I think I'm going insane
I'm sitting in my car outside my exes house in the middle of the night
|by Anonymous||reply 41||January 25, 2021 12:03 PM|
Been there, done that.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||January 25, 2021 4:44 AM|
Your ex had noticed, but apparently doesn't realize that it's you.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||January 25, 2021 4:45 AM|
Go home, take a few shots of whiskey until you pass out before something goes to far.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||January 25, 2021 4:46 AM|
[quote]I think I'm going insane
You're already there.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||January 25, 2021 4:47 AM|
Your ex is inside, wearing a jockstrap and riding a dildo while his friends watch.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||January 25, 2021 4:48 AM|
Op will not be ignored
|by Anonymous||reply 6||January 25, 2021 4:49 AM|
Hide the bunnies NOW!
|by Anonymous||reply 7||January 25, 2021 4:49 AM|
Please spare the rabbit.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||January 25, 2021 4:49 AM|
Before getting into his car, OP was sitting at home turning a lamp on and off, on and off, on and off . . .
|by Anonymous||reply 9||January 25, 2021 4:50 AM|
What's on your iPod?
|by Anonymous||reply 10||January 25, 2021 4:50 AM|
Just remember there ARE things you can’t come back from.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||January 25, 2021 4:51 AM|
G should have won the Oscar for that. I'll admit it.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||January 25, 2021 4:53 AM|
EWW! i did that once and saw him naked with his new BF.. it was awful
|by Anonymous||reply 13||January 25, 2021 4:57 AM|
I know Op is most likely a troll, but I did that with an ex. I was MADLY in love, crazy in love, and when we broke up, I just lost it. Did things totally out of character. For about six months I was fucking insane. Stalking his house constantly. I still shudder at how far down that rabbit hole I went.
Anyway, have fun OP!
|by Anonymous||reply 14||January 25, 2021 5:36 AM|
Be careful OP, this is verging on mental illness and can become dangerous, you don't want a restraining order on you. Seek help.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||January 25, 2021 5:47 AM|
He's dialing 911 as you type.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||January 25, 2021 5:52 AM|
I really do expect better from you. This is my level of deranged bullshit. Aim higher. Have him apply for a balloon mortgage.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||January 25, 2021 5:56 AM|
I know you're home, you left the light on...
I know you're alone, I watched the car leave. Your lover is gone; LET ME IN.....
I know your friend, you told her about me; he filled your with fear, some kind of sin.....
|by Anonymous||reply 18||January 25, 2021 5:57 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 19||January 25, 2021 6:11 AM|
It takes two to tango and he doesn't want to dance with you anymore. Why would you want to be with someone who isn't interested? It's not a match, go find someone better. There are lots of better guys out there who will make you think "WTF was I obsessing over him about?"
It's happened to a lot of us. My lover Francisco has an ass my ex couldn't compete with.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||January 25, 2021 6:19 AM|
My middle name used to be “Obsession.”
I’d go by his house.
If the light’s on, who’s he with?
If the light’s off, who’s he with?
There’s just no end to that squirrel cage made of razor blades in my head.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||January 25, 2021 6:24 AM|
I did that with one guy I'd dated, and one I had an unhappy relationship with for a year (2005 - 2006). Drive by their houses; drive by their new boyfriend's houses; call from payphones and hang-up. What was I looking for?
Me. I was co-dependent and had no self-esteem. I needed an 'other half' to be whole.
I just stopped the whole manhunting thing for a long time. I like being alone now, and no longer put relationships on a pedestal.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||January 25, 2021 6:39 AM|
Don't be stupid OP. People break up all the time, it's normal. What's not normal is if you refuse to accept it.
Start the engine, turn around, drive home!
|by Anonymous||reply 23||January 25, 2021 6:47 AM|
Op- has DL Icon Betty Broderick taught you nothing??? Dan doesn’t want your old, wrinkled, fat, boring ass anymore. Take the Coral Reef house, use some of the money to rebuild your mess of a body, and start cruising the bingo halls for your next husband!!! Do you really want to end up like this?????
|by Anonymous||reply 24||January 25, 2021 6:56 AM|
If you were in a lesbian relationship, this wouldn’t be weird. The restraining order is when you know it might be time to suggest couples therapy. Like I told my last ex girlfriend: “I love you, babe...and it’s not over until I say it’s over...”
|by Anonymous||reply 25||January 25, 2021 7:03 AM|
My ex's wife has just announced her/their pregnancy on Facebook. My mum forwarded me the pic. Life is grim.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||January 25, 2021 7:04 AM|
Donald, is that you?
|by Anonymous||reply 27||January 25, 2021 7:11 AM|
Must be really weird sitting outside staring at a dumpster your mom tossed your blowup doll in.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||January 25, 2021 7:32 AM|
One of the most difficult things is to accept that someone doesn’t love you back the same way you love them. The worst is if they try to “stay friends” and start dating again. My ex met his new boyfriend while he was out in the club with me, walking over and introducing himself in front of me. They were together for ten years.
Take a break to process it, stay away from him and lose contact no matter how friendly the breakup was. Love is blind. Every breakup is a. Lesson towards finding the right one...
But ask yourself why you didn’t see it coming and what you really want for next time.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||January 25, 2021 7:49 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 30||January 25, 2021 8:03 AM|
Wait, OP were you in a loving relationship with a good man only to throw it all away by getting fat?
|by Anonymous||reply 31||January 25, 2021 8:04 AM|
R31 I remember watching that movie when I was a teen I might watch it again.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||January 25, 2021 8:24 AM|
Today Patty Duke’s “before” looks normal size
|by Anonymous||reply 33||January 25, 2021 8:26 AM|
I did that once. Parked outside. He saw my car outside. Called me. Invited me in. And we had great sex!
|by Anonymous||reply 34||January 25, 2021 9:26 AM|
Conchita Ferrell isn’t even that fat in that movie
|by Anonymous||reply 35||January 25, 2021 10:23 AM|
You're a Stalker, Harry!
|by Anonymous||reply 36||January 25, 2021 10:27 AM|
I’ve done that. It did not make me feel any better.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||January 25, 2021 10:35 AM|
Call on private and just say “please”
|by Anonymous||reply 38||January 25, 2021 10:42 AM|
I've done that, too. It's temporary insanity. Awful, miserable OCD. In time, it will pass.
Just don't do anything that will land your ass in the clink.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||January 25, 2021 10:44 AM|
So whats your plan BPD OP? It's your first relationship? All ex-couples end up just memories and it's not worth doing something stupid for them. Go home and eat ice cream or something.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||January 25, 2021 10:54 AM|
You just have to go through it. I would stay as far away from your ex as possible, eventually you will feel ok again...it's like a death, you have to go through the stages of grief. My ex was actually looking at a condo directly across from mine in the same building for him and his new bf. He told me this when we had a brief try at being friendly exes. I would have had to move out I could barely accept that they lived in the same city, forget the same building. I would keep my distance and go through the painful but healing time that it takes to accept things and move on.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||January 25, 2021 12:03 PM|