Seeing Co-Workers Naked

If the co-worker was hot and had a big dick, I'd probably okay with it.

It’s a great way to get over a crush on a co-worker if he doesn’t look good naked.

I had to go to an office summer party a few years ago and a nice looking co-worker decided to get in the pool. His whole body was covered with hideous tattoos of random things in odd places. He was a handsome guy but I never had any interest in seeing him naked again.

More American prudishness. Trust me, he thought nothing of it. JFC

I used to work with a really hot straight guy who I used to see at my gym all the time, but he never showered there, which always frustrated the hell out of me, because I really wanted to see him naked.

Well, one day after my workout, I went into the locker room, and there he was, getting undressed. "Yes," I thought, and watched him take his clothes off out of the corner of my eye while pretending to get something out of my locker.

When he took off his underwear, he exposed his beautiful, round, hard ass. Then he turned around. Cock the size of a thimble. Damn. Fantasy killed. At least the butt was good.

OP is ashamed of his body and projecting his body image issues onto other people. Get over it, fat ho OP.

I hate this.

I don't anymore but I have gone to the gym at my workplace in the past and this has happened a couple of times, and I find it so unbearably uncomfortable. I don't mind strangers seeing my dick in the shower but I don't like being naked around anyone I know at the gym (have worked out with straight mates before and been naked around them after and I just look anywhere else and am much more self conscious myself) but it's even worse with people from work.

R6 Agreed, A few years ago, our company sponsored a barbecue and pool party at a private club. I remember walking into the locker room of the club to change into my swimming trunks, and all these guys I work with, from colleagues to executives, walk in and start getting naked. Everybody, including me, seemed really uncomfortable about it. Nobody was talking, everybody was making an effort to look anywhere but at the other guys.

I remember in particular this one guy who, at work, was always really gregarious and funny and loud. When he walked in, his whole personality changed. Got totally quiet, didn't say a word. He seemed to be the most uncomfortable of all.

It's just odd seeing the dicks and balls of people you work with.

R6 I also don't mind strangers seeing me naked in the locker room. I don't know why; I guess it's because I figure I'll never encounter them out in the "real world."

But when people I know see me naked, I feel vulnerable and exposed. I don't even want my friends seeing me naked.

My first day at a new job was spent at the boss' home, meeting with him and two other senior guys. At the end of the day, bossman announced we were going hot-tubbing. The three guys stripped off their clothes and walked out of the house and through the woods to the hot tub. I followed suit.

It was very weird.

R9 Your first day?! Weird indeed. I don't know if I could've done that.

Did the boss have a big dick?

Sounds like an alpha power move to me.

R9 They were testing you to see if you wanted to be gangbanged by them. You missed a good opportunity.

I did have one experience where I saw a co-worker naked in the shower at the gym. He was a total nerd; skinny as a rail, complete IT geek. He had one of the biggest dicks I'd ever seen. It was long, thick, uncut - a monster.

Funny thing about him is that at work, the guy was very quiet and shy; I sometimes thought he was on the autism spectrum, because he was always uncomfortable talking to people and rarely made eye contact with you when you talked to him.

But in the shower, with his huge junk flopping around, he seemed like a different person. He saw me and said "hi," looking me straight in the eye and smiling. He had Big Dick Confidence in the shower, that's for sure.

He was like a reverse Superman - with his clothes on, he was very meek. But naked, he was like a super hero.

Not a personal co-worker story, but once I was in the locker room at the gym, and these two guys walked in together, talking to each other. One guy was middle-aged, nice looking, in good shape. The other was a younger guy, really nice body.

So they're talking as they're getting undressed. It was obvious they worked together, because they were having a business conversation full of jargon and buzz words. Then suddenly, the younger guy says to the older guy, "Well, Bob, I finally get to see your cock."

"Bob" seemed shocked. He laughed nervously, then quickly put a towel around himself. Observing it, it was pretty funny, but poor Bob!

Some guys have a small dick when it's soft but a big dick when it's hard.

R1 is correct. End of thread.

HOT r13

R13 Did you have the urge to get down on your knees and suck him off right there?

[quote]Did the boss have a big dick? Sounds like an alpha power move to me.

The boss was tiny but one of the VPs -- a short, slight guy -- was huge. I saw it a lot because it was a small, entrepreneurial company and we had to share rooms when he traveled. He always made sure to room with me. He wasn't gay, he didn't know I was, we just got along well ... and he wasn't shy being naked.

I was in the pool!!

R18 Kind of. And actually, ever since seeing his big dick in the shower, I've kind of had a thing for geeky guys.

R19 What kind of company was this? Seems like there was a lot casual nudity going on there.

[quote]What kind of company was this?

A start-up software company, so everybody on the sales side was a hard-charging alpha type. I only ever saw the three naked, so it's not like there was rampant nudity.

R9 I don't know if I could've gotten naked with co-workers my first day on the job. I'd have probably made up some story that would've gotten me out of there.

Kudos to you for seeing it through and being rewarded with the sight of a big dick.

I agree with R11. Sounds like some kind of initiation ceremony or something; like they were testing you to see if you had the balls to...show your balls.

When I was doing an internship at college, I went to the Y after work every day to either work out or shoot hoops.

Ran into an OPS manager in the sauna. We were both naked. He looked directly at my crotch and said "I'm a grower, not a shower, looks like you are just a shower". I am not that hung, but we both laughed and started talking about work. He was a huge pussy hound and ended up being a mentor. I miss guys like that.

In Munich, it is fairly common for businessmen and office workers around the Marienplatz to walk down to the Englischer Garten on their lunch break on a sunny day, strip down and sunbathe naked. Nobody bats an eye. Imagine your boss, your cubicle neighbor, the secretary, the mail room clerk, etc. all gathered by the river in all their glory.

I had a very uncomfortable experience once.

One of my first jobs was with a small 50-person tech company, and one day at the gym, I got into the shower and a few minutes later, the chief engineer of the company came to the shower head right next to me - it was one of those gang showers without any dividers.

He was a very quiet, stern, all-business guy at work, and when he got next to me in the shower, he was no different. He gave me a brief, muted "hello," and then ignored me.

Of course, I was curious, so when it was safe, I glanced down and looked at his dick, and he was fully hard - sticking straight out. It was pretty big, too. Then he saw that I was looking and immediately put his hands over his dick, turned off the shower, and left quickly.

I never saw him again at my gym, and it was always extremely uncomfortable being around him after that. I don't know if he got turned on showering next to me, or if he was just one of those guys who easily got a boner in the shower and couldn't control it. I don't think he was gay; I know he was married to a woman, so it was very confusing.

Anyway, things were never the same between us at work after that.

R27 Europeans are much more comfortable with nudity overall than uptight Americans.

Still, I don't think I'd want to see my company's secretary nude. Blech.

Its because you're gay OP. Your looking at his male body through gay eyes. Straight guys would not have the same reaction you did. There's nothing wrong with your reaction.

What gym in the U.S. still has open showers?

The last ones disappeared in NYC around a decade ago.

I work with a guy with a great muscular and exceptionally hairy body and a big dick. It's so awesome when I run into him in the locker room on our campus. He is married to a woman and has four kids, but he knows he's attractive to men, and he works it. He knows I'm too polite to ever make a genuine pass at him, so he can flirt with me.

MARY!!

