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Connor Jessup & Miles Heizer

A thread to discuss one of DL's absolute favorite couples: two beautiful men who've been together for more than a year now.

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by Anonymousreply 249September 18, 2019 11:43 AM

Cue the hordes of DL queens complaining that they've never heard of Connor or Miles.

by Anonymousreply 1August 3, 2019 12:22 AM

They’re like an issue of XY magazine come to life.

by Anonymousreply 2August 3, 2019 12:46 AM

I hope someday we get details on how it started between them, how they met, everything.

by Anonymousreply 3August 3, 2019 1:22 AM

They are like the soft core version of Helix Studio porn.

by Anonymousreply 4August 3, 2019 2:10 AM

I do think Miles will come out soon. There are more roles for gays and he could carve out a niche with it. He cannot play straight and I couldn't believe 13RW tried it! The other gay actor on the show, Brandon, can play straight effortlessly.

by Anonymousreply 5August 3, 2019 2:14 AM

Miles can’t play straight and yet has only ever played straight roles... whereas Connor can easily pass as straight and has played primarily gay roles. Makes no sense.

by Anonymousreply 6August 3, 2019 2:33 AM

Good lord, are they brothers?!

by Anonymousreply 7August 3, 2019 2:57 AM

Maybe Miles will finally play str8 convincingly in the next season of 13rw.

by Anonymousreply 8August 3, 2019 3:23 AM

Unless he's completely mute I doubt that

by Anonymousreply 9August 3, 2019 3:38 AM

Let’s play a game of brothers or lovers

by Anonymousreply 10August 3, 2019 4:11 AM

They can role play step brothers who sleep together!

by Anonymousreply 11August 3, 2019 5:04 AM

Has Miles got Fuck You money yet? He was on Parenthood for about six years, then four years of 13RW. I can see him wanting to go for the triple and maybe then he'll come out. I doubt he'll come out as Connor did, though. Maybe he'll follow in Matt Bomer's footsteps and it will be more related to disclosing his parental/marital status.

by Anonymousreply 12August 3, 2019 5:57 AM

Miles will come out when Connor proposes and not a second sooner!

by Anonymousreply 13August 3, 2019 10:54 AM

They don't look alike at all

by Anonymousreply 14August 3, 2019 10:54 AM

R14 Both white... that's too alike for DL.

by Anonymousreply 15August 3, 2019 12:58 PM

Has this thread been locked/deleted/restricted already?!

by Anonymousreply 16August 3, 2019 3:28 PM

R16 One of Connor's original threads was but the last one hit 600 without interference and this one isn't locked or restricted.

by Anonymousreply 17August 3, 2019 3:42 PM

R16 No, it works for me. Maybe it was PT earlier idk.

by Anonymousreply 18August 3, 2019 8:58 PM

Does Connor come from money?

by Anonymousreply 19August 4, 2019 6:54 AM

R19 Don't think so. His family looks like generic white upper middle class except in Canada.

by Anonymousreply 20August 4, 2019 7:43 AM

Why does he never seem happy?

by Anonymousreply 21August 4, 2019 8:56 AM

Because you're projecting.

by Anonymousreply 22August 4, 2019 9:16 AM

Will Miles take Connor to the 13rw premiere?

by Anonymousreply 23August 4, 2019 10:59 AM

I hope he does. A pap shot of the two gay dudes from the show with their boyfriends at the same event... there would be meltdowns.

by Anonymousreply 24August 4, 2019 11:12 AM

He always seems like a moody bitch

by Anonymousreply 25August 4, 2019 1:12 PM

I don't get that vibe, he just look melancholic or pensive.

But Conner is cheerful for the two

by Anonymousreply 26August 4, 2019 1:23 PM

Could there be anyone less interesting? No.

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by Anonymousreply 27August 4, 2019 1:33 PM

There a lot of vapid celebrities on instagram to follow. You don't need to waste your time with him

by Anonymousreply 28August 4, 2019 1:46 PM

r25 If you're talking about Miles, he's had a lot of issues with anxiety and depression. I don't think the moodiness is a pose, if that's what you mean.

by Anonymousreply 29August 4, 2019 4:13 PM

Do we think Miles and Connor might wed in an "Elvis" Vegas ceremony, like Cara D and her missus? I could actually picture Miles doing that. I'm not sure Brenda raised Connor that way, though.

by Anonymousreply 30August 4, 2019 4:21 PM

Will they be on Chaturbate as a couple?

by Anonymousreply 31August 4, 2019 4:29 PM

From 1991.

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by Anonymousreply 32August 4, 2019 4:42 PM

I think Connor's mom wants to throw a big wedding for them. She's a classic PFLAG mom.

by Anonymousreply 33August 4, 2019 4:44 PM

r32 Wrong thread maybe?

by Anonymousreply 34August 4, 2019 4:45 PM

R33 Exactly, she didn't raise a beautiful gay son only to be deprived of a big gay wedding!

by Anonymousreply 35August 4, 2019 11:34 PM

Why would anyone pay for an expensive wedding? I would rather have an expensive honeymoon.

by Anonymousreply 36August 4, 2019 11:48 PM

I don't think she'll start a hassle over the cost of the wedding. She'd settle for just seeing them get married and have kids together.

by Anonymousreply 37August 5, 2019 1:03 AM

Connor must be the top, right? Miles looks like he exists solely on a diet of antidepressants. I doubt the poor dear can get it up.

by Anonymousreply 38August 5, 2019 5:08 AM

R38 Not again please

by Anonymousreply 39August 5, 2019 8:40 PM

Who here wouldn't bottom for Miles? You all would. He'd tear it up. And of course Connor. He'd tear you all up, too!

by Anonymousreply 40August 5, 2019 9:38 PM

For all of the Connor foot enthusiasts...

