Gay married & muscled doctor/nurse couple

More instahos. No, thanks.

He's an admitted former homophobe.

the other guy's insta

R2 well given the religion he grew up with it's not surprising. He's come a long way. Can't fault him for his upbringing. Most of us grow up homophobic regardless of religion. I don'tn know how it is now with Gen X and the older half of Millennial parents but Baby Boomers and the older half of Gen X mostly raised their kids to be homophobic since of them are homophobic

They look like nice people, but the good doctor should stop with the steroids.

Cute

Those arms look absurd. Good luck dealing with his roid rage.

This thread is going to end in tears.

Congratulations on getting your "fairy tail". Oh, dear.

R12 lol

Amazing that a doctor would use steroids, I wouldn’t go near a doctor that looked like that. He’s obviously an utter moron.

A twin freak show. Wouldn’t look at either of them twice on the streets of Hell’s Kitchen except in utter disbelief at the narcissism and thirst. They would never be allowed in my bed.

R15 they're in San Antonio

The picture at R10 is just disgusting. I mean, I love a nice muscular guy but that steroid looks is really too much.

I always wonder when I see a pic like R11 on Instagram...who took that photo? The cleaning lady? A kindly passerby? A professional photographer hired to capture intimate moments?

if you have a cell phone or camera with a timer option, you can position it to take a photo. 1 of them probably sat in there while the other got the angle right then they posed together. It probably took several attempts but it's doable. It's the outdoors shots that people need someone else to take it for them. Indoors you can use a timer

[quote]The picture at [R10] is just disgusting. I mean, I love a nice muscular guy but that steroid looks is really too much.

Not to mention, that is a hair-DON'T!

He lloks so freakish with those over done arms and bulging veins. He is clearly a short guy and his body cant handle all that

Typical stunning lack of diversity.

what's up with the Doctor's hair?

His prose is ridic

Nurse=bottom

Highly questionable anal hygiene

The couple that roids together...

Rage together!

Isn’t it considered incredibly cheesy to set up the camera timer and then scramble into position to pretend that you’re simply lounging sleepily in each others’ arms?

I don’t get the appeal of being an Instagram ho or being a fan of an Instagram ho.

They both look great, but I can't help but feel that a doctor who looks like that could get a much younger bottom.

It's all just so painfully generic and incredibly unappealing.

Doc does have a beautiful ass in OP’s pic.

Were there any name changes à la PJ and Thomas?

what city are they living in?

They're fugly as shit; they better make sure they stay in shape.

R34 Lets see your picture pretty boy

r33 Try reading the thread first.

Please, they're hot as hell. I would gladly bottom for either one, or both at the same time. I wish I could attract guys who look like that.

where do these people find each other? They look exactly alike - as in mirror image. And their friends, christ - do they all work out five times a day then take selfies? I know no one who looks acts or lives like these pod people

Would gladly give 10 years of my life to be the meat in that sandwich at r40.

they aint even worth ten minutes of a life lol The bottom nurse is a butterface the doctor looks like the gayling from who’s the boss

I miss the days of DL before everyone with a polaroid felt we had to worship them.

How does the Doctor get his forearms so thick, do steroid do that?

Really, really good examples of butterface.

They dress like that and post these nudie shots in order to attract thirds and groups, right?

I mean, if you’re happy with your partner, why would you behave like a slut who is desperate to get fucked?

Narcissists are as narcissists do.

What kind of doctor?

Caribbean medical school?

They've been together 8 years, married 3

Imagine having such a muscular doctor...hot

the nurse is a pediatric nurse btw

look at her lecturing at R5

"I have it all but still, some of you don't love me and that just CANNOT STAND!"

Rejected by family

this is impressive

leg gains together at the end of last year

Ok we get it-you're famewhores. Anyone remotely interested in your shallow lives will hit up your Instagram.

How long until they launch an Only Fans account?

Is he a real MD doctor or a "doctor"?

Doctor Love

What, precisely, makes them “seem like nice guys?”

Both gross.

Please, you jealous bitches would drop to your knees in an instant if one of them stood before you, and you know it!

STEROIDS. lazy fags.

The hairy one looks like Ed Grimley on roids

R60 he works in a hospital and has taken selfies in operating clothes so I assume so. Not sure what sort of doctor he is yet though

The doctor is from Utah the nurse is from Florida. They met in Miami when he was in med school and moved to San Antonio where they both work in a hospital

His actual name is Jacob Fehl, guess he doesnt want people finding his insta account when theh google him. Physical medicine and rehabilitation was his residency.

"Attractive" with the body, with just a headshot not so much. Definite butterface.

One shudders to think what r68 and the other criticizers look like. Actually, I think we all know.

Be happy you don't know the type in real life r39.

Every city has a clique of carbon copy full time gays with their manicured eyebrows and glamour muscle gym bodies. You can occasional run into them at brunch and their bleached teeth will be even whiter than their collective melanin.

They are beautifully, proudly narcissistic. Not sure what we're supposed to do with that except to say congratulations, carry on!

There was a name change and Doc is the one who made it. I suppose because he isn't super close to his family it was an easier decision.

Sorry, I’m not going to put my health in the hands of Dr. Fehl. Is there a Dr. Succeed available?

Doctor needs a new hairdo, he's got five-head, and that haircut makes him look like he's wearing a little pillbox hat.

Please!!! Don't say they're anything less than total 10s or they must stop shoving their pictures down our throats every 10 seconds!

No, just no!!!

Grrrrrr

I dont like a man with too many muscles.

Fine, r78, more for me, then.

I didn’t make him for you!

any of you living in Montreal, Toronto or Boston can see them very soon!

Too much emphasis on sexuality and not what makes them work as a couple...yes they're attractive, but okay what else? Hypersexuality is also a form of self loathing.

I'm not good looking and don't have a gym body, so I'll probably never find a partner. But if I were partnered, I would never act the way these two do.

WHAT MEDICAL SCHOOL?

Verificatia of sizemeat for either gurl?

Over compensating in the very worst way

I sense another Houston tragedy in their future.

R58 - wtf is up with that stupid film clip of morning in Vegas? I had a friend whose five year old did this at a hotel they were staying at for a conference (and I really felt he could have used a good old fashioned slap!)

These are adult males - What is wrong with them?

One of the guys looks like he has Down Syndrome.

Future candlemaker.

[quote]WHAT MEDICAL SCHOOL?

Trump University.

I'm sick of people like this getting married when they're total whores who fuck anything that moves

All that fucking drama for going to Dallas from San Antonio r93?!

flashback to 8 years ago!

today is the doctor's last day of training

University of Miami r84, someone mentioned it upthread.

Still wondering why, exactly, OP thinks they “seem like nice guys.”

Oh Jesus, r98.

University of Miami????

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[quote]today is the doctor's last day of training

He will finally start getting that real doctor salary, rather than the low residency salary. Nurse must be a happy camper, he married a doctor for a reason dammit.

They seem like they would be highly tedious in person.

I’m so grateful to them for having the courage to expose their bodies! If only more hot gay men like me and them would do the same - it would make a world of difference to our un-hot brothers suffering from low body self-esteem.

[quote] I sense another Houston tragedy in their future.

Yikes!

Which miami the one in ohio? Lol

They look like a complete and total butterfaces next to their hot friend.

Please tell me they are masculine.

Tasteful friends, look how ugly their house is

They seem like the kind of couple that you know below the polished surface, everything is just dysfunction and festering resentments. The kind of couple who will one day be just another murder/suicide statistic.

Marriage for this pair is simply the transformation of "me, me, me" to "us, us, us".

😂 Is that even worthy of a tasteful friends? Talk about basic. Looks like a set piece from the next Ben Affleck Bahston movie.

MEH

What's all the hubbub bub? Average Joe Instaho's.

Montreal trip. They made time for a unique gym

electronica concert

Big time butter faces. This thread will not reach 200 posts.

I find the nurse's face to be fug. He must be the top

The good doctor helping to train his cute friend, who’s paralyzed from the waist down due to a broken neck:

it's the anniversary of when they first met

Why do people celebrate their failed (sorry "open") marriages?

What kind of doctor has nude bathing pics on the Internet?!?

If i was his patient i would refuse treatment wouldn't want to catch the a.i.d.s

R117 although that pictures is so hot, the guy's long explanation of his love is rather tedious. Plus, who hires a professional photographer to take pics of husbands taking a bath together?

This whole thing is so odd.

What do people expect and want through instagram. Fame? Acceptance? Feeding of narcissism?

I understand posting pics for friends but hiring a photographer seems a bit overboard unless you want fame.

They are both sad stereotypes of attention hungry A-Gays.

[quote]What do people expect and want through instagram. Fame? Acceptance? Feeding of narcissism?

Yes.

Some noncelebrity that works on their instagram account enough to have hundreds of thousands of followers as they do clearly hungers for that level of adoration and fame it gives them.

It is unprofessional for a doctor to post naked photos of him and his husband about to embrace and get it on in a tub. It looks like the beginning of a porno. Can you imagine seeing your coworker or boss like that? What must his nurses and fellow doctors think of him?

Neither of them are particularly attractive. They look like gay men you say walking the streets everyday.

That should say "see". Also, these kind of gay men who post instagram pictures like this nonstop are really irritating. Does everyone need to see every detail of your life? Do we need to know all your intimate details? Who the fuck cares? If I don't care about celebrities doing this stuff, am I really going to care what some roided up doctor does with his partner in their bathtub?

The doctor's body is ridiculous. He looks like a child's drawing of a muscleman.

[quote] Also, these kind of gay men who post instagram pictures like this nonstop are really irritating. Does everyone need to see every detail of your life?

Obviously, the obsessive Instagram troll who posts these people night and day on Datalounge would say, "YES!"

R130, him and millions of other gay men apparently (I say that with sadness).

R118

He has BACK ROLLS!

R131 I generally won't date a man with an Instagram. It's a great easy way to weed out those that are either narcissistic or in need of constant validation.

Did they meet in a bathtub?

jakejacob01Post pump workout with #matchymatchy tanks. Couples who lift together... @wodsports . . Today we were asked if we are brothers again. Seems to be the go-to question for us. Aside from both of us enjoying the gym I don’t think we look anything alike. I’ll take the compliment though. Who wouldn’t want to look like that hunk of a man @teddington_01 . . . #husbands #love #family #gay #instagay #pump #physique #loveislove #gaystagram

Yep r133. I'm fine with them having one, assuming they aren't really into it.

Anyone who is into their instagram account is an instant no. God, I had to limit hanging out with a friend like that. Constantly thinking of what they could film to put on their instagram story, it is infuriating to deal with.

R135, 135 post and I still don’t know which one is the nurse and which one is the doctor.

R137 nurse is on the left with the hat. Doctor is the hotter one

[quote]The doctor's body is ridiculous. He looks like a child's drawing of a muscleman.

So true.

R138, I find the nurse one more acceptable looking hence more attractive. The doctor looks like a caricature. And yes, they are both on heavy doses os steroids and probably growth hormone as well. silly queens

I don't like men with too many muscles!

R135 just highlights how incredibly ugly these men are.

They're both handsome, and their bodies are goals.

There's a special place in hell for gay men who don't support other gay men.

[quote]They're both handsome

No, not really.

[quote]and their bodies are goals.

God NO.

[quote]There's a special place in hell for gay men who don't support other gay men.

Yes, how dare we not feed their vanity and need for adoration. It is practically a hate crime.

WHORES!

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Lbh, they’re a bit homely.

Please R8, this marriage is going to end in tears.

R148 I think it's obvious it's already failed (sorry, "open").

Did they confirm it’s an open marriage?

The husband looks like he has Down’s syndrome.

R151 one looks like roided man olsen twin and the other is roided out Danny Pintauro.

In 20 years, the doctor will look like Tom Bianchi.

Did I say 20? I meant 5.

R150 Narcissists are incapable of monogamy or anything approaching a healthy relationship.

R135 - hairy muscular forearms are my major turn on! God love the guy on the right.

He’s not a real doctor. He works in physical therapy helping people recover from their injuries.

