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Things that you consider déclassé Part 2

I remember there was a thread a few years ago that got filled up like a 5 dollar whore. Margarine is extremely déclassé. I haven't used it since about 1990. Drinking no-name beer. Buying clothes at Value Village. Anything else?

by Anonymousreply 241Last Friday at 11:29 AM

What's Value Village???

by Anonymousreply 102/25/2021

Buying used clothing or used anything is not declasse at all - you can get some great stuff. Just like all new stuff isn't necessarily good - a lot of crap.

by Anonymousreply 202/25/2021

99% of new clothing is sweatshop garbage anyway.

by Anonymousreply 302/25/2021

Boxed wine.

Wire hangers.

Driving a truck or huge SUV when you don’t need to tow/ tote a lot of things, or people .

Vanity books that are not read.

Terry cloth robes. Especially short ones.

Chewing gum.

Piled on scent.

Pets as accessories.

Selfie sticks.

Wooden saying signs / home decor

by Anonymousreply 402/25/2021

What r3 said. It's all made in the same jip joint factories.

by Anonymousreply 502/25/2021

Using anal beads over and over again without bleaching them every time.

by Anonymousreply 602/25/2021

The way a person handles utensil at the dinner table. Always a dead giveaway.

by Anonymousreply 702/25/2021

Using social media, referring to social media or being featured in other people’s social media.

by Anonymousreply 802/25/2021

A million threads on Golden Girl's is very déclassé.

by Anonymousreply 902/25/2021

[quote]Buying used clothing or used anything is not declasse at all

Defending cheap mentality is in fact declasse.

by Anonymousreply 1002/25/2021

[quote]Terry cloth robes. Especially short ones.

QUEEN! Terry cloth is practice because most people are still someone wet after they come out of the shower. What do you wear, silk?

by Anonymousreply 1102/25/2021

Smoking Newports.

by Anonymousreply 1202/25/2021

Contributing to a list of déclassé items for the second time.

by Anonymousreply 1302/25/2021

Talking about how YOUR rights as a business owner are more important than paying a living wage is very déclassé.

by Anonymousreply 1402/26/2021


by Anonymousreply 1502/26/2021

R11 I wear kimonos.

by Anonymousreply 1602/26/2021

Wonder Bread.

by Anonymousreply 1702/26/2021

People who put out salad forks for a fancy dinner when there is to be no salad.

Bumper stickers of any kind.

Drinking tea or coffee from paper or styrofoam in public, especially when walking on the street. In fact, drinking anything else while walking on the street, unless heat and exercise are involved.

Pointing at people, unless it's E. Howard Hunt on the Grassy Knoll.

Breast (Chest) feeding in public when there are alternatives. Aggressive wokedness is not wokedness.

Jeans at a funeral that does not involve a cremation on the beach.

Serving commercial bread. Serving bakery bread is close, but not everyone has a cook or can bake.

Vanity plates on a private vehicle.

WOMEN IN TIGHTS. MEN IN TIGHTS. IN PUBLIC. Size doesn't matter. I do not need to know if every woman on the street waxes wholly or in a landing strip, or if her labia minora are "peekers." For men, squashed cock and balls do not appeal.

by Anonymousreply 1802/26/2021

Cooks who don't wash their hands before (and while) preparing meals.

People who don't wash their hands before eating.

by Anonymousreply 1902/26/2021

People who want everything new: houses, furniture, flatware, art, books, cars, even their pets (e.g., never adopted as a mature dog or cat but bought/adopted as puppies/kittens.)

It's always a very bad indicator of a person that they want absolutely everything new and "eww!" at the idea of anything "used."

by Anonymousreply 2002/26/2021

More than one or two discreet tattoos.

by Anonymousreply 2102/26/2021

Sheets that aren't 100% cotton.

by Anonymousreply 2202/26/2021

Oh, silly, silly, silly R9.

A SINGLE thread on "The Golden Girls" is very declasse.

by Anonymousreply 2302/26/2021

Wtf is “Value Village”? Christ, the places you people come up with to shop.

by Anonymousreply 2402/26/2021

Wardrobe consists of mostly fast fashion, stuff from Ross, etc. Clothing is considered disposable. Has tons of clothes yet always looks basic.

by Anonymousreply 2502/26/2021

R20 is one of the 10 million homeless. LOL. She's been homeless for about 35 years. That's why she hates buying new stuff. Most homeless die around age 46, so she's done. Put a fork in it.

by Anonymousreply 2602/26/2021

Strange, R26. Are you poor white trash, a lottery winner, or a Rich Russian Lady?

by Anonymousreply 2702/26/2021

Arabian horses.

by Anonymousreply 2802/26/2021

Arabian whores. Or whores in Arabia, like Lindsay Lohan.

by Anonymousreply 2902/26/2021

You have an enclosed garage, but you use it for overflow household storage and can't park your cars in the garage.

by Anonymousreply 3002/26/2021


by Anonymousreply 3102/26/2021

Bus and truck non-Equity fourth national tours.

by Anonymousreply 3202/26/2021

Don’t forget new spouses, R20.

by Anonymousreply 3302/26/2021

"Blended families." Yes, I come from a blended family, i.e., grew up with half-siblings. IMO, it just never really works. There's always resentment. Get married, have kids, get divorced, OK. But do not have further kids with other spouses or GFs / BFs. Do not bring "uncles" and "aunts" into the home where your children live.

You can date, but do your fucking at the other person's house.

