Two more men accuse Topher DiMaggio of rape

*Two Whore Men Say Topher DiMaggio Raped Them

I mean this would legitimately be scary

[quote]And so I remember saying no, I don’t want to do this, and he said, No, don’t worry about it, and that’s kind of exactly what he said to Tegan. He was like, No, it’s fine, don’t worry about it. He inserted himself inside of me and started to have sex with me. I said, Stop, no, this hurts, and he said, Just don’t worry about it. Don’t worry about it. And he kept going and going and going and I just remember saying no, please stop, no, please. And I remember … I could see it and feel it in my head. I could remember where I was, where my body was, the pain, where he was, and then he finished inside me. And was like … OK, well, what the fuck? I don’t know where I am, really. I’m stuck here. And then I woke up the next morning, not really knowing what was happening, sort of putting the pieces together. It wasn’t until I left and went home and I showered and I felt the pain and I was like, Holy shit, I need to go see a doctor.

"I will never stop raping everyone!" vows Topher DiMaggio

I’ve ghosted two guys who volunteered that they do not believe gay rape exists.

I think it's pretty hard, if not impossible to rape a grown man, unless it's a case of gang rape.

Well that's just dumb and not true r5.

[quote]I said, Stop, no, this hurts

Which we all know is Gayspeak for, "Deeper! Harder! Faster!"

Particularly where sizemeat is involved.

Why, R7?

Do I really need to explain to you that men can be victims of rape....?

I don't know how someone could possibly hold a grown man down against his will is all, R10?

I'd imagine the list of things you don't know is rather large r11.

Rape generally has nothing to do with "fighting back", male or female. In sexual assault most victims tend to freeze, predators take advantage of that.

R11 well I don't know how someone could possibly hold down a grown Sarah Huckleberry Sanders, so if she gets raped it's not true. Same for Ashley Judd.

But he’s like 5’5. Are the guys he’s raping just as tiny as him?

Yeah...for some reason, my sympathy train ain't pulling in.

R15 is a piece of shit.

Did any of these guys punch him in the nose? Has his jaw been broken? Has Topher lost teeth while going on this rape spree? They just said “Stop, silly” and then laid there while he had his way with them?

oh my gosh

Man, everybody is an action movie star from behind the keyboard.

R15 says that on gay bashing and gay murder threads too. Chechnya threads as well.

I am not convinced. I know this is not popular, but I don't believe in gay rape. I also don't believe that guys who look like Topher have to force themselves on anyone. I'm tired of bad dates/hook ups now being turned into so much drama.

You don't "believe in gay rape"! WTF

lol, how do you rape a man?

R21 FUCK YOU!!!!!!

[QUOTE]Man, everybody is an action movie star from behind the keyboard.

You don’t have to be Vin Diesel to stop someone from violently assaulting you. Especially when he’s a midget who weighs less than a heavy duty trash can.

I don’t in gay rape, I don’t believe in gay bashing (I believe they have it coming or deserve it), I don’t believe in gay murder (see gay bashing), I don’t believe in gay massacres (see gay bashing), I don’t believe in gay concentration camps (see gay bashing)...

I don’t.

Testing

How does a man not have the ability to stop an "assault"? C'mon.

Be skeptical of this case if you want but don't dismiss gay rape. Men are drugged, have weapons wielded against them, overpowered, extorted, and brutalized everyday.

Each of these accounts is incredibly believable. Each man said no. DiMaggio forced himself on each of these men. Two of the accounts describe sexual assault. DiMaggio raped them.

R19, I would love to read that article, but you need a subscription to WaPo for access. Could you cut and paste the content here? I imagine one of the reasons that victims don't fight back is that they are in shock. Embarrassment, questioning whether you signaled consent, not fighting back, the opprobrium of others must also be factors in not reporting these crimes.

Before or after they get clocked to the head with a baseball bat R28?

I mean is Topher DiMaggio going to continue raping you after two sharp elbows to the nose? What are your hands doing while he pulls your pants down?

R30, that article is about fraus being raped by men—a perfectly understandable thing. There’s nothing in it about guy on guy rape.

overpowering a grown man is next to impossible. Most of these guys saying they were raped or assaulted are liars.

[quote]but I don't believe in gay rape.

All part of Trump country and the decrease in gay acceptance. This is all part of it.

Isn't Topher a little wisp of a thing? I think you can push him off of you.

I don’t believe in “gay rape”, I don’t believe in “gay”...

You can believe in gay without believing in gay rape, R37.

I Googled his height and Men.com has him listed at 5’9 160 pounds, which I think is bullshit but he’s probably got that Latin midget bulldog strength. I can see him overpowering some weak ass white twink. Like most tops, he probably goes for guys smaller than him.

Eh, maybe it’s not so fugazi afterall. I retract my disbelief.

R34 What planet are you from? You think all "grown" men come in the same size and musculature. I'm baffled that you can be so stupid.

They all have the musculature of an adult male, R40, even if they're shorter, they still stronger than women are.

R11, R15, you're on the right track. Oh, and R41.

Unless those guys are paraplegics, they should be able to poke some eyes, kick some balls. They're on the gravy train. Some of this metoo stuff is bullshit too. There's a big difference between rape and grabbing someone's ass.

r12 = fish.

Inspectia of Topher's tinymeat re-assures us that we have missed nothing!

That's just it, an adult man can/should be able to fight. These men who cry rape are making it up for the most part.

Add me to the list of non-believers. There's no way a penis is going into my asshole without my consent and active participation.

[quote] He inserted himself inside of me and started to have sex with me. I said, Stop, no, this hurts...

I just don't buy it....

You can't rape a man. Impossible.

Was there booze and/or drugs involved? If not then I’ll believe the story.

Because it never happened, R45.

It wouldn't surprise me if this wasn't some demented pron studio PR queen's idea of a publicity stunt.

Topher is a Mexican WeHo terror, he believes EVERYTHING is HIS, food, booze, your Apple products, your ass and especially your drugs. He preys on drunks, get a mix of his favorite illegal substances in him and he’s a demented Bam-Bam with a breeding fetish. He’s a bottom for his horrid BF btw...LOCK HER UP for reals!

R49 might be onto smthg. There may be a similar-'themed' studio video with DiMaggio coming out soon.

I dislocated my pinky finger in college. I lost consciousness from the shock. I can certainly imagine being sodomized against your will could cause someone to do the same, cause their faculties to fail them, or at least make their head swim. Bodies react unexpectedly to trauma, which is what women have been telling us for years.

Did he hit / punch / out-wrestle / drug them, so they'd submit to him?

Or were they naturally submissive and demure? E.g. if I'd come up to them and start pulling them away with me, saying "Come home with me" - would they just reticently, but submissively comply, without any 'flight or fight' response?

If it happened at all, they had to be drunk or high.

A guy did to me what r2 quoted... line by line. A friend of mine just said "some tops are really aggressive - you saying no doesn't mean no". I saw the guy online (this was the manhunt days) and said - wtf were you doing that night...and suddenly he change his entire profile to another age, height, weight, etc... with a bunch of fake pics. Months later, he contacted me accidentally (I had a body-only pic) and I replied with the same thing, and again - he did the same thing to his profile. He knew what he did. I was very inexperienced sexually & in my early 20s (he was around 40) and we spoke about not having anal pretty clearly. He just went to "play with my ass" and then I was pinned down & he was fucking me - couldn't move in that position. He didn't stop until he came, despite me telling him to.

This is the part where you blame me for meeting a guy off manhunt and expecting them not to do this. (btw, I've met dozens of guys online and on apps - only he managed to do fuck me without consent)

Male Rape Denialists, Could rape occur in this size scenario?

Ignore that it's Rizzo, as he'll take any dick.

So hot. Anal rape is so hot. Mmm yes Topher.

It's hot in a fantasy maybe, not when your ass hurts for two weeks every time you take a shit (or sit on a hard surface)... or when some maniac is on top of you without consent & you have no idea how far they are going to go / when it's gonna end.

And if you are going to be infected with HIV

Yeah, there's that - at least there is PEP for that which is highly effective if started within 24h. You have up to 72 hrs. to start it. It used to be AZT (seriously) - it was the only thing they ever tested and approved for this & needle sticks in hospitals, etc.... but now they give a combo of more modern drugs.

No, R55, it could not. How would you get a man's clothes off, force him down, and fuck him against his will. Even a small guy, even a skinny twink can fight back.

R52 is a wuss.

We wish to be raped by r55's top!

The only way I believe in gay rape is if there are drugs involved. Otherwise how can a guy not fight back.

This guy goes to take a piss and just stands there as Topher pulls down his pants and fucks him. Yeah right.

I do admit these scenarios would be super hot in a porn though. Has he ever done bareback porn or is it all safe at Cockyboys?

[quote] A friend of mine just said "some tops are really aggressive - you saying no doesn't mean no".

Some people aren't good with processing the word "no". They think it's a coy, sexual game. A fun challenge.

One option to try to bring them out of their fantasy, back into cold reality, is to use the phrases "court trial" and "prison sentence". Assaulters are egoists, so they need to be persuaded it's not in their OWN interest to proceed with the assault. That it's too much 'hassle'.

