What do couples like this talk about?

The daddy is a damned fool

I give them six more months.

Now that you're a college graduate, how do you plan to support yourself, young man?

I'm done picking up your tab.

The younger one's allowance for clothes, cars, and "entertainment" are probably key topics of conversation.

The older one is attractive and does have a great body. But the boyfriend looks like he is dating on of his kid's classmates.

Just embarrassing for both of them.

The positive comments are from other oldies of course.

Older one with his kids. Must be awkward at dinner

Personally I give them 40 more years.

I bet the kids are eyeing the boyfriend as a threat to their inheritance.

I would imagine they talk of typical Father-Son favourite topics...

History, pumping iron, politics, film, sports, what’s going on in their lives, the state of their relationship, etc.

This is the perfect setup for an episode of Forensic Files.

What's the life insurance situation?

My mom (RIP) was a lesbian, and when I was 15, she took a lover who was 19 — only 4 years older than me and 30 years younger than my mom.

We always assumed “Kate” would leave my mom eventually due to the age difference. However, they were together for 20 years, when Kate left my mom FOR A MAN my Mom’s age. Everyone was shocked, and my mom died heartbroken a couple years later.

I don't see a problem here.

r13

That's sad but if it was 20 good years, that's something to be treasured.

When I was young myself, I always assumed that it was the younger person in a large age-difference couple who was being exploited.

Now that I’m 50 and have seen over the decades how these relationships tend to play out, my opinion on them is: “there’s no fool like an old fool”.

Nice body on the youngin

The “old fool” is getting what he wants.

The father probably suffers from arrested development when it comes to gay relationships. He may be a daddy, but his maturity level could be closer to a 25 year old. Beyond that, he wanted a hot young thing and got it. It does make me wonder if he was secretly lusting after his son and daughter's male friends as they were growing up. What happened to the rule, your age divided by 2 plus 7 years?

A lot of my straight and gay friends go on camping trips and fishing trips with their dads or male friends of their parents. These 20-somethings have no problem holding conversations and relating to 40 and 50 year old men. Guys are guys, there is a world of things to discuss. Their age difference may even spice up their conversations a bit since they have completely different things to discussion at the end of each day.

Age is a number, (emotional) maturity is what really counts.

R7, that's fucking weird that people in their fifties actually date people who are in their twenties, regardless if they are gay or straight. They have nothing in common. What does this older guy say to the guy he's dating? Something like "you remind me of my sweet children--I want to BREED youuuuuu! Can you tutor my son?".

I don't get that. I find men of multiple ages attractive. That has nothing to do with men in my family who are of a similar age...

My four relationships of any length were, 7 years older, 17 years older, 16 years younger, and 4 years younger. I enjoyed the dynamic of each one - and we talked about age in all four - arts, sex, politics, our friends, food, house projects, current events, music, family, the upcoming holiday or vacation. Why you see age as an impediment is very small minded of you, but, unfortunately expected....

[quote]They have nothing in common.

Why do you believe age overwhelms and erases all other factors? They can have common interests, mutual friends and shared experiences even if they didn’t listen to the same music growing up.

Both appear to be aspiring Instaho models.

The daddy’s real children must be so embarrassed.

R23. why would someone in their early twenties have shared experiences or mutual friends with someone more than twice their age?

Anyone who takes care of their body deserves happiness

[quote]why would someone in their early twenties have shared experiences or mutual friends with someone more than twice their age?

Because they are a couple.

Uh, people in their early twenties tend NOT to have the same experiences as people who are significantly older.

every old sad DL queen wants this

Why do so many ridicule? What do you know that I do not? I can give you many examples in my experience of relationships like this working out and not! Probably not for me (I’m old)- but more power to anyone at any stage and age who gets the chance to connect. People bring many things to the table- looks, intelligence, wealth, sense of humor, big dick, kindness- and so? Never say never.

They look ridiculous together.

What every other couple talk about - who’s the top this time?

Who the fuck do you think, R32?

The kid is 22, not mid or late twenties. That’s still college age. I wonder what his parents think. They must be mortified.

Half shirts....always appropriate

Which one is the real son and which is the boyfriend? They’re both daddy’s boys.

Pic at R35 is disturbing on so many levels

The envy, laid bare by the comments, on this thread, is delicious

[quote] Loving life with this one💕.

I am the daddy’s age. A twink like he has is great for fucking, but could never in a million years imagine trying to have a relationship with one.

Ageism is the final frontier.

Reading a whole lot into a handful of IG posts, but ... I'm guessing the older guy was married to a woman until fairly recently and just came out so he's at a completely different place than other gay men his age. And the younger guy was probably looking for someone who didn't seem traditionally "gay" and had more of a traditional life than other gay guys his age who may have seemed too flamboyant for him.

OTOH, the photo at R35 seems to blow that whole theory out of the water.

Were they a thruple?

[quote] What happened to the rule, your age divided by 2 plus 7 years?

What happened is that it is a stupid, arbitrary rule not supported by facts or objective reality.

The other guy at R35 has a boyfriend but who knows

Yes, I’m now very intrigued about their story. How long have they been together? One would assume a while from own posts about “love of my life” etc.

But if only for a few months, then OH DEAR!!!

"What do couples like this talk about?"

Skin tags.

Well, they celebrated an anniversary at R26 but with gays they have a tendency to celebrate one every month sometimes.

🎶 One is the four is not like the other...🎶

I was totally on their side, though it isn't the easiest thing to defend, until R35.... now I feel silly making excuses. It's another thing entirely to have young lads as a "treat" or "trick" now and again off Grindr, or Scruff... but harder to not feel weird about this "relationship" vis a vis his children, that pic, etc. I don't think I could take them very seriously, as neighbours, friends, whatever... without sniggering in the corner really.

It's amusing how the pic at r35 knocked the wind out of your sails.

The daddy is hot and buff, and so is the milky white twink. Where’s the sex tape?

Just ewww.

The daddy is 54, and they’ve been together since at least 2017

R51 this goes for male or female gay or straight.

The daddy issues are palpable.

They talk about If they’re going to fuck before or after they go shopping.

They are wise to do so! R9

I'm thinking that if Dad came out as gay after 20 years of marriage, R56 and R9, the inheritance is all coming from mom.

They’ve been dating since he was 19. What causes an eldergay to date a teenager?

R49 Seems it even threw YMF for a loop as well. I suppose they seemed relatable or respectable until that pic....

Tight hole r58

I wonder what Tom Bianchi thinks about this.

C’est la vie.

What do they talk about? To quote Lewis Carroll:

"...Of shoes and ships and sealing-wax, Of cabbages and kings, And why the sea is boiling hot, And whether pigs have wings."

The older guy was probably the kid's teacher or something. I'm not completely bothered by the age difference but the older dude's face looks yucky so, therefore, I'm creeped out.

R64 How about that pic @ R35?

When I was 26 years old I sorta dated a guy who was 55. It was a bit awkward from the start, because I was just interested in trying to be friends, but he basically 'persisted' and managed to get into my pants, as it were... I thought he was such a nice person, and so much more interesting than the other guys I'd been dating that I felt I should at least give it a chance. After all, I wasnt looking for marriage and a white picket fence, etc. But after a couple of months I had to end it. I didn't enjoy feeling like a gigolo.

Apex Legends and Call of Duty: Modern Warfare

It would be funny is somebody had written: "Aw, your son is very handsome" in the comments.

It's absolutely possible for people of different ages to connect. However, I bet you my last dollar that this "relationship" is not lopsided age-wise by accident. The old pedo, like all pedos, is getting off on age. His "boyfriend's" personality, mind, soul, etc. have not played any part in the coupling. The boy was chosen precisely because he's creepily young. When he grows up, he will be replaced. To me, that's the creepiest of all creepy types of relationships.

What's wrong with a middle age man hitting on twinks?

[Quote] because he's creepily young.

Is he, though? He doesn't look like jailbait.

R71, they started dating when he was 19.

Daddy has sagging tits and fake abs.

Whether or not it is time to change his Depends...

You all are missing that there's probably not a huge age gap emotionally -- older white Southerner finally comes out, starts working out and fucking guys, he's going through a very delayed adolescence. Boyfriend is probably in the same place.

That part isn't that puzzling.

It's the photo at R35.

Though that might be some sort of "awkwardly becoming part of The Gay Community" thing. Since the guys at R47 are clearly part of The Gay Community (or at least you'd clock them as such from outer space.)

I guess they're each getting something out of it, and like I said, we're extrapolating a whole lot from about two dozen IG posts.

There is something really, really wrong in the old guy's eyes. I can't quite put my finger on it

[Quote] they started dating when he was 19.

I think that's a poor choice on the part of the father/daddy but that's separate from "creepy."

And yes, if I hooked up with a 19 year old and we hit it off, I'd like to think I'd file him in the "fuck buddy" category and take the stance that he was way too young to be in a relationship with a 34 year old man and still had a whole lot of growing up to do.

But never say never, right?

We both look like we're in our 20s, so it's okay.

Oh you know, OP: phenomenology, the Renaissance, Proust. That sort of thing.

People never understand true love.

They talk about the same banal shit every else talks about.

