Hey, is anyone in NYC? Looking for new friends.
I’m a 29 year old male, brown hair, 6’1.
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Hey, is anyone in NYC? Looking for new friends.
I’m a 29 year old male, brown hair, 6’1.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | January 13, 2020 5:58 PM |
No one is in NYC. No one.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 6, 2019 9:37 PM |
You type fat. NYCers hate fat people.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 6, 2019 9:45 PM |
and dumb, we hate dumb even more than fat
by Anonymous | reply 3 | December 6, 2019 9:52 PM |
I am in NYC and have been for many years before you were born. So many of my friends have died so it's good to have new, young friends.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 6, 2019 9:55 PM |
Are you a chorus boy in the legitimate theater OP?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 6, 2019 9:56 PM |
Looking for "new friends" or sugar daddy #7, Collin?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 6, 2019 10:00 PM |
How much?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | December 6, 2019 10:01 PM |
R6 I’m looking for new friends.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | December 6, 2019 10:01 PM |
Try Rentboy.com
by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 6, 2019 10:02 PM |
I haven't pulled this one out in a while, but after that answer at r8 nothing else will do.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 6, 2019 10:03 PM |
R5 = Arlene Francis
by Anonymous | reply 11 | December 6, 2019 10:08 PM |
I poked around and I'm sorry, no, there is no one in NYC.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 6, 2019 10:15 PM |
OP you should throw a Datalounge get together in NYC and see who shows up from DL
by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 6, 2019 10:19 PM |
Nobody here is from NYC or even the East Coast.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 6, 2019 10:19 PM |
Well, I really just need someone to talk to and them not be judgmental.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | December 6, 2019 10:21 PM |
[quote] Well, I really just need someone to talk to and them not be judgmental.
You’ve come to the wrong place for that, baby!
by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 6, 2019 10:24 PM |
Colin just needs someone to spend time with. Please note that his time costs 350/hr however.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 6, 2019 10:25 PM |
R17 I am not a hooker!
by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 6, 2019 10:26 PM |
I don't live in NYC but I'll be your friend.
I make no promises about not being judgemental, however.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | December 6, 2019 10:30 PM |
R19 do you have kik?
by Anonymous | reply 20 | December 6, 2019 10:33 PM |
New friends? You cut or uncut?
If cut, no sorry. You're a dime dozen. Move along.
Uncut? Wassup, boy?
by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 6, 2019 10:35 PM |
Are you in Manhattan? If so, what neighborhood?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 6, 2019 10:42 PM |
I'm 5'8". You are too tall to be my friend, sorry.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 6, 2019 10:43 PM |
Guys, Collin is a career sugar baby. He is just on the prowl for his next meal ticket.
Check out his other posts.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 6, 2019 10:44 PM |
Do you have “an” Onlyfans?
by Anonymous | reply 25 | December 6, 2019 10:44 PM |
[quote]I am not a hooker!
Collin, the correct response to R17 should have been: "I AM NOT A PROSTATUTE!"
by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 6, 2019 10:51 PM |
Go to the YMCA. You don’t need to stay there to make new friends OP.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | December 6, 2019 11:03 PM |
We’ve all gone on holiday and will be back in the new year OP
by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 6, 2019 11:07 PM |
Crash a society party. You’ll meet a swell bunch of fellas.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 6, 2019 11:15 PM |
I'm Joel and I am lonely
by Anonymous | reply 30 | December 6, 2019 11:16 PM |
Before we go any further Joel, we will need vertificata of sizemeat.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | December 6, 2019 11:21 PM |
R22 I am in the Lower East Side
R30 if you’re lonely we can talk.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 6, 2019 11:56 PM |
R22 I am in the Lower East Side
R30 if you’re lonely we can talk.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 6, 2019 11:56 PM |
Do you have “a” Vine?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 7, 2019 12:00 AM |
I just jerked off so maybe tomorrow, thanks.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 7, 2019 1:16 AM |
Even though I wasn't accepted on Broadway, I'm still here, Collin. I'm uncut and have a BBC.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | December 7, 2019 1:23 AM |
Well if anyone wants to chat, they can kik me at tomboy2991
Definitely not giving my number out here lol
by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 7, 2019 1:29 AM |
Do you have “a” Friendster?
by Anonymous | reply 38 | December 7, 2019 1:52 AM |
You have to be trolling us. This is not you. There's no way you look like this. None.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | December 7, 2019 2:09 AM |
R39, OP is Collinboy not Collin1990.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | December 7, 2019 8:26 AM |
Do you have “a” MySpace?
by Anonymous | reply 41 | December 7, 2019 2:10 PM |
I’m visiting this weekend.