Maybe an unpopular opinion, but that's my opinion.

by Anonymousreply 3402/26/2021

R34 Luckily no one gives a flying turd what you think. Jesus. You take the cake for mentally deranged idiots on here.

by Anonymousreply 3502/26/2021

R34 Is mentally deranged, inbred for 7 generations Jabba. When not ranting about her fat has-been from the 80s who could never sing, dance, act, or.....anything decently, Jabba has these ridiculous rants about blended families. You come from 7 generations of brothers fucking sisters. You aren't one to complain about "blended" families.

by Anonymousreply 3602/26/2021

Smoking (if you still smoke or vape you are dumb or trash)

If you drink Dunkin’ Donuts you are trash

Long fake nails

People who wear pajamas or slippers on airplanes

Driving a Chevy or dodge

Wearing camo or trucker hats.

If you shop at kohl’s you know you are trash.

by Anonymousreply 3702/26/2021

R37 is, like, the enemy of Ben Affleck!

by Anonymousreply 3802/26/2021

Those neck pillows people wear on planes.

by Anonymousreply 3902/26/2021

If you are Ben affleck or have slept with him you are trash. Thanks r38 forgot that on my list

by Anonymousreply 4002/26/2021

R16 - me too darling.

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by Anonymousreply 4102/26/2021

R18 - what the heck are you talking about with "tights"? Men wear the sporty type at the gym and it's fine and loads of women wear them with skirts. You can't tell who waxes how.

by Anonymousreply 4202/26/2021

Yeah R37, every other European, even educated ones with good jobs and who exercise smoke. It's a nasty habit but it certainly doesn't make everyone "trash".

by Anonymousreply 4302/26/2021

[quote]Drinking tea or coffee from paper or styrofoam in public, especially when walking on the street.

Mother always told me that a proper lady only sips delicately from the finest bone china when walking on the street, and then only in a hat and gloves.

by Anonymousreply 4402/26/2021

People who shame or put others down due to lack of money / material possessions. I’ve got news for you.... Your wealth doesn’t mean anything to me.

by Anonymousreply 4502/26/2021

Polo, Flying private planes, having a staff when you aren’t disabled, French bulldogs, swiss boarding schools, fake boobs, highlights, mid life crisis affairs

by Anonymousreply 4602/26/2021

Wearing flip flops. The sound they make is truly the sound of selfishness.

by Anonymousreply 4702/26/2021

[quote]Serving commercial bread. Serving bakery bread is close, but not everyone has a cook or can bake.

Smell you, duchess.

by Anonymousreply 4802/26/2021

R44 - Senatrice get back to Mar-a-Lago. Your kind isn't wanted on DL.

by Anonymousreply 4902/26/2021

People doing grocery shopping dressed in full rabbit-costume pajamas.

by Anonymousreply 5002/26/2021

People with more than 3 kids.

by Anonymousreply 5102/26/2021

Shaved Pubic Hair

by Anonymousreply 5202/26/2021

Cheapie paper plates.

by Anonymousreply 5302/26/2021

Use of "off" brand laundry detergents such as "Sun"

Towel Stolen from motels

ashtrays unless they are collectible

dollar store items

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by Anonymousreply 5402/26/2021

Not excusing yourself after you let a fart rip at a fancy dinner party.

by Anonymousreply 5502/26/2021

Using plastic eating utensils at home.

by Anonymousreply 5602/26/2021

[quote]Drinking tea or coffee from paper or styrofoam in public, especially when walking on the street.

Jesus Christ some of you queens are so fucking old.

by Anonymousreply 5702/26/2021

"Do you rent or own?"

by Anonymousreply 5802/26/2021

Shaving body hair, especially pubes.

Backwards baseball caps.

Big-assed trucks.

Discolored teeth.

by Anonymousreply 5902/26/2021

Shopping at WALMART

by Anonymousreply 6002/26/2021

Saying HEY instead of HI when greeting someone.

by Anonymousreply 6102/26/2021

A nice pair of leather flip flops are not déclassé, they're a staple for people of all social classes.

by Anonymousreply 6202/26/2021

Purchases and behavior intended to show your class status. The truly upper class are never that vulgar.

by Anonymousreply 6302/26/2021

Wearing sweats and PF Flyers to an aerobics class.

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by Anonymousreply 6402/26/2021

eating fast food more than once a month

by Anonymousreply 6502/26/2021

OP your mom is déclassé!

by Anonymousreply 6602/26/2021

Referencing Golden Girl's episodes in 2021 is about as low class as you can get. Jesus please take these fucking dinos quick!

by Anonymousreply 6702/26/2021

Any fragrance by Kimberly Guilfoyle.

by Anonymousreply 6802/26/2021

Kevin Sessums DREADFUL (botched) arm tattoos of weird literary garbage... (Still doesn’t hide his track marks tho)

by Anonymousreply 6902/27/2021

Neck tattoos.

by Anonymousreply 7002/27/2021

Anyone, anyplace or anything with the Trump name.

by Anonymousreply 7102/27/2021

R71 What a fucking genius. No one has ever brought that name up. Psycho.

by Anonymousreply 7202/27/2021

Shopping at Walmart

by Anonymousreply 7302/27/2021

People who carry around Big Gulps or other overly large soda cups from gas stations, fast food joints, etc.

People who always have dog hair all over their clothes (the clothes are usually some version of a sweatsuit). Buy a lint roller, for crying out loud.

People who's main topic of conversation is meal prepping/keto/going to the gym, etc. Those who actually do all of that religiously don't feel the need to talk about it; they just do it. It's the ones who do it once a week who blab on and on about it.

by Anonymousreply 7402/27/2021

People who order pizza from large chains like Pizza Hut or Domino’s.

People who speak too loudly in public.

