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Is NPH seriously ill ???

Cooking Channel just replayed the premier of David Burtka's Life's a Party show and NPH looked like death warmed over. Truly la mort réchauffée mes chères!!!

Extremely old and sick looking, with one foot in the grave and the other in an "accidentally" spilled pool of EVOO. Is David about to become The Merry Widow?

by Anonymousreply 122December 18, 2020 4:55 AM

Did you see Daniel Franseze from Mean Girls on the new ABC show Conviction? Big as a house and looked like he was gonna eat Agent Carter.

by Anonymousreply 1October 4, 2016 5:00 AM

Anti-retroviral therapy can only do so much.

by Anonymousreply 2October 4, 2016 5:07 AM

Is he HIV positive? I mean, publically?

by Anonymousreply 3October 4, 2016 5:08 AM

I saw it, OP. I was sort of shocked he let himself be photographed looking so ill and wasted away.

by Anonymousreply 4October 4, 2016 5:20 AM

AIDS concern trolls = TrumpKKKunts.

by Anonymousreply 5October 4, 2016 5:25 AM

The gays, they all die young.

by Anonymousreply 6October 4, 2016 5:29 AM

David has a show?

by Anonymousreply 7October 4, 2016 5:33 AM

KKKunt @ R5

It was a legit question. I didn't mention HIV, it could be any number of things.

by Anonymousreply 8October 4, 2016 5:34 AM

Is it AIDS? Is it a Grand Maul Seizure?!?

by Anonymousreply 9October 4, 2016 5:35 AM

You can never be too rich or too thin.

by Anonymousreply 10October 4, 2016 5:35 AM

He's gay, R8, it'll be HIV.

by Anonymousreply 11October 4, 2016 5:37 AM

David's sweetening his Southern Sweet Tea with antifreeze.

by Anonymousreply 12October 4, 2016 5:38 AM

I have a question....is it AIDS???

by Anonymousreply 13October 4, 2016 5:39 AM

R7 just one episode thus far.

by Anonymousreply 14October 4, 2016 5:40 AM

what happened to David's return to the stage?

by Anonymousreply 15October 4, 2016 5:44 AM

Why do so many people hate NPH?

by Anonymousreply 16October 4, 2016 5:49 AM

He said he got thin for Hedwig but he never did gain that weight back, and it's really making him look old and fragile now.

by Anonymousreply 17October 4, 2016 5:54 AM

Was he playing Hedwig as an 80-year-old tranny?

by Anonymousreply 18October 4, 2016 5:56 AM

Christ, he's shooting a TV show up in Canada that's why he's thin and has a shaved head.

by Anonymousreply 19October 4, 2016 6:11 AM

R19 ??? All Canadians are bald ahd haggard?

by Anonymousreply 20October 4, 2016 6:14 AM

^^and

by Anonymousreply 21October 4, 2016 6:16 AM

R7 The show pulled out all the stops and still wasn't very good. A birthday party, the little kids "cooking" and being "cute," fag hag Kelly Ripa, and Neil's "surprise" arrival at the party.

Faux Italian food (mint and pistachio pesto with bow-tie pasta). About along the lines of the Patricia Heaton or Valerie Bertinelli shows — but with less inherent interest because no one knows who David is.

by Anonymousreply 22October 4, 2016 6:16 AM

he doesn't have his head shaved anymore r19. (the Tonys were 4 months ago.)

by Anonymousreply 23October 4, 2016 6:17 AM

Hey! Grand Maul! How've ya been?

How about this one.. "Caftans, Earrings". Well? No?

by Anonymousreply 24October 4, 2016 7:19 AM

[quote] The gays, they all die young.

If that were true, I'd be dead by now.

by Anonymousreply 25October 4, 2016 7:50 AM

smallpox

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by Anonymousreply 26October 4, 2016 8:29 AM

R26 actually that make-up would have been an improvement on how he actually looked.

by Anonymousreply 27October 4, 2016 3:11 PM

He's always been thin. Now that he's pushing 43 the skin thins and you get jowls folks. I am in no way a NPH fanboy, but do people realize that it is very rare for anyone who is HIV positive to have a 'poz face' anymore?!

