R57, I agree, mainly because he could've also been armed. It was a small town and I actually could've called the cops and reported him for trying to engage in sodomy. Not that I would've done that, since I would've felt I was incriminating myself. I think in retrospect that he was a lonely, married businessman and thought he'd get a cheap BJ from a teenager. The other offensive thing about the $60 he offered me to suck him off was that he'd paid more than that for the room! He could've at least offered $100.

The detail I left out of my novella at R55 is that he was wearing a long, black pea coat. I've never liked pea coats since then.

My first bf and the guy I lost my virginity to was 20 years older than me, so the answer is a resounding YES. Having a handsome, built and hung older man as a starting point was a great experience, and I'm so glad I didn't mess around (and get messed around) by guys my own age.

R58 = Yep....You are correct. Maybe OP got kicked off Pervy SD and decided to come here? Maybe he got blocked too many times posting in their group chat? Just a theory...

Yes. I was online, he filtered by age, and asked to hook up.

[quote] has turned into a Stealth NAMBLA thread

No, troll. It's a stealth James Bond movie marketing thread. Daniel Craig is 53.

Of course. Terrible experiences.

[quote] He could've at least offered $100.

This is the funniest thing I’ve read on DL in a while. Thank you, R61!

When I was 14 I was in a small locker room in a marina and there was an older man sitting naked reading the paper. He was fit for his age and obviously a nudist based on his tan. He had a really big dick and as I was brushing my teeth and sneaking looks at his dick when he caught me looking and spread his legs so I could get a better look. I noticed his dick getting hard and I got hard. I was wearing pajama pants and no underwear so it was obvious. Ultimately, we masturbated together with him standing in the shower and me standing in the middle of the bathroom, facing him. Seeing him ejaculate was pretty impressive. He came six feet in the air. I was in awe.

Image getting hit on by a hairdresser! When I was 17 I went to a barber that was recommended by my older brother, hmm. He pushed his crotch against my arm and I pulled my arm away. He tried it a second time and I left my arm in place to see how far he would go. He did a grind a couple of more times but he didn’t say anything.

Yes, older men have been interested in me, off and on, since I was a teenager or maybe even younger. My first BF was about 15 years older than me and was crappy / selfish in bed. (I'm no longer interested in older men.) An 80-year-old guy liked me as well. A few years ago, a really old doctor really gave me the creeps. Supposed to be looking at my ears and somehow made that sexual.

Now that I'm older, I do notice attractive young men, but I know they're not interested in me and I try to have a neutral expression on my face around them.

Always ! But i wasnt going to take a bite of an old apple .

Very similar situation to WestEnder. I was tall, slender and extremely pretty by the time I was 13. I was horny as fuck then and started following male teachers into the bathrooms to scope their dicks. This was the 80s when teachers and students would use the same ones.

Anyway, in retrospect I'm fucking shocked at the number of them who responded and showed me their dicks in a provocative manner. My earth science teacher who was short, built like a brick shithouse and had a huge cock. We rendezvoused at the urinals a couple times and he got rock hard the last time. Ended up doing the same with our associate gym teacher who looked like Whip Hubley (i know, obscure reference).

In high school, it was a shop teacher -nebbishy but cute jewish guy, a social studies teacher - silver daddy type, and of course the music teacher who looked like Ken Berry.

Also, a local cop developed a fixation on me. They all used to hang out near the local arcade and I had a couple of moments with one of them in the bathrooms. He was hot. Beefy Irish guy with coppery blond hair, thick mustache and meat hook arms.

Oh and all of these guys were "straight" - married with kids - except the music teacher (duh).

I've posted about these before and always there's a chorus of "YOURE FUCKING LYING." But it's not so unbelievable once you consider that there are a ton of dirty dirty men out there who aren't out or living a gay life.

R48 Now if this had happened on a warm summer's day at an Adriatic seaport and the guy was inviting me onto a yacht the size of Paul Allen's, I might have reacted differently.

Unfortunately, by the time I could afford to summer on the Adriatic I was no longer that cute.

r68 you've told that story before and it was a good one and I remember it.

Back in the mid 70s when in my early 20s, and a quite cute little number, I was having a drink with a friend at a gay watering hole. We were sitting at the bar. The bartender came over and said a man wanted him to ask me if I was open to being ravished by an older man. He discretely pointed out the man & I discretely took a peek. The man had to be in his late 60s (my age currently). I politely declined.

What was the bartender like, R75? I wonder if he was in on it.

Thinking back, I didn't get the idea he was in on it. The barkeep didn't act offended when I declined the offer and whatever he said to the man apparently soothed any hurt feelings. I just figured the old coot decided I was involved with the guy I was there with (I wasn't), who was hot as a firecracker, and wasn't interested in playing around.

Thanks, R77. Older man was probably a regular customer and a decent tipper (hence the bartender willing to act as messenger).

I like to be wined and dined by older gentlemen.

R79 you forgot to sign your post, Senatrice.

r74 Thanks. Yes, the original version is better. I massaged the story more. I have no idea where it is in the DL archives. Probably lost forever.

I dated a 23 year old when I was 14-15, it was not sexual, but he messed with my head a lot. I dated a 25 year old when I was 18. a 30 year old when I was 22. I guess I had a type or didn't like men my age. I also was attracted to older women at the time but didn't do anything about it. (female) When I did do something about that it was with someone more my own age. I had a huge crush on a college professor who was in his 60s when I was barely 20. He was flattered but didn't do anything about that either.

R22: By the 1987-88, there was information on HIV prevention, so I always practiced safer sex. I always communicated with any sex partner, about what my boundaries were, and to this day, I'm HIV negative,

R82 I can't figure out your gender by that cryptic paragraph. Are you the (female) in that lone mention unconnected to any sentence, and referent? Sheesh!

Bump

R27 here. Too many nutty situations to recall. I used to roll my shorts up on the way home from cub scouts in the hope some man would stop. It was when people used to hitchhike, so not that crazy. As I mentioned, I always had to do the heavy lifting, never the other way round, as I think even by that time guys were getting leery as being seen as predators. One time when I was around 14 my mother had told me where a gay cafe was: she'd heard about it from the wife of the head of police, who she played tennis with, and I picked up this really handsome med student who was working there as a cleaner. So like, five minutes after meeting him I'm in his car heading to Bumfuckleville 'cause he said he had to pick up a lawn mower from his Uncle's place. Uncle and aunt weren't home but he ended up fucking me on the floor of their naff decorated loungeroom under this big framed painting of Pope Paul. Even then I thought it somewhat surreal. And having a gay pope staring down at you while getting rogered is something of a turnoff. So he comes, and then says 'do you want to come with me tonight?' I looked at him like he was crazy. I'd got my teenage rocks off, & all I wanted was get home in time for my fave show Lost In Space. Another time I was fucked in broad daylight in a laneway gutter by a man who had eyes that genuinely twinkled. Never seen anything like them since. And yes, I know: literally IN THE GUTTER. Oh the humanity. But I was looking at the stars! Different world now. All boxed up and bourgeois. Back then it was a circus.

R68 = SICK....Telling sex stories of a 14 year old and an old man having illegal sex. Seriously perverse. BAN THIS POSTER...

I was meeting up with older men from [age redacted so the nellie prisspot won't lose her marbles].

I loved the attention. It was of course trying to fill the gap that the absence of a father left in me. And it continued through my twenties. At one time I was dating a 55 year old mobster when I was 24. Yeah. Enough said.

I still like mature men now and I am one. But it's more of a vibe than an age now. Maturity + relaxed masculinity + affection is irresistible to me.

R72 = BAN THIS POSTER....SICKO....Talking about 13 year old cruising....SICKO..Where do I report this post?

[quote] I was meeting up with older men from [age redacted so the nellie prisspot won't lose her marbles].

Lol. Well done.

I WANTED older men to be interested in me in my late teenage years, anyway. I'm talking 20s, though, not 40+. My mom brought home two European hitchhikers once, both 26 (I was then 16). The Danish one was tan and blond and took all his clothes off to wash them. I was sitting with him alone on my bedroom carpet while he was dressed in a thin, little white bikini bottom. I'd never seen an uncut dick at that point. I would have died of happiness if he would have made any kind of move on me. The other guy, an Austrian, who was even tanner and blonder ended up staying in my bedroom for the whole summer. He also was always wearing just bikini underwear. I was so in love, but he never made a move, either, even though I paraded around in front of him. I found out years later that he was gay, but only into black men. We've laughed about it since and he has said he never would have dared touch a teenager.