People who argue or curse in public.

by Anonymousreply 7502/27/2021

Saying, “I didn’t know where she was at.”

by Anonymousreply 7602/27/2021

Expensive American colleges for rich dummies. Mykonos. City dwellers with pure bred pets.

by Anonymousreply 7702/27/2021

[quote]"Blended families."

Tell me about it.

by Anonymousreply 7802/27/2021

^ Exactly.

by Anonymousreply 7902/27/2021

[quote]People who's

Bad grammar is déclassé.

by Anonymousreply 8002/27/2021

Correcting other people in public.

by Anonymousreply 8102/27/2021

Shitting in public

by Anonymousreply 8202/27/2021

Dipping into principal. There, I said it.

by Anonymousreply 8302/27/2021

Misunderstanding the definition of déclassé.

by Anonymousreply 8402/27/2021

[quote]Not excusing yourself after you let a fart rip at a fancy dinner party.

What should you say/do if you also shit your pants R55?

by Anonymousreply 8502/27/2021

Wearing a mask below your nose.

by Anonymousreply 8602/27/2021

[quote]Vanity books that are not read.

How does this differ from an aspirational library? I have a ton of books on my shelf that I'd like to read before I die ...

by Anonymousreply 8702/27/2021

Showing off your weatlh

by Anonymousreply 8802/27/2021

OK I looked up déclassé. It means having fallen in status, having previously had status I guess. Interesting distinction.

by Anonymousreply 8902/27/2021

[quote]People who's main topic of conversation is meal prepping/keto/going to the gym, etc.

This, times a thousand for gay men. Your workout/fitness/dietary regimen is of no interest to me, particularly if we've just met.

And if it's the most interesting thing about you, let's remain strangers, shall we?

by Anonymousreply 9002/27/2021

Repeatedly typing "People who's" in a discussion forum thread.

by Anonymousreply 9102/27/2021

Rudeness to others

Looking down one's nose at others

Judgmental attitudes toward others


Thinking that all who supported that racist, sexist, irresponsible imbecile are racists, sexists, irresponsible, or imbeciles.

A lack of interest in the world outside their purview (I guess you can call it parochialism)

This is related to the above...thinking you are better than others.

by Anonymousreply 9202/27/2021

Honey there are some people who I KNOW I'm better than. Thanks.

by Anonymousreply 9302/27/2021

I was with you, Charlie/r92, until item #5 on your list. Did [italic]you[/italic] vote for him? If so, once or twice?

by Anonymousreply 9402/27/2021

I agree with R94.

[quote]Thinking that all who supported that racist, sexist, irresponsible imbecile are racists, sexists, irresponsible, or imbeciles.

But ya, are Blanche. Ya are.

by Anonymousreply 9502/27/2021

I'm rolling my eyes at R18 "chest feeding." Jesus Christ.

by Anonymousreply 9602/27/2021

Bragging on social media about how expensive your lifestyle is and how much you paid for certain luxury items.

Very tacky.

by Anonymousreply 9702/27/2021

Canada Goose

by Anonymousreply 9802/27/2021

Being from the New World.

by Anonymousreply 9902/27/2021

[quote] People who carry around Big Gulps or other overly large soda cups from gas stations, fast food joints, etc.

R74, this one made me laugh and I liked your list.

I was talking about the Big Gulps with my dad, who was in finance. He asked me how many ounces, how much it costed. His conclusion: smart financial decision. I never looked at Big Gulps the same way again.

by Anonymousreply 10002/27/2021

Women who go out shopping wearing their flannel pajama pants and slippers

Obnoxiously loud modified mufflers

Blasting some shitty mumble rap music with your windows down forcing everyone to listen to it in a store parking lot. Same goes for country

Putting your cell phone on speaker mod, holding it away from your face and yapping away while out shopping

Showing up to a get together and bringing pasta salad made with of those Kraft pasta salad kits

by Anonymousreply 10102/27/2021

^ mode

by Anonymousreply 10202/27/2021

R84 Not that hard to figure out, ya moron.

dé·clas·sé (dā′klä-sā′) adj. 1. Low or lowered in class, rank, or social position. 2. Characteristic of the lower classes; of low social status:

by Anonymousreply 10302/27/2021

Boxed wine on a sailboat is not déclassé. Boxed while backpacking is not déclassé. Boxed wine in the kitchen by yourself at 9 in the morning IS déclassé. Buying Triscuits at Walmart is not déclassé. Buying clothes at Walmart IS déclassé. It’s all about context.

by Anonymousreply 10402/27/2021

I actually like boxed wines. There are some good brands if you give them a try. Stays fresh longer if you just want a glass or two once in a while.

by Anonymousreply 10502/27/2021

Cardi B potato chips

Lady Gaga Oreos

by Anonymousreply 10602/27/2021

duct tape, cigarettes, soda, dairy, tattoos, using a phone that came out before 2018 in 2021, wired earbuds, sugary coffee drinks, sweatpants, acrylic nails, anklets, music festivals, bread, depop, walmart, sunglasses, air fresheners

by Anonymousreply 10702/27/2021

[quote]Women who go out shopping wearing their flannel pajama pants and slippers

This! People wearing pajamas/slippers in public is one of the trashiest things ever.

by Anonymousreply 10802/27/2021

[quote] Buying clothes at Walmart IS déclassé.

