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Why do so many gays want to live in Palm Springs?

It's going to get up to 122 degrees there tomorrow. Who wants to live in that? Are they all skinny, frail EGs who put on a sweater all summer because the A/C is too chilly?

by Anonymousreply 188February 6, 2020 5:04 AM

They enjoy the availability of sexual partners and medical facilities that provide topnotch treatments for HIV/AIDs and other STDs.

by Anonymousreply 1June 19, 2016 10:41 PM

I'm leaving Palm Springs for good. I lasted a decade, but it's hell on earth. Way too many homeless camps, crime out of control, it's HOT May through October....it's not just a few months of heat.

by Anonymousreply 2June 19, 2016 10:47 PM

Where are you going, R2? It seems like a good place for eldergays, but so very hot!

by Anonymousreply 3June 19, 2016 10:51 PM

Are there a lot of younger guys there?

by Anonymousreply 4June 19, 2016 10:51 PM

[quote]I'm leaving Palm Springs for good.

Where ya goin?

by Anonymousreply 5June 19, 2016 10:51 PM

What's an EG?

by Anonymousreply 6June 19, 2016 10:54 PM

[quote]Are there a lot of younger guys there?

Yes

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by Anonymousreply 7June 19, 2016 10:57 PM

If you are rich with good air conditioning stay where you are.

by Anonymousreply 8June 19, 2016 10:59 PM

I've heard it's a great place to retire. I don't intend to gravitate toward the bar scene when I'm old, so I really don't care that the bars are kinda lame there. I've spent time there in the fall and in the spring, but I've never experienced any time there in the summer, so I'm a little concerned. But I do love a Mediterranean climate, so I think I would actually be fine with it.

by Anonymousreply 9June 19, 2016 11:03 PM

Why does anyone live in a gay cocoon? It's for guys who are shallow and have no interest in anyone or anything that isn't gay. If that means they have to live in hellish heat for half the year, so be it.

by Anonymousreply 10June 19, 2016 11:07 PM

[quote] But I do love a Mediterranean climate, so I think I would actually be fine with it.

Palm Springs does not have a Mediterranean climate. It's the desert.

by Anonymousreply 11June 19, 2016 11:13 PM

[quote]Why does anyone live in a gay cocoon?

Because the world of heterosexual is a sick and boring life.

by Anonymousreply 12June 19, 2016 11:17 PM

Thank you, aunt Ida.

by Anonymousreply 13June 19, 2016 11:18 PM

Over 100 degree weather 7 months a year. THE meth and heroin gateway of the West. No thanks. I'll pass.

by Anonymousreply 14June 19, 2016 11:32 PM

They look fat, R7.

by Anonymousreply 15June 19, 2016 11:37 PM

He asked for young, R15.

by Anonymousreply 16June 19, 2016 11:38 PM

the politics of Florida are a huge turn off to me. I'd never want to take my chances as a gay person in a Florida hospital.

by Anonymousreply 17June 19, 2016 11:38 PM

I use my La Quinta home as a home base for travel. I lock up the house and leave with no worries. SF for a week, Oregon, Seattle, British Columbia, California coast, all so convenient. Love it here.

by Anonymousreply 18June 19, 2016 11:41 PM

Palm Springs is in California, R17.

by Anonymousreply 19June 19, 2016 11:41 PM

Dallas and Houston are 90-100 degrees from May thru October, as well.

I can't go anywhere in the summer without soaking through my shirt.

by Anonymousreply 20June 19, 2016 11:41 PM

What if you hate dealing with winter and snow? Are there other options out there for living in a nice city with a large percentage of gays? I've already decided that I prefer Palm Springs to Wilton Manors. I can't imagine I'd want to live in Texas. What's left? Santa Fe?

by Anonymousreply 21June 19, 2016 11:42 PM

R18 I want to be like you. I just need a big push to get me motivated.

by Anonymousreply 22June 19, 2016 11:43 PM

r21 San Francisco.

by Anonymousreply 23June 20, 2016 12:02 AM

It's running our of water. Good luck with surviving

by Anonymousreply 24June 20, 2016 12:08 AM

I never understood the appeal of living in ANY desert. Palm Springs is a fucking nightmare in the Summer.

by Anonymousreply 25June 20, 2016 12:21 AM

Well, besides Palm Springs there are Other Desert Cities.

by Anonymousreply 26June 20, 2016 12:35 AM

OP is going to Reno to shoot a man, just to watch him die.

by Anonymousreply 27June 20, 2016 12:39 AM

Not for me, I like the ocean.

by Anonymousreply 28June 20, 2016 12:43 AM

PS became popular with post-HIV treatment, internet bubble gays from SF. They could buy the kind of mid-century modern places that had gone out of favor in the 70s and 80s for relatively little money. The real money had moved to other towns nearby and PS drew spring breakers, weekending families and a lot of other non-showbiz, non money types. Basically, its like Ft Lauderdale, but with fewer coach surfing young guys living marginal lives.