He is a real doctor. Diminishing him won't make any of us feel better. He seems to be very accomplished - and he has a killer body and a nice partner. Good for him.

teddington_01Our drive to Quebec City was a true joy. A mix of Olde World Charm and natural beauty. I absolutely love Quebec! #quebeccity #beautifulcityview #siteseeing #canadianvacation

jakejacob01Honored to be standing next to the statue of one of my all time heroes Terry Fox.

For those who don’t know this man’s legacy, Fox’s right leg was amputated in 1977 after he was diagnosed with osteosarcoma. In 1980, he began the Marathon of Hope, a cross-country run to raise money for cancer research, running with a prosthetic leg. He was forced to end his run after 143 days and 5,373 kilometres (3,339 mi) when the cancer spread to his lungs. He died nine months later at 22 years old. . This young man accomplished more in his short life than I could ever hope to accomplish in my entire lifetime. His life and legacy is one of the reasons I became interested in rehabilitation medicine. . We all have the potential for greatness, in some capacity. Maybe I won’t have a statue erected in my honor, but I can try to change the world in my own small way. I can be driven, focused, and compassionate. I can give back to my community, and hopefully when I am done I have left this world a slightly better place then when I came into it. . . . #hero #heroes #greatness #driven #inspiration

Wait a minute. His name is Jacob Jacob?!?

As a Canadian, I think that's very nice of him to pay tribute to Terry Fox in R159

jakejacob01Happy Pride from Toronto! Very much taking a relaxing day, spending as much time as possible doing absolutely nothing at all. . It’s amazing what things come to the mind when it’s not filled with tasks. With no major commitments or work related tasks to distract from my thoughts I’m left to ponder how truly fortunate I am. We all have negative and positive experiences that have helped shape us into who we are now, and will shape us into hopefully a better future self. It’s only been recently in my life that I’ve been lucky enough to travel a bit more and in the process meet new, wonderful, welcoming people, people who go out of their way to not only include, but make one feel like they’ve known me for years. What I’ve found is a plethora of dynamic personalities, backgrounds, vocations, relationships, and goals. . Even with nothing to do, my mind still tries to race, almost searching files in my brain for something to focus on, a reason to be in control. I’m surprised how hard it is to simply relax. I am fortunate to be around empathetic and compassionate people who are bold and loving enough to ignore my pigheadedness and force me to accept generosity. What a truly wonderful gift. My lesson from these intuitive friends this weekend: stop, let go, breath deeply, clear my mind of worry, relax my muscles, and remember what it’s like to simply be content. Maybe one of the hardest lessons I am still working on. I am making the choice to truly enjoy my time and the wonderful people around me to the fullest. . . . #gratitude #scruff #chesthair #instagay #pride #newadventures #selfcare

I like muscles as much as the next guy - but for some reason neither of these guys does it for me. However, they don't really seem to be bad people to me. You can't say what he's written at R162 (and in other postings) is not someone with compassion and decency in him. They put a ton of energy into their "Look at me" lives but they certainly seem to be active and enjoying themselves. And if they are living decent lives and having fun then good for them.

It's not my thing but I'm not going to put energy into hating on them. They seem happy so good for them.

These muscles are so steroid-produced that they look laughable. My guess is they don't have sex because their testicles are shriveled up.

Hello, Nurse!

Two HARDCORE scene queens. Not my cup of gay tea. NEXT!

jakejacob01Legs have always been my nemesis. Coming from a family with four older brothers who all played soccer, including myself at the tail end, I had hoped to have “quadzilla” quads but alas all that running and exercise just gave me excellently efficient muscles with a little badink booty to match when I was hoping for a badonk, let alone having a badunk like @teddington_01 😜. . The desire for leg gains was strong. I heard squats and deadlifts were the best and only way to get the results I was craving so I routinely pushed far too hard with improper form and injured my back for months on end trying to get those little “get-away-sticks” to grow. . I still don’t have the legs I’ve always dreamed of but there comes a point where I have to start lifting and exercising smart, and accepting my body with all if it’s uniqueness and limitations. I’ll never squat 400 lbs. I’ll never deadlift 3x my body weight. The ironic thing is I didn’t actually start getting gains in my legs until I drastically dropped weight. My little 29 inch waste simply won’t handle the strain. Now that I’m not injuring myself every other month I can actually work my legs out and get stronger. . Through years of practice and trial and error I can finally say I love my workouts. I love my box jumps, my single leg box jumps, my overhead lunges, my body weight ham extensions. I love trying new exercises that work me in ways I’d never known. For me the key has been to work outside the box. Excited to see what I try next. . . . #legday #throwback #legs #selfcare #instagay #physique #legpress #functionaltraining

DOUCHEBAGS

I shed a single tear over his leg day struggles.

[quote]My little 29 inch waste

lol

The thinning hair is a result of the roids, right?

[bold]Gym mid-workout kiss! The husbands have taken their vacation from Canada to Boston now. They've also found another gym that allows day passes (some of the top gyms don't) [/bold]

jakejacob01Couples who do abs together... we didn’t even mean to match today. Also, random fact, our first kiss was upside down just like this. After a perfect first date he was sitting on my couch. I walked up behind where he was sitting and gently tilted his head back and stole my first kiss, a kiss that would start a lifetime together. Thankfully he kissed me back. . Been traveling with this one for two weeks now. Spending time with old friends. Meeting incredible new friends (who are pretty much stuck with us now 😜). Watching the love these couples have for each other strengthens the love I feel for my husband. I’m lucky to have such great examples of stability, unconditional love, dedication, sacrifice, and endurance. . @teddington_01 kept walking up to me at the gym stealing kisses. I’d catch him stare from across the floor and he’s just smile that perfect smile. We have our ups and downs, even our times where we can’t seem to get on the same page. But those times are fleeting when compared to the innumerable good moments we share. I can’t say how lucky I feel to have stolen his heart and given him mine completely. There’s nobody I’d rather share in this amazing adventure called life. . . . #husbands #love #instagay #kisses #gaykiss #memories #firstkiss #gymkiss

I'm sorry but they're hideous. Who wants to see these pictures?

Who can take a doctor seriously after seeing him spew endless verbal diarrhea every day about his legs and tiny waist and first kisses. Is he a teenage girl or a professional doctor?

There is no gym for thoses faces.

Insta hos. Nothing to see here.

From Boston to Provincetown

jakejacob01Striking a pose with a booty pop, having too much fun being silly post-workout. Back/chest day. Loving the new experiences and amazing community of Ptown. So much camaraderie, so much acceptance. A much needed environment. . . #ptown #husbands #love #back #lats #booty🍑 #instagay #bootypop

R175 Booty pop ?? ...lame

R175, is it really necessary for men OR women to ever pose like that? Especially in EVERY FUCKING PICTURE.

That’s too bad R2.

Why are there so many hashtags?

#newadventures ?

#bootypop ?

Do people search those hashtags specifically?

Wouldn’t #goals searched bring up 300,000 results?

I don’t understand the endless litany of hashtags.

R179 you'd be surprised. Currently there are 43,680 posts that come up if you search for #bootypop

jakejacob01Random thoughts of appreciation today: . I asked Ted what his favorite moment of our Ptown trip has been so far. It wasn’t the parties, the food, the city, etc. He said his favorite moment was riding our bikes together down the road laughing at each other’s jokes. Not what I was expecting to hear. . Sometimes I can work so hard to create the perfect experience that I miss out on recognizing the little moments that stick with us for a lifetime. Sometimes it’s hidden deep within those well thought-out experiences, waiting to be discovered. I would not have these amazing memories if I didn’t make room for the little moments. Holding hands on the street, stealing a kiss, laughing with each other. . My favorite moment thus far has been dancing with my Teddy. I’ve never been a talented dancer, but I love dancing with him so much I forget my self consciousness simply to feel him dance against me, or watch him get his groove on in front of me. I’ve loved it since we met. . I cherish the new moments we are creating together. Our growth, our discussions, even our misunderstandings. It all eventually makes us a stronger couple. I cherish the amazing friends we continue to grow close to, and the new friendships we create. I am continually amazed by the character of people I meet, their strength, their stories, their drive and dedication. I’m honored to learn from them and grow from their personal experiences. I’m humbled to hear that in some small way I may have benefited someone else’s life. There is no greater compliment than helping to change another persons life for the better. . . . #husbands #love #beachday #instagay

R181, he sounds exhausting

I want to know about the gay people he harassed/tormented, him being a reformed homophobe. Gay people who are the victims of these sorts of individuals are always forgotten.

Would you go to a doctor who uses the term booty pop?

That is weird. A guy having social media is a huge turn off.

R181, I would die of embarrassment if my husband wrote about me like that in a public forum. Cringe.

So much acceptance... Yes dear, because you're a roided out muscle freak doctor. See how much acceptance you would have being an average looking mail clerk.

I cringed so hard at R181 that I think I might have pulled a facial muscle.

[quote]Would you go to a doctor who uses the term booty pop?

Only if he were a urologist.

They all look the same. Same clothes, same hair, same beards. It's like they hate their real selves, so they try to become invisible.

Provincetown circuit party at the McBride Manor!

Provincetown, Massachusetts . Been a long time since I’ve taken the time to get up to make a full breakfast for my little family. Quietly sneaking off from the bedroom to pull together something simple but hopefully special. . Standing waiting for the eggs to cook I think of how lucky and truly grateful for this a man who has not only chosen me as his partner, but chooses to continue to love, cherish, forgive, and grow with me every day. A man who continually has my best interests at heart. My hope is that this choice to be with me is not only love, but also a thoughtful and educated choice as a true partnership throughout our lives. We have the same goals, same vision of our future, same drive to be completely honest in everything that permeates our life. . So here I am making breakfast for me and the man I love. But more than breakfast, most important I am making the decision to make today as uplifting, positive, rewarding, and unifying as possible. Relationships take work, but all work and no play makes for a tedious and cold environment. I hope to continue to find the balance, and in the mean time I am grateful for a loving and understanding companion. . . #breakfast #breakfastinbed #love #sunburn #instagay #physique #kitchen #husband

His tiresome, long-winded posts are more annoying that any pictures he posts.

His writing is really bad. Get to the fucking point! Who writes these long, annoying mini essays on Instagram multiple times during a vacation. It's very pathetic.

I would also like to hear from some of the gay people who he's tormented through the years. You just know they're out there. Or are they all dead from suicide?

This is what all gays on instagram do. Post semi-naked pictures in EVERY post. And then attaching some meaningless BS to the post. This doctor is soooo self-absorbed. Imagine if he started reading his posts out loud to his patients. They would all voluntarily kill themselves.

Do you think either of them ever, like, pick up a novel to read? How about posting the cover of the last really great book you read and a little something about how/why it affected you? It might make some of their hungry followers enter their local library for the first time this decade. Why does every picture have to be a shirtless (and staged) commercial for some aspect of his life?

Some people have literally no concept of how they come off to the outside world. No doubt, "Jake" thinks that everyone strives to be like him and his "Teddy" (whose face, btw, gives me missing chromosome realness).

I think those loooooong posts about his fabulous perfect relationship are more for his own reassurance than anything else.

Deep down, on some level, he knows that the idyll can’t last - perfect fabulous relationships between attention-seeking narcissists rarely do.

So he’s scared, and trying to gain validation via Instagram likes. As soon as the ‘likes’ and comments on one post trail off, he posts another.

But it’s all in vain, because one day he’ll be old and ugly and no one will want him.

R197, it's the same thing celebrities do when they start bragging about how perfect their relationships are. That's usually right before they break up.

Who was there to photograph him while he was busy "musing" and cooking eggs?

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Provincetown, Massachusetts

jakejacob01One of my favorite captured candid moments when we were trying so hard to pose. Also, there was no end to how much sunscreen I needed on those shoulders. . Big thank you to @mrseventytwo for being not only an awesome person but the groups official caretaker and “den mother” throughout the trip. Made my first time to Ptown seamless. Such a great experience. Can’t wait to come back.

new friends

Oh honey, you are never not posing.

Behold our community in all its glorious diversity @ r202.

This doctor seems unbearably controlling. Every experience has to be perfect. What must his partner go through?

R190 You're so right, they always look the same, I've never seen a guy who looks like this at those parties:

The more people post pictures from his instagram on here, the most repulsed I get. Seriously, "den mother"? And the pose he is doing in that sunscreen one? And all the words that are attached to these posts? I'm sure he's nice but he is clearly VERY needy for attention and he would wither away without it.

