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I've been fucking my best friend's husband behind her back.

We've been friends since college, so around 12 years.

She's one of the first people I actually came out to at age 18 and she was fully supportive. We went out to gay bars, moved in together for awhile, told each other everything.

Anyhow, around four years ago she met a guy and they started dating.

In the beginning, I saw him like an older brother. Totally different from me. Former jock, into sports and beer. He still wears his old letterman jacket. We didn't have much of a conversation when she wasn't around and I think he only tolerated me because I was his girlfriend's best friend. But then the more I hung out with them, the more at ease he became with me.

About a year ago, he got a job that's 5 minutes away from where I live. So we would go out for dinner or he would stop by after work for a beer.

One day we both got really drunk and he made a move at me. I was really surprised because I never suspected anything, but I was also drunk and he's hot, so we ended up making out and I blew him. Long story short, he's been coming over after work at least once a week to fuck. My best friend doesn't know. She works way on the other side of the city and thinks it's swell that we hang out without her.

I feel guilty but I won't lie. I really enjoy the sex.

by Anonymousreply 26003/14/2019

WHORE!

by Anonymousreply 103/07/2019

You're a prince, OP, and so's the husband.

by Anonymousreply 203/07/2019

You’re a whore, darling

by Anonymousreply 303/07/2019

So your plan is to ruin three lives?

by Anonymousreply 403/07/2019

Book the Jerry Springer show.

by Anonymousreply 503/07/2019

The good part of me wants to stop, R4, but the other part of me really, really likes it.

by Anonymousreply 603/07/2019

Have you ever fucked at their place?

by Anonymousreply 703/07/2019

You know your friendship is over now, right?

by Anonymousreply 803/07/2019

What’s the name of this porno?

by Anonymousreply 903/07/2019

No, R7. They have a kid and I would just feel too guilty and awful about it..

by Anonymousreply 1003/07/2019

Keep it simple. Than when he cheats on you with another man then you and his wife can divorce him and have bitter thought about him

by Anonymousreply 1103/07/2019

We seem to be getting a lot of these "gays behaving badly" threads now. Seems like a targeted homophobic campaign or a homophobic individual spreading lies.

by Anonymousreply 1203/07/2019

“One day we both got really drunk and he made a move at me. I was really surprised ”

Get a fanfic blog, gurlfren.

by Anonymousreply 1303/07/2019

what move did he make, dear? won’t you tell us all about it?

by Anonymousreply 1403/07/2019

You should at least warn her that you think her husband's gay.

by Anonymousreply 1503/07/2019

1.5 / 10

by Anonymousreply 1603/07/2019

There IS no "good part" of you, OP. You and hubby are pond scum.

by Anonymousreply 1703/07/2019

Oh, a kid does make it messy, R10. Best to avoid any marital bed play.

by Anonymousreply 1803/07/2019

Dear MANdate Reader's Forum,

I never dreamed I'd be writing to you, but you'll never guess what I've been doing behind my best female friend's back with her husband...

by Anonymousreply 1903/07/2019

OP, I'm glad you're not my friend.

by Anonymousreply 2003/07/2019

We were sitting on lawn chairs and he had his arm over the back of my chair. As we kept drinking, his hand lowered itself until I felt his hands on my pants, R7. I didn't move or react so he put his hands down my asscrack.

by Anonymousreply 2103/07/2019

You would!

by Anonymousreply 2203/07/2019

what a charming story.

by Anonymousreply 2303/07/2019

Maybe the baby is actually yours?

by Anonymousreply 2403/07/2019

R21 aka OP

And... and... what happened next?!

by Anonymousreply 2503/07/2019

doesn’t she smell his dick?

by Anonymousreply 2603/07/2019

This is a lie. Married guys are all bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 2703/07/2019

What has he said since you have been fucking? What was the convo after the first time? Did he say he is gay, bi or what? Is he topping you (I'd imagine in the fanfic he is at least)? Bareback? Spill.

by Anonymousreply 2803/07/2019

I put my hand on his bulge and he was rock hard. We went inside to my couch and made out. I sucked him off until he came. The next day, I woke up so hungover and I don't even know how he got home. I thought he was going to be full of regrets and it would be awkward, but he texted me the next evening and told me: That was fun!

by Anonymousreply 2903/07/2019

I would advise you to drop him, but he’s straight...which means he’s masculine. So, maybe just keep on keeping on?

by Anonymousreply 3003/07/2019

And your point in posting this here is what? You're a revolting person, OP, and your friend deserves better than you and her husband. I wouldn't treat a stranger the way you're treating your supposed 'best friend'.

by Anonymousreply 3103/07/2019

This is why they hate us.

by Anonymousreply 3203/07/2019

-7/10

by Anonymousreply 3303/07/2019

I know, R31. I feel guilty and terrible, but another part tells me that it's just sex. We don't have an emotional connection.

