Demi Lovato has something they'd like you to know
[quote]Every day we wake up, we are given another opportunity & chance to be who we want & wish to be. I’ve spent the majority of my life growing in front of all of you… you’ve seen the good, the bad, & everything in between.
[quote]Not only has my life been a journey for myself, I was also living for those on the other side of the cameras.
[quote]Today is a day I'm so happy to share more of my life with you all- I am proud to let you know that I identify as non-binary & will officially be changing my pronouns to they/them moving forward
[quote]This has come after a lot of healing & self-reflective work. I’m still learning & coming into myself, & I don’t claim to be an expert or a spokesperson. Sharing this with you now opens another level of vulnerability for me.
[quote]I’m doing this for those out there that haven’t been able to share who they truly are with their loved ones. Please keep living in your truths & know I am sending so much love your way xox
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 93 | May 30, 2021 5:14 PM
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Ah, coming out as non binary, one of the sure signs that a career is on a rocketsled to hell.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | May 19, 2021 10:04 AM
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Why is she so desperate for attention? She's not untalented, but she's not as well know for her talent as she is for being a delusional media whore. Also, anyone willingly associating with Alok Vaid-Menon is an idiot.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | May 19, 2021 10:07 AM
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Only two coming outs? You gotta pump those numbers up; those are rookie numbers in this racket.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | May 19, 2021 10:11 AM
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I’m seriously curious what she thinks this means? What is the definition of it for her? The fucking fool and idiot.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | May 19, 2021 10:15 AM
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I seriously do not value a word that comes out of this idiot's mouth.
Isn't she a singer? Then just sing fattie and shut up about your boring concocted bullshit. Same goes for Sam Smith.
Both incredibly exhausting and bloated with their own false sense of self-importance.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | May 19, 2021 10:42 AM
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Ummm, I, like, obvs have had short hair for a couple of months now, r6? Have you ever seen a woman with short hair? No. No you haven’t. So, like, that’s what nonbinary means to me. Short hair. And, umm, attention.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | May 19, 2021 10:45 AM
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Related to this nonsense, I was contact traced by DC government yesterday and the first 10 minutes of the stupid interview were questions about my transgender status (I'm not) and non covid related issues. I actually felt sorry for the contact tracer who told me most people, including her colleagues, think these questions are a waste of time.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | May 19, 2021 10:49 AM
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The only natural progression for someone who tried to shut down a yogurt shop for making her feel bad by selling sugar free diet items. Nonbinary is just a synonym for narcissistic attention whore.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | May 19, 2021 10:54 AM
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Oh dear! With that hair we all saw this coming! They is stunning, they is brave! 😩
by Anonymous | reply 11 | May 19, 2021 10:59 AM
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I called it last month in the ‘Let’s be Demi Lovato’ thread. Reply 27.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 12 | May 19, 2021 11:08 AM
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They? She's certainly fat enough to be plural.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | May 19, 2021 11:47 AM
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She's clearly troubled, and I hope that she gets the help she needs and finds the sense of equilibrium that she obviously currently lacking. I mean her no malice, and wish her the best on this next stage of her journey.
But also: I just don't get it. At all. And I say this as a slightly femme gay man who teaches gender theory and who firmly believes that gender is a social construct and that it is not the same thing as biological sex. But I don't feel 'manly'. I honestly don't know what 'feeling like a man' means, or how one might 'feel like a woman' either. I'm aware of the many ways in which I don't adhere to conventional tropes of masculinity, but I consider myself still male. I self-identify as male, because I guess that's how I appear to the world, and I'm untroubled by how others might or might not perceive me and/or my gender.
And at the risk of sounding disingenuous, I wonder if the difference between myself and those who identify as non-binary is the simple fact that I'm not a narcissist.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | May 19, 2021 11:48 AM
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Fuck that Alok thing at R1 is repulsive.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | May 19, 2021 11:55 AM
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What a dumb bitch. And it's so nice of her to promote and normalize pedo-Alok.
Fucking cunt needs to die in a grease fire.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | May 19, 2021 11:57 AM
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[quote]I’m seriously curious what she thinks this means? What is the definition of it for her?