As has been mentioned, clothes today are all made in the same shithole sweatshops. It doesn't matter where you buy your clothes, they all came out of the same place.

by Anonymousreply 10902/27/2021

Buying a fragrance on the basis of who the celebrity is. Response to fragrance is the one thing in life that is almost truly visceral. Your body's olfactory response to a fragrance isn't going to be upgraded because a celebrity put his/her name on it.

by Anonymousreply 11002/27/2021

Sunglasses? WTF?

by Anonymousreply 11102/27/2021


by Anonymousreply 11202/27/2021

Buying brand name products because they're brand name.

by Anonymousreply 11302/27/2021

Supporting and/or voting for Trump.

by Anonymousreply 11402/27/2021

Talking about Trump after he is done and finished is not déclassé, it is fucking psychotic. Move along, kunt.

by Anonymousreply 11502/27/2021

R94 and R95, no, I did not (nor would I ever) vote for that racist, sexist, irresponsible imbecile. But I also refuse to believe that all who did are racists or sexists.

by Anonymousreply 11602/27/2021


by Anonymousreply 11702/27/2021

It's fun to make and read these lists, but some people do take them too seriously. All cultures and classes have their own manners/customs of acceptable behavior. Having more money doesn't mean you have better manners or taste. If someone has cloth napkins, I recognize them as someone of a similar class background, but the important point is are you thoughtful in your interactions with others? Graciousness is not allocated or limited by class status.

by Anonymousreply 11802/27/2021

Treating Frappuccinos and caramel macchiatos, etc., as "beverages" instead of meal replacements.

by Anonymousreply 11902/27/2021

Micro bladed eyebrows


Obsession with porn or sex work (nobody cares about these mental cases, stop trying to act like they have a personality beyond taking a dick)

Obsession with food, working out, body obsession. Just wear a t-shirt that says I’m stupid and shallow. It saves time.

by Anonymousreply 12002/27/2021

[quote]As has been mentioned, clothes today are all made in the same shithole sweatshops. It doesn't matter where you buy your clothes, they all came out of the same place.

Not true at a certain level, but it depends on how much it is worth to you. I can buy a tee-shirt made in Spain or Portugal for €15 - €50; a polo shirt for twice that; a pair of hand-made dress shoes for €60 - 200 (the later custom-fitted.) The design and construction quality is excellent, the materials top quality; clothes that will last not for a few wearings or maybe one season but for years. Clothes from Italy, the U.K.,, and other places the same (if at differing prices.) It's very much possible to buy quality clothes that don't come from the same clusters of sweatshops, but for buyers accustomed to a bag of tee-shirts for 9.99, or 3 polo shirts for 30, or a pair of leather-ish shoes for 26, they will grumble about sweatshops even as they pay twice and thrice and more for poorly made clothes if inferior materials at prices do low they don't have to think about buying them.

by Anonymousreply 12102/27/2021

Masculine can be attractive but

MACHO is LOW CLASS -examples Sylvester Stallone and Arnold Schwarzenegger

by Anonymousreply 12202/28/2021

R122 - macho is always a result of a lack of education.

by Anonymousreply 12302/28/2021

Speaking of bad wardrobes, Drew Barrymore and her endless selection of pussy blouses.

by Anonymousreply 12402/28/2021

R123- At least in British period dramas- the Upper class men were the LEAST masculine and the lower class men were often MACHO.

by Anonymousreply 12502/28/2021

R125 - well they don't call them "rough trade" for nothing.

by Anonymousreply 12602/28/2021

Personalization of odd things: pickup trucks, car bumpers, a sad little office pod in a sea of office pods, a special mug, a mobile case. Adults who follow too closely the example of school girls making everything personal, with a name, initials, political bent, religious affiliation, sports team, or feelings about family, or "Baby on Board/Parent of Honor Roll Student" sorts of self-congratulations in sparkly letters or flags or shitty graphics.

It's better to be the person that you want to be than to be advertise your half-assed aspirations.

by Anonymousreply 12703/01/2021

Being interviewed by Oprah Winfrey.

by Anonymousreply 12803/01/2021

Designer clothes with huge logos on them.

by Anonymousreply 12903/01/2021

R127. Fraus love their monograms!! Nothing says trash like a monogram on the rear window of a car or SUV.

by Anonymousreply 13003/01/2021

Sharon Osbourne is the definition of déclassé. She's always been a repulsive witch.

by Anonymousreply 13103/13/2021

[quote] Driving a Chevy or dodge, Wearing camo or trucker hats. (R37) duct tape, cigarettes, soda, dairy, using a phone that came out before 2018 in 2021, wired earbuds, sugary coffee drinks, sweatpants, bread, walmart, sunglasses, air fresheners (R107) Shaving body hair, especially pubes. (R59) People who order pizza from large chains like Pizza Hut or Domino’s. (R75)

Yup, I'm declasse. But y'all knew that

R61 instead of [italic] Saying HEY instead of HI when greeting someone.[/italic] is [italic]Yo motherfucker or Yo bro[/italic] better then?

I do agree on smoking though, hate that shit. And name branded clothes and stuff with huge logos too, never liked that, unless it my Metallica and Iron Maiden tees etc

by Anonymousreply 13203/13/2021

"Sunglasses"? How the fuck do you expect us to see clearly on sunny days?

by Anonymousreply 13303/13/2021

Flip Flops

by Anonymousreply 13403/13/2021

Getting a prolapsed anus from being too cheap to use a proper amount of lube is very déclassé. Especially after a 50 load weekend.

by Anonymousreply 13503/14/2021

Well, you would know Dawson...

by Anonymousreply 13603/14/2021

Are leather flip flops silent? That's the only thing that would make them more acceptable to me than the rubber ones. I hate any foot noise, though, including a lot of the freakishly loud foot outfits a lot of women wear.