Another option to try is to lie you're HIV+.

oh please, like a man would say no to sex. No need to rape when the man wants it anyway.

Early on, I met a guy in the 976 DICK line. He started to fuck me, but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. He said "once I get started, I can't stop" I could easily have thrown him off of me, but I let him finish. I never considered it a rape.

Men who claim they've been raped are basically liars.

You can't easily throw someone off you when their dick is 7" deep in your ass hole and you're being pinned down across your whole upper body.

[quote]how do you rape a man?

Are you genuinely this stupid or are you just playing someone stupid?

[quote]You can't easily throw someone off you when their dick is 7" deep in your ass hole and you're being pinned down across your whole upper body.

And you're drunk and damn near passed out.

Suuuure, R69....and how'd it get there in the first place? Against some delicate man's will?

Moron, if you're not going to read the accounts, why are you posting here? Your questions have been answered.

You cant rape (99.9% of all gay men) the willing.

[quote]oh please, like a man would say no to sex. No need to rape when the man wants it anyway

You really don't know anything at all about men, do you? Or rape. Or sex. Or, well, anything.

But then, the most likely scenario is that you're just a garden-variety troll, giggling at the outraged reactions that your idiotic posts are getting.

[quote]You cant rape (99.9% of all gay men) the willing.

Well, see, that's the point: these guys weren't willing. Do try to catch up.

R21 you are either a complete moron, or just playing games. If a guy tells another guy "NO, I do not want to have sex with you", and the other guy takes him by force then THAT IS RAPE you mental midget!

I can’t believe all the denialists on this thread saying that men cannot be raped. This happens in prisons all the time. Rape is rape - male or female. Not all gay men want to be sexually abused.

Right, and men turn down sex all the time.

Some men, gay and straight, can't get off unless they feel like they have forced sex on the other person. It's all a power thing with them. If it's all done concentually the power aspect is taken away. Robert Conrad was reportedly a man who forced sex on other men and beat the fuck out of them while and after the act. I believe someone like Conrad had a mind that told him if he beat the other guy during and after sex he was not guilty of anything because he had to fight.

R71, no, you don't have to be drunk. God you're dumb. R72 - Going back to fuck around (oral, kissing) and getting naked does not = I want to be ruthlessly fucked while pinned down my stomach until you cum inside me. Is that so fucking complicated for you dumb fucks?

I guess a lot of you haven't really ever had sex and only jerk off to porn, so it's hard for you to understand... so forget it. Go on believing what you believe.

[quote]R71, no, you don't have to be drunk

I agree but I was just pointing out that this was the case for these incidents.

It's not a "lot," r82. Just a few persistent sociopaths. Ignore them and move on.

To all the people arguing with the ‘men can’t be raped’ trolls, don’t bother. Just f&f and block. It’s just one loser from multiple devices anyway.

And how common is that, R81? Hmmm? Rape is generally a crime perpetrated against women. and now men want to get in and grab some attention too. Honesty, the subject doesn't even merit a thread and only demeans the majority of real victims, who are women. It's be no different if I, a white person, started a thread about police brutality against white people.

omg r86 - so sad you haven't been fucked in your whole life that you lash out like this.

[quote]Six days ago, gay adult film actor Tegan Zayne accused fellow performer Topher DiMaggio of raping him the night before the duo was set to film a scene for the Cockyboys studio.

It's that called a rehearsal?

I'm not incorrect, R87.

Great. Now goyim troll is weighing in, see r86. Matt, you haven’t left the basement in years and just collect disability checks instead of getting a real job and interacting with people offline, what the fuck would you know about complex social issues like rape?

Ok dumb fuck R86, let's be clear - it is not "grabbing" attention when you're sitting in an ER while the doctor debates if you need truvada + isentress or Kaletra... and your ass hole is on fire for weeks every time you take a shit. Then you have 28 days of diarrhea from the meds, insane dreams, night sweats... because some lunatic came in your ass & fucked you against your will. ALL FOR ATTENTION!? Uh, no dumb fuck... The LAST thing men who are raped want to do is tell other people & also be subjected to the likes of you.

And I don't know how common it is. How the fuck should I know? I am not a SVU cop or prosecutor...and I am sure it is massively under reported... .NOBODY is "grabbing attention" dumbfuck. I'd love to know how you developed this kind of sick mind & when you realized you were unfuckable - so you became so jealous of anyone who had sex - even when raped.

R86 but add 150 pounds

What I don't understand is why do the never go to the police. Why do the never file police reports. Why don't they scream when it's happening? And you know I don't want to hear some "psychology of assault victims" bullshit. I think these are encounters that didn't turn out the way the person claiming to have been raped wanted them to turn out. And do men really go into cars and cry themselves to sleep after an assault? Come on guys, turn off the Lifetime movies.

So you're saying that rape affects more men than women, R91? You're an idiot. Male rape isn't common at all, not even close to being a social issue.

We once knew a sister who was in the Big House for a long time.

Said she about life there: "Nobody gets butt fucked unless they want to"

Mexican street rat Romeo Fink was born a criminal and will die a criminal, he’s rotten to the core.

R94 - are you illiterate or delusional? Where is that written that rape affects more men then women in r91?

They don't go to the police because it never happened, R94. Yet somehow, male victims are taken more seriously than female ones, despite rape/sexual assault/abuse being a crime that primarily affects women.

R94 males being raped doesn't happen as much as female rape so it's okay?

No, it's not OK, but it's rare and threads about it do nothing but take away attention from the real victims.

So many psycho cunts and/or beta males on this thread

I was expecting the porn industry to join #MeToo. Surprised it took so long. More surprised there are relatively few open rape scandals.

The studio managers (and some rabid performers) must be 'harassing' and drug-raping the 'models' all the time.

The problem is you don't even know where to start with the p0rn biz. It's such a clusterfuck of ambitious whores and suicidal depressed addicts.

Any reports against William Higgins and Jake Cruise yet?

#lookatmetoo

Gay rape apologists are the ones who are TRULY desperate for attention. Nobody will look at them. Nobody wants to fuck them.

Of course they project & say that the rape victims just "want attention" - the one thing they themselves desperately want.

Great Garbo and Monroe...

Rapist Topher DiMaggio.

these replies are too much

The same way you rape a woman, moron at r23.

Uhh, men are stronger and can fight off an attack easier, moron at R107.

I hope R108 gets raped, hard!

Sorry, but he can rape me any day.

And I mean Rape Rape.

Thank you, R105...!

Some posters here are so sad and fucked up.

And yea r104,maybe part of the problem is they are so unfuckable and desperate for a man to touch them they can't empathise.

R108, so invincible, so stupid. Or maybe not so stupid (other may beg to differ, I'll be nicer) as afraid. Even gay men can feel like their masculinity is being threatened when we talk about men being victims of rape or sexual assault. It's scary, especially when as gay men, our masculinity is already suspect, so we'll be damned if someone mentions rape in our presence. Newsflash, it can, does, and will happen. It almost happened to me in the Navy, yeah, I was able to get away, but what if I hadn't? I have also met men in the military and elsewhere who are rape survivors. One was raped in San Diego - he tried to stop a woman from being carjacked and raped!!! In return, she escaped and they wound up raping HIM to teach him a lesson. He reported his attackers - some carjackers in Imperial Beach. Found out later that they were connected to a white nationalist group who ran a chain of meth labs in Imperial Beach, truly the white trash capital of California. But the attack traumatized him and the subsequent bullying and teasing by his so-called shipmates drove him to alcoholism - and eventual suicide. If you look in back issues of the San Diego Union, you might come across his story. It's so sad and tragic. Because of people like you R108, he killed himself because men like you don't allow for a comfort zone...so, you know what? You ARE stupid. I hope you can fight off your attackers should you ever end up in that situation.

I am so glad that the military is stepping up its attack on sexual assault. It's being taken very seriously after years of having it swept under the rug.

Has miss DiMaggio bottomed on camera?

Punching the penis stops rape.

Biting the penis stops rape.

Tell that to someone who is being gang raped or drugged and raped r115.

Then do us a favor and kill yourself.

Do us a favor R116 and give us a solution instead of being a catastrophist.

Were the 'victims' drugged or something? Stop pretending it's normal for adult males to act like deer in headlights when somebody is putting a dick in their ass.

Please share with all the homosexuals on this site, the "normal" standards you would like us to live by.

To the 2 (or more) posters arguing about rape - wrap it up, will ya. We all get your opposite PoVs by now.

Anyway, back to DiMaggio and the accusations: Is this actually going to court, or are they just venting?

"I'll fight back to the point of killing you, so you might as well give up and get out."

Obviously gang rape is a thing. And being drugged and raped is a thing. One on one male sex can basically never be rape.

Take the one guy's story. They both are in the bathroom together. Topher pees and then the guys moves in front of the toilet to pee. Topher shoves him, but the guy is completely incapable of fighting back? He just stands there allowing his pants to be pulled down? And then he lets Topher get hard and fuck him up the ass? I don't think so. That doesn't happen so easily.

