I know most Dlers probably don't give a shit, but I really wanted to know what are the "best" cities for black and latino gays. Well, "best" is based on the individual, so I guess I'm just asking about pure numbers, bars and nightlife, organizations, etc. Wherever gay blacks and latinos have the most presence. For Blacks, Not L.A. and San Francisco. So, Atlanta, NYC, DC, Chicago? Maybe Oakland? Latinos - NYC, Miami? And, if NYC, then what particular locations?
The U.S. Black and Latino gay meccas?
|by Anonymous||reply 113||12/06/2015|
What would be a mecca for Muslim men?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||10/07/2010|
That brownstone house where my baby lives.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||10/07/2010|
Not Atlanta or NYC. Why not SF? Because blacks are a smaller minority there? Nonetheless, things are better there than elsewhere by any objective standard. Columbus, Ohio would be a good place.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 4||10/07/2010|
Blacks: Atlanta, Washington DC, Detroit%0D %0D Latinos: Miami, San Diego, Los Angeles
|by Anonymous||reply 5||10/07/2010|
Blacks: New Orleans%0D %0D Latinos: Miami and San Diego
|by Anonymous||reply 6||10/07/2010|
Atlanta and Detroit are certainly not meccas for gays of color. Just the opposite, in fact.%0D %0D For Latino gays, Chicago is near the top of the list.%0D %0D For black gays, college towns are likely best.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 7||10/07/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 8||10/07/2010|
"Atlanta and Detroit are certainly not meccas for gays of color. Just the opposite, in fact."%0D %0D %0D %0D %0D Atlanta definitely is. Just ask Usher.%0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 10||10/07/2010|
Probably New York. Despite what is said on DL, New York gays are pretty integrated socially.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||10/07/2010|
Atlanta is the capital of the black gay world. This is Gay 101.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||10/07/2010|
I would guess the US mecca for Muslims would be NYC or LA. More cosmopolitan in general?
|by Anonymous||reply 14||10/07/2010|
r11, NYC is certainly not integrated socially in the gay scene. However there is a very active black gay community here in NYC. I would say it's a good place for black gays. We have our own parties, our own media, our own "celebrities." Its kind of underground which shocks me a bit because it's so obvious if you know the right people and where to look, but the black gay scene is definitely healthy here.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||10/07/2010|
"Latinos - NYC, Miami?" Duh!
|by Anonymous||reply 16||10/07/2010|
Obviously R15 doesn't watch that A List. Those guys are A List and black gay men seem to be all over that show. One of the main guys is married to a black guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||10/07/2010|
Not so R12 and stop flogging your overpriced condo on Ponce. You'd have to be a subnormal moron to be black and move to Hatelanta.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 18||10/07/2010|
this is YEAARS old but um... Atlanta is DEFINITELY the black gay mecca of the U.S. Yes there are tons of gays of all colors but as far as black gay men who love other black gay men... ATL is the mecca.D.C.,Chicago,NY,Detroit and Philly come to mind as well. But def ATL
|by Anonymous||reply 19||02/28/2012|
[quote]What would be a mecca for Muslim men?
r1 deserves a little applause for this one.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||02/28/2012|
black gay men gather at church
|by Anonymous||reply 22||02/28/2012|
Just watched a concert by comedian Paul Mooney, filmed in Atlanta. He tries to come off as macho but seems gay to me. Dwight from Atlanta Housewives was seated in a VIP box seat. Anyone know Paul Mooney?
|by Anonymous||reply 23||02/28/2012|
[quote]He tries to come off as macho but seems gay to me..
And why would you be trying to portray "gay" as different from "macho"? What sort of propaganda are you slipping into that comment?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||02/28/2012|
Black gay mecca = Atlanta Latino gay mecca = Miami
|by Anonymous||reply 25||02/28/2012|
New York for Latinos. They've got several bars that cater specifically to gay Latin immigrants. The Web, once an Asian bar, is not almost exclusively Latin. Plus, there are several all-Latin bars in Queens.
99% of the strippers and go-go boys in the city are Latin.
My white friends who have a burning desire for Latino boys, particularly those of the bus boy/delivery boy variety find New York a heavenly candy story of sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||02/28/2012|
You do know that Atlanta is the gayest city in America now, right? Eclipses NY and SF. It is certainly the center of the black gay universe as well. Latin... I'm thinking NY, LA, Miami, Ft. Lauderdale...
|by Anonymous||reply 27||02/28/2012|
Watch the young Mooney in this clip from a roast of Richard Pryor - he's outed like 100 times. Plus, we know RP sucked cock too.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||02/28/2012|
Latinos -- as far away from Mami and Papi as possible.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||02/28/2012|
R23, I have met Paul Mooney and I must say, he is a naturally funny person unlike many other comics. I think his manner of talking *gayish* is part of his act. It's a combination of southern black, valley girl and catskills, all rolled up in one hunky man-body.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||02/28/2012|
It depends what you mean by "Latino." For Cubans and Puerto Ricans, it's Miami, Tampa and other Florida cities, without question.