I don't know, the psychologists may say it harms the kid, but I would have been in seventh heaven, even if he had just snuggled in bed with me. OK, start calling me a pedo now (I personally only like manly, hairy, musclemen of my age).

Oh fuck off R87: you tedious suppressive frau. You didn't get a cock up your sad twat till you had a rhinestone on your fat finger? Well bully for you. Stop trying to put others down who've lived different lives, however odd.

R92 = Needs to be banned too. Justifying SICKO posts of 13 and 14 year olds as just guys who have "lived different lives"...gross....

LOL r92. Pwnt

Remember the Rev Boyd McDonald's Straight To Hell anthologies of real life sex encounters? The early ones used to be full of mad amazing stories, some of which were along these lines. When he died and went to heaven, the books were later reprinted, but they cut out the ones that would give the nellie shrieker here the vapours. Which was a great shame because some were just so fascinating and wacky and human, and it was a suppression of truth, and his blessed legacy. If you want unedited Boyd now, you have to hunt down the original first editions.

Despite bring HORRIFIED at the content, the prisspot in this thread has posted eight times!

Block, block, block!

There used to be a restaurant/bar in West Hollywood where young guys would sit in the reception area and wait for an older "gentleman" to ask them to "have dinner" with them. I forget its name, but it moved from Sunset Bl. to Santa Monica Bl. while I lived in town. A couple friends of a friend said they used to go there for "dinner."

R96 = Are you keeping track of the PEDO POSTERS too?....Like I give a fuck how many times you know I posted outrage at 13 year old boys stories...

r87 Clutch your pearls somewhere else. I didn't have sex with him, I jerked off in front of him and him in front of me! We were 6 feet away from each other! He never touched me! Nor I him! (Though, I was down for it!)

R87/R98 is one paroxysm away from a grand mal seizure.

Yes all the time. It is very common.

I think almost all gay men have experienced this at some point during their teenage years

R101 how do they know? Sometimes I wonder if I have a sign on my back that says “willing bottom.”

Yes. Many. I hooked up with older guys on AOL chatrooms (I was precocious and knew what I wanted and didn't have patience for wishy-washy boys my age). Also, I dated a 40something when I was 19.

Reported. Keep posting your 14 y.o. boy stories.

How much time do you have?

I will laugh my ass off if R21 ends up red tagged instead

R102 Yes. In the 70s trying to be just an average guy fitting then have someone come up and hit on you in a public place took you aback. What am I doing to send out a signal?

Make that "fitting in."

When I was 19 I dated a 43 year old for several months. The sex was amazing and I really wanted a serious relationship with him. He led me on for a while but wouldn’t commit. I took the chance and gave him an ultimatum. He declined. I have a feeling he thought I was looking for a sugar daddy or something.

We remained friends and now, almost 20 years later I’m glad it didn’t work out. Soon after ending the sexual relationship, I met the love of my life (my age) and we’ve been together ever since. The older guy was never in a relationship and now I’m the more financially successful one. He lost his muscles and his good looks over the years, so I’m glad things worked out the way they did. I’m not sure he knows how in love with him I was and that i would’ve stayed with him forever if he allowed it.

R84 I wasn’t trying to be cryptic, but I agree, that paragraph wasn’t my best. I am female.

This happened about 35 years ago. I was staying at a Roadway Inn in San Diego with my parents during summer break. I had just turned 17 and really wanted to spend time with my friends, but my parents didn’t trust me alone in the house so I was forced to go with them. What made it even worse was that my dad was extremely cheap, and wouldn’t even spring for an extra bedroom! The tiny hotel room consisted of a queen size bed and a single cot to the side where I would be sleeping for the next five nights.

Anyway, it was mid afternoon and my parents had left me alone at the hotel to go visit my aunt. I had decided to feign illness because I just wanted some time to myself after the six hour car ride. About ten minutes after they left, there was a knock on the door. I opened it, and standing in the doorway was one of the most beautiful men I’d ever seen…before or since! At the time he seemed much older but in hindsight he was probably around 25 or 26. He said that he worked for the hotel, and that someone in our room had placed an order for a massage. I told him that it might have been one of my parents but I didn’t expect them back for at least a few hours. He flashed me a smile and said that since the massage was already paid for, would I like to have it? I nervously agreed and motioned him into the room.

I started to lay down on the cot but he stopped me and asked why I wasn’t laying on the larger bed. I explained to him that the cot was my bed, and the queen size bed was my parents’ bed, and the cot is where I slept. He laughed at that and told me to be adventurous. I asked him if I should take off my shirt, and he suggested I remove all my clothes as he didn’t want to get any massage oil on my shirt or pants. I stripped down and quickly laid face down on the bed to conceal my growing erection.

I nervously made small talk with him as he began gently massaging my back. I remember asking him how much he made giving massages and if his gig ever got him free pussy! He smiled and said that yeah, sometimes one thing could lead to another in his line of work. As he said that, I could feel his hands moving down my lower back, brushing past my bare ass cheeks, and placing a hold on my upper thigh. At that point I was completely hard as I felt his hands getting closer and closer to my dick.

Suddenly he stopped and instructed me to roll over on my back so he could massage my chest. I think I turned beet red and told him I couldn’t because I had a little problem “down there”. He laughed and told me he was used to it and not to worry. I slowly turned over to reveal my massage boner. Without hesitation he placed both hands on my cock and slowly began jacking me off. ‘Does this feel good?’ he asked. All I could do was nod my head in reply.

He then started simultaneously fingering my hole and the sensation was out of this world! I was so close to coming when he stopped and asked me - very politely too - if it would be okay for him to fuck me. I nodded my approval and at this point I would have refused him nothing. I remember it was painful at first but he was so gentle and every so often he would ask me if he needed to go slower.

When it was over, he kissed me on the forehead, got dressed and said he hoped we would run into other again someday. He didn’t leave his business card or even tell me his name.

My parents arrived back at the motel later that evening. They went straight to bed and I was already fast sleep in the cot, completely exhausted from my first sexual encounter. The mattress of their bed must have been covered in dried oil and cum, but they never said a word about it the next morning.

R111 Good start but just not believable that a hot guy showed up deus ex machina ready to fuck you. Your story needed some, er, massaging.

[quote]I used to roll my shorts up on the way home from cub scouts in the hope some man would stop.

You little slut! Did you always remember to roll them down again before you got home?

^^^^ Listened to a recording of "The Music Man" too often.

😊

[quote] Did you always remember to roll them down again before you got home?

Of course, but it never worked! The roads were too quiet. Although later I had lots of other vehicular encounters, including being hit on the forehead by a screwed up mash note tossed from a Rolls Royce. The bloody entitlement!

Since when does the Roadway Motor Inn have an in-house Masseur?!? That guy was there to sneak in and finger through your suitcases while you were supposed to be at Sea World!!! But, instead he fingered YOU!

Well played, whore.

r116 But a NIFTY story nonetheless.

You boys did your best to seduce those older men. I know how underage tramps operate. And I know how to take care of the problem.

Early on before I hit my mid-20s, I (nearly) exclusively fucked guys who were in the 40-60 range. Now in that range myself, I can’t imagine trying to hook up with a 19 year old. What on earth would we talk about?

In the 70s there was this really handsome hyper-butch Castro-looking guy that used to have a flash car and offer to pick younger guys up and drive them to wherever they were going. I worked on weekends in a mens' clothing shop with three really good looking straight guys and we were all good friends. They all used to get asked regularly by the Castro guy if they wanted a lift to work. They all said no but weren't offended by him. I walked to work every frikkin' day and that guy drove past me multiple times.

I remember being quite upset about it at the time.

R111 is a scene from Big Guns, one of my favorite pre-condom porn movies.

I know a very rich guy, married in his 70s, who looks like a less handsome Harvey Weinstein, and who has kept a string of young men. The current one, from what is politely known as 'a struggling country', has had the full Calvin Klein toyboy makever, including new teeth, new body (lipsuction, personal trainer), new clothes, new car, new everything. Miss Third World has now become très piss elegant in skin tight bespoke suits, and appears in the social rags. Its parents are probably still living in a tin shed.