Let's face it. This guy wanted sex, but it got too rough for him and he regretted it after. Now he's crying rape even though I'm sure Topher remembers the incident very differently. Can't wait to hear the other side of the story.

Hard to believe so many d-bags on here questioning that guys can be raped. I've been raped twice, luckily nothing too violent or painful. But I'm 5'7 and 140 pounds, and I'm not going to fight off a 6'1 guy or two guys, and those were the scenarios ? Bite the cock ? Please, that's a great way to get murdered. It was scary enough without me making it worse - which is what many women say too.

How are you getting raped so much R123? Are you leaving the house in tube tops and short skirts? Are you hanging out in juke joins and dancing provocatively around the pinball machine? Do you have rape me tattooed on your forehead. What's going on with you? Are you just trying to reset a kinky night that got out of control?

R124 Shit happens when you're all that and a bag of chips!

Yes! How are you getting raped so much [R123]?

A study out of sweden, the majority of rape victims freeze up.

Sweden!

Here is R123 ready for a night on the town.

[QUOTE]A study out of sweden, the majority of rape victims freeze up.

Yes the majority of FEMALE rape victims. Nobody includes men in these studies. Men are different. Men take action. You think John Wayne would freeze up and lay there if Topher DiMaggio tried to rape him?

What kind of piece of shit "man" just lies there while being "raped"? Oh....wait....he was willing, and you can't rape them, lol.

What piece of shit wrestler lets themselves get pinned down during a match?

God some of you are so fucking dumb.

Watch a wrestling match sometime... or a dozen... or a thousand... at the end, one person wins because the other one can't get up. So strange how that happens since they're both men!

"What I don't understand is why do the never go to the police. Why do the never file police reports. Why don't they scream when it's happening?"

Gee, maybe they don't go to the police because they're afraid assholes like you won't believe them?

Ok, a sport is not a good analogy, R132. The wrestler is being pinned down,and that's it. He's not being pinned down, and having his pants ripped off while the other guy takes his pants off too. Totally different you idiot.

Seriously r134.

This thread is the pefect illustration of why so many victims of sexual assault don't come forward.

The world would be a better place without some of you in it.

You're the fucking idiot r135. It was explained to you MANY MANY times above that guys were just fooling around, kissing, and doing oral - and THEN one proceeds to "play with the ass" of another - and that leads to the non-consensual no-condom anal sex described....in an unclean ass-hole with shit flying everywhere (just thought I'd add some extra imagery for you).

How many fucking times do you have to read this. Date rape between straight people is real too - but I assume you would deny that exists as well because the girl agreed to go on the date and might have even decided to watch a movie with the guy after?

Sorry but that story at R2 doesn't read like rape at all. Moaning 'oh no please stop' WHILE not doing any real movement to try to stop the penetration is like 101 sex roleplay. The way it is described both were drunk or high or whatever, and the next morning the bottom had second thoughts about the whole thing.

[quote]Sorry but that story at r2 doesn't read like rape at all.

....

WHET Topher's ex, Lance Luciano?

A million times hotter than DiMaggio and said to have given the best head in the business.

No, I'd be the last person to ever think that men don't rape women all the time, R137, including in date rape scenarios. A man can fight off an attack whereas most women can't, how hard is that to understand? Don't give me the whole freezing up bs line either. Women do that, not men. He wanted it and is crying rape now, like most male, "victims."

The situation about how 2 guys can both be naked was already explained at r81, which was 5 hours ago, but the shithead at r137 just can't comprehend it could happen! It's just soooooo complicated for him. Poor r137 must have trouble in real life too... making change at the register, sweeping up the bathroom floors, etc...

R141 I thought you JUST AGREED that a man can be pinned down in a sport like wrestling. Why won't you shut the fuck up about this "fight off an attack" bullshit? Men are mugged every day too you dumb fuck.

You read the part where he had to seek medical help for the damage right?

So many rapists and wanna be rapists here. Fucking christ.

Gay men are sexual predators who will try to rape you guys, just read their message boards!

Of course men can be raped. How silly to suggest otherwise. God, the DL is getting weird af.

Woops I wrote the numbers down wrong. It was supped to be addressed to r135 - not r137

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The situation about how 2 guys can both be naked was already explained at [R81], which was 5 hours ago, but the shithead at r135 just can't comprehend it could happen! It's just soooooo complicated for him. Poor r135 must have trouble in real life too... making change at the register, sweeping up the bathroom floors, etc...

R141 I thought you JUST AGREED that a man can be pinned down in a sport like wrestling. Why won't you shut the fuck up about this "fight off an attack" bullshit? Men are mugged every day too you dumb fuck.

A man can most definitely be raped if he is face down and his attacker sticks it in. If these guys say it was against their will then maybe it was. Don’t they have very similar stories?

Do you work as a prostitute R123?

I think R123 is a ladyboy in Bangkok

[quote]Don’t they have very similar stories?

Yes, bot said they told him to stop and that they didn't want have sex with him and Topher fucked them anyway.

This is not a porn scene, in the real world that is the textbook definition rape, having sex with somebody without their consent

[quote] maybe they don't go to the police because they're afraid [...] won't believe them?

That's probably some victims' assumption. Which is a shame b/c it's not quite right. A report should always be made. The police investigator's job is not to "believe" or disbelieve the accuser, but to impartially collect evidence. This then can get passed on to the prosecutor, who decides (not based on belief, but on collected evidence) whether there's sufficient evidence for a trial.

Most importantly, the report stays filed with the police. And the more additional police reports come in, the more basis there'll be for a trial.

Seriously frightening the respone from some "men" here.... More like monsters.

Agree r152. Not sure if they are real, trolling, juvenile idiots, or what. Something is up. I cannot imagine anyone - even the most odious people I know in real life - saying this shit. Well, even the odious people have enough of a brain to understand the unfathomable "how can a man pin down another man" argument that persisted for 5 hours.

If you don't like the heat R152 stop whining and get out of the kitchen.

I have left your sick sadistic "kitchen" you halfwit bore R154

I still want to hear from R123. Why are you getting raped so often???

Stop prying into somebody's trauma. He shared what he was comfortable sharing.

I want to hear from you, r156 - how many guys have you actually had sex with?

I'm just testing my theory that you nutcase rape apologists are sexless angry virgins... as posted in r104.

Why do you want him to answer r156? So you can blame him for being the victim? Is there ANY other possible reason?

[quote]I'm just testing my theory that you nutcase rape apologists are sexless angry virgins

DL sexless porn addicts who don't realize that porn isn't real life.

"When a person tells you no, they just want to be fucked harder!"

Anyone who is a grown ass adult man who lies there going, "oh, stop" and does nothing else to defend themselves deserves to be raped and deserves all the scorn and ridicule in the world. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you have to be a wuss. Guaranteed that most of these claims are either for attention or else a case of morning after regrets.

Yeah, it's the theory on the table ... amazing those freaks don't have to defend themselves (they've avoided answering since that theory appeared five hours ago) yet rape victims have to defend themselves here?? Fucking sick.

Tell us, rape apologists, what made you the way you are? Post some pictures of where you are living too for us to see and better understand your way of life.... that would help us understand greatly. We just want to understand.

R160 - have you ever had sex? You still keep avoiding the question.

Right r160, it's SOOOO easy to get someone off of you. Are your really this slow?

Do you blame people who get pinned down and mugged too? Grown men not fighting back? They deserve it too, right? Many muggings don't involve firearms... just people get pinned down on the sidewalk and their wallets & phones stolen. That's all their fault, though, right?

This thread is some of the cheapest attempts at trolling I’ve seen in quite sometime

What are you on about, R161? Seriously. I'll tell you the truth even though no one wants to admit it - people only pretend to care about so called male rape victims because of political correctness. Men now come forward with their stories and their #metoo because they have a forced, captive audience and meanwhile, everyone really wants to tell them to stfu and to grow up. I don't know any man who couldn't fight off an "attack" if they didn't want to.

And of course I've had sex.

All very nice, but where does it say that the guys were being manhandled? they just laid there ass-up saying 'oh no please daddy stop' while not making any movement to get Topher out of their asses.

R158,

I’ve been married for 11 years, but had more sexual partners that I would ever admit to in public.

Statistically speaking, being raped multiple times (unless by the same person over and over) is extremely unlikely. I am genuinely curious about how this could have happened.

Not blaming anyone...

[quote]they just laid there ass-up saying 'oh no please daddy stop'

Like I said, porn-addicts who don't realize porn isn't real life.

R164 - bs - post a pic of your face with R164 on a piece of paper in the photo so we can see what you look like. We need to evaluate it. I doubt you've had sex or been touched. I have a 14" dick too on the internet.

You've heard from a dozen men who were unable to fight off another man in this thread, and also you've been shown numerous pictures of how 1 guy can pin down another (highly muscular, strong, wrestler - who cannot get up) - yet you still don't understand that "any man couldn't fight off an "attack" if they didn't want to"? Are you retarded? Seriously, have you ever had issues with learning or did you attend a special school when you were younger?

exactly r167

Lighting strikes twice sometimes, r166 - imagine that. How lucky for him. He must be so flattered by your curiosity. Maybe he went to bath houses and got cornered by some of the unsavory types there - and then you'd just blame him for going to bath houses. There are many possibilities. Some people have shitty luck.

