DL Fave Matthew Dempsey: COVID Apologist!

Matthew's flippant response doesn't go over any better.

[quote]I once again have to respectfully disagree. The people who continue to recklessly ignore lockdown and quarantine protocols have been doing so all year. Reaching out with science did not work at the beginning of the pandemic. Offering empathy did not stop them during summer pride parties. Or July 4th. Labor Day. Halloween. thanksgiving. Christmas and other holidays. And now New Years. they are repeat offenders who have ignored every effort to get them to realize the damage they are inflicting on themselves and, more importantly, on others. They have ignored our respectful appeals to change their behavior and we are no longer tolerating it.

[quote]Your post read as ‘apologist’ for their behavior and reeks of privilege. People partying in PV and Brazil because they can’t miss the white party is so fucking selfish.

[quote]I am still so confused by what you’re trying to achieve. You are literally living in a state of emergency and I think the time for empathy for these people has passed. Even if we understand why they’re doing it (selfishness) then what exactly should we do to stop it. Trying to “understand” why they’re doing it is not going to achieve anything except cause more death and destruction. Perhaps we should be be more empathetic to the millions of Americans who are out of work (and will continue to be so the longer this drags on), and who certainly can’t afford international travel. Trying to see the world from these idiots’ perspective achieves absolutely nothing. By calling them out, maybe a few of them might engage their remaining brain cells and realise that what they’re doing is disgraceful.

[quote]Your post read as ‘apologist’ for their behavior and reeks of privilege.

Well, he and his friends do have "pretty privilege."

[quote]Well, he and his friends do have "pretty privilege."

They're "A" Gays!

More "A" Gays FUN almost a year ago in January 2020!

I hate that I find him attractive.

I find him ridiculous. Methinks Miss Dempsey is planning on attending her own maskless party with her other pretty friends

"I ALSO HAVEN'T BEEN PERFECT!"

He admits it on the OP post on Instagram. He's been partying it up along with his fellow "A" Gays!

(As Matthew is getting anal rejuvenation treatments)

[quote]“Toxic Positivity” refers to the misuse of positive thinking to avoid emotional discomfort. It’s a tendency to be aware of because we want to allow positive thinking to marry and help manage our uncomfortable emotion while we still process through it, not avoid it. That said, I hate the name “toxic positivity” because I think it confuses people to think you can be “too” positive and you can’t. Positivity in it’s most absolute form inherently accepts everything, experience AND feeling as good. So let’s frame shitty situations as an opportunity for growth and the emotional discomfort as the necessary feeling of getting stronger. And if you’re overusing positive thinking to avoid feeling, then that’s not positivity at all. It’s emotional avoidance. 🤍

HOW CAN I HIRE HIM AS MY THERAPIST???!!!

I thought this was about Patrick Dempsey. I clicked on the link and realized I have no idea who the hell this guy is.

What is it with Instagram attention whores and hair puffs?

He is literally the definition of toxic positivity. It’s why he is so loathsome.

That's some uncommitted passive aggressive comment by him. To say we should judge or be hard on those who don't follow-up the safety guidelines when it literally risks the lives of other people is pathetic.

R12 Correction:

That's some uncommitted passive aggressive comment by him. To say we SHOULDN'T judge or be hard on those who don't follow-up the safety guidelines when it literally risks the lives of other people is pathetic.

Dempsey is *thisclose* to regurgitating the standard Covidiot line about how “only people with ugly faces think masks should be mandatory.”

Fuck him and his “pretty privilege.”

[quote]Empathize and normalize.

COVID Apologist even back on April 20, 2020.

My god, he babbles way to much like he’s the world’s expert in human psychology.

Please STFU

"When your heart is open for the person and moment in front of you, you’re connected with no strings attached."

When your *hole* is open for the person and moment in front of you, you’re connected with no strings attached.

Matthew used to be best friends with the very handsome Jesse Tannenbaum.

What happened to their sexless life partner bond?

This is a preemptive strike, Somebody is going to the white party in PV or private NYE event. Mask down, ass up, that's the way we like to fuck!

Yeah, you *know* Dr. Bouffant would give his right nut to be in Puerto Vallarta and at that party, and so would his merry band of "A-Gay" himbos!

[quote]R17 "When your heart is open for the person and moment in front of you, you’re connected with no strings attached."

I hate mindless babble like this. "No strings attached"? What if the person in front of you that you're being "open" with is off their meds, and pulls out a knife? What if they sneeze a bunch of phlegm in your face?

"No strings attached" doesn't exist. We are always reacting to what is developing, and have reasonable expectations.

2020 and the pandemic has shown how useless and vapid these guys are. Only a nice body to look at, nothing more. Most of them don't even sell porn which makes them even more useless. Waste of Internet space, and we shouldn't worship nor celebrate these selfish whores in the community

Matthew DID go to PV last year!

Do you think he went this year?

COVID Party Apologist!

Should I post this dumb bitches nudes again?

R24, YES! PLEASE!

24- YES!!!

Question: How does he make money? I would not feel comfortable if my therapist was a public figure. Perhaps I'm alone, but I'd imagine this might limit his clientele. At the same time, I'm sure there are homos that see him just to have him pay attention to them.