Faux-Harvey's last toyboy was a genuine STUNNA as the UK tabloids would say: I genuinely gasped when I first saw him -- he seemed like he was surrounded by a halo of light and should be kept in a glass case. And of course, possessed the look of someone who'd never known a moment of struggle, self doubt, or a day's work. Unfortunately, said STUNNA went missing. Or more accurately, Faux-Harvey made the mistake of taking him to Gstaad, where he immediately upgraded himself to the arms of even richer hedge fund manager.

So any stories with that Jeweler to the stars who created a boytoy that became a stonecold murderous killer? He must of had other protégé before and after?

Interested on me? Million of times, was it reciprocal? Never.

I had sex with a 21 years old guy when I was 15, does that count?

[quote]So any stories with that Jeweler to the stars who created a boytoy that became a stonecold murderous killer?

There was that French (?) toyboy who allegedly murdered that older Australian PR guy and changed the will. I can't recall his name, or how the case ended up.

$100 dollar Dan. The late 1970's - early 1980's. For Denver, Colorado natives that crossed his path..

Older men constantly came on to me when I was younger...and I took advantage of it constantly.

I learn so much about sx from older men and, even now, I'm still wildly attracted to me older than me

[quote] I'm still wildly attracted to me older than me

For those narcissist-apologists who said the “twinning” phenomenon would die out

R110 thanks, doll! 👍

Someone needs to give the crazy sex negative loon on this thread a nerve pill before she soils herself.

Where I grew up in California in the late 70s and 80s, it was common knowledge that teen boys would be approached by men who were at least a decade older. I just didn't realize how often. From 13-17 (and after) I lost count of how many times I was chatted up, offered rides and drugs, or asked to light lit cigarettes. I got used to a standard line about whether anyone ever told me that I looked like Robby Benson (some guy actually insisted that I was him, this was in LA). Then I'd be asked if I wanted a blow job or to "party". This was in record stores, at the movies, in restaurants, just walking down the street, or later when I worked at the local gas station over the summer. Since I was just a shy kid and completely sex-phobic, I turned these offers down. I can only imagine what it must have been like for the more adventurous kids.

The crazed loon on this thread is on the "Poor Little Paula" ranting and raving about what an evil man Bill Clinton is, and that both he and Hillary are trash.

Young boys are my weakness

Is the sky blue? LOL Op

R133, you forgot to sign your post as Kevin Spacey!

R134 tell us about your experiences

Has anyone checked on Sister Mary Hysteria Prisspot lately? Is she hyperventilating? Someone get that bitch a paper bag!

I think there's a good book to be written of a collection of interviews about gay teenage sexuality. I presume general studies are done, but no one now seems to be doing what Boyd McDonald was doing, and publishing frank interviewers of people's sexual lives, including the sexual lives of youths. Those who shared with Boyd were possibly for the most part sexual outliers, but it would be fascinating to know if teenagers today are just as promiscuous as before AIDS, or even more hung up, and whether today they prefer to have their first experiences with their peer group, or, as I suspect happened much more in the past, were sought by older men, but also sought them out as mentors. Am I wrong? Is someone today publishing true life personal sexual histories and experiences in book form, or a blog? I weird kind of prudery or discretion seems to have descended across the world.

R138 = Did you seriously say the BOYS sought out older men as "mentors"...WTF? I once knew a "mentor" in my neighborhood who hung out with teenager boys. The police had questions for him. He is in prison now..He tried to explain to the judge he was a "mentor" for the boys too but LAWS are LAWS and the judge threw the book at him.

I remember flaunting my older man in the face of my divorced mother who was against the relationship. Finally I said, "What's the matter, Mom, do you want him for yourself?!" and she smacked my face into the next apartment. After I stormed out, I evemtually phoned to dictate my terms for returning home. Mom answered "Alright. Don't come home."

R139 you must have a modest IQ and be a true asshole to be incapable of imagining the past culture for the way it was, and without the need to retroactively apply todays cultures and law enforcement back on the past. Also laws are one thing, human nature is another. When I was in my mid thirties I was shutting around the cruising grounds of Geneva and was relentlessly pursued for several years by a teen boy. Lots of guys would do it with him. I just talked to him and learned his age and his studies etc etc. I told him I would do it when he was out of prep school. That day arrive 4 years later. So we actually knew each other well by then. And we did it and he was a total brazen slut who knew how to do everything. I was gobsmacked and a bit turned off and never fucked him again. So even up to relatively recent times, there are teen gay boys who really want to fuck grown men. Yes its up to grown men to refuse. You're a very tiresome prissspot.

I was going to tell R137 that she's at R139, but R141 beat me to it.

I lost my ass-ginity to a man who was probably in his mid-fifties. I was 21 at the time and inexperienced; he was very experienced and the sexual chemistry was great. We dated for a few months and I never thought of him as a mentor, or a predator, or a sugar daddy. But, there was an obvious generational divide and it wasn’t meant to last.

In retrospect, I have no regrets and I’m grateful that our lives intersected. I’m now in a stable relationship with a man my own age. We’ve been together for 32 years.

R140 lmao you little bitch! Do you think she really did want him or were you just being a dick?

R137 = Switching Screen Names is a fun way to deal with stalkers...LoL

This all reminds me of the rarely done play “Amulets Against the Dragon Forces.”

[quote]Was an older man ever interested in you?

Yes. He started a thread about me on DL and now all of his friends are interested in my "size meat."

R89 wants to speak to the manager!

I was reading some info on newspapers.com about a big scandal in 1954-55 Pennsylvania.....Luzerne county.

There was a ring of men of ALL social standings who were involved with a group of teen age boys. They had sex orgies and best of all - the men gave their own boy of choice a wedding ring and wore one themselves. It was called the Boy Bride scandal.

I can't find anything except a pay newspaper story about it online and I can't link to Newspapers.com since it is a membership site. But if you have that service, you might check out the stories. I particularly liked one sentence that read: "The boys themselves do not seem to be the type that come from underprivileged homes."

In fact, it was one the little whores who blew the whistle on the whole enterprise.

R149 That sounds shocking similar to what happened in Boise, Idaho in the 1950s. On Amazon Prime you can watch this very low tech documentary called “The Fall of ‘55” that is heartbreaking how the town was torn apart and lives ruined by the hysteria that occurred around it.

[quote] I lost my ass-ginity

Ha! Love this, R143.

I also lost my assginity at 21, to a guy in his late 50s, a sexy Iranian/Persian man covered in beautiful thick salt and pepper hair. Could not have picked a more perfect man for the first to fuck me. He was gentle at the right points, but also knew when to pick up the pace. I've had a handful of really amazing experiences with much older men, and he was one of the guys at the top of that list. (The other was the 6'6" lawyer daddy who was just....fantasy personified.)

Yep R150 just like that. I remember a book about that case called The Boys From Boise!

R149, here's an article about the "Boy Brides" scandal. Paywalled, but you can buy a day pass and read it for a dollar

Sister Mary Nagatha Prisspot is back with her ruler.

The Boys of Biose! Escandaloso!

R155 Never heard about that before. How horrifying it must have been for those men to have their dirty laundry waived in the public eye.

Still a PERV THREAD....Now talking about "boy orgies"....Some sicko stuff...

R111 is the plot of a 1980s Mike Henson/Kevin Williams porn video.

R151, see R121.

R158 you sure know your 80s porn

R158 = What happened to Kevin Williams and Mike Henson...Does anyone know..Kevin did several videos...

R159 and...? I don't understand

R151, the movie you are talking about was already brought up (and even named) at R121. I was just pointing that out.

R161 Henson died of an OD. I think Williams went into real estate.

I come across that part of whatever video it's in online from time to time, R160

You're confused R163. I wasn't talking about any movie at R151.

R164 =Thanks...

There's a recent book out on Norman Douglas of South Wind fame, who in later life found the company of anyone over the age of 12 somewhat tiresome. I find the company of anyone under 30 tiresome, but it may be interesting. He certainly had a life and a half.

Sister Mary Nagatha Prisspot just saw R167's posted and shat herself.

^Says Uncle NAMBLA

R168 = Attacks the people offended by BOY ORGY posts. But has no complaints with the BOY ORGY posts. FYI did you think you blocked me?....Oh, you sad fool...Nice try though.......R169 you are spot on....Good work...

