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Alok Vaid Menon Part 2


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by Anonymousreply 172Last Friday at 2:16 PM


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by Anonymousreply 110/28/2019

Lana Del They:

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by Anonymousreply 210/28/2019

What a fucking clown.

by Anonymousreply 310/28/2019


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by Anonymousreply 410/28/2019

Part 1:

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by Anonymousreply 510/28/2019

Yet no one will fuck him! U think Nico gave him a pity handjob?

by Anonymousreply 610/28/2019

Alok is always the least attractive in a group.

by Anonymousreply 710/28/2019

I'm so fabulous! Look at me! I am so daring and out there! Look at me!

by Anonymousreply 810/28/2019

Happy belated Diwali!

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by Anonymousreply 910/28/2019

A good wax could help a lot.

by Anonymousreply 1010/28/2019

Nico lecturing Marvel, bless his heart

by Anonymousreply 1110/28/2019

Does anyone have naked pics of Alok? He looks like he might have a nice body.

by Anonymousreply 1210/28/2019

So she's a club kid?

by Anonymousreply 1310/28/2019

R12 When was the last time you checked your eyes? Between the hair and the fat I can already say Alok doesn't even have an average body.

by Anonymousreply 1410/28/2019

Does she ever take a photo sans duck lips?

by Anonymousreply 1510/28/2019

Straight Fiction:

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by Anonymousreply 1610/31/2019

So fat, so fem, so asian.

by Anonymousreply 1710/31/2019

R12 - why would Alok ever want to have a photo of himself naked?

Without the bad Cyndi Lauper drag he's just a hairy man.

OK with it he's just a hairy man in a dress and clown make up. But the clothes and make up are his whole point. Insofar as he has any point to him at all...

by Anonymousreply 1811/05/2019

And he wonders why nobody wants to fuck him?

by Anonymousreply 1911/05/2019

Ugh. They go out of their way to make themselves ugly

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by Anonymousreply 2011/05/2019

Alok and his ilk are still waiting for the quarterback who's gonna fill their trans-holes full of strong & straight cum.

by Anonymousreply 2111/05/2019

The clown car just delivered its cargo.

by Anonymousreply 2211/05/2019

I reckon we’ll get the second coming before then R21

by Anonymousreply 2311/05/2019

Apparently he does not want sex.

by Anonymousreply 2411/05/2019

You bitches are just jealous haters because he is so HOT and SEXY.

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by Anonymousreply 2611/05/2019

Guys like this just used to be called "cross-dressers."

by Anonymousreply 2711/05/2019

Like he has that choice R24.

by Anonymousreply 2811/05/2019

They is working hard!

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by Anonymousreply 2911/05/2019

She's a fat wannabe club kid!

by Anonymousreply 3011/05/2019

Beyonce is looking rough these days.

by Anonymousreply 3111/05/2019

Hate mail:

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by Anonymousreply 3211/13/2019

The difference between the Alok crowd and the club kids is that the club kids looked like they were actually having fun. There is no fun in constantly policing your own words, actions, and even thoughts-- and it shows.

by Anonymousreply 3311/13/2019

It's just EXHAUSTING, y'all!!!

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by Anonymousreply 3511/27/2019

How very

by Anonymousreply 3611/27/2019

R35....who fucks this? Serious question.

by Anonymousreply 3711/27/2019

she's hideous

by Anonymousreply 3811/27/2019

Duck lips, too, just in case he wasn't hideous enough

by Anonymousreply 3911/27/2019

[quote]the other day at dinner...

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by Anonymousreply 4011/27/2019

The comments...

This world is full of idiots.

by Anonymousreply 4111/28/2019

His posts indicate he's a liberal arts major who tries way too hard to be "literary".

by Anonymousreply 4211/28/2019

If he wants to dress up like that, that’s his business, but it’s still just clothes & make-up. Just because you dress up a certain way doesn’t make you an interesting person. And if you think your look defines you, you must be an empty shell of a person indeed.

by Anonymousreply 4311/28/2019

R40, he described a giant transgendered orgy very well. Such poetry!

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Didn't your mommas tell you not to feed the trolls?

by Anonymousreply 4511/28/2019

What does he have against capital letters?

by Anonymousreply 4611/29/2019

Alok and his ilk are utterly exhausting. They best left to their own self-righteous indignation and otherwise ignored.

by Anonymousreply 4711/29/2019

I could see him smelling his own farts and inhaling deeply.

by Anonymousreply 4811/29/2019

R48, the poetry would make a mention of all his ass hair--"it's like, so totally hard farting when I have all this ass hair. Ahhh, the struggles of being non-binary and hairy."

by Anonymousreply 4911/29/2019

The poetry would inspire him to produce a line of ass makeup, fragrances with his own "distilled essence". He will attempt to start a new trend of derriere-based artistry, but it will fail miserably.