by Anonymousreply 13703/14/2021

Axe Body Spray

Celine Dion

Hanging car air fresheners

Farmhouse decor

Having more than three children

Anything associated with QVC

by Anonymousreply 13803/14/2021

R138 Celine Dion is not déclassé! Stupid motherfucker.

by Anonymousreply 13903/14/2021

White socks.

by Anonymousreply 14003/14/2021

R138 - my sister buys some very delicate silver pieces on QVC but they are only on the site not on TV.

by Anonymousreply 14103/14/2021

141 I guess she’s never heard of Tiffany’s, poor girl

by Anonymousreply 14203/14/2021

Drinking anything out of plastic bottles makes you pure scum. I haven't drank anything out of plastic for about 25 years. It is basically toxic. Loading you up w chemicals and turning you into a basic bitch.

by Anonymousreply 14303/18/2021

Having casual sex during covid is way déclassé .

by Anonymousreply 14404/24/2021

Tan Mom

by Anonymousreply 14504/24/2021

When your go to stores for shopping are Walmart and dollar stores.

by Anonymousreply 14604/24/2021

Applying for unemployment

by Anonymousreply 14704/28/2021

Cash bars at weddings.

by Anonymousreply 14804/28/2021

R61, I say "hey" because I loved the way my college bf (judge's son/captain of the football team) from Virginia said it. It's not declasse at all. Hush your grits, gurl.

by Anonymousreply 14904/28/2021

Anything done by moi.

by Anonymousreply 15004/28/2021

Exactly. Men say hey or yo. Girls say hi, coquettishly.

by Anonymousreply 15104/28/2021

Going to bath houses

by Anonymousreply 15204/28/2021

Bologna, or baloney, is very déclassé. I last ate it in 2nd grade & decided, ok, I’m over this shit, never again.

by Anonymousreply 15304/29/2021

Showing off your money

by Anonymousreply 15404/29/2021

In the U.S., following the programming of major broadcast TV networks.

by Anonymousreply 15504/29/2021

Ordering steak or any red meat well done. Not a race thing so much as a purely economic thing -

by Anonymousreply 15604/29/2021

Women leaving the house with their hair piled up in a messy Pebbles Flintstone-style bun, inevitably paired with cameltoe- and cellulite-exposing leggings.

by Anonymousreply 15704/29/2021

Just here to defend secondhand clothing.

by Anonymousreply 15804/29/2021

[quote] pets (e.g., never adopted as a mature dog or cat but bought/adopted as puppies/kittens.)

The person who made this comment hasn’t obviously never owned or trained many dogs.

If you want an obedient and safe animal, particularly a dog, it’s better to own one from young and train it while still little. Dogs, no matter their pedigree or personality, should be well-trained to be completely trustworthy.

It’s very altruistic and a fine thing to care for a rescue dog, and Inwouldnt discourage those who want to do it (unless they have children or other animals at home), but frankly there is always a risk of one turning on you, someone else, or another dog. You don’t know every detail of its background, then you can’t predict its actions or triggers. Just facts.

Then there’s dogs that need to do a job or perform a function, I.e. sheepdogs, hunting dogs, seeing/hearing dogs. They can’t be rescue.

by Anonymousreply 15904/29/2021

R34 in the house (wel, dilapidated impoverished farm) I grew up on, I lived with my actual aunts & uncle as well as my parents and grandmother. Am I trash?

by Anonymousreply 16004/29/2021

R34 is total trash. No one gives any fucks what that cunt thinks.

by Anonymousreply 16104/29/2021

Open relationships

by Anonymousreply 16204/29/2021

Shopping at dollar stores is definitely the prerogative of total trash. Mostly repulsive, uneducated white Karens on welfare who live in trailer parks. And buying food from dollar stores! Nothing could be trashier except eating food from garbage cans.

by Anonymousreply 16304/29/2021

True love

by Anonymousreply 16404/29/2021

I have to defend Dollar Tree. I wouldn't go for years, then finally did go with husband. It's wild. They have all kinds of things that are more expensive other places. I am not a coffee snob and I don't know how to make real coffee, but is instant bad for you? I've been using the dollar store instant coffee. We were buying the knock off frappachinos for my son, but then they stopped selling the ones in bottles and now only have cans. He says they're not as good.

I don't really want to give away this secret, but they sell overstock DVDs there, weird old ones. We buy them and then resell them on Ebay. They're a dollar!!!

Dollar Tree is crazy and amazing, all in one.

by Anonymousreply 16504/29/2021

In Fairfiled County, the cars outside the Dollar Trees are all Lexus, BMW etc. Their main clients are wealthier people.

by Anonymousreply 16604/29/2021

R166 that’s the same with cheaper supermarkets, outlet stores and ‘pound shops’ here in Britain. The stinginess of the Haves may never be underestimated.

It’s actually the middle-income/middle-class people who overpay or happily pay markup/R.R.P without looking for deals.

by Anonymousreply 16704/29/2021

Especially if they have money or "wealth", if you shop at a dollar store you're fucking trash.

by Anonymousreply 16804/29/2021

A shiny nickel says R139 is Quebecois. They do NOT fuck around with people not paying proper obeisance to Queen Celine.

And Christ, at what point does "hurr durr well done steak is bad" become, itself, the signifier of a Basic (usually male, white, 20s) Bitch? You got some prominently displayed single malts in your apartment, too, R156? Like yes, well done steak is not very good but I don't know how that particular opinion has become the 'I'm A Sophisticated Man Of The World' marker. It was basic - and almost universal - in 2010 ffs.

by Anonymousreply 16904/29/2021

[quote]Especially if they have money or "wealth", if you shop at a dollar store you're fucking trash.