R151, my sincere apologies. I meant R158, not R151. My eyes are old and tired from watching all that 80s porn.

My older history professor was very flirty with me when I was in college. I was about 20 and he was 45.

After a semester of that, I gave in and let him fuck me.

One of the most amazing nights of my life.

R131 - Jodie Foster’s “Foxes” answers that LA question.

LOL....I've never been with a man younger than 30 - not even when I **was** younger than 30 - but sure, call me Uncle Nambla.

This shrieking prisspot is such a profoundly dumb cunt.

Talking about a lived experience we had as teenagers does not make anyone, in any way, at any time, a pedo or member of Nambla.

When I was 21 I went to the home of a guy in his late 40's He was a pretty good kisser but right before he asked if I wanted to suck his tiny cocklet his 70 something yr old mother was toddling around. "Donny is that you? Who is your friend?." The mood was gone. He gave me a ride home and we made out in his car for a bit. When I gave my mom the condensed version and told her his name she said he was her high school prom date. (Canned sitcom laughter)

I was groomed and abused by an much older man starting when I was 15.

The experience turned out to be horrible and damaging.

Thanks, Captain Buzzkill.

One of the boy brides from Pennsylvania was Lloyd Thompson who gave evidence against THREE men, including a lawyer, a bank VP, and local theatre director (Lloyd was in a production of THE COUNTRY GIRL directed by the guy)....and he was 21 when he testified - 19/20 when the events happened.

The only photo I could find of him in the local paper was when he played on the high school football team.....very tall with a short haircut and nice smile......

I'm sorry, R176.

Many of the stories shared here are by those of us who desired contact and were choosing to pursue it, but it's terrible when you are dealing with unwanted contact.

I never dealt with any of that, but I knew people who did. We had a youth group that was supposed to be a junior Masons sort of thing but it was very much a hotbed of older men looking for inappropriate contact. And the structure of the organization encouraged it, to the point where the teenage boys in the group were instructed to call the adult male mentors "Dad." HELLO!

"One of the boy brides from Pennsylvania was Lloyd Thompson who gave evidence against THREE men, including a lawyer, a bank VP, and local theatre director (Lloyd was in a production of THE COUNTRY GIRL directed by the guy)....and he was 21 when he testified - 19/20 when the events happened."

WTF? 19 isn't even underage.....so were they just targeting these guys for being gay?

R172 details, bitch!

You see that on blogs where gay guys share their first sexual experiences—there’s always some virtual signaling self righteous queen who will keep trolling the thread with shrieks about it being/promoting inappropriate contact with minors.

Sharing that your first sexual experience while a teen is not being some kind of stealth pedo. No one is condoning predatory behavior, unwanted sexual behavior, or abuse, but it wasn’t always so black and white before the internet and when being gay wasn’t as socially acceptable. Lines were blurrier, and today I would say no adult should be having sex with a minor, ever. But I also remember being a horny teen who was attracted to adult men more than guys my own age, and would have jumped at the chance.

IMO a lot of the prisspottery here is people judging the past with present day awareness and realities.

[quote] You see that on blogs where gay guys share their first sexual experiences

What blogs are these?

I’ve been on forums where I remember guys talking about their first sexual experiences and how it affected them. I don’t know any in particular. I do remember there were books about men and their sex lives pre-Internet like Men In Love. The author who compiled these interviews is dead so no way to cancel her. Sorry.

I think because of misogyny and the history of sexual abuse by men, all male sexual behavior has ended up maligned and treated as somehow exploitative/predatory/perverse. So if man says he’s lost his virginity at sixteen, for example, instead of merely accepting that as his lived experience, somehow he’s indirectly affirming.or promoting underage sex. It’s a dumb conflation, and ultimately undermines the important work of addressing real systemic sexual abuse.

R182, I'd say the bigger problem is gay Republicans who use "virtue signaling" as an insult. The people who use that term are the same GOP assholes who think all gays are pedophiles

I’m so bored with the notion that everyone who is not a PC baby is a Republican. Get over yourself r185.

r186, if you aren't a Republican why are you using Republican talking points? Find a new argument that you didn't borrow from Tucker Carlson.

R187 Tucker didn't invent "virtue signaling." I wasn't aware he had said it, but were we all supposed to stop saying it once he did?

There are resources for victims of Pervs and Pedos. Get help if you need it...Link...

R188, Republicans invented it to sneer at liberals.

Yeah, my priest used to fuck the shit out of me all the time and then pass me around to his priest buddies. Stopped just before my senior year. Guess they got tired of me.

I was young in the AOL days and knew that if I talked to a guy over 40, he would be an easy yes.

So, instead of endless chatting with guys my age, I’d chat up the older one and had tons of tons of great sex.

Later, when I started hooking up with guys my own age, I realized how good the older guys were—no fumbling. So I decided to only do older guys and that’s I’ve continued to do since.

Hot r192

LOL. R192 reminded me of an encounter I had when I was in grad school in Columbus. I was 26 and was chatting with a 20 year old in an AOL chat room, then by private messenger. He wanted to meet up, but did not have a car, so he asked me to pick him up. It wasn't far away, maybe ten minutes, and he gave me precise directions. It was pretty late -- maybe 12:30 AM -- and he said he would be waiting for me outside.

I rolled up to a house in a suburban neighborhood. He was waiting outside with a backpack on, and his MOM! I should have driven off, but I was horny. As he hopped into my car, his mom leaned down to eye me and said she had my license plate number in case anything happened to her son. Then she kissed him on the cheek and wished him "a fun time." Weirdest thing ever, but I did take him to my apartment. It wasn't bad.

Lol r194 that’s so weird. I would die of embarrassment if my parents sent me off to get fucked with a brown bag lunch like that.

I did mess around with a 19 year old when I was 26 who wanted to bring me home to his parents’ house. I declined and said it was either my apartment or nothing.

r194 Was the kid's name Oedipus?

R195 - in my late 40s I had a steady FB relationship with a college senior - he very much wanted to invite me to his graduation party, but I told him that wouldn’t be a good idea.

No but his will has.

^^ fuck bud not Facebook.

R197 aww that’s kind of sweet.

Well, I was leered at by a guy who must have been at least 80, at the Twin Peaks saloon, aka "The Glass Coffin", on the afternoon of a Monday holiday.

The one time a guy who was younger wanted to hook up, he was newly 18 and I told him I'd need to check his ID. He declined.

R202 Lol! I actually did check the ID with the 19 year old. He was adorable but he looked so young. He was indeed of age and he topped me that night.

I was a 15 year old Boy Scout on a camping trip in Wisconsin.

Alone in my tent because my tent-mate had come down with a fever that very day.

Suddenly the tent flap was ripped to one side, and Kent Black, the 18 year old Eagle Scout crawled in.

We spent all night together, and during that time he taught me everything I know about knot-tying, wood-carving, and how to light a fire.

Thanks to him I have many merit badges now.

R200 - it was very sweet. He’s a lawyer now and we’re still in touch.

I want to hear more about Kent the Eagle Scout and his handling of wood.

So many ILLEGAL molestation acts in one DL thread. It's really Sick.

R207 is typing one handed as she furiously flicks her clit faster than a boxer training with a speed bag.

Lol. Miss R207 be like

R208 = Is offended by ME (R207) but not the BOY ORGY posters...By the way--R176 you are a hero. Sorry you have to relive your abuse in this thread.

R207 was 46 when she finally lost her virginity.

Bump

R211 = Where do you stand on the BOY ORGY posters? I know you must have an opinion. Don't claim that was a story about someone sharing their youthful experience because it was not--it was perverse. ....But you find me offensive?....You really need better material...

At the start of my legal career, I worked briefly as an opinion writer for a married federal administrative law. One of my female colleagues shared with me her observation that this older man - more than twice my age - seemed to suddenly take greater interest in his appearance once I started. But before anything was said or done, I left to take another job.

In college I worked in a Bar. Although they had "gay night," that didn't stop men from subtly flirting with me on the other nights, and I'm not flamboyant.

The more they drank the less subtle they became with the flirting.

I was 20. The average age of the guys was 40 - 45 but some were a lot older. Many numbers were slipped to me.

Although dating customers wasn't prohibited, the manager frowned on it. I had a boyfriend at the time, so I wasn't gonna accept the offers anyway.