Trolls are immune to information and learning. That is why they vote Republican.

Thank you for that hot pic, R162.

Is there also a video of that wrestling match?

Who the fuck asked you R170?

Mind your own business or die in a grease fire.

Maybe you should educate yourself on how a public fucking internet message board works. R166... and rape apologists are not only going to die in a grease fire, they'll be in one for eternity...so enjoy.

Maybe the poster should explain how he managed to get raped not once, but twice, R174.

LMAO r173 - MARY, it's not a private conversation!!

You can tell in interviews that Topher is messed up. He has that gross James Franco rapist vibe

He's not coming back, r175 - he would've replied by now. Why would he come back to this vipers nest of trolls and rape apologists.

R174 = another condemnatory Catholic.

Of course it’s not a private conversation, but R174 is a nut. I never condoned rape.

You're right, it's not, R176. If R123 wants to make claims online then we can question him.

I'm not a catholic. I'm just being optimistic about the futures of rapists and those that defend them.

[quote]"What I don't understand is why do the never go to the police. Why do the never file police reports. Why don't they scream when it's happening?"

[quote]Gee, maybe they don't go to the police because they're afraid assholes like you won't believe them?

Whether they believe you or not, your complaint is on the record. They can do a rape kit. There will be a recorded accusation with the proper authorities.

Also, people trying compare high school wrestling with this situation are ridiculous. Two different situations. Think of the mechanics of fucking versus wrestling. I don't think it's wrong for people to have doubts that one man can't stop another man from raping him.

And finally I want to know why R123 is getting raped so much. Girl c'mon.

And we can opine what his answers would be and what your motives are for questioning him.

No one here is defending rapists, R182. Some are questioning how a man can't fight off a sexual attack.

[quote] Also, people trying compare high school wrestling with this situation are ridiculous. Two different situations. Think of the mechanics of fucking versus wrestling. I don't think it's wrong for people to have doubts that one man can't stop another man from raping him.

Um... no... the people who can't understand that a man can be pinned down by another man are RIDICULOUS.

What fucking planet are you on??

Prurient ghouls

Attention DLers:

Times you are allowed to have sex with people: When they want to have sex with you

The End.

So is DiMaggio going to be a jailbird?

[quote] Also, people trying compare high school wrestling with this situation are ridiculous. Two different situations. Think of the mechanics of fucking versus wrestling. I don't think it's wrong for people to have doubts that one man can't stop another man from raping him.

It's not that complicated...except fucking also includes a 5th way to pin you down - a dick in your ass. If you're on your stomach and a guy is on top of you who weighs 180 lbs, for example, with his arms holding down your shoulders and his hips and legs keeping you pressed into the bed, tell me exactly how you "fight back" or get up in that situation. Even with a black belt in karate or experience as a wrestler who can bench press 300 lbs and does 500 crunches a day to have the core strength required to somehow "back out" of that position...the leverage and inertia doesn't exist. There's a reason that 100 lb females who learn basic self-defense techniques like arm-bars can take down a 6'3 200 lb attackers if they can position themselves correctly.

Without you ever having had sex, I can see this is too complicated for you to understand... so the wrestling images were to simplify things - but I guess it's still over your head.

[quote]Um... no... the people who can't understand that a man can be pinned down by another man are RIDICULOUS.

Yes, one man can pin another man down. But you're trying add fucking to the equation. The guy has to be pinned down and stay pinned down. Mean while the pinner has to get the other guy's pants down. Get his cock out, stay hard, and make sure the cock and hole and are in perfect alignment and fuck to completion while the other guy is still pinned. Do you not see where they might some problems there.

Glad to see posters are doing the right thing and attacking the victims while not caring about the rapist.

They don't seem to understand that part of it, R191.

"Whether they believe you or not, your complaint is on the record. They can do a rape kit. There will be a recorded accusation with the proper authorities."

Yeah, and even if they reported it to the police you'd still call them liars. Kevin Spacey has had multiple accusers go to the police and people still attack those victims

This was already covered 6 hours ago, R191. It is in post r81 among others. Why do you keep repeating yourself about the "pants being taken off" you stupid illiterate freak?

r122, r135, and AGAIN at r191!

Can you shut the fuck up about "the pants" now? And btw, what r81 wrote is just one possible way it could happen.

Topher and his top boyfriend. Try not to puke.

Because it's just about physically impossible to rape a male, R194, unless it's prison rape where there's multiple attackers.

R54 also explained how "the pants" (your favorite red herring) came off in his situation.

The video still alone of R196 turns my stomach.

That was the first time I mentioned anything about pants being down R195. I think you may need to calm down. We are having a difference of opinion which is okay and we don't need to go to name calling. One man can pin another man down. Sure. We agree on that point. Can one man pin another man down and engage in non consensual sex with another man, that is where we disagree.

[quote]Yeah, and even if they reported it to the police you'd still call them liars. Kevin Spacey has had multiple accusers go to the police and people still attack those victims

It doesn't matter what I call them. Is the report on the record? Was a rape kit performed? That's all that matters.

R200, Kevin Spacey's victims made reports "on the record" and assholes like you still attack them

I'd like to see one of those wrestlers pin the other down while also removing both his singlet and the other person's singlet. If that could happen (it can't) then you would have an argument.

Also, the guy in the bathroom was NOT pinned down on his stomach. He was on his feet. You cannot be so stupid to believe that a man can be raped while standing on his own two feet and not be able to get away. I just refuse to believe it.

Whatever, r200 - it's the same fucking wording over and over again about "how did the pants come off" - so you cleared your cookies and are pretending to be anew poster... kudos. The 3 posts I cited are written in nearly identical words (but I should "calm down" rather than suspect they've been written by the same person)?

So nobody can have you on your stomach, lay on top of you, and stick their dick up your ass without you consenting ?? So 100% of male rape victims are liars then. OK! Gotcha! Done with this thread now.

[quote] I'd like to see one of those wrestlers pin the other down while also removing both his singlet and the other person's singlet. If that could happen (it can't) then you would have an argument.

Singlets don't have a waist to remove "the pants" area. The other incidents of clothes being removed were covered above and cited multiple times, but you can't seem to read them for a reason that is beyond me.

[quote]He was like, No, it’s fine, don’t worry about it. He inserted himself inside of me and started to have sex with me. I said, Stop, no, this hurts, and he said, Just don’t worry about it. Don’t worry about it. And he kept going and going and going and I just remember saying no, please stop, no, please

At which point "GET THE FUCK OFF ME YOU SONOAFABITCH" would have been the appropriate rejoinder.

I mean, Christ, are these grown ass men or are they swooning Victorian ladies?

Let us demonstrate TRUE "empowerment" in practice, shall we?

#Growthefuckupandgetaspine.

“Stop, no, this hurts”

Topher: *Continues pushing into his asshole*

“Oh well, at least I tried”

Gee, given the reaction here I can't imagine why these guys don't go to the police

[quote]And did you ever consider going to the police? My roommate brought up going to the police, but it was so hard to talk about. Like, I’m supposed to be a “man,” so how could I be raped? They told me I needed to file a police report, but I never did. I was dealing with my own inner battle for months.

You can suspect whatever you want, but it wasn't me R203. You can see every post that I've added to this thread.

[quote]So 100% of male rape victims are liars then. OK! Gotcha! Done with this thread now.

I never said that either. I'm not sure why you decided to get mad at me for things I didn't say.

I don't believe in the cult of victimhood. Sometimes you have to take responsibility for the choices that you make or don't make. Go to the police. File a complaint. Go to the doctor. And don't be a pussy and cry in the car when you could have easily pushed little Topher DiMaggio off of you.

[quote]Did you think about yelling for help? I take it the bathroom was small, and you were unable to get out? There were two other people in the house, but I didn’t yell. I thought I could try to push him off, and the bathroom was actually spacious. If I had been able to push him off, I would’ve been able to escape. I remember my hand going on his waist and trying to push back, but it didn’t work. He was holding my chest with one arm, and then holding one of my arms with his other arm, so I couldn’t move. And then he started doing it, and I really couldn’t move. We were standing there over the toilet as he did it.

[quote]He was holding my chest with one arm, and then holding one of my arms with his other arm, so I couldn’t move.

Soooo complicated.... he couldn't move? Why? He's a man! Why couldn't he move? derrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr male rape fake!

"Sometimes you have to take responsibility for the choices that you make or don't make. Go to the police. File a complaint. Go to the doctor."

Being raped isn't a choice, but being a rapist is. Maybe you should be lecturing the rapists and not the victims about the choices they make. And you keep repeating the line about going to the police, when it's clear you wouldn't believe them even if they did.

Only according to you R197

It just doesn't make any sense. One claims he was raped standing and didn't yell even if he knew there were other people in the house. The other is just on fours saying 'oh noes plz' and doesn't even struggle to get free, and only the next day he "realizes" he was raped.

Is Topher a hypnotist or what?

People are not simply expected to believe any report made to the police. But people are expected to respect a court decision.