It seems hot and unattractive to me, but I don't really care about winter and I prefer living someplace that has culture and isn't isolated and environmentally unsustainable.

by Anonymousreply 29June 20, 2016 12:50 AM

In 2012, 13 and 14, I was there in March/April. I really like the place and put PS on my list of possible places to retire. In 2015 I was there in late June. PS is no longer on my list of possible places to retire. Powerfully hot and not a whole lot of activity anywhere.

by Anonymousreply 30June 20, 2016 12:59 AM

I just visited Palm Springs and aside from a block or two decent for strolling, I thought it had little to offer ... and it was too hot. Worse than PS is Phoenix ... what a crappy city that it!

by Anonymousreply 31June 20, 2016 1:07 AM

[quote]Worse than PS is Phoenix ... what a crappy city that it!

Oh, God...everywhere's so awful.

by Anonymousreply 32June 20, 2016 1:15 AM

R32, Apache Junction is glorious.

by Anonymousreply 33June 20, 2016 1:18 AM

I've found PS to be the place that the HIV+ crowd tends to migrate to after their diagnosis. It is like they feel as if they now belong to a kind of fraternity and PS is the frat house! They feel welcome down there due to the city's lower sexual standards - being that Hot Desert Knights (the POZ PORN company that produces markets legal, yet ethically dubious, SNUFF films) has their headquarters and production compounds located there. It is supposedly a rite of passage for a new POZZIE PS resident to be granted an invitation to either watch an HDK filming or get invited to one of their "anything goes into every hole" breeding and conversion parties. Frankly, I think the whole town is a bit "unwell", if you know what I mean... But in the end (no pun intended) - you make your bed, you burn in it...

by Anonymousreply 34June 20, 2016 1:48 AM

You've never lived until you've been barebacked in a canyon.

by Anonymousreply 35June 20, 2016 1:53 AM

Yes R34, I've heard it referred to as Poz Springs a couple of times.

by Anonymousreply 36June 20, 2016 1:58 AM

All I know is that the locals are colorful and that it's 133 degrees in Hellmouth.

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by Anonymousreply 37June 20, 2016 2:01 AM

WAKE UP PEOPLE, the whole fucking city is nothing but an AIDS HOSPICE! It is the only place in America where instead of asking; "what's your sign?, they ask "what's your viral load?" - almost every diner serves apple pie a la mode with TRUVADA instead of ice cream. If you're looking for a town so teeming with the dying and any STD you can think of then PS is the place!

by Anonymousreply 38June 20, 2016 2:08 AM

The final refuge.

by Anonymousreply 39June 20, 2016 2:08 AM

The Coachella Valley is a great place to spend the winter months. I let the help know I'm arriving in December so they can get my house overlooking the fairway ready. Once I enter the guarded gates, I never leave the grounds of the Thunderbird Country Club until it's time to head to the airport at the end of March. I love the Desert Empire.

by Anonymousreply 40June 20, 2016 2:09 AM

POZ SPRINGS, THE BIGGEST LIVING GRAVEYARD ON EARTH.

CRAWLING WITH AIDS ZOMBIES

by Anonymousreply 41June 20, 2016 2:11 AM

And just where do the HIV positive deserve to live, R41 & R38?

by Anonymousreply 42June 20, 2016 2:13 AM

Like most resort cities - it's fine for a few days, but I don't know how I could live there. I feel the same about Wilton Manors - so similar. But PS is nicer.

Why is there NO WHERE in the US to retire to? I guess I have to do a mind reset and realize there are always going to be things you give up.

by Anonymousreply 43June 20, 2016 2:14 AM

All you poor delicate snowflakes. While you are digging the Chevy Citation out of 14-foot-high snowdrifts, we in Palm Springs are sitting out on the patio under the misters, poolside, sipping whiskey sours and using FlightTracker on our tablets to watch the various planes soar high above your homes in Flyover Land.

by Anonymousreply 44June 20, 2016 2:16 AM

Palm Springs just hasn't been the same since Sonny was mayor.

by Anonymousreply 45June 20, 2016 2:17 AM

I'd live in fucking Antarctica before I'd live in Palm Springs.

by Anonymousreply 46June 20, 2016 2:22 AM

Not since Gene Autry R45!

by Anonymousreply 47June 20, 2016 2:22 AM

The cost of living is very reasonable. Compared to big cities real estate is cheap.its small and easy to get around. The dining scene is good. All reasons it's a retirement haven.