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by Anonymousreply 5112/07/2019

Oh my, what do we have at R51? Looks like someone's decided to "present male" because the pickings in Genderland have been pretty damn slim lately. But by their logic, isn't this "literally suicide"?

by Anonymousreply 5212/07/2019

He probably dresses like that when he stays indoors.

The awful makeup and the shitty clothes are just for show.

by Anonymousreply 5312/08/2019

Trans are like pit bulls. The vast majority aren’t dangerous, but you never know when one is going to SNAP.

I feel bad that they’ve been painted in a bad light because of a few bad ones, but I give them a wide berth. Very wide.

by Anonymousreply 5412/08/2019

Bikini Babe!

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by Anonymousreply 5512/15/2019

R55 Yikes, no.

by Anonymousreply 5612/15/2019

Theybies, Unite!

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by Anonymousreply 5712/16/2019

Where does he buy those clothes?

by Anonymousreply 5812/16/2019

It's not buying if you pick this in the neighbour's garbage bin.

by Anonymousreply 5912/16/2019

R58 - 1986

by Anonymousreply 6012/16/2019

In the OP's pic, they look like they are trying to be Whitney in the "I Wanna Dance with Somebody" video.

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by Anonymousreply 6112/16/2019

LOL r55!!!

Cannot unsee that abortion.

by Anonymousreply 6212/16/2019


Looking at the pic r55 posted will result in projectile vomiting and loss of bowel control. Proceed at your own risk.

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by Anonymousreply 6412/18/2019

What is the mental defect that causes this freak to keep appearing on DL?

by Anonymousreply 6512/18/2019

R65, they are like a car crash you can't help but look at....even if you already know what the results were.

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by Anonymousreply 6712/22/2019

Kinky Boots Realness:

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by Anonymousreply 6901/04/2020

No comprendo. Pero buena suerte!

by Anonymousreply 7001/04/2020

[quote]Talking about mental health always feels impossible like how can I describe this solar system of pain that orbits within me when you require something as meager as proof?

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by Anonymousreply 7101/08/2020

OP's picture looks like a still from a Bollywood version of [italic]La Cage Aux Folles[/italic].

by Anonymousreply 7201/08/2020

See and Don’t See:

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by Anonymousreply 7301/14/2020

The more negative one:

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by Anonymousreply 7401/14/2020

I haven't seen that much body hair on a human since the neanderthal exhibit at the natural history museum.

by Anonymousreply 7501/14/2020

It's trans body hair, you sexist genderist TERF!

by Anonymousreply 7601/14/2020

Gurl Power!

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by Anonymousreply 7701/14/2020

Ugh why is Sam Smith legitimizing this cunt?

I think Sam is going through "gay puberty" right now, but Jesus Christ.

by Anonymousreply 7801/15/2020

Since they're both non-binary and single, and Alok constantly complains about being alone, why can't they date each other?

by Anonymousreply 7901/15/2020

Maybe they are!

Let's hope there's a sex tape.

by Anonymousreply 8001/15/2020

New look!

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by Anonymousreply 8101/17/2020

yasss hunty, hair layed

by Anonymousreply 8201/17/2020

He loves ducklips for some reason.

by Anonymousreply 8301/18/2020

Body Positivity!

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by Anonymousreply 8401/18/2020

That fat woman will still get more cock than he ever will.

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by Anonymousreply 8601/22/2020

Even the placement of his body hair is ugly. He is so ugly.

by Anonymousreply 8701/22/2020

This is why I hate femininity in either sex.

by Anonymousreply 8801/22/2020

Even an attractive woman would look terrible in those outfits. The make up is awful and the colors clash horribly with the skin tone.

Honestly the ugliness of it all is more offending then the fact that they're women's clothes. No one should be dressing like that.

by Anonymousreply 8901/22/2020

Touché :

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by Anonymousreply 9001/22/2020

A zany soccer mom:

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by Anonymousreply 9101/29/2020

He must console himself every day by saying, "At least I'm slightly less hideous as Jacob Tobia"

by Anonymousreply 9201/29/2020

Is he though R92?

I mean they're both fucking hideous, it's really hard to say which look worse.

by Anonymousreply 9301/30/2020

Fabulousness on the West Coast with kindred spirits:

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by Anonymousreply 9401/30/2020

With Demi and Sam:

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by Anonymousreply 9501/30/2020

I think his body hair growth is being stimulated by the makeup. He'll look like Cousin Itt in no time.