R81 Ah yes, the mysteries of the true Platonic match made in holy Apollo's light of purity and reason... or whatever... lol

I'm having so much trouble with the photo at R35. The fact that they are both in PUBLIC wearing IDENTICAL, LAVENDER t-shirts, EXPOSING their six(more like 2)-packs, voluntarily declaring to the world that they identify as BOY with a clear desire to have sex with DADDY...

TMI and barfworthy to the max...

It's peculiar to me, now, at this age that I'm pursued by guys who are 18 to 25. Under 21 is insta-block. I'm not interested in anyone under 40. There's just no damn life experienced we've shared that's worth anything.

Some of the young guys are borderline stalkers who are ready to move in, proclaiming their love for an old man they barely know. Who does this? It's nuts. NUTS.

R85 for casual sex? go for it. Dating...NO. I'm in my early 30s and barely recognize who I was in college.

[quote]There is something really, really wrong in the old guy's eyes. I can't quite put my finger on it

Why on earth would you want to put your finger on some guy's eye?

R87 I KNEW this comment was coming... Oh well

34? As if.

[quote] The fact that they are both in PUBLIC wearing IDENTICAL, LAVENDER t-shirts, EXPOSING their six(more like 2)-packs, voluntarily declaring to the world that they identify as BOY with a clear desire to have sex with DADDY...

Quick! Fetch her her smelling salts!

This is just gross. I try to have an open mind but come on.

Short term age difference relationships are no big deal, but when they get long-term there are serious risks. Recently had a family friend divorce his wife after 30 years of marriage. He’s 90 and she’s 65 - basically after he retired five years ago, she ghosted him. He was a successful concert violinist and together they had traveled the world, but when he retired and stopped performing she had no more use for him. So he was faced with the choice of 1) divorcing her now and giving her half of his wealth, or 2) just letting the marriage extend until his death and then she gets everything. He chose divorce.

Rough way to find out that your spouse was only ever with you because of the life that you offered to them and not because of who you are.

R92 funny, for some reason the age difference between 75 and 90 doesn’t seem as bad as 20 and 55.

I wonder how his parents reacted to meeting their "son in law"

^^65 not 75

The older chap does have a good body, at least! He looks better than anyone I know around that age! But then I wonder if gay men at 55 is different to a straight man at 55 lol

The conversation probably centers around the 22 year old asking when he gets to be the top for the first time.

Or about when he has to be the top for the first time r97.

They live their lives.

We read about them living their lives.

If everybody's getting what they want, who am I to judge? IGing it all, I don't know about.

I'm 49. My boyfriend is 22. Been together 2 years. Have a great relationship. And no.. I don't pay for everything. He has his own money.

🤮🤮🤮🤮

Yeah, give them a break.

Daddy David: "You want to use the Swiss Navy again tonight, or would you like to try the Boy Butter?"

Sonny Boy: "Let's try The Boy Butter, Dad!"

I went out with a pappy for year when I was a young stud.

We discussed: medicine and medical research, art, architecture, fashion, New York history, economic history, restaurants, food, wine, and famous people

In 30 years, the old guy will be in his 80's, the younger early 50's. Is the younger guy gonna change the old guys Depends and wipe the drool off of his face?

In 30 years, the younger guy will start trolling for 19 year olds

R107 and realize he lost the best years of his life fucking some old guy

R106 yes if he has any class! A friend of mine is going through this now and the husband is only in his 70s. And he's a cunty old man lately. It's not a nice situation.

Lbr, he's probably hoping to be a Merry Widower.

[quote]I don't pay for everything. He has his own money.

That he takes from your wallet.

My partner is 17.5 years younger Met him when he was age 19. Been together 30 years. It happens, but more the exception.

Eww. That college-aged boy is much too old and way past his prime!

The lad is probably taking notes watching "The Poisoners Handbook", and "Dark Angel".

R112 Mazel Tov! Can you express what the secret to it working long term is?

We joke about daddy issues but it's true. I've known a few young guys with vastly older men and each of those young guys either didn't have a father or had absent ones. They're looking for that older paternal nurturing they never had, in a relationship. And for money of course.

R115. Lots of three ways

Yup, father absence (either literal or figurative) has a lot to do with this.

Tom ain't wit me fer money!

I don't see a problem.

In OP's pic, the boi has fangs like a vampire.

Daddy is wearing dentures.

This will not end well.

I can't judge until Im in my 50s. I might want some young bussy too!

[Quote] Daddy is wearing dentures.

I've heard tell gumjobs are the best...

Ok, so old man has kids. I'm thinking he used to have a wife and was once married and came out later in life. Therefore he is living out his teenage/young adult dating years now with this twink twit. I'm betting the twink didn't have a father or an absent one and/or comes from a poor background.

Oh daddy it felt so good when you came in me. That felt like a $500 load. Just leave it on the nightstand.

I have a friend who is 33 years younger and conversation is difficult. He’s smart, but somehow does not know much about history. I mean, 20th century culture and history, for example, prior to 1990. He’s becoming a doctor. He’s also on the spectrum, I think.

r126 They don't teach history anymore. And unless you're a big reader (and lets face it, what kid is?) younger people know shit about shit. It's sad, and yet they seem to be proud of it. They know the bare minimum of the bare minimum to pass their courses, and nothing else. I know a young guy (22) who was talking to me one day and he said he had a dream. I replied: 'what, are you Martin Luther King jnr?' He said: 'Who's Martin Luther King jnr? '

Honestly I was down with the relationship and was going to say to each his own until I found out The older guy had a son the same age is the guy he's fucking. Can you imagine being that guys son? His father has basically chosen another son over him whom he's also fucking. Sorry son I can't take you to the football game because me and Jackson are going Hustlerball.

They don't teach history in the USA??

The elder will want to settle down after a while. He’ll be pleased by showing off his young boyfriend and of course, by the sex. He’ll want to spend quiet evenings at home, or going out to dinner, with men in his age group. The twink will be a trophy boyfriend.

The twink, however, will be restless and bored. He’ll want be around guys within his age group. Of course, they’ll be plenty of offers for sex and that’s hard to resist. He’ll worry about life passing him by.

The twink will find a new boyfriend. The older man will be left broken-hearted and miserable. He’ll try to find other twinks, but they’ll reject him. Of course, men of his age range will be interested in him, but he’ll reject them all because they’re not twinks. He’ll wallow in his misery.

This will end in tears.

R130 that the twink is posting sexy pics of himself, including his pubes, foreshadows this.

I'm 48 and I didn't even date 22 years when I was 22. They look ridiculous together and they cannot have anything in common other than the obvious. The kid will leave his ass in e few years. He is fit but he still looks like his partner's granddad. Ewww all around.

[Quote] or going out to dinner, with men in his age group.

I wouldn't count on that. Older give me "frosted tips" vibes.

I'm 33, I won't date anyone under 30, they all have shit for brains.

Has Shawn Mendes ever shown his bare ass?

Shit, wrong thread

There was actually an episode of CSI called "JACKPOT" that dealt with this issue. This guys roommate was found brutally murdered in the woods. To make a long story short the guy killed his roommate because he went to visit his father(whom he was estranged from) one day and saw his roommate fucking his father. The kid didn't even know his father was gay and certainly didn't know that his roommate was having sex with him. He's wondering why his relationship with his father is strained and now he knows in the most graphic way.

That guys son may be smiling in those pictures but I guarantee you 100 percent he is not happy with the relationship his father has with that guy. I would ask any of you how you would feel if your father left you and your mom to spend all of his time with a teenage boy your same age.

[Quote] He's wondering why his relationship with his father is strained and now he knows in the most graphic way.

That doesn't make sense. He didn't know the father and the roommate were fucking, so why was the relationshp strained before he knew?

Lady Gaga vs Madonna

Funnily enough, I just read the thread about Peter Cook getting engaged to an Irish Traveller looking lass who just turned twent-one. Forty-one year age difference even trumps them.

[quote] I know a young guy (22) who was talking to me one day and he said he had a dream. I replied: 'what, are you Martin Luther King jnr?' He said: 'Who's Martin Luther King jnr? '

I love DL's "one time I met an [INSERT GENERATION, RACE, NATIONALITY or ETHNICITY HERE] who was [DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS, REALLY SEXY, FAT AND UGLY] and therefore I've concluded they all are like that" posts.

Small minded people seem to do that about everyone here YMF. Nothing new.

That pic of r35 knocked the wind out of my sails. My goodness. I mean, do what you want, but I am more worried about the second hand embarrassment his children must feel. I'm sure the daddy is loving his freedom, but he's acting more thirty then his 20 year old children. I'd also like to know how long this has been going on and what his friends, family, and co-workers think. The relationship is fine, his Instragram thirst as the real meat of the story.

Pic at R47 reminds me of Andrew Cunanan and his older gentlemen pals in American Crime Story.

White party without the kid

[quote]Happy birthday to the love of my life. You are my everything.

I literally could not think of a more insipid statement if I went through every one of cheeto's tweets.

The only thing that could make this more hilarious for the son is dad being a bottom.

[Quote] You are my everything.

...

[Quote] dad being a bottom.

... damn likey.