by Anonymousreply 48June 20, 2016 2:23 AM

The heat is unbelievable most of the year and, due to development, it is no longer exclusively dry heat. I visited a friend with a condo in Palm Desert and the heat had buckled a lot of the furniture. Anything with a veneer or with glued components was ruined. And ants kept invading no matter what he did.

by Anonymousreply 49June 20, 2016 2:24 AM

The ants are taking over.

by Anonymousreply 50June 20, 2016 2:25 AM

Older women can't stand the heat once they hit menopause. That's what it's all men living in PS. The only men who like living completely without women are gay. Hence, gay retirement community.

by Anonymousreply 51June 20, 2016 2:36 AM

R40, you life sounds like pure hell...never leaving a huge gated golf community. And Thunderbird is in Rancho Mirage, a cesspool of repukes. No thanks a lot.

by Anonymousreply 52June 20, 2016 2:39 AM

[quote]due to development, it is no longer exclusively dry heat

Oh, God.....there's nowhere left to go!!

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by Anonymousreply 53June 20, 2016 2:45 AM

[quote] Anything with a veneer or with glued components was ruined. And ants kept invading no matter what he did.

I know the feeling!

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by Anonymousreply 54June 20, 2016 2:48 AM

Why do people feel the need to retire somewhere? I was born in Maine and lived there my whole life. Except when I was in the military for six years. I don't ever want to be more than a 50 mile radius from my home and my things. Why oh why oh why to people want to retire where it's hot? The way Palm Springs sounds it makes it seem as if nature is trying to kill you. OMG it sounds fucking horrible. Try a little of this. Then you think you'd want to live where there aren't that many people anyway. People fucking suck.

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by Anonymousreply 55June 20, 2016 2:53 AM

Have you trashed Palm Springs enough or shall we get to 100?

by Anonymousreply 56June 20, 2016 2:53 AM

[quote]The way Palm Springs sounds it makes it seem as if nature is trying to kill you. OMG it sounds fucking horrible

EVERYWHERE sounds horrible on DL.

by Anonymousreply 57June 20, 2016 2:54 AM

[quote]They feel welcome down there due to the city's lower sexual standards - being that Hot Desert Knights (the POZ PORN company that produces markets legal, yet ethically dubious, SNUFF films) has their headquarters and production compounds located there. It is supposedly a rite of passage for a new POZZIE PS resident to be granted an invitation to either watch an HDK filming or get invited to one of their "anything goes into every hole" breeding and conversion parties.

I don't think Hot Desert Knights has made or released a new video in MANY years. Are they even still in business?

by Anonymousreply 58June 20, 2016 4:29 AM

[R42] = you pose the question - "And just where do the HIV positive deserve to live?" I am here to provide you with the penultimate answer to your inquiry, so without further fanfare; I give you the answer and it is very simple:

THEY DON'T DESERVE TO LIVE!!!

There you go - question answered. :) Anything else you need to know, just ask me, I promise you nothing but truth.

by Anonymousreply 59June 20, 2016 3:31 PM

Thanks r53. I REALLY appreciate what you did there. Let's see. Meth, crack, heroin, unrelenting heat, bears that look like extras from Deliverance, half the population has pinup posters of Ayn Paul Ryan. Did I mention meth?

The only way I'd live there is if I morphed into a monstrosity of Whitney Houston, Kim Richards, Stacey Dash, Michelle Bachmann, Michael Lucas, GEORGE LUCAS, ChiChi LaRue, Mariah Carey and Estelle Getty. And that bitches AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN!

by Anonymousreply 60June 20, 2016 5:04 PM

I went to Palm Springs' pride last year and hated it. It just seemed lame and tired. Met a couple locals and they were cool but there was nothing going on there .... zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

by Anonymousreply 61June 21, 2016 2:08 AM

[quote]I am here to provide you with the penultimate answer to your inquiry.

You don't know what penultimate means. It doesn't mean ultimate or final.

by Anonymousreply 62June 21, 2016 2:18 AM

it was 122 in Palm Springs yesterday. Fuck. No.

by Anonymousreply 63June 21, 2016 2:24 AM

I visited PS in January, it was quite lovely, but there's limited activities. I enjoyed PS, will go back at different times of the year to get a different experience.

by Anonymousreply 64June 21, 2016 2:34 AM

It's a lot quieter in the summer. Many businesses have reduced hours (or are closed for the season.) Everything's less crowded.

by Anonymousreply 65June 21, 2016 4:29 AM

It actually reached 124 today, unreal.

by Anonymousreply 66June 21, 2016 5:03 AM

That heat is not good for those with Aids who are running temperatures of 104f.

by Anonymousreply 67June 22, 2016 2:53 AM

r38 is correct. Literally everyone in Palm Springs has the AIDS or some kind of deadly oozing STD. Literally. Every one.