Or like this....

My son, the....nurse!

They always look like this

I know James Woods/R210. I know!

jakejacob01Feeling lucky to spend some quality time with these handsome devils last week, and better yet watch them get their grooves on the dance floor. Grateful to have such quality people in my life. . #ptown #grateful #instagay #physique #tattoo #poolparty

Nobody in that picture looks attractive R212. All those hashtags prove this doctor is stuck in middle school. The instagay hashtag is the death of all gays.

Isn't the tatted one David Bromstad? The doctor is star struck! LOL

R214 lol yes and check out the hashtags he used when he posted the same pic

bromcoBest Forth of July ever with these sexy cuties! #sweethearts #honeybuns #sexybeasts #creative #designer #traveler #optimist #gayartist ##colorenthusiast #color #disneynerd

Instasluts

Love the Mormon's long ripped torso.

They must have AMAZING sex

There's something very off about the nurse's face. He has the features of a burn victim but without the scarring. I'm guessing he's had at least a nose job

[quote]Forth

jakejacob01In honor of bear week at Provincetown, a #throwback to my beardedness a few months ago.

It took me until I was 34 to actually grow a beard for the first time. My mormon culture dictated no facial hair. Mormon mission, then BYU, then I’d still had the crazy idea in my mind that I couldn’t grow any facial hair (mostly because I never tried). I thought my hair was too blonde or too thin. Turns out I just needed a good two weeks to get my starter beard growing.

I’ve always thought the gay subgroups are interesting. I’ve been called a Twink, otter, Gymrat, Wolf, a circuit boy, even a ferret (?). Still waiting for the blessed day I get called a silver fox.

Why do we subgroup ourselves and each other? I honestly don’t know. Maybe it’s easier to feel like you belong. I don’t particularly think I fit any subgroup well, but it’s a fun little classification that keeps evolving.

Most recent it’s been Daddy and the new one “Zaddy.” Im 36 so I’m still not sure how I feel about that one. It use to really bother me but now I see it as a fun term of endearment that has nothing to do with age. Even my friends in their 20’s get called daddy.

When I came out I definitely felt lost/abandoned/lonely. Took me a while to find myself and find people who loved me for me. So here’s to feeling like you belong, to surrounding yourself with those who you feel accept you, no matter the classification of title that goes with it. And with that acceptance, hopefully we all can extend our hands to those who may be struggling to find their own acceptance too.

#beard #scruff #throwback #booty🍑 #chesthair #instagay #acceptance #selfcare

When I see all their instagram pictures and attached essays, I feel like I'm reading the thoughts of Quinn Morgendorffer.

Which of you bitches has been hating?

He didn't really take the bait at R223. Is he acknowledging that he uses them?

I just like the way he blacked out the haters' nicks in their comments but left them clearly on display in his responses to them.

WTF is going on with gay men and muscles? Not that I want to be with an amorphous lump, but the time investment in pumping oneself up is huge. Why not a decent in-shape body with a great or interesting personality and depth?

You act like it's something exclusive to gay men R226

R227 Isn't it?

R227, it's not exclusive among gay men but it is MUCH worse among them than straight men. No doubt due to the smaller size and more competitive nature of gay men due to being, well, men.

I had no idea Mormons didn't allow facial hair. That's so weird.

R221 His face looks stupid in that pic

Does he really imagine that his musings are so deep and impactful??

“What a week! I’m leaving with a TAN and I’m thrilled. Thankful to spend time with these guys and talk about the crazy messages we get sometimes.”

So they get together with other Instagramers and talk about the messages their fans leave them. Wow! Do they even know how narcissistic they sound?

These guys are just repulsive narcissists. As for the link in R221, he forgot his core subgroup "fugly". Seriously, his face is busted and use of 'roids just makes him look ridiculous.

I mean, it's like his head was attached to somebody else's body. It looks bizarre!

From the comments:

bekind677Not sure if you’ll see this, but I messaged you on scruff a few days back. We basically have the same life (although I’d say yours is the upgraded version of mine). Be fun to connect and share stories

so the doctor is on scruff (both husbands are on realjock too). Isn't scruff especially for dating and hooking up? I mean I GUESS you could find friends on there but most are looking for sex and dating. Funny that he's on there

They are in an open relationship. Gay men are into that. Not at all, but it seems like a ton are.

*not all are

His fretting over being called “daddy” betrays his mortal terror of growing old.

He doesn't even look human in that last pic. People that short should not get that bulky.

Is it just me but if I saw him on the street, I'd probably go "wow" but now that I scrolled through his shrine to self-absorption and "deep thoughts," I want nothing to do with him?

The doctor seems oppressively tedious to be around. Does anyone really care about his "deep thoughts?" And does anyone take him seriously while he's posing in a towel that's about to fall off?

some Ptown pics in which they were tagged

From Toronto pride before Ptown

When your hashtags are longer than your post, you may have issues

All those pictures above make me wonder how many gay men want to look just like that? It seems like the vast majority. It's sad.

Do those bitches own any shirts?

Surprisingly they do. It's weird.

Are these even real people or is it some bizarre troll account lampooning gay stereotypes?

I agree about the nurse probably having a nose job. He's cute though.

Seems like the Mormon has fallen for the sins of pride and vanity.

jakejacob01New city, new life, new gym, new people, new adventures. Still the same goals, same person I was yesterday yet everything feels wildly different. . Change as always been a welcome but strange companion for me. From high school, to a Mormon mission, to undergrad, to grad school and further training, Utah to Miami to Texas and now a brand new state and city again. My head is still spinning with excitement and anticipation. . Fitness has always been the constant. I remember the negative voices saying “you’ll never have time during undergrad as premed” and then echo “you’ll never have time in med school” only to once again repeat “you’ll never have time in residency or fellowship.” Then my favorite, “just wait until you’re in your thirties, your body will never last.” How depressing if I had actually listened to these voices. Of course finding time was difficult, but priorities are priorities and time somehow presented itself nearly daily if I planned for it. . Now another chapter unfolds, with inner and outside voices trying to tell my what I can and can’t do. That’s the great thing about new beginnings, about starting over. I can make my life anything I want it to be. I can break any paradigm, start or change any habit. It’s an exciting and terrifying time, a time to become and do, once again, anything I want. What a wonderful time with a wonderful supportive husband walking side by side. As for lifting, I think I’ll find time. . . . #gym #physique #gymselfie #instagay #functionaltraining #towelselfie #chesthair #scruff #scruffy

teddington_01This made me LOL! I never knew I was a bear... until today! Thanks @onlymen.fp for the revelation. #alopciabear

Jake will always find time for lifting and sharing his oh-so-deep thoughts on Instagram, along with a photo of himself barely clothed.

Yes Jake is vain and self absorbed and won't be much after his looks fade but he's hot and furry and I'd give anything for an hour with him

These long ass fucking posts! I/m sorry, but I think he looks utterly ridiculous in R253 (and his hair looks like shit). He needs to seriously lay off the steroids or the working out for a little bit. His body is TOO worked-out and it looks ridic on such a short guy. The inspirational posts are all very carbon copy. Always mentioning the Mormon past, the "residency", some combination of the places he's lived, Teddy, etc. He doesn't have anything new or interesting to say.

I think he also places a lot of his love and affection onto his husband because he has no relationship with his large family and is missing that familial love component. So there's obviously a lot to place onto Teddy. He would probably benefit from some therapy and a little bit more private reflection. I'm sure his more homophobic family members have tracked down his social media accounts by now.

R236 I mean they're obviously whoring around. No-one in a happy, healthy monogamous relationship lives on Instagram like these guys.

R253 I howled! Yeah buddy, you use steroids. Don't be too proud of your muscles...

He has sad eyes.

[quote]Fitness has always been the constant. I remember the negative voices saying “you’ll never have time during undergrad as premed” and then echo “you’ll never have time in med school” only to once again repeat “you’ll never have time in residency or fellowship.” Then my favorite, “just wait until you’re in your thirties, your body will never last.” How depressing if I had actually listened to these voices. Of course finding time was difficult, but priorities are priorities

Oh noes, med school and studies and residency are all going to cut into gym time! But no worries, he’s got priorities and won’t listen to the negative people who told him to focus on his studies!

My god, does he even know how he sounds? This might be okay for a teeny bopper meathead but not a doctor.

It is a rather skillful way to humble brag, don't you think?

jakejacob01We had the chance to attend a beautiful wedding yesterday. Vows exchanged, tears shed from each groom, not a dry eye in the ceremony. Sealing their ceremony with a kiss my heart swelled at the prospect of their future life together as a married unit.

It’s only been a few short years since my marriage has been nationally recognized. I can’t take for granted that without the federal ruling, us moving from state to state would drastically affect how my marriage would be legally handled. I feel so blessed to have pioneers and advocates that trail-blazed the path the marriage equality in front of me.

My favorite part of weddings is listening to the unique vows of each soon-to-be-married couple. Their devotion, dedication, love, promises, covenants, and heartfelt public profession of “till death do you part” (and beyond). After hearing these emotional words I love to lean over to Ted and whisper “same.”

I remember the vows Ted and I professed to each other as we stood in front of our loved ones. Filled with nostalgia I think of how those vows we took have grown and transformed into commitments and a love I didn’t know was possible when they were first spoken. Those words of devotion and love now mean so much more and hold a deeper, more enveloping value than before. Perhaps it’s because we have lived the vows and that has given our words a sustaining life of their own. Perhaps it’s because life hasn’t been exactly as I’d imagined but somehow has been better than I could have comprehended.

Marriage is merely a stepping stone, a rite of passage, it only holds as much value as we assign to it, and it’s obviously not for everyone. To me, my marriage symbolizes to myself and the world that my spouse is an inseparable part of who I am. That we are no longer two separate entities but a single unit with multiple diverse aspects making the whole sum of our unique attribute far better than what I could be on my own. It’s more complicated, it takes more work to unify separate personalities, but the work and dedication is worth every second I have with him, and worth the future I am building with him.

#husbands #marraigeequality #instagay #suits #dapper

Way to make someone else's wedding all about YOU, you self-involved, insecure narcissist.

Sorry that Nurse is beyond butterface he’s buttholeface!

no compliments for posting a pic of them in clothes this time? lol

They would have worn nothing but stringer tanks and Andrew Christian briefs to that wedding if they could.

Nudes, please, spread butthole and pulsating cum-dripping erections preferred.

This is the guy in the wheelchair that the doctor works with at the gym.

jakejacob01Enjoying my short time with my beloved @carson_tueller

The concept of family/friendship alluded me for years. I joke that my social skills never developed. Often I’m content being quiet and alone. I’m likely an introvert frantically trying my best to be an extrovert. There’s been times I’ve built up the courage to enter a party, pacing with mind and heart racing, only to walk back to my car and drive home. Ted often comments in social setting he sees me remove myself to a room to be alone to help manage my anxiety. I thrive off of close interpersonal connection, and frankly those are hard to find when the idea of meeting new people gives significant anxiety. Sometimes I start telling myself I’m broken, not worth having close relationships in my life.

After my family and friends removed themselves when I came out I spent much of my adult life alone, on the defense. Disappointment and solitude became all too comfortable, almost a safe space. Always wanting more but quick to run at the first sign of pain. This is why I cherish those few times in my life I’ve met and clicked with someone who not only clicks back but permanently changed who I am, for the better. I’ve learned that home is not a specific place. Home is where you spend time with your loved ones, where you feel loved, safe, wanted, accepted, no matter what.

A familiar song continually comes to mind: “I've heard it said that people come into our lives for a reason bringing something we must learn and we are led to those who help us most to grow if we let them and we help them in return... I know I'm who I am today because I knew you... I have been changed for *the best*”

Today I sit thinking of those special people who have no idea the extent they have changed my life, broken down walls, abolish destructive paradigms of self loathing, simply by loving and accepting me for everything I am, and am not. I am so grateful for the people in my life who have been incredibly patient with me as I’ve grown and matured. I’m grateful for people who show me what true love and true family is. I’m grateful for those I can truly call my family.