What is this amateur hour beta-male bullshit? I spent four years in the Army, traveled around Europe, frequented nude beaches and was into some sports in my younger years. I have no problem stripping down naked when I’m in front of other males and it certainly doesn’t bother me when they do so in front of me. I’ve been to bathhouses and men’s spas. I’ve skinny-dipped with my straight friends in the pool after some beers. It’s so very weird for me to hear about other men being gun shy in the presence of other men. Those men only spaces were the places where we could be confortable enough to shower and dress like we would at home. Sharing a steam room or sauna is actually really common in other cultures. Big porn dicks forever changed the mentality of the men that watch them whether str8 or gay. Who cares what the next guy is packing? Are you trying to turn every nude experience into a potential tryst? Or are you externally projecting your internal body shame onto others? I don’t have the expectation or assumption that taking off my clothes will lead to a sexual encounter. Am I the odd one here? Is this a mental issue that American men suffer with culturally??

Quel dommage !

When I was playing racquetball on a regular basis I challenged co-workers to join me at my gym. Of course I only invited the cute co-workers. Great opportunity for me to check out their "goods" in the locker room. One was very hung and I enjoyed the view. Nothing awkward about seeing them naked and I wasn't ashamed of how I looked. I mean, we're just guys afterall.

R31 There are still quite a few around. My gym doesn't have "open showers" per se; every shower is a separate stall, but there no shower curtains or doors on them, so you can see everybody around you.

I once saw my boss naked in a locker room. I hated him, and I was so happy to see he had no dick. Every time I would see him after that, I'd laugh a little inside.

I used to see this guy at my gym all the time. He was tall, thin, but very toned, and had this great thick, long dick. I lusted after the guy.

Then one day at work, a co-worker came to my office and introduced me to our new intern. It was that guy. I wasn't uncomfortable at all. I wanted to say, "Whip it out so everyone else in the office can see what you're packin'!"

I tried this trick on my first manager out of college. He was around 32, tall, tanned, handsome, and fit. He liked to mentor us younger guys so I worked up the courage to ask him to lift some weights with me before work at my local (mega church's) gym. I knew they had communal showers, no dividers. We do out workout then head into the locker room. He saw the shower setup, dithered, then decided he will shower at home before heading into the office. I was displeased but whatever, it was worth the shot.

Not naked and not a man, but my gym has a pool, and I would bump into an older woman who was a Dean at the school where I teach. It didn't bother me that she saw me in a square-cut, but I got the vibe that she was a bit bothered about me seeing her in her swimsuit.

Most men wouldn't care, if you saw them naked in the locker-room.

When I was in college in Colorado, I had a hot young professor for one of my classes - athletic, tight body. I used to see him in the campus gym all the time, and the showers there were the open style. He looked great naked - beautiful ass, nice thick dick.

Fast forward many years later, and I'm living in northern California and attending a conference at work. This professor is a keynote speaker. He's now fat and bald. I'm glad I have the memories of him as a young stud with a big dick.

[quote] Big porn dicks forever changed the mentality of the men that watch them whether str8 or gay.

This. The ubiquity of Internet porn changed everything. Of course guys in porn have monster cocks and it made men insecure.

I don't mind smaller dicks. I don't get how anyone else can either. Be around 5" hard and I'm happy. I can get it all down my throat and ride it like a Bronco. Size queens are crazy.

It wouldn't phase me. But I'm a sophisticated continental type.

I understand the point, but just curious. I mean a lot of people go to prep school or college and live in dorms, or have gym class, play sports, share a dressing room when doing theatre. Did you never have this experience of seeing strangers or peers naked before this? Something should have prepared you a little bit for the experience of seeing a colleague naked in a locker room/dressing room situation before adulthood.

R44 Yes, but I think it's different when you're young and in gym class or you're in a college dorm.

There's something different and odd about being a grown up in the workplace and seeing your boss or people you have to work on with projects every day with their cocks and balls hanging out.

Who's the dude in R43's picture?

Gianni Agnelli

I did a play with a guy who was super hot and was a totally womanizer. Well, one day I'm on a tube site surfing through the gay porn clips and to my shock and excitement, there's "Dave" sucking some guys dick with MAD SKILLS! I couldn't believe it! I never interacted with him again (face to face in person) but I did see him across a crowded restaurant once, but didn't say hello.

What was the website r48. You can't leave us hanging like that.

My boss treated the office to Massages at Burke Williams one time. The girls went in their Locker Room the boys to ours. We got undressed and into robes. Someone suggested we hop in the Hot Tub in the men's locker room before our massages. I got in first. I didn't look up when my three male coworkers got in tub, but when we were ready to get out I looked up and as my manager was climbing out of the tub, i was starring directly into the pink abyss of his asshole!!! He was a redhead, so that stink was hairless and pink!!!! Super pink! After that, every time I saw him I could get his asshole out of my mind. It was a real problem!

^^ I could NOT get his asshole out of my mind!!!

If your coworker is hot then hot and I want more and put it in my mouth. If he’s ugly then gross and I’ll sue you for sexual assault on my eyes.

OP is a girlleen

OMG my male colleagues have penises!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It would make me uncomfortable but I was very overweight as a kid so the idea of having to shower naked with my classmates in high school sounded like Hell.

I'm so glad when guys can be naked again

I don’t want to see anyone naked who I have to see everyday. Coworkers are just that, not friends or crushes. Seeing these people 5 days a week is enough.

I think they should all wear constricting under-garments and modest trousers!

It can be OP

When I was at my first job out of college, one of the perks was that we got free gym memberships at Equinox.

I used to go to the one by my house in the AM but one day I had to be in early for a meeting and decided to go at lunchtime as there was a location near our office.

All good--place was fairly empty, and I go, work out then get showered and dressed--and as I leaving my locker, I turn the corner, boom! I run into one of the senior guys I reported to, he was probably in his 50s and he's naked--he'd just gotten there and was changing into his gym clothes. He said hello, we exchanged a few minutes of pleasantries about the benefits of working out at lunchtime when the gym was empty and I was off, but it was weird AF.

Mostly because I was fully dressed in a suit and tie and he was stark naked, partly because I had only seen him in a suit and tie before and partly because he was flabby and out of shape and had a hairy back and I was 23 and not used to seeing naked men who looked like that. And he was someone who was sort of "imperial" at the office--secretary outside his door guarding access, you'd go in and he'd be writing or something and not look up at you and you had to sit there for five minutes waiting till he was done with whatever he was doing (or pretending to do) before he'd look at you and all that, so it was even weirder to see him naked and being friendly.

(Funny how that sort of "imperial" behavior doesn't exist much anymore. Or maybe it's because I'm older.)

But I stuck to my AM workouts after that.

Omg R50. A glimpse of cock is one thing, but having your manager’s pink hole winking at you like that is too much.

R48 That's beyond seeing a co-worker naked. That's a whole other level!

I had a straight co-worker who was pretty hot. He'd been an MMA fighter and worked another job as a high school wrestling coach. Handsome. Mexican. Very masculine. Also happened to be one of the nicest guys ever.

He wasn't in as great a shape as he'd been in his competing days, but he definitely had a nice, thick athletic build (as in, the original definition of a "Dad bod", before "Dad bod" morphed into meaning "fat slob").

We both used to go to the nearby gym on our lunch hour, and we had to shower before going back to work, so I saw him naked a few times. We didn't acknowledge each other at all in the shower area. I just caught some quick glances of his ass, which was smooth and meaty. I may have caught a quick glimpse of his dick once or twice, but I don't remember for sure. If I did, it was probably pretty average.

Overall, the experience was probably more awkward than hot.

When I was at nursing college there were two senior lecturers who went running every lunchtime. When they came back they would stand around naked after showering, for what seemed an unnecessarily long time. It was uncomfortable because there was only one men’s bathroom, and it was combined with the shower room. I couldn’t go for a pee without being confronted by two naked much older straight men doing their stretches.

At a large conference hotel, I decided to spend free time in the spa. While there were separate facilities for men and women a common room was shared with refreshments and televisions. A group of two men and one woman sat in robes discussing business. It struck me as odd that they behaved normally in spite of one man’s dick prominently on display as his robe failed to cover it.

