Whats happened to him? He used to be cute
Alok vaid Menon
|by Anonymous||reply 351||Last Tuesday at 5:27 PM|
That fringe on the jacket isn't helping.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||11/06/2018|
Is he a colonel in the Libyan military? Things don’t end up well for them at times.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||11/06/2018|
He? HE? HE????
Misgendering is literal violence.
Especially for those who are gender fluid.
Or whatever the fuck Alok is.
Last I heard Alok was complaining that people stare at Alok in the street. I think Alok was wearing stripey tights, a basque, blue lipstick, and was twirling in a vagina cape at the time. WHY DO PEOPLE STARE??? WHY???
|by Anonymous||reply 3||12/18/2018|
OP, Isn’t that photo from like 8 years ago?
Alok is the proverbial Chrustmas fruitcake, stale and regifted by mug-cradling DL Frauen every year. Or month!
|by Anonymous||reply 4||12/18/2018|
Is he still whining, along with his cohort Jacob, that nobody on the face of the Earth wants to fuck either one of them?
|by Anonymous||reply 5||12/18/2018|
R5 - why don't they just fuck each other?
|by Anonymous||reply 6||12/18/2018|
R6, you know the answer to that: they don't find people like themselves even remotely attractive. They just insist that better looking people should be obliged to have sex with them. I'm sure there's a name for making another person feel so guilty that you can get away with having sex with them when they don't want to be doing it.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||12/18/2018|
|by Anonymous||reply 8||12/18/2018|
Pound it! Pound it HARD, fellas!
|by Anonymous||reply 9||12/18/2018|
R5 The question I ask men over 40 who bemoan the lack of young twinks willing to screw them..
|by Anonymous||reply 10||12/18/2018|
Ze's no Jacob Tobia!
|by Anonymous||reply 11||12/18/2018|
r9 makes Jacob look normal! And I am shocked that a sentence like that can be said unironically.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||12/18/2018|
So effortlessly glamorous and elegant, like a modern-day Audrey Hepburn.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||12/18/2018|
All these people do is play dress-up and take selfies. And we should care, why?
|by Anonymous||reply 14||12/18/2018|
Go to any "weird" city and youll see a 100 bitches like this walking the street on any given day. He's not as unique or as special as he thinks he is.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||12/18/2018|
He looks like an anthropomorphic singing pineapple dressed like Carmen Miranda from a nightmarish 1930s cartoon.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||12/18/2018|
All the Feels:
|by Anonymous||reply 17||01/03/2019|
Happy New Year:
|by Anonymous||reply 18||01/03/2019|
r18 fuck he is an ugly asshole
|by Anonymous||reply 19||01/03/2019|
I can't stand the HOTTNESS!
|by Anonymous||reply 20||01/03/2019|
Why does it have patches of shaved hair going down each upper arm?
|by Anonymous||reply 21||01/03/2019|
R20, I really would have appreciated a trigger warning before you posted that.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||01/03/2019|
He could get laid pretty reliably if he buzzed his hair, put on some jeans, and skipped the makeup. He wouldn’t be pulling Andrew Christian models and pro athletes, but he wouldn’t need to beg anymore in public essays for people to fuck him. Back in my day the cross-dressers knew when to turn it off. You know: church, job interviews, kids’ birthdays. Also any time/place where the goal is to get somebody to find you attractive.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||01/03/2019|
He should film himself getting a complete makeover and film his former self chase after his new and improved self.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||01/03/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 25||01/03/2019|
He is one of the most tedious people on the planet.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||01/03/2019|
R18 is a fabulous picture, I give him that.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||01/03/2019|
"I'm not a man or a woman."
No, you're a man because we can all SEE YOUR BALLS in that bikini.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||01/03/2019|
As someone who loves hairy guys, they could really be decently attractive if they stopped with the make-up, hair and horrible clothes. I get that they are gender fluid and that them being only a boy might be as silly and unnatural as telling a gay man to just date a woman because it would make life easier.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||01/03/2019|
Let's face it. Both him and Jacob are self loathing. So how better to remain 'gay free" than to present oneself in such a way ( aint none of them capable of "androgyny") and have an entitlement to a specific type of man ( straight) that not one piece of male to male sex will ever occur!
|by Anonymous||reply 30||01/03/2019|
Is he still into “kinky” little girls?
|by Anonymous||reply 31||01/03/2019|
Exactly r30. They are lisping, flaming queens and they just need to fucking OWN it. Their self-loathing results in all this "non-binary" horseshit. There is nothing wrong with being an effeminate, flamboyant gay male.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||01/03/2019|
[quote]We won’t be erased:
|by Anonymous||reply 33||01/04/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 34||01/04/2019|
R34 I adore that he has zero gay friends to tell him how fucking badly he dresses and what an idiot he is.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||01/04/2019|
#WontBeErased that's funny because the movement is erasing gay kids and turning them into these weirdos.
|by Anonymous||reply 36||01/04/2019|
Are there binary or gender fluid people who are actually attractive? I feel they're all ugly and they know it and that's why they become gender fluid. So they can blame how radical they are in being "Under fluid" as the reason as why they don't get laid. It's easier than admitting that you are unfuckable.
"I'm sure there's a name for making another person feel so guilty that you can get away with having sex with them when they don't want to be doing it."
In the straight community they are called INCELS and are called by woman that won't be bullied into having sex with such losers. In the gay community, the intel people play victims as well but due to being a minority, it's "racist/homophobic/bigoted" to call them out for trying to pressure people not having sex with them.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||01/04/2019|
Alok’s aunt, Urvashi Vaid, was an EFFECTIVE gay rights activist.
Here she is declaring war on the American far/Christian right at the 1993 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||01/04/2019|
Urvashi Vaid has been the partner of unfunny comedian Kate Clinton for decades.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||01/04/2019|
R37: ya call?
|by Anonymous||reply 40||01/04/2019|
More Non-Binary Hotness:
|by Anonymous||reply 41||01/04/2019|
^ Would have loved to see Kyle Kreiger's reaction to seeing that pic for the first time.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||01/04/2019|
Not sure why “non-binary” means you can only dress in either1970s Mama’s Family-esque thrift store drag or in Folsom fetish gear. Couldn’t these gents sport their beards and bobs with a basic outfit from Chico’s or Theory?
|by Anonymous||reply 43||01/04/2019|
They are the Club Kids of today. They live to shock.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||01/04/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 45||01/05/2019|
Alok has that condescending "Now I'm explaining it to you voice" which many college students have when they say the most banal things that everyone already knows @R46
|by Anonymous||reply 46||01/05/2019|
3rd annual Fashion Collection:
|by Anonymous||reply 47||01/05/2019|
At least I like that he isn't taking any hormones or needing to trans in anyway that damages his body. It's a smart move.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||01/05/2019|
Mindy Kaling is looking rough at R20.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||01/05/2019|
All he does is play dress-up in hideous 80s clothes and gad about NYC on his parents' dime. Why should he be some kind of public figure? He's a total joke.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||01/05/2019|
If you think these non-binary guys like Alok and Jacob are unattractive now, just wait until they're middle-aged with pot bellies, wrinkles, jowls and receding hairlines. They're going to look downright scary.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||01/06/2019|
R51: ya call?
|by Anonymous||reply 52||01/06/2019|
Nico and Alok together seem the perfect storm of self indulgent stupid fucktards hanging together. Maybe Nico will fuck him? Oh thats right he doesn't fuck men
|by Anonymous||reply 53||01/06/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 54||01/07/2019|
These people wouldn't dare go out looking like that if they weren't so privileged and had to get an actual job. There's nothing impressive or brave about that.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||01/07/2019|
If a biological woman dressed the way these men do, she would be unemployable in any professional capacity.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||01/07/2019|
r56 None of these attention seeking fucks are employed, they blog and advise queer groups on stupid shit or are professional students but NONE of these cocks live or work or engage with reality or the real world
|by Anonymous||reply 57||01/07/2019|
Must be nice to have family money! These stupid fucks go on and on about being oppressed and marginalized yet they all live in nice apartments in NYC and just gad about. They're more privileged than 90% of the population. Hypocritical assholes.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||01/07/2019|
Self-absorbed rich boys who have nothing better to do with their time but worry about what to wear.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||01/07/2019|
[quote]Self-absorbed rich boys who have nothing better to do with their time but worry about what to wear.