Please. Wealthier people want cheap hairbrushes and packages of pens too.

by Anonymousreply 17004/29/2021

R170 So they can spend $7,000 on sheets!

by Anonymousreply 17104/29/2021

Worrying about what other people consider déclassé.

by Anonymousreply 17204/29/2021

Peppering English speech and text with gratuitous words in French.

Latin, Greek and German are more acceptable.

by Anonymousreply 17304/29/2021

When seeking the answer to this question, OP, simply look into the mirror and the answer will present itself.

by Anonymousreply 17404/29/2021

White crew socks

by Anonymousreply 17504/29/2021

If it makes me “trash” to buy my bleach and bandaids at the dollar store, I guess I don’t care.

by Anonymousreply 17604/29/2021

Those who're always talking about/photographing /posting food, meals, coffee, beer irritate me. I guess I find it vulgar. Boring, too.

I also find full sleeve or neck/ hand tattoos on urban dwellers strikingly tacky lately. they are so commonly seen that a 20-40 something white person with no expensively loud tats seems like the rebel.

by Anonymousreply 17704/29/2021

Drinking coffee

by Anonymousreply 17804/29/2021

[quote]Those who're always talking about/photographing /posting food, meals, coffee, beer irritate me. I guess I find it vulgar. Boring, too.

Agreed, R177. Some people talk so much about food that I begin to see the wisdom in Victorian manners where among the topics never discussed at dinner was dinner itself. Talking about food while eating it was considered vulgar.

I don't mind people who post recipes - of things they actually make. Or people who post the occasional photo of a special meal or a meal in a special place, but don't carry on like it's your profession unless it actually is your real job, in which case fine. I will happily pass on the hour long explanation of personal coffee making technique and the lifelong hunt for the bean source of beans; likewise beer, wine, etc. I'm glad other people enjoy them as much as they do, but some people enjoy a good shit or a good wank and I don't care to spend hours talking about their passion with them.

The wannabe women "foodies" who can work "with a nice glass of wine" into any sentence bug the bejesus out of me because they always say it with a little smirk of wicked delight. You're a 55 year old woman pulling in a six-figure income and your husband makes way fucking more: who the fuck is stopping you from having a glass of wine? Have a whole fucking bottle if you want? As for its niceness, spend yourself broke with your nice wine if you want, what do I care?

by Anonymousreply 17904/30/2021

R178 my absolute raging cunt of a younger cousin is now a freelance food ‘journalist’ (blogger/Twitwit, but he refuses to call it that). Funny thing is, he used to be a raging teenaged anorexic (as well as a cunt). Guess this is his way of coping, or proving to the world that he’s functional, or something.

Anyway, I refuse to follow his social media because all it consists of is bad food-related puns, smarmy remarks about restaurants or pro-chefs, dumb ‘how to’ spoof videos he makes of himself cooking, and links to his chatty banal website submissions or clickbait.

The only upside to his lifestyle that I can see is that he sometimes gets paid to eat out at certain places or to travel to a niche restaurant. Fair play, that’s a nice perk. Would get old after a while, though. Plus he’s from a rich family, so he could have done that quietly on his own dime if he wanted.

by Anonymousreply 18004/30/2021

Paper plates.

Huge front-yard flags of any type.

Front-yard "landscaping" that involves wooden buckets, car tires, or rubber borders.

"Maine Hunting Lodge" interior design with black bears, moose, large plaids, wood paneling, and those hideous braided area rugs.

Hunting, in particular of big game, aka endangered species.

by Anonymousreply 18104/30/2021

R163, But how would you, as not a patron of Dollar Tree, Family Dollar, and their ilk, have any idea as to who shops there? Hmmmm?

by Anonymousreply 18204/30/2021

Likewise, r153---unless it's mortadella!

by Anonymousreply 18304/30/2021

Writing "I haven't drank" [See: r143].

by Anonymousreply 18404/30/2021

R63, Bwahaha! Oh, my sides!

Yes, nothing "intended to show class status" about gigantic mansions in tony enclaves; pictorials in "AD" or "dupont Registry" with every piece of fabric a "designer" brand unknown to the general public; yachts; daughters who are "equestrians"; private air travel; etc.

You're a dope.

by Anonymousreply 18504/30/2021

Being part of a Throuple and announcing it on social media

by Anonymousreply 18604/30/2021

[quote]I don't mind people who post recipes - of things they actually make. Or people who post the occasional photo of a special meal or a meal in a special place, but don't carry on like it's your profession unless it actually is your real job, in which case fine.

And please do not post photos of any food that is brown unless you are a professional food photographer.

by Anonymousreply 18704/30/2021

"Look m'lday! That man over there, the one without a red baseball cap. He is not tattooed like the other peasants! He removes his pasta from the pot with tongs, will not eat off paper plates, refuses to vacation with his family at Myrtle Beach, and and would sooner die than wear flip flops in public!"

"Well spotted! Have the guards bring him to our carriage and transport him back to the palace! He must belong to one of the better families and was likely stolen as a child and forced to spend his tender years amongst the déclassé peasants of Darkest Flyoverstan! But as mother always says, good breeding always shines though. Have the guards bring him back to the palace and be sure to remember to place a pea under his mattress tonight..."

by Anonymousreply 18804/30/2021

[quote]using a phone that came out before 2018 in 2021

Actually, archaism always confers higher class than the latest gadget.

by Anonymousreply 18904/30/2021

Exactly R189. I am shamelessly and happily typing this from a secondhand iPhone SE with a cracked screen that I bought off a mare years ago, and which I will not be replacing until it gives up the ghost.