[quote] you'd go in and he'd be writing or something and not look up at you and you had to sit there for five minutes waiting till he was done with whatever he was doing (or pretending to do) before he'd look at you and all that,

That is so arrogant and infuriating. I had a manager who did that to me, and they day he was shitcanned was delightful for all of us who had to work with him.

Not a story about co-workers, but some of the locker room stories reminded me of this one...I was a junior in high school and our cross-country coach decided we should start lifting leg weights before school (in addition to running about 10 miles at practice after school). Several of the kids either didn't want to do it, or couldn't get a ride to school that early, so a lot of times it was just me and this senior guy who had only that year joined the team. I knew him vaguely from ROTC and I also knew his younger brother. The rumour had been around about both of us being "fags," but we both ignored the taunts. (This was the mid-90s when kids still threw that word around). Anyway, the first time we finished lifting leg weights together, we went to the locker room and he shamelessly stripped down naked (he'd only been wearing Umbro shorts) and said he'd see me in the communal shower. I literally had to go in the restroom stall and jerk off so I could go into the shower without an erection. I came in about 20 seconds just thinking about his lithe, naked body waiting for me. Once I got in the shower, we barely acknowledged one another. But I always looked forward to working out and showering with him...perhaps a missed opportunity now that I think back, but neither of us were anywhere near out back then.

The co-workers are hoping the gay guy tells the cubefraus that they have nice cocks.

R33 I agree - all the pearl clutching over seeing other men naked in places where casual nudity is appropriate, whether you know them or not, is dumb.

I agree that there are extremes where people could be more modest In their behavior while naked in public areas like saunas and changing rooms. I once had to tell a guy to stop using the hand dryer to blow dry his crotch in the gym locker room.

But you guys judging your naked co-workers for your own hangups about nudity - and acting like being naked in a locker room while changing is obnoxious or shameful - sound like a bunch of silly 13 year old girls. Normal male adults don’t act like this.

[quote]I agree - all the pearl clutching over seeing other men naked in places where casual nudity is appropriate, whether you know them or not, is dumb.

It's different with co-workers, though. Most men don't have problems with casual nudity but with co-workers it's just weird.

I work out at a company gym and most people are pretty discreet in their locker room habits. This thread proves why that’s best, since I could see how someone accidentally being naked while changing could make someone else feel “unsafe”and result in them getting reported

In the early 80s, when I was in junior high, we were required to shower after P.E. It was uncomfortable at first, but after a while, you stopped thinking about it. It was just routine. I’m assuming it’s like that in professional sports and in the military. You see people naked and you move on. It’s not distressing, and it doesn’t matter if they are older, attractive or have a small dick. Everyone is naked for the same reason - to shower and change. All this body shame and towel dancing crap is in my opinion weirder than anyone being comfortable changing and showering in the locker room.

[quote] could make someone else feel “unsafe”

I like feeling "unsafe" and then that porn music starts playing in the background and he's looking at me all shifty-eyed...

I was in middle school in the late 80s and we didn't shower. Even way back then nobody wanted to get naked in front of each other.

I don't even like having to see most of my co-workers fully clothed.

R31 you are wrong.

The Y on 63rd has open showers as does the Y on 47th.

[quote] It's different with co-workers, though. Most men don't have problems with casual nudity but with co-workers it's just weird.

This.

They're not friends but you see them and interact with them daily and that makes seeing them naked far more weird

A girlfriend at work has hooked up with a few of our co-workers. She's shown me the dick pics and messages they sent her. I find it really hot to be in a meeting with these guys knowing what their dicks look like and what they want a girl to do to them

R76 Your girlfriend sounds like a slutty cunt.

I walked into the sauna of my gym once and saw my morbidly obese boss sitting there, stark naked, not even a towel over his crotch (not that there was much to cover up).

I wanted to turn around and walk out when I saw him, but he saw me and nodded at me, so leaving at that point would have been too obvious. So I walked in and tried to sit as far away from him as possible. There was only one other person in the sauna at the same, and it was completely silent. I counted slowly to 60, then got up and left.

So awkward. And from that day on, whenever I saw him, I always thought of him as that sweaty, gross, naked blob of lard sitting in the sauna.

A daily occurrence during my internship with EJ.

I'm not well endowed. I accept the fact. So I don't want an underling seeing me naked, especially some 20-something with a big hose. Call me crazy but I think it would undermine my departmental authority.

I've said in the office the only parts of my coworkers body I want to see is their faces and hands.

I’m a woman and worked for a multinational investment bank. At the time, I was in Operations, which is kind of the dregs.

Went into the bathroom and this 20-something girl was standing there, topless at the sinks, wiping out her armpits and chest with baby wipes. She had been out for a run during her lunch hour and was using the ladies room sink as her locker room. She was from another culture and had been in the military, so she was perfectly comfortable.

And it wasn’t exactly WRONG, but it wasn’t entirely appropriate, either. No one expects to go into a corporate setting restroom and see bare breasts and a public sponge bath. She should have gone into the handicapped stall and performed her ablutions in private.

Another coworker who was a department head came in and saw her and reported it to HR. They had a talk with her, and when the next round of layoffs happened, she was fired.

I’ve never seen such an assembly of eccentrics and weirdos in my life. The back office is a whole other universe.

[quote] She was from another culture

Do tell. Was she one of those lurid Negresses we often hear about with hot jungle blood running in her veins?

A fiery Latina, lusty and high spirited?

Was she a dirty, sexual Swede?

Perchance a sly, inscrutable Oriental, redolent of the mysteries of the East

I once had to tell a guy to stop using the hand dryer to blow dry his crotch in the gym locker room.

I don't see the problem.

It was about 1997 when I had my first opportunity to travel for work. I went with two co-workers (one male, one female) to St. Louis for a training program. For some silly company reason, we had to travel TOGETHER the entire time, meeting at the airport, seated together, same cab, etc., all of that. When we checked into the hotel in early afternoon, their two rooms were ready but mine was not. What to do? My male co-worker "Tom" offered to let me store my bags in his room until my room was ready. So off we went to his room, now without our female coworker. We had some time to kill before dinner, so Tom and I decided to go to the hotel gym and work out ... together. Dressed in our workout clothes, we did some sets and even spotted each other on the bench press. Tom was very fit and I always thought he was sexy. But because we were co-workers, I never flirted with him; I knew he was gay and married.

After we got back to his room ... (was my room ready? we forgot to ask on our way back to his room...) ... he said, "I need to take a shower" and he went into the bathroom ... left the door open ... and I listened as he proceeded to take his shower ... with the door wide open. As I waited, I was thinking, "Is this some kind of test of my self-control?" Minutes later, he came out wrapped in his towel, and I did not get to see him naked, but only semi-naked. And he didn't get to see me naked; my room was ready soon after. The trip continued and nothing else like that happened.

But I remembered that moment.

A few years later, we were no longer co-workers; he had moved away. Unexpectedly, we ran into each other at someone's retirement party. The subtle flirting started at the party and continued as we exited together to go to the parking lot. At the edge of the parking lot, he made this move, "Do you need a ride to your car?" (I love that move, it's so transparent!) Of course, I said said yes, even though my car was only a few steps away. After we got into his car, he did not turn the ignition but we continued the conversation, and soon enough he put his hand on my knee. And then we were making out and groping each other, he was a great kisser.

Shortly after that, I met him in his hotel room for some sex, which was fun and kind of a fantasy come true. He was still married so it was only about the sex. We met several times for sex, always fun and not so much passionate as much as two buddies giving each other pleasure. We haven't hooked up in a while, but I still run into him from time to time and there is always mutual interest, and fond memories.