It means “I’m in desperate need of attention!”
by Anonymous | reply 18 | May 19, 2021 12:00 PM
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They is quite crazy. The only thing left is to transition.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | May 19, 2021 12:05 PM
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Oh boy. Another manic phase.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | May 19, 2021 12:17 PM
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so she's now non-binary.
Is there anything he/she won't do for publicity?
by Anonymous | reply 21 | May 19, 2021 12:23 PM
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This was inevitable. Is "Desperate for Attention" a gender?
Countdown to the next OD..................................
by Anonymous | reply 22 | May 19, 2021 12:26 PM
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She must have hired Jen Aniston’s PR people. This hoe is literally in the news every single day.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | May 19, 2021 2:03 PM
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She didn't grow up in front of me. Who's she talking to?
by Anonymous | reply 24 | May 19, 2021 2:55 PM
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Didn't she also come out as bi-polar? More mental illness. So sad.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | May 19, 2021 4:17 PM
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I have something I'd like to know.
Who the fuck is she?
by Anonymous | reply 26 | May 19, 2021 4:18 PM
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[quote]Didn't she also come out as bi-polar? More mental illness. So sad.
YES! Thank you for remembering! I was diagnosed as Bipolar in 2011.
I also suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder, opiate addiction, cutting, bulimia, gender dysphoria, and I've had three strokes!
Please continue to talk about my multiple mental illnesses!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 27 | May 19, 2021 4:55 PM
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The best part of that Eurovision movie was when they blew up Demi's character.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | May 19, 2021 5:09 PM
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I work in media and this is becoming a pain in the ass. Every time one of these twats comes out as “they/them,” we have to go back and change the pronouns for all our evergreen content so people don’t complain. Make. It. Stop.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | May 19, 2021 5:17 PM
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R15, I can totally relate.
I have been having the same self-reflection as you. I have male parts, identify as male (not because I feel forced to), and enjoy my gay lifestyle. I am what some could call feminine, but I've been called masculine at times too. I don't care what others interpret, that's on them. I never understood the need to 'shun labels' while at the same time creating new watered down labels. Labels are labels.
I really don't get why people need to announce these things, and it irritates me when people put their pronouns on their LinkedIn profile these days. It all screams like an attention grab.
Why can't people just embrace the gender they are born with, and also accept that their own version of that gender could very much be non-conforming in its own right, by just being themselves? Why the need for surgery or for making everyone else change how they refer to you, other than as an attention grab?
If you embrace your 'otherness' or non-conformity so much, why the need to make the world change, or to change body parts to present the other gender? Why can't a 'femme' man just be that? Why do they need to have a surgery to underline their femininity and identify as woman?
Why is it that 'God messed up' and 'I'm a woman trapped in a man's body'? Why isn't it that you are a man, but just have qualities that you yourself (and society) have labeled with the other gender, and that this is just a new way to interpret masculinity? Why change your body or change the world to fit the exploration you need?
Why not just accept the qualities you have as they are, biological and emotional?
by Anonymous | reply 30 | May 19, 2021 5:24 PM
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thank you very much, OH , Demi Lovat OH
by Anonymous | reply 31 | May 19, 2021 5:54 PM
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R30 is wise.
There are trans people, then there are straight people who become some variety of “queer” because they don’t have missionary position sex or don’t rigidly conform to gender stereotypes.
I think Demi is the latter.
The irony, of course, is that these folks are basically reinforcing gender stereotypes. Short hair makes one non binary. Wearing a dress makes you a woman? Are we in the 50s? So conservative and regressive.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | May 19, 2021 6:22 PM
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Non-binary is the new "bisexual", "allergic to gluten, dairy"....anything to be new and different.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | May 19, 2021 6:31 PM
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Breaking News: Demi Lovato In Need Of Attention.