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by Anonymousreply 41August 5, 2019 9:49 PM

The masc4masc trolls will be so disappointed.

by Anonymousreply 42August 5, 2019 9:51 PM

Well Connor sure did run screaming out of that closet.

by Anonymousreply 43August 5, 2019 9:53 PM

Miles is deffo a bottom boy bet he’s got a nice shaved, bleached pink hole.

by Anonymousreply 44August 5, 2019 9:53 PM

Miles has a pretty huge cock and loves being your dom twink top.

by Anonymousreply 45August 5, 2019 10:36 PM

Connor just posted this... looks like confirmation that he’s living with Miles in the Bay Area during 13RW filming.

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by Anonymousreply 46August 6, 2019 12:31 AM

R41 Black is goth! Miles must have dared him.

by Anonymousreply 47August 6, 2019 1:22 AM

Now Connor needs to do a pap stroll in open toed sandals.

by Anonymousreply 48August 6, 2019 7:04 AM

At least those dogs seem to start to tolerate each other

by Anonymousreply 49August 6, 2019 1:32 PM

Does Miles have garden?

by Anonymousreply 50August 6, 2019 1:43 PM

R50 I’m sure Connor is growing his own tomatoes for tonight’s dinner as we speak.

by Anonymousreply 51August 6, 2019 1:46 PM

WTF is with the painted nails? Please don't tell me we will lose yet another gay to the gender mafia.

by Anonymousreply 52August 6, 2019 1:56 PM

They were painted black, though. That's the butchest color.

by Anonymousreply 53August 6, 2019 1:58 PM

I feel like one year of dating is a little quick for Connor to move in while Miles is working and be a stay at home house husband. Miles certainly did not stay in Toronto during Locke & Key production.

by Anonymousreply 54August 6, 2019 3:44 PM

Maybe Mae wouldn't let him.

by Anonymousreply 55August 6, 2019 3:55 PM

They're gypsies. It's not like regular people moving in together.

by Anonymousreply 56August 6, 2019 4:05 PM

R53: And it fits the goth in Miles.

I doubt Connor will be one of those actors who after years in the closet get totally over the top after coming out (like Nico Tortorella or Keiynan Lonsdale)

by Anonymousreply 57August 6, 2019 5:42 PM

Miles will probably wait until he and Connor get engaged to come out. Like Matt Dallas did.

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by Anonymousreply 58August 6, 2019 5:45 PM

To be in between both Miles and Connor slurping both their cocks.......

by Anonymousreply 59August 6, 2019 10:24 PM

I bet the painted nails are Miles' influence. He's kinda effete. Connor wouldn't have done that before meeting him.

by Anonymousreply 60August 8, 2019 5:48 PM

R54 Exactly. One of many reasons I think Connor is more into this relationship than Miles. I hope he won't end up getting heart broken. He seems so happy and in love, but Miles seems kinda distant and cold.

by Anonymousreply 61August 8, 2019 5:51 PM

R61 Connor just seems to be a very passionate person, while Miles is very reserved. People can express love differently.

by Anonymousreply 62August 8, 2019 5:57 PM

[Quote] I don’t want to censor––consciously or not––the ways I talk, sit, laugh, or dress

[Quote] or dress

[Quote] dress

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by Anonymousreply 63August 8, 2019 6:07 PM

I doubt we'll see significant changes on Connor. He was not in the closet, he was not repressing his feeling and he was not struggling with his sexuality, so he basically did what he wanted in the past.

Generally people who change (for good or bad) a lot his outfit, hair and all that jazz is people who was not what they wanted to be before the coming out

by Anonymousreply 64August 8, 2019 6:23 PM

Did you even read his coming out post? He was suppressing himself. If you have to think about how you sit, laugh etc., you know you have "tells".

by Anonymousreply 65August 8, 2019 6:27 PM

R63 Fuck off, not everyone is drinking the trans or gender kool-aid. Gender has NOTHING to do with being gay. There is no reason for him to paint his nails. He never did before. He's only doing it for attention, sorry, but I like gay guys who are actually GAY and not faux-trans like Connor. Is he transitioning? ugh.

by Anonymousreply 66August 8, 2019 6:30 PM

He never did before? How the fuck would you know? I hope he wears a dress at the Locke & Key premiere just so you have a shit fit.

by Anonymousreply 67August 8, 2019 6:43 PM

R65: He was supressing himself on interviews, not in his life

R67: That wouldn't be groundbreaking at all. Lately after coming out it seems that it's needed to be edgy with your clothes on the red carpet, even if 99% of the times the guy looks totally ridiculous.

And frankly, painting your nails black is quite far from being a gay thing (at least not in europe)

by Anonymousreply 68August 8, 2019 6:49 PM

[Quote] He was supressing himself on interviews, not in his life

He was editing his public presentation - that includes interviews, social media etc.

He's just posted a pic on SM of his painted toenails. That's no doubt liberating for him. Hopefully seeing ignorant people feeling some kind of way about that will also please him.

by Anonymousreply 69August 8, 2019 6:53 PM

Connor seems like a love. Hollywood will be hard on him. Hopefully it doesn't damage him too much.

by Anonymousreply 70August 8, 2019 7:02 PM

R69: You know SM is not real life, don't you?

He was not hiding in the closet. And if he painted his nails is because he wanted to painted them, it's not some kind of political statement or fredom shout

by Anonymousreply 71August 8, 2019 7:30 PM

[quote]One of many reasons I think Connor is more into this relationship than Miles.