For Mexican Americans and recent arrivals from Mexico, LA or Houston.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||02/28/2012|
Latino is Miami. Never got dicked so often and hard than when I was in Miami.
I left my hole in Miami.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||02/28/2012|
Mexican-Americans - Los Angeles (insanely hot guys here for that scene)
|by Anonymous||reply 33||02/28/2012|
Definitely Miami for the Latinos. Not Mexicans or centrals, lots os south Americans, cubans and peurto ricans. Haitians and Europeans too. Most people speak Spanish.
I'm heading there for the weekend, have a place there, beautiful people. But the drivers...oy vey, makes NY drivers look like obedient rule followers, it's like Buenos Aires ... Crazy.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||02/28/2012|
NYC is a mecca for dudes who love Latino and Blatino dudes. All those buff Dominicans and Ricans make it first. DC is the mecca for dudes who like black dudes. DC dudes are buffer, more attractive than ATL dudes.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||02/29/2012|
R30 Judging from what Richard Pryor says on the Video at R28. It would seem Paul Mooney likes the Man Sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||03/01/2012|
Do yall remember that BET show 'Oh Drama' and Mooney was a guest. It was a show bout gays and sme anti-gay pastor was there with his church members in the audience. Well Paul was throwing words back at the fat bitches when one said "Yall are sick". I remember Mooney kept telling them "I will NOT be judged by the likes of you."
I was disappointed he didn't get up and kicked the heifer in her cunt.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||03/01/2012|
Miami is very homophobic. New York for Latinos. For blacks, probably Chicago.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||03/01/2012|
Its seems like everyone is closeted in Miami. The island culture dominates all other things here. Its really unfortunate because I dont think you will find hotter Black or Latino men in US. The Caribbean and South American people mixing together makes for exceptionally good looking guys.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||03/02/2012|
Where are the most whores at?
|by Anonymous||reply 44||03/04/2012|
D.C. is a popular gay black mecca. In fact they have the East Coast Black Gay Pride day celebration here every Memorial Day Weekend.
It's funny how the vibe in city gets because it's also the massive Motorcycle Rally the same weekend.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||03/04/2012|
DC Black Gay Pride has been in decline for over a half decade now. People are going to Miami and Puerto Rico on Memorial Day now. ATL's Labor Day Pride is now bigger.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||03/04/2012|
Bi and gay dudes are more masculine in Miami than NYC and DC. There are a lot of hot homothugs/bithugs in Miami and Florida, not stereotypical at all.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||03/04/2012|
So which city is the Gaysian mecca?
|by Anonymous||reply 48||03/04/2012|
r47 in Miami/Florida its frustrating to not know who is gay and who isnt. But yes, there are a ton of gay and downlow black & latino men who you would have no idea are gay until they come on to you.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||03/04/2012|
Dc has the most segregated gay community in the nation.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||03/08/2012|
have been friends with mooney for years, he is bisexual, prefers men, and is a alcoholic. neither are a big secret in hollywood.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||03/08/2012|
Mr. Mooney likes cock?
|by Anonymous||reply 53||03/08/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 54||03/10/2012|
Sebastian Cruz lives in Miami. Hot bisexual dude.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||03/11/2012|
What are the hot black clubs in DC? I only like to go places that play hip hop.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||03/11/2012|
What area in Chicago is black gay mecca? I am thinking of moving there in the fall.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||03/11/2012|
... pardon me while i slip into the kitchen and consult my blaaasian wiffish (that would be black-asian mix nelly wife fish).
|by Anonymous||reply 58||03/11/2012|
Is Escuelita still the place for hot heteroflexible blatino dudes?
|by Anonymous||reply 59||03/11/2012|
Do you want real Latinos or the fake Mexican kind.
Most Mexicans are like 90% or more Indian so they don't look much like Latinos you normally think of.
You want Spanish looking Latinos, like PR's and white Cubans and Argentinians
|by Anonymous||reply 60||08/10/2012|
DC by far is the mecca
|by Anonymous||reply 61||10/22/2012|
Charlotte is becoming a major African American same-gender loving magnet.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||11/21/2012|
Whichever troll keeps on saying NYC for Hispanics is dead wrong... There are several viable candidates for Hispanic gay meccas, but NYC just isn't one of them.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||11/21/2012|
Are there any black bi/gay clubs in Boston?
|by Anonymous||reply 64||12/18/2012|
Boston is a haven for Brazilians
|by Anonymous||reply 65||10/05/2013|
DC and Charlotte are black Same-gender loving capitals
|by Anonymous||reply 66||10/06/2013|
You'll find a lot of black gay clubs outside of Atlanta, DC, Chicago and NYC are often more underground.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||10/06/2013|
Dc for black and Miami for Papis!
|by Anonymous||reply 68||10/16/2013|
It is undisputed that DC is King for Black DL/bi/gay dudes, but there are some secondary cities that are surging, including Charlotte, ATL, and Baltimore. Miami is king for Latinos, but NYC is pretty huge for them too.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||10/16/2013|
Atlanta has a major problem.
It's in Georgia.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||10/16/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 71||10/16/2013|
Black gay Mecca: Marfa, Texas.