Within a few weeks of that, we met in his

[italic] Dear R87

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It’s always fun seeing coworkers on Grindr or Scruff. Especially the ones who lost elaborate preferences or aren’t shy about unlocking private albums without knowing who they are showing it all to

Dear R88 Stop being a troll.

R87 you're a who're darling.

I love the idea that Nifty has editors who maintain certain standards.

I was shy when young but got over it. With swimming naked in the country, showering at pools, gyms and work, and going to an old-style Jewish bathhouse I got used to seeing the men (and sometimes women, when doing a "skinny dipping" run through the pools in the area) I knew without clothes on I learned to be comfortable.

Not sexualizing every situation like this and feeling okay about one's own body is important. My family was circumspect about nudity but my father was a sportsman and nonchalant and easy with being naked in some settings, which helped. Of course I enjoyed seeing men I liked with their clothes off. But is deferring erotic value out of camaraderie and respect that difficult?

Are younger guys less okay (assuming OP and others here are telling the truth) because the kinds of experiences that socialized men together in the past are less common? Has the response to abuse (I was abused, but not by anyone from any of these situations) made what seems natural weird?

I once saw a co-worker in the locker room of my gym. He had a great body, but when he took off his shirt, I saw a tattoo over his right nipple that said "Party," and one over his left nipple that said "Hard."

I almost laughed out loud when I saw that. It was a complete boner killer for me, and I never took the guy seriously after that.

To get over any discomfort or social awkwardness, try this simple trick!

Bury your face in their crotch so there's no eye contact.

In parts of Europe workers enjoy the sauna together, buck naked. Both men and women and it is no big fucking deal.

No gay man wants this

Her chopped off tits

Her vagina, leering

Her stolen hormones

Her insanity

Oops, my bad

Wrong thread

If he were a man with a mangina I'd hit it. Ok let's get back to the thread.

I went to college in the late 70's and was in a fraternity. We had few bathrooms but each shower room was communal with just the spigots in the tile. One was a small room with 4 spigots two on each side. Had to shower just a few feet from by "brothers" and try not to look. Once our frat president who had an amazing body passed out naked on the shower floor after a party. Oh what a wasted opportunity. But those were different times and they later tried to throw me out of the frat after I had moved out and got my own apartment on campus. One a-hole (who I later learned was a big queen) saw me dancing with my bf at the local only gay bar and ratted me out to my "brothers". Why he happened to be there was never asked. Well this one guy who was one of my only friends in the frat house apparently stood up for me and said that I couldn't possibly be queer and it was a smear campaign. They dropped going after me, but I find it amusing that all years later, they still ask me for money. BTW, the guy who stood up for me used to stand at the sink naked every morning brushing his teeth and shaving. He was handsome and had a big fat cock when flaccid. We stayed friends after college but I think he finally figured out that I was a 'mo and I didn't see him much after that. He got married to a local girl who was real c*nt and ended up divorcing him. I considered contacting him to "console" him but it didn't happen.

My co-worker naked story has to do with a global management program I was in back in 2010. It was a requirement for a certain level up. One of our trips was Japan and we stayed at a Japanese "onsen" out in the country which was well-known for its hot springs bathing. Prior to our trip, we were in a previous location with Japan being the next and an uptight late 40's Jewish twice-divorced SVP (who was also a prick) asked our Japanese classmate about the onsen when the classmate told us about the bathing rituals we would encounter. He somewhat nervously asked if we wore bathing suits in the natural springs hot tub and the Japanese guy said "No. Why would you?" and looked at the SVP like he was nuts or something. Well, when we finally got there, we did use the tub before which you had to completely shower by sitting on a small seat naked in front of a shower hose and sink. It is a big thing in Japan that you always be very clean before you use this tub which looked like a big bowl. Well, the first time we all used it, I could see these str8 co-workers of mine aged between late 30's to 50's be nervous about be naked around their co-workers and showing off their junk. We were only given these tiny towels which were no bigger than a large wash cloth and they covered their crotches until they got to the tub and nervously dropped the towel and got in. It was a very small tub and we were leg to leg. But after that first day, when we all went down to the tub the other two days, these same guys middle aged married with children str8 guys just walked around naked and didn't care about being around co-workers with their tiny junk in full display. I thought that was very funny and there was no one worth checking out but the mood was more relaxed. I guess they got over being uptight about nudity because the Japanese weren't at all. BTW, the uptight SVP never showed up to the tub. Stayed in his room and probably beat off his tiny meat which I'm sure he was afraid to show off because he was a big deal in my company although a big a-hole. He was later laid off. Pity

We have a health club for our company and it is so disappointing that these younger guys under 40 are so uptight that they either do the towel dance or walk to the shower in their workout clothes so they don't have to strip in front of other guys. It's not a co-worker thing because that age group behaves the same way at their own health clubs. They have never had to undress in front of other guys because they didn't have to shower after gym class like we had to in the 70's. I went to an all-boys Catholic high school and we had to be naked in swimming class. No one questioned this because that was just the way it was then. If you got out of line, you got whacked. So we did it and I got over hangups about being naked in front of other guys at an early age. I wore glasses then so I couldn't see much of anything when we were in swim class, but was still terrified about accidentally getting wood in class, because I would've been labeled big fag and probably would have had to leave school. We were given the option as juniors to drop gym and take an elective and I was the first in line to drop gym. BTW, I didn't think much of it at the time, but it was strange that many of the priests happened to walk across the pool balcony while we 14-16 yo boys were standing there naked while the coach who was also a closet case, took attendance. I figured out later why it was such a popular destination for our holy fathers!

I saw my gay ex landlord on Manhunt. Looked like he had a trick take some sexy shots of him nude. He was in his fifties but still had a nice dadbod and a long dangly penis.

He was very anti-women and would say stuff like no bitches were ever welcome in his house. Years later I entered his unique screen name in a Google search and got a chance hit from a hookup site for straight couples looking for another guy.

If I saw some of my co-workers naked I would vomit.

Conversely, I have two co-workers I would actually pay cash money to see naked.

All of my co-workers are women, and I DON'T want to see any of them naked. Ever. I once had a super hot co-worker that I had a serious crush on. He was a triathlete, and very hairy. He was straight and (later) married. I got a dick sighting in the staff men's room. Not long, but more than beer-can thick. I couldn't imagine how is petite wife could manage to take it.

R97 even with the tragic tattoo I would so fuck that. Trans can be hot.

So many hangups. And so what if you look. Just don't stare. I've been used to showering together since junior high.

I have a Prince Albert piercing so try to be modest when changing, but if some co-worker happens to see it while I’m getting dressed at my locker, that’s his problem. Maybe some of these shrinking violets should change in a bathroom stall so they won’t wither at the sight of a penis—or risk someone seeing theirs. The horror!

For the last time, it's not about getting naked with other men in general, which nobody has a problem with, it getting naked with your CO-WORKERS which is a whole different thing.

R110

There is a subset of DLers who are very into the whole "being naked around other men" thing and at least once a month one of them starts a thread bemoaning the fact that they feel younger American guys are conscious about being naked in the locker room and do the "towel dance" when they are around.

The inevitably get laughed at because the underlying message sounds like "now that I'm an old man, young studs won't let me stare at their naked bodies and I am pissed off!"

Hilarity ensues until it all ends in tears.

When I was in my 20s I once found myself showering next to a teenage coworker at the gym. Not weird at all.

[quote] When I was in my 20s I once found myself showering next to a teenage coworker at the gym. Not weird at all.

Of course I'm 80 now, so this was a while ago and showers were still a new thing so everyone was itching to try them out.

I grew up going to sauna naked with my family, friends, total strangers, classmates, neighbors and teachers. The only time it was weird was in my teens since getting boners with guys could be a problem, but that actually only happened a few times when it was just me and another guy. Embarrassingly that happened with my brother in law who was a hot soccer player and 10 years my senior.