*likely

*likely

R143 That was the turning point for me too. I'm not suggesting the Daddy remain closeted, or they break up, but I would be discreet with such an age difference... especially having a previous family with a son the same age. It just simply is offensive to me on so MANY different levels really.

I've admitted to fucking young hook-ups... some late twenties, but only "date" men five years younger. The young ones are never my first choice really, though it's flattering... Still at fifty-one, I prefer my own age, or even ten years older. I cannot even conceive dating them. Many in their forties seem like viable options, but I feel these types are truly tragically flawed.

Who will play them in the Lifetime movie?

I’m 60 and everything about this relationship makes me cringe. If a youngster showed any romantic interest in me, I would assume there was something deeply wrong with him, and would encourage him to go find someone his own age.

They talk about very expensive things and trips.

r152 Calvin Klein and that blonde twink he was fucking

[quote]but I am more worried about the second hand embarrassment his children must feel.

Well, given who their father is, do you really think that they are either not used to it or would actually have been raises such that this behavior would embarrass them in the first place?

So they are both engineers, I guess they have that in common. But what a mess.

But the other sugar baby in the daddy picture is hot as fuck, Dillon McConnell. I mean, i wouldn't say no, but I'm only 28.

2019 version of trade.

They look alike. Daddy looks like an older version of the kid.

It's cute because he only just recently came out, but at least it seems like his boyfriend is somewhat close in age R157

^^nice bulge

Market Days always brings out the reformed closet cases. I met this hottie from from Ohio State, that came out a month prior to the shock of his family. He was young, fit, and ready to dive into his pent-up gay urges. Man, I love Chicago.

It was past his bedtime R145.

Do you think they act indignant or offended when people assume he is his son?

I'd say know for this alone.

...*no

Yeah this Dillon creature states he’s a “fashion model” on his IG. Mmm hmmm.

R164 I think they're oblivious to it all.

Put ur cock inside my juicy asshole!

ask Dan Savage and Terry Miller and their boyfriend

R170 You mean the adopted son?

My guess is that couples like that don't do much talking. What would they have to talk about?

He's the gay Dennis Quaid. (if Quaid's fiancee went around wearing a shirt that said "Daddy's Girl")

Is that the Wrinkle Room at R145 ?

[Quote] What would they have to talk about?

Crop tops. Converting their existing t-shirt collection into crops tops. Stencilling cute slogans onto their crop tops. Tye dyeing some of their crop tops.

“Why didn’t you want my hole, dad??”

R159 I thought the same thing too.

Life is short. At one time I would have asked what do they have in common. As others have noted here, age is a number and from the experience of many posters here they have a whole range of topics to discuss. Let them discover that. From what I know, they both can help the other reach their full potential in love. Be happy that they found each other. The children of the one are probably so happy for their father. But life is too fucking short to care too much about May/December romances or appearances.

The old guy looks like he is in his 60s. Must be a sun lover.

That older guy messaged me on scruff before. profile had engineer 🍯 daddy as his headline. Profile bio mentioned he was looking for masculine white college guys 18-24 only and he is an oral top and his cock is average. This was years ago so I can’t find the profile anymore to get screengrabs. I do remember he mentioned he missed having a son around all the time...

"We always assumed “Kate” would leave my mom eventually due to the age difference. However, they were together for 20 years, when Kate left my mom FOR A MAN my Mom’s age. Everyone was shocked, and my mom died heartbroken a couple years later."

Sounds like your mother's tragic love story would make a good movie.

There are some younger guys in it just for the money but there are some younger guys who just are only attracted to older guys. I know one now in his late 30's in a seven year relationship with a guy in his mid 60's, he just is not attracted to people his own age, and would prefer to be around older men. He has been this way as long as I have known him when he was 22. They do lots of things together, hiking, skiing, biking, the opera, the theater, travel.

The younger one looks like he is one step away from having an onlyfans account and doing hardcore porn..

If straights can do it, then gays can too.

calling your bf "son" is weird, especially if you have an actual son the same age

LOL R180. I used to use "oral top" back in the day too. It's a way to make sure you get the guys who still think anal sex is too gay because they're really just "bi" or "curious" or code for "I don't normally do this kind of gay stuff. We're just two buddies getting off." Conversations were usually along the lines of "not really into kissing unless I'm feeling it." and similar.

And BPC @ R178 you are, as always, the voice of reason.

R184 and they laughed at just as much. You seen all the ridicule Dennis Quaid has been getting this week online?

Even if they are repulsive, straight men do it all of the time.

Not sure it's all that common with straights though unless the older guy has a really big bank account. Like 8-figure and up big.

Thinking that's not the case here.

[Quote] 18-24 only

This is the part that I don't like. The insistance on such a narrow age range is totally objectifying. The younger guy is just a thing to the older one.

I remember when I was about 21, a guy in his 50s tried to pick me up. One of his lines was "my youngest at Harvard is your age." I let him buy me a few drinks and then I ran for it.

I see it all the time R190. A guy will be about 42 on Grindr, but looking for "35 or under"

I think the "my youngest at Harvard" is incidental, though. I suspect what's been written above is true. The older guy is almost trying to recast his youth. "You're as young as the one you feel."

[Quote] A guy will be about 42 on Grindr, but looking for "35 or under"

I suspect those types are claiming 42 - probably 54 in real life. I challenged a guy like that who messaged me. I said something like "What about if we're together in 5 years, will I then become 'too old'"? He said relationships are different, i.e. I'll still try to fuck age X-Y but you'll be my number one. I don't think people like that can have relationships beyond... owning a pet.

As several of us have noted, you don't need to be Freud to understand why a guy who'd spent 30+ years in the closet would be seeking out younger guys who were also figuring it all out.

R194 my thought process is always, "if you won't fuck someone your age, why should I?"

Why would you even talk to him R194? I always just ignored those guys or blocked them if they kept messaging.

Some people like a challenge, YMF.

[Quote] my thought process is always, "if you won't fuck someone your age, why should I?"

I've always liked older guys, though my experience on apps has mostly stopped me acting on it. I sort of wonder if I'll flip to "younger" when I get to a certain age.

[quote] What do couples like this talk about?

The old one is constantly steering the conversation to sex and whether or not the young one loves him and/or is exclusive to him, while the young one is steering the conversation to his material needs.

I feel like DL is a little too invested in this topic. The straights do this stuff all the time and no one really cares. People need different things at different phases of life.

r194

I wanted some insight and I got a little.

I understand wanting to date someone five years either side of your own age - someone who's essentially a peer. Even generally liking younger or older, I get. The narrow four year age range (18-22, usually) has always been a head scratcher. Even if you're ultra critical of exteriors, 26 year old or 28 year olds aren't "old hags." I guess it's about wanting a dependant. It's easier to control a 20 year old than someone 25 or over.

Just imagine that old saggy daddy fingering that tight, pink cunt. Jesus, what a lucky old fart.

There is another guy on Instagram named Gaysuperdad. He has 7 kids 6 of them boys the oldest boy is 19 and the second oldest boy is 18. He's an ex Mormon. He spends a lot of his time partying and hangout out with 8teenboy pornstars and twinks around the same age as his son. The pool pic below is him holding 8teenboy model Dustin Cook. Notice Gabe Isaac in the pic. He takes a lot of pics with 8teenboy model Gabe Isaac. He mentioned on FB that he and his oldest son are having issues and "disagree on a lot of things" The thing is his two oldest sons look like potential twink models themselves. Doesn't this stuff ever cross these kind of guys minds or are the so selfish and worried about what they want.

These guys know they are gay before they get married but the want the straight life I think in order to have status and they want the kids to. It's very selfish.

Here gaysuperdad is with pornstar Ian Levine a bunch of other twinks two of which are his actual sons. See if you can figure out which ones are his sons.

Notice how similar all the pics are.

R205 imagine hanging out with your father and whores that look like you. I'm gonna go puke

OP's pic reminds me of this one.

They want a kid, r26. 18-22 means college or school age. Sort of gross, but college guys are hot. I was on a different web chat a few months ago. One topic was about guys with a daddy complex. More than one poster mentioned sneaking over to a closeted, usually married, dad's house only to get fucked in the son's bed, obviously the rest of the family was not home. They said that the guys almost fetishized their own sons, but claim to NEVER touch their own kid. I am not saying, in any way, that this guy has a fetish for boys or his child, but you have to wonder how he can be attracted to someone the same age as his own children.

I guarantee, he likes to be called daddy in the bedroom. I'd also like to know, cause I'm interested, what he'd feel about a man his age fucking his daughter when she turned 18. I'm sure he'd be fine it it was his son.

In an unrelated thread on Dataloiunge about a year or so ago, I learned that one reason younger guys (on Grinder) are into older guys is that if the younger guy is still closeted, he knows he has zero chance of running into the older guy at a a party or of them having any friends in common and thus it seems "safer" than a guy his own age

This thread is reminding me of Papa Joe Simpson at the beach, staging a photoshoot with no one's idea of a twink bathing beauty. That must have been ond DListed back in the day.

Think about it r138

Daddy won't spend time with me. He seems distant, we used to be close pals. All of a sudden it's differen, he's distant. Let me go visit him and talk it out and see whats up.

Then the son gets to the cabin and boom.