Has it been ten minutes already?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | May 19, 2021 7:01 PM
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She looks like a rough Mexican dyke.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 35 | May 19, 2021 7:02 PM
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Already told you guys she's getting ready to transition.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | May 19, 2021 7:06 PM
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Young people with mental illness gravitate towards identity politics because it gives them a purpose and allows them to scream at other people without getting in as much trouble for doing so.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | May 19, 2021 7:09 PM
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r26 she's one of the Disney assembly line kids from the 2000s who's had a few pop songs in her adult career. She's never been a big star, and is basically unknown to anybody over 30.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | May 19, 2021 7:16 PM
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So she’s schizophrenic? (But we’re using nicer terminology now?)
by Anonymous | reply 39 | May 19, 2021 7:30 PM
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I'm in my mid30s. Demi is extremely successful and I admit I like her voice. But JESUS FUCKING CHRIST, her antics are exhausting. I'd never want to be around her unless she was spending lots of money on me.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | May 19, 2021 7:32 PM
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I guess having multiple personalities is passe for this crowd.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | May 19, 2021 7:35 PM
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Shouldn't her family be Britney-ing her? She's been spiraling for years
by Anonymous | reply 42 | May 19, 2021 7:39 PM
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R40 … or too drugged up to notice lol
by Anonymous | reply 43 | May 19, 2021 7:42 PM
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This whackadoodle bitch is the new Rose McGowan.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | May 19, 2021 7:49 PM
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r40 Demi is not 'extremely successful' she's always been an also-ran and is not well-known outside of her age niche.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | May 19, 2021 7:49 PM
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She looks like she is about to hop on board the comet with Heaven’s Gate.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | May 19, 2021 7:55 PM
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I would love for that frozen yogurt shop she harassed to troll her with a special “gender-free” frozen yogurt flavor.
This bitch is exhausting 🙄
by Anonymous | reply 48 | May 19, 2021 7:57 PM
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Drunk semi-talented entertainers always have something interesting to say.
I tried to talk to my piano. I tried to talk to my guitar....
by Anonymous | reply 50 | May 19, 2021 8:21 PM
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The radio host added, “I was told by my boss I cannot talk about what I want to talk about — by the way it’s a joke, the whole binary thing. I don’t care what Demi Lovato does. But now we have to worry about ‘You might offend someone.’ Basically, I offended right-wing people and today I offended left-wing people. So basically what they want me to do is be a lightweight show. We have that in the market… We have radio stations that don’t offend anybody.”
Referring to Matty in the Morning as “the number one radio show in the history of Boston radio,” Siegel continued, “I am the biggest of all time and they said ‘Shut up Matt, stop talking.’ Well, I hope you’re happy because I just stopped talking. Matty out.”
by Anonymous | reply 51 | May 19, 2021 8:33 PM
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So what you're telling me is I can now call you a dick, as well as a cunt?
by Anonymous | reply 52 | May 19, 2021 9:07 PM
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[quote]Demi is extremely successful
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 53 | May 19, 2021 9:12 PM
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I'm so sick of this shit. It doesn't even mean anything anymore.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | May 19, 2021 9:25 PM
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These straight fat mentally-deranged women are doing more to erase gay men than the trannies ever did.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | May 19, 2021 9:34 PM
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If they was on fire, I wouldn't kick them in the cunt.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | May 19, 2021 9:51 PM
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She'll be running for governor before you know it.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | May 19, 2021 10:47 PM
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Well, when you get as big as two people, plural makes sense.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | May 20, 2021 12:39 AM
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While at it, I hope that "they" also learn to sing properly, instead of "them" caterwauling and hollering all the time sounding like a hysterical and injured goose.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | May 20, 2021 1:35 AM
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Ex-Disney star? Check
A few decent singles? Check
Mental illness? Check (a few)
Addict? Check
Bi/Gay? Check
OD? Check
Yogurt Topping Freedom Fighter? Check
Non Binary? Check
Completely fraudulent? Check
Congrats, Demi.
You are officially representative of the very, very worst of your generation. Long may you reign.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | May 20, 2021 1:41 AM
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Demi is very talented but I agree that she has issues. I wish her well.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | May 20, 2021 1:55 AM
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[quote]I also suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder, opiate addiction, cutting, bulimia, gender dysphoria, and I've had three strokes! Please continue to talk about my multiple mental illnesses!