Down valley, where the illegal Mexicans live, it's mostly the Ebola or the Zika. You can't swing a cat in Palm Desert without hitting a pin headed Zika baby. Although, every one of the Indians in Indian Wells (feather not dot) have the eye cancer. (not the dripping kind). Funny thing, that.

by Anonymousreply 68June 22, 2016 3:54 AM

Anywhere that hot which isn't by the sea is going to putrefy eventually.

by Anonymousreply 69June 22, 2016 10:34 AM

Is Santa Fe NM any good?

by Anonymousreply 70June 23, 2016 2:16 AM

Earrings

and

CAFTANS!

by Anonymousreply 71June 23, 2016 2:22 AM

Why do people feel like they have to relocate when they retire?

by Anonymousreply 72June 23, 2016 2:25 AM

Gretchen, stop trying to make "EGs" happen! It's not going to happen!

by Anonymousreply 73June 23, 2016 3:01 AM

[quote]Literally everyone in Palm Springs has the AIDS or some kind of deadly oozing STD. Literally. Every one.

Even Hitler's propaganda ministry wasn't as good as DL at decimating a people and a place.

There's not a single city in the world that escapes the DL hatred.

Start at thread about ANYWHERE and watch it happen.

by Anonymousreply 74June 23, 2016 3:02 AM

[quote]Is Santa Fe NM any good?

Start a thread about it and then... wait.

by Anonymousreply 75June 23, 2016 3:07 AM

[quote]Even Hitler's propaganda ministry wasn't as good as DL at decimating a people and a place.

I assumed that R68 was trying to be funny (and failing, obviously), since his statements are so absurdly false that no one could take them seriously.

by Anonymousreply 76June 23, 2016 3:13 AM

[quote]since his statements are so absurdly false that no one could take them seriously.

R76 = dim-witted.

by Anonymousreply 77June 23, 2016 8:39 AM

[quote]Why do so many gays want to live in Palm Springs?

Misery loves company.

by Anonymousreply 78June 23, 2016 6:26 PM

R9 Palm Springs is not in the Mediterranean; it's in California, in the Coachella Valley.

by Anonymousreply 79June 23, 2016 8:53 PM

R79, you strangely dense person, a Mediterranean climate isn't just confined to the Med. It tends to mean mild winters and long hot summers.

by Anonymousreply 80June 24, 2016 12:54 AM

R6 EG=elderly gays

by Anonymousreply 81June 24, 2016 12:58 AM

there's always Pendleton Oregon or Walla Walla Washington

by Anonymousreply 82June 24, 2016 1:02 AM

I live here because it has more soul-mates per capita than any other town

by Anonymousreply 83June 24, 2016 1:16 AM

Palm Springs does not have a Mediterranean climate. It is in a low desert that comprises all of the Coachella Velley to the Salton Sea.

by Anonymousreply 84June 24, 2016 1:35 AM

Is Cathedral City as nice as Palm Springs? Just as gay?

by Anonymousreply 85June 24, 2016 1:45 AM

"Literally. Every one."

Stupidity.

by Anonymousreply 86June 24, 2016 1:50 AM

R85 Cathedral City is a bit more downscale. The worst is Desert Hot Springs, then Indio. Most of the other cities (Rancho Mirage, Palm Desert, Indian Wells, La Quinta) are nicer than Palm Springs, but not as gay.

by Anonymousreply 87June 24, 2016 6:13 AM

But I love the Desert Hot Springs Spa Hotel with their 8 pools of different sizes and temperatures, all mineral water with no chlorine, spotlessly clean and only $3 to swim there on Tuesdays... that's paradise no matter what the rest of Desert Hot Springs is like.

by Anonymousreply 88June 24, 2016 11:24 AM

The ideal retirement life for a gay man would be to live in Palm Springs from November to April, then in Guerneville, California from May to October. Both small towns, both pretty in their own ways, both overly friendly to gays.

by Anonymousreply 89June 24, 2016 11:28 AM

Guernevillie is much more of a "small town" than Palm Springs.

by Anonymousreply 90June 24, 2016 3:02 PM

I do love that Guerneville is closer to Healdsburg and world-class wine tasting~!

by Anonymousreply 91June 24, 2016 5:46 PM

R91 what makes it world-class?

by Anonymousreply 92June 24, 2016 6:03 PM

Sonoma and Napa have some of the finest wineries in the world.

by Anonymousreply 93June 24, 2016 6:08 PM

[quote]But I do love a Mediterranean climate,...

Somebody needs a one-way bus ticket out of the trailer park.

by Anonymousreply 94June 24, 2016 6:16 PM

I prefer souther Oregon wines to Napa and Sonoma.

by Anonymousreply 95June 24, 2016 6:16 PM

R94 how do you mean?

by Anonymousreply 96June 24, 2016 6:49 PM

Has anyone done the Napa wine train thing?

by Anonymousreply 97June 24, 2016 6:50 PM

Never did the wine train thing, but did rent bikes in Healdsburg and rode around from winery to winery! It was lovely!

