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NJ FIREFIGHTER CATCHES WIFE CHEATING AD EXPOSES HER AT HIS BIRTHDAY PARTY

HO. LEE. SHIT.

Listen to the F-word and C-word FLY!!!!

That was intense.

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by Anonymousreply 101August 31, 2025 5:24 PM

Straight people are so stupid.

by Anonymousreply 1August 30, 2025 1:43 AM

I'm good.

by Anonymousreply 2August 30, 2025 1:43 AM

If you don't want your wife to cheat on you don't marry you skank. He should have known what he was getting into.

by Anonymousreply 3August 30, 2025 1:44 AM

Why do that at your own birthday party?

Keep it to yourself.

Just dump her ass, then go on your way.

She's not worth it.

by Anonymousreply 4August 30, 2025 1:46 AM

very trashy and psychotic

by Anonymousreply 5August 30, 2025 1:47 AM

I don’t get why he’s subjecting all of his friends to that tirade. What did they do to him to have to be his captive audience for this?

If she cheated on him, that’s wrong. But he’s a pretty trashy character himself.

by Anonymousreply 6August 30, 2025 1:48 AM

It has to be an act.

by Anonymousreply 7August 30, 2025 1:50 AM

He is sexy AF. Good for him. That bitch deserves it all and will be known as the town whore. Revenge is served cold or hot.

by Anonymousreply 8August 30, 2025 1:51 AM

This feels like 50% chance it’s real, 50% chance it’s a let’s-go-viral stunt.

by Anonymousreply 9August 30, 2025 1:54 AM

I’d eat his ass.

by Anonymousreply 10August 30, 2025 1:55 AM

Ditch the bitch and make the switch!

by Anonymousreply 11August 30, 2025 1:57 AM

If I ever need to dump someone whom I really despise, I'm going to invite them on a road trip and then leave them at a rest stop hundreds of miles from home. That's what I wish I had done to my ex.

by Anonymousreply 12August 30, 2025 2:01 AM

Well, she is dressed like a WHORE!

This is real. It happened about a year ago. I think there was a thread about it. It was also in the NYPost (not that that is a guarantee that it was real, though the article said it was and he could not be such a good actor. The anger and betrayal feel real). They also have a slimy friend who posted it.

by Anonymousreply 13August 30, 2025 2:03 AM

Wow so it is real - here’s the names and details,

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by Anonymousreply 14August 30, 2025 2:10 AM

The wife’s reactions seem fake. I do not believe this.

by Anonymousreply 15August 30, 2025 2:11 AM

I like your style, R12.

by Anonymousreply 16August 30, 2025 2:12 AM

Nutley, NJ. One of the central casting locations for Real Housewives of NJ. Teresa Guidice fits in perfectly there.

by Anonymousreply 17August 30, 2025 2:13 AM

Here's his TikTok.

Nick Galante is very handsome.

I'm guessing he might have a tiny dick, though.

Otherwise, she wouldn't have cheated.

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by Anonymousreply 18August 30, 2025 2:17 AM

He is so much better looking than her.

She looks like common Jersey trash.

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by Anonymousreply 19August 30, 2025 2:19 AM

If I had been there I would have walked out. TMI!

by Anonymousreply 20August 30, 2025 2:19 AM

TikTok is saying that he should get paternity tests done for his two kids.

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by Anonymousreply 21August 30, 2025 2:21 AM

[quote] Straight people are so stupid.

Straight me.

by Anonymousreply 22August 30, 2025 2:26 AM

It's obvious who the fraus are in this thread, defending that cheating whore and excusing her behavior.

by Anonymousreply 23August 30, 2025 2:39 AM

Was this at The Brownstone?

by Anonymousreply 24August 30, 2025 2:41 AM

Gross breeder problems.

by Anonymousreply 25August 30, 2025 2:44 AM

I'd say it's peak frau behavior to be in any way invested in this non-story about two nobodies, R23.

by Anonymousreply 26August 30, 2025 2:47 AM

[quote] They also have a slimy friend who posted it.

Slimy?

The husband did it in public. That incident was going to go viral no matter what.

by Anonymousreply 27August 30, 2025 2:50 AM

He looks like a caveman. They’re both disgusting. Just divorce the cow you moron. Don’t traumatize the kids and every loser family member and friend at the party.

by Anonymousreply 28August 30, 2025 2:59 AM

[quote]He looks like a caveman.