by Anonymousreply 3403/07/2019

r34 Again, does he top you bareback? What does he say about your affair?

by Anonymousreply 3503/07/2019

This. Never. Happened.

by Anonymousreply 3603/07/2019

You're an awful "friend."

by Anonymousreply 3703/07/2019

[quote]he’s hot.

by Anonymousreply 3803/07/2019

Trust a snake before you trust a homosexual male. If this is true, you deserve the worst life throws at you.

by Anonymousreply 3903/07/2019

R21, what a romantic fella.

by Anonymousreply 4003/07/2019

10/10 EST score

by Anonymousreply 4103/07/2019

I love the lawn chair part. Then the new job conveniently so close. The brewskies until inhibitions dropped. Ummm I just watched that video.

by Anonymousreply 4203/07/2019

The original OP does not have the ring of truth. And I usually believe these stories when they’re believable. I can’t stand it when stupid DLers screech “EST!” or “This. Never. Happened” when a story is obviously true.

But this one really does sound made up and very lame.

by Anonymousreply 4303/07/2019

He fucks me raw, R33. I rim him, lick his balls and taint.

by Anonymousreply 4403/07/2019

Is their kid hot, OP?

Since boundaries don’t seem to be an issue for you...

by Anonymousreply 4503/07/2019

I am dead serious, R43.

by Anonymousreply 4603/07/2019

What's the problem?

by Anonymousreply 4703/07/2019

If you are dead serious, OP, then you and your rationalizations really are despicable. Go away.

by Anonymousreply 4803/07/2019

OP: Die in a greasefire for the betterment of mankind.

by Anonymousreply 4903/07/2019

So he comes over after a full day at work, which probably includes dropping a deuce in the break room, and you eat his ass & taint out? The trouble with trolls like you, OP, is the more you write the more implausible you sound.

by Anonymousreply 5003/07/2019

What does he look like?

by Anonymousreply 5103/07/2019

[quote]I would advise you to drop him, but he’s straight...which means he’s masculine.

Datalounge logic

by Anonymousreply 5203/07/2019

Wow, if this is remotely true, then you and he are both really awful people. I mean, I am glad I don't know you kind of people.

I hope the wife finds out. Although I suspect there is more to this story and she might already know or suspect.

by Anonymousreply 5303/07/2019

"Why don't you get yourself a single man, and leave the married ones alone."

by Anonymousreply 5403/07/2019

He showers first, R50.

by Anonymousreply 5503/07/2019

This never happened

by Anonymousreply 5603/07/2019

What I wouldnt give to huff this masculine straight man’s rank taint, after a day at the office.

by Anonymousreply 5703/07/2019

With friends like you, who needs enemies?

by Anonymousreply 5803/07/2019

If this is true, you don’t matter to him. His wife and child do, and you’re just something on the side. Get a life, maybe?

by Anonymousreply 5903/07/2019

[quote]He still wears his old letterman jacket.

This is my favorite detail. As if OP's knowledge of "jocks" is based entirely on movies made in the 80s.

by Anonymousreply 6003/07/2019

I mean, she's dated guys who she knew I had a crush on but ended up being straight.

by Anonymousreply 6103/07/2019

Anyone who wears their letterman jacket after high school is a loser. (Much like a 22 year old with their high school grad cap tassel still hanging from their rear view mirror) Hide a camera and send her the footage of your encounter. You’re doing her a favor.

by Anonymousreply 6203/07/2019

She probably suspects.

by Anonymousreply 6303/07/2019

You're an asshole and a homewrecker.

by Anonymousreply 6403/07/2019

Terrible est. They used to be better.

by Anonymousreply 6503/07/2019

Right, so he's ultra-jock straight trade who's there to be serviced by you, but he makes sure to shower first? Like I said, OP, the more you write, the implausible you sound. r65 is right.

by Anonymousreply 6603/07/2019

Believe it or not, I don't care R66. It's true and needed somewhere to vent.

by Anonymousreply 6703/07/2019

I'm envious, OP. Don't pay attention to the morality queens.

by Anonymousreply 6803/07/2019

So he's gay?

by Anonymousreply 6903/07/2019

I just can't. I hope she finds out and ruins your life and makes wretched your destiny.

by Anonymousreply 7003/07/2019

Which soap opera is this from?

by Anonymousreply 7103/07/2019

she deserves it!

by Anonymousreply 7203/07/2019

lmao at lawn chair seduction. so romantic!

by Anonymousreply 7303/07/2019

No one is impressed nasty whore OP!

by Anonymousreply 7403/07/2019

I hope she finds out and kicks OP's ass.

by Anonymousreply 7503/07/2019

With friends like you OP and a husband like him she needs no enemies

by Anonymousreply 7603/07/2019

Nifty story.

by Anonymousreply 7703/07/2019

Useless w/out photos, toots.

by Anonymousreply 7803/07/2019

If she's a big fag hag, she's probably reading DL right now.

by Anonymousreply 7903/07/2019

I cringe knowing people like you exist in real life, OP.

by Anonymousreply 8003/07/2019

[quote] He fucks me raw, [R33]. I rim him, lick his balls and taint.