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by Anonymousreply 28October 4, 2016 3:16 PM

Aging

by Anonymousreply 29October 4, 2016 4:09 PM

Rough life, then, if it's only aging. He was pale with sagging skin and sunken eyes.

Far worse looking than the "after" pic at R28.

by Anonymousreply 30October 5, 2016 2:15 AM

NPH has been talked about being positive on here for years, OP

by Anonymousreply 31October 5, 2016 2:38 AM

by the same person r31.

by Anonymousreply 32October 5, 2016 2:39 AM

Drugs and booze!!

by Anonymousreply 33October 5, 2016 2:50 AM

I think you mean pills and liquor r33.

by Anonymousreply 34October 5, 2016 2:52 AM

He looks like Walter White in R28.

by Anonymousreply 35October 5, 2016 3:09 AM

Of course Neil Patrick Harris has AIDS, but like Prince, he'll cover it up even after death

by Anonymousreply 36October 5, 2016 3:12 AM

R33/R34

It's "booze and dope."

by Anonymousreply 37October 5, 2016 3:15 AM

He could easily have an eating disorder.

by Anonymousreply 38October 5, 2016 3:22 AM

Such a homophobic thread. Well, you can tell the elections are almost over pretty soon gay bashing threads will dominate and not Trump or Clinton threads. The NPH-hate/has AIDS thread remerges. I've missed you.

by Anonymousreply 39October 5, 2016 3:22 AM

* because pretty soon

by Anonymousreply 40October 5, 2016 3:23 AM

I love NPH.

by Anonymousreply 41October 5, 2016 3:29 AM

R41.

by Anonymousreply 42October 5, 2016 3:34 AM

The site is not loading properly on my phone right now but here's (hopefully) a link to the latest pics of NPH from Getty Images.

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by Anonymousreply 43October 5, 2016 3:38 AM

I'm so glad we can get back to bashing openly gay men. I'm so over the election.

by Anonymousreply 44October 5, 2016 3:41 AM

Look, there's nothing homophobic about wondering about someone who goes from a relatively handsome man to a grizzled old goblin in a short time.

by Anonymousreply 45October 5, 2016 3:58 AM

r44-confused about purpose of a gossip site

by Anonymousreply 46October 5, 2016 4:05 AM

He does look ill, also deeply unhappy.

by Anonymousreply 47October 5, 2016 4:07 AM

I want a cooking show!!! I want to be on Broadway!!! I want to move to NY!!!! I want to be on E!

by Anonymousreply 48October 5, 2016 4:12 AM

Is that what this R46? Oh, alright. I thought I was at CBN or FOX with all of the AIDS talk. Thanks for letting me know where I was: A straight gossip site.

by Anonymousreply 49October 5, 2016 4:19 AM

A picture from the show.

Burtka looks absolutely excited to be given a peck on the cheek from his grandpa.

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by Anonymousreply 50October 5, 2016 4:21 AM

You could always ignore the thread r49 but I'd guess you prefer being morally superior.

by Anonymousreply 51October 5, 2016 4:24 AM

I guess I could ignore homophobia and ignorance. You're right, R51.

by Anonymousreply 52October 5, 2016 4:28 AM

NPH does look older than he is, but being thin will do that, as will smoking, drinking, drugging, and excessive sun exposure. I have no idea which of these things he engages in however.

by Anonymousreply 53October 5, 2016 4:29 AM

R52 You're really diminishing the seriousness of homophobia by trolling this thread.

R53 I don't think being naturally thin ages you at age 40-ish. Weight loss from drastic dieting or illness does, however...as well as the other excesses you mentioned.

by Anonymousreply 54October 5, 2016 4:56 AM

I agree that he looks deeply unhappy in most of the recent photos. Even in stills from his most recent late night talk show appearance, he looks like he's straining to put on a fake smile.

