Man sues spa for giving him an X-rated massage

The guy and his husband.

That is absurd. What a little bitch to call the cops. He’s going to ruin this guy’s life because he attempted to give him a little erotic pleasure at a MEN’S spa?!? In Chelsea???? Monster.

Oh for fuck sake, what a prisspot. And the masseuer’s career is ruined because of this cunt.

What a fucking little Mary Ann. He has probably ruin it for everyone else.

If you don't want a happy ending just politely decline and move on.

He did not "orally" consent that the masseuse could touch his penis? His mouth chasing after the masseuse's cock sounds fairly oral to me.

Man, this dude ruined it for everybody. Nice job Ronnie.

He immediately called the police?! Mary!!

Actually a masseur did this to me once too. I told him to stop. I go to masseurs to get massage, not to have sex.

This is why I’ve stopped going to massage places focused on gay men. Previous to the guy actually starting to massage my home, at other gay massage places, the masseur asked if I wanted to be jerked off. Another spent way too much time on my inner thighs.

A massage never makes me horny, so I have no desire to interrupt the calm with sex.

^home = hole

I would assume that it's implicit in the words "gay men's spa" what sort of establishment it is.

All he had to do is say, "Hey, I don't want that kind of massage". There was no need to call the police.

My guess is that the bf found out where he was and said “wtf are you doing there?!?!”

I had a similar experience at Why Not Men's Spa in the West Village. The massage was awful. Guy didn't seem to know wtf he was doing. Then, after I was on my back, he whipped off my towel and BAM gave me a hand job. I didn't stop him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings :)

I think R12 has called it right.

We got Dataloungers desperately trying to find ways to turn on their masseurs and this queen is getting them shut down!

What a weirdo.

Verificatia of Ronnie's sizemeat?

I'm starting to think these new age gays are going to these places for a quick hustle. Just like elderly people used to get "hurt" at hotels in the 90s.

Fuck this guy. Seriously. I hope he's socially shunned and has to move.

The masseurs don’t actually want to jerk you off...it’s just their job. If you say you don’t want it, trust me, they’re fine with that.

I only gave him what he kneaded.

"At no point had Arnau indicated, orally or otherwise, that he consented..."

Tonsils Don't Lie

All he had to do is just say 'No'. (And the come on as a compliment).

Im an old slut who slept with untold men,and I never liked strangers grabbing my junk either.I wouldnt have called the cops though.

I’m sure if the masseuse had looked like Chris Hemsworth we wouldn’t be reading this in the news.

The article says he was there with his husband.

He should’ve pounded the masseur doggie-style

This is some psycho Queen who is craving attention and wants to jump on the #metoo movement bandwagon. He went to a GAY SPA, he must be seriously delusional. I bet his hubby came really hard in his own session! I was wondering when the attention Queens would jump on the movement.

Next NYP headline will be: 'Bar Patron Calls Cops After Swallowing 27 Unconsented Sperm Loads at East Village Bar 'The Cock'

I think we can easily assume it's the Aunt Pitty Pat one on the left with the over plucked brows.

Which is the prisspot and which is the husband in R1’s pic?

Any NYC DL’rs know them? Have had them? Got stories? I’m in NYC, and while they both have a generic familiarity about them, can’t say that I’ve seen them around or anything.

Any pic of the masseur?

How self-righteous is this cunt!

God, he better not ever go to Thailand. Those masseurs really work for their tips!

I would tip my MT 100% if he would take it there. Every time I schedule an appointment with him, I hope and prep that it's going to happen. "Ronnie" needs to not seek out contact with strangers while naked if he's such a prisspot MARY.

R32 he should of left his underwear on too.

Looks like the type that would put no asians in grindr profile..::

I don't really like massage therapists having sex with me. I tried it a few times and its just mixed messages. Either they suck at massage. Or the sex is weirdly limited. Or the guys who do this are on the spectrum and couldn't actually be paid whores so they do this weird sex inside a narrow range of what is done.

Pay a whore for the kind of fuck you want. Some of them are REALLY good at that.

Pay a message therapist for body work that isn't about sex.

I've had some interesting tantric messages but I still think its better to have massage or sex. Not one or the other masquerading.

Umm, anyone know the address?

This is why I prefer to get my massages from old Chinese ladies.

R37, you never had an old Chinese lady grab your junk?

This is the masseur.

[quote] I think we can easily assume it's the Aunt Pitty Pat one on the left with the over plucked brows.

Actually I think it's the bearded one on the right.

Bad enough the dirty perverted oriental touched one guy's no no, the partner had to witness the stomach turning violence! How will they survive this TRAUMA!

Their wedding site

A total top in NY is trying to preserve his manly virtue. Y'all should be more supportive.