That's useful. If his wife asks you if you've been up to any naughty business with her husband, you can honestly reply, "TAINT misbehavin'!"

by Anonymousreply 8103/07/2019

I've been there for her through a lot of tough personal timesand helped her through a LOT. I'm not all awful.

by Anonymousreply 8203/07/2019

I believe Op. Ive had way too many "straight" husbands of friends hit on me to automatically discount his story. I also did them if they were hot,but I usually quit being friends with them afterwards because I felt like a slime ball. It was fun,but it IS a shitty thing to do.

by Anonymousreply 8303/07/2019

Lesson to fag hags Never introduce your husband to your fem nasty sex addicted bottom slut friend.

by Anonymousreply 8403/07/2019

OP just trying to justify his actions

by Anonymousreply 8503/07/2019

This didn't happen. Bowing out of thread now.

by Anonymousreply 8603/07/2019

I did this with a friend once. Felt guilty as hell though.

by Anonymousreply 8703/07/2019

OMG OP i hope he uses protection! I wouldn't want you getting in the family way! After all you are a Catholic and won't have many choices. He won't marry you either. Men never marry homewreckers

by Anonymousreply 8803/07/2019

you are not a friend, never mind a best friend.

by Anonymousreply 8903/07/2019

Ron's Days of out lives R71

by Anonymousreply 9003/07/2019

I wanna bum you too. Can you do a threeway?

by Anonymousreply 9103/07/2019

Tell the truth, OP. It’s not just that the sex itself is good. Part of you is turned on by the fact that you shouldnt be doing it, right?

by Anonymousreply 9203/07/2019

She'll find out. Fraus always know or find out.

by Anonymousreply 9303/07/2019

When he kisses you, you're tasting your best friend's pussy OP

by Anonymousreply 9403/07/2019

Fake news!

by Anonymousreply 9503/07/2019

Oh please, all the outrage on this thread.

I say congrats OP - way to put that frau in her place.

Now you need to see if he will put your dick in his mouth. Keep moving the goal posts.

by Anonymousreply 9603/07/2019

Atta girl, OP!

by Anonymousreply 9703/07/2019

I like your style, R96. OP says he feels guilty tho

by Anonymousreply 9803/07/2019

I'm so proud of you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 9903/07/2019

OP is the mistress.

by Anonymousreply 10003/07/2019

Gross.

by Anonymousreply 10103/07/2019

He's tan, stocky and muscled, hairy, half Cuban, R51.

by Anonymousreply 10203/07/2019

OP, you are a gift that keeps on giving.

by Anonymousreply 10303/07/2019

Hey OP, I know you have been there for her in the past. who will be there for her when she finds out the two men in her life disrespected her to this level?

by Anonymousreply 10403/07/2019

Did you do it while DealDash.com came on tv?

by Anonymousreply 10503/07/2019

OP got fingered on a lawn chair and now she's in LUV.

by Anonymousreply 10603/07/2019

You are a terrible person OP and don't deserve to have anyone love you

by Anonymousreply 10703/07/2019

Maybe she knows already, at least subliminally, and is actually really OK w/it.

by Anonymousreply 10803/07/2019

“He still wears his old letterman jacket.”

This story is not true, but anyone who would still wear his old letterman jacket over 20 years after high school is fat and has a small dick.

by Anonymousreply 10903/07/2019

Losing a friend over a piece of dick isn't worth it.

by Anonymousreply 11003/07/2019

Who cares? Enjoy it. Just never tell her or anyone else. She's probably tired of fucking him anyway. Which explain why he's ball deep in your gay ass.

by Anonymousreply 11103/07/2019

#FriendshipOver

by Anonymousreply 11203/07/2019

IThere's potential here, OP, but creative writing also involves finessing the details. Yours are still at the "trite and jejune" stage when it comes to that. There's still room for improvement before the end of tne term.

Grade: C+

by Anonymousreply 11303/07/2019

She's been the other woman before when she dated a guy with a girlfriend too.

by Anonymousreply 11403/07/2019

With a friend like OP, who needs enemies?

by Anonymousreply 11503/07/2019

I wouldn't be able to look my friend in the eye if I did something like this. You sound sociopathic, OP.

by Anonymousreply 11603/07/2019

Frau alert at R116.

by Anonymousreply 11703/07/2019

OP if you haven't had "the talk" with your piece, you better. Sit his half Cuban ass down and tell him "This never happened" and he better not EVER decide to "go to confession" with his wife. If he and his wife need to discuss THEIR problems he better leave you out of it. You're not the cause of anything. He made a pass at you, and being a good Gay boy you were a generous friend to him.

