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Parents punishing sons for wanting to do unmasculine or effeminate things

A good friend of mine told me how his father beat him unconscious when he asked to go see Pretty Woman. Another gay friend of mine was raped and branded by his father for signing up to the cheerleading squad. He literally thought he would die. He was kicked out of the house a little later. I've always found it strange how straight, deplorable parents seem to know their kids is gay, but react most violently when they see the evidence.

I live in Portland and attended a PTA meeting recently. It's a semi-rural, suburban part which is surprisingly conservative and I heard this father - hot, built mustachioed, trucker-type - saying that he had denied his 9th grade son - swarthy, lean, sexy, freckled - permission to attend the school dance because he didn't have no date. He was afraid he'd be seen as gay if he turned up alone, or maybe he was worried his son would go cruising without his supervision.

It was different back in my day, but then again I grew up in the 70s in the Midwest. I remember one day my daddy and granddaddy was in the barn with the chicano farmboys and they was fixing to make hay. I asked my daddy if I could do Home Ec at school. I wanted to learn how to cook. My daddy was a brutish, weatherbeaten man - 6'3" and at least 275 pounds. He was a granite slab of a man, hardened by years of drinkin, fightin, and ranch life. When he heard what I asked he came up to me. I could smell the whiskey on his breath. Before I could see it the toe of his weathered cowboy boots struck my groin with such force that I flew back against the wall of the barn. I felt my left testicle rupture, and the agony was indescribable. I shrieked and rolled on the ground and begged for mercy. My granddaddy saw this and came up to me and kicked me in the balls with such force I could swear they was going back inside of me. They left me there, rolling on the ground, saying they'd sort me out. My younger brother came when he heard my shrieks. and asked me what happened.

I said, "Shit, my balls...my balls is kicked."

He said, "Who did it?"

"Daddy and granddaddy done kicked my balls. For bein' queer."

At that point they came back and they had gun oil and a branding iron. I was fucked by both. My daddy put two loads in me. My brother was next. They fucked him because they suspected he was gay, too. After we'd been fucked, we both got hardons on account of all the str8 masc pheromones in the air. They then took bike chains and beat us, pissed on us, and beat us again within an inch of our lives. The chicano boys took turns throat-raping us and pissing in our gapes. They was about to brand us with a giant F when my uncle stopped them and told them that the school might get suspicious and report us. Instead, they beat us some more, and put a couple of more loads in us.

The next day, the principal noticed I had a black eye. He was a bearded man with a shaven head built like a linebacker on steroids. He ordered me into his office and asked me what happened. I told my daddy done kicked my ass for bringing shame on the family.

The principal said, "I sure would beat the shit outta my boy if he was queer. Let's see your pecker. " He forced my pants and diaper down, revealing my tiny, puny, inferior cocklet. He got out a ruler. "Two inches, son, hard," the principal said, "goddamn if you ain't queer." I was so fucking humiliated! I've never been so degraded.

The principal throat raped me, and then paraded me down the school hallway, with my pants and diaper around my ankles. He ordered a band member to follow us beating cymabls so the whole school would see th

by Anonymousreply 35February 16, 2020 1:37 AM

Any DLers punished or humiliated for wanting to do stereotypically feminine things?

by Anonymousreply 1February 14, 2020 11:42 PM

Is OP the “puny cocklet” troll?

by Anonymousreply 2February 14, 2020 11:44 PM

R2 OP ain't no troll.

by Anonymousreply 3February 14, 2020 11:49 PM

my babysitter stick corncob in my hynie hole when i said play vogues

by Anonymousreply 4February 14, 2020 11:57 PM

Was OP in Deliverance?

by Anonymousreply 5February 15, 2020 12:03 AM

I'm trying to be sympathetic but I find this hard to believe. Am I alone?

by Anonymousreply 6February 15, 2020 12:06 AM

R6, bless your heart, Rose.

by Anonymousreply 7February 15, 2020 12:09 AM

[quote]I’m trying to be sympathetic but find I’m hard to believe this. Am I alone?

FTFY

by Anonymousreply 8February 15, 2020 12:14 AM

I remember back around Christmas1990, my daddy got so mad when I asked for the Immaculate Collection on vinyl that he took me and my two brothers and sewed our mouths to each other’s anuses. My only sustenance that whole holiday season was my little brother’s feces. We could only move by crawling around together on all fours, sort of like a perverse millipede made of people.

by Anonymousreply 9February 15, 2020 12:22 AM

F8 How fixed??

by Anonymousreply 10February 15, 2020 12:22 AM

I remember this OP, feel he told us a similar (but different) tall tale at least once before...

by Anonymousreply 11February 15, 2020 12:23 AM

You find 14 year olds "sexy"?

by Anonymousreply 12February 15, 2020 12:28 AM

R12 yes, pubescent boys are hot. Wouldn't act on it, but if you think guys don't check out adolescents then you're deluded. Are you a frau?