#family #beloved #growth #changedforgood #instagay #bestie

carson_tuellerSpirituality has always been a big part of who I am and played an important role in how I live my life. As my faith has slowly transitioned over the last several years, I’ve found myself seeing things as less “meant to be” and perhaps a bit more coincidental than I did before (because everything was “meant to be”).

But every so often I meet someone, or have a particular life experience that provides such positivity and light, that I can’t deny that it feels “meant to be”. I find myself looking heavenward and wondering if whatever or whoever is out there sees and cares about my happiness and where I am in life.

Having these two men enter my life at the time that they did has caused one of those “meant to be” moments. As I’ve gotten to know them, I’ve grown and learned from their experiences, their kindness, and their humanity. From our conversations I’ve found strength to make important changes for myself and my life. I truly am a different, better human for knowing them. Thanks, @teddington_01 and @jakejacob01 for being such a positive influence in my life.

I'd give anything to have a threesome with them

He’s quoting “Wicked” lyrics now... I wonder if he’s considered personality dialysis.

Which one is the top? Seems like Jacob

I'm so introverted that I could never prance around at a tea dance in a speedo or put nearly nude pics on Instagram... oh wait...

not surprisingly, other instagram accounts are starting to post the doctor's pics too so he's getting plastered all over instagram

#2

and this account has a lot of followers

as does this account

OK, so did he plan out his love letter exchange with the wheelchair guy? “So I’m going to write an essay about you. And then you have to write an essay gushing about me too.”

That body should be shared all over IG and everywhere possible

R278 Do peoole really find this short ,no neck butterface roided out queen hot?

jakejacob01Throwback to earlier this year during packing when I found @teddington_01 motorcycle leather (chaps not pictured). It was also when I finally started letting my natural chest hair do it’s own thing.

This has been yet another year of changes. This week particularly I have looked over at my husband sitting next to me in a new city, a new house, embarking on a new and poignantly novel future together. Watching him I feel an odd surreal emotion; everything in my life has changed but he is my constant, he is my present and future, he is my home. I know this already, but now somehow I know it even more.

I’ve also had blasts from the past recently visiting Utah and the cities I grew up in, and associating with LGBT who are going through similar struggles I went through, attempting to reconcile a lifetime of culture and religious values that are at odds with how I was born, a part of me I cannot (and should not) change. Memories flood back of who I use to be, how I use to process and think, struggles I use to have, paradigms I placed myself in. If anything these memories add to the energy I have been processing, almost like looking into a mirror or old picture only to see the former child I use to be transfigured into the man I am now. I guess I shouldn’t be too surprised by how much I’ve changed, that I’m unrecognizable from the young man from 10 years ago. Thank goodness for change and forgiveness, especially forgiving myself.

The lesson for me now is to always be looking for chances of growth and progress. I cherish that I have been lucky enough to break from the constraints of my former self. I cherish my struggles and hardships I have survived and eventually thrived from. I would be naive to think I’m done growing, that I still don’t have paradigms that wall up my progress even today.

Years ago I started down an exciting but unknown path, leaving everything I knew behind. Today I do the same, but with the resilience knowing I can succeed because I’ve succeeded before. When I look back ten years from now I hope to say I am better than today.

#confidence #progress #change #throwbackthursday #physique #husbands #instagay #leather #chesthair #scruff

r282 yes, I would fuck him in a heartbeat. He's cute (if a bit bland in the face), big grabbable ears, has incredible big arms and torso, and fantastic legs and ass. Basically an amazing body. The nurse, meh.

Are they in a poly relationship with the wheelchair guy? Or just ...like a...what? Three-way thing?

Frankly I don't see how they have time to do anything with people besides work out and take and post Instagram photos/manage their Instagram business. I wonder if any of them have hobbies or if this is their hobby?

Gross.

R285 mr wheelchair is way too cute for them.

Perhaps the person was in the wheelchair due to some sort of horrible Munchausen-by-proxy syndrome from the doctor! Maybe it's like that movie, Boxing Helena.

Leather screams desperation.

This must be his favorite pose. He keeps taking new pics like this:

jakejacob01Great pump today. Actually I’m feeling like it’s a great day overall, and overall I’m liking what I see.

Everyone has their good and bad days. Sometimes I look in the mirror and wonder how I convinced my husband to marry me. Other days I think to myself “okay, I’m happy with what I’m seeing.” Today is one of those days. On days like this I’m left wondering why I don’t have them more often. What’s stopping me from seeing my best the majority of the time? Possibly a mixture of my upbringing laced with automatic self deprecation, but also I’ve noticed it’s far more culturally appropriate to focus and point out our own flaws, perhaps before other people point them out (I always picture mean girls looking in the mirror verbally over-examining their bodies). Or maybe it’s because it’s easier to live within our own self criticism out of fear of being seen as arrogant or self absorbed. I think for many, myself included, self depreciation is a safe space, maybe even a call to others to challenge and convince ourselves otherwise.

I’ve learned there’s a big difference between being conceited and being confident. In fact arrogance and conceit are both symptoms of insecurity. The truly secure person doesn’t need to project their self worth because it already automatically exudes from them without effort. I’ve also learned that being confident can be a lightning rod for criticism from other people, usually insecure themselves, abusively projecting their own insecurities disguised as “concerned critique.”

When I take a step back and see this pattern of subjective self approval I have to evaluate what the real difference is. Aside from the occasional nose pimple or bad hair day, not much else dramatically changes, perhaps other than my own personal mood. It goes to show how dynamic and fluctuant my own self appraisal can be.

So today Im happy to have a good day. I’m happy to love myself and be proud of myself for the work I’ve been in and where I’m at, at this specific point in time. And at the risk of sounding arrogant or conceited, I’m happy to look in the mirror and say “damn I look good today.”

#confidence #selfcare #scruff #chesthair #instagay #flex

Jake's biggest challenge would be creating a post using 10 words or less. And really? Does he believe half of that drivel he writes?

R291 That post makes me think of SNL's Stuart Smalley. "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me."

jakejacob01Been about 3 weeks since I’ve been able to tolerate a good leg work out. I’ll attribute to a combination of poor time management, illness, and traveling. Definitely been feeling it, and seeing a bit of decline.

I’m one of the “lucky ones” who’s back gets twinged when I bend over to pick up a pencil. I’ve noticed the best management for me is consistently working out legs within a very specific range of tolerance. If I push incorrectly it too hard I feel it, but if I don’t work hard enough I feel it. The hardest is getting my legs and back reconditioned and a bit of a break.

Perpetual injuries can be incredibly frustrating. I use to want to throw my hands in the air and just give in, but I’m glad I keep pushing through. It took time, experimenting, and practice to figure out what works best for my body. I also know myself better now, and know how competitive I can be. The minute I start comparing myself to others, envying their build or strength, then it’s only a matter of time until I overdo it and get set back until I recover. It has taken time and mental effort, but now I watch others for inspiration and ideas, not to emphasize my perceived shortcomings.

Currently I’m plateaued on height for my box jumps, but only if I see height as the only variable. I’m also 20 lbs heavier and hefting more weight with each jump. If I don’t see the entire picture, my three weeks of less-than-workouts, my increased weight;m, even my calories for the day, I could easily be frustrated. That’s why I take each workout one day at a time. First, I’m just happy I showed up. Second I’m happy to get my body moving and my endorphins pumping.

As Elle said “Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy. Happy people don't kill their husbands.” I guess I should tell @teddington_01 to be grateful I workout every day haha 😂🤣

#legs #legday #booty🍑 #physique #functionaltraining #instagay #scruff #boxjumps

[quote]The truly secure person doesn’t need to project their self worth because it already automatically exudes from them without effort.

And his instagram account shows him to be an insecure, needy bitch who is incredibly desperate for praise and validation.

Wow. I admire the hight he can get on those box jumps. Very impressive. But yeah, his desperate need for praise and validation is so off-putting. And for god's sake, just STFU!

and today's post was from KC, not their home in San Antonio. I suppose it's not that far for a quick flight though

jakejacob01Excellent news! While unpacking in our new little house I found something I thought I had lost forever, my beloved stethoscope.

Some physical belongings hold a story, a history, a part of who we are, serving as a reminder. Prior to coming out I was engaged to a beautiful woman. Thankfully we had a moment of truth and broke off our engagement 2 weeks before the wedding. I also happen to be dear friends with her father for years previously.

After I came out I had a lot of negative reaction, and was grateful to leave Utah for Miami and start my life anew. I became reluctant to talk about myself with anyone from my past. In my second year of medical school I received a message from him that he would like to meet. I agreed, not knowing what to expect. Eventually the conversation turned towards relationships. I was nervous given his Mormon background, AND that I had broken an engagement with his own daughter. I cautiously told him about Ted, about my family and friends reaction, about my life now in comparison to before, bringing him up to speed on years of transition and change. He was amazingly loving, welcoming, and supportive, and continued to be from that day on.

At some point during our conversation I must have mentioned my second-hand stethoscope in passing. A few days later I received a package in the mail containing a brand new stethoscope, worth far more than I could afford, but priceless to my heart. I still cry at the thought of opening that package.

I could go on about what this man has taught me about love acceptance. His presence and support at my wedding when my own family chose to stay away. His continued kindness and communication with me. Given our unique past I wouldn’t expect someone like this to put in so much effort for someone like me. He truly is an example of what love and kindness can be. So, today I am elated. I have found an object that is worth far more than the sum of its parts. I have found an object that represents pure love and charity, acceptance no matter what. I have found a reminder to myself to be like him, and be just a little better every day.

#memories #gift #stethoscope #doctor #physician #instagay #physique

new fitness friend in KC

LMAO I love Jake. He finds a prized old stethoscope and his first reaction is to post about it shirtless on IG

Does this "doctor" actually ever work?

Jake's body doesn't even make sense. The steroids have morphed into something weird.

What is with this recent trend where everyone thinks they are a motivational speaker? Everything sounds so trite and unoriginal. I am amazed how someone will post something as simple as "Believe in yourself!!!!" and get 20,000 likes.

The likes aren't coming from the motivational quotes, they're from the skin being shown in the pictures accompanying them.

I don't know why this guy is writing these mini-essays with each post. I doubt very many of his thirsty followers take the time to read them.

How does he have time to be a doctor with all the working out and travel he does?

I don't get it either, r305. No doctor I know travels this much.

Are you 100% sure he's even a doctor or nurse?

He could work Monday - Thursday and then take off for the weekends I suppose. Or maybe he's an anesthesiologist (also not a "full" doctor), they can travel all over the place.

Is is just me or does anyone find it strange that his could-have-been father-in-law gifted him a stethoscope? And came to his wedding to Ted (after he broke and engagement to the man's daughter)? Hmmm. I suppose stranger things have happened....

The chbfil is on the dl and you don't even want to know where that stethoscope has been...

I agree with r309. Sounds like fiction. And his first thought was to take a shirtless selfie wearing it?

If I didn't hate them before I saw all 90000 post from their instragram account, I want them dead now.

he responds to almost every comment, positive and negative

Fitness friend is a KA-WEEN! Instagram is SHOOK by your shirtless pic? LOL!!!

Jake proves that every meaningful moment can be made just that much better by posting a shirtless selfie on Instagram.

R308 and all the time he spends on instagram it does not add up , real doctors are too busy to bother with all that shit

And its over-the-top self deprecation to talk about how you hate your legs or don't feel you measure up when you are always showing off. I mean good lort, look at him. He's huge. If you really felt that way about yourself, would you dare to take so many half naked photos and post them online for the world to see? I'm tired already. Bless his heart.

Dr. Jake has officially discovered this DataLounge thread, folks. He posted it on his Facebook page and all his "fans" are running to his defense calling out everyone on this thread as a sad, pathetic (and jealous) troll. "They are so jealous of your amazing life!"

There is also another stinger that there are too many spelling and grammatical errors on this thread. I'm sure we'll all be treated to another full-length Instagram essay about it later this week!

R317, seriously? Ridiculous. Remember in the past when you had to have actual accomplishments to have "fans"?

They'll have their work cut out for them with this one. It's a bitch fest over here, baby....

R317 for those of us not on facebook could you copy what he wrote about it here? I can't find the post. I

I went to his fb page but I don't see what r317 is talking about. You know there is a link box right there, let's see what they have to say about us.

did he delete it or it's just 1 of those posts you can only see if you follow him on facebook? Either way R317 please copy what he wrote here because we can't see it

Gym bunnies are NEVER "nice people".