Latino gay Mecca: Juno, Alaska.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||10/16/2013|
How about Houston?
|by Anonymous||reply 73||11/01/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 74||11/01/2013|
I'm glad to hear DC is a mecca for someone. White Washington is dull, homogeneous place. Not that it was ever Party Central, but jeez, they must be putting laudanum in the water.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||11/01/2013|
r75, White Washington is not all there is, by far.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||11/02/2013|
The issue with DC is that their aids rate is soo high its scary
|by Anonymous||reply 77||12/11/2013|
Every black guy in Houston does drag on the weekend.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||12/11/2013|
What about gaysians?
SF and LA. Where else? Honolulu?
|by Anonymous||reply 79||12/11/2013|
DC is the best by far
|by Anonymous||reply 80||03/14/2014|
Memorial Day in DC is huge for black same-gender loving Americans.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||04/09/2014|
Black Pride on Memorial Day in DC is incredible. A bunch of buff macho black dudes who are on the Downlow or Bisexual fill the streets.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||05/02/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 83||05/31/2014|
[quote]Black Pride on Memorial Day in DC is incredible.
Damn! I missed it again this year!
|by Anonymous||reply 84||05/31/2014|
As a proud Black gay male, I can tell you that NYC is NOT a great place for men of color.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||05/31/2014|
Black - Atlantic, Chicago. Latino - Los Angeles
|by Anonymous||reply 86||05/31/2014|
R86, I'm from Europe, so excuse me if this is a dumb question, but.. gay latinos in LA, do they usually date other latinos, or do they go for white gays? I've always been curious about this.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||05/31/2014|
Charlotte is the fastest growing mecca
|by Anonymous||reply 88||05/31/2014|
NYC is absolutely a gay Latin mecca. There are many thousands of Puerto Ricans, Dominicans, Colombians, Brazilians & just about every Latin nationality represented in NYC.
Miami is just as much a gay Latin mecca, in proportion to its size vs NYC. Miami's population is 65% Latino. Cubans being the largest, but lots of Venezuelans, Argentines, Colombians, Brazilians & Central Americans.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||06/01/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 90||06/21/2014|
How about Oakland?
|by Anonymous||reply 91||09/13/2014|
For Blacks, definitely NYC. Chelsea bars are teaming with young Black guys.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||09/13/2014|
Every black person I know either wants to move to Atlanta or has relatives who already live there.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||09/13/2014|
atlanta sucks for dating Am a young successful AA who nice looking but i hate it here. this city is only good if u want to fuck and party
|by Anonymous||reply 94||11/22/2014|
Why would you ask if you know DL doesn't give a shit? And why would you ask this sort of question on DL anyway?
|by Anonymous||reply 95||11/22/2014|
r94 I would go on a date with you tonight if you were in my city...Im realizing that younger black people in general don't date, just a lot of partying and fucking
r95, and who are to know if DL gives a shit? do yourself a favor and quench your thirstiness with some Clorox bitch
|by Anonymous||reply 96||11/22/2014|
Idiot, the OP is the one who said DL doesn't give shit, read before you post, R96.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||11/22/2014|
Doesn't anyone here reside or visit a city called New York?
Please New York is THE gay mecca for gay Latin men - you can't walk into any department store, gym, park, hospital, restaurant, or subway (heading into Queens or Washington Heights) without feeling like you are on a La Escuelita Gay Pride Parade float.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||11/22/2014|
R98, those are not the type I'm looking for. I like the muscular heteroflexible or bicurious macho Dominicans in Washington Heights. The blue collar ethnic bros.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||11/23/2014|
r99 their baby mamas are going to cut you brah!
|by Anonymous||reply 100||11/23/2014|
Why put these two groups together?
|by Anonymous||reply 101||11/23/2014|
What does "latino" mean anyway? People who speak Latin?
|by Anonymous||reply 105||11/23/2014|
People from Latin American countries. Latinos include black people.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||11/23/2014|
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|by Anonymous||reply 107||11/23/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 108||11/23/2014|
[quote]People from Latin American countries. latinos include black people.
Then they also include caucasians and asians.
|by Anonymous||reply 109||11/23/2014|
Where are the black clubs in NYC?
|by Anonymous||reply 110||01/24/2015|
|by Anonymous||reply 111||12/05/2015|
Several years ago every black person I know was trying to move to Atlanta. Now most of them seem to favor staying put...
|by Anonymous||reply 112||12/05/2015|
African-Americans make up only 13 or 14 percent of the entire population of the U.S. That's why they get to claim "minority" status.
And yet, for some reason, here in the metropolitan Chicago area - that's the city and all of its suburbs - African-Americans are 25 to 30 percent of the entire population.
That's twice the national average. And it means the metropolitan Chicago area has THE HIGHEST PERCENTAGE of African-Americans of ANY area in the country.
Not Atlanta. Not St. Louis. Not Detroit. Not D.C. Chicago.
And yet, for some reason, Dr. King came here in the mid-'60s, and told all of us white people how we were the most nasty, bigoted, un-Christian, horrible, segregationist, evil people this side of Selma.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||12/06/2015|