by Anonymousreply 11803/07/2019

Do you slobber all over his wedding band too, OP?

by Anonymousreply 11903/07/2019

The first couple posts I pictures this as a Lesbian merry-go-round and it was a better EST.

by Anonymousreply 12003/07/2019

Shithead alert at R117!

by Anonymousreply 12103/07/2019

I can't imagine any guy being hot enough that I'd screw over a best friend. But that's just me.

by Anonymousreply 12203/07/2019

You need props for not saying "anyways" when you launch into your dreary made up passion play.

by Anonymousreply 12303/07/2019

If you enjoy the sex, who gives a shit?

by Anonymousreply 12403/07/2019

So them having a kid only makes you feel guilty if you were to have sex at their house??

by Anonymousreply 12503/07/2019

OP = asshole

by Anonymousreply 12603/07/2019

I believe you, OP, because I experienced a much more limited version of your affair. I got drunk at a party where my female best friend's husband also got drunk. I was cordial with the husband, as he was with me. We hung out, usually in groups, at bars, restaurants, and other public places. I never felt judged by him for being gay. The party was at one of our mutual friend's place. My best friend was out of town for work and encouraged her husband to go without her. I went to use the restroom, and he followed me in. After I peed, I was washing my hands while he peed. He looked at me in the mirror and said he was so horny that he would let me blow him. Without thinking, I sat on the toilet and sucked him off. Afterward, he said never to tell anyone. I was okay with that.

Until his conscience took over, and he told his wife what happened. I lost my best friend of eight years and most of the circle of friends I cherished. As somebody else said, this is why they hate us. I was the only out gay guy in the group and it was easily the happiest time of my life, having great friends who were fun to be around and supportive. I ended up moving away. YMMV.

by Anonymousreply 12703/07/2019

[quote]r21 We were sitting on lawn chairs and he had his arm over the back of my chair. As we kept drinking, his hand lowered itself until I felt his hands on my pants, [R7]. I didn't move or react so he put his hands down my asscrack.

As a member of the Maiden Aunts Fireside Detective Assembly, I'm having trouble picturing this - -

by Anonymousreply 12803/07/2019

Keep it classy.

by Anonymousreply 12903/07/2019

OP is a jackass trying to justify his cheating by explaining how he's helped his friend out before. How much could you have helped her out that you think sleeping with her husband is OK?

by Anonymousreply 13003/07/2019

[quote]He's tan, stocky and muscled, hairy, half Cuban,

Is this the dude OP?

by Anonymousreply 13103/07/2019

OP getting fingerbanged on a lawn chair.

by Anonymousreply 13203/07/2019
by Anonymousreply 13303/07/2019

There is no good part of you.

by Anonymousreply 13403/07/2019

People behave badly, r12. I don’t know if this scenario is true, but there are plenty of stories of women having affairs with their best friend’s husband/boyfriend or her boyfriend’s friends, or men doing the same to their wives/girlfriends. It’s part of the human condition, and has nothing to do with being gay.

by Anonymousreply 13503/07/2019

You are now a bad person, OP.

by Anonymousreply 13603/07/2019

Are you still cheating with him?

by Anonymousreply 13703/07/2019

I experienced a lesbian version of this and it doesnt end well.

by Anonymousreply 13803/07/2019

This was done to me. I never recovered. I could never trust again.

by Anonymousreply 13903/07/2019

R139 me too.

by Anonymousreply 14003/07/2019

She will find out eventually . Impulse will take over and her husband will angrily reveal the affair to throw in her face and hurt her the next time they get into a huge blowup about something.

by Anonymousreply 14103/07/2019

OP, does the whole relationship still consist of you blowing him?

by Anonymousreply 14203/07/2019

keep your legs closes to married men slut!

by Anonymousreply 14303/07/2019

OP is not an asshole. He's a cunt.

by Anonymousreply 14403/07/2019

r142 has it: is your friend-in-law not sucking your cock, OP?

by Anonymousreply 14503/07/2019

I helped her out financially, R130. And no I don't think that is justification.

by Anonymousreply 14603/07/2019

You're a lousy friend.

by Anonymousreply 14703/07/2019

So he drives you to the airport a few times...

Does that mean he can't let your husband fingering him in your lawn furniture?

by Anonymousreply 14803/07/2019

Agree with R78. Post some photos.

by Anonymousreply 14903/07/2019

OP's mother must be so proud.

by Anonymousreply 15003/07/2019

Nothing in this true. But I like a decent story.

by Anonymousreply 15103/07/2019

I can't even imagine how disgusting OP's lawn chairs are.

by Anonymousreply 15203/07/2019

I wonder how many other guys have had the privilege of this "straight" best friends husband up their ass raw. Not like he would lie to you about it.

by Anonymousreply 15303/07/2019

[quote]There's potential here, OP, but creative writing also involves finessing the details. Yours are still at the "trite and jejune" stage when it comes to that. There's still room for improvement before the end of tne term.

