I teach graduate studs, so they are grown men. Mid to late 20s. There is always one every year whose cum I want to swallow. I've never done it, and one two years ago, still makes me hard when I look at his stuff on facebook. I've never acted on the urges, but I'm always wondering if it would be worth one discreet experience. Any college professors, especially graduate professors, ever actually have the kind of affair we all fantasize about?
As usual, I have developed a "crush" on one of my students
|by Anonymous||reply 87||04/26/2014|
No, it wouldn't. However, a professor (outside my area, thank God) and I pointedly ignored each other for a semester and fucked like minks after the course ended.%0D %0D Waiting made it all the better.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||09/29/2010|
One of my professors had a relationship with a confused student, who has never gotten over it.%0D I certainly would not have any kind of relationship with someone in my class.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||09/29/2010|
I thought professor's fucking their students was a cliche in academia? I never had any hot professors, but I always assumed it was true.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||09/29/2010|
I had a similar experience to r1's, but I was the professor (we were less than five years apart in age).
|by Anonymous||reply 4||09/29/2010|
I did. It did not end well. Every professor I've been friendly with has revealed that they have as well - and to a man and woman, they all said it did not end well. Do with that what you will.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||09/29/2010|
OP, get a life.
Like some hot stud would fuck some old professor who has nothing going for himself (other than the fact that he got his PhD and he gets to spend the rest of his career chasing tenure). The only way you're getting into a student's pants is if you threaten his grade in your class...and that will land you in jail/out of a job.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||09/29/2010|
You're an idiot, R6. Good luck with...well, fucking everything, I guess, being that god damned pig-stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||09/29/2010|
R6's ignorant chirpings are very hot. Nothing is hotter than a dumbass that thinks it knows it all.
I'd ride r6 hard and then give it a D. D+ if it let me cum in it's mouth.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||09/29/2010|
I always fantasized about my profs OP, but never acted on it. Funny.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||09/29/2010|
I sucked the cock of a professor at my uni once... he never taught me but I added him on facebook and apparently he had seen and noticed me around campus...
|by Anonymous||reply 10||09/29/2010|
[quote]I've never acted on the urges, but I'm always wondering if it would be worth one discreet experience.
Of course not. It would be unprofessional and dangerous. Why don't you try hitting on one of the ex-students?
|by Anonymous||reply 11||09/29/2010|
I hooked up with one of my grad school professors back in the day. I was 25 and freshly out. He was 30 and had just ended an 8 year relationship with his partner.
After I stopped seeing him, he didn't fail me, but made damn sure I didn't get a job I applied for at that college.
He's miserable and lives in Las Vegas now. Fuck him.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||09/29/2010|
OP, are you the same college professor who had a panic attack on the first day of classes and later on fell asleep during your lecture?
|by Anonymous||reply 13||09/29/2010|
Oh sleep with him. It is such a smart thing to do in this ecnomy, putting your job at risk because you can't close your legs.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||09/29/2010|
The OP is not an actual professor, but rather is projecting some kind of fantasy scenario. Real professors [italic]do[/italic] get crushes on their students, but I don't imagine any real professor ever expressing it by saying [quote]I teach graduate studs, so they are grown men. Mid to late 20s. There is always one every year whose cum I want to swallow. That's just stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||09/29/2010|
r15 = an actual college professor who's not hot
|by Anonymous||reply 16||09/30/2010|
I had a very cute English professor my last two years of undergrad who I fantasized about constantly. He was in his early 30s. Cut to about a year after I graduated and we randomly ran into each other at a bar. I went home with him and it was some of the hottest sex I've ever had. We hooked up several times after that until he moved away to teach at another university. Good times.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||09/30/2010|
You want to go to jail OP?
|by Anonymous||reply 18||09/30/2010|
What makes you think OP would go to jail? He might lose his job. That's about it.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||09/30/2010|
I'm a professor and you're an idiot OP. Get control of yourself.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||09/30/2010|
OP, your %C2%A0"I'm a professor" shtick became tiresome to us months ago. Isn't it the least bit tiring to you by now?
|by Anonymous||reply 21||09/30/2010|
If were in your class OP, I'd probably think you wer kind of creepy leching on your students
|by Anonymous||reply 22||09/30/2010|
[quote]You want to go to jail OP?