Another one is that Miles has been badly burned by his relationship with Brandon Flynn. In that respect, his relationship with Connor is a rebound relationship. Hard to be really committed when you have been ditched by your last lover.

by Anonymousreply 72August 8, 2019 7:31 PM

[Quote] You know SM is not real life, don't you?

It's 2019. People express themselves on social media. What they reveal can be telling. Even if it's a lie it can be telling.

[Quote] He was not hiding in the closet. ....

[Quote] It took me years. It’s ongoing.

[Quote] Shame can come heavy and loud, but it can come quiet too; it can take cover behind comfort and convenience. But it’s always violent. For me, this discretion has become airless. I don’t want to censor––consciously or not––the ways I talk, sit, laugh, or dress, the stories I tell, the jokes I make, my points of reference and connection.

Maybe a well painted toe is a point of connection for him. You could ask him rather than acting like you actually know why he shared the pic.

by Anonymousreply 73August 8, 2019 7:38 PM

We should have gotten a Miles-Nick kiss in Love, Simon. We were robbed.

by Anonymousreply 74August 8, 2019 7:44 PM

We were robbed by Nick being cast in the first place.

I relistened to that Miles podcast. The movie he was offered the lead in was that James Franco movie - Palo Alto, I think was the name - and then the offer was rescinded and Miles got only a small part in it.

by Anonymousreply 75August 8, 2019 7:52 PM

Did Connor say anything about this being the first time he's painted his toenails? He did such a good job that I wouldn't be surprised if he's done it a bunch of times before, probably with his mom's nail polish.

by Anonymousreply 76August 8, 2019 7:58 PM

r72 I thought Miles had a bf between Brandon and Connor.

by Anonymousreply 77August 8, 2019 7:59 PM

He did. Matt.

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by Anonymousreply 78August 8, 2019 8:00 PM

R73: You are making as much assumptions as i am, but maybe you know him better

by Anonymousreply 79August 8, 2019 8:08 PM

[Quote] You are making as much assumptions as i am, but maybe you know him better

There's a difference between a suggestion ("Maybe...") and an assertion.

What's clear is that painted toenails put some people's noses out of joint. Good.

by Anonymousreply 80August 8, 2019 8:10 PM

R80: He is an inteligent man, if he wants to say something there are sure way better ways than painting your nails so i think he just painted his nails because he wanted to paint his nails

by Anonymousreply 81August 8, 2019 8:13 PM

To me males painting their nails is more of an age thing at this point than a gender, trans, sexuality thing. I see young guys of every stripe doing it now days in NYC.

by Anonymousreply 82August 8, 2019 8:15 PM

I hope he at least paired them with fuck me pumps.

by Anonymousreply 83August 8, 2019 8:16 PM

Hand nails and toenails are a little different, though. The latter is way more "dialing the phone with a pencil."

by Anonymousreply 84August 8, 2019 8:17 PM

My nephews, 7 and 11, paint their nails and tell me it's pretty common among the boys in their grades. BUT, colour remains important, they distinguish between "girly" and OK colours.

by Anonymousreply 85August 8, 2019 8:17 PM

^^Whew! Then Connor was in the right range of colors yes?

by Anonymousreply 86August 8, 2019 8:34 PM

Yes Connor would be deemed sufficiently not-girly by my nephews.

by Anonymousreply 87August 8, 2019 8:36 PM

R75 Which Miles podcast?

And Miles wasn’t even in Palo Alto. The lead role he was offered was Simon in Love Simon - but Hollywood doesn’t actually want to see a fem gay guy play a gay guy in a movie, they want a butcher straight version that makes them feel comfortable. Which is why Miles lost that role to Nick.

by Anonymousreply 88August 8, 2019 10:13 PM

r88 And all Nick has ever done is talk about how uncomfortable he was as a str8 guy playing that role.

by Anonymousreply 89August 8, 2019 10:18 PM

Matt was Miles’ rebound boyfriend, not Connor. Miles was also partying pretty hard during that time and always looked super coked up.

by Anonymousreply 90August 8, 2019 10:23 PM

He was with his bff, that clipka girl. She was a bad influence.

by Anonymousreply 91August 8, 2019 10:35 PM

I just looked it up. The movie Miles was talking about in the podcast was "Memoria", which was apparently set in Palo Alto.

by Anonymousreply 92August 8, 2019 10:37 PM

I'd bottom for Miles.

by Anonymousreply 93August 8, 2019 10:45 PM

Is that Miles podcast still available to listen to?

by Anonymousreply 94August 8, 2019 10:54 PM

It seems to have been taken down. It was called "The GASP". Mae was a guest on another episode.

by Anonymousreply 95August 8, 2019 10:57 PM

Miles needs to go on Dax Shepard’s podcast.

by Anonymousreply 96August 8, 2019 11:02 PM

I'd bottom for MIles, too. He's kinky you can just tell.

by Anonymousreply 97August 8, 2019 11:57 PM

All the eldergays in this thread who call Miles a bottom would immediately bottom for him, no hesitation, if asked.

by Anonymousreply 98August 9, 2019 5:54 AM

Any truth to the rumor Miles's character on 13RW might be bi this season? Didn't he pop a boner for the hot Asian guy?

by Anonymousreply 99August 9, 2019 6:34 AM

r99 He did. His character also couldn't get hard while looking at str8 porn.

by Anonymousreply 100August 9, 2019 8:07 AM

Will they be the Jessup-Heizers or the Heizer-Jessups?

by Anonymousreply 101August 9, 2019 11:20 AM

R101 The H-J's, for sure.

by Anonymousreply 102August 9, 2019 12:18 PM

R101 On the RuPaul podcast Miles talked about having no connection to his surname since his dad was adopted, so he’d probably take Connor’s.

by Anonymousreply 103August 9, 2019 12:32 PM

How many men do you know who take other men's names?

by Anonymousreply 104August 9, 2019 12:34 PM

R89: I watched a lot of Nick Robinson interviews when they released Love, Simon and i've never heard him saying that. He even talked about his brother coming out. One thing is not liking his performance and other imply that he is homophobic when that's clearly not the case

by Anonymousreply 105August 9, 2019 1:34 PM

[quote]How many men do you know who take other men's names?