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by Anonymousreply 9602/28/2020

He even has the "giant head on a small neck" thing going on.

by Anonymousreply 9702/28/2020

I weep at how stunning and brave Alok is.

by Anonymousreply 9803/01/2020

Nothing a little Nair won't fix.

by Anonymousreply 9903/01/2020

Someone needs to take a dirty needle and pop that balloon head.

by Anonymousreply 10003/01/2020

Alok is talking about how brave and powerful he is.

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by Anonymousreply 10103/01/2020

"gender is a social construct."

...and there it is. Appropriating what radical feminists have been saying for decades, and claiming that's what he's always been about. No, Alok. You celebrated gender. You reinforced gender. You insisted that others accept gender even when they told you how harmful it had been in their lives. You advocated, and still advocate, making gender, rather than sex, the legal standard in our country, even though it's unreasonable and unworkable.

Don't come at us with this "abolish gender" line now. We remember. We have the receipts. And we're not going to let you skate on this one.

by Anonymousreply 10203/01/2020

Rewriting Art Herstory:

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by Anonymousreply 10303/01/2020

Um, has he had some facial work done or something? He looks really... different... in the pic at R103. Cheekbones, jaw... Or maybe he just lost some weight?

by Anonymousreply 10403/01/2020

Oh, it's someone else. Okay.

by Anonymousreply 10503/01/2020


Although they do look alike ;-)

by Anonymousreply 10603/01/2020

[quote]Ciswomen let’s talk:

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by Anonymousreply 10703/12/2020

The penis at R107 has to be the most delicate, non-threatening penis ever drawn. "What, me, rape? Don't be silly. I'm just a vagina in another form. Your hateful assumptions aren't helping anyone!"

by Anonymousreply 10803/12/2020

Category is: Bollywood Goddess!

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by Anonymousreply 10903/12/2020

He's ridiculous, and dumb, but leave him be. Don't give him attention.

by Anonymousreply 11003/12/2020

Has he been able to lose his virginity yet?

by Anonymousreply 11103/12/2020

What the fuck is this blather. The only way women can "successfully challenge the patriarchy" is with men pretending to be women leading the charge?


happy international women’s day! i do not believe that feminism will effectively challenge patriarchy by relying on the gender binary. that’s like fighting fire with fire. patriarchy is not just male dominance, it is the maintenance of the gender binary. the gender binary is the continual making of “man” and “woman” “masculine” and “feminine” as opposed and mutually exclusive. it is the division of billions of people into one of two categories without their consent. it is the reduction of our profound complexity to reproductive capacity. i believe feminism should challenge the idea that our identities and expressions should only be linked to how we make babies (hello!). i believe that womanhood is so much more tremendous, expansive, creative, dynamic, and powerful than that.

when trans/intersex/non-binary people call for inclusive feminism we are not “erasing” the issues cis women face, we are challenging how the particular experiences of cisgender heterosexual women are made as the default. this is not a zero-sum game: we can and should hold space for the multiple ways patriarchy maps onto all our experiences. we are insisting on a more precise and holistic understanding of gender that will result in more total freedom for everyone. this is not about being politically correct, it is just about being correct. cis feminism is not feminism, it is another variation of patriarchy. trans exclusionary feminism is not feminism, it is misogyny. the future is not only “female,” the future is free of essentialist definitions of gender and sex. pre-order my book #BeyondTheGenderBinary at the link in my bio to learn more about how we can all work together to end the gender binary. love and need you! x

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by Anonymousreply 11203/12/2020

Also I love how he plugs his book at the end, for "International Women's Day".

by Anonymousreply 11303/12/2020

"patriarchy is not just male dominance"

Except, yeah, it kind of is, Alok. I do like your scoop-necked sweater though; very MTM. Do your thing, kid, but stop appropriating women's oppression. It's NOT okay.

by Anonymousreply 11403/12/2020

He's a navel-gazing twat, a spoiled rich boy with no real problems in his life. And he's ugly as sin.

by Anonymousreply 11503/12/2020

she's FIERCE!

or feral.

by Anonymousreply 11603/12/2020

R109 - are we sure Alok wrote that? It doesn't have his usual 'style' - there's proper punctuation and grammar for a start. See R112 for the usual bilge.

by Anonymousreply 11703/13/2020

Alok must be seething Jacob got the book deal..................