In order to get a court decision, one needs to go to the police. The police will simply collect evidence and pass it to the court.

People sometimes freeze when they are being assaulted. It makes no sense to blame the victim

R214, people often suffer dissociation during these attacks, they may not be able to fight back as you would. It does NOT make it OK! No means NO. You have no clue how inebriated any of these victims were at the time either. So STFU already CREEP!

R124 and R126 I used to go out a lot, I went to the gym, I was hot but small and innocent-looking, and oh by the way, I didn't sit home eating fried food and ice cream every Saturday night and guys wanted to do me. You wouldn't know.

All the guys saying --Fight ! Go to the police ! First of all, fighting is what gets you beat up, maybe killed. If he's strong enough to rape you, and you don't think he's going to kill you, it's probably better not to fight. And maybe you've never dealt with the police as a gay guy, but going to the police about a rape is usually not going to get you anywhere. Especially back in the day. I'm pretty sure if it happened to most of you, you'd endure it, get through it, and just want to go home after. That's what raped women have dealt with for eternity -- what part don't you get ??

The thread is full of nasty trolls here whose entire mission it is not "to get" the most basic facts about this issue r219. They're probably wondering "if you were dressed slutty" when it happened now.

Some guys are really triggered by porn stars getting raped.

I’m more triggered by Topher’s dead tooth. It’s so fug and I can’t believe no one’s brought it up yet.

I feel like I need a shower after reading this thread.

Will the porn community rally and refuse to work with Topher anymore?

R220 thanks. There's lots of gay men who have gotten raped, it;s not rocket science. There's a certain small percentage of the population whose brains are short-circuited. You go out, you get drunk or go a party and get juiced up on G, and you start looking for for victims. The guys who did to me probably thought it was no big deal, and actually I can't say its really affected my life either. But luckily i wasn't beat on and didn't get HIV.

“Just Go For The Hole” Vote DiMaggio 2020!

Topher’s dick is so small, like a prepubescent kid’s. I’m surprised these victims actually felt anything.

There's just one rape apologist troll on this thread. he's dumping his cookies over and over again and then posting again. You can tell he uses the same writing style.

I agree with r227. It looks like the troll was caught in thread r195. He apparently has gone to sleep now so we don't have to hear "how did they get the pants off" for a fifth time.

The rapey troll creep is probably aroused by this forum. There are some sick bastards on DL.

He looks pretty built and is likely stronger than you’d expect. And drinking was involved, at least in the second complaint. It sounds like some of you rape deniers have never been in a fight - when you are turned around, on your back, and/or recovering from being punched/struck, you are at your most vulnerable. Heck, in MMA and wrestling, moves that put an opponent in those positions are called “submissions” for a reason. If you want to see how easily it can happen, look at that porn scene where Tom Faulk was almost raped on-set - he is pretty athletic and built and he had to kick twice to get a much smaller guy off of him.

[quote] but going to the police about a rape is usually not going to get you anywhere.

It's up to every individual what they plan to do. But not going to the police won't get anyone anywhere either. Without any filed reports, the assaulter will likely keep on raping others.

R231 That's true, but the Ultimate Good is not what the rape victim is not usually uppermost in your mind after the fact, The point is, not going to the police is not a good gauge of whether rape occurred.

you can't rape a whore.

How could anyone beat off to Topher? He is dead in the eyes and sounds like a cow. That Tegan though, wow. Hot piece

Will all you people stop doing the DL "he's not hot" thing? It's annoying. He's pretty hot, that's why they pay him to fuck on camera. Cmon. You do this to Colton Haynes, Steve Grand, Pietro Boselli, Timothy Chalamet, every singer, actor, model and Insta-ho going. They're hot. You're overweight and 60. (And I'm getting there.) Stop whining that you wouldn't do them in a heartbeat if they'd only let you.

If you go to the police, you have to give them your sheets I think.... and they have to swab you in places....it's not for everyone. Then, I think there is a very very long wait for the rape-kit.

The guy who raped me was a researcher at one of the most prestigious university hospitals in the world (I didn't know at the time- he made up everything about himself except his phone number & google told me a lot based on that), so I would've ruined his career if I turned him in... and possibly certain medical treatments wouldn't be available now. Who knows... but also I didn't want to deal with the drama of any of it. I wasn't really *that* affected by it, so I thought... but then I realized I am really weird / stand-offish about letting guys fuck me. If it is related to that or not, I don't know. But I never really get fucked nearly as often as I suck a dick. It's like 10 to 1.

Oh to be clear, I didn't avoid turning him in due to his job... it just made it clear that he had a lot of money to fight the situation - which would've likely worsened things further.

I believe my step-son to be innocent.

[quote] not going to the police is not a good gauge of whether rape occurred.

Well, that's exactly the issue. If one doesn't do anything - the assault is left unproven. So the public is free to believe or disbelieve the uninvestigated account. No one can expect others to believe them without at least allowing an investigation.

Yeah, I understand and kind of agree with R239. It becomes a case where it is one person’s word against the other in the kangaroo court of public opinion. In those cases, it is better to say you were assaulted but not name a specific person because in most cases, there is no way to prove it, years have passed muddying the details, and there is no legal remedy. Totally understand that it is a personal decision but revealing it years later does not allow justice to be done. Just think: if one victim had come forward, maybe it would have stopped with that guy but instead you hear these accusations and allegations and as far as we know, Topher gets the benefit of the doubt because there is no way to prove it.

Hey asshole at r21, gay rape is real.

As for TDM not having to force himself on anyone - rape is frequently about power, not sex. And just because you think he’s hot doesn’t mean any man would want to have sex with him and not resist.

I was raped when I was 18. 5’11 and strong but I was terrified for my life. So fuck you.

This last Rape story doesn’t pass the smell test to me, at least not as it’s reported.

So you’re in the bathroom for 15 minutes and you’re BEING RAPED but don’t yell out to the others in the house??? You don’t sY something when you and Topher leave that bathroom??? You’re not a literal and figurative mess, leading others to ask what happened???

You don’t report it or give your name, but you do share a photo of your messed up lip that supposedly proves you were raped???

I have 20 other questions, too. This story is a nightmare.

The third?

So no info on Lance Luciano?

Fish are so disgusting, it is good when they get 'raped' (if they even do) and bad things happen to them!

I give it 6 months, max, before there's at least one top in the news claiming some aggressive powerbottom tied him to a chair, then impaled himself on the alleged-victim's somehow-hard cock.

[quote][R15] is a piece of shit.

So’s your mother...yet here you are. LUCKY US.

[quote][R15] says that on gay bashing and gay murder threads too. Chechnya threads as well.

HA! No, I don’t. Nor would I EVER. You tried it tho.

BTW, you nutsacks should see the number of likes that I got for my post. Jus sayin'

Yeah right like porn studios give a shit about their models, or what they do in private, Sebastian young raped his own 5 year old daughter and gave her hiv, johnny rappid beat his girlfriend because he wanted to have a threesome with a 15 year old girl and she said no. And they are still working.

[quote]Hey asshole at [R21], gay rape is real.

[quote]As for TDM not having to force himself on anyone - rape is frequently about power, not sex. And just because you think he’s hot doesn’t mean any man would want to have sex with him and not resist.

I agree. That’s a really uninformed way of looking at rape. Word of advice....NEVER say that out loud.

[quote]I was raped when I was 18. 5’11 and strong but I was terrified for my life. So fuck you.

That was YOU. At 18. That seems reasonable. I’m sorry but these stories are like goddamn swiss cheese. It also doesn’t help that people like Dimaggio are constantly SURROUNDED by attention-seeking, inhibitionless, drug addicts whose credibility ain't great to begin with. Let’s not pretend like these aren’t the kinds of people who could make shit up for opportunity, revenge etc.

I’m not around porn people often but the few times I have been...yeah, I wouldn’t be surprised either way.

Wow!

Lots of fucking deranged assholes on this thread!

Men can't be raped...really?

WTF?

That person who goes by the name "Tegan Zayne" and supposedly accuses Topher Di Maggio of rape always looked rather flakey to my mind.

He describes himself as "a professional whore".

The "men can fight back" trolls are straight women and they have been doing it on this board for MONTHS about any sexual abuse relating to men. Read this - from November (linked below also):

[quote]What has enraged me are the female posters (most said they were straight) who have been posting that childhood sexual abuse either doesn't happen to boys, or when it does, it's not serious. Same thing with the whole "men can fight back" trolls. One poster (in a thread about sexual assault against gay men) was shut down by a woman who called him liar and said the he and others were guilty of taking attention away from women. Really, bitch? A thread about assault on a gay message board? That pissed me off.

This text was posted in 11/6/17 and they are still at it in this thread 3 months later...word for word. (See reply 11 at the link attached for proof.) It seemed that the danged cunts were empowered by Trump's election and had nowhere else to go after the IMDb closed.

This is yet another reason they couldn't answer a word about their sex lives (as gay men) when asked a dozen times above. They don't know anything about the sex lives of gay men that would present as anything believable. It also is the only explanation for the incessant and repetitive comments that any man on the planet would know - how could they fuck them and get their clothes off - if he's another man, why can't he fight back? The dumb frau cunts keep going and going and going. They're using the SAME lines in this thread - taking attention away from women (right r86?? up to your old tricks?).