I started enjoying going to public saunas in my 20s. There's really nothing sexual about it, guys just sit there quietly or chat a little. There's a feeling of comraderie, almost a brotherhood with all these guys you many times don't know nothing about. It's totally normal for men who work together to see each other naked in the sauna. People do not wear towels.

I'm a loner working for myself these days and I rarely go to public saunas now. I do miss it. I'm sure young guys are not as open to nudity as we were but then again they get used to it fast in the army, which is mandatory for most guys.

I've said it here before but I feel it's a shame guys don't see each other naked in most cultures. It's a bonding experience, and quite honestly there's something great seeing all kinds of men naked from the time you're a kid. Old, fat, tall, short, athletic etc. It gives you certain perspective on life.

R114 What country did you grow up in?

You are too stupid to live r115

Go back and read the entirety of r114 post

What did/do you look like R114? Just curious

I grew up in a time when you showered naked after gym class in a large open shower room so I got used to seeing my classmates naked and them seeing me naked. So when I took up racquetball and played at lunch time where I worked it was no big deal. They were all straight and married so it wasn't like I was ever going to have sex with them.

I grew up in a time when you showered naked after gym class in a large open shower room so I got used to seeing my classmates naked and them seeing me naked. So when I took up racquetball and played at lunch time where I worked it was no big deal. They were all straight and married so it wasn't like I was ever going to have sex with them.

I had this totally hot 6 foot two blonde and built coworker. It never occurred to me I would see him in the in the gym but one day when I was headed into a masters swimming practice, there he was and all his naked glory at the showerhead next to me. I didn’t see him at first but then I looked over and I thought damn what a hot body. Then I realized it was him. He knew I was looking and he was putting on a good show and while his dick didn’t get hard while He was under the shower it definitely stretched out. I was pretty sure it was a nice big one. I started to get excited and headed for a bathroom stall cause I knew in order to go swim I was going to have to jerk off. To my surprise he followed me into the stall and it went full mast. Needless to say I didn’t have to be asked so I went to town. I have to say I enjoyed taking care of it a couple times a week for him. Good times and not a nifty story.

Oh my, oh my — it’s not as if you are an adult in a grown up world. Why should you behave like one? You should naturally behave like a sitcom character who doesn’t have the social skills to navigate the world of mature, business-like relationships with other adults. I think you should tell the whole world about this, especially people you work with. It’s not as if they don’t want to know about their coworkers dick, after all! You could have some real fun with this!

Inspiring r120

"They were all straight and married so it wasn't like I was ever going to have sex with them."

You must be new to DataLounge.

[quote]I grew up in a time when you showered naked after gym class in a large open shower room so I got used to seeing my classmates naked and them seeing me naked

I see this on DL all the time and it makes me wonder how old all you guys are. I'm in my mid-forties and even in my day we never showered or got naked in front of each other. And this was WAY back in the eighties/early nineties.

I think showering after gym class was common into the mid 80s. Because guys in college from the mid 80s through the 90s were still fine with communal showers and being naked in the sauna.

My sister in Richmond VA goes to a very large family gym. I've been a few times when I'm down there. Not only does the gym have individual shower stalls with a doors but each shower stall has a dressing cubicle before you leave it. This way you can easily avoid being seen in a towel allowing you to avoid the dance. You can leave your shower stall completely dressed. Not is it only forbidden to be naked in the sauna you are not even allowed to be in a towel. At the least you must be in a bathing suit. But most guys today go into saunas completely dressed in their gym clothes so it doesn't even matter.

how prissy it all seems r125

R124 I was in high school in the late 1970s, and gang showers after gym class were required.

It never bothered me to shower with classmates. In fact, I looked forward to seeing some of the hot jocks naked. But it's different when you're in the workplace and see your co-worker's cock hanging out. Kind of uncomfortable.

Early 80s too. In junior high it was a requirement, probably because at that age with puberty, hormones, and lack of hygiene, that’s the only way teachers could stand it. Boys at that age tend to be more stinky.

In HS it was optional, but like today, I’m not working out and getting all sweaty and putting on my clean clothes. Plus, there is also COVID and MRSA today, so I’d rather risk someone seeing my weenie than picking up one of those because I’m too scared to shower in front of someone after a workout.

I am grateful that I don’t have any hangups about nudity. I know we’re all different, but worrying about it must be tiring. It does seem to be generational and a change in social norms.

But at the same time, back then, sharing nude photos publicly with others like folks do so casually online today would have been a source of shame. It’s an interesting duality.

I used to work out at the local gay bathhouse, because it also had a large fully equipped gym included. There were quite a few regulars who were there every day just to work out. It was fun to get done with your workout, muscles all pumped up, and take a shower with all the other hot guys. Naturally, we were all checking each other out. I haven't been there in years, but I kind of miss that. In spite of the sexually charged environment, there was also a camaraderie among the guys in the gym.

I mention it only because there were a few times when I ran into guys from work who came to the bathhouse. They were not there to work out, but apparently to have sex. One was an older guy who was openly gay and in a relationship. I always said hello to him, he was a friend. For some reason, it was not awkward to see him, though I don't think we were completely naked in front of each other.

The second one was just weird. He was a closet case who had been married to a woman and had since divorced. I was shocked to see him there walking around, covering his white overweight body with a towel around his waist. Since I was out at work, I had no problem saying hello to him and striking up a conversation. It started something like this, "Wow, I've never seen you here before ... what brings you in?" He said he was there to meet up with a friend. I said, "You know this is a bathhouse, right? Most of the men are here for sex." He claimed that his friend told him it was a "spa" and he had no idea that it was gay. He made it clear that he was not there for the gay sex, he was just meeting up with his buddy (who did not show up in the time I was there). I wished him good luck and moved along. He later turned out to be a sad stereotype who I had to unfriend on social media -- an outspoken right wing Republican and social conservative who constantly complained about the ills of the liberal agenda (while secretly looking to suck dick, I suspect).

In my 30s I belonged to a gentleman's club where the city's influential men meet, drink and work out. In a regular basis, I saw the city's mayor, a couple of city councilmen, some professional athletes, TV news anchors and sports reporters, company executives, all naked in the locker rooms and the sauna and swimming pool. I would swim laps naked and know by the size, shape and color of his dick and his pubic patch who was swimming laps next to me. Some of these men were very good looking and had women panting for them when they were seen around town. And I knew what they looked like naked. The mayor's dick went down to his knees, so did one of the TV sports reporters'. A well-known athlete had a beautiful body and a huge dark brown bush, much bigger than most I have seen. I know my dick was stretched out when we swam aside each other, but he never gave me the impression he saw it.

Now, when I see these people on TV or at the stadium or in meetings, I don't have to imagine. I can get stiff seeing them. What I know that others don't... It's a secret I enjoy.

What mayor are you talking about? Lindsey?

Showering at school started to get phased out in California in the early 80s. Some say it was due to the drought, and school districts wanting to save money on water and towels. I graduated in 1981, and the showers were running, but optional after PE class. When I came back to the area and worked as a substitute teacher in 1986, they were completely shut off and being used as storage spaces. Afternoon classes reeked of sweat and cheap cologne. Nowadays my teacher friends report that boys are so "modest" that they won't even change in/out of their PE uniform unless they are alone in a bathroom stall. To me, that's not modesty -that's a psychological problem. It's ridiculous that the same high school idiot who sends dick pics to his girlfriend can't take his pants off in a locker room without doing a towel dance.

I wonder if the convenience of pornography online has sexualized nudity to such an extent that it made online nudity “normal” (dick pics etc)—and being nude in real life in front of others—even in places designed for it as a normal part of life like a sauna or locker room—seem inappropriate or uncomfortable?