Hot r215. It sounds like you were a pretty hot young thing. What kind of things did they say/do? Did anyone ever say or do anything that gave you a chub, or were they just all kinda gross messy drunks?

Some short, prick of an asshole was always after me trying to get me to come to his apartment to “checkout his camera.” He was after me so much my friends were teasing me (in the naive 80s). He Tried intimidating me to visit him, and i just ignored him or laughed. If I saw him now,and he even looked my way he would get fucked up, like I’d kick in his teeth. Now that I’m an adult I know what that MF was up to and I hope he isn’t bothering other kids (if he is still alive).

And the camera was probably a Polaroid Swinger......

Bump

R197 story of my 40s too.

I am generally oblivious to being cruised. (Well, I was. Now I'm too old to get cruised so it doesn't matter whether I would notice.)

So there may have been a few older men that were interested but I was too dumb to notice or pick up on the signals. And i was definitely interested in older men when I was very young.

But the one I absolutely remember was the older guy - maybe late 30s or even early 40s - that picked me up hitchhiking. He was blatantly interested.

And I was still too scared and stupid to take advantage of the situation. I regret it to this day because I think it would have changed my life.

R221 Um, you’re lucky he wasn’t a creeper. What did he say to make it so blatant?

When I was in my college years and closeted, there were definitely these older men who were in to me. And it creeped me out and made me sad I couldn't attract any hotties my age, only these sad old queens (speaking as one myself now). I never did anything with them.

R222

The short version would be that he asked me if I knew what a blow job was and had I ever had one. I said no - even though I sort of had (fumbling attempts with a friend at a younger age). He then asked me if I'd like to try getting one. That was pretty blunt.

It was a 30 minute drive so there was lots more talk, some of which was very sexual and would make some people here rabid. But to my regret, I stymied anything that would have happened.

I never thought of it as creepy. Then or now, when everyone has gone hysterical. It still doesn't bother me and I think - for me, and I'm only speaking for myself - it would have been a positive experience.

I came out in the early 70's, in the midwest. I was 16. There were not lots of easy opportunities for sex. But I knew that there were older men who liked underaged boys. So I went looking for them.

They were not hard to find. They quickly tipped their hand as to their interest. And if I was interested, I did not hesitate to let them know. I was not old enough, nor mature enough, to fully appreciate the complexities of these encounters. But I did know they were not so complex for me, while being extremely complex for the older men. With wives. And jobs. And kids. And secrets they were desperate to maintain. I knew there was some risk, but I knew that the risk of prison was all theirs. I wasn't interested in causing them any trouble, so they were lucky they found me. It could have ended differently for them.

Anyway, I got laid. Some of the guys were very nice to me and we became friends. Others were not. That's okay, too. I grew and I learned. No one got found out and sent to prison. I never was subpoenaed to testify in a divorce proceeding.

My life changed rapidly at that moment in history, because I was young. Theirs usually did not, because they were finished being young and many of their choices had been made. I was soon out of high school, then off to college, then when that was done, I was out of the midwest, drawn into my own future. Most of them are probably still back there. Dead or alive, I couldn't say. On the whole, their interest in me was just what I needed at the time. I suppose my interested in them was what they needed, too. I know I learned from them not to cave to family or societal pressure. Those guys, and their bad marriages and lonely lives, helped build my conviction to be a strong and proud out gay man. I owe them for that.

“I have always depended on the kindness of strange older men.”

LOL.

Well... maybe not the strange ones.

She handed me a heart shaped locket that said "To thine own self be true" And I shivered as I watched a roach crawl across The toe of my high heel shoe It sounded like somebody else, it was talkin' Askin', "mama, what do I do?" She said, "just be nice to the gentlemen, Fancy They'll be nice to you"

[Quote] What kind of things did they say/do? Did anyone ever say or do anything that gave you a chub, or were they just all kinda gross messy drunks?

As they slid me their numbers and cards, some would make comments about my looks, my body and graphic descriptions of what they'd like to do with me. Occasionally there was some uncomfortable staring at me and looking me up and down. No messy drunks though.

I had done some amateur modeling as a teen, so I have a look some seem to go for. I wasn't a gym rat, but I did work out sometimes. However, I was 20 so everything was sitting tight and right. lol

And yes I walked around with a chub most of the time. It didn't take much. lol

I worked with a couple older guys (late 30s) who were like big brothers. They showed me the ropes on how to not get in trouble working in the bar.

1. Stay behind the bar as much as possible;

2. If customers approach you other places in the bar, walk and talk;

3. Avoid physical contact and never let them hug you (that's a common ploy to feel your body or grind on you). Plus many drunks love to hug - and hold on for uncomfortably long periods of time.

4. Don't agree to meet them outside of work.

I followed the rules and never had any problems. I never even ran into any of those people outside of work. My life was 100% at the University on the other side of town when I wasn't working.

The customers were really nice though for the most part. I did not have much in common with these older guys. A few asked me about my schooling but mostly they just talked about themselves and their life choices. At 20 I didn't have any pearls of wisdom for them so I would just smile and sorta listen to them when I could.

I got great tips!

Etiam mel!

What's that statue?

When I was in college, I dated a half dozen guys in their early 30s to early 40s. Some would even pick me up at my dorm or spend the night there! (Sophomore year I had a single room.) I thought these guys were so great at the time - they were all professionals, lawyers, architects, advertising execs - but now that I'm the 40 professional I realize how weird this way. I have absolutely no interest in any 18 or 19 year old and even the thought of picking up a date at their dorm room is mortifying!

I taught English in Japan one summer and met this fellow American guy at a disco. I was 19 and he must have been late 30s. He was married and had a kid, but he had shipped them off to LA for the summer, like many expats do. He was obviously well off and on an expat package, as he had a house in Tokyo. He invited me over to dinner and we ate then went to watch a movie on his big screen TV (this was the 80s, so it was one of those giant, boxy ones that were a status symbol). He told me he liked massages and asked me if I wanted to try. I said sure. I was instructed to take my clothes off and lie on my back, in my underwear. Of course I got a raging hard on and he asked me to massage him too. One thing led to another. I wasn't very experienced but we had great sex. I came over a few times after that, but he was so closeted and obviously gay, even though he told me he was bi. He would make me buy condoms and lube because he was too afraid to be seen buying them (even though Tokyo is a big city). I stopped taking his calls after a while because he became such a drag, with his closeted bullshit. I wasn't exactly super out at the time either, but he was so annoying.

After that, I spent the rest of the summer whoring around Tokyo. I had some good times with some older Japanese men (40s) I had met at some bars too.

R225 Great post. I probably had a lot of similarities in my experience. There was a long stretch in my younger days where most of my contacts were married men.

I've had conversations about whether I felt it was cheating, but so many of them were married to a woman and living a lie at the time. I figured having a pleasant session with a hot married guy might save him from going out to a bathhouse. Maybe that was naive.

I think of some of these men now, more than I probably should. The married Big 10 linebacker who looked sort of like a beefy Andy Samberg, and his uncut cock (my first). The tall lawyer who played - and really was - the perfect daddy. The nerdy adorkable dad who looked like Phil from Modern Family - and pulled out one of the biggest lollipop cocks I've seen, before or since. The married stoner dude who was insanely hairy and loved it when I sucked him off while he was driving.

It wasn't meaningful but it some ways it wasn't casual. It had some meaning to me.

Biden once groped me.

Years ago, I was at a conference at a hotel. We were divided into smaller groups to discuss certain topics.

I was sitting next to an old, fat, gross guy. From my questions, he realized I was gay. Then he started whispering, "Come up to room," "I'll do you now," and on and on.

I completely ignored him and feigned ignorance.

“We’ll fast forward to a few years later and no one knows except the both of us…”

I chatted up a polite grocery clerk at my local Stop & Shop. He works into the conversation that he was raised by a single mom.

I always wonder why guys drop that into a first conversation.

I do know that as I get older people just give you a creepy weird look if you say more than hello to someone younger. I never thought I'd age into this group.

But...here we are.

R236 how on earth did your questions reveal that you were gay?

R231 OMFG Helen Keller! That is not a statue at R230 it is a fantasy image made in photoshop.

R240 Me-ow!!!!