[quote]He did not "orally" consent that the masseuse

Do you seriously think they have women giving gay guys hand jobs at a gay spa, R5? Not very likely.

OMG their wedding site makes me want to gouge my eyes out.

What a chickenshit.

It has a triangle arm tattoo.

According to her LinkedIn she was in HR earlier in her career

r34 and r39, in tandem, explain this story

This guy should get together with that other Mary who is suing Equinox for ignoring his complaint about untoward steam room activity.

The bald one did it.

It's called "Fresh" for a reason.

THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS!!!!

R51, can you tell if that Instagram account was made private only since this story broke and you linked to it? I'm wondering is he read Datalounge.

He’s from jersey, came to NYC, to a predominantly gay neighborhood, and then had a massage in a male only spa. What was he expecting? He should have stayed on his own side of the river!!

His husband is a NYC casting director, right?

As someone else said:

1. The guy could have worn underwear but he didn't.

2. The guy could have told the man to stop when he was focusing on his butt.

3. What the hell was he expecting?

No professional, regardless of the service provided, should be sticking their finger in a client's ass without discussing it first. That's a really low standard to maintain.

Love the broken English at R39's link.

R13, I too had a similar experience at Why Not.

I no longer go to Gay spas. I don’t want to be jerked off by a masseur, I want a massage. These guys generally suck at massage anyway

This story warrants one big MARY!!!!!

Cunts

[quote]These guys generally suck at massage anyway

Isn't there an extra charge for oral?

He's an ugly fucker, physically as well as spiritually. Here's her Facebook page.

Message the bitch.

You guys are self loathing pathetic whores who talk "what did he expect" attitude. I used to go to a message place in West Hollywood and it was totally legit. You could chose a man or woman and I always chose the man because they push harder on your muscles. Woman don't have the strength and of the ones that do, their hands are small and bony which is not enjoyable. The guy had a right to expect a real message. Especially since the owner said "we are not that kind of spa" bullshit.

Why couldn’t he just say “no thanks,” R65? Why the need to get the cops involved?

[quote]The guy had a right to expect a real message.

-Inspector Clouseau

R65, you -- like the guy we're discussing -- are why we cannot have nice things.

What the fuck is wrong with you prissy morons who go running to the cops over a simple misunderstanding?

The cops, and then the press.

Sadly we know that this spa already had the reputation for the happy ending. But Ronnie knew this when he made the appts as well. It was no secret! But he did have an expensive wedding to pay for as well. Have a feeling the they planned this with their Jewish lawyer Ms. Goldberg...surprise surprise! They knew once the masseur went for the cock as his work usually entails...Mary, I mean Ronnie screamed rape! What a fucking pussy! I’ll give him props for figuring out a way to pay for the expensive wedding by suing the spa for sexual assault. But he also just ruined this masseurs life and he could end up doing jail time. Karma bitch!...divorced in a year!

If it was a completley legitimate spa, why be a 'gay' spa? One's sexuality should be irrelevant if it is a non-sexual establishment. The inclusion of gay suggests what type of place it might be.

R65 shut the fuck up dumb ass bitch, just accept the apology for the misunderstanding and quit the suing bullshit you fucking grifters!!!

I am gay and one of the primary reasons I’ve never had a professional massage is that I just don’t ever want to be in that awkward position. I am sure I wouldn’t call the police unless there were a major sexual assault after I told the guy not to do anything, but I also am not so naive as to think a lot of massages don’t involve this sort of thing. I have always felt like massage places have high potential for these sorts of things and I am honestly surprised every time a female friend tells me she gets massages. I’ve asked a lot of women if they ever feel vulnerable, or like someone might touch them where they don’t want to be touched and every woman I’ve ever asked that of has appeared shocked at the suggestion; they tend to think of masseurs as being as professional and clinical as physicians are, whereas every man I’ve ever heard discuss massages has made a “happy ending” joke. I would never want to be lying on a medical-type table and have some random person start playing with my dick.

R73, you're an idiot and a pussy. Seriously?

You're pretty damn naïve.

Who cares if someone touches your body? People are so insane. You’re not that special. You’re not ruined because some asian guy grabbed your dick or touched your hole. Get over yourself!!!!

So many Marys.

Where did all this righteous indignation come from in the gay community? We use to happy for anything we could get!

ok, this seems very opportunistic. In NYC any massage place that advertises "men only" definitely is dog whistling a certain erotic component to the massage. Even if its not a full on hand job.

Personally, I have had some pretty "sensual" massages from male massage therapists in very legit spas and hotels etc. A few times it resulted in a handjob but only when I gave an indication I didn't mind more touching.

What a drama queen this dude is .

What would he do if it was Surprise Anal?

Are you people, on either side, capable of under reacting to anything?

No need for the cops and for a lawsuit. The lawsuit is a money-grab and will destroy the business. It's so transparent.