Stocked up on picnic supplies from this store - best sandwiches ever!

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by Anonymousreply 98June 24, 2016 6:56 PM

It's only good as a Winter resort for those wealthy enough to have more than one home.

by Anonymousreply 99June 24, 2016 7:15 PM

Where are the "springs" in Palm Springs? Are there hot springs? Fresh water springs?

by Anonymousreply 100June 24, 2016 7:30 PM

Bed springs.

by Anonymousreply 101June 24, 2016 7:53 PM

Santa Clara and Alameda counties have great wineries too. Wente Brothers in Livermore and Savannah-Chanelle, Mountain Winery and Big Basin all in Saratoga.

Palm Springs is a snake pit.

by Anonymousreply 102June 25, 2016 1:55 AM

R100 They're giving out palm oil with every purchase of a new springboard Rose.

by Anonymousreply 103June 25, 2016 1:57 AM

Well I for one WELCOME our new Ant Overlords R50!

by Anonymousreply 104June 25, 2016 2:21 AM

Remember when Rock Hudson had an adjoining bungalow with the Ricardos and the Mertzes?

by Anonymousreply 105June 25, 2016 2:27 AM

R105 what in hell does that have to do with Palm Springs or Napa Valley or Coachella valley?

by Anonymousreply 106June 25, 2016 2:35 AM

There ARE hot springs in the Palm Springs area.

by Anonymousreply 107June 25, 2016 2:41 AM

R106: In the "Ricky Goes To Hollywood" episodes of "I Love Lucy", Lucy and Ethel take a vacation in Palm Springs. They meet Rock Hudson by the pool at their resort.

(If you watch the episode, watch Rock make his way to the girls then stop to "chat" with an attractive young man by the pool.)

by Anonymousreply 108June 25, 2016 2:43 AM

I've been there in May and in early fall. It's not cool, but most of the time it's in the 90s, and believe me, after suffering through Chicago summers, 10% humidity is still preferable. And before 9 and/or after 5, it's more temperate (when the sun is behind the mountain).

That being said, there's three and a half solid months a year where the temperature is at or above 100 for several hours a day, and at least 4 to 6 of those weeks where it's just fucking HOT 24/7, 110 or above.

I love it for a few reasons - scale (you can go from PS to Palm Desert pretty quickly), and the fact that you can get a pretty beautiful mid century modern house for what is, compared to other cities, an affordable price.

There are negatives. All of CA surprises me in terms of the amount of street and homeless people, and how often people seem not to care. Also, the aesthetics are pretty awful. Men's clothing stores there are all Who Shot The Tablecloth and Turned It Into This Shirt?

I'm considering it for retirement, but I'd definitely have to live in a relatively inexpensive place for 4 months or so of the year. Since I'm from the Rust Belt I think I might be able to swing both.

by Anonymousreply 109June 25, 2016 2:51 AM

I know it might be considered cheesy or "touristy," but I do love taking the aerial tram from Palm Springs all the way up to Mt. San Jacinto (where it is usually 20 - 30 degrees cooler).

Idyllwild is a nice mountain getaway, too.

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by Anonymousreply 110June 25, 2016 5:04 AM

R110 I've done Idyllwild but never the tram. Some day ...

by Anonymousreply 111June 25, 2016 5:22 AM

I'm thinking I'd like to retire in PS. But I don't think my partner & I could do the entire summer. So we'll probably take that opportunity to rent a place for a month or so in somewhat less oppressively hot places, like Ptown or Tuscany, or Northern CA. I'm thinking it might be a bit too much to work ourselves to death in order to own two properties. And I say this as a 50-something with our mortgage paid off and comfortable savings. I'd rather experience a little variety in my old(er)-age.

Now you can tear me apart, bitches.

by Anonymousreply 112June 26, 2016 6:27 PM

There is a narrow strip of Mediterranean Climate along the coast of SoCal, but it sure as hell doesn't extend to Palm Springs, which is Subtropical Desert.

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by Anonymousreply 113June 26, 2016 7:54 PM

Are there better alternatives in the Southwest for retirement? Would the San Diego area be a better choice? Or the coastline north of LA?

by Anonymousreply 114June 26, 2016 9:09 PM

R1 has it right. There's your answer.

by Anonymousreply 115June 26, 2016 10:17 PM

R114 What can you afford and how "retired" do you want to be?

by Anonymousreply 116June 26, 2016 10:24 PM

[quote] [R1] has it right

It may be a surprise, but not all of us pass our pussies around like it's a free for all candy dish.

