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Immediate Turnoffs

Moles on faces, especially near the mouth, An "All My Children" director wouldn't hire actors with facial moles "It distracts the viewer."

by Anonymousreply 60September 30, 2025 12:19 AM

Facial hair, which effectively dismisses 75% of the population.

by Anonymousreply 1September 28, 2025 10:30 PM

Chubbiness - I don't care about six-pack abs, but you can't be fat, either.

by Anonymousreply 2September 28, 2025 10:33 PM

It makes perfect sense that a DL mole patroller was also a soap director. 🤙🏼

by Anonymousreply 3September 28, 2025 10:38 PM

People who cannot speak intelligently drive me nuts. "lol" "omg literally" "I'm like..." "She's like..." "Gurrrl"

by Anonymousreply 4September 28, 2025 10:40 PM

Janky teeth.

by Anonymousreply 5September 28, 2025 10:42 PM

OP is 150 years old.

by Anonymousreply 6September 28, 2025 10:42 PM

Shaved pubes.

by Anonymousreply 7September 28, 2025 10:44 PM

What's wrong with moles?

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by Anonymousreply 8September 28, 2025 10:51 PM

yeah, what?

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by Anonymousreply 9September 28, 2025 10:53 PM

Not deal breakers per se, but can be off putting:

Facial piercings

Bald but trying to conceal it and trashy hair dye jobs

Dirty fingernails and toenails or chewed fingernail nubs

by Anonymousreply 10September 28, 2025 10:57 PM

Chronic gay face. Any guy with big doe eyes looking like Bette Davis trying to be coquettish is such a turn off.

by Anonymousreply 11September 28, 2025 10:59 PM

Men who dye their hair. No one has 100% solidly colored hair after about 40.

by Anonymousreply 12September 28, 2025 10:59 PM

If I can smell your cologne from a distance, then just keep walking. Cologne/scents are meant to be very subtle - a mild misting, just a single spray on your way out - at most.

by Anonymousreply 13September 28, 2025 11:01 PM

MAGA, hard no.

by Anonymousreply 14September 28, 2025 11:03 PM

Judge Daniel Mentzer on syndicated "Hot Bench" wears a rug.

by Anonymousreply 15September 28, 2025 11:07 PM

r15 Holy shit that is horrible

by Anonymousreply 16September 28, 2025 11:14 PM

It's true. A mole in your face kicks you out of your career before it even starts. A mole spells ugly all around. Not gonna happen missy.

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by Anonymousreply 17September 28, 2025 11:20 PM

Foreskin

I consider myself a voracious cocksucker, but I just can't with uncut dick.

I've tried a few times, but they tend to taste and smell bad and unclean.

by Anonymousreply 18September 28, 2025 11:21 PM

[quote] An "All My Children" director wouldn't hire actors with facial moles. "It distracts the viewer."

Oh yes. They spell death for a career.

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by Anonymousreply 19September 28, 2025 11:39 PM

Tattoos. At all. A hunk's body must never be spoiled with those hideous things.

by Anonymousreply 20September 28, 2025 11:46 PM

Tobacco stench

by Anonymousreply 21September 28, 2025 11:46 PM

Nose piercings. Especially white guys. Why?? I just don't get it!

by Anonymousreply 22September 28, 2025 11:48 PM

Oh well, OP, if an "All My Children" director has a problem with it - case closed!

by Anonymousreply 23September 28, 2025 11:52 PM

Halitosis or B.O. I don't care how good looking you are, I can only plug my nose for a finite amount of time.

by Anonymousreply 24September 28, 2025 11:53 PM

But is the mole man with a pure woman? Do they have benefit of clergy?

by Anonymousreply 25September 28, 2025 11:57 PM

Long and unkempt mountain man beards. This is definitely more of a straight guy thing but I find that look repulsive.

by Anonymousreply 26September 29, 2025 12:09 AM

MAGA

by Anonymousreply 27September 29, 2025 12:23 AM

Man buns. Huge earlobe plugs. PAs. Crocs. Crocs with socks. Rings on thumb, forefinger or middle finger. Signet rings on the pinkies of aspiring middle class English men.

by Anonymousreply 28September 29, 2025 12:25 AM

Well hung men with high voices.

Visible theft security tags on clothing (or holes where they were ripped out).

A jauntily placed meth pipe.

Redeems coupons at any time during the date.

Thinning hair is ok if closely cropped, but long, thinning greasy hair is not, especially a weak ponytail.

Knows every other man in the bar.

Is draped over two other men when you come back with his drink

Loves ABBA and has every rendition and utterance of this godforsaken band.

Keeps an empty gallon jug by the bed as a urinal.