I hope he doesn't have HIV. According to the CDC, 1 in 102 white men (in the US) can expect to contract HIV in their lifetimes. The numbers are significantly higher for black men, and the gay and bisexual male population is still inordinately effected compared to hets.

by Anonymousreply 55October 5, 2016 5:09 AM

I looked at the photo of NPH and he looks fine. I've only known NPH to look to thin, for past few years, so I cannot comment on his apearance. He needs to cut out processed food for starters.

by Anonymousreply 56October 5, 2016 5:37 AM

^moron

by Anonymousreply 57October 5, 2016 5:48 AM

I can relate. Having kids ages you.

by Anonymousreply 58October 5, 2016 5:52 AM

Which photo, R56? This thread was commenting on his shocking appearance on his husband's show. I saw it and he looked sick, not thin. As OP put it, [italic]la mort réchauffée. [/italic]

by Anonymousreply 59October 5, 2016 5:52 AM

He doesn't eat. He's always been very thin, and he is clearly the type who eats like 800-1200 calories a day. "Poz face" is a thing of the past. Old protease inhibitors did that. None of the new drugs do that...or nobody would be on Truvada for Prep. Some men who facial wasting were even covered by insurance to get sculptra and the early fillers (though most insurance stopped coverage in the early-00s)... I'm sure he could afford any filler he wanted if he was afraid he had a "poz face look".

That look also has fat loss in very specific areas that are different from aging. It's like a weird fat loss right under the cheekbone, and in very deep unnatural grooves. He has more of an aging look than the lipoatrophy look.

That being said - Rupaul looked quite bad many years ago - and it was very much like the true lipoatrophy pattern (could be drugs though, but it wasn't a classic aging pattern). He's also very skinny, but his face is looking better likely due to fillers. Actually,he's joked about fillers a lot - which most black men don't typically need due to thicker facial skin and more facial fat than white men.

NPH really needs to eat,but he seems like the OCD anorexic type to me.

by Anonymousreply 60October 5, 2016 6:00 AM

He has young twins.

by Anonymousreply 61October 5, 2016 6:18 AM

He has nannies and maids.

by Anonymousreply 62October 5, 2016 6:43 AM

RuPaul still looks bad. Doesn't he? I saw a picture of him the other day and wondered if he was HIV positive.

by Anonymousreply 63October 5, 2016 6:55 AM

It's not the aids. He's just aging. Badly.

by Anonymousreply 64October 5, 2016 7:05 AM

Thanks r60, that's useful to know. I'm now wondering if he's experiencing major depression. The poor man just looks miserable.

by Anonymousreply 65October 5, 2016 10:23 AM

This was suspected to be NPH testing the waters

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by Anonymousreply 66October 5, 2016 10:56 AM

1) low body weight + middle age

2) mid-life psychological crisis

3) probably a bit angry and disappointed that his rising star has stalled VERY badly in the last year.

by Anonymousreply 67October 5, 2016 11:29 AM

Regardless of the issue of whether or not "poz face" is real, there's no denying that many people in the advanced stages of a serious illness look like NPH did on that show: old beyond their actual age with sagging skin, baggy clothes unable to cover a skeletal frame, and the gray pallor of death.

by Anonymousreply 68October 5, 2016 11:38 AM

[quote]Burtka looks absolutely excited to be given a peck on the cheek from his grandpa.

R50 that picture is hilarious and a little sad. NPH does look like his grandad.

It's a little startling, the difference between the two. It reminds me of Bomer and Simon Halls together except Simon looks in the bloom of youth and health compared to poor Neil.

by Anonymousreply 69October 5, 2016 11:52 AM

If there is no shame to having HIV, then saying he has HIV is no big deal right?

There's an old saying: "When you hear hoofbeats, think of horses not zebras". ...

by Anonymousreply 70October 5, 2016 2:20 PM

He still looks better than that boy from that awful Tony Danza sitcom who looks 50 when he's 40.

by Anonymousreply 71October 5, 2016 2:28 PM

Oh R16. You can figure it out.

by Anonymousreply 72October 5, 2016 2:34 PM

A) Meth face

can be mistaken for

B) POZ face

can be mistaken for

C) low body fat middle age face. or manorexia

can be mistaken for

D) serious illness.

