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Do you play with your own nipples during sex?

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by Anonymousreply 12601/21/2014

Gay male here. My nipples feel nothing. I let the other guy kiss and suck them, but honestly, I feel nothing whatsoever.

by Anonymousreply 212/06/2010

Nipple play gets me OFF. I'm a woman.

by Anonymousreply 312/06/2010

[quote]Sucking my nipples is like sucking the back of my hand.

I love not just having my nipple (only my left one) licked, but my thumb (either one) sucked.

by Anonymousreply 512/07/2010

Are u serious r5? I thought I was the only person on the planet who liked their hands sucked on lol

by Anonymousreply 612/07/2010

Mine have n sensation. If someone plays with them during sex it usually hurts.

by Anonymousreply 712/07/2010

That's weird, r7, I'm a left-nipple person, too. Sucking my left nipple is like sucking my cock.

by Anonymousreply 912/07/2010

I was on a date with a guy once, sitting in a bar watching a drag show. I had my arm around him and of course my hand was laying on his chest. I started simply rubbing his chest in a tender, sweet way, not sexual at all, playing my fingers across his left nipple gently, almost absent-mindedly. And he came in his pants....I was kind of shocked, I wasn't even trying to be sexual. I guess he was embarrassed, because he left pretty soon after and never returned my phone calls. Meanwhile, you could suck on my nipples all night and NOTHING. I guess everyone is wired differently.

by Anonymousreply 1112/07/2010

R11. In the course of you gently rubbing his nipples, did he try and get you to stop so that he wouldn't cum?%0D %0D I mean, he must have felt an orgasm potentially coming on even if you were unaware that gently rubbing his nipples was going to cause him to squirt.

by Anonymousreply 1412/07/2010

Gently rubbing my left nipple - YESSS!

by Anonymousreply 1512/07/2010

dead nips here but love guys that like theirs played with.

by Anonymousreply 1612/07/2010

I've cum from working my nipples. Nipple play is extremely erotic and intense and has become an absolutely essential part of sex for me.

by Anonymousreply 1712/07/2010

That is so hot, R11. I thought only women's nipples were that sensitive.

by Anonymousreply 1912/07/2010

snake bite kit? wtf?

by Anonymousreply 2212/07/2010

Mine are hard wired right to my crotch. A breeze lows and I'm up. Mine are also independent. I can have one nipple hard and the other not and vice versa. Never asked anyone if that is normal or not.

by Anonymousreply 2312/07/2010

Wow - r23!

I always say my nipples are "hard-wired to my crotch." Nipple play makes be raging hard and puts my pre-cum production into overdrive. Love when a guy pays attention to my nipples. Most are fascinated and turned on by my response. Only time I play with them is if the guy I'm with is kind of boring in bed and I need to enhance arousal. Interestingly, I never play with my nipples when I jerk off.

by Anonymousreply 2412/07/2010

My ex would go crazy if I went near his nipples. He would beg me to stop or he would cum on the spot!

by Anonymousreply 2512/07/2010

Like r23 and r24, my nipples are directly wired to my crotch. They are the surest way to get me raging hard and horny. And I love it.

by Anonymousreply 2612/07/2010

Stupid OP. That's what personal assistants are for. %0D %0D I said HARDER, bitch!

by Anonymousreply 2712/07/2010

Those of you with sensitive nips, are they big or do you have large areolas?

by Anonymousreply 2812/07/2010

Mine are completely average in size if marvelous in function, R28.

by Anonymousreply 2912/07/2010

R28, mine are biggish...the areolas aren't large, but the nipple itself is kind of long and thick.

by Anonymousreply 3012/07/2010

I make sure the guy knows what to do by moving his hands to my nipples while he sucks my dick.

by Anonymousreply 3212/22/2010

I once almost came from having a guy suck my nipples. I say almost came because I was so embarrassed I made him stop before I made it all the way.

by Anonymousreply 3312/22/2010

I enjoy playing with other guys' nips, but I feel nothing at all. In fact, if a guy tries to pinch my nips at a bar, I'll slap his hand away.

by Anonymousreply 3412/22/2010

I think I already posted in this thread about my extremely sensitive nipples. I really want my partners to have at least some sensitivity in their nipples as well, though... I want to be with someone who understands what I'm feeling when I get touched there. It can actually be a deal-breaker if I'm sucking on or rubbing some guy's tits, and he either rolls his eyes or looks completely nonplussed.

by Anonymousreply 3512/22/2010

It so weird that some men feel nothing and others are practically orgasmic from nipple stimulation. I wonder why. Don't we all have the same nerves in that area?