I believe you've nailed it.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||01/07/2019|
R46 omg yes, that "im telling you how it is" voice.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||01/07/2019|
I think she looks gorg!
|by Anonymous||reply 62||01/07/2019|
OMG r62 he looks like fucking Patti Lupone!
|by Anonymous||reply 63||01/07/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 64||01/07/2019|
[quote]i do not know who i am nor what i am doing, but i feel & that is more important to me than knowledge.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||01/07/2019|
Ok, in all seriousness, alok is a man who wears makeup and colorful, flashy outfits, and that is ok. Women don't get a monopoly on clothing. Some of the posters here seem a bit homophobic.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||01/07/2019|
r66 Alok is typical of various self-absorbed narcissists who have hijacked the gay rights movement for their own personal gain.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||01/07/2019|
^Well, he is gay himself...if anything he has hijacked the trans movement, since he is a basic gay man insisting on calling himself 'they'...
|by Anonymous||reply 68||01/07/2019|
Is there a way to look good in makeup with a beard?
|by Anonymous||reply 69||01/08/2019|
What is it wearing???
|by Anonymous||reply 70||01/08/2019|
r69 Don'y blame us for this mutt, he is totally engineered, and set in motion by the madness of tranny think
|by Anonymous||reply 71||01/08/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 72||01/08/2019|
A modern-day dandy.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||01/08/2019|
He'd give anything to be a pretty girl!
But unlike some of his fellows on the trans lunatic fringe, at least he has enough self-awareness to see that no amount of surgery could ever make that happen.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||01/08/2019|
Alok comes from a proud South Asian tradition.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||01/08/2019|
I get the feeling that both Alok and Jacob come from money. They may looks hideous most of the time, but Jacob in particular spends a bundle on his various get ups.
Serious question: I know that they complain constantly about getting no sex, but does either one consider himself bi? Or are they strictly looking for dick?
|by Anonymous||reply 76||01/08/2019|
[quote]He'd give anything to be a pretty girl!
They ALL want to be hot white women lol!
|by Anonymous||reply 77||01/08/2019|
R76 was 100% correct.
Alok Vaid-Menon went to Stanford.
Mother: Jyotsna Vaid is a Professor of Psychology and Women's and Gender Studies at Texas A&M University and an affiliated faculty of the South Asia Institute at the University of Texas at Austin. Vaid received a B.A. in biopsychology from Vassar College and an M.A. and Ph.D. from McGill University in experimental psychology. She completed two postdoctoral fellowships, one at Michigan State University and the other jointly at the Center for Research in Language at the University of California, San Diego, and at the Salk Institute for Biological Studies, before joining Texas A&M, where she is currently a full professor in psychology and Director of the Language and Cognition Lab (see link below). For 10 years Vaid edited the Committee on South Asian Women (COSAW) Bulletin and in 2009 she co-founded the journal Writing Systems Research.
Father: Ramdas Menon is the Deputy Director, Health Information Technology at the Texas Health and Human Services Commission. He is also an adjunct faculty member at Texas A&M in Public Health.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||01/08/2019|
Jacob Tobia is the son of Jane and Abraham Tobia, and attended Duke.
Mother: Jane Tobia - Associate Executive Director at the Women’s Center of Wake County
Father: Abraham J. Tobia is currently a Regulatory Pharmacologist/Toxicologist, United States Food and Drug Administration (FDA), Center for Veterinary Medicine (CVM) in the Human Food Safety Division – HFV 150. As a Regulatory Pharmacologist/Toxicologist in FDA/CVM, Dr. Tobia is responsible to study of drug, food additives and chemical risks related to establishing standards for drug and chemicals permitted in food and feed. Prior to this position, Dr. Tobia was a Toxicology Fellow at Bayer CropScience where he manages the regulatory toxicology aspect of several major Bayer products in the area of toxicology and pharmacology. Before working at Bayer, Dr, Tobia was Manager of Toxicology and a Product Registration Manager at BASF Corporation, where he managed the regulatory areas of Toxicology, Ecotoxicology, and Risk Assessment (which included worker exposure assessments) and was a responsible for product registration of several products and for all toxicology/ecotoxicology issues simultaneously. Prior to working for BASF, Dr. Tobia worked for DuPont Company in their Central Toxicology Laboratory as a Senior Toxicologist in the Chronic Investigation Section, which provided service to the pharmaceutical, agricultural, and chemical sectors for the company. Dr. Tobia was the past Chairperson of the American Crop Protection Association’s Toxicology Round Table and Human Health and Risk Assessment Committee (HARC). Dr. Tobia also served on the EPA Endocrine Disruptors Screening and Testing Federal Advisory Committee because of the enactment of the Food Quality Protection Act of 1996. He was a member of more than a dozen national and international committees that are affiliated with Crop Life America and his responsibilities in his positions. Dr. Tobia had held a position as an Adjunct Professor at North Carolina State University in the Department of Toxicology. Dr. Tobia has authored many article, abstract, book chapters and has given multiple presentations to national and international symposiums. Dr. Tobia has a B.A. in Biochemistry, a M.S. in Human Pathology, and a dual Ph.D. in Pharmacology and Toxicology from The Ohio State University. He also was a Post-Doctoral Fellow in the Department of Oncology and Hematology prior to joining DuPont.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||01/08/2019|
I’m now a bit dismayed at all their talk about “checking of privilege.” What a joke!
|by Anonymous||reply 80||01/08/2019|
They would NEVER dare confess their privileged backgrounds! I had to be a bit crafty in my search to find out / confirm who their parents were.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||01/08/2019|
That is insane. They live in a bubble; and always have! And yet my 'cis' gay ass is somehow problematic??? It seems so reductive, but these two really reek of boys who never received enough attention or validation due to busy and high achieving parents. Its them lashing out on mom and pop's dime. Pathetic.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||01/08/2019|
this Alok shit is such bullshit.
I'm a 45 year old fat straight naturally hairy women and no one wants to fuck me either.
how come I don't get a cookie?
|by Anonymous||reply 83||01/08/2019|
I just love it when spoiled rotten rich people who've always lived in a cushy bubble and who've never had to work a real job in their lives think they can lecture everybody else.
Fuck these people.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||01/08/2019|
Gosh, I wonder who's paying the rent on their nice NYC apartments lol.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||01/08/2019|
I'm really surprised that Alok and Jacob's hard-working, highly educated parents are paying for their useless and self-indulgent lifestyles. It sounds like they're upper middle class rather than members of the idle rich, most such people put a lot of pressure on their kids to excel, and ain't got time OR money for grown offpsring who just want to put pictures of their outfits on Instagram.
I wonder if those self-absorbed twits are going to get cut off at some point?
|by Anonymous||reply 86||01/08/2019|
[quote]alokvmenon for the past week i have been receiving non-stop rape threats, death threats, been ridiculed & demeaned, called a monkey & monster, told i have a disorder & need to be exterminated...simply for posting a photo of myself in a swim suit. several memes have been made out of my image: there is something so degrading about an empowering image of yourself getting repurposed to humiliate you. it’s like getting spat on in your favorite outfit: the extremities of joy & the enormity of pain. this harassment is coming from both men & women, many of whom are south asian like me. they tag each other to make fun of each other: this is your boyfriend, this is your girlfriend, this is you. essentially: they use me to become. become desirable, become straight, become humorous, become men & become women. i am familiar with this encounter: being extracted from to create the norm and then subsequently being disavowed from it. being foundational to everything & then being erased from it. in times like these i want to disappear - delete the social media accounts that profit off of me but do not protect me, protect my art & my image & my creativity from a world which punishes me for it. but then i remember that is precisely what they want me to do: erase myself so they can maintain the fiction not only of their relevance, but themselves. it’s another unremarkable remarkable day of enduring the vitriol of transmisogyny. it is spectacularly ordinary & ordinarily spectacular. today i am here to tell the story of it, to say “this happens to people like me every day.” to ask: “what are you doing to stop it?” and perhaps: “how are you engendering it?”
|by Anonymous||reply 87||01/08/2019|
I actually loled ^
|by Anonymous||reply 88||01/08/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 89||01/08/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 90||01/09/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 91||01/09/2019|
It's nice his family is so accepting.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||01/09/2019|
R92 They hate him, all of them. But especially Dad
|by Anonymous||reply 93||01/09/2019|
Well, the family backgrounds are "middle class" academic meritocracy. They are bourgeois. I see no evidence of "coming from money".