You can't refuse an offer to be named Buttigieg!

by Anonymousreply 106August 9, 2019 3:10 PM

Miles originally being cast as Simon sounds unlikely considering his team...

Plus his character Cal was straight washed when he's bi the book.

Nick Robinson stays with Berlanti and his husband regularly (and posts about it on social media) so I highly doubt he's homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 107August 9, 2019 9:45 PM

He wasn't cast as Simon. He was offered the lead in "Memoria" and then demoted to a smaller part. He said it himself. I heard him with my own ears.

by Anonymousreply 108August 9, 2019 9:52 PM

Doesn't sound like he missed out on much

by Anonymousreply 109August 9, 2019 10:49 PM

Miles at Outside Lands yesterday... did Connor go back to Toronto?

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by Anonymousreply 110August 11, 2019 11:37 PM

R110 looks like it, for now. There’s another pic with Miles in his 13RW costar Timothy Granaderos’ story now. Looks like a bunch of the cast went to support The Wallows/Dylan Minnette’s concert. Guessing if Connor had tagged along he’d have at least been in the group pic.

Wonder how long it’ll be between visits this time- maybe he’ll be back to CA around premiere time?

by Anonymousreply 111August 12, 2019 3:54 AM

Connor in the trailer for his new movie with Nick Robinson

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by Anonymousreply 112August 14, 2019 4:05 AM

I love how Connor can believably play straight.

by Anonymousreply 113August 14, 2019 4:07 AM

Based on that trailer, he's probably only going to be in the first 15 or so minutes. Unless they do lots of flashbacks.

by Anonymousreply 114August 14, 2019 4:12 AM

R114 Indeed, Connor's name doesn't even make it into the credits of the trailer. When did he shoot this, in any case? He's not mentioned it on his Social Media at all so it must have been a very quick job for him.

by Anonymousreply 115August 14, 2019 9:47 AM

R115 To be fair Connor isn't exactly a household name. Of course they would use the name of the bigger stars in the trailer.

by Anonymousreply 116August 14, 2019 11:05 AM

Connor's number one in my box--office.

by Anonymousreply 117August 14, 2019 12:02 PM

So both the boys did a film with Nick, huh? Which one of them was more likely to get some dick from him if Nick was willing to play outside his usual range?

by Anonymousreply 118August 14, 2019 1:16 PM

The movie doesn't look promising, and he probably dies in the first 15 minutes but it's good he is getting jobs. He is a very good actor

by Anonymousreply 119August 14, 2019 1:18 PM

R115 It was shot sometime in 2017*

by Anonymousreply 120August 14, 2019 1:43 PM

R118 I don’t get gay vibes from Nick - he was barely convincing in Love Simon - but I’m sure both Connor and Miles would say yes if he was offering.

by Anonymousreply 121August 14, 2019 1:45 PM

R121 Who wouldn't?

by Anonymousreply 122August 15, 2019 12:06 AM

I fucking wouldn't.

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by Anonymousreply 123August 15, 2019 12:22 AM

r123 TF you wouldn't.

by Anonymousreply 124August 15, 2019 2:14 AM

Looks like the Miles thread was officially locked down.

by Anonymousreply 125August 15, 2019 3:35 AM

By locked down, do you mean paywalled? R125

It's still up and I can post in it

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by Anonymousreply 126August 15, 2019 3:38 AM

I'm convinced that if Muriel sees a "Part" in the thread title, the lockdown is applied.

by Anonymousreply 127August 15, 2019 3:39 AM

Mae just posted on Miles’ latest IG post that he looks “insanely hot” in the new 13RW trailer. He’s also shirtless and carrying a knife in it.

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by Anonymousreply 128August 15, 2019 5:21 AM

Besties supporting besties

by Anonymousreply 129August 15, 2019 5:25 AM

I want nude scenes with Miles!

by Anonymousreply 130August 15, 2019 6:43 AM

R130 I want gay scenes with Miles. He should be gay or at the very least bi on the show. He's not convincing as straight.

by Anonymousreply 131August 15, 2019 7:24 AM

R131 He should have realized his dick worked for Zach and not the cam woman because he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 132August 15, 2019 7:31 AM

I wish Miles was still with Brandon Flynn. Connor’s nose bugs me a lot ....

by Anonymousreply 133August 15, 2019 7:33 AM

Being in a relationship with a fellow actor must be tricky, on one hand nobody is going to understand your job better, but in such competitive job envy could be a problem.