This is why I avoid casual conversations with a lot of younger people, both male and female, gay and straight. The assumption is always that if you make conversation or casually chat with someone, your only motive is romantic or sexual. Even common courtesy is seen as a come on. It’s unfortunate.

I bet young people avoid conversations with you since you seem to make absurd generalizations about "young people" (which in dataloungeland generally means anyone under 60)

[quote]Even common courtesy is seen as a come on. It’s unfortunate.

Oh, you don't know the half of it. Just ask Kevin Spacey.

R238, No dear, it's just that everyone can see you licking your lips and rubbing your hard on as you talk to them. Just stop.

R239, I wondered the same thing.

R236, Unless your job involves you actually having sex with someone, how can strangers determine your sexual orientation during a professional and work related discussion simply based on questions you ask?

Are you a porn star? Were your questions to the group seeking recommendations for the best brands of lube for you to use when the scene involves your partner penetrating you?

One of the most incredible things I've ever witnessed was when I shared a car with a friend to drive somewhere (can't remember where), and the other person in the car was a friend of theirs -- a VERY handsome square-jawed guy with laser blue eyes and a killer sex drive, who had sex several times a day, and found it anywhere and everywhere.

He had a huge cock as well as the looks, so even just pulling it out at a toilet or public swimmingpool changing room usually made even the straightest guys eyes widen, which would lead to one thing and another.

Anywaaaay -- we pull up at this garage and my friend goes into the shop to get some food, and I'm just sitting there in my usual daze, and I suddenly glanced at him, and he's staring out the window looking at this teenage kid sitting alone in a station wagon, and he's mouthing slowly to him "I want to fuck you so hard... I want to stick my big " etc etc...his big juicy lips rolling the words silently and lascviously. I was stunned. When I first turned my head I could see that the kid was shocked and horrified, and he looked away. But then he looked back as if he couldn't believe his eyes. He looked back again. And suddenly he's laughing, and then he's grinning, and pretty soon he's clearly getting turned out. All this in a matter of minutes. It was absolutely extraordinary. Suddenly the car door opens and my friend is back with his food, and we drive off. But it was like: my God. If that's just a minutes in this guy's day, what would a few hours be like?! Exhausting for 99% of the planet I'd wager!

Orville Redenbacher once goosed me.

R247, I'd wager you're wrong about him being too exhausting. But I could be wrong. And you could win.

So it would be in your interest to let us know where we can find this wondrous guy.

R247 some men just have that gift. I knew a bottom that could literally convince any man he wanted to fuck him. It was unbelievable.

Told this before on here. Was my Dad's best friend. I was 18. Parents had a 25th anniversayr party, I was bored he offered to drive me home. He was a big swarthy italian guy, very good looking nicely built. Ride home he asks me about dating life, which leads to more sexual questions etc. We got to my house and he asked to use the bathroom. It was a split level with one bathroom. My room was right across from it. He goes in to take a piss, door open, I get changed. As I get undressed I turn to see him holding a nine inch hardon and looking at me. I walked into the bathroom. He took my hand and put it on his cock. He kissed me and when he put his tongue in my mouth, that was it. He could have fisted me and I would not have cared. He fucked me, sucked me, I sucked him, it was fucking amazing. My luck he died of a heart attack two weeks later.

You killed him, R251. You are too much for a man to handle.

R251 so hot until he sucked you.

r252 nah, it was a 100% blockage on his carotid artery. that killed him. I was really bummed because he told me we could do it again if I wanted. r253 you can pretend he didn't. I spent way more time sucking his dick than he did on mine. Honestly I think it was just to get my legs up so he could fuck me.

I was molested.

R251/R254

Can you give some background on that story? Was he gay? Was he married? Had you ever gotten any signals before? How long had you known him? Were you out? Did he know you were gay?

You know. All the interesting details. The color commentary, so to speak. Unless you want to get more detailed about the sex. That would be okay, too.

(It's such a great story. I'm only a little envious.)

R251 that’s a Nifty story!

R251 He doesn't sound like very much of a friend to your dad, much less a "BEST" friend. I cannot imagine someone's friend creeping on their kid even though you were "legal."

That would mean he probably watched you grow up. He sounds like a fucking pedo! 18 is still pretty young. That's fucking creepy. I bet your dad woulda beat his ass!

r251 here - Okay some background. He was never around that much, my dad sort of did his own thing (hence the impending divorce later in life). The first time I met him (the bff) he was in the living room when I came home from football practice. I showered and came out in my shorts and he made a comment about my legs (they are pretty muscular still). I knew of him, but never met him till then. He was hot to me. I was not out but smiled when he complimented me and he smiled back. I never thought anything of it. At the anniversary party which was probably 4-5 months later, he re-introduced himself, but that was really it. As the night went on, my older brother took off to go be with his GF and I was bored. My dad was going to take me home and come back when he offered to take me since he said he was leaving as well. I still remember his truck, it was a chevy s10 a smaller truck so we sat pretty close to each other. We made small talk but he had a permanent smile on his face as he looked at me. He even reached over and squeezed my thigh saying "yep still muscular" or something stupid. I am pretty sure my dad knew I was gay and probably confided in this guy. i was ready to explode at 17. If it was not him, it would have been some random at a bookstore or something. I was happy it was him because he was pretty patient and let me explore what I wanted to do.

George Burns once hit on me.

Hot r259

Tina Louise once hit on me - she's not a man, but she sure was older. Oh, and Jon Polito - he fits the bill.

I chatted up the kid at my Stop & Shop again today. I'm by the deli and he's holding a thermometer -- I swear to God I'm not making this up. He says he has a new job to check temperatures throughout the store.

He holds it up and says to me, "I'm sticking this thing in everywhere."

He's either naive or sees me as safe (oh, yay!)

Or Both.

Aww r263 he sounds sweet.

R264, he is. I really think he is. I don't think he knew what he was saying and I didn't react.

I think I said oh, it's good that you're learning new stuff here. He is sweet.

And I am too; people told me that for years.

Actually, it's now been decades so...the math means it never goes anywhere beyond chatting in public.

I was so unlucky in love. I should have tried more and I suppose there's a small window to try and crawl through.

Methuselah once cruised me.

[quote]And I am too; people told me that for years.

Utter self-defeating bullshit. If guys you are pursuing tell you that you're too old, you got just what you wanted. Rejection.

I'm 65 and and have guys in their 20's and 30's pursuing me. It's not about money. They want some attention and some encouragement and someone to champion them as they are embarking on their lives. It's a difficult time. And stressful. Young guys are constantly competing with each other for all the resources they need in life. But a 30+ gap in ages means we do not compete for anything. The expectations are very different.

I'm not looking to marry or adopt any of them. But I value their friendship. They value mine. And if, along the way, they want a little daddy action, that's fine, too. No one is harmed. The closeness and caring is real. You just have to remember that the age difference is also real.

A date with another geezer is very different. I like those, too. There's room for both, if you open yourself to the possibility of being cared about and accepted.

🙄

R263, can you please ask him if he ever used to work at Lowe’s?

A lot of older homosexual men make the same mistake that a lot of older heterosexual men make.

A significant age gap presents unique challenges and the larger the age gap, the larger the challenges will likely be.

Most really young people do not know who they are or what they want. They've got wild oats to sew and mistakes THEY MUST MAKE.

Although a younger person may show you deference in some respects there are also times they will ignore your advice and make dumb decisions because there are things they don't know or because they are stubborn and want to feel like an adult.

There is also money they don't have. They may not be gold diggers, but they will need money they don't have and sometimes it will be because they wasted it. These things all can cause stress to someone older and wiser.

Love nor Lust are "rational" emotions. But going in as an older person with life experience you must be the one to know things may not be everything you want it to be because of the age gap, and be ok with that.

Live in a small town with a boarding school. Recently on Grindr a kid from the school, who is a PG, meaning he is between 18-19, has been trying to hook with me. I have told him I am not interested, mainly because I used to work there and because I still have a lot of friends at the school. We have talked several times and I asked him why me, he said I love older guys and would rather spend time with them than kids my age. He said he has hooked up with tons of guys in the area and that they often pick him up down town so they don't know he is from the school.

Just ignore him. At that age they move on quickly. You are making the right choice by steering clear.

*sow. [They need an edit button]

When I was in college, a very handsome man was my English prof. Rumor was her was gay. He seemed really flirty, but it was just part of his personality.