It was made pretty clear on another message board that fraus have invaded DL and are fucking up this board - I never realized it was in such a vile manner. That board can't be named here or the post won't submit.

Block R86 and then read the shit she spewed in this thread... sick fucking bitch that one... sick nasty diseased cunt. All of the men who have been raped and shared their stories in this thread are defending themselves against psychotic misandrist homophobic women. Block R86 and read it. No man wrote that shit. And that's just 1 of them.

R86, r11, and r131 make up 99% of the "you can't rape a man" trolling on this thread. There are 3 of them total - having written about 30 posts. If you block them, all the attacks on gay rape victims will be gone - and you can read everything they have been up to, all together.

Please FF these cunts too so they will get the fuck off the board. It's unfortunate you can't FF them in person with a spiked glove.

They've been doing this shit since October, at least (based on being identified once already in November in the other thread)

There are rapist apologists on this thread, but there are also weakling apologists.

Most bottoms are incapabable of fighting back.. think about bullied teens how often they fight their bullies. This is similar. Their dignity should be protected.

But please also allow people to ask a man to at least fight for his own dignity.

If he cant because he's a little submissive weakling, he needs care and protection, but maybe he should work on his own behaviourial issues too, and discussion of both aspects should be up for discussion without being called slurs.

FF r254 - we are done with your bullshit.

This thread is disgusting. What the fuck is wrong with some of you people? Where is the empathy for the victims? It doesn't matter if they had the physical strength to fight DiMaggio off or not. It is completely irrelevant. They said NO. They said STOP. That is enough to make it rape.

Was this performer faking a loving, heartfelt performance two years ago?

Or faking a different kind of performance now?

When a person is in pain and wanting the person inside them to STOP, yet they don't. That is rape.

Males can be raped you ignorant fucks.

I am sure this Topher guy is a shit and rapist. Guys can be raped. (By the way, his name is Top + her... I mean, really.)

My tragic input to this thread is that I am 6'2" eldergay versatile slut and I doubt I would feel all that raped by this short guy with average cock. Would my well used ass notice much at all?

Please don't pollute our beautiful eyes with photos of tinymeats!!!!!!!!

I mean, did the victim go the NEXT MORNING for the damage or for a rape kit and PEP? The latter two would be sensible. How much physical damage could that average dick do on a drunken bottom's ass?

For you, R258.

Forgetting all the details of these allegations, it’s alarming how many people here are saying “I don’t believe in gay rape.” Gay men have been raped as a form of intimidation and punishment throughout history. What the fuck is wrong with the homos here?

R263, it's not gay men. Please see the post at r253. They're claiming to be angry that these comments take attention away from women. If you block those posters - you'll see all 30+ posts of the same shit they've written over and over... and they are all representing themselves as females. It's possible they're just trolls from god-knows-where though - but it's definitely not other gay men.

[quote]I mean, did the victim go the NEXT MORNING for the damage or for a rape kit and PEP? The latter two would be sensible. How much physical damage could that average dick do on a drunken bottom's ass?

No one on the internet reads

[quote]So I left and went to the hospital and told them that I was sexually assaulted by a porn star and I was terrified and I needed help. I wanted to get on PEP. I knew I had a 48-hour window. The doctor asked if I knew who it was. I said yes. She left the room. A couple minutes went by, she came back and said she had spoken to a police officer who was on duty and he was outside the exam room and he wanted my written statement. She told me that in order for her to do an exam to see what the damage was — cuts or bruises or scars — that I had to speak with the police officer. I told her I didn’t want to do that, so they didn’t perform an examination. They gave me 30 days of three different types of antiretrovirals for potential exposure to HIV. They gave me full blood panels for STIs. Everything came back fine, but I was on anti-HIV drugs for 30 days, which is its own kind of Hell.

Thank you, R265. That info comes from a different source than I read, which did not include it.

By the way 30 days of PEP is annoying but not a "kind of Hell."

This is ridiculoso.

So whats another slice off a loaf of cut bread?

I don't understand the point of R267. Is that some sort of rapist rationalization?

It's gay "rape" reality.

More word salad. Is English not your native language?

What's so complicated r270 - it's like a slice of pie off a truck full of muffins...or a blue fly in your black chardonnay.

(no seriously, what the fuck is he talking about? have they resorted to talking in code now that r253 exposed the bullshit they've been doing?)

What if a dude holds a gun on a guy and has him undress or he'll shoot him? The guy with the gun held to the victim could easily rape him. That's just one scenario that's probably happened. Yes, guys can be raped!

And if Topher was using a gun or any other weapon then the claims of his accusers would make a hell of a lot more sense.

What would Whoopi say?

Something for which she would be paid far too much r274.

His dick is an ugly, tiny scarred up mess. That alone would keep me from even looking his way or responding to anything he may have said or done to entice me into his gay web.

Y'all are a bunch of hypocrites. So many of you claim to be offended here, yet I received several W&W for my comment at R68. At least nine of you agree that men who say they've been raped are LYING.

Back in the real world, pretty much all DLers agree that men can of course be raped r277.

[quote]What I don't understand is why do the never go to the police. Why do the never file police reports.

This isn't an episode of SVU. Mariska Hargitay isn't going to hold your hand, with a sympathetic ear. Male victims of rape often face disbelief, ridicule, and even open laughter [italic]from the police.[/italic]

Maybe he’s got a split personality, Topher is the rapist, Romeo is the coke addicted thief?

"They're bringing drugs, they're bringing crime. They're rapists!"

A beaner raped someone. That's how they are. Weak white putos just love to complain. At least he didn't kill any of them. Mexicans are here to stay. Get over it.

We were raped by Geffen!

Is there an Italian word for consent?

Wrong, R279. They're taken far more seriously than female victims. "A dead girl or a live boy." Look at some of the prominent cases lately for example. Kevin Spacey was let go from HoC, he was removed from a movie, and HoC was cancelled all on the word of one, single, male victim to start with, (yes more came later, but he was fired from HoC before they came forward). Even Deb Messing was tweeting about it, ffs. And then, look at the men with female accusers like Danny Materson or Roy Moore. The posts here you object to are simply a backlash to the way in which society treats and has always treated women and female victims (who are the majority of victims). I've made some of the posts, but not all of them. Until society looses its misogyny and WOMEN stop being assaulted every day at the hands of men, men need to sit down and stfu about an issue that primarily affects females. Don't like it, too bad. And btw, many males DO lie about assault/abuse, and yes they do it for attention because they just can't stand to let society focus on women. Even men who actually have been assaulted have no need to co opt the spotlight, but they do anyway, because, well, they're men. They fail to realize that they are far more able to fend off an assault than a woman, and they need to own that instead of jumping on the #metoo bandwagon.

[quote] men need to sit down and stfu about an issue that primarily affects females. Don't like it, too bad. And btw, many males DO lie about assault/abuse, and yes they do it for attention because they just can't stand to let society focus on women.

This bullshit has been repeated endlessly since October. We know what you are doing at this point, as it was all pointed out at r253 and r252 where people have been complaining about your shit way back in November (linked here). Nobody is going to engage you anymore. You're done. Move along.

Please - anyone reading this thread, just FF this nutjob / troll / waste of space.

Read this heterosexual man's story about his rape...men from the UK/Australia are much more forthcoming when it comes to dealing with sexual assault of men.

Do you believe him, R286?

R287 = R284

FF. Don't engage.

[QUOTE]Greater Manchester Police have confirmed that arrests were made in connection with Sam’s rape, but that no further action was taken.

Why not?

[quote]They're taken far more seriously than female victims.

You're psychotic. Go peddle that bullshit elsewhere.

R284 is definitely a woman, and a histrionic cunt, at that.

[quote]"A dead girl or a live boy."

You know that refers to how the public views cheating politicians; it has nothing to do with how the police treat male rape victims.

Denying male rape helps your cause [bold]not at all.[/bold] Indeed, it denigrates all victims of sexual violence. FF and Ignore to you R284.

r290 is correct. ww & ff r284.

Men are believed, women are not.

That bozo, Sam in R286, had been drinking from 'after work' to 3am.

So that means he was paralytic for six hours.

And here's your own icon saying the SAME thing.

R292 just cleared its cookies & had been posting as R284 who was now FFed off the page.

Just FF again. Don't engage.

We got R284's post cleared off the thread. These cunts have been doing this since October - but finally the tide is turning now that they are being identified.

MORE

R293's earlier work includes her posts at r115:

[quote]Punching the penis stops rape.

[quote]Biting the penis stops rape.

FF.

FF homophobic troll at r294. Deb Messing is nobody's "icon" if you actually have read this board for any length of time.

The point Daniel Abraham was making was not about men vs. women, troll R296. He clearly states it here:

[quote]I find it fascinating that the perps and perv on the left are being investigated and held to account while the ones on the right keep getting elected.

So - FF r296

Note also, the rape apologist / denialist trolls started on the board around 3 or 4 EST. They finished last night around 12 AM. What time zone is that regular work hours? 9 hour day.