Connor and Brandon are way more versatile actors than Miles. Of course success on acting not always depends of your range, finding roles that suit your abilities is a big part of success and of course luck

by Anonymousreply 134August 15, 2019 10:05 AM

I’m kind of feeling like this season is a make or break one for Mile’s career, I hope he’s up to the challenge.

by Anonymousreply 135August 15, 2019 10:47 AM

If I was a producer I would be highly confident in his performance playing tormented angst-ridden characters. That's what he's projecting as an individual. I'm sure him having bouts of depression in his younger years is what brings out that vulnerability. On the other hand, having Hannah and Jessica noticing him because of his "male gaze" was extremely far-fetched. Girls, please, how about fixing your gaydar!

by Anonymousreply 136August 15, 2019 11:12 AM

R126: No, you can't

R136: He is perfect for young and angsty roles, and there are a lot of that type of roles

by Anonymousreply 137August 15, 2019 1:05 PM

r137 Young angsty and gay

by Anonymousreply 138August 15, 2019 1:31 PM

I see Miles joining a Berlanti show on the CW if he didn't burn that bridge. Or maybe Mae can get him a job on Good Girls.

by Anonymousreply 139August 15, 2019 2:14 PM

R139 Burn what bridge? He doesn’t really have the physicality to be cast as a superhero.

by Anonymousreply 140August 15, 2019 2:22 PM

R134 I doubt Connor and Miles are competing for the same roles, they’re very different types.

by Anonymousreply 141August 15, 2019 3:42 PM

I could see Miles playing Connor's character in the first season he did of AMERICAN CRIME. Even CLOSET MONSTER. They were both sensitive, quiet types.

by Anonymousreply 142August 15, 2019 3:44 PM

Are there 13 Reasons Why we can no longer post on the Miles Heizer thread without paying?

by Anonymousreply 143August 15, 2019 10:50 PM

I'd like to have a taste of Miles......

by Anonymousreply 144August 15, 2019 11:17 PM

I hope this thread doesn't get put behind a paywall. :(

by Anonymousreply 145August 15, 2019 11:37 PM

R140 He has several shows that aren't about superheroes, such as Riverdale, Sabrina, All American, etc. Plus even the superhero shows need tech nerds or normal love interests.

Plus Berlanti will cast closeted guys in straight roles, which Miles' team would love.

by Anonymousreply 146August 15, 2019 11:46 PM

Maybe Miles could star in a US remake of that "London Spy" show (with better plotting).

by Anonymousreply 147August 15, 2019 11:54 PM

Connor and Miles should star in a gay Hart to Hart reboot.

by Anonymousreply 148August 15, 2019 11:56 PM

[Quote] They put [Miles Heizer, Part 3] behind a paywall?

Yes.

by Anonymousreply 149August 16, 2019 12:41 AM

I'm shocked Connor and Miles haven't acted together.

by Anonymousreply 150August 16, 2019 2:19 AM

R150 They save their acting collaborations for role play in bed.

by Anonymousreply 151August 16, 2019 2:39 AM

Miles looking beautiful as usual in the new 13RW promo

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by Anonymousreply 152August 16, 2019 2:41 AM

I wonder if Mile and Brandon avoid each other on set...

by Anonymousreply 153August 16, 2019 7:06 AM

They ditched the bitch! I thought she would pull a Mary Alice Young on us.

by Anonymousreply 154August 16, 2019 7:08 AM

Miles has probably started doing promotion for S3 of 13RW and that's why Connor went back to Toronto. Miles is working so they would get no time for each other now anyway.

by Anonymousreply 155August 16, 2019 7:57 AM

R153 I've also wondered what their relationship is like now. They have obviously had to act together, like the scenes where Alex saves Justin after he overdosed, so at least it doesn't affect their acting. But Miles totally ignores Brandon on social media after the break up and unfollowed him, as did Mae. Brandon seems to be the bigger person there.

I'd like to see them paired together for promo lol. They did a group of four last week, so if they do another group of four it could happen...

by Anonymousreply 156August 16, 2019 1:04 PM

R153: Both have boyfriends now, so at least it's supposed they are happy which should make things easier. The fact that broke up ages ago should make it easier too

by Anonymousreply 157August 16, 2019 1:06 PM

Miles still follows BF.

by Anonymousreply 158August 16, 2019 1:23 PM

[Quote] Brandon seems to be the bigger person there.

Not necessarily. More mindful of his image, maybe.

by Anonymousreply 159August 16, 2019 1:24 PM

I think Miles and Brandon are cordial. Miles still follows him on IG but Mae unfollowed - obviously Brandon dumped Miles and she won’t forgive.

Brandon was most likely Miles’ first boyfriend and you could tell Miles was VERY into him, kind of like how Connor is now so besotted with Miles. First loves can be dramatic- I’m sure if Miles ever dumps Connor there will be a chilly period as well.

by Anonymousreply 160August 16, 2019 1:51 PM

I can’t see Miles dumping Connor, he seems to needy and desperate.

by Anonymousreply 161August 16, 2019 2:42 PM

Based on what?

by Anonymousreply 162August 16, 2019 2:46 PM

r155 How do you know Connor's back in Toronto?

by Anonymousreply 163August 16, 2019 5:50 PM

R163 Because people up thread said Miles has been in several Insta stories with Connor nowhere to be seen. It makes sense that he would go back to Toronto if Miles is busy doing promo for 13RW.

by Anonymousreply 164August 16, 2019 5:54 PM

Miles used to be so much more openly affectionate when he was with Matt. Wonder what happened.