^THIS. It's fucking embarrassing that some of you cunts fail to see the most obvious ESTs for what they are.

by Anonymousreply 15403/07/2019

Since he's half Cuban, I would just like to say that Miami has the highest rate of new hiv infections: the second highest group is Latino men.

Your friend should dump both of you.

by Anonymousreply 15503/07/2019

Cuban men are very bi.

by Anonymousreply 15603/07/2019

OP is nasty

by Anonymousreply 15703/07/2019

You shrieking EST! queens are the true death of Datalounge. Nobody wants to share anything anymore because there's a brigade of EST! shriekers as soon as somebody posts anything. That's how we lost having any actual insider gossip.

by Anonymousreply 15803/07/2019

My Cuban friend who has always been gay has a father that is still married to his mother with his male "friend" on the side who lives with them. Father still claims he is straight, mother acts like nothing is happening. Cuban culture I guess.

Family get together like birthdays are awkward because the "friend" is always leering at all the younger guys.

by Anonymousreply 15903/07/2019

Why is the OP the asshole and homewrecker? Actually, the straight dude hit on him. Isn’t he the real POS? Both of them are involved in this... but anyway OP you will be in for a world of hurt if you feel yourself getting attached or emotionally involved. I’m speaking from experience.

by Anonymousreply 16003/07/2019

R158, in what alternate universe does this desperate-hausfrauen tale come close to "actual insider gossip"? We shriek because this tale obviously *is* the handiwork of an EST.

by Anonymousreply 16103/07/2019

Most of DL is a damned EST, R161.

by Anonymousreply 16203/07/2019

R162 just told me that Santa Claus isn't real.

by Anonymousreply 16303/07/2019

The part about the letterman jacket literally had me LOL'ing

by Anonymousreply 16403/07/2019

Women (and lots of gay men) don't understand the difference between love and lust. If this is true, then you're fulfilling something in his wife (your friend) can't/won't give him, and if you're being safe about it (so she doesn't get an STI), I say keep going! It's not like you two are going to have kids together. It's just sex.

by Anonymousreply 16503/07/2019

Things will take a craptastic turn when hubby brings home the raging STD you gave him.

by Anonymousreply 16603/07/2019

-1,000,000,000/10

by Anonymousreply 16703/07/2019

Not OP's fault.

by Anonymousreply 16803/07/2019

You're a terrible friend.

by Anonymousreply 16903/07/2019

It's true this happens amongst heterosexuals as well. "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Il Cubano will cheat on you, or has already done so. You gave up the opportunity to move ahead karmically.

by Anonymousreply 17003/07/2019

Agree with R170.

by Anonymousreply 17103/07/2019

Cunt.

by Anonymousreply 17203/07/2019

OP, this Cuban husband of your best friend... wasn’t he your cousin?

by Anonymousreply 17303/07/2019

Oh, so this whole thread is somebody's porn fantasy, and it's really sadly regressive.

Oh, well. Shit happens.

by Anonymousreply 17403/07/2019

She knows.

by Anonymousreply 17503/07/2019

What will be playing on O.P.'s iPod when the body is discovered: [italic]The Bitch Is Back[/italic].

by Anonymousreply 17603/07/2019

I hope OP's best friend is Lorena Bobbit.

by Anonymousreply 17703/07/2019

I hope this is an EST, but usually I hate, loathe, and detest the EST Shriekers. Are they that incapable of having fun that they can't enjoy a simple confection of a story?

by Anonymousreply 17803/07/2019

Similar story to OP but it's been going on for 20 years.

We fuck about twice a week , sometimes three.

It's an arrangement that works for us but not everybody, I guess.

No one feels used, I don't pine for him to leave his wife and kids etc.

It's just the sex.

by Anonymousreply 17903/07/2019

R165 If it was only about lust the husband would have found another situation which has less of a chance of being discovered than this. Doing it with your partner's best friend is more about enjoying the risk and enjoying having a secret that would hurt the partner if found out. OP it sounds more like you're being used and you lack self respect.

by Anonymousreply 18003/07/2019

OP and the best friend's husband sound like sociopaths.

by Anonymousreply 18103/07/2019

R179, it's been going on for TWO DECADES -- fucking 2x/3x-week, no less -- and yet you deny the fact that you've given up your adulthood because you're in love with an emotionally unavailable man? Wait: never mind. OBVIOUSLY you're denying lots of facts here, e.g. your "neverending flame" simply being "just sex." (As if normal couples who've been together for 20 years - regardless of orientation - still fuck three times a week!)

by Anonymousreply 18203/07/2019

Nah.

by Anonymousreply 18303/07/2019

Asshole.

by Anonymousreply 18403/07/2019

And why do you say you're "fuckng your best friend's husband?" Isn't he fucking you? Why not change things up a bit? Tie him up, screw his cherry ass and savage his throat with numerous, pulsating hickies. Then, you get to console your best friend about her husband's horrific indiscretions. Their kid overhears, goes catatonic, and requires a lifetime of institutions and shock therapy.

by Anonymousreply 18503/07/2019

[quote]She's been the other woman before when she dated a guy with a girlfriend too.