I also have a secondhand laptop, that isn’t high-end. To buy and replace new tech all the time is enormously environmentally and socially-destructive, worse than cars.

by Anonymousreply 19004/30/2021

Dirty fingernails, hair color du hour, long Porn nails, breast implants, capped teeth, extensions, wearing cheap ass sandles to work,

by Anonymousreply 19104/30/2021

Agreed R185. If I never have to listen to another obviously middle class poseur fawning over the supposed lack of class status signaling among the upper classes it'll be too fucking soon.

All human beings status signal. Perhaps a few individuals do not, but no class as a general category is free of it. Different classes have different signals (that's the point) but they ALL have them.

by Anonymousreply 19204/30/2021

R192 Good points. It's always funny when you see people of different classes together romantically. One time I was getting my oil changed and in the waiting roomthere was a middle aged seemingly well to do Chinese guy and he was with a 20s white prostitute who looked like Gollum from LOTR (because she was just skin over bone). Made me laugh so hard. He was fawning over her like she was gold when here she probably had every STI known to man! That is what a real life Pretty Woman would be like. LOL.

by Anonymousreply 19304/30/2021

R193 is alone and lonely. Bitter old bitch.

by Anonymousreply 19404/30/2021

R194 is talking to itself, whateves cunt.

by Anonymousreply 19504/30/2021

Voting for Trump, but I’m sure that’s already been said.

by Anonymousreply 19604/30/2021

R196 No, cunt. No one has ever mentioned that name on DL before.

by Anonymousreply 19704/30/2021

R197 time to take your meds, doll.

by Anonymousreply 19804/30/2021

Sex. "Nature, Mr. Allnut, is what we were put on earth to rise above!"

by Anonymousreply 19904/30/2021

Driving an expensive luxury car and living in a trashy neighborhood.

by Anonymousreply 20005/01/2021


Being visibly pregnant in public


Doing your own shopping

Blue jeans

Serving condiments in their original packaging

by Anonymousreply 20105/01/2021

R201 is Sparkle. What a fucking cunt.

by Anonymousreply 20205/01/2021

R201- doing your own shopping? You should really come to my part of LA. The new money trash in Calabasas always brags about "my personal shopper" while surgeons and other educated people go to Whole Foods, Ralph's, Wal-Mart, Cosco and, yes, even Dollar Tree in low key clothes and cars and don't say a word. Declasse is trying to "look rich". A very Kardashian or LA Persian look. My late partner was a renowned OBGYN and came from a good family with a 400 year old family tree and I NEVER saw him worry about brands, flashy clothes or cars, and he had no problem going (when his time and, sadly, his health allowed) to any shop. He taught me to find good grape leaves at Armenian markets, good saffron at Persian ones, and he liked the sounds and activity. He would say "this is where so much of life happens J...the trick is to see beyond your notions and be in the moment."

by Anonymousreply 20305/01/2021

Pickle pizza. Seriously, this has been a thing for a while now if you haven't heard of it yet. A few pizza shops near me make it. It's generally just a standard white pizza with mozzarella (olive oil & garlic for the sauce) with pickles on it, but some use ranch dressing as the sauce instead.

Nothing screams "we're both stoned and my girlfriend is pregnant" better.

by Anonymousreply 20405/01/2021

NYU and Oberlin

by Anonymousreply 20505/01/2021


by Anonymousreply 20605/01/2021

[quote]Drinking no-name beer.

What is no-name beer? Didn't they stop making generic beer in the 90s?

I miss the taste of beer. But I can't have it. My dad bought me non-alcoholic once and it just made me want the real thing. And just a drop of alcohol is my kryptonite.

by Anonymousreply 20705/01/2021

Here's what I am going to do. I'm going to live my life in fear that someone who wrote this list won't be my friend or will give me a disconcerting look in real life. Or worse, write mean words.

Then I'm going to go through the list and follow each and every thing until I feel insane and realize hey, wait a minute. This is my fucking life! Why the fuck do I care?

Then I will follow Joan Crawford's school of manners but it won't matter because no one lives like that anymore.

by Anonymousreply 20805/01/2021

Not getting vaccinated.

Yelling "Communist!" at Mitt Romney (actually recently happened).

Having loud mufflers on purpose.

Wearing tight clothes that hug the fat rolls.

Dickering over a fifty-cent item at a garage sale.

Going to a garage sale.

Holding a garage sale.

by Anonymousreply 20905/02/2021

Love my tight fat roll clothes.

by Anonymousreply 21005/02/2021

Screwing the help. Unless it’s the driver.

by Anonymousreply 21105/02/2021

Dreads on white people are the tackiest thing around. Only complete and total trash would do something so ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 21205/03/2021

Not only does my boyfriend only use margarine, he uses the empty containers of them to store leftovers.

by Anonymousreply 21305/03/2021

Trash loves trash LOL.

by Anonymousreply 21405/03/2021

Wearing 2 piece bathing suits that show every lump, bump, and roll

by Anonymousreply 21505/03/2021

[QUOTE] Dreads on white people are the tackiest thing around. Only complete and total trash would do something so ridiculous

it’s also Cultural Appropriation and LITERALLY kills POC

by Anonymousreply 21605/03/2021

Fuck your politics R216. Dreads on whites are a sign of having no class whatsoever.

by Anonymousreply 21705/03/2021

Worked for me!

by Anonymousreply 21805/03/2021

Bo Derek 100% has the face of a man like Cindy Crawford. Why these manly girls are considered hot is just fucked up.

by Anonymousreply 21905/04/2021

Speaking of margarine, I recently tried to find a brick of it. You know those 1 pound bricks of margarine, wrapped in some kind of paper, that were everywhere in the grocery stores in the 80s? I wanted to bake a batch of cookies with it to see if I could have myself a little Proustian madeleine moment (but trashy, obvs. because I am trash) but goddamn they are NOWHERE to be found. Even Google was no help. All current margarine appears to be trying to sell itself as some kind of transfat free, olive oily health product. WTF.