|by Anonymous||reply 94||01/09/2019|
Proud Homecomg Gurl:
|by Anonymous||reply 95||01/11/2019|
^ Oops sorry wrong linky:
|by Anonymous||reply 96||01/11/2019|
They can afford to dress like a freak since they are privileged. Can you imagine them dressing like this to a job interview.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||01/11/2019|
Well if they apply for jobs in soi-disant LGBTQRSTUVW organizations, their gender fluidity will be rewarded.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||01/11/2019|
Ive known quite a few people from India over the course of my life, and one thing Ive noticed is they seem to love their kids no matter what they do . I dont know if its because of their religion or cultural or what. I knew a cutie pie in Atlanta who was as gay as a Judy Garland tribute. His parents knew it,everyone he encountered knew it,even Ray Charles would have seen it. Yet they bought him a Subway franchise,wich he made a ton of money at. They did insist he get married and have a child,but once he did that he was back to living his gay life with his black boyfriend and even the wife (who was gorgeous) didnt seem to care. So I dont doubt these idiots are deeply loved by their families.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||01/11/2019|
R99 WTF that sounds...disgusting. I feel bad for that child.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||01/11/2019|
R97 He's a social media "influencer". I doubt this is how he dresses all the time. Probably just for instagram selfies
|by Anonymous||reply 101||01/11/2019|
[quote]alokvmenon saying bye to achamma was just as hard today as it was one year ago. re-sharing what i wrote last year: for my past few days in Kerala i had stomach bug & in some perverse way i found myself enjoying the sickness because it meant being doted on by achamma. she spent hours on the phone calling every relative keeping them abreast of my bowel movements. she made me porridge & steamed banana, checking on me constantly throughout the day & the night. she told everyone how sad she was that i was sick. on my final night she offered to sleep on the ground next to my bed in case i needed anything. i am constantly thinking about the things i have lost to oceans & this is one of them: the ability to love like that, as if the boundaries between ‘her’ & ‘me’ are non-existent, as if me being sick was her being sick, the porousness, the refusal of individuality. at the same time, the failure of language to express what i felt — to say i am alive because of you. after leaving achamma I thought about the last time i said goodbye to my other grandmother. she died 6 months later. how i recorded a short video from afar for her on her death bed — me fumbling through another goodbye, a bunch of words to say: “I will remember.” why do we say bye instead of i will remember? when my sister left for college i cried every night for a month. at her graduation party i made a slideshow with a poem & cried so hard i had to leave the venue. how do we go on knowing it will never be the same? how do we say goodbye to the people we love? how come it’s goodbyes that let us know just how much we love them? i keep thinking about all of things i wanted to say/could have said/couldn’t say to achamma, to nani, to the people i love or rather, the people who keep me alive. so i write poems & letters & notes from afar miss everyone & everything, regret the limitations of a tongue, the vulgarity of a hand waving goodbye.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||01/11/2019|
The pic @ r91 he’s dressed in male clothing with no make up. I bet he doesn’t do the womanface schtick around daddy.
Alok is a pedo-apologist cunt. Fuck him and his hideous appearance. (Seriously, where the fuck do these desperate attention whores find the terrible outfits? I’ve seen better at church bingo throwing out time.)
|by Anonymous||reply 103||01/11/2019|
Indian culture is anti female AND homophobic. Of course an Indian family is going to cater to a closeted man who claims not to be a man more than face the truth. Indians of ALL castes care very much about image. In the UK there are areas with Indian women who through being of the Brahmin caste thought that their becoming a doctor was a fait accompli simply based upon their birth. When it was realised at University that their intelligence had plateaued, instead if becoming nurses or taking it down a notch, they simply became housewives or single.
The MP Keith Vaz , Hindu, rotten to the core in a way that he hopes that no more of his horrible Tea gets exposed is married to an Indian wife who is very mercenary and who knew from the get go that the father of her children is a barely closeted gay man who is sleazy to his core. Also, I've yet to meet an Indian of Hindu extraction that cares less about "whiteness" than the average Klan member, too. Non Indians of Guyanese and Trinidadian extraction know this to be true. Indians of Jamaican extraction got themselves "cooled down" by the overwhelming non ambiguous black population and are far cooler and "aware". Indian = supremacist in too many cases.
|by Anonymous||reply 104||01/11/2019|
I suppose in Indian culture, the son is forgiven anything, and the daughter nothing.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||01/11/2019|
This was never cute....never.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||01/11/2019|
R104 is right on every point.
|by Anonymous||reply 107||01/11/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 108||01/11/2019|
He looks slightly constipated @ r108.
|by Anonymous||reply 109||01/11/2019|
r109 Alok does erotic poses, but looks like he needs to shit
|by Anonymous||reply 110||01/11/2019|
If ever we needed, “Kill it, kill it with fire!” this is it!
Is he just trying to be provocative or does he actually, truly believe he looks good?
|by Anonymous||reply 111||01/12/2019|
I don’t think he cares how he looks as likely no as others look AT him. He’s the poster boy for narcissists.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||01/12/2019|
^^^”likely no” = long. What the fuck autocorrect?
|by Anonymous||reply 113||01/12/2019|
I believe that this is a sign of the impending Apocalypse.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||01/12/2019|
I bet the one in the middle gets laid more than you. LoL
|by Anonymous||reply 115||01/12/2019|
Suicide by age 40.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||01/12/2019|
R99, not at all. South Asian parents WILL do anything for their kids. However, if that child ends up gay, they will probably never accept that child. They are incredibly homophobic thanks to Victorian-era colonialism.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||01/12/2019|
Looks like Meredith is back on DL (@ R115). Hi Meredith! How's that manuscript coming along?
|by Anonymous||reply 118||01/12/2019|
R114, I bet all three of them would sell their souls to be pretty! Hopefully as a girl, because they'd give ANYTHING to be pretty girls, but they'd settle for being a pretty boy.
It ain't happening, so they're trying to get attention by being outrageous rather than beautiful. They're the femme male version of the rainbow-haired fat hipster girl with too many tattoos, except that even a tasteless fat girl can pull a little straight male dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||01/12/2019|
r119 it's been said before, but they all wish they were white women and are pissed that they aren't.
|by Anonymous||reply 120||01/12/2019|
Throwing a tantrum because nobody else thinks you’re fuckable is just about the most narcissistic thing I can think of. Nobody is owed sex. Nobody has the right to force anyone to fuck them. It is impossible to force someone to find you attractive.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||01/12/2019|
What happened to Janani? Weren't they actually a couple?
Speaking of spokestrans, Laura Jane Grace looks like he's aged 20 years in 5. It doesn't look like transition made him happy.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||01/12/2019|
R119 No, they would all sell their souls for a masculine, tall, straight, white, man to pound their (b)ussy actually. For all their woke talk, thats all these gurls REALLY want.
|by Anonymous||reply 123||01/12/2019|
R123 And what is wrong with that?
|by Anonymous||reply 124||01/12/2019|
Why is it that he and Jacob Tobia and Meredith Talusan talk constantly about how hard it is for them to love themselves, when to everyone else it seems that's ALL they love in the entire universe?
|by Anonymous||reply 125||01/12/2019|
r123 I've said the same thing in other threads about these freaks. What they REALLY want, but would never admit publicly, is for some masculine jock douchebro Chris Pratt type to fall madly in love with them. As if that shit's ever going to happen.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||01/12/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 127||01/12/2019|
r126 They tranny fuckers may fuck them, but they would never be seen in public with them, or introduce these sad sacks to their famalies, and that is what they really really want
|by Anonymous||reply 128||01/12/2019|
Yeah, well R126, a lot of people don't get what they want most in life, some times I think the majority of people.
Most people manage to cope without making a spectacle of themselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 129||01/12/2019|
[quote]how are you engendering it?