The best thing about social media is that it helps you spot an insecure narcissist much more quickly than before. A relationship with a narcissist is emotionally exhausting and traumatic.

From the doc:

In the spirit of openness, This is the kind of stuff people send to me ALL 👏🏻 THE 👏🏻 TIME 👏🏻 (Yes I ignore the haters, but look to your left and right, one of your best gay friends is an internet cyberbully) Basically anonymous bitchy gays trolling saying horrible things about people they don’t know. #shocking

This Facebook post is followed by the link to this very thread. I can post some of the supportive comments also if you guys want. They are all very lickspittle-ish

And here is some "fan art"!

Sure, they have great bodies but must every picture be a shirtless one? Is that what he does all day? Walk about without a shirt?

Aren't steroids illegal in the USA? Shouldn't he had been struck off as a practising doctor using illegal drugs etc?

oh ok now it makes sense. He has 2 different facebook pages. The one you linked isn't the one linked on his own instagram account

btw who is David Harris? He's apparently friends with him and said DL has gone in on him too

[quote] David Harris Oh I discovered two full treads dedicated to bitching about me on this site. Awful things from vile people. I stopped reading. 3

and it's not only DL. He posted this comment recently too:

[quote]Jake Jacob July 10 at 1:58 PM · Overheard last week from a table of gays pointing and talking not-too-quietly about me: “I’ve heard he’s really boring”

[quote] I wanted to be offended but it’s actually really true. #vanilla

Where does he live that he's surrounded by other gays 24/7? I'm not interested enough to investigate. I imagine this contributes to his very narcissistic lifestyle.

One of the posters in this thread sent him the link to it. This is why we can't have nice things, these idiot posters who can't help but contact the subjects.

Also he posted this thread to get more attention for himself. Total narcissist. Even though most of the posts are mean he gets off on the attention either way. And FB friends who all want to sleep with him (or have) just fuel that with their obsequious posts. It's impressive that a former Mormon has become so self-involved, though.

[quote]One of the posters in this thread sent him the link to it. This is why we can't have nice things, these idiot posters who can't help but contact the subjects.

Maybe someone did that, but I doubt it. He doesn't actually say someone sent that to him, he just tries to use it as an example of the type of of hateful things people say to him.

[quote]btw who is David Harris? He's apparently friends with him and said DL has gone in on him too

Theater guy/instagram ho apparently, I had to look him up.

I actually liked David Harris and thought his thread was pretty nice on him, aside from some comments. Knowing he's friends with these guys kind of sours my impression of him though.

Ok I must be remembering the thread differently or maybe it was another one. That one is pretty vicious tbh :-o

Have we compared and contrasted this fun couple with those other DL Faves, Tommy and Gio?

They're like a hairier, less fashion-forward, more 'roided, more long-winded Tommy and Gio.

Are they open?

Current thread on Mr Harris. Maybe this was the one that R335 / R336 was thinking of:

R332 because they think they'll get a conversation and then a threesome with them for defending them lol.

His ninjas are everywhere it's like he has a lock on the internet. He knew MaleGeneral was posting photos of him and Teddington fucking and threaten to sue.

Oh btw Teddington is the bottom and Jake is the top in the relationship. I was able to see those photos but unfortunately not save them. Also Jacob like 5'6 that's why he looks muscular

[quote]His ninjas are everywhere it's like he has a lock on the internet

It is far more likely these people have a google alert on their name so they see when people online are talking about them. That is normally how it works.

R340 How did someone get pics of them fucking?

R341 you could see that butterfaced Nurse was the bottom from space, are there any top nurses?

Where are the pics of them fucking?

Why are the Instagrams posts THAT LONG? I mean, seriously. He has an extremely long-winded style of writing. I wonder what his charts at the hospital look like.

There's also something strange to me about how many times he has to say how much he loves his partner, is invested in their relationship, etc. It's almost like he's trying to reassure the partner (Teddington?) or maybe even himself, that he's still into him. The partner seems needy. He probably secretly resents how much attention Jacob gets and need to constantly be mollified (by way of Jacob's social media declarations to him). The relationship does not seem sustainable from my perspective.

This is extremely petty, but they have horrible decorating in their house!

[quote]This is extremely petty, but they have horrible decorating in their house!

I like you.

Not sure who’s sadder: Jake, for being so desperately needy because he’s terrified of becoming old and undesirable, or his fangurls who imagine they might get to fuck him if only they slobber enough over his every squirt of verbal diarrhea.

R340 No idea but apparently Teddington goes on Scruff occasionally so someone probably got it from there.

Teddington's face has that distinctive "taken out of the oven too early" quality to it.

When I see someone traveling that much, the first thing that comes to mind is escorting.

Jake seems nice, but he is very, very needy and kind of bland. I can imagine that the trauma of being rejected from his family has led to a lot of this attention-seeking kind of behavior for which Instagram is obviously perfected suited.

He kind of reminds me of one of the "orange eyes" on the AMC show "Humans."

I increasingly find myself attracted to guys who either don't have social media or who barely update it. Much more interesting than people who post selfie after selfie.

jakejacob01This week I’m grateful for positive influences in my life. Receiving a small note or text here and there really makes a difference. . I particularly appreciate the friends who allow me to be completely honest with who I am and how I’m feeling. Growing up like many closeted guys I learned to hide part of myself, essentially cover up who I am by either omission or straight up lies. When I came out I decided I would value honesty above all, be my most authentic self. I even told every girl I dated (and the one I was engaged to) that I am attracted to men. But true honesty with myself was what saved me. I realized I was lying to myself about who I really am, I was lying saying I wasn’t already exactly how god intends me to be. . I value complete honesty but I would be hypocritical if I didn’t apply to that honesty to myself. Being honest to my core causes the most vulnerability, but taking it the next step further, communicating truly humbling parts of myself to those who are most dear to me adds an entirely new level vulnerability. We all have times in the past when we attempted to present our whole self to people who either were not willing or were to ready to share such intimacy and honesty, ending in emotional disaster. I suppose that’s part of maturing, learning who to trust with your heart. . When I’m truly honest with myself I know nobody else can make me happy, and I’m the only one who allows others to make me unhappy. Loved ones can however add to the peace and joy I already cultivated inside myself. I can’t be cheered up unless I allow it. I can’t feel another’s love and concern unless I choose to open up my heart to theirs. Part of being vulnerable is humbling my arrogance when I’m convinced “I’m not worth it” and allowing loved ones to remind me, redirect me, when I need a little help seeing myself in a better light. . So today I am reminded to never underestimate the power of simply loving and supporting someone, a kind word, a smile, a hug. I’m reminded to live honestly and not believe the silly lies I sometimes tell myself. I’m reminded to accept love from those who freely care for me. . . #selfcare #instagay #acceptance #kindness #scrubs #doctor

Less is more, Jake. Words, roids, selfies, self-pity: less of all these things would mean so much more.

Wonder what it is he is talking about when he says he needs to be honest with himself? Like...about what? That you want an open relationship...or that you need a buy an expensive sports car....or that you wish you ate more carbs? I don't know guys...I'm just reaching here. What does all of this mean?!

That kind of diatribe only feels sincere and authentic when it is the exception to the rule. In his case, it seems like every IG post is a long essay about loving yourself, being okay with who you are, not trying to impress anyone, not living a lie, etc. It's like those people who claim everything is "amazing". If everything is "amazing", then nothing is.

Those posts are just begging to be parodied.

We don't have much energy left for parodying Jake and Teddington since Tommy and Gio take up much of our attention.

He’s the new Me!

There is nothing cute about him.

Did they leave San Antonio? They were pretty much the only attractive athletic guys in this city, which isn't saying much since it's San Antonio. I wonder if they'll be cool being small fish in big ponds rather than it is in here. In San Antonio they were white and muscular a rarity and many guys chase that here. But wherever he is now he's be low quality compared to the average I mean it was already apparent compared to his other Instagram friends at these whites only gay meetups

I think they moved to SA in the last year. They just spent 3 weeks traveling and I guess KC was the last stop

Hard to believe these butterfaces would be big fish anywhere...

so they're still in KC...maybe they did move there. I could have sworn they moved to SA only last year.

jakejacob01No plans on Friday night? Let’s have some fun at the gym.

I do a lot of body weight exercises and the two questions I get asked most are 1) Do you do CrossFit 2) Were you gymnast. The short answer to both is no. I’ve never attended a CrossFit class, currently not my style. I did take a beginners gymnastics course in college that taught me some basic form, stretching, and balance.

Most if not all of my functional workouts I picked up by watching and emulating other people. I actually stole the wall handstand push-ups from @teddington_01 and wanting to push myself further I modified them. I liked the strength part but I really wanted to learn how to balance. I see amazing gymnasts, acrobats, and aerialists that are far more talented than I could ever be, pushing themselves further then I can comprehend, and it makes me want to push myself as far as I can go. Currently I’m able to balance and do a few good presses on a good day.

Body weight exercises also help me not overdo it, which seems counterintuitive. Sometimes on a heavy lift day I start loading up weight and suddenly I’m in over my head with enthusiasm and unrealistic expectations, which usually results in injury. By consistently doing functional exercises I have established my limitations, and I push myself to change the speed, or increase the reps. The fear of falling on my head also stops me from pushing to the point of injury. I did have one overzealous occasion when I held my breath so hard pushing, upside down, I got petechiae all over my face from the pressure. Lesson learned: breath.

I can’t say enough about how much these help my core and stabilizer muscles. In order for me to consistently push my own weight up in varying exercises I have to keep my body conditioned, and doing exercises is in itself a great way to stay conditioned.

Am I a pro? Am I great at these? No. But I enjoy it. The lesson for me has been to keep trying new things. I’ve been lifting for years and it can get tedious at times. For me adding new and innovative maneuvers and exercises keeps going to the gym interesting.

#functionaltraining #handstand #balance #physique #instagay #booty🍑 #bodyweighttraining #abs

They are so annoying, and fugly

Planet Earth reaction video

and bombshell! NO ESSAY

jakejacob01Watching Planet Earth episode with the snakes and baby lizards. @teddington_01 first time seeing it.

FWI Ted is dealthy afraid of snakes. I love this so much. Sound on 😂🤣

Full Video on my Facebook

#planetearth #husbands #reactionvideo @bbcplanetearth

He is a doctor? Seriously.

They need to get over themselves, not impressed.

R366's video answered the question re who's the bottom.

Are they short?

R379 we been know even a blind person can tell that butterface nurse is a big ol bottom.

There's something deeply wrong with people who feel the need to photograph/video almost every living moment.

i have put off commenting because there are 373 comments already BUTTTT what the hell is wrong with that guys head on the right? why is it pink on the side??? ( the dude w/o the glasses on his head)

i looked at their insta and yeah, they are self entitled egotists..... BAH. SOS over and over again.....

Must admit this thread reeks of jealousy. Yes his Instagram posts are way too long, but he's an intelligent guy with a great job and an absolutely incredible body. I'm sure the majority of guys on this thread would love to look like him.

I guess Roids are cheap and easy when you are the Doc. No way these guys are all natural.

Why do desperate, insecure narcissists have this need for people to be jealous of them?

Talk about your narcissistic gay roided couple.

Not cute, sorry!

I tend not to go for overbuilt physiques, but I will admit that I find the doctor’s furry chest and forearms incredibly sexy. I’m glad to see that he doesn’t wax all his hair off as most Muscle Marys do. His hairy chest and arms are his greatest assets, IMHO.

It's hard to take any of the "love yourself as you are" platitudes seriously from someone who is so obsessed with their physique that they take steroids and clearly gets validation from how they look.

R381 Yes. You nailed it. And have you ever seen these guys with any friend who looks average or even less than average? Everyone they hang around with is muscular and obsessed with the gym. How about if they try loving someone who is chubby or who works in a textile mill or shops Goodwill?! Nah. I didn't think so.

The doctor's arms are too cartoonishly big and obviously steroidy.

They are probably borderline depressed.

He's really short, which is why his torso looks so long and the rest so big. It's easier when you are a small guy.

How short is he?

He lists himself as 5'10" on his ModelMayhem page, so probably 5'7" at best

100 percent natural physique? How deluded is he?