by Anonymousreply 3612/22/2010

It's the same for women, R36. I'm a lesbian and I've had some partners who could come just from nipple play, some for whom it did nothing.

by Anonymousreply 3712/22/2010

Some men actually develop a little bit of tissue there during puberty, R36 - the same kind of tissue that women develop, albeit completely. That tissue is [italic]highly[/italic] innervated, and those men who didn't develop the tissue have comparatively 'dead' nipples. I liken it to the cut vs. uncut difference.

by Anonymousreply 3812/22/2010

I wonder how common it is for women to not get off on nipple play, R37? I get the feeling that it's actually pretty common for women to enjoy having their nipples played with. My own experiences suggest that it's more of a 60-20-20 split with men... 60% don't get anything from it, another 20% find it pleasurable, and the remaining 20% goes wild over it.

by Anonymousreply 3912/22/2010

No, but I do suck my own cock while I'm being fucked.

by Anonymousreply 4012/22/2010

OP, if you play with your nipples you are a woman.

by Anonymousreply 4212/23/2010

R40, can I date you?

by Anonymousreply 4312/23/2010

Someone's got to.

by Anonymousreply 4412/23/2010

[quote]It so weird that some men feel nothing and others are practically orgasmic from nipple stimulation. I wonder why. %0D %0D It can be developed. Start by gently working your own nipples when jacking-off. After awhile, they'll start to get wired to your cock.

by Anonymousreply 4512/23/2010

In classic DL fashion: "This threasd is making me HORNY AS HELL!"%0D %0D The old-timers will get my drift.

by Anonymousreply 4612/25/2010

I'm a guy with relatively small nipples, but they too are 'hard-wired' to my cock. I love having them played with and sucked on.

by Anonymousreply 4712/25/2010

It seems lots of us are into nipples so why are generally ignored in porn? One lick and they are off to the dick.

by Anonymousreply 4812/29/2010

My partner usually does but, yeah, if I'm masturbating. Sure.

by Anonymousreply 4912/29/2010

Hard wired here too. Can't get enough.

by Anonymousreply 5012/29/2010

So strangle, I feel nothing at all in my nipple area. Its like touching my elbow. I have nice pecs too!

by Anonymousreply 5112/29/2010

[quote]I have nice pecs too!

We will need pics to verify this.

by Anonymousreply 5212/29/2010

[quote]I have nice pecs too!%0D %0D Are you in the "Big pecs that jut out" thread?

by Anonymousreply 5312/29/2010

I was talking about this with my bf a couple days ago. He's always had very sensitive nips and tweaking them during sex is a must. I've never objected to having my nipples played with but have never found it particularly stimulating. I took a nipple ring out a couple months ago (had it for 16 years) and now all of a sudden my nips, particularly my left one, are more sensitive than they've ever been. I wonder if it's something that can develop as you age - I seem to notice a higher proportion of nipple-tweakers among older guys (in porn anyway).

by Anonymousreply 5412/29/2010

[quote]I took a nipple ring out a couple months ago (had it for 16 years

gross

by Anonymousreply 5512/29/2010

[quote]I took a nipple ring out %0D %0D Took it out of your nipple or took it out of a drawer and insereted it in your nipple?

by Anonymousreply 5603/22/2011

Anyone use clothespins?

by Anonymousreply 5703/31/2011

I had NO sensation in mine until I was about 25, when I played around with a fantastic top-daddy type who would NOT leave my nipples alone -- they were painful and tender for a couple of days afterwards.

But ever since that night, my nips have been hard-wired. It's an erogenous zone that I think more guys have than they may realize.

Just whale on them a bit to wake them up!

by Anonymousreply 5803/31/2011

I agree r58

by Anonymousreply 5905/24/2011

Mine are completely hardwired and always have been. They aren't big but they are thick and get hard instantly. If mine aren't worked, it's like ignoring my dick during sex.%0D %0D When we are all embryos - basically sexless - we have the same wiring as women. There is a chemical released when nipples are stimulated - and it IS connected to the pelvic area. Sometimes women's nipples are stimulated to induce labor.%0D %0D So, I assume, some men's nipples get more developed and retain some of the original functions for why we have nipples in the first place.%0D %0D I've cum many times from just nipple play. I can't get enough and if my partner isn't interested in them, I lose interest in sex.

by Anonymousreply 6005/24/2011

"When we are all embryos - basically sexless "

No, actually basically female.