Marriage is on a whole different level than dating, you're not comparing apples to apples OP

by Anonymousreply 18603/07/2019

Well R182, I'm just telling you how it is.

Yes, two decades.

We have our own lives.

I have no interest in a relationship with him. He'd be a handful.

Good Friends with benefits is enough.

by Anonymousreply 18703/07/2019

Some would say it's plenty. [italic]Brava![/italic]

by Anonymousreply 18803/07/2019

I believe You OP. Like R83 and R179 I’ve had similar.

A longtime friend is a very attractive, sexy woman. She seems to have a thing for bicurious guys. We hit it off the first week we met at work. We were back east, and she and her (very macho, hot) left coast, property developer husband, would take turns flying cross country two weekends a month to be together. He eventually relocated.

Like OP, I mainly hung out with her. He came along for ocassional films or meals together. One night, about a year in, after too many glasses of wine at a restaurant, I felt his leg pressed, first lightly, then more boldly, against mine, under the table. I froze. Then pressed back. He rubbed my knee. We, all three, were drunk.

Over the next month he started dropping by, alone, initially to give me property advice . . .

He was somewhat abusive. They eventually divorced.

A year later she began dating a real jock of a guy. We met and all three became friends. Six months later . . .

by Anonymousreply 18903/07/2019

How Gallic

by Anonymousreply 19003/07/2019

People who say it's just sex but lie to their partners are the worst cowards ever.

If its no big deal and just sex than explain yourself to your partner instead of conning them.

by Anonymousreply 19103/07/2019

Then*

by Anonymousreply 19203/07/2019

I mean this is probably not true but if it is then op and the guy are truly horrible. Not to sound naive or hysterical or anything, I know stuff like this does happen (even if this one didn't) and seriously if you know there are kids involved you are truly fucked in the head if you choose to do shit like this. Obviously the kid's dad is even worse, but still.

by Anonymousreply 19303/07/2019

And to clarify, the kid is obviously not the only reason this is horrible.

by Anonymousreply 19403/07/2019

R193 I think OP hates his girl friend, and maybe all women, and is getting his jollies by cuckolding her. Fucking to say "Fuck you." Pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 19503/07/2019

OP, you broke the girlfriend code.

Kiss that friendship goodbye for good

by Anonymousreply 19603/07/2019

OP sez: "I'm not all awful."

r197 sez: "Yes, you are." Like the Supreme Court's definition of pornography, you are "utterly without redeeming social value."

by Anonymousreply 19703/07/2019

Hilarious to see so many replies telling OP he's scum, but if anyone of you had a hot bi curious jock on your couch putting moves on you, you can bet your ass you'd do the same. I would, but I'm a ho so idc

by Anonymousreply 19803/07/2019

I liked this story much better when OP posted it on NIFTY about a year ago. Much more detail about the straight guy and his cock and the whole seduction scene and him breeding you and all that.

Though even then I thought the "letterman jacket" bit rang false because you know, WTF wears their high school letterman jacket once they've graduated, let alone ten years after they've graduated.

by Anonymousreply 19903/07/2019

R196 OP wouldn't know a code if it bit him on his scrawny ass.

by Anonymousreply 20003/07/2019

Hilarious how R198 thinks everyone is as cockstruck as he, to the extent of undermining a friendship.

by Anonymousreply 20103/07/2019

The majority of posts must come from fraus.

1) OP’s Story is obviously a fake, but a fake story that triggers every frau’s worst nightmare. Another man screwing their husbands.

2) DataLounge is a whore’s dent. Sex negative Nancys need not come to preach

by Anonymousreply 20203/07/2019

I was on Op's side until he said the guy was half cuban,then I knew it was bullshit. Im related to damn near half of Miami (mother is cuban) and Ive slept with plenty of Cuban men,and Im hear to tell you that most of them are uncut and average at best. Also,Cuban men are very passionate,but they are also assholes and selfish lovers. The one thing I did like during my cuban phase was they talk a lot of shit in bed . Very verbal.

by Anonymousreply 20303/07/2019

"Another man screwing their husbands. "

Hooray for polyandry!

by Anonymousreply 20403/07/2019

OP, you need to die.

by Anonymousreply 20503/07/2019

"Very verbal"

Well, different strokes...Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 20603/07/2019

R191 if your spouse doesn’t agree that sex can ever be “just sex”, then you’re not going to be able to explain yourself. They will always see it as a betrayal.

by Anonymousreply 20703/07/2019

They did it behind the wife's back, that's the problem r207. Whether they have feelings for each other is a moot point. It's dishonesty.