The thing is, nobody nowadays should be suffering the ravages of HIV, as there is extremely effective treatment, and treatment which does not cause lipo, so....

The least likely scenario is HIV.

It's A, C or D

by Anonymousreply 73October 5, 2016 4:12 PM

Well that's what comes from too much pills and liquor

by Anonymousreply 74October 5, 2016 4:43 PM

His creamy skin looks perfectly healthy to us.

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by Anonymousreply 75October 6, 2016 7:01 AM

[quote] The least likely scenario is HIV.

Why is it the least likely?

by Anonymousreply 76October 6, 2016 7:04 AM

Frightening!

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by Anonymousreply 77October 6, 2016 7:12 AM

Is that Death descending on him in the background, R77?

by Anonymousreply 78October 6, 2016 7:21 AM

Positively Glowing:

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by Anonymousreply 79October 6, 2016 8:31 AM

R76 - HIV is the least likely of the 4 explanations because:

1) if HV is the cause, he would only look like death warmed over ONLY if he wasn't on treatment and had left his infection undiagnosed and untreated for a long time.

2) He is rich, married, and a father, so he unlikely to be someone who avoids doctors and would not know he is HIV+. And if he knew, he is unlikely to be someone who would choose not to treat it.

by Anonymousreply 80October 6, 2016 11:47 AM

He's just getting older. Some of you are such morons.

by Anonymousreply 81October 6, 2016 2:06 PM

Time marches on. He's fair skinned and light brown haired with a slim physique. This is what a gay 43 year old looks like folks!

by Anonymousreply 82October 6, 2016 2:19 PM

He might be having a nervous breakdown.

by Anonymousreply 83October 6, 2016 2:33 PM

[quote]This is what a gay 43 year old looks like folks!

Not gays on TV.

by Anonymousreply 84October 7, 2016 9:09 AM

It is the old "you can keep your ass or face situation" as stated by either Zsa Zsa or Sophia Loren or whoever the quote gets attributed to nowadays.

by Anonymousreply 85October 7, 2016 9:12 AM

[quote]This is what a gay 43 year old looks like folks!

Not in Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 86October 7, 2016 9:20 AM

If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, it's a duck.

by Anonymousreply 87October 11, 2016 3:26 AM

Probably any actor who has poz face, probably had it for 20 years.

by Anonymousreply 88October 11, 2016 3:38 AM

Quack quack

Quack croak

by Anonymousreply 89October 11, 2016 3:39 AM

Sorry, but I'm 59 (although I'm often mistaken for a 29-year-old) and *I* look better than NPH!

by Anonymousreply 90October 11, 2016 5:34 AM

r90 sure you are

by Anonymousreply 91October 11, 2016 5:49 AM

A 29-year-old what, Rose? Sharpei?

by Anonymousreply 92October 11, 2016 6:01 AM

Could he be on heroin?

[italic]Lots of people have been wondering why this male star – who is on the downside of his career – has lost a dramatic amount of weight.

He was not heavy to begin with, so why is he now even thinner? Cancer? Cocaine?

Nope. Dope. A minimum of twice a day.[/italic]

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by Anonymousreply 93October 21, 2016 1:54 AM

Is he like McCauley Culkin thin?

by Anonymousreply 94October 21, 2016 2:21 AM

What's his take on the election results?

by Anonymousreply 95November 10, 2016 6:02 PM

[quote] Look, there's nothing homophobic about wondering about someone who goes from a relatively handsome man to a grizzled old goblin in a short time.

Better he should hear it from another gay man than from some fat fundie frau who thinks all gays are this irresponsible and self-destructive.

by Anonymousreply 96November 10, 2016 6:05 PM

Do all Christian mothers starve their sons like that? He needs to eat something!

by Anonymousreply 97November 10, 2016 6:07 PM

No, he's just seriously ugly.

by Anonymousreply 98November 10, 2016 6:09 PM

For as much attention as NPH tries to get, don't you queens think he would own up to having HIV for the sheer amount of attention it would bring? I think he's just getting older.

by Anonymousreply 99November 10, 2016 6:24 PM

If even that no-talent walking petri dish who was a fifth banana on that stupid Tony Danza sitcom for 8 excruciating years can admit to having HIV, why can't he?

by Anonymousreply 100November 10, 2016 6:31 PM

I saw three Hedwigs, and was the best by far.