Fast forward 5 years, I see him in a bathhouse. We played for an hour when he played with my ass until I was shaking with pleasure—the first time I had ever experienced the joys of ass fingering.

He had no clue who I was and I didn’t tell him.

R274 hot.

R274 I had a similar experience with a hot guy who used to play basketball with my dad when I was little. I had seen him a few times as a kid and there is an old photo of him in a photo album at our house. I definitely know what he looks like. I did not see him anymore since we eventually moved to a different part of town.

Fast forward about 8 years when I'm home on break from college and see him cruising at a porn theater one night.

He had no idea who I was but I knew who he was. He was even hotter than before! I woulda blew him, but he made the move on me. He blew me. I came hard and left quickly. One of the best blowjobs of my life!

Lame r276

I don't know when I was younger I was fairly oblivious. Had younger, my age, and older men try to get in my pants. But the thing about me is this: I'm the one who pursues. Since they didn't pursue me I wasn't interested. Finally met my now spouse when I was 28 and the rest is history.

Sure. I considered it my civic duty to have sex with older men, the uglier and older the better. But they always took it wrong.

Lol r279

I blew a very well hung neighborhood dad behind the adult bookstore.

Now, to be clear: his family lived a block over so it wasn't like we saw them all the time, but I did see them at Halloween and took a ceramics class from his aunt. He wouldn't have known me the second he saw me.

The area behind the bookstore was known for cruising and I used to wait out there. He pulled up and I knew who it was immediately. He was tall and blond with gray. A little Matthew McConaghey type - not that kind of movie star pretty but sorta handsome, tall, a little skinny.

And then he pulled out this massive fucking dong and I was in pig heaven. I slurped on him like his cum was cash and the rent was due yesterday. He made lots of hot noises and blasted in my mouth. I swallowed and sat up.....

....and it was only THEN that he said, "Oh fuck, you're XXX's son aren't you?" I calmed him down, confirmed I was over 18 and that I wouldn't say a thing.

Sadly it never happened again and my dreams of having him fuck me (or die trying) never came to fruition. But I still remember him shooting like a hose!

R281 hot story!!!

[quote] I slurped on him like his cum was cash and the rent was due yesterday.

That’s a great line. Had me roaring.

r281 You played it wrong. You should have blackmailed him to fuck you.

An old fart used to chase me and my friends around. He looked like Mr. Haney (from Green Acres) elderly brother. He walked weird too, so we called him “high knee kicker” and would run when he came out or would try to capture us. He wanted us to go into his basement for some reason. His wife was usually home, but we still suspected high knee kicker was up to no good.

R284 Was this him?

R283 I was just in happy shock to see a guy I knew there, especially a "dad" (since I liked older men it was a bonus to me).

That family had four sons and I've wondered since then (25 years ago) if all of them were packing, too.

Damn, R281. Stop wondering and go find out!!!

R287 my old town is a Trumperland and even a room full of foot long dongs couldn't coax me back there

R284 the wife was completely innocent. She had no idea what he was up to. How dare you suggest otherwise?

I whored myself to every old man who looked my way because my own daddy didn't love me.

Some of the best hookups I;ve had were with older men. LOVE THEM!

I had this old guy take an interest in me. Worst mistake of my life

R290 do you think you need to go right to the source of your problem and get more love from your own daddy?

His own daddy had too small a peen

R293 Other than being an extreme homophobe, he's also now passed on, so that is never going to happen.

Don't worry though, I met a nice older man and he convinced me to stop the whoring.

R295 how much older? Do you ever call him “daddy” during sex?

R296 he is 16 years older than me.

Oddly enough, some older men do not like younger lovers to call them daddy. He is one of those.

So I don't call him daddy, ever.

I do sometimes think it though. 😂

Hot r297

[quote] Oddly enough, some older men do not like younger lovers to call them daddy. He is one of those.

I have two daddy FBs. One likes my saying it and the other hates it. I have to keep it straight.

Thanks, R150. I'd never heard of this. It is a very interesting documentary.

[quote] When I was in my college years and closeted, there were definitely these older men who were in to me. And it creeped me out and made me sad I couldn't attract any hotties my age, only these sad old queens (speaking as one myself now).

Don't take it personally. People try to punch above their weight class when it comes to "dating."

[quote] People try to punch above their weight class when it comes to "dating."

Or in the case of most DL fatties, below.

If you want to know more, R300....

We had a pervert old man science teacher who would cop feels. He did not discriminate over gender, race or any other variables. He got me when I was bent over a table working on a science experiment. Ran his hand up my taint to my hole. We all just laughed about it when assaulted, and said what a pervert and freak. He died not long ago and I saw some people older than me saying what a great teacher he was. Right.

R304 It is always the gross guys who are the pervs.

I remember in my HS there was this fat queenly old prick of a teacher always making inappropriate comments to me. After a while I just started giving him mean looks and then he moved on to say that shit to other guys.

My gym teacher was just the opposite. He was fit, gorgeous and super nice. He would always look me in the eye, smile and say encouraging things as he placed his hand on my shoulder (not in a creepy way) but it always gave me a boner. LOL

[quote] He would always look me in the eye, smile and say encouraging things as he placed his hand on my shoulder (not in a creepy way)

It's automatically not creepy when you're attracted to them

HOT r305

Bump

Ok I know this sounds like a crazy question, but I keep seeing "BUMP" in threads. What does that mean?

R309 reply to push a thread you’re interested in back to the top of the board to get more responses.

Thanks!

And it also adds it to your watch list on the right side of the page.....although you could just click the eyeball.

The guy with the biggest cock I’ve ever seen is a frequent visitor to the bathhouse in Troy, NY (next to Albany). He’s a Star there, of course. He’s older (Im thinking 60’s) but is quite handsome and has a nice body.

When I first got there, he invited me into a cubical but I thought his cock would kill me. I spend the next few hours as he made bottom after bottom come but them hard. I was so turned on, I acquiesced and let him fuck me.

I told him I had never taken anything that big and to please be gentle. He slowed everything down and I can only now describe that time with him a making love. Deep kissing, light massaging, eating my ass until I almost came—by the time he entered me, I was begging for it. I can’t believe I was able to that that entire cock. It wasn’t totally comfortable but now I want it again.

Go back on Sunday afternoon. He is usually there then.

R313 hot. How long ago was this?

R314, nice that others on here have experienced him. I haven’t been to the bathhouse since COVID, almost two years ago. Have you been back recently? How is it?

I was 18...he was 39...and my dentist.

R317 did he tell you to open wide?

No r318...but he wanted to drill my hole real bad.

R316... The RSC got a renovation a few months before covid started. New floors throughout. Everything freshly painted. New furniture in the lounge area. If you haven't been back in a few years, it looks better than the last time you saw it. Much better.

Proof of vaccination is required for entry, which is very good. Sunday is still the busiest day. In the early Sunday afternoon, every room is in usally taken.

Troy is not a gay vacation destination, so the RSC will never compete with baths in Fort Lauderdale or Palm Springs. But it serves fairly well the guys who live in eastern New York, southern Vermont, and western Massachusetts. Drop in and suck some dick!

R320 what exactly goes on in there? I'll never get to experience it.

Its a den of iniquity populates by fornicators and other sinners.

STICK IT IN MY NO NO HOLE

R321, Sex, Rose

R324 But like.... how? And where?

R320, I first went to RSC about 5-6 years ago when I started traveling for work to Albany.

If you go the right times, RSC has a great mix of young college boys and older, married types. For some reason, the guys in Albany have some of the biggest cocks I’ve ever seen anywhere. It’s just odd that every second guy has a massive dong—even the guys in Albany that I meet on the apps.

I loved hooking up with one guy who was always there. Sadly he moved to Ft Lauderdale. Another guy I will never forget is one of the handsomest men I’ve ever seen—bearded, auburn hair all over his body, great hole to play with, sucks like a Hoover. I came three times with him. He used to be on Manhunt, but I can’t find him on the apps anymore.

Lots of very nice, sexy men with not too much attitude.

RSC is small but clean and hopping.

Are there any oriental gentlemen at RSC?

Yes, R327.

[quote] he invited me into a cubical

Oh, dear.

Carbuncle?

Is the old guy with the big dick still in RSC? I need a good plow.

What is RSC?

Well... It could be the Royal Shakespeare Company. But in this case it is not.