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by Anonymousreply 165August 16, 2019 6:48 PM

Matt looks more affectionate there than Miles...

by Anonymousreply 166August 16, 2019 6:56 PM

Miles always has the exact same blank but pleasant expression on his face. Connor alternates between maudlin and big dopey grin. He has more range.

by Anonymousreply 167August 16, 2019 7:08 PM

Connor looks really happy in most recent pics. He is very expressive

by Anonymousreply 168August 16, 2019 7:10 PM

Miles is like Colton. He seems to be adored by his friends but DL just can't see it.

by Anonymousreply 169August 16, 2019 7:15 PM

R169 Miles and Colton aren’t even in the same universe... Miles comes across as introspective, not obnoxious, and actually seems to have smart and interesting friends.

by Anonymousreply 170August 16, 2019 7:42 PM

Since when is Barbara Eden dumb and uninteresting?

by Anonymousreply 171August 16, 2019 7:50 PM

How did poor Barbra Eden and her walker get pulled into this mess?

by Anonymousreply 172August 16, 2019 8:15 PM

R165 I think it's just that there were a lot more pics of Miles & Matt that were shared with the wider world, which is hardly surprising given that Matt is a photographer, whereas we don't get to see anything more than the tiniest glimpse into the joint world of Miles & Connor.

by Anonymousreply 173August 16, 2019 9:08 PM

From the Miles thread that’s now paywalled:

[quote] Miles on the other hand is a mixed bag who denied his relationship with Brandon but has otherwise not really acted closeted before or after. I don't know if that was just a weird freakout on his or his team's end, or what it was.

I think by the time the fans started picking up that they were hooking up, they had already broken up, and Miles didn’t think it was worth it to come out over an ex - especially if he was dumped and things ended on sour terms. I think if someone flat out asked him if he was dating Connor, he would be honest.

by Anonymousreply 174August 16, 2019 10:36 PM

R174, They were still hanging out and interacting on social media pretty much right up until the denial. Then I think there was a little bit after, and then not at all.

And I am not sure he would answer at all, if asked right now about Connor. But that's not being dishonest.

by Anonymousreply 175August 17, 2019 12:39 AM

I hope it wasn't some stupid therapist who told Miles he's not ready to come out.

by Anonymousreply 176August 17, 2019 12:45 AM

Miles goes to Fubar to watch Drag Race. His closeting is a business decision.

by Anonymousreply 177August 17, 2019 12:47 AM

Which glass closet relationship would you rather be in? Connor and Miles or Brandon Flynn and Richard Madden?

Honestly the only ones I'm rooting for in either situation are Connor and Brandon. I actually think there is hope for Miles to come out eventually - but only time will tell. Madden, on the other hand, will never. The tip-toeing around his relationship with Brandon has just become more eyeroll-inducing by the day.

by Anonymousreply 178August 17, 2019 1:07 AM

Why not ask him?

by Anonymousreply 179August 17, 2019 1:13 AM

BF is an idiot. He's demonstrated that in more than one interview. Miles may be silent, and thus a coward to some, but it's his choice whether or not to share his orientation. And it's better to opt out of the conversation than to come ill prepared like his ex.

by Anonymousreply 180August 17, 2019 1:14 AM

Ok let's move on from discussing BF and RM. This isn't their thread, and we don't want to piss people off for talking about them and get this thread closed.

by Anonymousreply 181August 17, 2019 1:19 AM

When did DL turn into Study Hall? We should be able to say all we want!

by Anonymousreply 182August 17, 2019 1:48 AM

In terms of the whole thread closing business, I don't think people have to be concerned about what they post, only how threads are titled.

by Anonymousreply 183August 17, 2019 2:01 AM

R178 I’d rather be in the Connor and Miles relationship because Miles is clearly very out and very gay in his personal life already - he’s closeted because his management team is forcing him to be. Richard will definitely never come out and it’s not because someone is silencing him.

by Anonymousreply 184August 17, 2019 2:44 AM

RM is also a chicken hawk so BF will probably age out and be replaced (that is, if they actually have a LTR).

by Anonymousreply 185August 17, 2019 2:46 AM

I don't think Richard Madden is remotely in the same situation than Miles is.

I still remember the comments when Brandon came out and all were the type, oh, it came out the only of the two that can play straight.

Coming out will have zero effects on Miles career

R185: Brandon is 25, not exactly a barely legal twink

The glass closet only makes sense as transition to be publicly out and only works if both in a couple are in the glass closet or if one of them is not a celebrity.

IN both cases, with one of the members of the couple being out only can end on two conclusions, the closeted comes out or they break

by Anonymousreply 186August 17, 2019 9:26 AM

[Quote] Brandon is 25, not exactly a barely legal twink

Best part of a decade younger. That's 2 for 3 with RM.

by Anonymousreply 187August 17, 2019 2:23 PM

[Quote] Coming out will have zero effects on Miles career

You don't know that.

by Anonymousreply 188August 17, 2019 2:24 PM

If Miles comes out he'll run the risk of not getting the roles he's already not getting.

by Anonymousreply 189August 17, 2019 3:03 PM

[Quote] If Miles comes out he'll run the risk of not getting the roles he's already not getting.

You think you're being cute but you clearly don't pay attention to the career of out actors. NPH, Quinto, Bomer, Whishaw - none of their careers continued in the same vein after coming out. None of them need the salt of anyone's tears but the fact remains that openly gay actors don't get the same opportunities as their straight (or noncommital) counterparts.

by Anonymousreply 190August 17, 2019 3:09 PM

And yet, all of those work constantly.

by Anonymousreply 191August 17, 2019 3:11 PM

I never said they were destitute. They don't get the same kind of projects - and roles in those projects.

by Anonymousreply 192August 17, 2019 3:12 PM

I don’t think you can say Ben Whishaw’s career has been affected by him coming out. There’s no delineation between the roles he had before and the roles he’s had after.

by Anonymousreply 193August 17, 2019 3:19 PM

R193, everyone assumes British actors are gay, so coming out is unnecessary.

by Anonymousreply 194August 17, 2019 3:21 PM

R187 Eight years is not a decade

by Anonymousreply 195August 17, 2019 3:27 PM

I can say it. Has he done anything like "The Hour" since coming out, has he?