This isn't assault and he's not damaged by it.

Disgusting. I did have the same thing happen by a local masseur. The first 2 massages were awesome - he had powerful hands and had great technique. Then the 3rd time he went too far and it got weird. Never went back and I was pissed because it's hard to find a really good masseur who doesn't overcharge.

I give those cunts six months and they’ll be divorced.

girls and men

I don't always love DL, but I do in this thread.

All one needs to say is "no, thank you."

This is why you guys who play in regular saunas and spas should be careful. Frau-adjacent gays looking for money or attention might be laying in wait like this. It reminds me of that woman who went home with Aziz Anzari and didn’t even finish dinner during the first date—then freaked out when he initiated sex. It’s sketchy af.

I saw this happen at a Korean spa where gays played and everyone knew it. This one troll got rejected by a bunch of guys in the spa —and to retaliate, he reported guys for sexual activity to the owner and they got kicked out. Some gays pretend to be cool and are merely waiting for an opportunity to be an asshole for a myriad of reasons. Watch out for these gay virtue signalers that lead you on or let you think things are cool—they are wolves in sheep’s clothing.

Any word on how this case was resolved?

I would love a handjob or blowjob of a masseur but I'm not aware of such places existing in Liverpool or near by?

It is quite simple that touching another person in a sexual manner, is sexual assault regardless of gender or sexuality. You know nothing about him, he might very well be a survivor of childhood sexual abuse or even been raped as am adult.

R88,

If that’s the case, as a gay man he’s an idiot to have gone to a gay massage parlor. I’ve never been to one, but I would expect there would be more intimate touching than at a typical spa. He’s just a nasty fuck who wants to steal money and doesn’t care that he ruined someone’s business and the masseur’s life. Of course there was a lawyer ready to take this case. Totally disgusting

R89 He could have actually believed that it was a actual spa that was just welcoming to gay men, not a gay sex spa. I never get massages because the last thing I want is someone to touch me without my consent.

I thought a lot of these businesses were operated by organized crime and undocumenteds? This couple better start watching their backs!!!!

r89 I would be disappointed and surprised if I didn't get at least a handjob and happy ending at a gay massage parlour, a blowjob even better!😘

I had a prostate massage and I enjoyed it. I had no idea. It was unexpected and very nice. Twice. His name was Dragon. He knew what he was doing.

r93 Did you moan and groan in ecstasy a lot when you concluded with your happy ending?

R88 - It is not that simple. Jesus - you're the most insufferable SJW type.

There are lots of regular massage places where there is little chance of anything like this happening. With the vast majority massage therapists this would never have this happen.

Choosing to go to a place like this and then fleeing in terror and calling the cops/press when you can just push a hand away and say no thanks is total bullshit.

Think about how many times most of us have been touched or grabbed by someone in gay venues. If it’s unwanted it pisses me off and you handle it. But I’m not going to make someone register as a sex offended for the test if their life because they touched my ass in a gay bar - or got the wrong idea in a spa. Fuck this frau queen.

This is a thread where bump bitch R79 is a true ratchet karma cunt.

This is a story begging for updates, not self-serving thread bumps. Facebook statuses, messy divorce litigation, etc. What are these queens up to? What happened to the Asian masseur?

*offender

Arnau was so shocked by Tian’s actions that “he completely froze” until the masseur “threw off his towel and told him to turn over,” the suit says.

“At that point, having shaken off his initial state of shock, Arnau abruptly rose from the massage table and demanded that Tian leave the room,” according to court papers.

MARY!

Sucks that the poor massage therapist will now has a criminal record. Plus he lost his job and career. What an asshole (no pun intended). How hard would it have been to say, “just the regular massage is fine, thanks”. Why the violated virgin queen act?

I bet he was sobbing uncontrollably as he called 911. Gay frau.

r100 It does seem very unfair.

There are too many lawyers in the US. We have a very corrupt system.

Sadly true r102.A very litigious culture that encourages vexatious claimants.

I like how the article says he just "threw off his towel" like it was some reveal for a magic trick.

Question - how did the masseur touch his genitals while he was laying on his stomach? Did he push his junk between his legs so the masseur could see?

That could have been interpreted as a signal from the masseur. Logistically it's just not easy to get in between someone buttocks while they're laying on their front and get the frank and beans pulled back.

Something doesn't sound right. Oh and this Ronnie Arnau guy seems to switch jobs a lot (based on his LinkedIn profile).

[quote]Oh for fuck sake, what a prisspot.

PRISSPOT! A word I am going to pepper into my conversations liberally in 2020.

R97 who is stopping you from looking it up?

“Do you not like ass & dick? Are you a fucking BREEDER?! You make me sick! Fucking hetero, tittysucking pussylicker!!!”