Can you imagine the sense of betrayal you would feel in his place. It's just like finding out a spouse is cheating on you only worse and way more icky and confusing.

r211

So the dad and the roommate weren't just fucking. They were weekending in Boca etc.? I get that if it was the case.

r211 a cabin? In NYC? Wow, SVU's jurisdiction really goes wherever the story takes them.

R180 you can remember minute details of a specific profile from “several years ago?”

Bullshit.

[Quote] how he can be attracted to someone the same age as his own children.

If we're talking adults, it's not strange to find someone young (and legal) attractive. Acting on it is another thing. But it's a bit silly to expect people as they age to deny or switch off what pleases the eye.

The guy above who's raising a ream of kids while hanging out with porn stars... that's fucked. Porn is exploitation. I don't think people should even be able to appear in it if they're under 21.

I guess the older guy is a mentor and when they’re not fucking like crazy probable explains cajoles encourages advises etc. The kid keeps dad in the loop with regards to the latest lingo/ ideology/fashion. A friend aged 65 has a 17 yo lover and that’s the discourse between them. For those that disapprove, the attraction from the young guys for older men is pretty intense. My pal dates guys aged 17-23 only... and it’s not a money thing. The kids have raging boners for daddies.

Come on guys, I think most of us know from experience that our parents have trouble thinking of us as anywhere close to "adults" when we're 18 or 19, especially if we're in college and still pretty much reliant on them for everything.

17? Foreigner alert, lol, r216.

Correct r151 I've fucked guys 20 years younger than me to. Really hot guys too. It's not something I look to do every day and guess what. I don't have kids. I can't imagine having sex much less a relationship with someone the same age as my son. How would I split the time.

What happens if my real son wants me to buy him a car or something expensive and my fuck son say oh no we can't do that we need the money for something else. How would my real son react to that? The mind boggles at the thought. These guys don't think about stuff like that when they are getting their rocks off.

There is no healthy reason for a guy in his 50's to be having a long term sexual relationship with a guy the same age as his son. I'm sorry I don't care what anyone say. Now if the guy didn't have kids it wouldn't be a problem.

Exactly r219, it places his entire relationship with his son into question. I hold the same standard for straight guys. Too much of a coincidence, that he's going after someone that could have been his child's classmate.

Yes suck and fuck your way into that will, baby boy!

R218 yes age of consent Ireland is 17 most European countries 16 and in Germany its 14. I guess the krauts are a little more openminded

If the older guy is really into being a mentor, I wonder what he's like with his own son. Does he take similar time to advise his son? Or maybe there's emotional distance since the divorce and Papa is killing two birds with one stone via "fuck son." He gets to play Father and Daddy.

Was just discussing this with the BF who pointed out that gay or straight, at some point there's a line you have to get past where you're able to think "okay, I may be over 40, but this 19 year old is someone I want to be in an emotional relationship with" and that most rational people don't cross that line--they think "yes, the sex is great and yes we do have things to talk about, but this is not healthy for this young man/young woman and if I like them I need to end this now before they get too invested in it."

And that this guy, or that woman who seduced the young British actor with two names and had him knock her up when he was like 19 and she she was 40 (Aaron? Adam?) just lacked whatever thought process it is that says "no, this is wrong."

^^That was me, YMF.

The other point is that the 19 thing is what's disturbing. If the kid was 29 and so was his son--they're all adults

And maybe this is our upper middle class bias showing, but 19 just seems like a kid

Yes, the older the younger person is, the less creepy it is. 30 and 50...odd but ok. 40 and 60...slightly raised brow.

[Quote] And that this guy, or that woman who seduced the young British actor with two names and had him knock her up when he was like 19 and she she was 40 (Aaron? Adam?) just lacked whatever thought process it is that says "no, this is wrong."

Aaron Taylor Johnson (child husband) and Sam Taylor Wood. Perhaps it's just PR nonsense but he's talked of being off the rails before meeting her. She didn't have to fuck him to help bring equilibrium to his life, though.

[Quote] The other point is that the 19 thing is what's disturbing. If the kid was 29 and so was his son--they're all adults

And yet Stephen Fry's "boy wonders" were late 20s but looked like teens. The age someone looks is also a factor.

Or if she did fuck him R227, she didn't have to make him a 19 year old daddy and her husband. Calm him down and pass him off to a woman his own age. The fact that he was messed up prior makes the whole thing even creepier. (I have seen multiple threads about it/him on DL which is why I am aware of him/them)

That said, 19 year old dad who's also a movie star isn't quite the same as, say, poor dear sad old Kurt Wild.

This will end in murder/suicide. The young one will get bored and realize he's been missing out young prime ass/dick. The older one will track his phone, find him plowing/getting plowed by young stud and kill them both in a jealous rage. After he thinks he's staged the perfect crime scene, he'll then realize he's spent his children's inheritance on "the love of his life" and is too embarrassed to have nothing for them and offs himself. Dean Cain and Sean Mendes star in the tv movie executive produced by Ryan Murphy. Sarah Paulson will be nominated for an Emmy as the ex-wife on the verge.

R231 An alternative ending involves the daddy losing interest when the boy gets too old (mid 20s), the boy then gets psycho because he's losing his meal ticket and shoots them both.

Maybe the son is gay and fucking the bf behind the Dads back.

I dont think anyone really cares that hes fucking a child,its the "love of my life" bullshit I find offensive. You're too stupid at 22 to really know what love is. Gramps has to be smart enough to know that but maybe he is delusional.

He was closeted during his 20. Married and raising kids. Now he's found happiness and in ways has recaptured his youth. Let's wish them the best and all the happiness they can stand.

On Gaysuperdad's FB he has a ton of pictures with his sons and he's constantly talking about them. Most of the pics are of him with twinks or twink pornstars or his sons. I didn't even know he had a daughter until someone mentioned her in the comments section. I talked to a guy close to the Helix models and they mentioned that the guy GaySuperDad is a really nice guy and apparently he's generous with his money. So instead of spending his money on his bushel load of kids he's spending his money on the porn twinks.

What does he do for a living? I feel like this could be a vehicle for Manolo Vergara - a TV movie/series (sans the twink pornstars), maybe.

R231 I'll add Billie Lourd as the gay guy's daughter in the Ryan Murphy TV movie project. Billie will be able to relate because her own father is gay.

r212 CSI takes place in Las Vegas not New York

I think the story was the dad came to visit his son in college and that's where the roommate met him. And to me it doesn't matter if it was just fucking or if it was love. You don't shit where you eat. You don't fuck your children's friends and if your someones friend you don't have sex with their parents. Period end of story.

All anyone has to do to feel empathy in this situation is imagine how they would feel if instead their father or mother hanging with then as kids or teenagers they started taking their best friends to movies and ball games without them. Spending money and time on them and not you. You would be outraged and righfully so. I'm telling you without a doubt that's what the kids of these gay dads feel right now. They may be smiling in family photos but they are super pissed off about it.

I had daddy issues due to a lack of an actual father. I was also hot and poor in my 20’s. I was also always the top when dating guys my own age, so dating older guys was hot. But I liked the discreet ones better. The ones I dated never made public declarations for me and the spoiling was behind the scenes. I was immature and still haven’t dealt with my issues so it did eventually end in tears.

Older now and still prefer men in the 35-45 age range. I’m a “daddy” now but youngest I’ve been with is mid 20s and even that gets boring after you cum.

How much of a jealous cunt OP is.

I do admit I'm a bit jealous since neither would give me the light of day

I'd hate to be there when the laughter stops.

[quote]The straights do this stuff all the time and no one really cares.

Man, I am so fucking sick of creeps like you. No one really cares?? Have you seen the reaction Dennis Quaid has gotten? And now Peter Cook with some 21yo. Time after time when old fuck celebs date people who are ridiculously younger than them, they are ridiculed and looked at with disgust. Don't pretend there isn't a reaction to it - and always a negative one.

You're so desperate to normalize this ridiculous age gap (because heaven forbid you date someone who wasn't studying for his SATs last week), that you guys are constantly lying about it being no big deal among straight people. Bull. Shit. No parents of a son or daughter want to see their child dating someone their age or older. No one.

This thread is pretty interesting. Everyone is making a lot of good points. On one hand, we have a 'daddy' who was closeted, married young had kids and was miserable the whole time because he wasn't living his true self. No wonder he got stuck and stunted. He must feel like this kid is his equal in some ways; maybe he is? How did he even raise kids if he didn't deal with his own stuff?

The kid is looking for a daddy and he's found one. Who knows how long this can last? But, as posters have pointed out, straight guys have been doing this forever. Dennis Quaid and Sailor's dad are doing it; are those young women suffering from daddy issues doing the same thing this kid is? Yeah, they are, but it's more accepted. In ten years which couples will be together -- if any?

I came of age in the 1980s when AIDS was in the news every day. Donahue and Geraldo did shows on it. I remember people not knowing what was considered risky behavior and what wasn't. Some felt you could get it by dry kissing. By touching. Other guys have barebacked for years and remain unscathed. All I remember is in my prime I was told gay = AIDS and AIDS = death. Fun times.

It's complicated.