Some of us are in a relationship and monogamous. We don't pick places to live on the basis of whether some random stranger will blast a load on our face at 3 am.

by Anonymousreply 117June 27, 2016 1:40 PM

I cant understand why anyone would live in California in retirement, esp on a fixed income, like SocSec. It's very expensive & has very high taxes.

by Anonymousreply 118June 27, 2016 1:52 PM

it's FAB

by Anonymousreply 119June 28, 2016 1:59 PM

[quote] I cant understand why anyone would live in California in retirement, esp on a fixed income, like SocSec. It's very expensive & has very high taxes.

It seems like many of the residents share a home, if not with their husbands then with friends. May cut down on costs and make it more affordable.

by Anonymousreply 120June 28, 2016 2:00 PM

the place is crawling with man whores

by Anonymousreply 121June 28, 2016 2:39 PM

[quote] the place is crawling with man whores

I really don't understand the shrill cuntiness about this. I've been there 20+ times in the last 5 years and have never seen this.

Then again, I have never been there during Pride week or spent a second in the dive bars in town.

But "teeming with whores" seems to be a bit of a stretch.

by Anonymousreply 122June 29, 2016 12:01 AM

[quote]Some of us are in a relationship and monogamous.

Heaven's waiting-room essentially.

by Anonymousreply 123June 29, 2016 12:09 AM

Are there actually monogamous gay couples?

by Anonymousreply 124June 29, 2016 12:12 AM

To hear one of my exes talk, it has something to do with the Giant Pecan Caramel Cinnamon Rolls at Billy Reed's.

Is that place still gay central on Sunday morning?

by Anonymousreply 125June 29, 2016 12:20 AM

It had a certain charm.

by Anonymousreply 126June 29, 2016 1:21 AM

Here I thought Gay Central was Sherman's.

by Anonymousreply 127June 29, 2016 6:49 PM

Manhattan in the Desert is much better than Sherman's.

by Anonymousreply 128June 29, 2016 7:00 PM

What is considered "reasonable" housing prices in PS ?

by Anonymousreply 129June 29, 2016 10:26 PM

I live there part time for the reason we're accepted. Anyone past 50 has had a hard life and it's truly liberating to know you're in a town with a Gay mayor and a Gay City Council. Sex is there but generally middle aged gays. For sure it's often hot but not like Florida hot.

by Anonymousreply 130June 29, 2016 11:00 PM

Easy hub for travel. Home prices run the gamut. PS, CC-Mission Hills $300k and up, Indian Wells about $800k and up, La Quinta gated $1.2mm and up. Specialty areas like Thunderbird Heights, the Madison, Vintage Club, Big Horn, Tradition, Andalusia are muli-million $ price. Lock and leave.

by Anonymousreply 131June 29, 2016 11:13 PM

Is Coco's still in business? They always had good breakfasts.

by Anonymousreply 132June 29, 2016 11:17 PM

I want one of the MCM homes there. Can't imagine living in a gated community.

by Anonymousreply 133June 29, 2016 11:18 PM

Coco's is gone.

by Anonymousreply 134June 29, 2016 11:28 PM

[R112] sweet sentiments you express but in PS it all boils down to one thing and one thing only; what is your VIRAL LOAD?

by Anonymousreply 135June 30, 2016 1:22 AM

I guess I'm in a circle of more classy, elegant people that aren't whores or barflies, then, since I would never think to think "viral load" when discussing Palm Springs.

by Anonymousreply 136July 2, 2016 11:54 PM

R136 how do you mean?

by Anonymousreply 137July 2, 2016 11:56 PM

Hot on the heels of viral load is WHAT IS YOUR CD4 COUNT

by Anonymousreply 138July 2, 2016 11:57 PM

[quote]It seems like many of the residents share a home, if not with their husbands then with friends. May cut down on costs and make it more affordable.

Just like the Golden Girls! Someone pitch the sitcom...

by Anonymousreply 139July 3, 2016 12:08 AM

I remember from the HGTV thread that some queen did exactly that - shared with 5 room mates

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by Anonymousreply 140July 3, 2016 12:10 AM

The average CD4 count in Palm Springs is 23.

There are power outages all the time because every single resident is running a temperature of 104F and has the a/c turned down to its coldest setting.

by Anonymousreply 141July 3, 2016 12:56 AM

[quote] All you poor delicate snowflakes. While you are digging the Chevy Citation out of 14-foot-high snowdrifts, we in Palm Springs are sitting out on the patio under the misters, poolside, sipping whiskey sours and using FlightTracker on our tablets to watch the various planes soar high above your homes in Flyover Land.