by Anonymousreply 20803/07/2019

Your a disgusting prick

by Anonymousreply 20903/07/2019

I can understand if they did it one time, on the spur of a drunken moment, but then to do it so frequently afterwards is the hard part to accept

by Anonymousreply 21003/07/2019

r32 they don't hate us, they hate you. I can't say that I blame them!

by Anonymousreply 21103/07/2019

He sounds like a real Romeo.

by Anonymousreply 21203/07/2019

OP's friend is Lucy Ricardo.

by Anonymousreply 21303/07/2019

Her reaction after finding out.

by Anonymousreply 21403/07/2019

Evil.

by Anonymousreply 21503/08/2019

What's a "whore's dent" r202?

by Anonymousreply 21603/08/2019

[quote]r180 If it was only about lust the husband would have found another situation ... OP, it sounds more like you're being used

He chose you out of all the world, Rosemary - out of all the women in the whole world, he chose you.

by Anonymousreply 21703/08/2019

r216 it’s where you swipe your credit card, rose.

by Anonymousreply 21803/08/2019

[quote]Trust a snake before you trust a homosexual male.

This applies to all other people. tbh.

by Anonymousreply 21903/08/2019

pressure him for a threesome

by Anonymousreply 22003/08/2019

Film one of your dalliances, Throw a marvelous anniversary party in their honor. After a cryptic toast, play the film on a large projection screen to delight your guests. Smirk maniacally while you bask in the shock and tears.

by Anonymousreply 22103/08/2019

I hope your friend catches you both in the act and has a fucking garden shears in her grasp.

OFF WITH THEIR DICKS!

by Anonymousreply 22203/08/2019

Women/wife's just dont put out that much after a while for their men.

They don't know how to really pleasure a man like a fellow man.

That's why some of us have these long standing, no obligation, sexual relationships with a married man that last a long time.

Yeah, for me 20 years does seem a long time now that I think about it, but it'd just part of my life.

Is it a significant part?

Not in an emotional sense in the slightest.

It's merely a compartmentalised part of my sexual outlet that is only known by the two of us.

None of my friends of the same vintage have a clue about this.

They'd be shocked, I suppose.

by Anonymousreply 22303/08/2019

What if she is like I have AIDS ..then both of you have it tooo

by Anonymousreply 22403/08/2019

The OP’s story is actually not that bad, like many stories of infidelity, human beings are complicated. Men are complicated.

OP, just be discreet, and know that perhaps is best to cut your friendship with her. At least save her the humiliation of not enteracting with her and their family(if there is one) while you are screwing the hot husband.

by Anonymousreply 22503/08/2019

Make up your mind, OP. Is the father or husband of your "best friend?

Datalounge post: "I've been fucking my best friend's father behind her back. We've been friends since college, so around 12 years.

She's one of the first people I actually came out to at age 18 and she was fully supportive. We went out to gay bars, moved in together for awhile, told each other everything.

Anyhow, around four years ago we started playing tennis with her father.

In the beginning, I saw him like an older brother. Totally different from me. Former jock, into sports and beer. He still wears his old letterman jacket. We didn't have much of a conversation when she wasn't around and I think he only tolerated me because I was his daughter's best friend. But then the more I hung out with them, the more at ease he became with me..."

by Anonymousreply 22603/08/2019

R207 It makes no sense to use the reaction towards a lie, as a reason to create the lie in the first place..

It's only a betrayal because it's done behind someone's back.

The guys in question are just cowards, who DO betray.

by Anonymousreply 22703/08/2019

R203 I was with one cuban guy, and a beer can would be jealous of him.

by Anonymousreply 22803/08/2019

Beer cans are sentient?

by Anonymousreply 22903/08/2019
by Anonymousreply 23003/08/2019

I fucked my married straight man last Tues & Thu in his lounge room.

We weren't sure when the daughter would be home, though. Her work hours have become unpredictable.

His wife rang in the middle of me sucking his dick to discuss their weekend away trip.

Such is life.

by Anonymousreply 23103/08/2019

r231, are you the OP or do we have several prizes? I am wondering what kind of work you do. Care to tell us a little something about yourself? And your married friends?

by Anonymousreply 23203/08/2019

I know this is an est based on the other thread.

But any old guy still wearing a letterman high school jacket is a loser. If a guy living in Miami cannot find a single gay guy among the thousands of beautiful men here, and has to rely on a fat ex-high school jock gone to seed, he's probably not too well off either.

by Anonymousreply 23303/08/2019

I once did a booty call after midnight to his Fire station while the other fireman were asleep/doing whatever.

There are separate annexes in the building and it's easy to steal away 20 minutes.

If the alarm went off, he said stay in the room till they leave on the truck and then sneak out.

No alarm went off and I left with a mouthful of cum.

by Anonymousreply 23403/08/2019

[quote] Ive had way too many "straight" husbands of friends hit on me to automatically discount his story.