by Anonymousreply 13February 15, 2020 12:29 AM

The idea is to not make a big deal about it, and then wait until the kid forgets and try to talk them into doing something else.

by Anonymousreply 14February 15, 2020 1:23 AM

R14 what if the kid wants to bottom?

by Anonymousreply 15February 15, 2020 2:32 AM

OP, if what you've said is true, I pray you get the help you so desperately need. I fear if you don't seek help, you past will prevent you from having healthy relationships in the future.

by Anonymousreply 16February 15, 2020 2:45 AM

Most children haven't even determined their gender by 12, so this seems particularly cruel.

by Anonymousreply 17February 15, 2020 2:54 AM

But was he a brick shithouse. OP?

by Anonymousreply 18February 15, 2020 2:57 AM

Why was OP wearing diapers to school?

by Anonymousreply 19February 15, 2020 3:02 AM

[quote] My daddy was a brutish, weatherbeaten man - 6'3" and at least 275 pounds. He was a granite slab of a man, hardened by years of drinkin, fightin, and ranch life.

It's amazing how your "g"s drop out of your words just [bold]writing[/bold] about him!

by Anonymousreply 20February 15, 2020 3:08 AM

OP lost me at "his 9th grade son - swarthy, lean, sexy, freckled." Also, for what it's worth, the Portland area (I'm assuming OP is referring to Oregon) is not necessarily the liberal safe haven that people seem to think it is. I was born and raised there, and while the city proper is largely progressive, the outlying communities are quite politically divided. When you leave the Portland metro, you'll find the majority of the state is largely rightwing, save a few pockets which are hippie havens, mainly Eugene and Ashland. All of eastern Oregon is hardcore Republican.

by Anonymousreply 21February 15, 2020 3:13 AM

Was OP raped by a gun (he mentions gun oil) or penis?

by Anonymousreply 22February 15, 2020 3:17 AM

OP thinks he is Truman Capote writing as the killers In Cold Blood

by Anonymousreply 23February 15, 2020 3:19 AM

Oh my sides, R6!

by Anonymousreply 24February 15, 2020 3:34 AM

R19 - my daddy feminized me and sissified me. He forced me to wear diapers to school. Sometimes he would force me to wear my sister's dresses and patent leather shoes! I was not allowed to piss standing up and had to piss sitting down like a girl. If I tried to piss standing up, he would beat me with his belt.

R22 my daddy never used his gun on me - thankfully. He fucked me as a punishment for being gay. He was a brutally homophobic straight, and the very idea that he had gay sons filled him with rage.

by Anonymousreply 25February 15, 2020 4:20 AM

If OP's father didn't want him to be gay then why would he force him to wear dresses and girl's shoes? I would think he would try to butch him up instead.

If your father was so against being gay wouldn't fucking you who is male make him gay too?

by Anonymousreply 26February 15, 2020 4:45 AM

Why are some of you treating this even half seriously? It DIDN’T happen.

by Anonymousreply 27February 15, 2020 4:53 AM

The 'correct' term is "shit brickhouse", R18.

So difficult to choose just one previous thread of his to use as an example, but this one was a particular favorite:

Offsite Link
by Anonymousreply 28February 15, 2020 4:56 AM

But it's so believable, r27! This could be everyone's story.

by Anonymousreply 29February 15, 2020 4:57 AM

R26 back where I'm from there's nothing gay about fucking 'queers' or 'faggots'. If you're a fag, you're a communal sperm toilet for jacked, masc, str8 guys. Most women quickly lose their looks in the Midwest, so when guys want hole, they fuck gays. It's common and virtually every male relative of mine has fucked 'faggots' despite being ultramasc and str8.

by Anonymousreply 30February 15, 2020 5:06 AM

Well, when I got older, I noticed all the shows my Dad disliked had gay people in them or something indicative of homosexuality.

by Anonymousreply 31February 15, 2020 5:58 AM

So you’re either from Portland, Oregon or Portland, Maine. Neither city is located in the Midwest, OP.

You can’t even get your lies to be consistent.

EST = -100/10

by Anonymousreply 32February 15, 2020 6:59 AM

R32 I grew up in Nebraska and moved to Portland, Oregon after my daddy turned me out of the house on account of being queer.

by Anonymousreply 33February 15, 2020 8:43 AM

I kind of like how this troll starts of with something semi-reasonable but then goes completely off the fucking rails. Lures you in. In this case I knew it was a troll post as soon as he paused to comment on the attractiveness of a boy.

by Anonymousreply 34February 15, 2020 10:27 AM

What's that smell in this room? Didn't you notice it? Didn't you notice a powerful and obnoxious odor of mendacity in this room? There ain't nothin' more powerful than the odor of mendacity. You can smell it. It smells like death.

by Anonymousreply 35February 16, 2020 1:37 AM
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