Ironic choice of words, no?
|by Anonymous||reply 130||01/13/2019|
Who makes these clown clothes? He looks like a children’s entertainer on a budget.
|by Anonymous||reply 131||01/13/2019|
Why is he so fat?
|by Anonymous||reply 132||01/13/2019|
132 He eats his feelings?
|by Anonymous||reply 133||01/13/2019|
They're like low IQ, po-faced, homophobic, artless, Club Kid wannabes.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||01/13/2019|
You bitches are just jealous! You only wish you could be this HOTT!
|by Anonymous||reply 135||01/13/2019|
^ Omg So Fierce! Slaaay!
|by Anonymous||reply 136||01/13/2019|
Saris are or Princesses:
|by Anonymous||reply 137||01/14/2019|
^ * for
|by Anonymous||reply 138||01/14/2019|
Love the fat rolls hanging over that sari! So chic.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||01/14/2019|
He’s complaining that he can’t get Indian designers to “outfit” him? How about just paying for the clothes? Nobody cares what you want to wear so long as you’re not asking for it to be free.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||01/15/2019|
[quote]alokvmenon i am performing at @theprojectcafegoa in goa on wednesday Jan 16 (link in IG story) and @toocuckoo in mumbai on Friday Jan 18 (link in bio) with @iamelsz ! both are benefits for @amra.odbhuth a queer / trans / feminist cafe & arts incubator in Kolkata. i am trying to raise $1000+ for them & could use your help to donate / sponsor free tickets. please Venmo @alokvmenon or PayPal email@example.com if you want to support queer feminist cultural work in India ❤️! also please tag your friends in goa & Mumbai so they know about the shows! ✨
|by Anonymous||reply 141||01/15/2019|
[quote]i am trying to raise $1000+ for them & could use your help to donate
Why doesn't he just ask mommy and daddy to write a check, like they do for his rent and all of his bills?
|by Anonymous||reply 142||01/15/2019|
[quote] CONFORMITY is not Community:
|by Anonymous||reply 143||01/15/2019|
What R126 said, or else they're obsessed with the fact that their parents don't give them a second thought so they will do absolutely everything and anything to get mommy and/or daddy's attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 144||01/15/2019|
I can almost hear the belch in the background when I look at the pic in R137's post.
|by Anonymous||reply 145||01/15/2019|
I love how when these GUYS ape women in their pictures, they always purse their gloppily over-lipsticked lips like a sex doll. They have apparently never noticed that actual women do not walk around with that puffy/slack sex pout thing going on.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||01/15/2019|
Actual women don't look like rodeo clowns either.
|by Anonymous||reply 147||01/15/2019|
"... they always purse their gloppily over-lipsticked lips like a sex doll. They have apparently never noticed that actual women do not walk around with that..."
Women do it on social media, I think that's what they're imitating.
I don't think they spend a lot of time looking at women in real life.
|by Anonymous||reply 148||01/16/2019|
Looking HOTT in an 80s church lady outfit!
|by Anonymous||reply 149||01/16/2019|
Living their best lives:
|by Anonymous||reply 150||01/17/2019|
R114 missed one. Aren't there supposed to be 4 horsemen...I mean horse-persons of the Apocalypse.
This Saigon blossom makes it complete!
|by Anonymous||reply 151||01/17/2019|
"When are you going to stop this nonsense and apply to medical school!"
|by Anonymous||reply 152||01/17/2019|
"Call me they"
How about if I just call you an insufferable cunt?
|by Anonymous||reply 153||01/18/2019|
Yet some of us around here tried to claim that he and Jacob don't consider themselves to be trans.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||01/18/2019|
Alok refers to himself as trans.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||01/19/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 156||01/19/2019|
Alok & Jacob: When Brahmin Meets The Chosen People.
Hilarity and entitlement ensues.
|by Anonymous||reply 157||01/19/2019|
These entitled, self-absorbed rich kids have taken over the art / alternative / music scenes. Fuck them off.
|by Anonymous||reply 158||01/19/2019|
[quote] "When are you going to stop this nonsense and apply to medical school!"
lol, I grew up with South Asian guys from backgrounds like his in suburban Texas, and I was thinking the exact same thing. I wonder what his family thinks. There most certainly an auntie or two trying to marry him off to a cousin in Bangalore... it could make a great reality tv show.
|by Anonymous||reply 159||01/19/2019|
[quote]These entitled, self-absorbed rich kids have taken over the art / alternative / music scenes. Fuck them off.
that is sadly true. I miss the 80s local music scenes like we had in Boston, LA, NYC, that were real people, not trustafarians.
|by Anonymous||reply 160||01/19/2019|
I never would have heard of Alok, Jacob or Meredith if it hasn't been for Datalounge. I don't know whether to laugh or cry about that.
I used to head an LGBT staff support network with my previous employer. Since I left 3 of the gay men there (all in their mid-late 30s) have suddenly declared via social media that they are now trans and/or gender fluid. I'm obviously not inside these guy's heads but I genuinely think this is all due to trans being flavour of the month and huge issues with internalised homophobia (2 of them at least grew up in abusive strongly religious households).
Going back to these Instagram whores; what exactly do they bring to the world? Their only 'talent' seems to be self-promotion and total lack of self awareness or dress sense. Actually maybe that's not true - they thrive on attention which is why they dress so ludicrously. I bet they live by Oscar Wilde's maxim that the only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about. I know I'm adding to this by contributing to this thread but all they invoke in me is laughter and pity but mainly total indifference.
I agree with Magdalen Burn's take down of these fools. You want to wear a dress? Fine go ahead. You're a bloke who like to wear a dress. If that's really the most important or interesting thing about your life must be pretty fucking empty. You're just cross dressers, and that's fine. How come being 'non-binary' is all about looking blokey/hairy in a dress? Why not look feminine in (say) a suit? Oh sorry Annie Lennox did that about 40 years ago and Bowie was doing the man in a dress shtick 50 years ago.
|by Anonymous||reply 161||01/19/2019|
Baltimore lesbians show up to the Women's March and hand out reality-based info!
|by Anonymous||reply 162||01/19/2019|
Wind beneath her wings:
|by Anonymous||reply 163||01/21/2019|
^^^free to say fuck off to a dude in a muumuu
|by Anonymous||reply 164||01/21/2019|
Alok, stop posting pictures of yourself.
Have some dignity.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||01/21/2019|
Alok stop taking pictures of yourself.
Have some dignity.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||01/24/2019|
"I'm gender weird, a huge faggot." AKA a straight woman who's just too, too special:
|by Anonymous||reply 167||01/25/2019|
It's another Cool Girl hetero on steroids calling herself a "faggot". She's got no right to claim the word. She's not a gay man. She's not homosexual. She's never been beaten up and called 'faggot' for liking men, didn't grow up being shamed or pressured into dating women, it was never illegal for her to marry a man. Fucking homophobe performing queerface. Heterosexuals are just taking the piss now, fetishizing and parodying gays and lesbians, then claiming they're the most oppressed victims in the world.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||01/25/2019|
used to be CUTE?! BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
|by Anonymous||reply 169||01/25/2019|
oh god, I hate r167..."I rung in the new year at an outdoor gay bar in 20-degree weather. As we all jumped up and down and drunk-screamed “Tubthumping,” I made a single resolution: no more sleeping with cis people. Within three months, I had a serious boyfriend for the first time in years, a glitter dirtbag faggot like myself. My boyfriend and the exes share some similarities: They’re all Irish on at least one side, for instance, and tend to think I’ll like the same music (I have never received a mix from a partner that doesn’t have a track by Metric). But there is something particularly whole-feeling about desiring a masculinity that was chosen. My boyfriend came out as trans five years after I did, but it was like his masculinity sprung, fully formed, out of his ears and knees and cunt. "
|by Anonymous||reply 170||01/25/2019|
"A college partner (we had the same favorite verse of 'Hallelujah')... had me stop blowing them so I could watch the long shot in 'Children of Men'"
They're just too deep and complex for us normies to understand!
|by Anonymous||reply 171||01/25/2019|
What is Alok's end game?
|by Anonymous||reply 172||01/25/2019|
I've never heard of this person. it's a tranny?
|by Anonymous||reply 173||01/25/2019|
No r173, he and his kind are way below that.
|by Anonymous||reply 174||01/25/2019|
From last year:
|by Anonymous||reply 175||01/25/2019|
I am so confused by r170. Is his "trans" boyfriend a gay man? or a woman pretending to be a man?
|by Anonymous||reply 176||01/25/2019|
I experience him as phony and grifting.
|by Anonymous||reply 177||01/25/2019|
I have seen str8 girls saying they are gay "boys" and "faggots", I dont get it, with so many hot straight dudes out there, they only want to date/sleep with gay men. Crazy as fuck.
|by Anonymous||reply 178||01/25/2019|
Abloke: "The pink pussy hats: just another reminder of our insignificance, how even in this moment of mobilization empathy & solidarity are reserved for white cis women."