The reference above is to the River Street Club in Troy, NY. The only bath house in the area.

There was an older man that used to be at the bookstore next to Flex in Cleveland every single weekend. He looked sort of like JK Simmons, had to be in his fifties....and had a gravity defying huge pendulous cock, at least 10.

His thing was to either be watched or to have you fuck yourself, essentially, on his dick. Lots of work but quite a reward!

r334 at the bookstore or at flex? How long ago was this?

Benjamin Franklin gave me a hand job.

R320 - With things normalizing I’m going to need to get up to Albany for work a few times this winter — when in your experience were good times to go to the RSC other than Sunday afternoons?

During the day. The RSC was closed due to covid for a year and a half. During that time, it lost all its staff.

It has reopened with a reduced schedule, with plans to expand as the skills and staff members are restored. It's closed Monday and Tuesday. Also, for the time being, it's closing at 8 pm. So... days.

RSC = River Side Club, the bathhouse in Troy, right next to Albany, NY

R335 at the bookstore. It's been a while. I think Flex shut down years ago but he was there for years.

Methuselah once said, "come in here boy and let me fuck your ass." I said "no," and ran away!

[quote]Was an older man ever interested in you?

Good Lawd, how could anyone ask me such a question?

That's like asking has Louis DeJoy fucked-up the U.S. Postal Service?

An old hobo once gave me a gum job.

R343 Did you cum or did he just exploit you on twitter?

R344 - The old bum gave me the best orgasm of my life.

And then he ghosted me.

R345 You got what you needed from him and he got the thrill of sucking some younger dick! Fair exchange?

I must admit, old men give the best blow jobs!

I guess experience matters? LOL

Glad to hear RSC is open again. In NYC WSC has closed permanently. I don't know if ESC is open. The pickin's have always been slim in NYC when it comes to baths.

r347 we know...and people say NJ smells.

Where do guys in NYC go to experience orgies of all the baths are closed? Organized sex parties?

Where do I find out about them??

Group in NYC called the Bear Parties. Sex gatherings. Vaccination required.

i had been cruising guys / having sex approx a year but not out..... had fantastic sex in a park/ exchanged phone numbers and continued to see this mid 40s psych professor, married with two kids that spring..... he came to visit me in Colorado at a summer job in July. this was 1976. I was 24... so old enough to consent, but in every other way very naive. Great sex, but the biggest regret is that it made getting married and having DL sex on the side with guys acceptable, a turn on. Guess what...I got married and had two kids. 40 years later I find out he died of HIV from a professor who worked with him. I sure would have liked to talk to him again.

OMG! This is a DeFugTurd's pedo thread!!!

Defacto/Dejure didn't sign this thread, but he claims to ALWAYS sign his posts.

And now he's red-tagged AGAIN! YAY!!!!!!!!!!

Hugh Downs once told me I had a squeezable ass.

r354

R355 needs to fuck itself with a rusty pipe

r356

William Hickey once gave me a hickey.

R358.

I was once mauled by Karl Malden (at the mall.)

When I was 19 (I looked 15) this man who looked like Ernest Borgnine cruised me as I stood by the urinals in what was basically an abandoned Sears Men's Restroom.

He nodded for me to come into his Stall.

When I complied, we made out. He asked me to blow him, but I was too scared since I never did anything like that before.

He stuck his finger in my mouth and then shoved his wet finger up my ass. I let out a yelp. He covered my mouth with his big hairy hand.

Then he replaced his hand with his mouth as he kissed me. He continued to finger me with one hand as he jacked himself off with the other hand.

He grunted and then came all over the toilet seat. He pulled his finger outta my ass and shoved it in my face to make me smell it.

He then zipped up his pants, mumbled "fucking faggot" and walked out.

It was weird.

R361, this might seem weird, but I think that was my uncle.

R362 Did he do the same thing to you?

Yes, except after my ass, he shoved his finger up my nose.

R361 whoa. That’s scary. Why did you go along with it?

R365

I was young and dumb. Of course I never would allow someone to do that to me today.

Ted Koppel topped me.

Ted Nugent gave me a noogie.

Abe Vigoda, he-a rode-a my-a asshole.

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darling when i was 21 in hwood i had 3 of the best sugar daddys in the world, . a movie director, an art gallery owner and a famous record executive.......never had sex with them, i was so pretty they jus wanted to look at me and masturbate. i am now 74.....

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I was in my twenties. He was in his late forties. I became someone he could show off to his friends, an accessory, as it were, like an expensive watch. I loved him and I hated him. For the most part, he was good to me, except for the time he grabbed me by the neck when he thought I was cheating on him. (I wasn't)

He was often neglectful of the relationship, and we argued a lot. I stuck with him, and sometimes I wondered why. I must have a strong streak of masochism.

He was diagnosed with cancer, and lived only a month after the diagnosis. He willed everything to me.

R373 was me.

R373 was your sister's name Anna Nicole Smith?

Isn't Sondheim's partner 50 years younger than him?

There you go.

R376 Romley is a 41 year old Theater Queen who began acting the role of a lifetime when he married Sondheim in 2017.

Sondheim may have been 91 years old but he was worth a whopping 20 million dollars! You can buy manpussy of any age with that kinda dough!

R373 that’s hot.

Last night I met a 23 yr old who'd hitched up with a 42 year old who owns a quarter of a milliion acre farm. He talked about cattle feed while my eyes glazed. Then he said they're interested in having children. FFS.

They sound like a cute couple r379.

R341 you must be practically ancient

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Yeah, but I don't look it. I moisturize! 😜

R341 / R382

R383 Miss Vida was everything! LOVED that movie!

Eldergay future.

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I once flirted with and then went to the home of Louie Anderson (an obvious homosexual) in the middle of the night. I pretended to be shocked when he grabbed my ass. Although I enjoyed teasing him, I told him "NO." He was a perfect gentleman and even drove me home afterwards.

Twenty-five years later, because I'm a douchebag with a shitty career I decided to accuse him of being a creep and a pervert who tried to rape me! Unfortunately he is dead now so I can't torment him anymore!

DAMN!

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I was 14 years when Ghislaine say I com werk for her to enertane American bizness man. She say "Jeffery like yu". I werks for mani year, then she merry me to Trump and I be bestFfirs Laidee.

R337 were u able to make it to the RSC? Regale is with the tales of debauchery you witnessed.

Yes. I was 12. He say I live with him in Florida house. Uncle Matt is very nice with the white powder an the girl he tell me to get for him. He say I pay your tuitions for the shcool girls. Then he have pardy wih his fiends from the house of the representives. They come in suits an leave them on floor. I pik up and bring towel.

grateful for the attention...... the younger guys never knew what the hell was up.

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a subway cop took me into a cobweb filled toilet in the subway and let me blow him.....i was 19......twas damn good. hot irish stud bout 28...

I was a precocious teenager, let's just say that.

I won't give full details of all my escapades, but the summer of my senior year, I met a state senator through my youth group. I was supposed to be an assistant for him over the summer.

"Assisting" him was a little of this and that, but more than anything, it meant we had a lot of fun in the back of the car (well, bigger than a regular car, smaller than a limo) where he was driven from event to event.

He looked kinda like John Slattery. Worked for my daddy issues.

R361 sounds sorta disgusting but not unusual.

Some guys will act friendly when they're horny and get regretful after they shoot their load.

In my twenties I was walking home from work - I worked near a truck stop - and a group was walking by me - I'd stopped in a little wooded area on the side of the road. One of them was a really hot Latino guy, and he stopped to talk to me (the others went ahead). He tried a "have you found religion" tack with me so I told him I was gay, just wanting the conversation to be over. Then he got very excited and unzipped. (I know, this sounds Nifty, but it happened.)

Of course, the minute his load was in my mouth, he prayed for forgiveness and told me I should repent from sin.

Hilariously, as I was walking away, he was all "so...you want some more of this dick?" I waved and just kept walking.....

So yeah, guilt. Some guys will do weird shit because of it.

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[quote]R48 And now you have the temerity to come here, before The High Whores Of DL, and expect respect? How very dare you!

R38 hasn’t got that hard core, like us. She never learned to rooollll with the punters.

R399 😍😍😍😍😍 Caliente!

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only the DL queen priss pots would consider a 25 y.o. fucking a 45 y.o. a nambla thread

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