R83 Yep. It's a slimeball move and drives a wedge between you and your friend because even if you do nothing about it there's now a dirty little secret that you didn't ask for and you can't share without the risk of fucking up their lives and your friendship.

by Anonymousreply 23503/08/2019

Official thread soundtrack

by Anonymousreply 23603/08/2019

The thing is, OP you need to consider the fact that if he is such a whore with you, then he is also whoring around elsewhere. You're not his only side piece. Keep that in mind for future reference. And you better have other things going on. Don't be too available for him. In fact, you need to start phasing him out.

He is, believe it or not, a homophobe who is probably more than "a little Bi." I mean, if he were just some curious guy who wanted a blow job, that's one thing. But he hit on you, then he came back for more. He is probably getting bolder about what he likes, and he is very likely going out there to find other strange pieces. So be very careful.

The thing is, he may contract an STD from somewhere else and you'll get blamed. Or something may happen between him and his wife and you really want to be far away from it, because 9 chances out of ten it won't have anything to do with you. He sounds like sleaze to me.

by Anonymousreply 23703/08/2019

R237 op is a fucking troll

by Anonymousreply 23803/08/2019

Ok. Well, shame on you, Op. Next topic?

by Anonymousreply 23903/08/2019

HJ gay guys! My name is Stephanie Krobopallus and I am the “ best friend” in this awful scenario. I started suspecting something months ago when my husband starrted coming home smelling like herpes, shame and lawn chairs. I confronted him last night and he cried and told me everything!

He said my “ best friend” took advantage of him and that he never really enjoyed any of it and said it got weird because my best friend” cries after he ejaculates. I was furious and burned the hubbys prized letterman jacket. He wept and promised me to never hurt me again . We start marriage counseling next week!

So I feel optimistic about the future. But I’ll never fully trust my husband again and now I need a new gay best friend if anyone is interested!!

I’ll never be able to look at a lawn chair again .

by Anonymousreply 24003/08/2019

[quote]smelling like herpes, shame and lawn chairs.

😂😂😂

by Anonymousreply 24103/08/2019

Stephanie, just so you know, your ex BFF is also taking your dad's big loads.

by Anonymousreply 24203/08/2019

Stephanie, you might want to burn your father's letterman jacket, too.

by Anonymousreply 24303/08/2019

I've been fucking my best friend's husband behind her back.

Been there, done that. Deb forgave me in the end.

by Anonymousreply 24403/08/2019

The only way out of this is for OP to end the friendship, move away and never make contact ever again and for the husband to keep his mouth shut.

by Anonymousreply 24503/08/2019

DataLounge is a whore’s dent. I think we can all figure this one out

by Anonymousreply 24603/08/2019

Hilarious. I needed a good laugh after a long week.

by Anonymousreply 24703/09/2019

She probably knows.

by Anonymousreply 24803/10/2019

How many of you desperate queens have beat off to this thread since it first appeared? It is, after all, the stuff DL's collective gay male wet dreams are made of.

by Anonymousreply 24903/10/2019

Yup, you set a good example for us.

by Anonymousreply 25003/10/2019

So Stephanie, not to judge or anything, but it sure sounds as though you married some version of your father. For all you know, both of them are probably going at it too. They may no longer have their letterman's jackets but you can sure as hell be assured they both have whores' dents. Those are FOREVER.

by Anonymousreply 25103/10/2019

True romance.

by Anonymousreply 25203/13/2019

Just eating some chocolates and different little candies here as I read these shocking bits......sitting on the lawn here in a lawn chair hoping to be fingered by......someone......anyone.......anyway lots of candy wrappers now scattered about the lawn. Feeling fat and bulgy. Rolls of fat all over me. Snacking on more milk chocolate candies. Sliding off the silvery wrappers with my fat fingertips.

by Anonymousreply 25303/13/2019

[quote]OP's friend is Lucy Ricardo.

Then that means OP is Cesar Romero!

by Anonymousreply 25403/13/2019

My married man lover wants to start playing a bit rough.

We have agreed on one face slap per minute, a choke hold every two minutes and a mouth & nose smouthering no longer than 30 seconds every three minutes.

That should not bring out too much redness, bruising or breathing difficulty for me.

Are these terms acceptable?

by Anonymousreply 25503/13/2019

^^^^ You may need a safe word. Lawn chairs perhaps? Technically that's two but it's either that or be choked to death, queen.

by Anonymousreply 25603/14/2019

Oh, let him take his chances on choking.

by Anonymousreply 25703/14/2019

R255, have fun! Rough sex isn't my thing, but as long as it's consensual? Go for it! If you don't like it? Stop.

by Anonymousreply 25803/14/2019

So trashy. Lawn chairs??

by Anonymousreply 25903/14/2019

I confess. I confess. Darling I confess yes I've ruined three lives And didn't care till I found out that one of them was mine

by Anonymousreply 26003/14/2019
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