Ummm, maybe don't tell women they can't talk about their female bodies at a fucking WOMEN'S MARCH? I swear to God, I feel like I'm living in Bizarro World.
|by Anonymous||reply 179||01/25/2019|
""The pink pussy hats: just another reminder of our insignificance, how even in this moment of mobilization empathy & solidarity are reserved for white cis women." "
This person was perfectly welcome to join in the women's marches and put on a pink pussy hat, to show support for all the women in the world who have ever been demeaned, harassed, or violated, and to keep an evil stupid creep out of high office.
But no! This person reacted to that with "IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT MEEEEEEE!!!", the useless whiner.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||01/25/2019|
And the "white cis women" thing pisses me off, because there are lots of WOC and gender-nonconforming women who embrace radical feminism, and they know it and they're lying about it.
|by Anonymous||reply 181||01/25/2019|
Anyone who thinks "What can women and feminists do to make me happier and more secure" is still a man.
|by Anonymous||reply 182||01/25/2019|
Whoops wrong thread?
|by Anonymous||reply 183||01/25/2019|
^ Actually, no.
|by Anonymous||reply 184||01/25/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 185||01/25/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 186||01/30/2019|
Stop bumping yourself, Alok.
|by Anonymous||reply 187||01/30/2019|
Every Gurl deserves a gorgeous makeover:
|by Anonymous||reply 188||01/31/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 189||01/31/2019|
Stop bumping yourself, Alok.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||01/31/2019|
[quote]so often conversations about gender fluidity l/neutrality circulate without actual gender non-conforming people invited to the table.
Such a pressing issue in our modern world! Fuck climate change, this is critical.
|by Anonymous||reply 191||01/31/2019|
Alok, please die on a funeral pyre.
|by Anonymous||reply 192||01/31/2019|
Why are these people being covered in Gay Times? Fuck off to Gender Fluid Times.
|by Anonymous||reply 193||02/01/2019|
I'm for separating our community into our own categories. FFS, LGBTQ now gender fluid?!?! WTF is next?! I don't hang with dykes; they are a very unpleasant, vile shitty-tipping group of angry cunts. Bi: next! Trans? Have you ever met a tranny that wasn't fucking bat shit crazy? "I only date straight guys" lol. You date (hook) for deeply closeted gay men who will never come out of the closet and hook yourself for bigger tits, rounder ass and shitty clothes. Q? again fuck off. Gender fluid? The worst of the bunch, I'm a born woman (lesbian) that identifies as man who is dating a woman but I have facial hair now and tape my tits down; love the pussy and hate every other non gender fluid male. This shit is out of hand.
|by Anonymous||reply 194||02/01/2019|
I'm all for live and let live but what these people actually DO that warrants all this attention? It seems to me that their gender fluidity (i.e. having no dress sense whatsoever) is the whole be all and end all of their existence.
What exactly are they contributing to the world other than the stroking of their own egos?
|by Anonymous||reply 195||02/01/2019|
Same here r195. Their lives consist of dressing up like rodeo clowns, taking selfies and writing condescending articles about how oppressed and marginalized they are. All the while living in NYC on mommy and daddy's dime and never having to work real jobs. If that's being oppressed and marginalized, where do I sign up?
These guys (yes, GUYS!) like Alok are beyond tedious.
|by Anonymous||reply 196||02/01/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 197||02/05/2019|
So Alok admits there is a difference and not all women are built the same. Can trans women not have babies too? No, they can't cause they're men. So he knows that only women ( I refuse to use made up words like cis) are truly affected by pro life bullshit. Good.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||02/05/2019|
R197 - there's a verse Alanis Morissette must be kicking herself for leaving out.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||02/05/2019|
This she male is mentally ill.
|by Anonymous||reply 200||02/05/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 201||02/05/2019|
and now for something completely different
|by Anonymous||reply 202||02/05/2019|
Oh fuck off, Alok at R201.
You're a gay man who doesn't have the courage to be a gay man, talking who gay men who do.
|by Anonymous||reply 203||02/05/2019|
Xhe's queer and Indian, a fashion icon, an iconoclast, it's Mx Intersectionality 2019, Alok Vaid Menon!
|by Anonymous||reply 204||02/06/2019|
Where is his proof that cis women want to legislate against trans women? Alok tries to create more division between cis and trans women than actually building a bridge between the two.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||02/07/2019|
He’s here and he won’t be silenced! Apparently it’s a full-time job reminding everyone of this while wearing a series of ridiculous outfits.
|by Anonymous||reply 206||02/07/2019|
A tranny Indian rear-ended my iconic Fiat Spyder at busy intersection in the late 80's, near the then fashionable Paramus Mall.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||02/07/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 208||02/07/2019|
He uses a lot of non-capitalised 'i's' when referring to himself. Me thinks he isn't as confident as he likes to say he is.
|by Anonymous||reply 209||02/07/2019|
The lazy Alok will end up having the text of all his Instagram posts published by some 'woke' publishing house. Or maybe I should be 'inspired' by the Instagram text and get my self published.
"Xhe: From Paradise to Me, A Journey"
|by Anonymous||reply 210||02/07/2019|
Fuck OFF, Alok!
|by Anonymous||reply 211||02/07/2019|
Alok is great fodder for satirical purposes.
|by Anonymous||reply 212||02/07/2019|
'They' are just try-hard alternative gay boys trying to stand out because they know it's only via novelty that they have any chance of getting attention (but not action).
|by Anonymous||reply 213||02/07/2019|
It all seems 1000% less fabulous than the Cockettes, and what was that, eleventyzillion decades ago? How do these navel gazers think they are doing anything radical! It's insulting.
|by Anonymous||reply 214||02/07/2019|
And r213 the last thing in the world they want to do is work at a real job, so this fuckery is an excuse not to do that.
|by Anonymous||reply 215||02/07/2019|
I'm ready for my close up!
|by Anonymous||reply 216||02/07/2019|
The Asian adjacent looking one next to Alok looks like he could be attractive, Alok must hate him.
|by Anonymous||reply 217||02/07/2019|
Yes, Alok, I have sooooo many trans/gender non-conforming people of color on my mood board. It's overflowing with Aloks.
|by Anonymous||reply 218||02/07/2019|
[quote]What would it look like if trans and gender non-conforming people of color were on your magazine covers and not just your mood boards?
Because the magazines wouldn't fucking SELL, you delusional moron.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||02/07/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 220||02/07/2019|
Oh well of course he's acquainted with Duuhh-kota , (who's still got no eyebrows, a neckbeard, and the pale bloat of an American Yorkshire floating in a swamp).
|by Anonymous||reply 221||02/07/2019|
I wonder what he’ll be doing in about 20 years from now. You can get away with this look-at-me-pushing-the-boundaries stuff when you’re young - even if we all roll our eyes at it. But you have to move on and develop some substance or skills, because eventually the next generation shows up and then you’re just an old fat guy wearing a dress.
|by Anonymous||reply 222||02/07/2019|
R219 - what would it look like?
A lot of hairy men trying to dress like Cyndi Lauper with make up applied by blind quadriplegics. That's what it would look like.
|by Anonymous||reply 223||02/08/2019|
I bet anything that in less than a decade alok will return to calling himself a cis male and find a normal job once his parents have cut him off.
|by Anonymous||reply 224||02/08/2019|
R224, and that is why TIMs-- especially the "nonbinary" kind-- will never face the kind of oppression that women do: They can always opt out. Women can't. What do they not get about that?
|by Anonymous||reply 225||02/08/2019|
I think he's TREMENDOUS!
|by Anonymous||reply 226||02/08/2019|
[quote]once his parents have cut him off.
He’s a first born son to Indian parents. Might as well be royalty.
|by Anonymous||reply 227||02/08/2019|
In ten years time, he'll be back in a suit, his wealthy family more than happy to use their capital and networking to ensures he resumes his wealthy, first son destiny where he left off, as if his genderclown years never happened.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||02/08/2019|
He is middle class. Carry on.
|by Anonymous||reply 229||02/08/2019|
He's more upper-middle class. His parents have enough $$ to support him in NYC while he does nothing involving actual work.
|by Anonymous||reply 230||02/08/2019|
One of the happiest things about the unholy trinity of Alok Vaid Menon, Meredith Talusan, and Jacob Tobia is that the further they get from their college years, the less the media will somehow assume (as they have done in recent years) they speak for youth culture. They will have to have media careers based on actual talents rather than on outrageousness and sassiness, and they will no longer be able to make those hateful "this is me sanctimoniously lecturing to you about identity politics" that Vaid Menon and Tobia love making and be taken seriously (they will seem too old--no one finds affected sassiness cute in middle aged people).