I'm into muscular guys so no problem with that.

flashback photo of smooth doc!

#2

#3

so he was around 29/30 when he took those model mayhem pics

Men who have those gym bodies quite frequently don't have, how shall I say it, much going on upstairs. If one spends that much narcissistic time working out, there aren't that many hours left in a day for other people, intellectual pursuits, and healthy relationships. It's all about the workouts, the protein diets, the muscle mass, the fat-to-muscle ratio and so on. And the fake modesty (sometimes) is an eye roll. Those guys all deserve each other for sure.

R397, they also have no clue what is considered a "proportionate muscle-to-fat ratio". Most of them have body dysmorphia.

I had a gorgeous friend who partnered with one of these gym types. The bf was (and still is) hot as heck. My friend was hot too...but not so obsessed with working out...just naturally lean and muscular from regular physical activities so he was much smaller than the bf.

It didn't last. It got ugly, matter of fact. My friend was gaslighted by this guy, who was totally engrossed in his weightlifting and protein intake and posing in front of the mirror. Lord, it was all-consuming. Thank goodness my friend got out of that relationship before it drove him insane. He took time to get clear-headed and is currently partnered with a bear. He is the happiest he's ever been. He said never again would he connect with someone so narcissistic. He said, "Finally someone who thinks about me for a change! And no more sitting at home for hours every evening waiting for him to get home from the gym!"

Some people find those type of guys hot 😵😷

No way he's 5'10"

Wow. for someone so introverted and constantly finding fault with his body, he certainly has a long history of taking photos of himself nearly naked. So of course all the self-deprecation is just so he'll be flooded with compliments.

Yeah that's what is so fake and cloying about his Instagram. He is actively seeking admiration and attention and wrapping it in this fake package. To people who can see through it, he's insufferable. And he labels anyone who disagrees with him "haters" because that nullifies whatever point they are making and he doesn't have to think about it.

I want to echo the poster above who noticed that this couple does not have one single friend who isn't hovering around an 8, 9, or a 10. Nobody overweight, non-white, no one without a definable six-pack. They are simply not friends with anyone who is not Instagram model-level of hot which makes me doubt this faux-sincerity of "loving yourself" and "being who you are." As long as the "person who you are" has a flat stomach, a hot face, and a following that numbers in the thousands, they are allowed to be photographed within their sphere of influence.

Also, there is no way that he and Teddington are not coming back to periodically check this thread. I'm as sure of that as I am that Trump knew about the June 9th Trump Tower meeting beforehand. So, hi, Jake. I hope you take all this in.

Why doesn't he take some fat, closeted man with a 5-6 face under his wing? It would literally never happen.

My prediction: suicide before 50.

He actually looks very cute in the pics from R388 - R396, where his physique is well proportioned, and he doesn't look like a cartoon character or circus freak.

But, he probably did (and does) suffer from body dysmorphia, as R398 pointed out, leading to the transformation to what we see today. He's got to be bigger, and bigger, and bigger still, and no one can dare tell him different.

R406, I agree completely. I think he was VERY attractive in this modeling pictures and I find him really ugly now. I think a LOT of gay men and now, even a lot of straight men, have body dysmorphia due to instagram and dating apps.

Getting bigger becomes an addiction, and yes, he definitely used to look a lot better. It is rather sad actually.

I'm weird, I know. But I like a more natural body....a dad bod is great to me. It is far better than the images I am seeing of the on this thread. And people with dad bods tend to be more fun. They will actually order pizza and enjoy it with you.

R409, not weird. 6 packs generally don't turn me on (a slight amount of fat is sexy on a guy). Being overly muscled is gross to me, especially if the guy has a thinner frame.

jakejacob01Woke up like this, ready for work haha

I often reminisce about when I started med school I literally thought I was going to be the first gay doctor. So innocent, so oppressed, so brainwashed. I felt all alone. It took me about 4 months to finally get the courage to tell my new friends in Miami I was gay. I was so use to the reactions I got from Utah that I didn’t want to deal with it.

The most common responses I received in Miami was, “oh wow I had no idea” or “oh cool.” I was taken back at how little anyone cared. Night and day from Utah. But what surprised me more was instead of cutting me out, these friends became protective of me. I felt a support I had never comprehended before. Not only did they accept me for who I am, they were ready to stand up for my rights. That was my first introduction to gay allies.

Flash forward to Texas with my straight gym bros. On rare occasion a gym patron would make a comment about me or Ted within ear shot. I learned quickly to be careful how much I told my gym friends because they would defend us with vengeance. To say I was touched is an understatement.

Even my co-fellows would emphatically protect and correct anyone who made a false assumption about me. When a person would ask what my wife does, I would hear a choir of voices around me correcting “husband.”

I struggled when I first came out, with no allies, no examples of gay professionals, no idea what I was getting myself into with grad school. I was admittedly naive. I felt alone and terrified, ready to be judged and looked down on. As I’ve been open and honest in my life I have found friends and loved ones surround me with support. I have found the importance of allies, to give a voice where I can’t. They don’t have to put themselves on the line, they don’t have to go out of their way to defend and protect me, but they choose to be there for me and other LGBT when our voices can’t or won’t be heard. Thank you for giving me the strength to be myself. Thank you for taking part of my burdens away. Thank you for putting my needs above your own. That itself is amazingly selfless.

#gayallies #allies #instagay #doctor #physician #wokeuplikethis #chesthair

[quote]I often reminisce about when I started med school I literally thought I was going to be the first gay doctor.

...seriously? How did this dumbass get into med school?

from a cultural standpoint, is Utah very isolated from mainstream USA? maybe all the gays in his hometown were closeted so all he had to go on were the gays on tv?

It all rings insincere and like a humble brag. "I have straight bro friends who defend me and correct anyone who asks me what my wife does." I've never been in a social situation where anyone, without knowing a man has a wife, asked: "And what does your wife do?". They may ask "Are you married?", but to inquire about a non-existent wife's job? There's also the weird comment of how no one had any inkling he was gay unless he said it. His photos and captions make it clear he wants us to never forget two things: he's a doctor and he has muscles. Okay.

[quote]Even my co-fellows would emphatically protect and correct anyone who made a false assumption about me. When a person would ask what my wife does, I would hear a choir of voices around me correcting “husband.”

Yeah this anecdote is stupid as hell. Even if it is true it just makes them come across as assholes. An honest mistake is not a homophobic attack that requires the entire group to pounce on a person to "protect" Jacob here.

Ugh, he is insufferable.

"oh wow I had no idea."

Unconvincing humble brag about how Straight 'n Butch he supposedly was.

Tittylicious

“Woke up like this” ... with a stethoscope around his neck?

R418 Your comment made me laugh out loud.

I really don't know how to take this guy. Is he for real?

[quote]I really don't know how to take this guy. Is he for real?

For sure, it is the same situation as Tommy. Someone who doesn't have the self awareness to realize how ridiculous they are.

R420 Who is Tommy?

He have a big ego.

I like how this has became the Jake thread and everyone ignores his ugly faced wife. Jake really is tipsy with Crazy. I’d never be his patient.

R423 well the hubby hasn't posted in 2 weeks

"Thank you for putting my needs above your own...." I imagine Jake had to jack off after typing that. The hubby hasn't posted because really, is there room for another person in that relationship besides Jake??

Do you think the happy couple shares syringes when they're juicing?

BTW, there has been a Pride festival in Salt Lake City since 1977. Granted, Mormons are not the most welcoming to gays, but for him to act like he had no way to meet any other gay people is completely ridiculous.

54% of Utahns say they support same sex marriage, 38% oppose according to a poll from PRRI last year. That's lower from the 62/32 spread nationwide but it's much higher than I expected.

Among Mormons, it's 40 percent support/ 53 percent oppose

It's like he would wither up and die if he didn't have an Instagram account.

Never in my life have I encountered such repetitious, long-winded epic captions to go along with an Instagram pic. It's extremely narcissistic and his posts are all varying degrees of a humblegrag.

Jacob, you're incredibly boring and quite bland, dear!

I know a couple like this. In their 30s, professionally accomplished, good-looking and very buff. They also can't say enough about their true love and their destiny together, etc., etc., ad nauseum. What's funny to me is that they like to think of themselves as being altruistic and inclusive even when they have no friends who aren't mirror images of themselves and are only focused on feeding their own egos. And if you're hot in your 20s but without money, they'll make an exception for you, but god forbid you reach it to 30 without owning a condo, driving a fancy car and being able to travel to circuit parties and pride fests all over the world. Anyway, most gay couples I know have open relationships so its not unusual that these two are always hooking up with other people individually and together. I guess I just think you can lay off the instagram odes to true love and devotion when you're balls deep inside someone other than your partner several times a week. There's obviously an emotional need inside you that your "soul mate" just can't fill.

Yes, r430, I’m sure they can’t imagine being friends with anyone who isn’t at least 2 of the following: young, hot, rich.

Even their supposed altruism in helping that friend who lost his ability to walk is based around the fact that the guy is also extremely hot (and hotter than both of them). I'm sure if the person was sporting a hare-lip and skinny arms, they wouldn't even bother.

Does Jacob have one fat, unattractive, or even non-white friend? I'm going to guess no, since if he did, they would have already been featured on his Instagram feed with a long post about "inclusion" and various cues to his do-goodery.

That relationship will end in murder-suicide.

R431, you forgot “white”.

Worst thing is that despite having zero black friends, they’ll make posts about BLM and then they’re idiot supporters will compliment them on being so inclusive.

Anyway, I bet they both check out this thread all the time.

The nurse seems a bit self aware so he prob hates it cause we’re all saying what he thinks to himself 24/7.

The so called doctor loves it. We could be posting pics of him covered and shit and he won’t care as long as someone is talking about him.

Yes, r432, and that will occur right before or after one of them turns 50.

Yes, they have an open relationship. I was in P-Town during their recent trip and know people who slept with the doc with and without his husband. And yes he's a bore. His only hobby is going to the gym.

And his other hobby is meal prep.

R435 Wish I was made for open relationships. But it does help to know that some people who do well at having them are still boring.

so people keep using his pics for fake profiles

Everyone wants to be ME!

The people that point out the fake profiles using their photos on their own account are weird. Just have it taken down dumbass!

He needs to start watermarking his photos

he needed to tell us he is not on grindr!

They make me sad to be gay.

Jacob is available exclusively on Scruff, bitches!!!

R443 x2

A friend of mine dated someone who was a lot like this guy: great career, lots of money, amazing body. My friend said he felt like the third wheel since all his boyfriend did was work out obsessively and plan out every meal.

I probably shouldn't, as he undoubtedly knew what he was getting into, but I can't help but feel sorry for Ted. Can you imagine how exhausting it must be to have to constantly prop up Jacob's ego? Not to mention dealing with his neediness and narcissism? And then there are the dull, cliched platitudes.

[quote]They both look great, but I can't help but feel that a doctor who looks like that could get a much younger bottom.

*eyeroll* I forgot that people were toys.

[quote]Why doesn't he take some fat, closeted man with a 5-6 face under his wing? It would literally never happen

I get the fat part, but the closeted thing? Why the fuck would anyone want to date a closeted man?

Dating someone in the closet isn't "being accepting;" it's "being a doormat."

R447 Jake has to look at Ted’s face every morning so it’s even.

This man is like a bad car wreck. I drive past and don't wanna look but I do. And not because its pretty...because its a car wreck.

Hi, Jacob! I thought I'd wave hello during your daily morning DataLounge drop-in.

The doc should just shave his head and grow out his beard. That poufy point he grows on top with the cropped sides just looks goofy.

I think the nurse husband is actually kind of non-descript looking. You know the doc wouldn't want any real competition in the looks department.

jakejacob01Perfectly swoll gym day with @carson_tueller 💪🏻

Lifting with someone I admire and trust is a perfect analogy for how I value the people in my life. They provide support, strength, alternative perspectives. From seeing me at my worst to my peak performance, and everywhere in between. It’s a unique relationship with specific vulnerabilities. Together using trial and error we overcome personal paradigms and figure out maximal results.