(Yes all of these were real men I’ve dated)

by Anonymousreply 29September 29, 2025 12:30 AM

Actually, I have much more of an issue with excessive NECK moles, especially the ones that are very dark and almost black.

by Anonymousreply 30September 29, 2025 12:33 AM

That must have been before Melissa Claire Egan's- "Annie" on AMC - time. She has a pretty prominent mole under her nose.

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by Anonymousreply 31September 29, 2025 12:37 AM

Looks like Tarzan, Sounds Like Jane.

by Anonymousreply 32September 29, 2025 1:00 AM

Not hot

by Anonymousreply 33September 29, 2025 1:10 AM

r28 What are "PAs?"

by Anonymousreply 34September 29, 2025 1:16 AM

High whiny voices. Poor grammar. Bad taste in food and films. Heavy, untoned legs. Wide hips. Outurned feet. Receding hairlines. Too skinny. Big, misshapen noses. Pale skin and I don’t like blonds. Blue eyes are my least favorite but not a deal breaker.

by Anonymousreply 35September 29, 2025 1:18 AM

r35 You're very lonely

by Anonymousreply 36September 29, 2025 1:22 AM

R35 Neurotically pontificating complainers. You know who you are.

by Anonymousreply 37September 29, 2025 1:23 AM

Fuck you, OP!

by Anonymousreply 38September 29, 2025 1:24 AM

Would love to see all of you in person. I'm sure there are no oil paintings among you.

by Anonymousreply 39September 29, 2025 1:26 AM

What about really large freckles?

by Anonymousreply 40September 29, 2025 1:45 AM

Apologies R34 - it's a standard abbreviation where I am from.

"PA" stands for "Prince Albert", a penile piercing.

by Anonymousreply 41September 29, 2025 1:56 AM

Yes, r39. You're the only one in the world who has read that incredibly famous Oscar Wilde book. You're an intellectual and everyone else is an UGLY idiot. Is that what you wanted to hear?

by Anonymousreply 42September 29, 2025 2:01 AM

Immediate turnoffs: the posters on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 43September 29, 2025 2:02 AM

Lawyers

by Anonymousreply 44September 29, 2025 2:35 AM

Hair that is dyed unnatural colors. Like red or green.

by Anonymousreply 45September 29, 2025 3:18 AM

Most of the characteristics already described in this thread, except for being a murderer. The Mormon church killer.

A fucking gigantic repulsive mess.

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by Anonymousreply 46September 29, 2025 3:29 AM

Some of these responses bring to mind the old chestnut.....

"I hate two kinds of men - size queens, and.....men with small penises...."

by Anonymousreply 47September 29, 2025 4:08 AM

I wouldn't turn this down!

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by Anonymousreply 48September 29, 2025 7:29 AM

R31 It looks like a bugger

by Anonymousreply 49September 29, 2025 8:08 AM

Being female

by Anonymousreply 50September 29, 2025 8:16 AM

I know i am picky adm am eternally grateful for my husband of 20+ years. I would likely just be alone if I were single

by Anonymousreply 51September 29, 2025 1:05 PM

[quote] I would likely just be alone if I were single

Erm, yes.

by Anonymousreply 52September 29, 2025 1:26 PM

Tricky color, moles.

by Anonymousreply 53September 29, 2025 1:38 PM

People with 20 sub categories to define their gender identity and sexual orientation. “It’s important that you honor my journey as a demi bi non binary Smurf.”

by Anonymousreply 54September 29, 2025 1:45 PM

Shitlist threads and the miserable negative nancies who create them.

by Anonymousreply 55September 29, 2025 1:58 PM

R55 is an immediate turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 56September 29, 2025 6:13 PM

Bodybuilder with orange spray tan and roid shrinkage of junk. Also terrible in bed and smelled bad.

See above who oddly ate just cans of tuna. Gross. He was so hot otherwise.

Rudeness, know it all... sits there huffing during a conversation while you're talking, until can say his piece and not listening, waiting to make his point bc know it all, again.

Constantly changes channels or watches 2 channels at once or more WHEN NOT ALONE

by Anonymousreply 57September 29, 2025 6:18 PM

Smelly anal hair

by Anonymousreply 58September 29, 2025 8:17 PM

Baldness. It's a purely primitive reaction of disgust. It flips the switch against any chance of sexual attraction.

by Anonymousreply 59September 29, 2025 9:10 PM

I like bald dudes, especially 70s style with the ring of hair and bushy sideburns. It’s sexy and masculine.

Not a fan of today’s baldies who go for the Mr Clean look.

by Anonymousreply 60September 30, 2025 12:19 AM
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