I will be very curious to see where all three of them are in ten years. I doubt they will be getting anything like the attention they are getting now.
|by Anonymous||reply 231||02/08/2019|
Honestly, the fucking nerve of someone who's being supported and indulged by a wealthy family complaining about oppression? Like doesn't get any easier than being given money other people's and allowed to spend all day worrying about what to wear for your next Instagram picture!
He's just taking a time-out before he actively becomes part of the oppressor class. 20-30 years from now he's going to be a closeted family man with a high-paying job, and he's going to treat his underlings like absolute shit, because he doesn't understand what real oppression is and he doesn't give a rat's ass about anyone but himself.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||02/08/2019|
r231 Meredith is in xr 40s. Xhe could have a kid in college.
|by Anonymous||reply 233||02/08/2019|
R231 Unless you are Truman Capote, who could back up the sass with actual talent.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||02/08/2019|
R231 They will end up like other upper middle-class 'arty' types - they do the art grant circuit, be it as art / film festival directors or programers, public art consultants, community engagement directors, art foundation administrators, university senior administrators (diversity, multicultural engagement), or multicultural arts / engagement not-for-profits, curators for museums / galleries with queer / minority art (so Indian collections, Jewish art, SE Asian art), art administration consultants - they know the required language to win grants and funding from governments and foundations, and they get the foot in the door based on their minority status (even if they drop the trans bullshit and revert to plain old homosexys).
|by Anonymous||reply 235||02/08/2019|
r235 I don't think any of them are versed in art, so museums and galleries are out. They'll probably end up as useless administrators in universities, like the "engagement" directors you mentioned. The increasingly bloated and superfluous university administration positions are where people who can't cut it in the private/corporate sector go to earn a living.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||02/08/2019|
I can’t help but be fascinated by the self absorption. It’s just on a whole other level. It’s also clear that Alok is no more oppressed than most of us. Parents are accepting and subsidise him, gets invited to this talk and that conference. Travels. Clearly gets enough to eat.
The only oppression he must experience is from being shouted at because of the way he dresses. That has nothing to do with being trans or fluid. He might be colourblind, I suppose. All of us, no matter how we ‘ identify ‘ would experience the same if we dressed in garishly coloured, ill fitting, mismatched clothes.
It actually comes across as nothing more than him being terrified of sex. It has nothing to do with breaking down stereotypes. He’s knows If he trusses himself up like a pantomime dame he can pout and pretend he is a sexual being while knowing he is making the vast majority of people, of any persuasion, cross the street. Then he can boohoo about it.
|by Anonymous||reply 237||02/08/2019|
r232 Nails it. Most people have to dress to be appealing visually. Most people don't get money to look grotesque and it's offensive to the trans sex workers, etc that have to sell their ass. Send these fuckers on a holiday in Cambodia and watch their priorities suddenly change. "So you've been to school for a year or two and you know you've seen it all/driving daddy's car, thinking you'll go far, back east your type don't crawl/playing ethnic jazz to parade your snazz on your 5 grand stereo"
|by Anonymous||reply 238||02/08/2019|
Alok has the pseudo-intellect of another child of academics, David Forster Wallace.
Speaks the lingo but has no actual talent, except for self-promotion and an ability to suggest anyone that doesn't get his 'thing' is ignorant or dumb.
|by Anonymous||reply 239||02/08/2019|
Foster, my apologies.
|by Anonymous||reply 240||02/08/2019|
CC: Megadeth, Jacob, Duuhh-kota, Twavis Avabanana, et al
Not being centre of attention at all times- Not oppression. Laughter- Not oppression. And if you could easily avoid it with a quick change of clothes- Not oppression.
|by Anonymous||reply 241||02/09/2019|
Up thread someone mentioned the Cockettes but it's not really a fair comparison. The Cockettes did theatre pieces - their 'lives' were not their performance. I bet they were also active in the community.
These gender fluid attention whores contribute nothing of value to the world (except laughter) and are only obsessed with themselves. Most people grow out of thinking they are the centre of the universe pretty damn quickly. Maybe the mental illness that affects these people is part of that arrested development?
|by Anonymous||reply 242||02/09/2019|
It was not mean to be a favorable comparison to the Cockettes, who were fabulously inspired. My point was gender fluidity is a very old concept as is outrageous camping about it, and these 2019 dimwit narcissists can only do a very bastardized and very old hat little spectacle, of little interest to anyone.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||02/09/2019|
[quote]THE FUTURE IS FLUID:
|by Anonymous||reply 244||02/09/2019|
R243 Alok didn't have much of a chance. As previously noted, first born Indian son, most probably Brahmin family, well educated parents, first American kid and coming-of-age in the social media era - he's pretty much lived his entire life with the internet. But still, his insufferable.
|by Anonymous||reply 245||02/09/2019|
Canada has its own version of Alok, though he actually seems to work. I saw him do a reading a few years ago, when he was a run-of-the-mill gay man, I guess he felt the need to "queer" it up.
|by Anonymous||reply 246||02/09/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 247||02/09/2019|
R247 That's one pushy bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 248||02/10/2019|
[quote]important issues facing Indian Americans:
|by Anonymous||reply 249||02/10/2019|
"Issues faced by Indian Americans", such as people not kissing your Brahmin arse?
|by Anonymous||reply 250||02/11/2019|
Sam Smith is a Fan:
|by Anonymous||reply 251||02/11/2019|
All three of these men (Jabob, Alok and Meredith) come from money. All three of them have degrees from Ivies or prestigious schools. All three of them have been gifted with cushy jobs, glamorous interviews, and responsibility-free lives where their privilege has let them pursue whatever absurd fancy tickles them- be it somersaulting-onto-a-dildo performance art or writing odes to "kinky little girls"- and not face one iota of real censure or accountability for their behavior.
They are the living, breathing (and whining) embodiment of male privilege.
|by Anonymous||reply 252||02/11/2019|
I have the distinct feeling his "harassment" from white women is them actively avoiding him. The justification after his claims of white women being the harassers is to talk about people not accepting gender non compliance and "disappearing" people like him from being centered. ("disappearing gender nonconformity from the public imagination")
That to me sounds like a man who is being rejected, ignored or avoided. Yeah, maybe women do avoid him because they think that a dude dressed the way he does looks like a sexual deviant. Is that fair? Maybe. He did say that children are responsible for their own sexual assaults which is the height of fucked-up-ness. I think you'd find most women would avoid a dude with a Swastika on their shirt too. If you want to signal your absolute unique specialness through your clothing, fine. But you don't get to dictate how others think of you based on that. If I think you're a rapist, I'm going to avoid you and the more you complain about it the more justified I feel avoiding you. Sometimes people may think I appear threatening or scary, I don't write articles about them "disappearing" me or admonish them for doing so. Who gives a fuck about these fleeting interactions with passers-by? Why do you care that they are avoiding you? It's so creepy.
|by Anonymous||reply 253||02/11/2019|
Roll (no me neither) has declared he is no longer non-binary.
Oh the humanity!
|by Anonymous||reply 254||02/15/2019|
Seen on National TV in Holland:
|by Anonymous||reply 255||02/20/2019|
The Cockettes were hilarious! They were funny, yet subversive to the stifling Nixonian "norms" of the time, because they were in on the joke. With a wink, nod, and a smile the reached out to their audience. They were quite different from these 21st century creatures who take themselves too GD SERIOUSLY!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 256||02/20/2019|
R253 Looking at all crap under his television, boy sure loves playing games!
|by Anonymous||reply 257||02/21/2019|
Introducing the new musical duo sensation, Barrel of Laughs, as they play a an extended one hour version of John Cage's classic '4'33"'!
|by Anonymous||reply 258||02/21/2019|
Ew what happened to his hair?
|by Anonymous||reply 259||02/21/2019|
r258...MY EYES!!! They sho is ugly!
|by Anonymous||reply 260||02/21/2019|
He looks like an escaped mental patient. Anyone, no matter what race or gender, who dressed like that in public would get stared at and called names. Welcome to the real world, Alok!
|by Anonymous||reply 261||02/21/2019|
He wants to fuck white guys, more specifically he wants to fuck straight white guys, so he resents white women who actually fuck them.