If so, it’s a weird paradox.

I have a theory that since porn is so readily available and most men watch it, it's made them insecure about the size of their dicks because of course all the guys you see in porn are hung like stallions.

As is obvious from a lot of posters here nudity is VERY sexual to certain people. So I can understand why many would be uncomfortable with it

Out of the dozens of men I currently work with, there are about five I would ever care to see naked. All of the others would make me puke.

As R135 points out a great deal of it has to do with the fear of leering homos everywhere.

R137 but doesn’t that go back to the porn argument? Every other gay porn takes place between jocks in a gym locker room, so some gay men see it as normal to leer or pursue sex there. This in turn makes other men uncomfortable about changing or showering.

R116 dear motherfucking idiot. He does not state a country in the post.

R139 look at r114 signature line

A Finn

Anthony Finn, Alex Finn, Albert Finn?

R139 is a mongoloid

Mongolian?

I've discovered that most hot men don't mind being naked in front of others, even straight ones. The ones that do usually have various psychological issues tied to body image and self worth. It's the ugly men that get scared of being naked in front of others.

The beginning of the towel dance has everything to do with internet porn. Before that, straight men were pretty much unaware that men could be ogled. Internet porn taught them that people could check out their asses just like they check out women's asses, and that thought turned them into puritanical monks.

Actually, I started seeing the towel dance more in the eighties, long before internet porn (or the internet) was widely available. I think the towel dance became more popular as awareness that gay people are everywhere became widespread (post the sexual revolution of the 70s). Guys got scared that gay guys were checking out their dicks.

I guess I don’t understand all the concern. Coming back from a shower in a locker room, you go your locker and put your underwear on, faced towards the locker, away from everyone. You are naked where someone might see you maybe three seconds? People here talk about this process like they are being forced to do/watch a burlesque routine for everyone before getting dressed.

Depends on the country, city, state R146

Dicks are easy to cover. It's the bare ass that scares the hell out of them.

Today I towel danced for the first time. I wanted to see what you guys go through, so after working out, I showered and dressed, all the while pretending that if at any time, my ass or cock were exposed, I’d catch fire.

Damn, talk about a pain. It’s tiring to be that vigilant about others and nudity, and I almost fell trying to keep the towel on while I pulled my underwear on.

Fuck that ridiculousness. Sorry, but anybody who does that every day in the locker room is a silly bitch.

Almost fell over trying to keep the towel on? I do suppose balance gets tougher when you get to a certain age.

It's not difficult at all. How fucking old are you that putting on your underwear with a towel wrapped around you is a major effort?

Or you could just let them see your sacred, sacred dick r152.

Haha yeah—when I pulled them on, the towel came untucked so I caught it and stumbled.

Keep pretending it’s not you.

Maybe guys do the towel dance because they don't want pervy old fags ogling them. Ever thought of that?

I have thought of that, and I still wonder, why do you care so damn much that you'd do these ridiculous contortions. So, somebody sees your cock? So what?

I went to a gym that was not my regular gym one day last year. I was changing and at a moment when I was completely naked, I looked up and my co-worker was there, fully clothed. Turns out this gym was closer to his house. I'm gay; he's straight. I've always had a crush on him. Standing there naked, I was very conscious of my dick, which is below average in size. Well, frankly, it's kinda small. And being naked when he was dressed made me shrink even more, I think. He didn't say anything beside "Hi" but I know he saw my dick and was unimpressed. I didn't stick around to see him undress (much as I would have liked to). Later, when I was getting ready to leave, we ran into each other again, this time in the shower. He was hairier than I imagined -- very hairy -- and had a pretty big cock. Not enormous, but big and thick. An enormous bush. I have to admit that now, when I see him at work, I get kind of weak in the knees. I think he senses it and is starting to get a little alpha with me, in subtle ways.

You could always quit your job, OP.

R155 you should make peace with your inevitable future now. You seem unusually hostile.

When I'm that age I won't be hanging out in locker room ogling guys who are decades younger than me. If I am, I hope someone just puts me out of my misery.

R160 I volunteer to step in and get it done earlier for you. Why wait?

Hissss Hissss r161!

OMG, you saw a coworker naked? How can you go on living, the stress, the shame, the dirty nasty thing- go into therapy fast OP. Be brave.

I wonder why men in Europe and South America don’t towel dance? Are they all straight and therefore have nothing to fear from those old bad fags (which everyone who is gay becomes if they live)? And why didn’t men towel dance in the 70s? There was much more hanky lanky back then in locker rooms and gyms. I remember the Cole gym at NYU in the 80s was like the baths and no one towel danced.

[quote]have nothing to fear from those old bad fags (which everyone who is gay becomes if they live)?

No, they don't. Many gay men accept being older and don't chase men half their age, who don't want anything to do with them.

I can see both sides. There are some naked older men who lurk locker rooms and act weird and make younger guys uncomfortable, both gay and straight. That is a fact.

But the narcissistic belief that anyone over the age of 40 is desperately trying to see you naked—or that there are secret cameras everywhere trying to film— is just paranoia. Some older gay dudes need to cool it, and some young guys need to get over themselves.

Obviously there’s a lot of in between—just making a point.

At my gym there is very little perving in the locker room. In the showers, however, I'm amazed at how many guys get hard -with some overtly masturbating. Some seem to stay in that shower for 30-40 minutes at a time. You don't see them hook up or touch anyone -they just get off on seeing and being seen. All ages, and many with wedding rings.

Nobody showers at my gym, they just change in the locker room and go home afterwards. This, of course, is the after-work crowd. I don't go in the mornings.

Back in the '80s I worked for a company that was forever sending us to training classes and other company functions. We were expected to share hotel rooms. Sometimes I saw my co-workers naked, mostly not.

One guy in particular stands out. He was a cute ex-jock, a little beefy, but quite handsome. He thought nothing of coming out of the bathroom, dropping his towel and parading around naked while he got dressed. The thing was, the guy truly had a micro-penis. In those pre-manscaping days, the little nub barely protruded from a forest of pubic hair.

I had to admire his self-confidence. One morning, after a night of heavy drinking, we missed breakfast and were in danger of missing the shuttle bus to the training center. While he was in the shower, there was a knock on the door. I opened it to see two of our (male) colleagues standing there, making sure we were not still asleep. I had them come in and then opened the bathroom door and told Mr. Tiny Meat that he'd better hurry or we'd miss the bus. A minute later he opens the door, stark naked, and says "I'm ready, let's go!" I had to admire him, brazenly showing off his, um, shortcomings in front of three co-workers like that.

I think anyone who uses the locker room as a sexual hunting ground or are overtly voyeuristic and make guys uncomfortable should be 86ed.

Personally I’ve been to bathhouses and sex clubs, so seeing other guys playing doesn’t bother me, but I know it would freak a lot of guys out. Plus, it’s disrespectful, because it’s a gym, not a gay sauna.

I am, however, annoyed by the guys (usually older) who lurk the showers and sauna and who are perpetually dressing and showering—or doing weird yoga, calisthenics, or aerobics in the sauna as a pretext for staying in there forever. There always seems to be one guy like that at every gym.

R170, I'm more put off by the guys who primp and pose at the mirror and take pictures of themselves flexing. They don't make any effort to keep changing/naked men out of the background, and completely ignore the signs posted to tell them not to do what they are doing. They deserve to be perved.

I wonder how many guys on Reddit posting full naked pics of themselves for women on a worldwide public forum (and who end up on porn sites/blogs forever) also towel dance and act weird about nudity in the locker room?

how do office people leave their office, get undressed, work out, shower, dry hair and body, get dressed, and get back to the office in one hour?

