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naps

Do you find yourself taking more afternoon naps as you get older. I have been taking them quite a bit lately (late 50s).

by Anonymousreply 28September 24, 2025 10:05 PM

Yes, but unlike when I was young, I never wake up feeling refreshed. I wake up groggy and with a headache.

by Anonymousreply 1September 23, 2025 5:59 PM

I take a lie down from 12-2 p.m. every day. I rarely fall asleep, I just rest. I'm not even that old.

by Anonymousreply 2September 23, 2025 6:39 PM

I love naps. Take naps often. Have throughout my adult life.

Some naps can be as short as 5 minutes. Other times, it ends up being a two hour nap. Most average about 30 minutes or so.

Even if I don't end up falling asleep, the act of lying down and slowing down is good to calm my nerves and my mind.

by Anonymousreply 3September 23, 2025 6:50 PM
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by Anonymousreply 4September 23, 2025 6:54 PM

63 yo and can't nap. It's hard to fall asleep during the day and I don't want it to affect my night's sleep.

by Anonymousreply 5September 23, 2025 6:58 PM

I try not to since if I nap, I'm up until all hours. I'm retired so that would be fine with me if I didn't have a dog who wakes me early to go out.

by Anonymousreply 6September 23, 2025 8:11 PM

I'm a longtime napper.

1P to 2:30P or so.

by Anonymousreply 7September 23, 2025 8:17 PM

Always wanted to but had to push through my whole life working and rabbiting away at school etc. Now old I feel like I’m a looser wasting my life if I do. Such is the utilitarian fascism training that fucks us up for much of our working class American lives.

by Anonymousreply 8September 23, 2025 8:22 PM

[quote]I’m a looser wasting my life if I do.

In more ways than one.

by Anonymousreply 9September 23, 2025 8:25 PM

I've found I don't like napping in/on a bed because I fall too deeply asleep and wake up super-cranky and stupid. So I nap on the sofa. Always in the same position -- on my right side with the same small pillow under my head and my feet under a different pillow. Because I always nap in this position, my body knows to nap, and I drift off. It's a very light sleep/doze and I invariably wake up after 20 or 25 minutes and feel refreshed. (Of course, sometimes I don't sleep at all, but a rest is still nice.) It has never kept me from going to sleep at night.

I had a friend who said she couldn't nap. I said she had to practice and told her about my Always On The Sofa In The Same Position method. She said she didn't want to practice, just to nap, like someone who wants to play Chopin at Carnegie Hall but doesn't want to waste time learning scales.

by Anonymousreply 10September 23, 2025 8:26 PM

I hate naps, although I am sometimes tempted to take them. I nearly always wake up groggy, which always lasts the rest of the day.

The only time it's partially worked for me is if I am on the floor (eg, of my office) or outside on a hard surface, like a bench. I can doze off, but I can't enter REM sleep.

by Anonymousreply 11September 23, 2025 8:43 PM

A twenty minute nap can make a huge difference in your energy level. Set your alarm or use a timer on your phone. I WFH and this can be a godsend mid-afternoon (I don't bill the time for the nap).

by Anonymousreply 12September 23, 2025 9:03 PM

At 71, a 30 min. nap is not just a pleasure - it is a fact of life.

by Anonymousreply 13September 23, 2025 9:06 PM

Deciding when to take my mid day nap is probably the most important daily decision I have to make most days.

by Anonymousreply 14September 23, 2025 9:09 PM

R9 Oh dear, it’s past time to change your tampon.

by Anonymousreply 15September 23, 2025 9:35 PM

I’m napping as I type!

by Anonymousreply 16September 23, 2025 9:37 PM

The English detest a siesta (the toughest Burmese bandit can never understand it).

by Anonymousreply 17September 23, 2025 9:46 PM

I’m taking Gabapentin and boy, all I have to do is sit down and I fall fast asleep. I’m switching to something else.

by Anonymousreply 18September 23, 2025 9:50 PM

I've been an unsuccessful napper the majority of my life (I'm sure I did fine as a toddler, but I digress), so I don't even try anymore.

However, the few times in my life that I've fallen asleep accidentally on the couch during a weekend day while listening to the dulcet tones of Bob Ross while he was painting a bucolic Alaskan landscape that was supposedly some portal to Hell I count as some of the most relaxing and happiest in my life.

Ah, to be young and exhausted and in the prime of life again!

by Anonymousreply 19September 23, 2025 9:50 PM

Yes, I love them about and hour after lunch. I take them more in the winter than any other time of year. A 15-minute cat nap is heaven on a cold and/or dreary day.

by Anonymousreply 20September 23, 2025 10:27 PM

Ancestry DNA tests suggest there is a genetic component to nap takers vs abstainers.

by Anonymousreply 21September 24, 2025 2:40 AM

I often take to my bed when the world feels angry and cold. Usually I don’t sleep.

by Anonymousreply 22September 24, 2025 2:48 AM

Only when I drink

by Anonymousreply 23September 24, 2025 2:49 AM

I'll take one whenever I can. My sleep is fucked.

by Anonymousreply 24September 24, 2025 3:56 AM

r21 interesting. Is it related to Neanderthal/Denisovan DNA?

by Anonymousreply 25September 24, 2025 9:41 PM

I take them all the time in my early 30s. I got used to waking up at 4am out of necessity for a number of years and ever since then, I can't help but wake up super early. It doesn't matter if I stay up late or what I do, I'm waking up no later than 6. More likely around 4 or 5. I sleep for a few extra hours around noon or 1pm most days.

by Anonymousreply 26September 24, 2025 9:46 PM

^^^^ my grandma was like that. She was a school nurse and got up at 5 or 6 every morning for years, and hated it. She swore once she retired she was going to sleep until noon. Well, she retired and woke up at 5 or 6 a.m. She took a 2 hour nap every day between 1 and 3 pm.

by Anonymousreply 27September 24, 2025 9:55 PM
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by Anonymousreply 28September 24, 2025 10:05 PM
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