Does the transfat goodness no longer exist? fucksake.

by Anonymousreply 22005/04/2021

I don’t know if i’ve ever seen margarine in a one pound brick, usually it’s in little tubs or whatnot. I see butter sold by the pound though. Why would you bake with margarine though, it’s not going to be as delicious as if you used butter.

by Anonymousreply 221Last Wednesday at 3:18 AM

Having a favorite diva.

Offsite Link
by Anonymousreply 222Last Wednesday at 4:32 AM

Smoking cigarettes (Any brand)

by Anonymousreply 223Last Wednesday at 4:35 AM

R221 Because she's trash. She admitted it. Agreed with R223. Smokers are at the top of my list of traits I hate in people. There's no description for how trashy smokers are. When Robert Palmer died at the tender age of 54, he was smoking 6 packs a day. 120 cigs a day. Total trash.

by Anonymousreply 224Last Wednesday at 9:31 AM

I know lots of "classy" people who smoke.

by Anonymousreply 225Last Wednesday at 12:59 PM

R221 - yes, because I am trash and also because I want to see if I can recreate a childhood flavour (cookies baked with margarine). It was sold in 1 lb bricks and was the cheapest of the cheap, wrapped in paper (like butter is now wrapped in foil). Haven't seen it for years, only that stuff in tubs now. fucksake.

by Anonymousreply 226Last Wednesday at 5:17 PM

Had a conversation the other day with a friend who 100% denies the role of advertising and government campaigning in people's lives (we were discussing vegetarianism and veganism and why people go, or don't go, that way). When asked for an example of a successful campaign that had really changed people's behaviour I thought of the anti-smoking messages in the 80s and 90s, aimed at kids. Those kids are now grown up and a lot of us consider smoking a viscerally disgusting and low-class habit, which is a sea change in comparison to its former total acceptability. I even remember seeing those anti-smoking ads on TV and thinking how lame they were. But hey what do you know smoking rates absolutely plunged and the idea of kissing a smoker now makes a lot of people retch.

by Anonymousreply 227Last Wednesday at 5:20 PM

R224 6 packs a day? Were they American Spirits? Was the dude getting any sleep?

by Anonymousreply 228Last Wednesday at 5:35 PM

R228 I don't know. The article said he smoked 6 packs a day and that's why he had a heart attack at 54. A friend pointed out to me that smoking was big for the last 250 years. The only good thing about smoking was that it killed a lot of people young, like Robert Palmer. Now people live to be old and drain the system to extinction.

by Anonymousreply 229Last Wednesday at 6:42 PM

R224 - not trashy in Europe. In fact, it's quite customary for educated people to smoke skins with their wine and coffee. And I am talking about professors, doctors and many intellectuals. When I tell them it's considered trashy in the US, they laugh at how "weird" we are. There is zero stigma about a cigarette with espresso or beer or a glass of wine in Europe. Pre-pandemic nearly everyone out with at any place ended the evening with a cigarette and a drink or coffee and these were not remotely trashy people. But somehow it works on them just like they eat bread and pasta and stay slim.

by Anonymousreply 230Last Thursday at 1:00 PM

True, smoking isn't a big taboo in continental Europe. People of all socioeconomic classes partake of it.

by Anonymousreply 231Last Thursday at 1:13 PM

Winn Dixie Supermarkets

Belk -Lindsey Department Stores

Kia Automobiles

The Jacklyn Smith Collection at K Mart

Home Shopping Network ( except that time Diana Ross was on to sell her "Diamond Diana " perfume)


Government Cheese

Home Permanents


Washing dishes by hand

by Anonymousreply 232Last Thursday at 1:20 PM

One thing that’s exceptionally déclassé is starting threads about things that are déclassé.— the WORST.

by Anonymousreply 233Last Thursday at 1:26 PM

The lesser Ivies were déclassé when I was a teen but it seems they have all been restored to impressive. I think wannabes such as NYU and USC are in fact quite déclassé now. Bribery scandal really put a dent in USC for example. Tacky place.

by Anonymousreply 234Last Thursday at 1:49 PM

NYU is known as a school for upper-middle class brats who just want to party in NYC for four years on their parents' dime. It's not taken seriously as an academic institution.

by Anonymousreply 235Last Thursday at 2:08 PM

Trans Folx

by Anonymousreply 236Last Thursday at 2:26 PM


by Anonymousreply 237Last Thursday at 2:31 PM

Who really gives an anal wart what fucking Europeans are doing. They are all trash in their "continent" that is only a tiny spit of Asia. Fuck those assholes.

by Anonymousreply 238Last Thursday at 4:01 PM

R232, from or with what do you eat? Sterling and china cannot go into the dishwasher.

by Anonymousreply 239Last Thursday at 5:02 PM

[quote]Who really gives an anal wart what fucking Europeans are doing. They are all trash in their "continent" that is only a tiny spit of Asia. Fuck those assholes.

All of Europe is trash, but a lifetime spent in Turkey Scratch, Arkansas is the height of sophistication?

by Anonymousreply 240Last Friday at 1:18 AM

Elvis was definitely the "king" of the déclassé. His style of singing was popular in the 60s. Over-wrought and faux-emotional. It always blew my mind how he was the God for trailer trash and extreme low class types.

by Anonymousreply 241Last Friday at 11:29 AM
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