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by Anonymousreply 11803/13/2020

R118 Jacob has 'crazy eyes'.

by Anonymousreply 11903/13/2020

R119 - Jacob has crazy *everything*. All these freaks are crazy attention whores.

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Sisters in arms:

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by Anonymousreply 12103/13/2020

I think you're all being very mean. Surely everyone knows non-binary people of color are most likely to suffer due to the coronavirus?

Not, like from the disease itself, but it'll take attention away from them, and so they'll really suffer that way.

by Anonymousreply 12203/14/2020

Ready to Teach!

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by Anonymousreply 12303/24/2020

He comes from a wealthy family and yet cannot volunteer his time "teaching" in this time of need.

He wrote : "Reach out if you have departmental/university funds and would like me to facilitate a class or workshop!

by Anonymousreply 12403/24/2020

Look at the hashtags at R121: "#iwd2020 #parttimewoman". Seriously? Can you imagine a white person, on MLK's birthday, posting, "This is for my girl, Rachel Dolezal, who makes it a little easier for all of us who don't fit neatly into the African-American box! #MLKDay #PartTimeBlack

It's so dishonest and so controlling. Like the longest long con ever.

by Anonymousreply 12503/24/2020

Still trying to hustle, I see.

by Anonymousreply 12603/24/2020

It'd be interesting to have him "teach" a class if the class was psychology students using it as an example of narcissism and grifting.

by Anonymousreply 12703/25/2020

R122 = "Shut up, women! A man is speaking."

by Anonymousreply 12803/25/2020

They's working hard to keep their svelte figure!

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by Anonymousreply 12903/25/2020

I remain so curious as to what he and Jacob Tobia and Meredith Talusan will do as they get older.

What they really want to do is preach to others and tell them what to think, and when they were just out of college or grad school, people were interested. But as they get older they will all find it harder and harder: when you're no longer in your mid twenties people expect logic rather than passion if you're a public speaker or a teacher. And if they really want to be teachers, they will have to get advanced degrees (Talusan was in the process of getting one but dropped out of her graduate program because she wasn't getting enough national attention as she felt she deserved).

In the meantime, Jacob's memoir didn't do all that well, and I don't expect Meredith's forthcoming one will either. Trans and genderfluid/genderqueer people are more out now than ever before, but the general interest in those issues seem to be winding down after havuing such a huge cultural moment about three-four years ago.

by Anonymousreply 13003/25/2020

r130 it will definitely get tougher as they age. They'll just be old fat guys in dresses.

by Anonymousreply 13103/25/2020

R129 - love to see Alok try and rock up to a real gym dressed like that.

by Anonymousreply 13203/26/2020

R130: actually out of that Unholy Trio, Alok is probably the most intelligent and seems to have a sense of humor about himself. And thus he would probably cope with old age the best.

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by Anonymousreply 13303/26/2020

[quote] everything & everywhere hurts. grief swallows us. i hope my art can provide some peace (even for a moment).

Yeah, that's a real sense of humor about himself.

by Anonymousreply 13403/26/2020

R133, if that's his "sense of humor" I'd hate to see his dark side. Oh, wait; I *did* see his dark side: when he called little girls "kinky and deviant." (He knows this because-- wait for it-- he was once a cute little girl.)

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by Anonymousreply 13503/26/2020

None of them have a sense of humor. They all take themselves VERY seriously. Even though they dress like circus clowns.

by Anonymousreply 13603/26/2020

It says it gets hate mail everyday?

Where do people find it's address to send it a letter?

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I just threw up a little in my mouth r138.

BTW, who the hell pays for his NY apartment? He can't earn enough at poetry slams and the occasional speaking gig to afford that kind of rent.

by Anonymousreply 13903/26/2020

Alok's aunt is Urvashi Vaid, a pretty well-known second-wave feminist/lesbian, and the partner of comedian Kate Clinton. They hardly ever refer to one another, and I really wonder what Urvashi thinks of all... this.

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by Anonymousreply 14003/26/2020

When referring to Kate Clinton, "comedian" should be in quotes.

by Anonymousreply 14103/26/2020

r140 I'm guessing "What did I do wrong???"

by Anonymousreply 14203/27/2020

[quote]drag them Minerva!

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by Anonymousreply 14303/27/2020

His hairy bod turns me on. Kill me now.

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by Anonymousreply 14504/01/2020

They has a Store!

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by Anonymousreply 14604/01/2020

You jealous bitches could only DREAM of being this HOTT!!

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by Anonymousreply 14704/01/2020

At R45: "What would it mean to leave the house and not be gendered?"

If you don't like being gendered, then why are you gendering yourself, Alok?