by Anonymousreply 196August 17, 2019 3:28 PM

[Quote] Eight years is not a decade

I presume English isn't your first language, otherwise you'd understand what "best part of a decade" means. It means the majority (not the highlight).

by Anonymousreply 197August 17, 2019 3:29 PM

Ben Whishaw had moved more towards supporting roles since coming out. His leading roles tend to be indie (and gay). Even a project like "Little Chris", where it's noted that his character "may well be in love with" the female lead - she's the main character, he isn't and romance isn't even explored in the storyline. The likes of "Perfume" is long in the past. That doesn't mean his career is in the toilet, far from it.

by Anonymousreply 198August 17, 2019 3:34 PM

One might say for NPH, Quinto, Bomer and Whishaw, that coming out and being gay became the most interesting thing about otherwise bland actors and if anything helped their flagging careers because of it.

by Anonymousreply 199August 17, 2019 4:08 PM

Bomer is the only bland one of that group.

by Anonymousreply 200August 17, 2019 4:26 PM

R190: That's not true, Wishaw career is doing perfectly fine, and the other two were on hit shows at the moment they came out, but they don't have any problem to find roles.

Expecting that coming out is getting a boost to your career is absurd, but it's not a career killer anymore. Actors have ups and downs, even A list actors

R198: His leading roles were indie too before coming out with the exception of The perfume, and he had lead roles on tv.

It's not like MIles is playing leading roles in big budget films anyway.

For some people here every excuse is perfect to not come out, and at the same time they call Richard Madden a coward for not doing it (when he is probably one of the ones who in fact has something to lose)

by Anonymousreply 201August 17, 2019 6:10 PM

I never said any of them had problems finding roles. I'm not sure what posts you're reading or having trouble comprehending...

by Anonymousreply 202August 17, 2019 6:13 PM

R202: If they don't have a problem finding roles where is the fucking problem for Miles to come out? because clearly i don't understand your logic.

by Anonymousreply 203August 17, 2019 6:17 PM

Who said there's a problem? Miles could come out and be fine, or he could be Joey Pollari and be underemployed. Actors' careers can stop stone dead or they can stay at the same level for decades, or go through peaks and troughs... An acting career is by definition a gamble. If you think Miles is being silly just because you think he pings like crazy, then you don't really understand the closet.

by Anonymousreply 204August 17, 2019 6:28 PM

Why would he need to come out in that many words in the first place? Would you imagine an actor having to come out as straight? That'd be dumb. So why would a gay actor need to do that?

I'd be happy with him living his life in a glass closet, for everyone to see, just as he seems to be doing at the moment, having a boyfriend, a husband, without the need to come out. And then, one day, in the middle of an interview, saying something like "yesterday my boyfriend cooked me the best meal I have had in my whole life", the interviewer would then ask "oh! so you have a boyfriend" and him answering "like I always said I am not commenting on my private life". Wouldn't that be a thrill?

by Anonymousreply 205August 17, 2019 11:16 PM

R205 lol

by Anonymousreply 206August 18, 2019 2:14 AM

In perfect world sure R205

by Anonymousreply 207August 18, 2019 2:22 AM

R205 Miles wants to come out which is why he is attracted to guys like Brandon and Connor who talk about their sexuality very publicly. He could easily just date another closet case but he never does. Also the way he talked about Love Simon and what he said in that short film he did with Brandon about wanting there to be safe spaces for LGBT youth to meet eachother... he very clearly wants to be out.

Miles is just one of those child actors who is extremely close to his management team and talks about them like they’re his family - just listen to him on the RuPaul podcast. They have probably told him it’s not a smart business decision and he doesn’t want to rock the boat. It’s not because he thinks he’ll be a huge movie star or anything, he’s just following orders. Some people are easily able to keep work and personal life separate and he seems like one of them.

by Anonymousreply 208August 18, 2019 2:37 AM

[Quote] Miles wants to come out which is why he is attracted to guys like Brandon and Connor who talk about their sexuality very publicly.

Miles was dating Connor for about a year before Connor said anything publically about his sexuality...

by Anonymousreply 209August 18, 2019 2:40 AM

R209 He may not have outright said it yet but Connor was always championing gay filmmakers, talking about his love for gay movies and happily accepting several gay roles... he has always been very comfortable talking about gay sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 210August 18, 2019 2:55 AM

In Jessup's own coming out post, he references discomfort over talking about his gay characters from a faux "anthropological" distance. Should I disbelieve what he wrote?

by Anonymousreply 211August 18, 2019 2:59 AM

[quote]In this home movie collection of gay men, memory serves as an act of hope, power, and above all, resilience.

So was this extremely short film with Miles and Brandon supposed to be them being themselves and not characters?

by Anonymousreply 212August 18, 2019 4:52 AM

The movie:

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by Anonymousreply 213August 18, 2019 5:14 AM

First, Joey Pollari is working exactly the same after coming out, in fact he has a project after Love, Simon, before Love, Simon he didn't work (at least on tv or film) since the end of american crime season 2, which is a shame because he is a way better actor than most actors of his age. Saying coming out affected his career is ridiculous.

Comparing coming out as gay to coming out as straight is absurd, you are straight by default, not only in HW but everywhere.

And Connor was uncomfortable in the closet, not with his sexual orientation, when he talks about having to talk about gay characters from a distance (exactly what Julian Morris did with the man in the orange shirt promo where he was "inspired" to play a gay character by his gay friends, and he said that without puking) he talks about the discomfort of not being open not about the discomfort being gay.