I hope he's ok, he seems like a nice man.

by Anonymousreply 101November 10, 2016 6:33 PM

Well Burtka's show only made it to the pilot stage. No additional episodes but he turned up this weekend on The Kitchen, looking a fright. He's stopped dyeing his hair and it's gray and aging. The skin had that pallor of death he shares with NPH. Standing next to beautiful Jeff Mauro, David looked like some creature that had just risen from the grave.

So maybe they both are ill.

by Anonymousreply 102March 28, 2017 2:55 AM

So who gets the kids if they both, you know, die?

by Anonymousreply 103March 28, 2017 3:04 AM

I wondered the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 104March 28, 2017 3:44 AM

He's anorexic and had been for years. Twenty pounds would take twenty years off him.

by Anonymousreply 105March 28, 2017 3:57 AM

He's always looked wizened.

by Anonymousreply 106March 28, 2017 4:09 AM

Any updates? Any public sightings?

by Anonymousreply 107July 11, 2017 8:53 PM

Here's a video of one of the episodes because the OP was too lazy to give anyone a reference.

FYI, NPH looks fine in it. Certainly not as bad as people on here are making out.

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by Anonymousreply 108July 11, 2017 9:11 PM

The pic at R50 says it all. He looks like Burtka's pepaw...as many posters have pointed out.

by Anonymousreply 109July 11, 2017 9:28 PM

He started to go downhill after the Oscars. He was also photographed outside his house screaming at the kids. He is likely just stressed the fuck out like most gay people after they hit the 40. And it's true you choose your ass or your face at some point. I just lost 20lb over the course of 4 months and I know I look more haggard because of it. My curse was that I always looked really young for my age and enjoyed it, now that I'm looking my age it's hard to take. Imagine going through that and you make your living being on camera or on stage it really must fuck with your head.

by Anonymousreply 110July 11, 2017 10:01 PM

It shouldn't fuck with Neil's head. He's never been a pretty boy. And the stage is Hollywood for "Ugly" People. He'll be fine. Cheyenne Jackson OTOH...

by Anonymousreply 111July 11, 2017 10:18 PM

Low body fat and he does cross fit. Just haggard.

by Anonymousreply 112July 11, 2017 10:26 PM

I have heard he is poz and going into AIDS

Ditto Alan Cumming

by Anonymousreply 113July 12, 2017 12:04 AM

They're apparently breaking up as grandpa can't keep it zipped.

by Anonymousreply 114January 16, 2018 7:23 AM

r114

His son is like 5, he's hardly a grandpa

by Anonymousreply 115January 16, 2018 7:40 AM

R115, it was a reference to R50.

by Anonymousreply 116January 16, 2018 7:44 AM

He single handedly made being gay respectable.

by Anonymousreply 117December 17, 2020 11:08 PM

[quote] I have heard he is poz and going into AIDS

I blame Danny Pintauro. He’s why there is still homophobia anywhere in 2020. If it hadn’t been for him and the trannies, imagine where we would be today.

by Anonymousreply 118December 17, 2020 11:18 PM

What’s with the snide AIDS comments? Is this 1988?

by Anonymousreply 119December 17, 2020 11:40 PM

It is according to most of Datalounge since the majority of people here seem to have become shellshocked around that particular period of time.

by Anonymousreply 120December 17, 2020 11:42 PM

R117 How? According to who?

by Anonymousreply 121December 17, 2020 11:59 PM

Good god, he's a skinny middle age ginger, if there is a recipe for aging badly, this is it. The sun is not kind to those who lack melanin, and he lacks melanin.

by Anonymousreply 122December 18, 2020 4:55 AM
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