"What would it mean to no longer be forced to do the work of gender?"

If gender is this horrible thing that "forces" you to "work," then why the hell are you constantly telling us we have to celebrate it? Make up your mind: Is gender a good thing or a bad thing?

by Anonymousreply 14804/01/2020

He looks like he smells, that's the first thing. Also, he dresses like a deranged she beast, that's second. Lastly, what in holy hell happened to him? What sort of trauma or dysfunction causes a seemingly intact mind to shatter and become so fragmented?

by Anonymousreply 14904/01/2020

How often is they bashed when they leave the house?

They is always so dramatic. Most people could give a shit about they.

by Anonymousreply 15004/02/2020

Serving trans-Marie Antoinette Realness!

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by Anonymousreply 15104/02/2020

Four people were needed for that visual trash, so much for social distancing.

by Anonymousreply 15204/04/2020

Mommie I'm Scared

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by Anonymousreply 15304/04/2020

[quote] I really wonder what Urvashi thinks of all... this.

Oh, of COURSE he's the nephew of Urvashi.

by Anonymousreply 15404/04/2020

What does that mean, R154? Not being bitchy; I'm honestly wondering.

by Anonymousreply 15504/04/2020

Isn’t this stale in the new Covid19 reality?

by Anonymousreply 15604/04/2020

Well r156 it does seem completely frivolous.

by Anonymousreply 15704/04/2020

I don't see Alok as trans or even "gender nonbinary".

He is a crossdresser who loves dramatic outfits, makeup and wigs. He is an Indian-scifi/fantasy- themed drag queen.

Most trans women are desperate to camouflage their male attributes to try to appear female. Alok celebrates his masculinity by not shaving his copious amounts of body hair. It is clear he is not taking estrogen!

by Anonymousreply 15804/05/2020

That's the new trans r158, guys looking like guys but pretending to be women.

by Anonymousreply 15904/05/2020

I think Alok is more complex than that. He thinks he's both man AND woman and NEITHER.

But more than anything he's just a narcissistic asshole.with too much time on her/his/its/xyr hands.

by Anonymousreply 16004/05/2020

When your parents are paying for you to gadabout NYC, you have a lot of time on your hands to indulge your narcissism.

by Anonymousreply 16104/05/2020

Maybe he could do some good by walking around NYC in one of his 'sexy' looks - instant social distancing and people look themselves indoors to get away from him.

by Anonymousreply 16204/05/2020

I don't think Alok in any way sees himself as a woman. He is a crossdresser and seeker of attention. He has latched onto the trans/non binary movement to gain attention and to be paid for appearances...and write a book.

by Anonymousreply 16304/05/2020

She's looking worse as the lockdown moves on!

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by Anonymousreply 16404/16/2020

The clothing gets scantier as the attention wanes. No one gives a shit during the pandemic, so out come the bandeau top and the micro-mini. This saucy vixen is going to get her "likes" one way or another!

by Anonymousreply 16504/17/2020

That pic at R164 makes me feel very, very ill.

by Anonymousreply 16604/17/2020

r165 most of her Instagram has turned into pictures of enormous blocks of text in an attempt to appear "deep". I guess when you can't buy new outfits and have your photographer friend take photos of you, the look at r164 is what she has to fall back on - looking like she's going out to work the corner in the 80s. That is, after she mated with Sasquatch.

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by Anonymousreply 16805/14/2020

Meh. Boring gender fluid expression again. Go play outside, I want to watch my stories in peace.

by Anonymousreply 16905/14/2020

"With the continued demonization of Islam & the Middle East as 'homophobic' & 'backwards'..."

I'll stop calling them homophobic and backwards if they'll stop throwing gay men off the tops of buildings. Deal?

"...& that desirable 'men' & 'women' were depicted with similar facial & bodily features."

Really? Quotation marks around "men" and "women"? Men and women are REAL THINGS, Alok. The next time you write one of your bullshit articles, I hope the editor emails you, "I suppose you want your 'money' now."

But he does, somehow, force himself to write the phrase "same-sex practices," so... Progress? Baby steps?

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by Anonymousreply 171Last Friday at 2:04 PM

"i resolved then & there not to remove my body hair because i believed in the femininity of my hairy brown foremothers."

If Alok stopped confusing "femininity" with womanhood, he'd probably be a lot happier. It's okay to be a feminine man! It's not okay to appropriate womanhood and/or motherhood. Women don't need Alok or any other man to tell them about their own lives/experiences; why can't he respect that?

by Anonymousreply 172Last Friday at 2:16 PM
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