Says some frau who's deeply afraid of sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||09/30/2010|
Bloody hell, how many professors are there on this site?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||09/30/2010|
Professors on the DL are like half a rung up on the Ladder of Terror and Despair from professors on 4chan
|by Anonymous||reply 25||09/30/2010|
Well OP. This is useless w/o said student's FB pages.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||09/30/2010|
Since OP is fired, he can now fuck his students.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||10/14/2010|
everyone is going into teaching now that I have established it as the chic field to be in.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||10/15/2010|
It would be very sad if OP were a law professor and crushing on law students! It would be more understandable if OP were a physical therapist and crushing on physical education students.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 29||10/15/2010|
I dated one of my English teachers in college. He didn't have his Ph.D. yet. He was a big, tall Black Irishman. So hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||10/15/2010|
I hope you didn't tell him to go fuck himself.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||10/15/2010|
R5 = Tigernan
|by Anonymous||reply 32||10/16/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 33||10/16/2010|
This is why they hate us.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||10/16/2010|
Tell us more, r5. Did you get fired?
|by Anonymous||reply 35||10/16/2010|
Ah, good sleuthing R32!
|by Anonymous||reply 36||10/16/2010|
I blanch every time I see another professor thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||10/16/2010|
No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no.
Do. Not. Do. It.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||10/16/2010|
Did you fuck him, Dolores?
|by Anonymous||reply 39||10/16/2010|
It's no trick picking off the hot young horny ones. The hard part is getting them to shut up after.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||10/16/2010|
I had an openly bi professor come on to me after I graduated. I told him to go back to his wife. Too skeezy.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||10/16/2010|
No, but I was tempted to sleep with a prof once. Dr K was short but well built and handsome, and always wore tight jeans. He was a fantasy, but married with kids.
The "tutoring" sessions in his office were always professional, but I always left with a hardon.
Cut to a few years later, in the parking lot of Target, when Dr K walks by. We stood and talked for a while, and it was revealed that he was divorced. We exchanged numbers to catch up at dinner, but I was dating someone and knew that "dinner" would end with sex if I called.
Damn, should have just dumped the idiot I was dating!
|by Anonymous||reply 42||10/16/2010|
Most people who call themselves "professor" on DL do not hold the actual title, "Professor."
They are ABDs and PhDs who are employed as "visiting instructors" or "visiting lecturers." It's not easy to come by a tenure track position these days; there just aren't that many slots, especially in the humanities.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||10/16/2010|
Just be careful about reading too much into the generalization, R43. I'm a full professor now, and I've been here at DL since I was an assistant professor, and while I went through tenure and promotion to the associate professor level.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||10/16/2010|
Not to mention all those with the title of professor who teach at community colleges.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||10/16/2010|
Furious denial by Tigernan in the other thread. Perhaps he posts on Ambien.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||10/16/2010|
Community colleges pay well--better than private schools. You also have more of a chance of getting a job at one. It's not like there is a demand for someone in Renaissance literature.%0D %0D I sucked and fucked my TA when I was a sophmore. Gorgeous guy, tight ass, and we did it a few times in his office. Ah, the 70's!
|by Anonymous||reply 47||10/16/2010|
I had affairs with two of my grad students. In both cases, it was they who put the move on me. In both cases it completely disrupted our professional relationship, but one of them is a friend years later.
It's not a practice I recommend. I was young and foolish (not much older than they were) and gave in too easily. I left that university after five years, and those affairs were a big part of my wanting to move on.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||10/16/2010|
I think Tigernan must have meant something else in his post at R5, an admonishment against borrowing or lending perhaps.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||10/16/2010|
[quote]Most people who call themselves "professor" on DL do not hold the actual title, "Professor."