It's so obvious, my god.
|by Anonymous||reply 262||02/21/2019|
From the Dutch TV show: "Every single day in New York City... I'm sexually assaulted." Really? Every single day he is sexually assaulted?
|by Anonymous||reply 263||02/21/2019|
""Every single day in New York City... I'm sexually assaulted." "
Every single day in New York City, he begs to be sexually assaulted, but no luck so far.
|by Anonymous||reply 264||02/21/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 265||02/21/2019|
[quote]Being called a ‘tranny’:
|by Anonymous||reply 266||02/21/2019|
[quote]i wanted to use this as an opportunity to teach you all about the terror of transmisogyny, but i can’t. i’m too tired. & too scared. instead: here is my pain. it hurts so bad to go outside knowing that i will be harassed and no one will defend me.
Girl just STFU and enjoy the NYC apartment mommy and daddy are paying for. Maybe some retail therapy at Urban Decay (with the credit card they're also paying for) might help!
|by Anonymous||reply 267||02/21/2019|
r252, fantastic post, sums it up perfectly.
r255, I have to give credit where it is due, that look is fierce. I almost peed myself laughing.
|by Anonymous||reply 268||02/21/2019|
r267 you forgot this part: "my name is alok. i am alive (but it hurts). i am alive (but it hurts)."
I am my face, and it hurts. Jesus, get a real fucking problem.
|by Anonymous||reply 269||02/21/2019|
He's the firstborn son of an Indian Brahmin family. The sense of entitlement and belief that the sun rises and sets on him could put any white male to shame.
|by Anonymous||reply 270||02/21/2019|
R270 Too true. Little Guru Fauntleroy syndrome.
|by Anonymous||reply 271||02/21/2019|
[quote]Stained with the taint of their laughter:
|by Anonymous||reply 272||02/23/2019|
Another Facet of Fluidity:
|by Anonymous||reply 273||02/23/2019|
"i see things other people don’t see"
Your insistence on being worshiped as some sort of visionary is a big part of why you have no lasing relationships, Alok. A little humility and the ability to laugh at yourself (as all humans, trans or not, should be able to do) would go a long way.
"in minutes i can establish the energy in a room & whether i need to leave it. this is how i have survived: by sensitizing myself to everyone & everything."
As many DLers have noted many times, this is what literally every woman in human history has had to do for hundreds of thousands of years. When they do it, it's utterly unremarkable and barely noticed; when you do it, you expect endless praise and martyr status.
|by Anonymous||reply 274||02/23/2019|
Oops, "lasting relationships"
|by Anonymous||reply 275||02/23/2019|
I only know this character from seeing him here but looks like he’d be attractive if he wasn’t dressed as a clown. Maybe he’s really short tho (like < 5’6”) which would cost him some points.
|by Anonymous||reply 276||02/23/2019|
Serving Kawaii Realness:
|by Anonymous||reply 277||02/24/2019|
|by Anonymous||reply 278||03/07/2019|
Favorite beauty and skincare regime:
|by Anonymous||reply 279||03/07/2019|
Fuck OFF, Alok!
|by Anonymous||reply 280||03/07/2019|
Zhe's our new Rosa Parks!
|by Anonymous||reply 281||03/08/2019|
Yes, Alok really seems like he's projecting a notion that he isn't really worried about his physical appearance.
|by Anonymous||reply 282||03/08/2019|
You go you lite skynned Brahmin bae!
|by Anonymous||reply 283||03/08/2019|
Alok sure loves a woman’s blazer from the 89s. Why? To cover up the hairy arms?
|by Anonymous||reply 284||03/08/2019|
Today is International Women’s Day. I wonder how Alok will celebrate. I know! I’ll bet they put in some lipstick and pout.
|by Anonymous||reply 285||03/08/2019|
R285: so kind that you’ve asked:
|by Anonymous||reply 286||03/08/2019|
Boldly celebrating the International Working Women’s Day:
|by Anonymous||reply 287||03/08/2019|
What is a racist idea of gender and sex?
|by Anonymous||reply 288||03/08/2019|
This guy wrote about little girls being raped, and how it was their own fault. FUck him.
|by Anonymous||reply 289||03/08/2019|
WE DON'T CARE WHAT YOU WORE TODAY, YOU SPOILED PEST!
The fucking nerve of trying to co-opt Working Woman's Day, you who've never done any real work in your life, much less "woman's work".
|by Anonymous||reply 290||03/08/2019|
"I'm sexually assaulted"
Haha! Bitch please. In your dreams, maybe. I guarantee no one on his IG called him out on appropriating sexual assault and its victims for more attention - yet somehow he's the one that's SO underprivileged.
|by Anonymous||reply 291||03/08/2019|
WHET to his friend Poonani? Did Alok ditch zher?
|by Anonymous||reply 292||03/08/2019|
Who is taking all these pictures of xhir? Oh wait, it’s xhir friend Mr Tripod as no human would bother with xhir’s bullshit for more than five minutes.
|by Anonymous||reply 293||03/09/2019|
"Down with the patriarchy!"
- says the entitled first born son of Brahmins.
|by Anonymous||reply 294||03/09/2019|
Why are trannies so fashion obsessed? Of course, this one looks like a clown, but the attempt at fashion is still there.
|by Anonymous||reply 295||03/09/2019|
Do you think Alok admires Chrysanthemum Tran or is he jealous of Chryssy’s beautiful poetry?
|by Anonymous||reply 296||03/09/2019|
Because without clothes & accessories aka “fashion” there’d be no difference between this dude and every other one.
|by Anonymous||reply 297||03/09/2019|
Because he has always been about fashion, like most 'alternative' rich kids.
|by Anonymous||reply 298||03/09/2019|
He’s mentally ill - I’m sure his family is prepared for the worst.
|by Anonymous||reply 299||03/09/2019|
Have you read the comments on his Instagram posts? People literally thank him for his existence. All he does is change clothes and rant about how brave he is for wearing ugly clothing in public.
|by Anonymous||reply 300||03/09/2019|
From the video: "What I want is a complete change of perspective, that doesn't require visibility in order for us to be seen." WTF does this even mean? Half of what he says is just gibberish.
And he's always talking about how "exhausted" he is. From what? Wearing hideous, out-of-date women's clothing? Someone needs to tell him that you can be gender-nonconforming without dressing like an extra on "A Different World" circa 1987.
|by Anonymous||reply 301||03/09/2019|
[quote]And he's always talking about how "exhausted" he is. From what?
Well, it's certainly not from working at an actual job.
|by Anonymous||reply 302||03/09/2019|
What a pretty girl! Sorry. Woman! So full of womanly airs and graces.
|by Anonymous||reply 303||03/10/2019|
[quote]Do you think Alok admires Chrysanthemum Tran or is he jealous of Chryssy’s beautiful poetry?
Imagine their meeting: it would be the sound of two cats hissing, and a shredded pile of neon polyester on the floor.
|by Anonymous||reply 304||03/10/2019|
Mentally ill - Indian families are always in supreme denial about that.
|by Anonymous||reply 305||03/10/2019|
He'd be insulted at the suggestion that he's wearing "fashion". A-bloke sees ximself as a living art exhibit. Privileged little boy read about Warhol, saw a copy of Party Monster, and thought he'd blend twanz politics with Leigh Bowery/Club Kid. Aspiration- some shit about being radical "trans-cendent" work of art. Result: Trans-cel clown
|by Anonymous||reply 306||03/11/2019|
R306 Can we get Michael Alig onto him?
|by Anonymous||reply 307||03/11/2019|
It'd only take ten little bags...
|by Anonymous||reply 308||03/11/2019|
Is he really surprised that nobody wants to fuck him? Sexual attraction has nothing to do with who can spout the most sociological theory caca. He looks insane and that is naturally how people respond to him.
|by Anonymous||reply 309||03/11/2019|
R239 I never got it on Wallace either
|by Anonymous||reply 310||03/11/2019|
What happened to the Jacob thread?
|by Anonymous||reply 311||03/11/2019|
Which one? Every time a thread is made about him it gets deleted. I'm shocked this one has lasted this long.
|by Anonymous||reply 312||03/11/2019|
Why, r312? It's odd on a GAY message board, of all places, we're not allowed to discuss this.
|by Anonymous||reply 313||03/11/2019|
Really? These guys don't and won't identify as gay. Jacob once went on a podcast and declared that he wouldn't date anyone that identifies as 'gay' and not 'queer'.
|by Anonymous||reply 314||03/11/2019|
Well, nobody who identifies as "gay" would want to fuck any of these guys anyway.
|by Anonymous||reply 315||03/11/2019|
They're all waiting breathlessly for Chris Evans to come and sweep them off their feet and they're pissed that it's never going to happen.
|by Anonymous||reply 316||03/11/2019|
Jacob Tobia is on The Daily Show.
|by Anonymous||reply 317||03/14/2019|
You're fucking kidding.
|by Anonymous||reply 318||03/15/2019|
Jacob has a new book out. It is unbelievable that The Daily Show wanted to hear about it. I imagine Alok is cranking out a book this minute.
|by Anonymous||reply 319||03/15/2019|
I have lost all respect for Trevor Noah.
|by Anonymous||reply 320||03/15/2019|
This was posted on another thread (I didn't write this) but I think it's worth repeating:
[quote]obia is a sexually frustrated crossdresser and publicity seeker, who has written previously that people don't find him sexually attractive ("Go Ahead, Objectify Me"). His trans activist friend, Mark (aka "Meredith") Talusan, wrote a long essay for VICE about how no one wants to have sex with him ("Why Can't My Famous Gender Nonconforming Friends Get Laid?").