I had a younger gay guy (I think) start to come out to me, recently. He asked how old I was when I came out and did I know a good shrink. He overcompensates when he sees pretty women. (Why is he asking ME if I think a girl is hot??) This isn't conclusive 'proof'. (Did I mention he's an aspiring actor?) But it's close enough. He's pulled back recently, telling others he's uncomfortable around me. But telling me the opposite.

I am now uncomfortable around him. Everyone needs to deal with their own issues before they enter a relationship. The problem is, I fear, by the time I deal with me, I'll be ready for Depends.

I don't believe in heaven necessarily where we're all flying around and that shit, but I do think we get reincarnated. I may have been someone else before. I may be someone else again. If I do come back, I'd like to find love,, someone right. Someone right for me.

It won't be happening this time. I accept that. But I can't judge how others try to find happiness. And I don't want to be judged either.

If he's stunted because of his life decisions meaning he couldn't be gay until his 50s, then why are so many gay men - out since their teens - unable to date their own age?

There are lots of gay Peter Pans.

[quote] why are so many gay men - out since their teens - unable to date their own age?

I think men, straight or gay, it doesn't matter are hard-wired to gravitate towards youth (the legal kind). In the straights it's the genetic desire to plant your seed in something fertile to continue the species. And I guess in gay men we just long for and cling to youth in any form we can get it.

What I just wrote could also be a bunch of bullshit, but what else could it be.

obviously there's nothing that a 50 year old gay man and a 22 year old gay man could possibly talk about

Also, a 50 year old gay man is a GenXer. We were kids during the worst of the HIV crisis, and many of us came of age terrified of getting AIDS. There was no Prep or Grindr or Scruff. A lot of gays just stayed in the closet or married women. This guy is just recapturing something that was denied him.

[quote]You're so desperate to normalize this ridiculous age gap (because heaven forbid you date someone who wasn't studying for his SATs last week), that you guys are constantly lying about it being no big deal among straight people.

r244, As long as they are legal age, why should I give a fuck?? I don't want people looking at me with disgust because I like to have relationships with other men, so why would I go out of my way to be offended about a straight person, or any person dating someone younger or older?

The fact that this is the busiest thread on here today just highlights how jealous, judgmental and bitter your old asses are. Yet the next day one of you bitches will find yourself falling for some young man who gives you the time of day, and you will have the nerve to start a thread asking for advice. That is one of the most frequent threads we have here.

Its just like the threads judging people who are fat, only for the same people to ask how they can lose 100 pounds in two weeks. You cunts need to stop worrying about what other people have going on and think about getting your own miserable lives together, so you wont have to be such fucking haters.

💯 + r251

He’s not stunted ,he’s just another superficial old creep who prefers young hole and cock.

R251 engineer daddy found this thread! Or another 60 year old that thinks dating 20 year olds is normal.

"The Love that dare not speak its name" in this century is such a great affection of an elder for a younger man as there was between David and Jonathan, such as Plato made the very basis of his philosophy, and such as you find in the sonnets of Michelangelo and Shakespeare. It is that deep, spiritual affection that is as pure as it is perfect. It dictates and pervades great works of art like those of Shakespeare and Michelangelo, and those two letters of mine, such as they are. It is in this century misunderstood, so much misunderstood that it may be described as the "Love that dare not speak its name," and on account of it I am placed where I am now. It is beautiful, it is fine, it is the noblest form of affection. There is nothing unnatural about it. It is intellectual, and it repeatedly exists between an elder and a younger man, when the elder man has intellect, and the younger man has all the joy, hope and glamour of life before him. That it should be so, the world does not understand. The world mocks at it and sometimes puts one in the pillory for it."

[quote] Now he's found happiness and in ways has recaptured his youth.

Or to put it more accurately, he's a delusional old fool.

No doubt the ex-wife is completely mortified that her former husband has a boyfriend her son's age. Oh, and the fact that she wasted 20 or so years of her life with that dolt.

Can someone find out how long they've been together. That "You are my everything" leaves a bad taste. I hate public declarations before a relationship has really proved itself.

I loved older men in my 20s. I've been attracted men 45-65 since I first saw Sean Connery. Btw, I was a Stanford grad, very well read, had more mature pursuits than my peers, and my own money. First long term partner was 50 when I was 20. We were together for seven years. Fifteen years later, I still miss him.

R255 = Stephen Fry

When I was 21 I dated a 39 year old.

When I was 23 I dated a 54 year old

Now I'm 44 I can't understand why men my age would want to date a guy in their 20s, Fuck yes, date no.

It turns out daddy is in good health for his age. I'm going to Palm Springs and keep looking

They are both pretty good looking. I find it much more perverse when a fugly is going out with a hottie.

My colleague is 41 and his boyfriend 26 or 27. He just posted pics from his college graduation ceremony on social media and was so proud of "his boy". He looked only a bit younger than the parents of the boy. I thought this was so pathetic. It must feel ridiculous to attend the graduation of your bf when yours was over 20 years ago. He is old enough to attend his own kids graduation parties now.

Few years ago I met this wonderful married guy in his late 50s. He's a father of 5 kids the older ones is about my age. When he was fucking me right before ejaculating he softly whispered in my ear " I love you my son". Wish I had pearls to clutched on back then.

Um...probably EVERYTHING. Have you ever met a 50-year-old who dates men in their early 20s? It's ridiculous.

David wears "Old Guys Rule" shirts

No this guy knew he was gay all along. He could have either come out or he could have lived in the closet as a gay man but no he decided to bring a woman and eventually kids into the mix and now he's abandoned them and started shacking up with someone the same age as his son. It's gross.

I can't wait for that eventual day when the Son gets mad at the Twink and the Twink in a fit of anger says something like "you know he might be your father out here but in the bedroom I'm the daddy" Just make sure the police cars are ready that day.

I don't think it's jealousy. Im sure some people may be jealous but that's not what most feel. You have to remember that most older gay guys despite what the media or porn wants to tell you are not into twinks. Look the truth is its not very hard to fuck a 20yo if that's what you want. I've done it plenty of times and honestly I wouldn't give two dimes about this relationship except for the fact that the guy selfishly abandoned his family and left them for guy a 3rd his age. The same age as his son. Most people get why that's problematic to say the least. All of us have fathers and mothers, most have siblings. We get it.

It's not about to each is own because they are other people involved people whose feelings could get hurt and whose lives can get turned upside down.

R265, ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!! what did you do?

How old is that GaySuperDad guy? He doesn't look like he's that old himself.

Why is GaySuperDad doing duck lips in every photo, even the ones with his kids? Talk about embarrassing!

size meat implicated?

R205, we give up. Which two are his actual sons?

It’s gross and everyone knows it’s gross.

Not really r276

People are all different

You’re just jealous

When I was in my 20s I'd occasionally hook up with guys in their early 40s. I'd feel kind of dirty and my friends would give me a hard time but I enjoyed it. Back then the mean queens would always say "too bad you're 40" to men of a certain age that would hit on them in the bars. I always thought that was so rotten.

[quote]Yet the next day one of you bitches will find yourself falling for some young man who gives you the time of day, and you will have the nerve to start a thread asking for advice.

I have to admit, I'm low-key impressed at R251's prediction skills.

If they are happy, even if it's just for a few years, good for them.

You guys are so goddam bitter.

Does his taint smell vinegary yet? Do daddy fuckers crave that stench?

The younger one has limited options in NC. The Daddy looks hot now. And the are both just coming out - so there is a brief overlap in interests and focus as they get comfortable with gayness. In 5 years, the younger one will move on and the Daddy will be left alone - but at least he has his kids assuming they aren’t mortified by his behavior in the interim.

"It is that deep, spiritual affection that is as pure as it is perfect. It dictates and pervades great works of art like those of Shakespeare and Michelangelo, and those two letters of mine, such as they are."

Hey, Oscar, it wasn't "spiritual affection" that got you two years in the slammer

I'm 57 and my boyfriend is 41. Reading these posts, I am beginning to feel like I should break up with him before I ruin his life.

57 and 41 ain't the same as 57 (probably) and 19...

There is a peculiar form of gay male ego that is so narcissistic that it has both a deep urge to procreate and also a burning desire to get sweet young ass when none of their more seasoned peers even would attempt it. Both of these these things reflect the fact that these men think very, very highly of themselves, and don't think they are really the same as other gay men their own age. No they think they are far superior.

It's not a gay thing, it's a male thing.

I think they're doing threesomes. The older guy uses the younger guy as bait, etc. It's a thing.

The older one better watch out for cannibals.

[quote]I'm 57 and my boyfriend is 41. Reading these posts, I am beginning to feel like I should break up with him before I ruin his life.

Who cares what two eldergays do. 🙄🙄🙄

I think simply from the outside looking in, the way the "Daddy" is presenting their relationship to the world on social media is what disgusts most people straight away. The whole role play scenario, referring to him as "son", saying he missed having a son around, the shirts in R35....that's really what's inviting the criticism, not jealousy, or prudishness. The whole scene is a bit creepshow. After a few late 20s hookups called me "Daddy", (even AFTER telling them what a turn-off it was for me) I won't go there anymore.