It's true that Miles dated Brandon and Connor before both came out, in fact Brandon came out when he was not dating Miles anymore, but i suppose he knew Connor was coming out way before he did it.

And i repeat, Miles is one of those actors coming out would not affect him at all, because the roles he couldn't get if he comes out are exactly the same roles they are not offering him right now

by Anonymousreply 214August 18, 2019 10:12 AM

Connor says in his coming out post that "it's ongoing". What do you think he means by that?

by Anonymousreply 215August 18, 2019 3:08 PM

r215 Connor means that coming out takes a long time to do, emotionally. It's not at all like stepping out of an actual closet. You have to adjust yourself to the idea of letting everyone close to you know that you're not who they consciously or unconsciously expected you to be. There's nothing about it that's simple, even if you grow up in an environment where people will accept you.

by Anonymousreply 216August 20, 2019 6:37 PM

Social media has been quiet for these two lately. :/

by Anonymousreply 217August 20, 2019 7:39 PM

Probably not for long since 13rw drops on Friday.

by Anonymousreply 218August 20, 2019 11:34 PM

No word from either of them. Maybe they broke up!

by Anonymousreply 219August 21, 2019 11:42 PM

Miles is busy promoting 13RW season 3

by Anonymousreply 220August 22, 2019 2:18 AM

The good news is that Miles has a nude sex scene in 13rw this season.

The bad news is that he's with a woman in it :(.

by Anonymousreply 221August 24, 2019 1:48 AM

They're still trying to sell him as straight?

by Anonymousreply 222August 24, 2019 2:26 AM

Yeah. They're doubling down on keeping his character str8. At least for the first 5 episodes. That's all I've seen so far.

I can easily see the director shaking his head during that scene and saying to himself, "Oh my god, can't he even ACT like he's fucked a girl before?"

by Anonymousreply 223August 24, 2019 2:35 AM

I really wish I could screenshot Netflix. There's a nice shot of Miles' ass (or it may be an ass double) in episode 5 of the new season. Too bad it's right after a straight sex scene.

by Anonymousreply 224August 25, 2019 2:06 AM

Oh good, someone else did

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by Anonymousreply 225August 25, 2019 2:07 AM

I'm 99% sure it's Miles.

by Anonymousreply 226August 25, 2019 4:05 AM

Maybe Connor will do nude scenes in Locke & Key

by Anonymousreply 227August 25, 2019 4:58 AM

Wonder if Connor will have a straight sex scene in that show

by Anonymousreply 228August 25, 2019 5:05 AM

Connor's comment on Miles' latest post is a little weird.

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by Anonymousreply 229August 25, 2019 9:22 PM

Surprised that this wasn't posted.

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by Anonymousreply 230August 31, 2019 3:52 AM

Wonder if Miles and Connor were together recently

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by Anonymousreply 231August 31, 2019 3:52 AM

Is Connor still with Miles?

by Anonymousreply 232August 31, 2019 5:57 AM

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by Anonymousreply 233September 2, 2019 3:07 PM

Miles & Brandon have obviously got past their previous issues, maybe because they're both happily partnered up.

by Anonymousreply 234September 3, 2019 7:00 AM

Tommy Dorfman posted this. I think it's new.

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by Anonymousreply 235September 4, 2019 2:12 PM

R231 Connor appears to still be in LA (or has maybe returned to LA again after a brief return to Canada?) since he's posted several pics of himself with one of Miles' dogs on his IG in the past few days:

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by Anonymousreply 236September 7, 2019 6:24 PM

He's probably staying with Miles.

by Anonymousreply 237September 7, 2019 6:26 PM

R237 He seems to be living with Miles full time if the pics are anything to go by.

by Anonymousreply 238September 8, 2019 8:03 AM

Connor takes more pics with Miles' pups than Miles does.

by Anonymousreply 239September 9, 2019 9:24 PM

R239 That's because he's using them as a surrogate for Miles pics - i.e. he can't publically post pics of Miles, so he posts pics of the pups instead.

by Anonymousreply 240September 10, 2019 8:21 AM

Is Miles shooting the 4th season of 13rw now?

by Anonymousreply 241September 10, 2019 4:33 PM

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by Anonymousreply 242September 11, 2019 1:33 AM

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by Anonymousreply 243September 11, 2019 8:35 PM

R243 Cry for help?

by Anonymousreply 244September 11, 2019 10:58 PM

R241, yeah he is is. Which means he’s staying temporarily somewhere in northern ca for filming, and very likely Connor has been staying with him there. Miles did have to fly to NY for the Coach event this week, and Connor evidently stayed back with the pups. Guessing by now they’ve been reunited, though.

Couple things worth noting- 1) Miles did a short interview at the Coach event, which should really have been linked here (fuck paywalls). Confirmed his dogs’ names are Crouton and Girl. He also looked really great at that event 2) one of the new 13RW actors, Tyler Barnhardt, did an ama on reddit and responded to a question about cast members’ significant others coming to set and affirmed they do. He also follows Connor on IG and has commented and/or liked plenty of his posts, especially involving Miles or the dogs. Just more stuff to reflect how little they’re trying to hide.

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by Anonymousreply 245September 15, 2019 2:00 PM

R245 link to part 2 of the interview

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by Anonymousreply 246September 15, 2019 2:02 PM

Miles is as good at hiding it as ever.

by Anonymousreply 247September 16, 2019 7:47 AM

I really like the way he talks and presents himself during the interview at the Coach event. Seems like he is comfortable being himself. Not hiding his gayness at all here.

by Anonymousreply 248September 16, 2019 12:11 PM

This thread has been paywalled. :(

by Anonymousreply 249September 18, 2019 11:43 AM
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