What field are you in:
The Arts
Finance
Retail
Advertising
?
by Anonymous | reply 42 | December 7, 2019 2:47 PM |
You're too tall and look goofy in public spaces. Tall goons belong in flyover states where they don't take up too much valuable real estate.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | December 7, 2019 2:56 PM |
I'll be thy friend..
by Anonymous | reply 44 | December 7, 2019 3:09 PM |
R40 I googled OP's kik username and that page came up. This is who he's claiming to be and there's no way it's him. This is definitely a troll.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | December 7, 2019 3:41 PM |
R40 Also, this is from the other thread he posted in.
[Quote] So, I just turned 29 and have been reflecting on my 20’s.. I have have had six sugar daddies, where it was more of a relationship and I have with them, working selectively. I have not dated a daddy in a year, but might have to start soon. I am a muscular freelance model, and things are a little tight financially, do you guys think I have too much baggage to go on the hunt again?
This guy has to be a troll. I don't buy this whole act for one second.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | December 7, 2019 3:43 PM |
Go hang out in the reception area of the Gay & Lesbian Center any weekday between 10:00 am and 3:00 pm. You'll have more friends than you know what to do with. None of them will be under the age of 80, but to be honest, you're almost 30, so nobody under 80 is going to be your friend.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | December 7, 2019 3:58 PM |
Are you white? If so I can hangout!
by Anonymous | reply 48 | December 7, 2019 4:02 PM |
- 997 trillion, 450 billion , 664 million 857 thousand, 915 / 1
by Anonymous | reply 49 | December 7, 2019 4:09 PM |
I sent you a Kik message. I’ll be your friend! But I don’t have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | December 7, 2019 4:12 PM |
Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been so hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? What's your problem? I mean really, what's your damn problem?
by Anonymous | reply 51 | December 7, 2019 4:26 PM |
There have already been several threads on this OP. Would it have killed you to have done a search first before you posted this? I mean really? What’s wrong with having a little consideration for others and doing a search first? Would it really have been that hard? Would it? Are you going to be able to give us an honest answer to this? Are you?
by Anonymous | reply 52 | December 7, 2019 4:27 PM |
R52 Someone already posted my pics on here.
I guess I could have, but no one is perfect.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | December 7, 2019 4:31 PM |
I'm going to put aside my extreme doubt as to the authenticity of your photos for a second. I'm not exactly sure what it is that you're looking for. Are you looking for "friends" or are you looking for a "sugar daddy"? You have posted two threads now which seem to give contradictory statements about what your intentions are. So what is it? I'm NYC based as well and get invited to SAG events from time to time. If you're serious about meeting new people and are not catfishing/trolling us, then I'd take you to one of them if you're interested in seeing a different side of the city. If you're interested, I'll hit you up on kik to confirm to the DLers whether you're the real deal or totally full of shit.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | December 7, 2019 7:29 PM |
Sorry to break it to you OP, but it’s a lost cause. My friend Danny went to NYC over 11 years ago. He’s still walking the streets, with his rolling suitcase, trying to make a friend.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | December 7, 2019 8:11 PM |
We all moved to Hoboken when we heard OP was coming.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | December 7, 2019 8:43 PM |
R54 I am real and just trying to start over and “reinvent” some aspects of my life.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | December 7, 2019 9:13 PM |
^ I'll message you on kik later today or tomorrow. I'll believe it when I see you.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | December 7, 2019 9:21 PM |
Hun, we are all friends here, what's ailing you?
by Anonymous | reply 59 | December 7, 2019 10:02 PM |
Frens.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | December 7, 2019 10:51 PM |
OP is cute. But once you turn 30, you’re not a boy anymore and need to come up with a better way to generate income than to live off a sugar daddy.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | December 7, 2019 11:15 PM |
How much?
by Anonymous | reply 62 | December 7, 2019 11:25 PM |
Sent you a message on kik, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | December 8, 2019 3:20 AM |
Did anyone end up sending this dude a message on kik? If so, what happened?
by Anonymous | reply 64 | December 12, 2019 4:28 AM |
I messaged OP on kik and then I died.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | December 12, 2019 4:35 AM |
You guys are really mean lol
by Anonymous | reply 66 | December 12, 2019 2:47 PM |
^ Did you chat with any DLers, Colin?
by Anonymous | reply 67 | December 12, 2019 3:10 PM |
OP, I can be your friend, but I'm not in NYC.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | December 13, 2019 4:03 AM |
Bump because I'm ready to share an update.