[quote]So obviously, the problem isn't with him or anything he might be saying or doing. Obviously, the problem is the 99.7% of men on planet Earth whom he calls "cis." Almost all of the men on Earth, he tells us confidently but without any actual evidence - are secretly jealous of him, in particular the way he walks around with a beard and wearing a woman's dress. Virtually no males do this in any culture, from the most free to the most strict, but secretly they all want to be just like Jacob Tobia.
[quote]Jacob, no one is jealous and - straight up - no one wants to have sex with you. For the simple reason that you look bizarre and gross. Bizarre, gross appearance is a signal to potential mates of possible mental instability and it repels them.
|by Anonymous||reply 321||03/15/2019|
Do Alok and Tobia only want to be with cis guys, or are they open to dating trans/non-conforming people too?
No cis male I know would go near them with a ten foot pole.
|by Anonymous||reply 322||03/15/2019|
I’m, this is like MY thread. Jacob should get her own thread. Posting about her and her new book is literal violence to me, my talent, and my contributions. I need to take another nap now!
|by Anonymous||reply 323||03/15/2019|
r322 they both want hot, straight jock-ish white men. Basically Chris Evans.
|by Anonymous||reply 324||03/15/2019|
R322 you can just say men, you don't need to qualify it with a made up word like "cis".
|by Anonymous||reply 325||03/15/2019|
Cis isn’t a “made up” word
|by Anonymous||reply 326||03/15/2019|
Cis is absolutely a made up, nonsense, jibberish word.
|by Anonymous||reply 327||03/15/2019|
R319 I bet he is collating all his Intagram posts and turning it into a 'book'.
|by Anonymous||reply 328||03/15/2019|
Interesting comment about Jacob Tobia on Reddit:
[quote]I know a bit of the backstory here through personal connections. Pretty much everyone who knows this guy agrees, privately, that he's just an effeminate gay man who wears makeup, jewelry, and women's clothes and hairstyles purely for the attention, which he craves and cannot get enough of. But the same people, on social media, congratulate him for being such a brave trailblazer. The social hypocrisy is enough to make you vomit. And he reportedly got a six-figure deal on his new book. Opportunism anyone?
[quote]He's already written a number of "Why won't anybody hit on me or fuck meeeee!" articles. No, Jacob, some of us simply do not find either your look or your oversized narcissistic ego attractive.
[quote]He describes himself as "genderqueer." He's basically a 21st C. version of Corporal Klinger from the TV show MASH.
[quote]He's just another attention whore who's figured out how to make a career for himself on social media, riding on the success and sacrifices of LGB activists who made possible a world where he can play dress-up and pretend that that makes him a revolutionary.
|by Anonymous||reply 329||Last Sunday at 4:36 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 330||Last Sunday at 4:42 PM|
Will Jacob's book include any pebbling with sibling events?
|by Anonymous||reply 331||Last Sunday at 10:11 PM|
So Jacob supposedly gets a six-figure advance for a book, based on his social media sycophantic followers? Do these followers even read books anymore? Isn't text that is more than 180 characters rather hard for them to digest?
|by Anonymous||reply 332||Last Sunday at 10:11 PM|
[quote]Do Alok and Tobia only want to be with cis guys, or are they open to dating trans/non-conforming people too?
LOL! In order, the answer to your questions are "Yes" and "Fuck No."
Often gay narcissists want to date "themselves" but this is a clear exception.
|by Anonymous||reply 333||Last Sunday at 10:31 PM|
Not a chance Tobia got a six figure deal. Hell he doesn’t even have 10k followers on twitter and 70k followers on instagram doesn’t equal a six figure advance on a book.
|by Anonymous||reply 334||Last Sunday at 10:42 PM|
Jacob's including cents. The two zeroes after the decimal point make $2499.00 a "six figure" deal in Jakey's world.
|by Anonymous||reply 335||Last Sunday at 11:21 PM|
Hey what about me?!
|by Anonymous||reply 336||Last Sunday at 11:59 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 337||Last Monday at 12:02 AM|
What precisely is a “trans femme”? That sounds like literal violence to trans people by putting them in a box of Alok’s choosing. Seriously, I’ve never heard that precise term before. “... two trans femmes escorted me to my car...”. Did he ask them if it is ok to call them that?
|by Anonymous||reply 338||Last Monday at 12:37 AM|
I'm sure Alok is in his apartment (paid for by his parents), furiously cobbling together his Instagram posts so he can also release a book and get on the Daily Show and GMA. He must be SO jealous of Jacob right now.
|by Anonymous||reply 339||Last Monday at 5:33 AM|
It’s like a frenzy of literal violence in here
|by Anonymous||reply 340||Last Monday at 5:39 AM|
Alok’s eyeliner is definitely pouring down his cheeks. He’s crying because all of you won’t stop talking about Jacob on HIS thread. Literally violence!
|by Anonymous||reply 341||Last Monday at 6:35 AM|
Doesn’t anyone care about Alok????
|by Anonymous||reply 342||Last Monday at 7:53 AM|
Tobia may actually have a book deal.
Probably with a self-publishing firm.
|by Anonymous||reply 343||Last Monday at 12:23 PM|
Stop talking about Jacob!!! She is not as pretty as me and she cannot dress like me! I’m the original one here. The trendsetter. The poetess. All of this Jacob talk is so violent! I’m exhausted now. Thanks a lot!
|by Anonymous||reply 344||Last Monday at 12:42 PM|
Alok probably had to take to his bed when he saw Jacob on the Daily Show.
|by Anonymous||reply 345||Last Monday at 4:35 PM|
I checked out the comments to the R254 video, and sure enough, an individual thunderously announced:
[quote]I’m non-binary trans and queer
|by Anonymous||reply 346||Last Monday at 5:07 PM|
As an ugly fat white woman in my 40s, the idea that I'm supposed to be impressed with this character is absurd.
I have a beard too asshole. But i shave mine. no one calls me brave.
|by Anonymous||reply 347||Last Monday at 5:16 PM|
Bingo r262! For all their bitching and moaning about "cis white men" they all want a Chris Pratt-type and nothing else will do!
They're all pissed that they're not white women, though they would never admit that.
|by Anonymous||reply 348||Last Monday at 6:01 PM|
One of the things that's irritating about A-bloke and his mates (Jacob T and Twavis Avabanana) is the laziness in execution. The schtick is to wear a garment, typically a dress, that by its cut alone, looks wrong for your body shape, then pose in a way that accentuates the fact that your box-shaped, hairy torso is a poor fit for the shoulderless dress trying to show off a waist that doesn't exist.
The next step is to have a Woke cry and a Daily Mail Sad Face selfie when people say it looks shit. Men can look damn fine in a kilt, or robes, and men can wear dresses that are tailored to complement their body type, in colours and fabric that suit their features but the game is too look as awkward /silly, and out-of-place as possible. to get sympathy and patreon dollars.
|by Anonymous||reply 349||Last Tuesday at 2:25 AM|
^ Nailed it
|by Anonymous||reply 350||Last Tuesday at 3:17 AM|
What does Alok think of Riley J Dennis?
|by Anonymous||reply 351||Last Tuesday at 5:27 PM|