Someone could maintain a relationship like this, and remain very discreet. Without the "in your face" aspect, most probably would just raise their brow, and move on. This poor judgement on the Dad's part is quite telling about how irresponsible he is regarding his own children. I cannot even eddress the "Gay Super Dad" friend.

It’s worse because he looks 62-65 in the face even with the veneers..

You’re both ancient R284, no one cares.

Umm. This isn’t something that the older guy is looking at logically. He’s in love, lust, and happy as fuck to have found someone as young or younger than his son. For whatever reasons, he wanted a relationship with a much younger man. Never really mentioned when discussing these scenarios is that people, men or women, straight, gay, bi, usually do this sort of thing because it makes them feel young again. It’s their second chance at life.

I used to date younger. Will never do so again. Why? Because I matured and grew up. I want to have the MOST fulfilling relationship possible, with my partner. I have learned through several really hard knocks, that if that’s what I really want, it’s not going to happen with a person who’s 30 years younger than me. Not 20 years younger, either. Very unlikely to do 15 years younger. 10 would be my limit, and only after really sizing up the person’s maturity, etc. 10 years younger should not be a big deal, but still could be.

I don’t let what’s between my legs do the talking for me anymore, because I have a brain that works perfectly well, and makes better decisions, ones that don’t cause me immense heartbreak over indulging myself with what are essentially kids barely out of high school.

I deserve better, and so does the kid.

What do they talk about? What Chuck E. Cheese to go to without triggering all those amber alerts.

[Quote] I don’t let what’s between my legs do the talking for me anymore

Humble brag.

Apologies to Lewis Carroll and his Mad Gardener:

"He thought he saw a daddy who would set him up for life...

He looked again and found it was a recipe for strife...

"Alas," said he, "and woe is me...

This wounds me like a knife."

Hissy fits around the Capitol today.

Murkowski and Collins refused to sign as co-sponsors of Miss Lindsey's bill to condemn House proceedings. Romney won't give her the time of day.

After tweeting all the names she solicited, her charm, then fussiness, fell flat on a few.

[quote] I wouldn't give two dimes about this relationship except for the fact that the guy selfishly abandoned his family and left them for guy a 3rd his age.

Actually R270 you don't know that.

For all we know he divorced the wife 15 years ago.

But we are free to speculate, R299.

If he doesn't want us to do so, he should set Instagram to private.

But he won't, because he's using his pics as bait for the next twink.

God, I would love to sniff that twink’s underwear. His raw ballsack musk must be fantastic.

R301 200 bucks and you can live your dream. Less in satellite cities. A 19 yo whore was talking me up today on a cruise ap. So lithe and lovely. But I'd rather sock money away for my decrepit retirement.

It's what every single guy dreams about, dating a middle-aged man with an Instagram account full of gym selfies.

Heavy social media use in men over 35 is a huge red flag.

You don't need a daddy if you grew up with a father.

[quote]Actually [R270] you don't know that. For all we know he divorced the wife 15 years ago.

That STILL means he abandoned his family. It’s even worse because his kids would be young and affect them more 15 years ago.

Or his wife is a prominent investment banker R305 and dumped his ass 15 years ago because she'd met a successful anesthesiologist who was more into sex, and the kids and Dad and stepdad all have a great relationship and nobody is suffering.

What happened in your childhood that this is where your head goes immediately?

I'm a 46 year old stock broker in NYC and my boyfriend is 24 actor...we've been together almost 2 years. We've never had a problem communicating and the sex is incredible. It all depends on the people and not the age

When I hear that a 46yo is dating a 24yo (lol, actor) I just assume that the 46yo is incredibly immature.

Life is short, find your happiness wherever you can.

[quote]That STILL means he abandoned his family. It’s even worse because his kids would be young and affect them more 15 years ago.

Sometimes I think some DLers are to the right of the local Southern Baptist Church Ladies League when it goes to policing the life decisions of others, but c'mon that statement is way over the top, don't you think? Just tattoo a big red A on this dude's chest and call it a day, why don't you.

[quote]We've never had a problem communicating and the sex is incredible.

For you maybe.

"We could talk or not talk forever, and still find things to not talk about."

Thank you R311. Perfect summary. Mic drop.

You have to admit it can make for a cheap date when one half of the couple gets a senior discount and the other half qualifies for a student discount in theaters, restaurants, etc.

R313 Ha! You're clever and thrifty! Great qualities.

R312 aww look at that sweet kid taking out his grandpa to dinner.

Meant r313 whoops

[Quote]When I hear that a 46yo is dating a 24yo (lol, actor) I just assume that the 46yo is incredibly immature.

Immature and probably the one who pays all the bills. NYC is kinda expensive for 24yo "actors".

Not for Broadway actors. He pays for everything.

r275 If you go clockwise the last two twinks are his sons. The darker haired one and the blond in the pool. There are several picks of this son in the pool but that's the one I chose.

Here He is with helix Twink porn star Jackson Clark. All of these guys are from Utah. Utah produces a strangely large amount of porn stars particularly twinks. He has 6 boys. At least one of them is going to end up gay. What are the odds that some of them end up doing porn. That would be almost poetic Justice. lol

As far as his age I would say early 40's no younger that 39

r308 I assume You don't have kids the same age is your boyfriend you probably don't have kids at all. No family you abandoned.

r309 You don't have to have any religious beliefs at all you can be a total atheist to know it's wrong to leave your family and start fucking a guy the same age as your son, not only that but you're plastering it all over the Internet in the most embarrassing ways, calling your boyfriend son. You don't think this guy's children and their friends see this?

I guess you don't give a damn about them no empathy for them. This guy knew he was gay when he got married and had kids he coulda lived his dream. Instead he wanted everyone to think he straight or maybe he hoped Sunday that he could have a boyfriend the same ages as Sun it's one of those two. No one would really give a shit if he didn't have a family involved.

They talk about sex, working out, food, and loans.

R319, does he have any other expression than the kissy duckface? It’s really creepy for an eldergay to be doing that.

Is the gaysuperdad posting the stuff about himself #humblebrag?

I don’t think they do much talking, OP.

When I was in my 20s I would consider any guy who was over 40 making a pass at me to be creepy. I don't get how someone that young would want to be in a relationship with someone in their 50s unless he actually wants a sugar daddy.

Unless these guys are public figures or people I know, it's none of my business what they talk about.

Annuities and skateboarding

"Daddy, what does double indemnity mean?"

Sample conversation:

Old: Moscow Mitch is going down! Pelosi is a mastermind!

Young: Yeah...OMG, have you heard this new Taylor Swift song “It’s Good to Have a Friend?” OMG so cute, Daddy, imma play it for you.

Old: You should be listening to Fiona Apple.

Young: [plays song]

Old: [taps fingers on counter impatiently]

Young: sksksksk!

Old: WHAT?

Young: And I OOP!

Old: Huh?

Young: ANDIOOP ANDIOOP! Sksksksk!

Old: Are you having a seizure or what is happening?

Young: [sings] We all got crowns! Don’t step on our gowns! You need to calm down!

Old: [hyperventilates]

Young: Uh oh! Uh oh! Uh oh! Uh oh! Uh oh! You need to—

Old: [Shoves dick in postadolescent roommate’s mouth to shut him the fuck up.]

Young: [muffled] ANDIOOP! ANDIOOP!

...three minutes later...

Young: *gulp* [wipes mouth] Thanks, Dad, that was fun. I’m sooo thirsty! Have you seen my—oh, here’s my hydroflask. Do you have a hydroflask, Daddy? No? Weird. It’s fine, you can have mine, I have more. Sksksksk! Andioop! Sksksk!

Lmfao, R329

They are only together when they’re having sex, and this is what they talk about during those times.

Old: Yeah, suck that cock, you little bitch.

Young: Actually? We’ve talked about this, right? I wish you wouldn’t speak to me like that. I don’t like that word? It’s very misogynistic. Time’s up on that!

Old: Oh. Uh. Suck it, boy.

Young: Hello? We’ve talked about this, too? Please use gender-nonspecific pronouns. I am exploring my identity and I feel that “boy” does not adequately describe my eternal spirit’s ephemeral experience as a human.

Old: I give up.

Young: What’s wrong? Oh, that. Don’t be ashamed to use Viagra, daddy. Even my friends do it. Actually? It’s great to mix with Ritalin and a benzo. Sksksksk!

Old: Are you an alien?

Young: I’m painfully human!

Old: Oh my God. This is—

Young: This is what, daddy? Tell me how you’re feeling?

Old: THIS IS ALL BETSY DEVOS’S FAULT! THAT BITCH!!!

Young: What did I just say about that word? Please don’t make me cancel you!

WHat is sksksks mean?

R333 It’s how teen girls and some gay boys laugh now. It started as a written/text replacement for “lol” or “hahaha” and somehow these Gen Z creatures havr trained themselves to actually laugh like snakes. Sksksk!

I'm the guy at r320

I really need to check the spelling errors, next time I'll type instead of using voice command

Gaysuperdad follows both of his oldest sons on Twitter but the thing is his entire Twitter account is pics of him and 8teenboy model Gabe Isaac and a few dick pics. That's it.

I guess that's not his only Twitter account maybe but that's the one he uses to follow his son's I don't think I would like that if I were his sons.