And biologically.

by Anonymousreply 6105/24/2011

r61 - I stand corrected.

by Anonymousreply 6205/24/2011

"This threasd is making me HORNY AS HELL!"%0D %0D %0D It happens every time it pops back to page 1.

by Anonymousreply 6306/01/2011

"Frequently" is winning.

by Anonymousreply 6611/25/2011

Frequently is still ahead.

by Anonymousreply 6703/10/2012

I feel sorry for men with dead nipples.

by Anonymousreply 6803/10/2012

My nipples only get hard when I go to the bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 6903/10/2012

All that I have ever gotten out of someone playing with my nipples is the inference that he'd like his played with. Oh, and sometimes sore nipples.

by Anonymousreply 7003/10/2012

[quote]If mine aren't worked, it's like ignoring my dick during sex.

That's the way I am too. Such a letdown when you get with a nipple-ignorant guy; you guide his hand to your nipple, he flicks it once or twice and then never goes back. It's like uggggghhh, this is not going to be great.

On the other hand, it's so fun getting with a guy who likes it as much as you do -- seeing him light up when you start working his nipples like you know what you're doing and intend to keep going. It kicks the hotness & bond between you way up.

FWIW, my nipples are average in size but look perkily erect all the time. They don't stick way out like eraser tips but you can usually see the points through a polo shirt or t-shirt.

by Anonymousreply 7103/10/2012

Of course. Why would I stop playing with them just because I was having sex?

by Anonymousreply 7203/16/2012

No, I hate my nipples played with, but I'm sure that will change when I get older. Whenever I hook up with a 20-something year old, they don't like their nipples played with. Only times anyone has ever brought nipples into sex in when I've been with an older daddy type.

I had one that kept playing with mine and I hated it. I'm guessing they'll be more sensitive when I'm older...

by Anonymousreply 7303/16/2012

Are you the freaks I see putting clamps on their nipples trying to stretch them out? That always freaks me out. Why would a man want big ol' Amazonian National Geographic tits?

by Anonymousreply 7403/16/2012

I voted sometimes, but my real answer would be once or twice.

by Anonymousreply 7503/16/2012

Charlie knows a celeb who plays with his own nipples. Ask him to drop the name.

by Anonymousreply 7603/17/2012

Frequently is the clear winner.

by Anonymousreply 7703/18/2012

I am guI am a guy and love to play with my nipples. They have a lot of sensation in them. I also love them sucked on and I as well love to suck on nipples, my fav thing to do. I thing women are very lucky to be able to do that to themselves if they would want to

by Anonymousreply 7903/23/2012

i love having my nipples played with and sometime orgasm for that alone. Also i wear suction cups to encourage nipple growth and sensitivity.

by Anonymousreply 8004/20/2012

Chung Ho like the chest to play with.

by Anonymousreply 8204/24/2012

yes i love it even when i look at them i am aroused do you believe it

by Anonymousreply 8307/18/2012

Chick here, with huge boobs which developed VERY early (age 8).

I get NOTHING out of nipple stimulation.

It's mostly just boring, but if the guy continues (you all know how str8 guys are usually obsessed with tits), it gets annoying.

Like, hello, there's a lot more of me to pay attention to! Lick elsewhere!

by Anonymousreply 8407/18/2012

I love it. I wish I could find someone who likes it. Black guys like it more than white ones

by Anonymousreply 8507/18/2012

My fuck buddy was a black muscle boy hunk with unreal pecs he loved his nipples sucked and pulled. He even got bolts put in both of em. Just do not touch mine.

by Anonymousreply 8607/18/2012

Often, after my Wednesday morning bridge game along with after my tennis at the club

by Anonymousreply 8707/21/2012

Looking in the adult toy section at Amazon, they have a lot of nipple suckers so a lot of people must be into nipple play.

by Anonymousreply 8807/21/2012

The minute you suck on em I cum and cum and cum

by Anonymousreply 9008/27/2012

dead nips here, no feeling at all

by Anonymousreply 9108/27/2012

A lot of Asian girls have sensitive nips and seems they love getting licked, and played them. Maybe only girls that I encountered...

by Anonymousreply 9211/16/2012

Asian lads as well.

And nipples do seem to get a lot more attention in Asian porn . . particularly Japanese.

by Anonymousreply 9303/28/2013

It doesn't feel anywhere near as hot as if someone else is doing it.

My BF does this amazing thing where he is twisting and pulling both my nipples and my balls to while he sucks me. Once he gets doing that I cum in seconds.

by Anonymousreply 9403/28/2013

My nipples are barely sensitive, but the slight sensations drive me crazy.

by Anonymousreply 9503/28/2013

I kind of get creeped out if a guy starts playing with his nips. I do t like it at all, and my nips have no sensation at all. No nip play for me. Turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 9603/28/2013

Absolutely, Gets me to precum, lots

by Anonymousreply 9703/28/2013

To those of you with pierced nips: Are they hard all the time? Is it arousing?

by Anonymousreply 9803/28/2013

I had dead nipples, very flat. I had them pierced for around ten years, but haven't worn anything in them for over five years, but finally, they are so sensitive, I get a milder version of when my BF is playing with my cock.