Over the past few months I’ve had some significant realizations. I enjoy my own personal time to relax, to unwind, to decompress. I’ve also learned I not only thrive off of, but require, interpersonal deep connections for my own personal happiness and growth. I use to fight it so hard. I should be content being alone, but no, if I want to be my best self I should set myself up for success and be realistic about what works best for me. Sometimes I need that hypothetical gym partner.

I thrive off of feeling understood, and showing others that same level of connection and trust. That’s not to say that I require another person to be happy, but I need to be honest with myself that I grow the most when I’m able to communicate and talk to somebody else who not only understands what I’m saying but also collaborates with me, is edified with me, connects on a deeper level with me, actively wants to grow with me.

The most effective way for me to think through issues and problems is to verbally bounce those ideas off of somebody else. I cannot say how invaluable it is for me to have someone else who I trust, respect, and admire who authentically and legitimately wants to know what’s going on in my brain. They want to know how and why I think that way, they ask follow-up questions, they sincerely listen, they offer thoughtful guidance and suggestions.

I’m my best self when I’m surround by people who raise me up. That’s a two edged sword, first I have be vulnerable and allow another person “in.” What if they don’t like what they see? What if they leave? But that’s the beauty of life, risk taking. I can’t be better if I don’t pull myself out of my own comfort zone.

#progress #selfcare #loveyourself #instagay #gymbros #triceps

Anyone feel like these longass posts of his are passive-aggressive "hints" to his partner, or someone else in his life? Like he's writing an instruction manual for someone dealing with him.

#StoppedReadingNarcissistJake@EndofFirstSentence

[QUOTE]That’s not to say that *I* require another person to be happy, but *I* need to be honest with myself that *I* grow the most when *I’m* able to communicate and talk to somebody else who not only understands what *I’m* saying but also collaborates with *ME*, is edified with me, connects on a deeper level with *ME*, actively wants to grow with *ME*.

That is a whopping *EIGHT* I's and ME's in one single sentence, folks.

Un-freaking-believable, really. Who the heck is he talking about when he keeps saying he needs someone he can trust, someone who gets him? Is he talking about Carson there? Or Ted? I don't know. Are they poly or something? Is he...for real?

If he was really talking about Ted, he definitely would have identified him by name. I think he was talking about their paralyzed friend in R453 who Jacob very much has a crush on.

Carson Tueller is gorgeous. Ted is...not.

Absolutely tiresome. How many possible ways can you say "I hate myself so much that I need constant validation and need to spend time with others so they can tell me how amazing I am"?

On further reflection, I don’t think he’ll off himself when he’s 50.

I give him until 45, at the latest.

Because it’s beyond obvious that he will never, ever, ever be able to adjust to the thought of becoming old and unattractive and thus invisible.

So Jacob requires someone who will not only confirm that his thighs are indeed massive, but confirm that they are deeply, deeply interested in all of the incredibly smart and insightful thoughts he has just churning about his brain.

Ghost of Bob Bergeron, you are wanted on the white courtesy telephone. ALL that drivel about what he wants and how to be his 'best' self and who he 'edifies' ad nauseum? It's like he cobbled it all together from a variety of poorly-written self-help books. A true example of a classically hot mess.

Yeah...if he has a crush on Carson then how is Ted handling that exactly? Maybe deep inside, Teddy is hoping for a break.

The good doctor can hardly haul Carson around P-Town to go whoring with him so it's laughable to think the nurse is going by the wayside anytime soon. He just wants to make himself look better by helping out a "cripple."

HIs blather is much more interesting if you add the words “on steroids” to the end of every sentence. Sort of like the fortune cookie game.

husband finally posts again...from KC...yet his profile still says SA

teddington_01This is where my dog Emma decided to dig under the fence to make her great escape into the wide, wide world. Don’t worry, I found her. #houdinidog

Ted is projecting; he's the one who wants to escape, not Emma.

They talked about moving in post r253, I'm pretty sure they live in Kansas City now.

Jake is shilling for Green Party voters on his Facebook today.

What's even worst are the sycophantic remarks that their followers make on every post. Chill, losers, these two are not going to let you blow them.

R470 did he delete it? I just see he wrote a post saying people are debating and arguing about politics

He deleted the thread.

so he's 1 of the idiots who votes Green rather than Democrat?

It's hard for me to reconcile Jake's pictures from 8-9 years ago with his look today. I realize men lose their hair all the time, but even his face looks so different now, too, and that must have been a huge chore to shave or wax his body hair off. Dude has a ton of body hair!

Ted does not douche properly.

R465 hit the nail on the head. Jacob is desperate to be admired for his body, but also wants desperately to be taken seriously as someone who is incredibly smart and giving.

throwback thursday to the Provincetown vacay a few weeks ago!

swipe. First one is Jake, second is a friend, third is Teddy

the friend's insta

I'm quite saddened by the amount of Facebook..insta friends my mate has, who's single and lives in UK , whos fb or insta profile is shirtless...they are good looking...but eternally single....their pics are more suited to Grindr...its very worrying...

Hate the beard but I love the pump he got here

This is about more than the average person can take. Talk about self-obsessed.

The pic at 481 made me laugh out loud. As if Jacob would pass up a chance to go out and be fawned over.

Huh? I did not know they were popular here. At least we get a break from the DL fave twinks

These two are extremely contrived. Jacob would whither up and die in a cloud of white smoke if his social media accounts were taken away from him. He's like a vampire feeding off the attention and likes.

It's a big difference from being a Mormon to being super vain and prideful, that's for sure.

He’s lying about a Mormon ban on facial hair, r230.

There is no Mormon rule against beards — the Mormons started as beardios.

Maybe Miss Thing is talking about peer pressure. But beards are one of the few things that Mormons don’t consider a sin.

He lies constantly.

Most of the doctors I've known over the years have been extremely busy when they start a new practice. Well, pretty much at any time, actually. I just don't understand how Jake has time to obsess over his body, his social media and his tortured self-righteous prose while also tending to patients. Add in a husband who also has a busy life and the charity work with the disabled guy. Not sure how this is all happening.

I am assuming the actual patients are the ones getting short shrift. They get in the way of the documentation of his life.

I have to think a lot of this is a big "fuck you" to his Mormon family and former friends who have turned their backs to him. He's going to be the biggest gay who's ever gayed.

The husband is pretty bland without the beard. But I guess he's the Ethel to Jake's Lucy.

Carson is either being groomed as a third or Ted's replacement.

Haha, Jake is not going to align himself with a "cripple" except on IG, where he can demonstrate his "charitable efforts." And you'd never see him with an "ugly cripple," that's for sure.

R486 I don't know that I would call them, "popular," here. Just entertaining.

Jake's tag line should read: "I wish I was you so I could get the joy of fucking me."

Actually, Jake's whole purpose in life is trying to present himself so he will be envied/worshiped by others. Speaks to massive insecurity on his part.

I feel for him....sometimes. He has to have major issues. I would hate to be his patient. His body....I mean, I'm not one to talk...but dang. It looks comical in its excessive bulkiness. Ted needs to talk him down.

I find this guy so boring

I have some friends who spend a lot of time and money going from circuit party to circuit party and hitting all the "hot spots like P-Town. All to cavort with other muscle hunks in speedos and drink and do drugs and, of course, get laid by strangers. They've asked me to go with them but that just seems like a boring existence to me, rampant sex aside. Always worrying about getting into the "right" events, trying to hook up with the hottest numbers, dealing with jealousy, judgment and cattiness, ugh. And then to be 36 like Jake, and having to try even harder because the truly "hot" guys are in their 20s, double ugh. Seems very soul-deadening, which is why he must have to try so hard to justify his life in all of his scribblings.

R501 I love you already.

letting you know about another fake grindr profile!!!!

Not on Grindr my ass

If the doc is not on Grindr, then how does he spot all the fake profiles? He's probably most offended by being labeled as 40.

They look super smelly.

R505 maybe he has devoted fans who are on grindr and take screen shots of fake profiles?

can the person who said he's on scruff post a screenshot of his profile there?

I am a hundred and fourteen percent certain his exam room doubles as a porn-fantasy set. I would never go to a doctor who appears to shoot up steroids and who is such an attention-seeking narcissist. I suspect he does little more than writing prescriptions for PrEP, Xanax and penicillin all day.

Well, there are only so many hours in the day. When you have to pose shirtless for fans to fawn over on instagram, plan the trip to the next circuit party, workout, share deep thoughts, take steroids, and reach out to the disabled, something has to give!

R509 At least he wakes up every morning with the stethoscope around his naked neck. It saves on time. Bless.

Did he have someone else take some bites off that Whopper so that the could pose with it?

It's a not-so-subtle message to his followers saying, "Not only do I look like this, but I can eat this crap and still look like I do! And what's YOUR problem, fatty?"

Shouting out some fan art.

The disowning family shit pisses me off.

I'm from Utah and I know several people who got cut off by stupid, ignorant fucks who put superstition worship and cults before their own blood. Makes me want to start some grease fires.

He never has bugle in the pics.

I don't know that I would wear skin-tight training shorts if I didn't have any bulge. I would at least stuff for Instagram.

ROTFLMFAO!

[quote]#progress #selfcare #loveyourself #instagay #gymbros #triceps

CLASSIC!

For him self care is synonymous with Instagram likes.

Do you supposed Jacob has an entire gallery wall of fan art and photos of himself that he gazes at adoringly for hours at a time?

I just don't understand why people like this have "fans." He doesn't produce anything - art, film, literature, theater. He produces himself in scantily-clad Instagram photos. He has a talent for self-promotion but no actual TALENT. Even the small bits of his writing that we've seen are overly wordy and self-congratulatory.

It would be nice if every so often, he used his very large platform to highlight gay artists, authors, performers who could use a spotlight. He could even make it all about himself and how benevolent he is and call it "Jake's Spotlight Sunday" where he highlights the talents of some under-appreciated gay artist. Of course, this would take time away from posting another selfie so it's clearly not in the cards.

I mean instagam is a shallow platform r520, it is largely about following people you think are hot. I just don't even find his body hot, it has become comical. And yes his insufferably long wordy posts are a huge turn off even if I did.

Wow reading Jake's post I feel so sorry for gays who grow up in any conservative religion, Mormon or something else:

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One of the most amazing men I’ve ever known, Sam Young, is working to save children from abusive sexual questions being asked by untrained religious leaders in the Mormon church.

Here’s a list of questions I was personally asked before I was 16 years old. Ask yourself if you are okay with your child being groomed with these types questions alone behind closed doors: - do you masterbate? - have you ever participated in mutual masterbation? - have you ever climaxed? - do you think about men when you touch yourself? - have you ever had sex? - have you put your penis is another persons mouth? - have you ever been penetrated? - what kind of pornography have you seen?

In response to admitting I had held another boys hand and thought I may be gay, I was told: - homosexuality is evil - you are second only to a murderer - gay men die by 40 years old because of AIDS and because they murder each other - you can never work with children because homosexuality is second to pedophilia - you can change by fasting and praying - you can change by getting married to a woman - you can choose to live a life of complete celibacy alone - you have a mental disease - you will be damned and never see your family after you die

The result of an untrained religious leader directing my mental health: - depression - suicidality - withdrawal - hopelessness

This practice is still going on today in the Mormon church. Little girls are being asked specifics about sex and masterbation by men behind closed doors. Support Sam Young and Protect LDS Children in his attempts to protect children from untrained authority figures who are grooming children for abuse.

Is this the first time he's posted an Instagram where he is not prominently featured?

I think he has stopped by this thread, folks.

R523 that's a facebook post lol his instagram shows pics of himself. He comments about various topics on his facebook. Another recent one was how a nurse asked him if he would donate blood and he said he can't as he has a husband and there's a no gay rule

Today he briefly mentioned that a friend of his thinks only gay actors should play gay roles. He replied with emojis implying he doesn't agree

Facebook makes a lot more sense, R524. I would have been completely shocked if this had been an Instagram post as that is very out of character for him.

He mentions the whole Mormon thing a ton.

Jake's body, on first look, seems hot. Looking closer, it's just not natural. It's oddly bulky up top but then the waist tapers so thin, as if he's wearing a corset. It doesn't make sense

See the pic in R478, where you can see his body from the side. it's weird

R522 I was brought up in a devoutly conservative Christian home (albeit not Mormon) but I was never asked any of these things. It's almost like the article is meant to arouse or something. Does anyone else feel this way? Freaky to me.