I tired it once - waste of time. You only get in maybe a half hour if it’s a work site gym.

Going to the gym during the work day is not something I've ever enjoyed. Like r174 said you're too rushed and I hate having to shower and get dressed in work clothes again. I much prefer going after work, I can just leave the gym in my workout clothes and shower at home.

Only time I’ve ever showered with a co-worker.

A group of us used to play football ( soccer ) after work once a week. Mix of ages. Often went for a drink after. Most often the only two who showered were me and the head of IT. He was married with a kid. Really nice guy. Bearish but not too hairy, great bush, nice cock. I’m similar build but with less hair and more time spent at the gym. We always got on, I was always open about being gay and a woman friend who worked with him said she was convinced he was bi and interested in me. Anyway, we showered after the games, never shy with each other, soaped up, chatting. Nothing happened, though he began to come to my office as the work day ended, would sit on my desk next to me, great thighs only inches away and chat. We’d sometimes go for a drink. Still nothing happened.

I left the company and then the city. Years later, I’m back for a few days and meet him in the street. By this time we are both in our 50s. We agree to meet for a lunchtime drink. We had a few ( Brits ). Because I was no longer with the company I felt comfortable saying I’d always found him attractive and that I enjoyed our showers far more than the football. He admitted the same and we went straight back to my hotel, which was only a walk away ( in London ). We were on each other as soon as we were in the room and it was some of the best, most lustful sex I’ve ever had. All that pent up sexual tension coming out.

After that, we hooked up every time I was in town. He remained married. Wife and he don’t have sex. His son now grown up. I’m now retired and sadly wasn’t getting into town that often long before the bloody pandemic. So, it drifted a bit but with an unspoken understanding it was always there. I’ve texted asking if he and the family are ok and all is good. Now, frustratingly it’s unlikely we’ll see each other for some time.

I’ve been thinking about it quite a lot. I know people will say it’s all made up. It isn’t. Don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone.

Wow R176 THATS sounds extremely authentic tic and quite touching. Thanks for sharing!

R229 you ought to have called out that sad sack of shit Repug before you disconnected him from SM. Hypocrisy only thrives in the shadows.

I belonged to Equinox as part of a discount program through my company. I worked out at lunch and I can't even begin to count how many coworkers I saw naked...more than 25 for sure.

Three times I had situations.

1. I saw this really handsome, beefy Latino guy having a conversation with one of the custodians in Spanish while naked in the locker room. The guy was gorgeous, about my age (mid 30s), and he was clearly a grower and not embarrassed about standing around naked. That confidence is very hot to me, as r169 wrote. Imagine my surprise when a few weeks later, this beautiful guy is in the pantry in my office. Turns out he was a new engineer in our IT department. We were buds until he got fired for complaining to HR about his boss (along with three others.) He was married with kids and nothing ever happened, but he was great to enjoy at the gym.

2. I'm walking back to my locker after showering and I'm standing next to a baby-faced Middle Eastern guy who is toweling off very slowly. I feel him looking at me. The locker room was empty and although I'm usually shy, I decide to give him a show. I start drying off seductively. I put one of my legs up on the bench, spread my legs a bit. I make sure my balls hang down and start toweling off my cock. His eyes widen and my cock begins to thicken. He opens his towel and shows me his package. We continue this for a minute or two until we hear someone come in. We quickly dress and go on our way. Two hours later I'm in a large meeting with about 50 people and he's sitting two seats away from me! I had no idea we were coworkers. I looked him up in our company directory (which contained a lot of info--all voluntary, but surprising what people shared--and he was married to a woman.)

3. Because I worked with so many people who went to my particular Equinox location, I usually behaved. (Except for number 2. above which was early on in my membership there) If I was in a playful mood, I typically went to the 63rd/Lex location, which was like a bathhouse in its heyday. I even saw employees messing around there. However, once I decided to get my finances under control, I cancelled my Equinox membership. During my last week there, at my regular location, I decided to have some fun. I ended up jerking off with a guy I knew worked at my company. He wasn't my typical type. He was very white-bread, think Richie Cunningham. I didn't know him but I knew his face. I would see him at the gym and at our company cafeteria. Sadly, we had a guy that kept interrupting us. We did manage to get off together in shower. After we got dressed and left the gym, I could feel he was uneasy as I was walking a few steps behind him. I said something benign about our company and his eyes bugged out. He didn't realize we worked for the same company. He was always awkward whenever I saw him after that.

I actually ran into a couple of guys I’d hooked up with at work—one from the bathhouse, and one from a house sex party. It wasn’t awkward and I just nodded and smiled when seeing them. The guy from the party texted me (I’d given him my number without knowing where he worked) to hook up somewhere on site and I said no, since it has security cams everywhere and it’s not worth the risk. I ended up blocking him later because he just seemed too flaky to deal with.

The other dude left the company because I only saw him a few times in passing a long time ago. He wasn’t weird about it, but I was always with co workers. I couldn’t play it off and introduce him since all I knew is I’d blown him in the steam room.

R176 do you both have pink uncut but average sized cocks, with a very tight pupice? Seems the handful of British cocks I have sucked all sort of looked like that, except for the Paki ones.

I meant ‘prepuce’ not pupice, sorry.

Even if the discomfort with being nude has to do with homophobia it's still legitimately uncomfortable to be ogled sexually when you're just trying to change. There's a reason men aren't allowed in women's locker rooms and vice versa.

R183 Agreed and that's something I never have to worry about so I shower and change freely. What's really surprising is the guys just like me who do the towel dance. Maybe they're just altruistic.

A house sex party R80 sounds classy did they serve crudites or a cheese platter?

No it was kind of like a strip club, you don’t go there for the food.

honestly don't get the trauma. honestly don't. somebody you know saw your dick? why exactly is that a trauma?

So only a PrEP and poppers affair.

Many years ago the place I worked at had a couple showers and myself and a few of us would go out running at lunch and come back and take showers. It was fun seeing co-workers naked but nothing to write home about it. Another male body with soft dicks in the shower.

I think it also has to do with only wanting to be found sexually attractive by the gender and individuals you choose. Kind of like women who wear revealing clothing in public, but are offended if someone old or unattractive to them looks at them.

Obviously a locker room is different, but I think younger people (and people who work out especially) are very aware of being sexually attractive - or are at least in that mindset. So I think by default they start assuming anyone who looks their way in a locker room, even casually, might be suspect.

It always reminds me of this standup bit where some chick with glitter on her chest acts like Greg was perving on her because he glanced at her glitter- covered cleavage.

When I worked at a bookstore we used to have "overnighters" where we would stock the store with books since we didn't have time to do it during business hours. A good time to turn up the music and have a good time. One night there were 8 of us including a couple of female co-workers. Some of us were pretty drunk and or high and 3 of the guys decided to strip naked and run around the store. It was pretty hot and I can still visualize their dicks flopping around. One guy's ass was very hairy and he has a full dark bush. There was another guy who worked on the floor that sold music and he came down and saw all the fun, unzipped his shorts for a minute or so and flopped his big dick around a bit while everyone was hooting and whooping it up. I was reluctant to drop trou because I had gotten instantly hard seeing all my co-workers' nude.

R183 you need to travel more.

There are shared change and shower facilities in some place in the EU. Men and women naked together....shocking

r192 ewwww floppy tits. no penis. Don't want to see that.

Must be Interesting going through life with the mindset and maturity a 13 year old girl in a grown man’s body, .

R194 Why, thank you. It is!

[QUOTE] There's a reason men aren't allowed in women's locker rooms and vice versa.

This reply is LITERAL violence against Transfolx

I've never seen any of my coworkers naked, though there were certainly plenty over the years I would've LOVED to have seen sans clothing.