Doesn't that make YOU the delicate snowflake, for not being able to deal with... er...snowflakes?

by Anonymousreply 142July 3, 2016 2:15 AM

I can't bear heat.

by Anonymousreply 143July 3, 2016 2:15 AM

But you can find so many soulmates here!

by Anonymousreply 144July 3, 2016 2:16 AM

meow meow meow

by Anonymousreply 145July 5, 2016 2:49 AM

R141 doesn't understand how fevers work.

by Anonymousreply 146July 5, 2016 3:04 AM

[quote] Why oh why oh why to people want to retire where it's hot?

Because they get arthritis and can't rake the leaves or shovel the snow anymore. They can't repair the winter damage to the exterior of the house. Their reflexes aren't what they were and they're afraid to drive on icy roads, especially at night.

by Anonymousreply 147July 5, 2016 3:06 AM

The elderly gays in Palm Springs are very "elite" just ask them. They enjoy the company of the young white and Hispanic gays who have low-paying hospitality or gardening jobs. They also pay to have access to the clothing optional "resorts" where you can go polar bear hunting if that is your bag. Last time I was in PS, there was a hot guy getting fisted on the back patio of the leather bar whose name I can't recall, such is nightlife on a Saturday night in PS. If you are into 58 year old pathetic closet cases look up "Jay Spadafore", he broke my heart so I guess he deserves this.

by Anonymousreply 148July 5, 2016 3:11 AM

FYI I live at the Hideway in La Quinta which is about 35 minutes from P S. I have a rattler by the pool who seems very agitated. It is very unnerving to see this. Living in the desert tries have its drawbacks. That is all.

by Anonymousreply 149July 5, 2016 3:16 AM

Actually the body loses its ability to regulate temperature.

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by Anonymousreply 150July 5, 2016 3:20 AM

As, R113 said, SoCal is a HUGE swath of land. Part of is desert (Palm Springs), part of is Mediterranean (LA). This is rather easy to compute, I'd think.

by Anonymousreply 151July 5, 2016 3:37 AM

"And just where do the HIV positive deserve to live, [R41] & [R38]? "

I'm neither of those posters, but I'd suggest Chappaqua, New York

by Anonymousreply 152July 5, 2016 3:59 AM

R2 I have friends who "retired" to Palm Springs in the Fall of 2014. They lasted barely over a year, citing similar problems. They'd previously owned two homes (each guy had one when they married a few years ago). They sold the one in the Hollywood Hills to buy the one in Palm Springs, but kept the one in South Bay as a rental. They soon found out that the vacations they used to take in Palm Springs didn't translate to living there full-time. As soon as they could, they ended the lease on their rental home and moved back to the coast. I don't think they lost any money selling the place in Palm Springs, but they didn't make any, and it turned out to be one big disappointing hassle.

by Anonymousreply 153July 5, 2016 6:10 AM

Nobody said the poz guys didn't deserve to live in Palm Springs. We were just pointing out that they ARE living there, despite hating the heat.

by Anonymousreply 154July 6, 2016 12:52 AM

You don't need to take PREP in PS, you can just drink the local water.

by Anonymousreply 155July 6, 2016 1:23 AM

R148 who's Jay Spadafore?

by Anonymousreply 156July 6, 2016 1:26 AM

I plan to visit Palm Springs ... I think I will take a house AND a lover for the season. Won't it be simply GRAND?

by Anonymousreply 157July 6, 2016 1:30 AM

I'm thinking of making my debut in PS.

by Anonymousreply 158July 6, 2016 1:54 AM

R158, is this you?

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by Anonymousreply 159July 6, 2016 1:56 AM

It's not that the HIV POSITIVE don't deserve to live in Palm Springs; it's that the HIV POSITIVE don't deserve to live... PERIOD

by Anonymousreply 160July 13, 2016 3:45 AM

What I liked about Palm Spring this was their version of bubble tea: milkshake with cut-up date pieces instead of tapioca balls.

R55 old pal - unless you live in the city of Portland itself, Maine is a fairly dreary place much of the year.

by Anonymousreply 161July 13, 2016 4:17 AM

[quote]Down valley, where the illegal Mexicans live, it's mostly the Ebola or the Zika. You can't swing a cat in Palm Desert without hitting a pin headed Zika baby. Although, every one of the Indians in Indian Wells (feather not dot) have the eye cancer. (not the dripping kind). Funny thing, that.

I didn't think it was possible to spend 24/7 tripping on bath salts, but if this post is any indication you can.

by Anonymousreply 162July 13, 2016 5:23 AM

I would have though Palm Springs didn't have this problem . . .

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by Anonymousreply 163July 18, 2016 3:55 AM

The only guys I've known that move to PS are either the older ones that want easy access to rentboys or the rentboys themselves that see the market to make some good money.

by Anonymousreply 164July 18, 2016 4:19 AM

[quote]You don't need to take PREP in PS, you can just drink the local water.

You don't need to take PREP in Fire Island, you can just drink the local water. There, fixed it for ya.

by Anonymousreply 165July 18, 2016 6:00 AM

Santa Barbara is considered the Mediterranean of the west coast. But it cost a shit load of money to live there.