I'd love a session with him just to test the degree to which he can talk about anything except himself. For someone like him, it must be a torturous way to make money.

I can't shake the feeling this paragon of affirmed living is not what he claims and more what he seems.

So first and foremost, the way this guy could avoid anyone talking about him is to not post on social media. I want to start by saying that and the choice of a "therapist" to do so - I believe - is suspect and shows he has more camera-friendly/wider fame aspirations than just having a private practice. Which, at its heart, I do not see as motivated by helping people.

That said, if we want to give him the benefit of the doubt and think that, at minimum, he wants to build up his practice and, at maximum, he wants to spread positivity and encouraging words to a wide audience - what SHOULD he be saying? Most of what he says - while surface level - I don't find wrong or morally objectionable.

Let me rephrase that I think the fact that he's posting ANYTHING is gross for a therapist to do but if one is gonna do it, his messaging isn't terrible.

Please re-post his nudes!

[quote]What we see reflected in the mirror can go from a "flower crown" to "zombie lens" filter in a heartbeat without anything actually changing. We tend to buy what we see on the surface at face value without realizing how much it's distorted by our deeper emotional stuff. And us gays have plenty thanks to homophobia. In my latest video I teamed up with @grindr to talk about the "Funhouse Mirrors" effect, why it can be more triggering than ever during COVID, and how we can reset not only what we feel but also what we see.

The post in OP is a textbook example of toxic positivity. He’s a scam artist if he can’t recognize that too much blind positivity is called DENIAL.

And why are people calling him pretty? He’s exceedingly average looking and hides half his face under his beard. His entire personality is in his hair and his fake tanned, overworked out at fifty body.

He's not pretty. But the gay collective decided he is with his high follower account. Most of these social media gays are average white guys with muscles. If the standards for attention and to even be glanced at in the gay community wasn't just be white & be fit than guys like Matthew Dempsey would have been ignored.

I have never considered him beautiful or hot, in fact he is average looking just like Sam Cuching.

[quote] Matthew DID go to PV last year! Do you think he went this year?

Yes, he went to PV in Nov. 2020 with all his friends. His friends are in PV again for New Year’s Eve so he posted that as a preemptive defense for them, for people not to call them out and to emphasize with them instead.

If Sam Cushing's average, lord help the rest of us.

GaysOverCOVID is all over this!

Guuurl....no wonder you been talking so fast!

How long does that hairdo take every morning? Or does he wrap his head in tissue every night like my grandmother did?

I knew those posts in his IG were damage control

Where are the nudes

So he was in PV at the end of September?

He is wrong. Shame HAS been shown to work in changing public behavior.

He's attractive until he opens his mouth and a purse falls out.

5 Amigos + 24 Cervezas + COVID+ Puerto Vallarta = Jotas Pendejas ☠️

Maybe homoclones have a natural immunity to COVID?

Make no mistake, this guy's ONLY motivation to offer himself up on social media is his high opinion of his looks & his need to have others affirm that. Anything else is just an excuse to get in front of a camera. He's waaaaay to wordy for me.

I marvel that he's been able to befriend only those scruffy bearded muscle clones.

Unless I was a paying client of his I guarantee you I wouldn't get a second look, let alone a first.

[quote][bold]ghostbusta[/bold]: No one was acting out of fear or exhaustion. They were acting out because of having hungry holes and an appetite for mdma.

I am betting this guy was in PV - just was smart enough not ot post - but is afraid it will get out.

R50 exactly - this all reads very preemptive to me

I’m just so sick of all the moral and ethical contextualism.

R52 it's the pyschobabble he needs to spew to his followers so he can sleep well at night after getting his sloppy hole bred during a pandemic in Mexico

Fuck this mediocrity.

[quote]He is wrong. Shame HAS been shown to work in changing public behavior.

He's no wrong R43. He's [bold]LYING[/bold]. There's a big difference.

You sound bitter r48.

Work out regularly and watch what you eat. Be a top.

Whole new worlds will open up for you if you work on improving yourself.

I'd definitely overhaul my entire life to exhaustively win over the affection of people who have no vested interest in other people outside of looks, bank account and dick size, R56.

Are you going to post the nudes R24?

Then pay to be client and stop your jealous bitching r48 / r57

Yall would fuck him, stop playing

No would pay him any attention, especially the rancid breathed Matthew Dempsey obsessed troll, if they didn’t want to fuck him r60

FUCK their “pretty privilege”!

Fuck it right in the ASS!!

[quote]R60 Yall would fuck him, stop playing

No thank you.

I would hate to be tried for murder, and he is so very cloying.

How many of his WeHo squad are in PV?

Jiffy Pop Psychology (and hair).

Someone post his nudes!!

He has no credibility with that bouffant.

Isn’t it more of a pompadour?

Thank god most of the people commenting on his Instagram aren't falling for his BS

It’s a bouffant pompadour.

[quote]R66 Someone post his nudes!!

Why?? He is not under consideration.

Fresh as a Daisy

Platonic kiss

Ugh so tired of this twat. Go away, irrelevant person, Mr Gay Over COVID 2020

Oh, God.. that dye job.

No…I will not be sucked in to another discussion on this dipshit lol