Well it wasn't exactly naked, and by telling this story I will REALLY date myself, but one of my first jobs (early /mid '70s) was working for Carte Blanche (which is a now defunct, but formally upscale credit card company similar to American Express) in their corporate office in Los Angeles. The company took a few entire floors in the building, and there was one bathroom on each floor, and it had a long row of toilet stalls (probably 10-15 stalls) and across from the toilet stalls were about 5 urinals side by side, and about 5 sinks. So when you were standing at the sink, you could look into the mirror and see the row of toilets behind you.

The chief honcho there (I don't recall what his title was, but he was THE top guy there) was a MAJOR asshole. Whenever he went to the bathroom, he would sit in a toilet stall, on the throne, with the door completely open. So if anyone came into the bathroom they got to see him just sitting there on the toilet with his pants pulled down. If you looked into the mirror and looked at him, he would be looking back at you. It was quite creepy, and I presume some sort of power trip, but it seemed that every time I went to the bathroom he would be in there, sitting on the toilet with his pants down, staring right back at you. Although he was a little chunky, he was not bad looking, and I could tell he was very hairy (which is my number one weakness), so I almost wanted to look and admire what I knew would be hairy legs and a hairy crotch, but was too intimidated by him.

Last time you told that story there were only guys in the bookstore, and y'all started stroking and sucking each other's dicks, R191. I'm guessing that was the fantasy version.

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Nancy Drew at R199 has the receipts!

I once worked with a guy who wasn't very good looking and was kind of a dweeb. He had asked out a couple of women at work who turned him down because he was geeky and awkward and really didn't seem all that bright.

One weekend, I was at my gym and walked into the locker room, and there was the dweeb, getting undressed. When he took off his underwear, this beautiful, big, thick cock came flopping out. It really was amazing.

Back at work, I really wanted to tell all the women, "Go out with this guy! You will NOT be sorry!"

Speaking of dweeby guys with big dicks, I used to do retail training and I'd go out to stores and conduct classes on the selling floor before store hours.

One morning I was speaking to a group of about six people, who were standing in a semi-circle opposite me. I noticed one of the kids (maybe 21, not attractive, horned-rimmed glasses, bad teeth) had the unmistakable outline of a huge dick snaking down the leg of his khakis. I really had a difficult time concentrating on my boring topics, and when I ended the class right before store opening I immediately sought out the store manager, also gay and a friend, and asked him if I saw what I thought I saw. "Oh yeah", he said, I thought you'd appreciate that! God works in mysterious ways", and just shook his head.

The guy seemed to be somewhat self-conscious about his endowment, he'd pop into the back room and come back having adjusted himself to make it less noticeable, but the anaconda always managed to break free and return to its natural down-the-leg position. I spent way too much time that week fantasizing about what type of underwear he was wearing.

A vice-president at my former company was a real asshole to everyone. Condescending, unfriendly, and he didn't care who he made miserable. He was maybe 35 years old and good looking. One morning at our corporate gym, he comes in to change his clothes for a workout while I'm getting dressed from mine. He drops his pants, and he has on these ugly Christmas boxer shorts with Santa Claus faces all over them. He pulls those off and I see tiny meat, pancake ass, and chicken legs. After witnessing all of that, I was not intimidated by him in the least.

[QUOTE] After witnessing all of that, I was not intimidated by him in the least.

Yes but I could have still fired you if I felt like it

Actually, no.

I once saw a co-worker naked at the gym and he was hung like a stallion. Like porn star huge. I later met his wife at a work event and all I could think about was her taking that massive dick.

Safe to say it’s all she thought about, too.

After you are forced to strip naked with 200 other guys,and bend over,spread your cheeks and cough ,getting naked will never bother you again . Of course I was going to nude beaches and nudist camps by the time I was a teen so it wasnt that big an issue for me anyway.

It is just a dick, all men have them (except for trannies), no big deal.

Back in the mid-80s, a co-worker worked in the cubicle next to mine. He was very handsome with a buff body. The wavy black hair on his head shined in the light. It was gorgeous. We played handball several times a week and needed to take a shower before returning to work. He had a healthy patch of hair on his chest and puffy nipples. He never turned toward me when we showered. But then he would wrap his towel around his waist and would tuck it in right below his oversized black, shiny bush. The towel rested on the base of his cock, revealing his oversized black, shiny bush. He walked around that way, full bush exposed, for several minutes each time. I wanted to know why he was okay showing bush and not showing cock.

Then one day, he realized he forgot to bring along his towel to the showers. Maybe he wasn't thinking; he turned around and I saw him full-frontal, a long, thick cock with a purple bulbous head and balls which hanged two inches below it. He realized what he had done, and asked me not to tell anyone he was so well-endowed. I should have bargained with him, let me enjoy it and I won't say a word. I couldn't believe someone was so self-conscious about his junk, but he allowed people to see his dense patch of pubes.

He was straight as an arrow so I knew I couldn't risk ruining our friendship. I still have a clear image of his naked body in my head. It left such an indelible impression.

I worked for a company that was given a discount on a gym membership for a facility that was in the same building. Saw several of my co-workers and bosses naked over time. The first day I went there were like 3 or 4 of us getting undressed at the same time and the guys were laughing and commenting on each other's bodies. There was one guy in particular who I found attractive - dark hair and eyes and a nice cleft in his chin. My heart was pounding as he took off his pants and revealed a beautiful, piece of meat with a thick head and a nice hairy chest. I was trying so hard to control my erection before I stepped into the shower which, at that point, grew. Needless to say I couldn't wait to get home and jerk off.

I miss locker rooms so much and some of my hot co-workers!

When I was in grad school (mid 2000s) I saw one of my professors in the locker room completely naked after swimming, with a Speedo in hand. He was Korean (very dark skin, I would have guessed Filipino), around 40, small, tight lean muscular body. He had a pretty small cock and a nice bush. I still think about how hot he looked. I’m not a size queen so he looked pretty perfect to me.

We had a quick conversation while he was naked. He was married with kids, pretty masculine yet always sweet and calm. I wish we would have kept in touch.

I also had a teaching assistant in college who was short, but had a tight, compact, athletic body. I used to sit in class and look at his tight butt and nice chest and wonder what he looked like naked. I finally found out one day in the shower at the campus gym. He walked right up and started showering next to me (it was one of those showers with multiple shower heads in a circle). He started up a conversation with me; he wasn't shy at all. I, on the other hand, was like a blithering idiot and struggled not to get a boner in front of him.

His body was as amazing as I had imagined, and his ass was a thing of beauty. Unfortunately, he had super tiny meat, which was disappointing.

Being as he didn't seem to have any hangups about being naked next to me, I wasn't uncomfortable in class around him after that. But I did continue to fantasize about his fine ass.

R210 Who would ever tell someone else, "Don't tell anyone how well hung I am?"

I think most guys would say, "Tell EVERYBODY how well hung I am!"

My boss was from Ecuador and some survey said that their men had some of the largest cocks (Japan having the smallest, which I can verify having traveled there). I was so disappointed when I saw him naked in the office gym locker room. Smaller than average. But he wasn't very attractive so I guess it didn't matter.

In my late 20s I ran into a guy from work at the Denver Swim Club (gay bathhouse.) We weren't in the same department, but he was a trainer, and I did interact with him fairly regularly. I chatted with him briefly - we were both wearing towels. I ran into him again later in the steam room, when we were both naked. I was slim, and fairly muscular at the time, and he was bear-ish, and was into bears. I was not. We didn't mess around, but did chat, and we both had hard-ons.

Later, I was in the video room, getting my cock sucked, and I saw him poke his head in. He did a double-take, then saluted me, and I saluted back.

So, yeah, co-worker saw me naked, hard, and getting a blow-job.

We never mentioned it when we saw each other at the office.