I am a tenured full professor at a four-year liberal arts college. I was tenured in 2005, and I was promoted from associate professor to full professor this last May.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||10/16/2010|
Why is "crush" in quotation marks?
|by Anonymous||reply 51||10/16/2010|
i like my proffesor .. shes strict im pretty sure gay and double my age, i am a 28 year old student. its nothing to do with the grade i could care less if i get a 51 % in the class, I asked her if she could have lunch with a student, she said no, i asked if i wasnt a student? and she replied, probably not but thanks for asking ?, i dont want to and i know me, i wont give up that easy .. but is she saying this to "do the right thing" other than her thinking i am an idiot to try and talk to her.."getting extra help" her birthday is over the break and i want to be thoughtful and bring in something small and non valueble for her ? is this wrong ? she is strict and a by the books but can i sway her ? lol could i get into trouble or kicked out of school ? if she doesnt talk to me in class i wont but we usually talk and get along i think ..
|by Anonymous||reply 52||12/01/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 53||12/01/2012|
You shouldn't tell anyone else about these innocent fantasies.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||12/01/2012|
Lucky you R50! Do you teach at a bible college?
|by Anonymous||reply 55||12/01/2012|
I've had major crushes on a few of my professors, but I can't imagine hooking up with a professor whose class I was actively taking at that moment - I wouldn't want it to possibly mess with my grades or my ability to stay at that school. A hot load ain't worth all that.
But I did hook up with an adjunct professor from a department I'll never need to take classes in about a year ago. Lean, lanky and hung like a horse. A horse I got to ride several times that semester!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 56||12/01/2012|
R52 = Alex Forrest
|by Anonymous||reply 57||12/01/2012|
These ESTs are baiting and creating bad reputation intentionally.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||12/01/2012|
I have never had a crush on a student. If "pimply, ignorant, and reeking of last night's beer" is your idea of a stud, I'm really sorry for you.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||12/01/2012|
Really, R52? Two years?!
|by Anonymous||reply 60||12/01/2012|
I boned my college history professor. He was in his mid-40s, a total geek, and I don't think he'd had sex in a very long time. We fucked in his dusty old office and his eyes rolled back in his head so far that I thought he was having a stroke.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||12/01/2012|
r52 is at a special needs 'college.'
|by Anonymous||reply 62||12/01/2012|
I don't think anyone else in the history of the world has ever referred to graduate students (a miserably weedy lot--and many of which are female) as "graduate studs." Congratulations, OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||12/01/2012|
there is nothing more pathetic than a professor having sex with a student
|by Anonymous||reply 64||12/01/2012|
This anecdote always gets me hot! Anyone have similar experiences with their professors?
|by Anonymous||reply 65||12/01/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 66||12/01/2012|
r52, chill out. Do nothing. She said thanks for the invite but she's just not that into you.
When you graduate contact her and ask her to coffee. If she says no, there you go.
If you continue now she wll get a restraining order
|by Anonymous||reply 67||12/01/2012|
Is your name Michael V. Doyle of Michigan State University by chance? Oh wait, you said mid to late 20's, he goes for younger than that.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||02/07/2013|
I had crush on my professor , but never tell him and I didn't like myself for it. I was so stressed of the situation. In the end, I'm all great. My integrity matters than anything else and our professional boundaries. Not into chasing my mentors.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||11/14/2013|
I was a 22-year-old virgin in grad school, and an instructor not much older put a move on me. No doubt, hand on my crotch. He was African. I bolted. Got a 5-hour "C" in Swahili. Could have had an "A" and might be an emeritus professor today.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||11/14/2013|
I guess you don't those Pakistani and Indian grad students who can barely speak English and who corner you in the hall to ask: Professor! What mean metaphysical?!
I get asked that alot. You try answering it in two minutes or less to person who has the English vocabulary of 7th grade special needs student.
At least the checks clear.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||11/14/2013|
Sorry for the typos, it is late.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||11/14/2013|
r40 Father, did you ever teach high school in Philly?
|by Anonymous||reply 73||11/15/2013|
I taught grad students for only six years and had extended affairs with two (though the second one started before he became my student). They were both not so great in the end, but I was young and so were they. No real harm done. The first one had been sleeping with another professor before he seduced me.