Munchausen
by Anonymous | reply 65 | May 20, 2021 2:03 AM
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Female celebs are getting weird and crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | May 20, 2021 7:29 PM
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[quote] Demi Lovato has something they'd like you to know
Demo has frequently had things she wanted you to know
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 67 | May 20, 2021 8:14 PM
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Candace Owens has something she wants you to know…
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 68 | May 20, 2021 8:37 PM
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R68 she's an even bigger annoying cunt than Demi so...
by Anonymous | reply 69 | May 21, 2021 12:08 AM
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She looks like she's transitioning...into Yolanda Saldivar.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 70 | May 21, 2021 12:20 AM
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It will be beyond awkward when she decides to be binary again.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | May 21, 2021 12:40 AM
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r71 please! She'll announce that she's transitioning soon enough, i.e. when she feels like she's not getting enough attention.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | May 21, 2021 12:47 AM
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I miss the old days when female celebrities wanted attention and they were content to just admit to an eating disorder.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | May 21, 2021 12:49 AM
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R72, she's the type to announce it for attention and then stop before she actually does it. She's too much of a coward to actually go through with anything apparently. Including overdosing.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | May 21, 2021 12:54 AM
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Who would want to be in a relationship with her? She's such a fucking headcase with constant drama.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | May 21, 2021 1:19 AM
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Will she next insist that we call her drug of choice theroin?
by Anonymous | reply 77 | May 21, 2021 6:57 AM
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If it is so complicated and an endless drama just being yourself, you're pretty fucked up.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | May 21, 2021 8:30 AM
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Will she have top surgery to set herself free?
by Anonymous | reply 79 | May 21, 2021 10:35 AM
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It's almost like Ariana Grande - the newer, cuter, better tawny Disney star-cum-pop idol- had a big secret wedding, and Demi saw that and screamed, "Thunder- return to me!"
by Anonymous | reply 80 | May 21, 2021 11:34 AM
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Her pronouns are I’m/a dumb/twat
by Anonymous | reply 81 | May 21, 2021 11:50 AM
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Will the NBs start coming for all the gendered entertainment awards? I’m imagining the cage match between a stunning and brave trans woman who snags a Best Actress nom (which, fine by me) and a pixie-cutted NB who says gendered awards are harmful and exclusive. And complicit.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | May 21, 2021 11:58 AM
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W&W for R57. Made my day. :)
by Anonymous | reply 83 | May 21, 2021 2:12 PM
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I truly don’t understand why anyone cares about any of this. I think if everyone was able to dress/act however they wanted (provided they were not hurting anyone), people would likely not feel compelled to have radical body altering surgeries or make giant dramatic announcements. Just be you your own way and don’t waste time wondering what box you fit into.
It’s funny how wanting to “escape labels” involves labeling yourself!
by Anonymous | reply 84 | May 21, 2021 2:39 PM
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[quote]Will she have top surgery to set herself free?
Stop dead-pronouning her! It's literal violence!
by Anonymous | reply 86 | May 30, 2021 2:16 AM
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R85, she was just hangry.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | May 30, 2021 3:12 AM
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Do they carry a snack purse? Or murse?
by Anonymous | reply 90 | May 30, 2021 3:16 AM
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[quote] Today is a day I'm so happy to share more of my life with you all- I am proud to let you know that I identify as non-binary & will officially be changing my pronouns to they/them moving forward
Wait . . . shouldn't it be "our life" and "we identify" and "our pronouns"?
This chile be totally confused. Or is it chilluns.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | May 30, 2021 3:30 AM
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[quote]I truly don’t understand why anyone cares about any of this. I think if everyone was able to dress/act however they wanted (provided they were not hurting anyone), people would likely not feel compelled to have radical body altering surgeries or make giant dramatic announcements. Just be you your own way and don’t waste time wondering what box you fit into.
Because it's all for attention.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | May 30, 2021 2:52 PM
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She has stated her boundaries! AND her pronouns!
by Anonymous | reply 93 | May 30, 2021 5:14 PM
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