"yo dad can you make up a different Twitter account to follow us?" Dude you're embarrassing us! "

lol

He has his own dick pics on his Twitter account to follow his sons?

We know locally of a relationship between a 75 y.o. and a 22 y.o.. Very loving, balanced relationship.

I dated guys up to 35 years older in my early twenties. Making conversation was never a problem because I was mature for my age, and we shared interests (film, music, art, etc).

I looked like one of them, though, and some people assumed he was my dad instead of my lover.

They should get a dog or two. Having pets means you never have to talk about anything substantial.

What if the relationship is nothing by hot fucking? Why is that a problem for some of you? But what if they are in love and they have a million things in common, why is it wrong? Don't judge others based on Instagram. You know nothing about these people.

I suppose they talk about planning funerals and aged care.

I wish they’d talk about tanning beds. No one would be impressed with them in L.A., especially when they’re getting excited over a 250# bench press PR. Wow.

The old git has profound double eyelids. They both have eyelids like the fetal alcohol types.

I’m 52 my partner 28. We’ve had our ups and downs. But we’ve got plenty in common. We’ve been together 7 years. Depends on the people involved. One size doesn’t fit all.

Donald is 73. Melania is 49. Age delta = 24.

I thought sksksksk was a sound of approval --will check with one of my high school aged cousins and report back.

AndIooop is from some drag queen who banged their balls in a video that somehow went viral -- see link

According to Buzzfeed, "sksksksksksk" is like the Gen Z version of "I can't even!"

Worse? They are claiming it is our fault!

Oh, please. Melania married a psychopath for property, money, and prestige.

The age difference is not an impediment to hot sex. However, I personally highly doubt Trump is good in bed. His type rarely are.

All I know is this: in my late teens, early 20s, I wanted men in my age group, not old dudes. Sorry, no offense. I’m currently older, so I’m not dragging getting older. But as a young person, I wanted someone as hot as myself.

I’m my 30s, I started going younger. By my 40s, I realized dating men in their 20s was sexually hot, yet ended up becoming emotionally and intellectually empty.

So I’m back to partners my own age.

I don’t want older, either. I’m not into 70 year old dudes.

My own age group is perfect. I’ve done younger. I’m not into investing years into a losing proposition. By 40, TIME IS WAY MORE VALUABLE THAN MONEY.

Spend what you have left wisely, bitches. Money comes & goes. Time? Nope. Not so much.

Jesus. Threads like this make me so happy and grateful I’m in a longterm relationship with someone my age — he’s 6 months older.

Until he trades me in for a twink, right?

R350, agreed. There’s nothing like being with a partner who gets you because they genuinely have tons of shit in common with you, including shared experiences that were only possible because you’re both in the same age group.

A 21 year old isn’t going to understand how fuck awesome it was to hit a Guns ‘n’ Roses concert when they 1st came on the scene, or how fun it was to go to a Prince concert. And there’s a million other little things, that in the end, actually matter. We think these things don’t matter, until they do.

Hey, to each his own.

Thanks, YMF (R186). Love may not always be reasonable, though!

[quote] Until he trades me in for a twink, right?

And he will.

I've been fortunate to have only been attracted to men my own age throughout my slutty career.

Not joking.

r341 the posted it on Instagram to brag I assume so they clearly want us to judge. What you really mean is that we should approve of their relationship. You should just say that. Now to be honest I have no problem with May December romances. The age difference in this one is extreme but, hey whatever floats your boat right.

The only reason I don't approve is because the selfish ass older guy in this instance left his family and started shacking up basically with his sons doppelganger. That's weird, that selfish in the extreme and it's gross.

r337 Yep He has 3 Twitters two under his own name all with his face in the profiles, the funny thing is the one with a nick name is the only one where he follows both of his oldest sons and it's 10 pictures, two of his dick (he has a nice dick his sons must be so proud) and 4 of 8teenboy star Gabe Isaac. He follows the oldest on the other two. One seems to be for business and the other he follows mostly twink pornstars. A sample of the pics below

Damn ! Dad has a rather lovely piece of meat !

That fact that some of you follow that Mormon dude that closely has a much Creepiness Factor than anything the couple in the OP are up to.

Dad’s a fucking idiot. No self respecting man put pics of his cock on Twitter.

What a fool. For sure the twink is using him.

Love, my ass.

Just showed these pics to the peeps I’m hanging with right now. Everyone said the same thing: What a fucking idiot!

Maybe he just wants to do porn...

Post a link to his twitter.

Tyler Saint's creepy husband Ace Banner posted a photo with his kids on the same feed featuring photos of himself getting fucked and breed by various porn skanks.

Ace Banner ?!? REALLY ?!? tell me thats a joke !

I wish R363 and I bet his kids wish it were a joke too.

Anyone who has anything negative to say about this is probably a middle aged fat queen who,hasn't been laid since the 90s

POST god damn twitter links you marys!

R365 pathetic gold digger or cradle robber that thinks it did “ something”with that lame 90’s insult!!

Just you wait R365 . One day YOU will be the middle aged fat queen that hasnt been laid since the 2000s. Just you wait.

“When I was your age you weren’t even alive.”

“That’s OK, when I’m your age you’re not gonna be alive either.”

R330 hilarious. Is she a friend of Sophie?

I was in a relationship with someone 18 years older. My family said at the beginning: Don’t do it, he’s already lived his life. As with any young know it all, I ignored their advice. Lots of non-experiences went like this: No, lets not do that, I’ve done it and it wasn’t so great.

I’ll never get my prime years back. I fucking wasted them on him. He already had someone else lined up when he dumped me 15 years later. I hate his guts to this day.

I agree - the dating a younger guy may be stupid. But the real issue is the social media posting like 20 year old. He has some serious maturing to do - which is often the case with late-out-of-the-closet guys. They need to act like two is at 50 - which is embarrassing for everyone involved. Especially kids.

This couple could be Joel and his neighbour!

wanna be your boy tonight 18+

does daddy let his buddys cum in his chicken? hot....

R371: how thick do you have to be to take 15 YEARS to realize you've "wasted your prime years" with you older partner, and then ONLY after he dumped you?

So you're an idiot also r357 that mormon dude has also plastic his stuff all over the Internet for people to follow you think anyone would give a shit if they didn't notice that this guy hangs around twink pornstars the same age as some of his sons all day? So please Take your bullshit concern trolling to a different thread. I also have it on good authority that hes very generous with his money. Motherfucker has 7 kids and he spending his money on these twinks but I guess you don't have a problem with that either. He's not rich btw

r358 Gabe Isaac lives in California with his boyfriend who also used to do porn for 8teenboy. From what I understand gay super dad is a nice guy I just question his life choices and I get to do that because again he clearly to want us to.

Sorry about the syntax errors. Damn voice commands.

Here's a typical morning conversation between those two.

Son: "Daddy can I have my allowance before you go to work? I want to go out and buy some toys today".

Daddy: "Why sure honey bun. Now buy something nice and don't waste your money or daddy will be angry with you when I get home".

Son: "Okay daddy, I'll be good. I love you so much daddy. You're the best thing that ever happened to me".

Daddy: "Yes, I am. And you should never forget that son".

Daddy leaves for work

Son: "Thank God that old stupid bastard is gone so I can play the rest of the day with my friends so I don't have to think about all the nasty things he makes me do to him every night".

And:

Son: I keep forgetting to take my PrEP! Haha!

Daddy: Yikes.

Son: What?

Daddy: Oh, nothing, kid. Sometimes we have to learn from our mistakes.

Son: What does that mean?

Daddy: You’ll understand in 10-15 years, after the incubation period.

Son: Sksksksk!

Daddy-o talks about whatever Loverboy wants to talk about.

OP they talk about funeral plans.

Son talks about himself and daddy talk’s about son’s beauty snd sex appeal. They both have one common and primary interest, which is the son’s bangability. Just when the son begins to wonder why he is with a decrepit old dude who will be legitimately elderly in short order, the daddy shovels heaps of aggrandizement into the hungry hole of an ego that the son carries around with him and he realizes that the old man appreciates him in the way he deserves to be appreciated.

The elder gay is the fool. The relationship works because his maturity level matches the twenty-something. Embarrassing instagram. Grow up you asshat.

Aaron Schock has a “hot” steroidal body but he is getting old and he’s bald now and he’s still boinking his former congressional intern, who looks like he may be 22. We know enough about Schock by observing him that he has the emotional maturity of a 14 year-old girl and his former intern is likely to be more mature than he is. There are plenty of men, gay and straight, in arrested development. It seems like they were just made to urgently spread their seed reproductively or not and then die.

So this "Super Dad" is dating a twink porn performer who looks like a jaded twelve year old?

The dad is an engineer. Engineers, accountants and programmers are usually kind of emotionally immature. Heavy on logic, kind of lacking in emotional intelligence.

R180 - interesting! If the guy is looking for 18-24 year olds, what happens when they start getting older? Replace with another younger model? Rinse and repeat? it would be different if he fell for somebody who happened to be younger and they grew older together , like Tom Ford and Richard Buckley, but there are so many shallow fuckers who obviously have a crisis about ageing and look for an extension of their youth in younger trophy partners.