I was determined NOT to be one of those professors because I had had an affair with a professor of my own as an undergrad. But there you are.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||11/15/2013|
When I was in undergrad I was fuckbuddies with this hunky muscle daddy professor in the art department. He wasn't my teacher, I just met him online and he happened to be affiliated with the university. He was really hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||11/15/2013|
Never forget when I was teaching summer classes at the local community college ...lots of transfer students and older students....a guy in the back of the class who was constantly nodding off - and as a result bombing his tests - came up to my desk at the end of class and told me he was a night police dispatcher and would do ANYTHING to pass the class....his semi-hard package was resting on my desk as evidence of how willing he intended to be. I told him to load up on coffee....still was like a scene from some bad porno....I gave him a D+
|by Anonymous||reply 76||11/15/2013|
I teacher wrote me a love letter when I was 13. The only thing I remember was the first sentence: " Dear X, You don't mind me calling you dear, do you?"
He was in the 50s and FUG, so it didn't actually thrill me, but I just screwed it up & ignored it. Water off a ducks back but I avoided him out of class. I was out cruising for man cock by then, as well as getting regularly fucked by an 17 yr old prefect with a huge cock that made me scream, so I certainly had enough to contend with!
|by Anonymous||reply 77||11/15/2013|
Don't do it. Not ethical or cool.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||11/15/2013|
when i was 22, still a virgin, i put up a CL ad and finally went to go meet someone. he turned out to be one of my business professors from a few semesters back. he was in his 50s and was so kind to me. i remember trying to "take it fast", but he kept telling me to slow down and enjoy it. and he wouldn't fuck me because he said i needed to try and finger myself first just to feel the sensation. he was a great professor in and out of class - genuinely nice guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||11/15/2013|
I am a professor of boobology.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||11/15/2013|
So there is this 46 year old almost divorced Arts prof at UBC who was screwing one of his 23 year old undergraduates in secret during term (she isn't particularly hot nor terribly bright so it must be about "issues"). She is still a current student and once his sabbatical was approved he let her go public with the affair by posting pix all over Facebook. Now even his department colleagues know...and it's even more creepy because they look like they could be father and daughter. Just say no to Daddy Issues!
|by Anonymous||reply 81||04/25/2014|
Why is it always the middle aged English or Philosophy Profs on the rebound who want to screw the youngest undergrads? Control and freaking out about getting old??
|by Anonymous||reply 82||04/25/2014|
It is not illegal to have sex with a student over 18. However, it's not 1960 anymore.
These days, most colleges are very corporate and make all their teachers, professors and instructors go through a ton of sexual harassment BS. It will defiantly get you fired if they find out.
In fact these days, they don't even want you to give a ride, go to lunch or have a private conversation with a student without other instructors or cameras around.
Don't do it. Male students are not as stupid as you think. Even the straight ones will sort of send signals if you ping just to get a better grade. Its a trick, they are working you.
Your fault if you fall for it. Don't come crying here. You would know all this if you were really a professor.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||04/25/2014|
I had one professor in his 60s, overweight, balding, married, who was VERY hands-y with all of the young guys (including me). He was not attractive at all, but very obvious. The class was pass/fail, and it was essentially impossible to fail, so there was no worry about grades. We all kind of shrugged it off.
I always wondered if anyone ever took him up on it.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||04/26/2014|
This is why I never, ever wanted to teach. And I never have.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||04/26/2014|
I've been teaching for almost ten years and luckily, I've never been into younger guys. However, in grad school I was going out with another grad student in a neighboring discipline. He was very publicly going to coffee with his most attractive freshman male students as well as inviting them to parties with alcohol and drugs, which he made readily available to them. I got the hell out of the situation when he posted Facebook pics of himself CAMPING with this kid who was enrolled in his class at the time. I had no desire to be connected to that shit in any way, shape, or form.
Flash-forward a few years and he got nailed for buying beer and coming over to the apartment of an early-admit 17-year-old student of his. He might have gotten away with it but the kid identified as straight and so this fellow proposed a three way with the kid and his girlfriend, also 17. He got caught but it was swept under the rug.
He'll get caught again. What a creep. I'm only in my mid-30s but even 20-something students just tend to bring out my parental side these days. Give me an older man any day.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||04/26/2014|
OP, you don't really *know* this kid. You just think you do. You're in love with an image.
You choose to fall for students to avoid real intimacy. What are you afraid of?
|by Anonymous||reply 87||04/26/2014|