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by Anonymousreply 166July 18, 2016 6:03 AM

Only about 30% of the total population in PS is gay. Out of that, I would say most seem to be older gay couples with a very large house. Guys in the 50 plus age group really dont get out much. The truth to all the AIDS jokes is that most of the guys that are sexually active there are coming from LA /West Hollywood looking to get away from it all only to realize they are with the same tired crowd they left behind.

See Wang's in the Desert Happy Hour

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by Anonymousreply 167July 18, 2016 6:17 AM

Pool Parties are kind in PS. Since its warm at night, they fun can go into the evening. Most respectable gays have a big pool. All the gay hotels have a pool. That's how they deal with the heat.

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by Anonymousreply 168July 18, 2016 6:20 AM

If you want to talk viral load, ask the twinks that show up every year for The White Party.

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by Anonymousreply 169July 18, 2016 6:28 AM

So Palm Springs would be a great place for a dedicated hospice worker, then?

by Anonymousreply 170July 18, 2016 6:33 AM

There's tons of jobs for Home Health Care workers and Companions available.

by Anonymousreply 171July 18, 2016 7:16 AM

Thanks, R171. I specialize in palliative home care, as I came of age during the AIDS crisis. I'd like to get back to serving my community.

by Anonymousreply 172July 18, 2016 7:50 AM

Why would EVERYONE want to live in a city where DL Icon Joyce Bulifant has a star on the Walk of Fame?

by Anonymousreply 173February 24, 2018 2:50 AM

johns are there and so the whores are there also

good hunting ground..

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by Anonymousreply 174February 24, 2018 4:16 AM

oldies like its warm dry air, good for the octogenarian lungs

boys like the old mens $, theyr rich and often old hollywood workers.. fun geezers and generous

the lord loves a man wealthy in spirit.

by Anonymousreply 175February 24, 2018 10:01 AM

I'd love some daddy dick.

by Anonymousreply 176February 26, 2018 7:14 PM

BUMP

by Anonymousreply 177January 19, 2020 5:58 PM

"Why would EVERYONE want to live in a city where DL Icon Joyce Bulifant has a star on the Walk of Fame? "

Why the hell not?

by Anonymousreply 178January 19, 2020 6:52 PM

I love taking quick trips to PS just to scape the horror that is Phoenix (a.k.a. Mexico's biggest and trashiest ghetto).

by Anonymousreply 179January 19, 2020 7:01 PM

Is there a place on Earth that DL doesn't find unlivable?

by Anonymousreply 180January 19, 2020 7:01 PM

[quote][R32], Apache Junction is glorious.

If you're into singlewides, snowbirds, Mormons, militias and gun shows.

by Anonymousreply 181January 19, 2020 7:09 PM

I recently vacationed there and you can see the appeal. There are some good things about it. Many of the benefits of other areas of CA without the insanely high real estate prices. A very gay friendly city. A downtown that's fun and walkable. Certainly more liveable than other areas during the winter.

But it is very hot and dry in summer and with climate change that will only get worse. I'm not sure how anyone will be getting water in 20-25 years. And one of the nice things thus far is the scale and size of the area, where crowds are really limited to big events like Coachella, Pride and the film festival. But PS is on the edge of a huge construction boom, and in 5-10 years you'll have people bitching in the same way they bitch now about cities like Denver, Boise et al - "All the newbies have ruined my city!"

So, pluses and minuses.

by Anonymousreply 182January 19, 2020 7:09 PM

I thought Palm springs is for elderly lesbian couples

by Anonymousreply 183January 19, 2020 7:15 PM

R7 yes, about 17 or 18

by Anonymousreply 184January 19, 2020 7:38 PM

[quote] I thought Palm Springs is for elderly lesbian couples

They come in for the Dinah, which is like lesbian Mardi Gras, but they don't live in PS and surrounding areas in quite the same numbers as gay men.

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by Anonymousreply 185January 19, 2020 8:29 PM

Because it's FAAAABBBULOUSSSS!!!!" there

by Anonymousreply 186January 19, 2020 8:30 PM

I watched that documentary-DESERT MIGRATION. It's about these older hiv positive men who moved to PS. Almost of all of them are BITCHY QUEENS except for the Mexican guy and the over the hill twink who looked the most sickly of them all.

by Anonymousreply 187February 6, 2020 5:00 AM

It’s not fabulous, At all, you think LA is tired? It’s like LA 25 years ago with the crumbling Mediterranean facades all worn, the sad depressing stucco outdoor patio bars with obligatory fire pit, no one dresses well, everyone’s trying to be younger and not as starving as they really are. No thanks.

by Anonymousreply 188February 6, 2020 5:04 AM
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