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I'm sitting in my car outside my exes house in the middle of the night

I think I'm going insane

by Anonymousreply 4101/25/2021

Been there, done that.

by Anonymousreply 101/24/2021

Your ex had noticed, but apparently doesn't realize that it's you.

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by Anonymousreply 201/24/2021

Go home, take a few shots of whiskey until you pass out before something goes to far.

by Anonymousreply 301/24/2021

[quote]I think I'm going insane

You're already there.

by Anonymousreply 401/24/2021

Your ex is inside, wearing a jockstrap and riding a dildo while his friends watch.

by Anonymousreply 501/24/2021

Op will not be ignored

by Anonymousreply 601/24/2021

Hide the bunnies NOW!

by Anonymousreply 701/24/2021

Please spare the rabbit.

by Anonymousreply 801/24/2021

Before getting into his car, OP was sitting at home turning a lamp on and off, on and off, on and off . . .

by Anonymousreply 901/24/2021

What's on your iPod?

by Anonymousreply 1001/24/2021

Just remember there ARE things you can’t come back from.

by Anonymousreply 1101/24/2021

G should have won the Oscar for that. I'll admit it.

by Anonymousreply 1201/24/2021

EWW! i did that once and saw him naked with his new BF.. it was awful

by Anonymousreply 1301/24/2021

I know Op is most likely a troll, but I did that with an ex. I was MADLY in love, crazy in love, and when we broke up, I just lost it. Did things totally out of character. For about six months I was fucking insane. Stalking his house constantly. I still shudder at how far down that rabbit hole I went.

Anyway, have fun OP!

by Anonymousreply 1401/24/2021

Be careful OP, this is verging on mental illness and can become dangerous, you don't want a restraining order on you. Seek help.

by Anonymousreply 1501/24/2021

He's dialing 911 as you type.

by Anonymousreply 1601/24/2021

I really do expect better from you. This is my level of deranged bullshit. Aim higher. Have him apply for a balloon mortgage.

by Anonymousreply 1701/24/2021

I know you're home, you left the light on...

I know you're alone, I watched the car leave. Your lover is gone; LET ME IN.....

I know your friend, you told her about me; he filled your with fear, some kind of sin.....

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by Anonymousreply 1801/24/2021

Be best!

by Anonymousreply 1901/24/2021

It takes two to tango and he doesn't want to dance with you anymore. Why would you want to be with someone who isn't interested? It's not a match, go find someone better. There are lots of better guys out there who will make you think "WTF was I obsessing over him about?"

It's happened to a lot of us. My lover Francisco has an ass my ex couldn't compete with.

by Anonymousreply 2001/24/2021

My middle name used to be “Obsession.”

I’d go by his house.

If the light’s on, who’s he with?

If the light’s off, who’s he with?

There’s just no end to that squirrel cage made of razor blades in my head.

by Anonymousreply 2101/24/2021

I did that with one guy I'd dated, and one I had an unhappy relationship with for a year (2005 - 2006). Drive by their houses; drive by their new boyfriend's houses; call from payphones and hang-up. What was I looking for?

Me. I was co-dependent and had no self-esteem. I needed an 'other half' to be whole.

I just stopped the whole manhunting thing for a long time. I like being alone now, and no longer put relationships on a pedestal.

by Anonymousreply 2201/24/2021

Don't be stupid OP. People break up all the time, it's normal. What's not normal is if you refuse to accept it.

Start the engine, turn around, drive home!

by Anonymousreply 2301/24/2021

Op- has DL Icon Betty Broderick taught you nothing??? Dan doesn’t want your old, wrinkled, fat, boring ass anymore. Take the Coral Reef house, use some of the money to rebuild your mess of a body, and start cruising the bingo halls for your next husband!!! Do you really want to end up like this?????

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by Anonymousreply 2401/24/2021

If you were in a lesbian relationship, this wouldn’t be weird. The restraining order is when you know it might be time to suggest couples therapy. Like I told my last ex girlfriend: “I love you, babe...and it’s not over until I say it’s over...”

by Anonymousreply 2501/24/2021

My ex's wife has just announced her/their pregnancy on Facebook. My mum forwarded me the pic. Life is grim.

by Anonymousreply 2601/24/2021

Donald, is that you?

by Anonymousreply 2701/24/2021

Must be really weird sitting outside staring at a dumpster your mom tossed your blowup doll in.

by Anonymousreply 2801/24/2021

One of the most difficult things is to accept that someone doesn’t love you back the same way you love them. The worst is if they try to “stay friends” and start dating again. My ex met his new boyfriend while he was out in the club with me, walking over and introducing himself in front of me. They were together for ten years.

Take a break to process it, stay away from him and lose contact no matter how friendly the breakup was. Love is blind. Every breakup is a. Lesson towards finding the right one...

But ask yourself why you didn’t see it coming and what you really want for next time.

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by Anonymousreply 3001/25/2021

Wait, OP were you in a loving relationship with a good man only to throw it all away by getting fat?

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by Anonymousreply 3101/25/2021

R31 I remember watching that movie when I was a teen I might watch it again.

by Anonymousreply 3201/25/2021

Today Patty Duke’s “before” looks normal size

by Anonymousreply 3301/25/2021

I did that once. Parked outside. He saw my car outside. Called me. Invited me in. And we had great sex!

by Anonymousreply 3401/25/2021

Conchita Ferrell isn’t even that fat in that movie

by Anonymousreply 3501/25/2021

You're a Stalker, Harry!

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by Anonymousreply 3601/25/2021

I’ve done that. It did not make me feel any better.

by Anonymousreply 3701/25/2021

Call on private and just say “please”

by Anonymousreply 3801/25/2021

I've done that, too. It's temporary insanity. Awful, miserable OCD. In time, it will pass.

Just don't do anything that will land your ass in the clink.

by Anonymousreply 3901/25/2021

So whats your plan BPD OP? It's your first relationship? All ex-couples end up just memories and it's not worth doing something stupid for them. Go home and eat ice cream or something.

by Anonymousreply 4001/25/2021

You just have to go through it. I would stay as far away from your ex as possible, eventually you will feel ok's like a death, you have to go through the stages of grief. My ex was actually looking at a condo directly across from mine in the same building for him and his new bf. He told me this when we had a brief try at being friendly exes. I would have had to move out I could barely accept that they lived in the same city, forget the same building. I would keep my distance and go through the painful but healing time that it takes to accept things and move on.

by Anonymousreply 4101/25/2021
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