I reached out to OP a few weeks ago and we chatted for a bit. He came across as a bit of an airhead and wasn't really specific about what his life plans were or what he was even looking for. He said he wanted a fresh start and I offered to make plans to meet up with him. I tried inviting him to a film screening and he blew that off. I tried offering going to an art gallery or museum and he blew that off as well. I even tried offering to pay for dinner some night and, despite saying he was interested, would never make solid plans. At a certain point, I just gave up trying.
He sent me some different pictures from the ones he posted online, but I'm still not convinced I wasn't catfished by a troll. If he was an actual person and his photos were authentic, then he's a big flake and clearly needs to get his shit together. Waiting days to respond to a simple message is not cool. That's not how you make friends and he needs to learn this or no one is going to want to hang out with him. Regardless of who he really is, I've given up trying to talk to him.
Anyone here have better luck? I doubt it, but I just thought I'd ask.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | January 5, 2020 1:12 AM |
Just from experience a NY 6'1" is an actual 5'10" without photos...
by Anonymous | reply 70 | January 5, 2020 1:14 AM |
We still didn't get an answer on if he's looking for friends or sugar daddies....
by Anonymous | reply 72 | January 5, 2020 1:33 AM |
Why you no go to church? You have many friend at church zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
by Anonymous | reply 73 | January 5, 2020 2:40 AM |
R69 you went above and beyond. This is obviously a bunch of kids at play.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | January 5, 2020 3:04 AM |
Thanks for the update r69.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | January 5, 2020 3:23 AM |
Which stoned executive decided that "let me kik you" would be a good catchphrase for his app?!
by Anonymous | reply 76 | January 5, 2020 3:31 AM |
"Would you like to kik me?"
by Anonymous | reply 77 | January 5, 2020 3:32 AM |
"Why yes, Colin, yes I would. In the teeth, Colin."
by Anonymous | reply 78 | January 5, 2020 3:33 AM |
You’re too desperate for me, OP, and that is saying a lot.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | January 5, 2020 3:45 AM |
D...Danny??
by Anonymous | reply 80 | January 5, 2020 4:06 AM |
R74 R75 You're welcome. I kind of felt a little guilty cutting him off, but I spoke to a couple of people about this and they all agree that he wasn't worth the aggravation anymore. He may come on here and try to say I was being "clingy" or he was "too busy" or whatever, but no one should have to put up with a flake like this (or a troll, which is more likely). Oh well, water under the bridge now.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | January 5, 2020 3:39 PM |
Sweetheart, come to London. We may have bad teeth but we’re not mean. You'd have a good time.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | January 5, 2020 4:02 PM |
[quote] Before we go any further Joel, we will need vertificata of sizemeat.
Verificatia?
by Anonymous | reply 83 | January 5, 2020 4:13 PM |
Well, OP. I'm not in NYC, but just in case you're having a bad time, remember: Chin up. The hard times shall pass.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | January 5, 2020 5:10 PM |
This is OP. I have been traveling a lot during the holidays.
You guys are quick to cast judgement when you don’t know the facts.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | January 7, 2020 12:59 PM |
I don't friend anybody who LOL's constantly. Also anybody who keeps their phone out while we're together will start me walking away from them very quickly. From how you write, I bet your phone has never met your pocket.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | January 7, 2020 1:10 PM |
R85 What facts are we missing, OP? You're not a flake? You didn't blow off the poster who tried to reach out to you? The poster wasn't extremely generous in offering to treat you to dinner? We cast judgement because we have nothing else to compare R69's story with. If you have a different version of events, then please, by all means, tell us. Otherwise, everyone here assumes that the poster was correct and you just blew him off, which was a shit thing to do.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | January 7, 2020 2:46 PM |
OP what's your orientation?
by Anonymous | reply 88 | January 7, 2020 9:28 PM |
OP is hot, if the pics are accurate, but won't stand out in New York.