If he is working my cock and then starts on my nipples too, I come faster, further, thicker and harder too.

by Anonymousreply 9903/28/2013

Both my nipples are pierced and they are like horny buttons for me. I am bi sexual and but I like when my wife plays with them most especially in the morning. But I play with them all the time and if I am with a guy usually playing with my nips is the fastest way to get me in my knees!

by Anonymousreply 10007/08/2013

I don't have enough hands

by Anonymousreply 10107/08/2013

Never, they are unresponsive. I like to play with yours but would rather you left mine alone

by Anonymousreply 10207/08/2013

I like in porn when the bottom is in missionary and he plays with the tops nipples as they fuck, so hot!

by Anonymousreply 10307/08/2013

I wish Dave Franco would take this up another step.

by Anonymousreply 10407/08/2013

no

by Anonymousreply 10507/08/2013

Dave is a little nipple freak.

by Anonymousreply 10607/08/2013

Dave is hot!

by Anonymousreply 10707/10/2013

Male here. I have super sensitive nips. I hate it. A buddy can jokingly pinch my nipple over my shirt (as guys do when they're horsing around) and my dick will instantly start to swell up in my pants. They don't know this, and I'll have to sit down or pretend to tie my shoe till the feeling passes and the boner deflates! It's been rather inconvenient.

additionally, they're so sensitive that they hurt if my shirt rubs against them. They start burning. i've had to put band aids over them at times.

by Anonymousreply 10807/10/2013

And I wish Jensen Ackles would take THIS up another notch.

by Anonymousreply 10907/10/2013

r11, did you ever think it was the drag queen that got your date off rather than your nipple caresses?

by Anonymousreply 11007/10/2013

Yes. Especially when it's just me, myself, and I. My nips are hardwired to my cock. The left one brings me pleasure, the right one, pain. Each gets me much harder than I would get otherwise, and the right one gets me a little bit precummier.

by Anonymousreply 11107/10/2013

Um No

by Anonymousreply 11207/10/2013

If I only had two more hands...

by Anonymousreply 11307/10/2013

Mine are wired strangely, I think. They're very sensitive - and I don't like them being "tweaked" unless it is directly in relation to sex.

My partner tries to tweak them all the time - and I'm always swatting him away - because I just don't like it. He, of course, takes it very personally.

But once we're actually having sex -then YES, they are 'hardwired to my cock' as everyone here is saying - and it definitely contributes to the arousal and orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 11407/10/2013

Pinching and pulling my nipples when I jack off makes my orgasm much more powerful. Any reason for this?

by Anonymousreply 11507/10/2013

I lick them

by Anonymousreply 11607/10/2013

A shorter and very hung guy I've been dating likes to fuck me while licking and suckling my nips. Don't even need to touch my cock to cum.

by Anonymousreply 11707/11/2013

My leftnip is my fave toy....

by Anonymousreply 11807/11/2013

"Frequently" is way ahead of the others.

by Anonymousreply 11907/12/2013

[quote]My partner tries to tweak them all the time - and I'm always swatting him away - because I just don't like it. He, of course, takes it very personally.

Swatting out his dental implant would be a reason for him to take it personally.

by Anonymousreply 12007/13/2013

Less than 20% for the "never" option.

by Anonymousreply 12107/15/2013

If it matters, I can cum just by either my wife or myself playing with either of my nipples. It takes a bit longer that a BJ or straight sex, but not much longer, and can be just as intense or even more so.

by Anonymousreply 12201/15/2014

Tell us more, R122.

by Anonymousreply 12301/15/2014

Oh God, Yes ! My nipples are hardwired straight to my cunt.

by Anonymousreply 12401/16/2014

Numb nips here. I'm jealous, it sounds like a lot of fun, but it just does nothing for me.

Can come from having my neck sucked/bitten, however.

by Anonymousreply 12501/18/2014

when I was in hig school my buddy and I were watching television. He was sitting behind me massaging my sholuder that I'd hurt earlier in the day playing basketball. After a while his hands move to my chest where he began playing with my nipples. I have always had prominet nipples. To make a long story short after about 10 mins I shot a load in my underwear. I have enjoyed nipple paly every since.

by Anonymousreply 12601/21/2014
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