Threw up a little in my mouth on that mess.

Shouldn't a doctor know how to spell masturbate?

R528 Yes. He should.

Agree R526. I love big muscles, but there is something oddly distorted about his body.

R530 I personally cannot imagine my doctor looking this way. I don't find it attractive at all. My first thought would be that this physician is taking steroids to get this kind of body, although he claims he doesn't use them. In addition, I would be self-conscious around him...for some reason, for all the acceptance he seems to brag about, I think he would judge me for physical imperfections.

R531, you’re certainly right he’d judge you! He judges himself worse than he’ll ever jugs anyone. If he hates himself so much, he’ll hate you too! But not in an upfront way, he’ll be very polite because than he can delude himself into thinking he’s one of the good guys.

That hairstyle really shows off the receding hairline.

He really thinks rather highly of himself, doesn't he?

Why the breathlessly wordy Instagram posts? Honey, you are not a writer!

They should be hot, but they aren’t...why come, Onika?

Overdeveloped traps = roids.

Wide...but shallow. Nobody's home in there.

jakejacob01My most adult picture in honor of finally adulting the hardest I have ever adulted.

Anyone who’s known me for the past eight years may have heard me talk about my family. I loved that story, it made me feel so justified, convincing myself I was at “peace.” But in a moment of intense self reflection and brutal honesty I saw my lie. Unresolved issues in my past were affecting my relationships in the present.

So Saturday I did one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. I called my parents. Heart pounding, hands shaking I pressed send. I told them I loved them, I forgive them, and most importantly I sincerely asked for their forgiveness for the hurt and pain I caused. Saying those sincere words turned “the hardest thing ever” into one of the easiest conversations I’ve ever had. I realized I didn’t need to hear their acceptance to be at peace. In that moment I felt real peace, not suppressed numbness, and I realized I didn’t want to change anything about who they are, I want to love them exactly as they are. Then I called each of my siblings. It was a lot of phone calls.

To my surprise they said something I couldn’t comprehend because of who I had created them to be in my own mind: they love me as I am. They readily accepted my apology, offered their apology in return asking for forgiveness. Regardless of their response, my personal peace remains resolute. I had become complete with them regardless, but grateful for their generosity.

Why am I saying all this? Anybody who’s known me in the last eight years may have come across an angry blaming rant about my family. To you all I sincerely ask for your forgiveness. I allowed my blinding anger and pain to justify blaming people who simply didn’t act the way I wanted.

So, this is my celebration for new beginnings. A thorn I refuse to recognize has finally been removed. The peace I feel about my life, and the immediate impact it’s had on my relationships today, is further evidence that I needed to actively resolve my past issues and live and love in the moment. Special thank you to those who patiently waited for me to grow in my own time. I am grateful.

#forgiveness #peace #physician #doctor #love #adulting

He called his family members to apologize to THEM? We can add masochism to his list of issues.

I guess he was apologizing for treating them badly when they didn't respond with giddy approval to his homosexuality.

Wait, hold up. That latest picture with the family post. I really thought that he had found a picture where someone had manipulated it and made his arms look like the HULK or something and he was posting it to share a laugh about it. I cannot believe that he ACTUALLY looks like that. I love muscled guys but that is just ridiculous. Not hot, kind of gross, and certainly there's no way in hell that is not steroid-enhanced.

Not understanding. I think he wrote a while back about being rejected by all of his family members when he came out. So even if he treated them badly, it was in response. And he says now they love him as he is? Why couldn't even one of them have reached out? Why does it have to be the damaged gay guy begging for forgiveness?

R544 Good point. But you know how crazy family relationships are. At least they responded and asked for forgiveness too? Life is fucking messy.

After reading what he wrote about his family, I understand. He had a lot of negative energy in his life directed at his family and it was acting as a destructive force in him. By dealing with it directly, he was able to take control and now it has lost its power over him. I did something similar with my father, and even though we don't have a relationship now, I don't hate him any more.

Good for you R546.

maybe when they rejected him he lashed out with hurtful words of his own. I've always been good at controlling myself but I know when a lot of people get emotional, they can't. Being rejected for being gay is so traumatic. Good for him for being the bigger person but I agree his family should have reached out to him if they truly accept him now.

I don’t believe he’s made peace with his family!!!

If he really meant it, he wouldve celebrated it with a shirtless selfie! That’s how we know when he truly cares!

R549 You forgot what he said.....He is truly adulting today!! That means he wears a shirt. Now if he would cover those beastly arms, he might look halfway normal.

He wants to hug them... to DEATH !

R550, wow you’re right! The evolution he has made is worthy of the silver screen! Maybe Streep can portray him? Think she has the depth? The scene were she puts on a shirt to go adulting needs to be tackled with sophistication, angst and also get tons of likes on instagram! Is there any actor that can pull that off?

I don't know if he's sincere. Perhaps if the shirt was a bit tighter, I might buy it.

What if... his rage toward his family is what has been propelling him to the gym all these years?

Will he maybe lay off the ‘roids now?

Tune in tomorrow for another exciting episode of “Narcissus of Missouri”!

Anyone else get the feeling this isn't going to end well?

r555, there are several posts to that effect.

I mean, just try to imagine Dr. Jake at age 55, when his tits have started to sag and his eye bags need to be checked as luggage.

How amusing that the_la_basics is among his IG followers.

On Facebook today, Jake's posting fake accounts that have used his pictures. Well, honey, maybe if you didn't put out 25,000 pictures on the Internet for people to choose from, there wouldn't be as much catfishing as there is. Posting about the fake profiles is honestly just yet another way to humblebrag for him. Just laugh it off, report them, and move on. The breathless reporting of such events to his followers demonstrates the unending well of his narcissism.

Gee, doesn't he have patients to attend to? It's hilarious ( and disturbing) how much he invests in social media

It's actually the police using his pictures to catch the steroid dealers r558.

He really can't be very devoted to his patients if all of his time is spent on Facebook and Instagram. And that doesn't take into account the hours spent on gym and meal prep.

OMFG lmao!! Who took a pic of him presenting research and used it as a grindr photo?

Do lots of people use fake photos on Grindr? Does that not end up biting them on the ass when a person finally sees you and you are not the man in the photo? I seriously am not on Grindr and don't know how it all works.

It isn't about meeting up in person r563.

Catfishers are pic collectors. They put up hot guys as their picture to get other attractive guys to sext with them and send them hot pics. Just bored and desperate guys.

R564 Learn something new daily. Thanks.

Him meeting a patient...Enough about you lets talk about me!

"Hey doc, I'm worried about this pain I keep getting in my chest." "Thank you for sharing that with me. I feel privileged. Thank you for trusting in me. You know, people think that because I am good looking and rich and travel the world that I have it all, but the truth is, I don't. If I look deep inside, I know I have some insecurities. But I am surrounded by love. If you ask me how my wife is doing, the receptionist will come in here and remind you the correct term is HUSBAND, thank you very much. Well, your time is up. If you see my picture on Grindr, it isn't me. Come back in a year."

R567 I think I'm in love with you!

R567, you forgot to add "I am grateful that you chose to put my needs ahead of your own, and spent your appointment time legitimately and authentically asking what's really going on in my head. I need and value that from the people I have in my life."

weekend trip time! Back to Montreal

and arrived in time for a night time gym workout.

Ted showing a close up of Jake's ass at the gym. Jake then flashes his abs when he sees the camera on

Imagine all the time spent in the gym....just focusing on yourself.

My friends and I laugh at the douches who do a set and then run to the mirror to check their abs.

I had no idea Montreal did pride so late in the summer

the couple was there for it this weekend. Another married couple is to their left

Did they forget to pack shirts? Poor Ted looks like an afterthought in that photo

He looks like Popeye. I find it hard to believe as a doctor he is not taking HGH or Testosterone of some kind.

[quote] To be honest I have always felt far closer to my nieces and nephews, now totaling 35

Mormons are crazy. 😲

Back in March, Jake put this pic on IG and included some bullshit nonsense about him being "fat." No, it's not there now -- he took it out. But, It was the typical drivel that you've come to expect from these knuckleheads. They complain about their weight when they are not in any sense of the word fat. Not anywhere near it. Hell, he looks the same in this purported "fat" picture as he does in all the rest of them. He just wanted to hear people make comments about how he wasn't fat and how gorgeous his body is. He got a great deal of grief about it from a few people, and he got very defensive as you can see from the comments, but he did edit the post to remove the part about being fat.

And toward the end of the comments one of his sycophant defenders rushed in and said "he never said he was fat, he said he is at his heaviest weight ever." Ummm yes, he did -- he just happened to take that little bit out.

I think his body is amazing whether it's your taste or not. I wish I cared about anything that much to achieve that kind of result, but honestly I just don't.

I wonder if his Mormonism helped him in this endeavor. All the Mormon people I've met have had incredible work ethics.

Instagram has galvanized the sheepiest of the sheepy herders. It’s one thing to spend all day checking Facebook for updates from friends or Twitter for news stories, but people who spend hours a day with a boner scrolling through endless photos of narcissists caressing their own hard naked bodies are really killing their brains. There’s no intellectual stimulation on Instagram, and no variety. Nothing but same-looking people making everyone either feel like a demigod for making themselves in these sad bodybuilders’ images, or else hating themselves for not looking like them. Meaningless self-help platitudes with skin and muscle. I don’t fucking get it. It’s worse than porn. It sends the message that this is what the world looks like, or should and must look like. People’s minds are getting completely fucked from this shit. Meanwhile, universities are handing out Ph.D.s to people simply because those people pay for them and hang around long enough. My organization just let go of someone who just completed a Ph.D. but can’t write at a college junior level—but she is a competitive fitness freak with a hard body who eats six carefully portioned meals a day, so I guess she is winning at life.

R577 I wonder how comfortable his patients are with their shirtless doctor sensually caressing his happy trail with a sly grin. I wonder when this freak will be sued by someone.

I swear the only kind of doctoring I can imagine him doing is endless PrEP and Viagra prescriptions and ordering lots of STD tests. I can imagine him having an office here in DC next to VIDA gym for convenient gay prescribing with an in-office massage and cosmetic dermatology service. I cannot imagine most human beings taking him seriously as a practicing physician.

Curious how they afford the constant travel. Most doctors his age have a shit-ton of loans to pay back.

581 Please. You know how he is paying.

In that pic from Montreal Pride, the doc is next to another "medical professional'/instagram whore. I think he and his partner go by "The Canadians," or something. They obviously planned to hook up ahead of time, because why else would two whores who live in KC feel the need to go to Montreal Pride?

So depressing.

OK now their living situation makes sense.

Jake went to Brigham Young University for business management and marketing. He didn't like it and then went to the University of Miami for med school. Then he did his residency at University of Texas Health San Antonio. He just finished there and now has a job in KC where they just moved to

Just last week, CNN had a headline story about a beloved social media couple (heterosexual) where the husband killed his pregnant wife and their two children. Everyone was shocked because their social media life seemed perfect. Endless photos of the children, proclamations of love, etc. It has since come out that they were drowning in debt and miserable.

R583 yes you are right. They are a gay Canadian couple and own a fitness/heath brand

Why would you want to look unnatural? There's "great body" and he passed that awhile ago. Wth?

Does he really claim he doesn't use steroids (or their equivalent) to achieve that bod? Seriously?

LOLOLOLOLOLLLOLLOLOLOLOLOLOL

R581, but the Canadians are FAR hotter. I'm sure they had a fun orgy together

One of the hot to death canadians

The Canadian guy has been posting pics of himself online way before instagram was a thing. His eyes look different. I'll bet he's had them done.

When I first came across this thread, I thought that the doctor's Instagram would be another navel gazing exercise in social media. Like all selfies, the doctor's Instagram photos are self-indulgent. Then I started to read his posts accompanying the photos. It's his exploration of his true self, coming to terms with his sexuality, his acceptance of himself, finding true love, and from the latest post...moving past his family's rejection. He can help some struggling kid (in circumstances similar to his upbringing) find peace with himself.

Kudos to Jake!

His arms look a tad freaky in the photo...almost as if they were lobster claws...but read what he has written.

Always taking photos right after a workout

most recent thought-provoking fb post:

New thread!