Hey cunt @R294.

Did you read the replies to Debra Messing? People handed her ass to her.

Bye bye.

Not possible.

They are working on hours that correspond to the Australian work day (Melbourne or Sydney) from 9-5, as their posts appear around 4 Pm EST to midnight EST. This also corresponds of the use of the word "sport" by r 135, which is how an Australian would say it - not "sports" which is how an American would say it. So why the hell are their posts coming from Australia?

R298, homophobic, really? Since when isn't she an icon around here? And what do you think of the homophobic article at R286?

Reputation management firm based in Sydney?

R301 = Sherlock Holmes

R302 - Forever. Since you're from some paid reputation management firm that just descended on this board after the Spacey allegations, you wouldn't know. I'll give you one (of a dozen) threads about her "on here".

Interesting you cited an Australian article, of all things... R302... proves what was posted at r301 and r303... you're going down fast...

So which firm are you trolls working for?

You're done. You've outed yourselves by the time stamps of your posts, grammar ("sport" and "what are you on about"), and your usage of Australian news sources. Further outed by the script you stick to (same lines for months), the inability to respond to anything off-script and respond... so which one is it? The jig is up.

I'd like to talk to your manager.

R306 = Simon Wiesenthal.

(But you are ignoring Tegan's pain and Topher's calumny)

I will not judge these allegations, because it does no good to speculate. However:

1. Topher has long been known as an asshole in the business. I know many performers due to my friendship with a couple, and I have yet to find ONE guy who has nice things to say about him. By all accounts he is vain, arrogant and kinda full of himself.

2. There was a story that went around years ago in Houston. Topher got a scar all over his right shoulder because he was pushed into the fire pit in one of the gay bars and apparently no one bothered to help him. Not sure which gay bar. But thats anohter "Topher is a jerk" story.

I'm not the one that posted the article about "Sam," at R286, but nice try, lol.

It's interesting when a troll brags they're impossible to block. You know it really is some sort of professional troll/shill or someone with no life, no job, and a paid DL membership.

Worse yet, they're usually in a manic phase so they're awake nearly all the time.

Oh, and I find it hilarious that you think I'm in Australia. Cause, you know, no one is online outside of office hours, lol.

I find it disturbing how someone could be so obsessed with coming to a gay board and telling men their sexual assaults aren't real. You have been utterly obsessed with doing that for months on in.

Don't worry, people tell het men that too, R312.

[quote]Oh, and I find it hilarious that you think I'm in Australia. Cause, you know, no one is online outside of office hours, lol.

I find it hilarious that you pretend that's the only piece of evidence.

1. Their posts appear approximately around 4 PM EST to 12:00 AM EST. This is 8:00AM - 4:00 PM work day in Sydney and Melbourne Australia. Exactly the work day - no more, no less.

2. They cite Australian news sources (see r286 in the linked thread). This would not come up in a google.com search in the usa. Google.com.au would bring up Australian sources first.

3. They use Australian idoms and grammar like "what are you on about" and the word "sport" as (sport is a bad example) rather than "sports" (see r164)

4. They never deviate from the script and repeat the same lines over and over again as written in the OP - regardless of the evidence that flies in the face of what they are saying. It's not an interaction with a normal human. It's just them cutting and pasting from their scripts.

You may not ALL be from there - but it's obvious what is going on now with the bulk of these comments - so just do whatever protocol you are supposed to do when you've been found out...like selecting one piece of evidence and pretending the other 3 pieces don't exist. Nice try. It's over for you rape denialist / apologist freaks... finally. You've been at this since October and you're done.

Einstein at R314, I'm not in Australia, nor did I post the article from Australia. The person that posted the article is a male rape sympathizer, lol.

You aren't all from there- but the jig is up. Nobody is going to engage with you on your talking points any further. We already know what they are.

[quote]You can't rape a man. Impossible.

[quote]Even a small guy, even a skinny twink can fight back.

[quote]oh please, like a man would say no to sex. No need to rape when the man wants it anyway.

[quote]What kind of piece of shit "man" just lies there while being "raped"? Oh....wait....he was willing, and you can't rape them, lol.

[quote]A man can fight off an attack whereas most women can't, how hard is that to understand?

And on and on and on...

You will not get a reply or attention, anymore. Your bullshit games since October are over.

He's too cute to rape anybody.

These could be Russian trolls stirring up shit. Because a large part of what Russian trolls do is stir up shit to put everybody in a bad mood. I wish DL admin would do something about it - they could. It would begin with blocking all proxies and all Russian internet traffic from the site.

R315, please take a picture of the view from your window and write "R315" on a piece of paper in the photo. Thanks.

LOL do you see Russians under your bed?

I was raped.by an enormous muscle bear. Bareback. I loved every minute of it. But then again I am french so.....

R315 - why don't you (or any of the other 3 trolls identified at r253) have ANY posts outside of this topic? None of you have any other interests on a board this diverse? How odd... almost like you were paid to just be disruptive on this topic alone.

Call me crazy, but I tend to believe victims, because even in this attention whoring times it takes great courage to make yourself vulnerable and share something like being raped.

To me victim shamers are scum as are trolls, Deplorables, Gay Republcians, etc.

To me it doesn not matter if you are a prostitute, a porn performer, or even a Republican. When someone says no to something, before or while having sex, it should be honored and respected.

My idea of sex is about fun, not about asserting power.

The "doing for attention" is especially stupid. Both of these guys shared their stories anonymously. They don't want attention.

A portrait of R323

[quote]I'm not in Australia, nor did I post the article from Australia. The person that posted the article is a male rape sympathizer, lol.

Interesting how you use the term "male rape sympathizer" like you're referring to a nazi. I've never heard the term "female rape sympathizer"

Why do you write "lol" after all your posts. Are you 15?

R325 = R115 "punching the penis stops rape" FF & block (you'll see when you block)

Don't work yourself into frenzy, R326.

We're just playing with you, sport.

FFed R327

^ Bravo!

I think I've shut up the "troll is from Australia troll"! How's your little theory working out for you now, hmm? Maybe it's time you realized that my concerns may be valid??

[quote]why don't you (or any of the other 3 trolls identified at R253) have ANY posts outside of this topic? None of you have any other interests on a board this diverse? How odd... almost like you were paid to just be disruptive on this topic alone.

Exactly. Very pointed trolling.

It doesn't matter if one of you is not from Australia or if none of you are from there. What you are doing is obvious. You participate in no other threads and repeat the same lines (see r316) over and over - for months. And you're vile human beings for doing this bullshit on a website where people were sharing stories about being sexually assaulted...and everyone can see through your bullshit.

R315 / R329 left all of his metadata in his photo. He's a Canadian posting from a Samsung Galaxy S6 in Winnipeg, Canada.

I have names & other very detailed personal information as well... but I'll post it only if he continues to misbehave... kind of a depressing street you live on. I feel bad, almost...except for the fact you've spent 4 months defending people who rape men and boys.

And to be clear, the coordinates go straight here. So, indeed - there is your yard & on street view, you can even see the street light to which you were referring in R329.

But you only account for one of several people, or so it seems. They were far more quiet tonight ... so maybe it is all you? Hmm. Well, we can play the next moves by ear, I suppose.

Are there now three accusers? Lock him up. He seems like a pig who penetrates while saying “it’s okay”

Why are my posts at r334 and r335 not showing up? I don't have myself on ignore. Can anyone else see them?

No, R337, I can't see them, either.

I guess the decision was to erase my (partial) doxxing of the rape defender (from the metadata in his photo)... but to leave the rape defender's comments all over the thread. Lovely.

He’s got a pencil dick and bad skin. He needs a dermabrasionist STAT!

What's lovely about it? R339

When I was 11, I had an older girl friend who had a very hot boyfriend. I admit that I used to flirt with him. He was muscled and much bigger than my pretty self (I'm a dude). Once she was at work and he tried to rape me. He got my pants down to my thighs and kept trying to penetrate me. I managed to wriggle free at least three times before I got away from him. I never told her, but I continued to flirt with her boyfriend, but made sure we were never alone together again.

If I could wriggle away from a huge, muscle dude, I don't know about these Topher stories. He's so little compared to my friend's boyfriend, and I was a skinny 11 year old.

Still about the pants. What a thick troll.

Well, that settles it, R342. If a skinny 11 year-old boy could "wriggle away from a huge, muscle dude" then anyone could, including a big, ol' grown ass woman!

You've proven it. No one is ever raped, including women and pre-teen boys.

Thread closed.

Just ff r342. The same troll obsessed with "the pants" has cleared its cookies and is back - with what is the most bizarre piece of fiction I've read on DL in a while (and that's saying something).

R342 - frau pretending to be a gay man.

Yes, r347 - everything about that was bad gay porn written by a woman. ("I'm a dude" and "he was muscled")

For future reference, frau, it's "I'm a guy and he was muscular".

Oh and the whole thing about flirting w/ a straight guy who then - woopsie - suddenly goes to rape you!

Frau minds are a sick and boring place.

'The pants' are mentioned 16 times in this thread.

But what sort of pants?

Levis pants or gossimer-thin pants?