How about Cincinnati and midwestern nice?
by Anonymous | reply 89 | January 7, 2020 11:14 PM |
funny
by Anonymous | reply 90 | January 8, 2020 12:19 PM |
LOL this was Colinboy's response to R69 in the other thread.
[Quote] I’m not a flake. I was doing some modeling jobs and I went to TX for the holidays. Also, I am not always on my phone.
How fucking busy do you have to be to send a 10 second reply to someone in the course of a week? I don't buy that shit and neither should anyone else.
[Quote] It really pisses me off that you guys cast judgements when you really do not know me. What happened to love and support? I am a person too with feeling and I came on here for help. Instead I got snarky comments.
You guys, we should stop being so mean and hurting his feelings. He's a human. /s
[Quote] Everyone in their life has rough patches, but you guys act like your sh*t does not stink.
Did anyone here say this? I didn't and I'm sure no one else did either. We just don't air our dirty laundry to everyone in the hopes of getting sympathy. Unbelievable. This guy is delusional. Also needs a therapist.
Word of advice, Colin. Stop being a fucking flake and maybe you'd make some more friends.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | January 10, 2020 9:53 PM |
No one who has talked to "Colin" has been able to verify that this person is who say they say are, or is this just some elaborate troll.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | January 10, 2020 10:03 PM |
R93 I think it's a troll, tbh.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | January 11, 2020 1:12 AM |
R69 here. He really doesn't have a legitimate excuse at all for being a flake. I totally called it when I said he'd say he was "too busy" in R81. He wasn't too busy because during that week I didn't hear from him, he posted twice on the DL, once in this thread at R66 and around the same time in his sugar daddy thread. So his whole excuse that he was "too busy" to respond to my messages is absolute bullshit.
That's around the time I was almost ready to cut him off because I thought I was being ghosted, but he responded to my message a few days later. The final straw was last weekend when I gave him one final chance to meet up. He said he'd get back to me by the weekend and he never did. That was when I gave up and soon after I wrote my update here.
As I've said, I have no clue whether this dude is legitimate or a troll, but I do have other pictures of him if you would like me to post them here. Other than that, I really have nothing further to add.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | January 11, 2020 1:24 AM |
R94 Wow, you sound like a vengeful little frau. You're miffed he didn’t meet up with you and now you’re going to post his pics? Get over yourself.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | January 11, 2020 9:40 AM |
[Quote]and now you’re going to post his pics?
MARY! They aren't some private nudes, what's the big deal about posting "his" pics.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | January 11, 2020 11:15 AM |
Whore
by Anonymous | reply 97 | January 11, 2020 11:17 AM |
You're just cross that he wouldn’t be your lame duck. Maybe you aren’t his type, maybe he's got other things to do. He doesn’t owe you a meet up. This is pure miffed ego.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | January 11, 2020 11:27 AM |
Object lesson in not sending pics to bitchy, cunty queens. Collin (2 L's) was probably right.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | January 11, 2020 11:35 AM |
I'm not the poster that talked to Colin r98, just calling you out for being the ridiculous human being you are. "Colin" doesn't need your wannabe white-knight defending him from the guys that he begged for them to talk to him on kik.
And your absurd insistence that posting some harmless pics of the guy is a hurtful stab in the back is something I honestly can't wrap my head around.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | January 11, 2020 1:03 PM |
R95 Are you fucking serious? Vengeful little frau? Please. If I were a vengeful little frau, I'd have posted our conversations and some of the really stupid shit he said, but I won't do that. The only reason I mentioned that I would post his pictures (if [bold] anyone [/bold] wanted me to, key word) is because I figured people would want to see them. That's not being "vengeful," that's doing my part to make this thread interesting. And for all we know, this is just one elaborate troll designed to stir up the DL. No one has actually verified that they've met him in person, so for all we know, this is just one giant catfish and you're just playing right into it. Get a clue.
[Quote] "Colin" doesn't need your wannabe white-knight defending him from the guys that he begged for them to talk to him on kik.
This.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | January 11, 2020 3:01 PM |
R98 See R100.
[Quote] "Colin" doesn't need your wannabe white-knight defending him from the guys that he begged for them to talk to him on kik.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | January 11, 2020 3:05 PM |
I just realized after blocking R98 that it's the same poster as R82.