It's just very shallow.

R388 No matter his age, Leo DiCaprio dumps his girlfriends by age 25.

Yup, he's another one who would qualify in the shallow as fuck brigade......if he dated those women at all ;)

No r386 those pics are from two years ago. Gabe Isaac is in a relationship with another twink pornstar now. He and GSD were just "best friends" but the 8teenboys are big fans of him. He's generous.

Gabe Isaac does bear some resemblance to GSD 2nd oldest son though.

CHIP reverse home mortgages.

GayStupidDad really posted his dick pics on his account for the public to see, including his children?!? WTF?! What does he do for a living?

I don't like twinks but I did notice and like Gabe Isaacs dork face and big bent cock.

So what is the Twitter handle of this Super gay dad that everyone is going on about?

Reverse mortgages LMAO!!!!!

R393 looks like he just replied to some post (asking to show your junk) with his dick pic.

What is his handle so we can all enjoy seeing super dummy dad?

Looks like he's a bottom too. 90% of his tweets are to some Twink or Twink pornstar star less than half his age talking about how he wants to ride their dicks. OMG I hope his kids don't look this Twitter of his. But I'm almost 100% certain they know about their dads predilections for twinks.

I wonder what his employer thinks.

I would never let his employer know or contact his family. I don't dox people but the stuff out in the open for anyone to see if they were curious. Sure this particular Twitter account isn't under his real name but he follows a lot of people in his personal life so it wouldn't really take much detective work for them to see it.

Neither the guy in the Op's original post nor gay super dad would be of much interest I believe to most people if they didn't have children the same age as the guys they are dating or fucking. Gabe Isaac for instance looks a lot like GSD's blond 18yo 2nd son

I can't imagine reading my dads Twitter and finding out he's practically begging 18 and 19 yo guys to fuck him up the ass.

Here's one example. there are others. Please don't dox the guy. He may be misguided but he seems like a decent dude.

Ok now 20 people have already asked about the Twitter handle everyone here is talking about. Why is it so hard to post the name already?

Wills and estate planning.

R403, We have to sign into imgur now???

That kid @ R402 looks alarmingly YOUNG.

Gross. I would not be able to get down with that. And I’m no prude, trust. But becoming sexually aroused by someone who looks like they’re in junior high is just not for me.

This guy definitely has some issues. He’s actually missing out on having a solid relationship that actually makes him happy in a profound way. I know many will disagree with me, but in my own experience, when you’re dating someone closer to your age, by 5 years younger or older, you tend to be much more content and satisfied.

And you know what? Now a days it actually works out well, because depending on where you live, plenty of people over 40 look FANTASTIC.

Different strokes for different folks.

Yeah - the gay sex stuff merged with kids is icky. Like Aspens IG account - just no.

Is he the gay version of Jeffrey Epstein?

Never let it be said that older gay men can't be just as stupid as many older straight men.

gramps takes his “son” to throw a baseball around, how sweet.

It is so unique to have this come up in 2019, almost 2020. We are in a time where everything that we have has only occurred in the last five years (five minutes for you gaylings with ADD), but it's amazing that this issue is so current, so NOW! It's not like Urg the cave guy was boning some young thing when Urg was an ancient 30. Or during the toga times when old guys were fucking younger dudes, or the middle ages when old royal fuckers were fucking way under their age.

We live in a one of a kind period of time, where humans are not the humans they have been for say the last five hundred thousand years. This problem has obviously been around only since the last Windows 10 update. We are special.

The Kid in r402 is 8teenboy model Paxton Ward. He's of legal age barely but he is legal. He's 18

He's the same age as Gay Superdads blond son.

Here is a picture GSD "best friend" and favorite twink Gabe Isaac next to an image of his second oldest son.

....

Is this guy still on Twitter because the Twitter profile in the photo preview seems to end in 2017?

Don't ask me vat I did during the culture vars Timmy! The past is another country.

R411, true, we have been a fucked up species from “go”, but that doesn’t mean we have to remain as such.

Look, I know lots of men, and now, even women, see nothing wrong with dating and becoming sexually involved with people who are much younger. And hey, if someone over 30, wants to date someone who turned 18, yesterday, they are obviously not breaking the law. They can even move to a state that’s cool with 16 or 17, or to countries that go younger.

The legality of it is part of it, but there’s more.

I am not going to sit here, and write a paper, because it will STILL not resonate with those who don’t get why it’s really fucking weird, and why it triggers alarm bells in those who don’t go so young. And I’m not talking about nut jobs, who call EVERYONE paedophiles. I’m talking about normal adults.

It comes down to a maturity thing. Most matured, well adjusted adults, might find much younger women and men physically attractive, but we don’t pursue relationships with them, because those relationships are 99% of the time, not fulfilling.

That’s it. That’s the bottom line. And yes, I do suppose that an emotionally immature adult of a certain age, might be mature in different areas, other than in their emotional/sexual landscape.

I don’t know if that’s creepy, but I personally find it to be odd. If that were a state of mind that existed and persisted within me, I think I would want that type of thing sorted out. I go to therapy because I wanted other things sorted out, and I know I would pursue therapy if I couldn’t share intimacy and bond with partners that I pursue sexual relationships with, unless those partners could ONLY be much younger than me.

There’s something off in that scenario. And while it may not be illegal because they turned 18 yesterday, or a month ago, or 6 months ago, personally, it would be a characteristic about myself that would bother me, because intellectually, I would understand that the dynamics of such a relationship most probably stem from either inappropriate sexual contact sustained as a child, or a deep seated fear of letting go of control.

That’s my take on it.

At least don't pursue twinks the same age as your teenage sons. At the very least.

That happens all the time I’m sure, R417, but his lack of discretion is very tacky.

Here is something else to think about. Both the guy in OP thread and gay super dad have multiple children. Who did I spend their money on? Gaysuperdad has 7 kids and if his kids need something and he says I don't have the money and they check his social media and he's at parties and clubs spending money on a bunch of twinks that would enrage me as his child.

" Sorry son I couldn't buy you those new tennis shoes I spent all my money on Alex at the club. You know Alex right ? he's was in your high school class last year wasn't he? "

I'm late to this thread, but it's fascinating and some of the comments are astute and practical, others are full of the haters. I'm 58. When I was 54-57, I hooked up with several younger guys, some as repeat hookups to his day. We always play safely. At 58, I'm having fewer hookups. I fight to stay in shape, but I know at some point, perhaps age 59 or 60, the hookups will probably be over--it was a good run. I compartmentalize, and my thoughts are as follows:

A) Regarding this particular case, the specifics of it are creepy. The older guy made some major life choices, and even though he's from a rural area, it is, to me, very wrong to marry a straight woman (ruining her life), having children and then dating a guy who is their age. That he's brazenly parading his younger partner around is indeed creepy and I think the reason many on this thread object.

B) I'm not looking for a husband. I'm not even looking for a relationship. I have several friends already of various ages, younger, same and older, and they're rewarding enough for me. I want occasional and safe hookups, and if a mild friendship occurs, well, then, that's fine, but it's unlikely, and I recognize that either of us can end things at any point.

C) I'm picky and I don't coerce anyone to meet up with me. I don't linger in the gym shower. I don't offer money to anyone. If younger guys I'm attracted to want to hook up, then I'll do so--safely and with no emotional baggage. If one of us ghosts the other, that's life.

D) a couple of my close friends ask me why I don't go after guys in my age range. Sometimes I do. There are several who are very attractive and whom I'd like to meet. I've discovered, however, that they are few and far between. Some of them, too, specifically only want much younger, so therefore I can't pursue them. I like attractive, fit, handsome guys from 20-65. If my remaining hookups tend to be younger, then so be it.

[quote] I'm 58. When I was 54-57, I hooked up with several younger guys, some as repeat hookups to his day. We always play safely. At 58, I'm having fewer hookups. I fight to stay in shape, but I know at some point, perhaps age 59 or 60, the hookups will probably be over--it was a good run. I compartmentalize, and my thoughts are as follows:

I find the compressed time table of this entire statement a bit strange.

Over the course of 2 years (between 56 and your current 58), your age causes such a huge alteration in you (appearance, outlooks, what have you), that your hookups dropped off from the preceding 2 year period?

You expect an even more significant drop off within the next two years?

Dear god, it sounds like you're melting faster than Frosty the Snowman without the magic hat.

old man river. .

The older one looks like a fool, this kid is too young looking that it just looks silly

R421, my life was busier, and I was doing a large amount of caretaking. At a certain point around age 51 or 52, I began to have opportunities to become more active and therefore a few things fell into place. The dropoffs might not happen as fast as I predict, but I won't be surprised if they do--it's just nature.

r420 I'm the guy who posted at r419 and I don't have a problem with you, my problem is specifically with gay guys who date or openly lust after/chase guys the same age as there teenage or very early 20's children. Especially if it's the same age as their sons.

R420, there's a big difference between hooking up and having a BF relationship.

You don't have to talk to hookups.

That is a weird picture!

There's hooking up there's having a boyfriend relationship and there's having a boyfriend relationship with your son's Doppelganger🤮

Did this guy disappear from Twitter?

He probably googled himself and found this thread, damn.