This thread is a mess.

Oh the trolls are out fast and furious trying to FF all references to where the rape apologist lives...those posts are vanishing at light speed...yet his rape apologies / denials stay.

R346 ANYBODY, and I'm welcoming all to check to see that I am NOT the "pants troll". I have no idea who that is in the first place. R347 and R346 are creaming in their panties thinking I'm a female.

You guys have spent so much time and energy and gone too far (looking at the photo metadata and then trying to find out where the anonymous poster lives in an effort to bully them off the thread, really?) All to shut someone up. Why not simply... Don't respond? As a result of the constant responses to EVERY one of xhir's posts you have done as much or more as that poster to derail the thread and turn it toxic. Not to mention the endless additional admonition about "rape apologists" and the state of humanity and the OTHER threads started complaining about "rape apologists" etc.

This advice will be ignored too as others have said as much earlier in the thread, but just stop with the hand-wringing and drama that someone either is trolling you or has a different opinion than you. You can't control everything. You're not doing anyone any favours by getting creepy about it either.

r354 you do realize this isn't about "bullying someone off the thread" - right? Entire threads being hijacked and drowned out by the same talking points repeated over and over again hundreds of times in multiple threads. Its mind-numbing, hateful, likely-scripted drivel. Ignoring it has been the strategy since October when it was first identified, and that hasn't worked. Many people want to know who these posters are. Are they for real? Are they paid? Are they insane? Could they be rapists and pedophiles themselves? Therefore, looking up the address of one of them seems perfectly reasonable. The only people being bullied on this thread are the people who shared stories about being sexually assaulted. But you suggest that the Canadian male-rape-is-a-lie troll is the one being "bullied"? Give me a fucking break.

Who are they? Trolls and shills trying to control the narrative / public perception or public opinon.

What can be done? Not much. But what you can do is voice your opinion about the subject matter, but don't engage, as in:

- Don't fall into their trap and get defensive where you (feel the need to) defend your opinion.

- Dont try to convince them they are wrong and you are right. They will only repeat their rethoric over and over again.

- Don't let them push your buttons. Don't let them get under your skin. They will taunt you until they declare you unhinged for mouthing off to them (see, guys with that opinion are crazy! They are the bigoted Nazis! We are the normal ones!).

By posting your opposing opinion, and what it is based on, ruins their way of giving the impression that message boards like Datalounge are, say, alt-rigth central or siding with the rapists and shaming the victims.

R113 that's a very sad and unfortunate story. I'm sorry that your friend's life was forever changed at the hands of another human being. And for you losing your friend to suicide.

Anyone who can non-consentually, sexually assault another living being is a sick coward. That goes for children, (1st), women, men, and animals (sad but true)

NO MEANS NO. PERIOD. END OF STORY.

[quote]This thread is a mess.

ABSOLUTELY. I’m as annoyed by all of the “Block them because RXX is really an angry woman” posts, as I am with the “Men can’t get raped” idjits.

If you TRULY believe that men cannot be raped, you don’t have much credibility...or footing in reality. You’ve either completely overlooked or decided to ignore the CONSISTENTLY reported sexual assaults in every goddamn male prison in the universe since forever. In fact, prison rape establishes the power structure in every male prison.

I mean….The END. What is the argument here?

The very basic idea of trolling is to say something outrageous, like "men can't get raped (on a gay themed message board)", and then watch others post angry replies and get all worked up about it. Trolling isn't about sharing your own personal belief, trolling is about the intention to piss off others. I doubt these trolls believen even half of what they post, they just crave the attention and the cheap thrill of getting under someone's, or several someones', skin. Of course there are organised trolls, like the alt right trolls or the Russian bots, who have the agenda to manipulate and control their narratives.

OR maybe some people actually believe it R339. I give people the benefit of the doubt until it becomes obvious.

^^R359, I meant^^

You guys know what I'd love for Christmas......an edit button.

Giving people the benefit of the doubt on an anonymous message board infested with all kinds of trolls is a waste of time, energy and goodwill imo. If I am not sure about a poster I check his previous comments (putting him on ignore and then check his comments in the ignore tab. You can get a pretty good sense about a poster when you read more comments about him or her).

... when you read more comments FROM him or her).

This post prompted some “research.” I looked up several Topher DiMaggio scenes...interestingly, in all of them he was the initiator, aggressively moving on his scene partner in the beginning. And then...well, it’s kind of odd, actually. I think he’s very attractive physically, but all of the scenes I have seen him in have been strangely unengaging, no matter who his partner was. Very mechanical, passionless sex. If he’a assaulting guys, they must feel like they’re being raped by an angry robot.

Also, TD evidently brags to his prey that he “made Andrew Christian.” I wonder what Andrew Christian thinks about his main model.

R362, these scripted ideas about men & rape were first put forth, here and elsewhere, by social media managers working for Kevin Spacey, last fall.

When Romeo Fink first arrived on the scene he was a desperate little brat who had a beauty parlor sugar daddy, he went too far stealing from the till and he was sent packing, then suddenly he did a few j/o scenes for Chaos Men, became Topher DiMaggio, got a new daddy for a few months, then started his reign of sexual assault terror and criminal mischief, 100% a Con Man.

R367 That "career path" is quite similar to another gay porn conman: Marco Rossi.

A past misadventure of Romeo Fink (such a fitting name).

That face when a rape denialist troll gets doxxed by R334 and R335...

Do you want to come clean now? Are you paid? Are you just a piece of shit? Hmmm...Or has the webmaster blocked your IP so maybe you can't reply.

[quote][R362], these scripted ideas about men & rape were first put forth, here and elsewhere, by social media managers working for Kevin Spacey, last fall.

…..now where did I put that butterfly net?

[quote]Of course there are organised trolls, like the alt right trolls or the Russian bots, who have the agenda to manipulate and control their narratives.

This is the type of troll that a lot of people here are (legitimately, in my opinion) worried about. A persistent and organized troll campaign can completely change the nature of a forum, driving away the former participants, even getting it eliminated altogether, as the owner/moderator of the forum gets tired of dealing with the shit. There are quite a few examples over the years of just such campaigns.

I agree r372. They seemed to quiet down after the pics were posted at r334, so I wonder if it was all that person or if they were all connected to that person. Maybe they got banned altogether. This board is a catch-22... it has a unique culture without screen names, but that makes it even easier to manipulate.

Gurl has a history of menace and mess!

I recognize I am old, as I’m months from turning 40, but am I the only person who is totally disturbed by all gay porn suddenly going sloppily, infectiously bareback? Condomless videos of guys taking multiple loads in their asses are so pervasive now that I swear it is killing my libido and I feel like I may be converting to asexual. I grew up during the AIDS epidemic and I feel like the gay community is on some sort of manic tirade intent on destroying itself through an as-yet undiscovered infectious disease. Am I alone in this?

About five years ago Topher was dancing at a club Liquid and was super high and aggressive and assaulting dudes on the dance floor and in the bathrooms, he was holding up one little twink by the neck and finger fucking him on the dance floor after his set, then shoving his cock down the kid’s throat, was quite the spectacle.

R376 That sounds like very much of a turnoff.

no r375 - you are not alone. We are close in age and I basically stopped hooking up because 1/2 of the population is on PrEP now - and they won't have sex with a condom - period. It's hard to weed these whores out and find anyone left.

That being said - I like multiple loads in the face.

Rape allegations side, he sounds like a real prima-donna-princess piece of work based on those WeHo Confidential posts. Apparently he used to have a fag hag whom he would order to bring him food in the middle of the night when he was hungry.

Another one.

Topher started eating his ass in the middle of the club but he was able to fight him off.

Gross

Topher is the Audrey 2 of the gay club circuit, FEED ME SEYMOUR indeed!

AC has finally "suspended" him as their spokesmodel.

Fleshjack removes all his products from their website.

Is Topher still raping dudes?

Another clip of Topher/Romeo as Superman.

It IS true Romeo likes dirty holes to fuck, he has no fear of the dry poke, especially if there are people nearby, he’s most violent when he is just skiing on blow with a weed cushion.

Here’s Topher showing it off...you have to pay to see him using it to rape people, though!

Does Topher bottom ever?

He did but with little enthusiasm about it. He didn't even pretend to be enjoying it, which is fine. Just shut up and spread hole.

In his private life he is 100% vers, that ridiculous video of him straining during bottoming was to reinforce his “super top” status, but he’s a bossy bottom when he’s fucked up on good tequila. He’s also very happy to put that ass up if you have uncut coke. That being said his default is rapist top. WeHo holes assemble!

Topher getting fucked. Enjiy.

^^Enjoy

He is very attractive physically but has so little charisma on camera. And all those rape accusations...just no. Studios should not employ him and anyone who pays him privately for whoring services could really be asking for trouble.

I kind of have a hard time imagining him forcing himself on anyone off camera though because he always seems so disengaged and lackluster in his scenes.

R392 Topher probably likes getting fucked. Hard.

There's a percentage (25% or more in my experience) of quasi-rapey dom tops who are acting out what they'd actually like done to them. However in a world of pussy bottoms they can't find anyone to smack them around and pound them raw.