[Quote] Sweetheart, come to London. We may have bad teeth but we’re not mean. You'd have a good time.
Bitch, he's not meeting up with your desperate ass either. You're wasting your time defending him.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | January 11, 2020 3:24 PM |
Pass. I don’t even live in London and I'm not interested in meeting him. But he'll have more fun over here than with prissy NY queens who can’t take no for an answer.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | January 11, 2020 3:39 PM |
R104 If you don't live in London, why do you keep saying "over here" as if you do? You probably live in some dump like Birmingham, so you're in no position to judge anybody. If you would pass on him, why would you keep posting things to defend him? And if you think British gays will take Collin's (presuming he's a real person) flakiness and lack of intellect better than "NY queens" and will be less snarky and mean, then you have no self awareness of how people in your country really are. London would chew him up and spit him out.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | January 11, 2020 9:29 PM |
R105 You: “This is definitely a troll” “This guy has to be a toll. I don’t buy the act for a second.” “I'll hit you up on Kik.” “I'll message you on Kik later today or tomorrow.” “Sent you a message on Kik.” “I offered to make plans to meet up.” “I tried inviting him to a film screening.” “I tried offering to go to an art gallery.” “I even tried offering to pay for dinner.” “He's a big flake and clearly needs to get his shit together.” “Waiting days to respond to a simple message is not cool.” “I've given up trying to talk with him.” “He may come on here and try to say I was trying to be clingy.” “How fucking busy do you have to be to send a 10 second reply?” “His whole excuse that he was too busy to respond to my messages is absolute bullshit.” “The final straw was last weekend when I gave him the final chance to meet up.” “I do have pictures of him , if you'd like me to post them here.”
by Anonymous | reply 106 | January 11, 2020 10:42 PM |
R106 You summarized my story from reaching out to cutting him off. Congratulations! /s
by Anonymous | reply 107 | January 11, 2020 11:36 PM |
R106 In your little quote spree, you should have included these recents one too, bitch.
[Quote] And for all we know, this is just one elaborate troll designed to stir up the DL.
[Quote] I have no clue whether this dude is legitimate or a troll
[Quote] I think it's a troll, tbh.
by Anonymous | reply 108 | January 11, 2020 11:42 PM |
R106. ‘He's a troll. So I'll message him. I'll hound him for a meet-up. Fuck it, he's not responding. Why isn’t he responding? How dare he. He's an ungrateful flake. No excuses. I give up. I'll give him one last chance. Oh yeah, like I said, he's definitely a troll'.
Only a desperate moron chases a troll around like their life depended on it.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | January 12, 2020 12:38 AM |
*R107 / R108 * and half the rest of the thread
by Anonymous | reply 110 | January 12, 2020 12:44 AM |
R109 After this, I'm done entertaining you, the DL version of a Geordie Shore cast member.
[Quote] ‘He's a troll. So I'll message him. I'll hound him for a meet-up. Fuck it, he's not responding. Why isn’t he responding? How dare he. He's an ungrateful flake. No excuses. I give up. I'll give him one last chance. Oh yeah, like I said, he's definitely a troll'.
You're just coming across as batshit crazy at this point. All you've been doing is quoting or paraphrasing or making shit up from my posts. It's getting ridiculous. I'm not in any way desperate because even, in the remote chance, that Collin was a real person, I'd have no desire to see him anymore. The only one who keeps insinuating this is you. He said he wanted to make new friends. I tried to reach out and I gave up. There's nothing more to this story than that.
[Quote] Only a desperate moron chases a troll around like their life depended on it.
Define "chase." If you think that having a conversation with someone and offering to make plans a few times is "chasing" someone, then you have a skewed interpretation of the English language. I posted the amount of times that I have because I'm the only person who actually bothered to reach out. No one else here has and no one else has even come close to proving if this person is real or a troll. Hence, why I would have more posts and content than anyone else. At this rate, you're coming across as a separate account for this troll to go after me for calling him/it out and it's just pathetic. Get a life. I have nothing further to add. Go enjoy the homophobes in Birmingham where trash like you belong.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | January 12, 2020 1:34 AM |
Hey, can you guys please stop fighting and getting into drama over nothing??!
Seriously, this is sad and unnecessary. I am sure both of you have good qualities. Look for the good, not the bad.
For the record, I did apologize and offered a date to meet up with the guy I stood up. He never responded back but he is posting on here.
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