R28

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by Anonymousreply 29August 30, 2025 3:05 AM

Judging by how she was dressed for the party, shes clearly guilty. WHORE!

by Anonymousreply 30August 30, 2025 3:07 AM

That’s a great way to embarrass her.

by Anonymousreply 31August 30, 2025 3:13 AM

What do you expect?

by Anonymousreply 32August 30, 2025 3:14 AM

r26 Glad you visited this thread and commented to bump it

by Anonymousreply 33August 30, 2025 3:14 AM

If this were a casual friendly I would love witnessing something messy like this at a birthday party.

by Anonymousreply 34August 30, 2025 3:15 AM

He's angry and drunk. I'll bet her tits are fake.

by Anonymousreply 35August 30, 2025 3:17 AM

r23 Which posts here are defending and excusing her?

by Anonymousreply 36August 30, 2025 3:18 AM

She’s very homely without the makeup

by Anonymousreply 37August 30, 2025 3:22 AM

He has to have a micropenis.

by Anonymousreply 38August 30, 2025 3:51 AM

[quote]Nutley, NJ. One of the central casting locations for Real Housewives of NJ. Teresa Guidice fits in perfectly there.

It also gave us Martha Kostyra Stewart

by Anonymousreply 39August 30, 2025 3:59 AM

First thought that popped into my mind without opening the video, Italian.

by Anonymousreply 40August 30, 2025 4:00 AM

[quote] If this were a casual friendly

?

by Anonymousreply 41August 30, 2025 4:11 AM

[quote]I don’t get why he’s subjecting all of his friends to that tirade

Apparently a lot of people there were from her side and knew she was cheating behind his back but smiling to his face like they knew nothing.

by Anonymousreply 42August 30, 2025 4:12 AM

First a paternity test then a refund. Dump her at the loves truckstop in Eastern Nevada in the middle of the night.Kids at grandmas.

by Anonymousreply 43August 30, 2025 4:12 AM

He definitely has small dick energy, I gotta say.

But straight guys make this mistake all the time. They want the fake looking bitches with huge tits and a "pawg" ass - with everything else tiny and anorexic in between, so she looks like a sentient sex doll - and is then surprised she's getting other dick or interest from other men?

WTF did you expect from a woman like that? She wasn't about to sit at home and take up knitting and basket weaving.

by Anonymousreply 44August 30, 2025 4:28 AM

His wife looks like Kathy Wakile from the Real Housewives of New Jersey.

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by Anonymousreply 45August 30, 2025 4:56 AM

I'm a little amazed that the commenters seem to have no issue with the spectacle, even thinking it's a good idea. Is it just me, but how many men want to publicly admit they've been cuckolded?

I wonder if cheating is higher among firefighters and law enforcement who have weird, irregular schedules. An old Chicago friend of mine who was a cop after he got back from Vietnam told me his sargent gave the younger guys one piece of advice: Never go home unexpectedly. Because the lore. He didn't follow the advice and found his wife in bed with a colleague.

by Anonymousreply 46August 30, 2025 5:27 AM

Yeah, this guy is basically advertising that he's tinymeat.

He's attractive, good body, good job with financial security.

His wife lacked for nothing — except COCK.

by Anonymousreply 47August 30, 2025 5:34 AM

R40 here. After watching about 1 min of the video, I have to say he gives off beefy stupid vibes like Chris Cuomo. Maybe she sought better intellectual company. (Hah!) Don't steroidal meatheads have shrunken balls and a shitty attitude?

by Anonymousreply 48August 30, 2025 5:34 AM

[Quote]He's attractive, good body, good job with financial security.

Yes, because those are the ONLY qualities one needs in a partner to be satisfied. Maybe he was a bore or a dumbass. Maybe he neglected her or was a lousy lover who never made her cum, regardless of how big his dick was. Just thinking of any of the thousand ways straight men disappoint women.

Or maybe she was just a heartless whore. Point is, attractive with an ok job ticks two very small boxes. Women don't cheat for more security. They cheat because they're not cumming or being stimulated at home and probably haven't in a very long time.

by Anonymousreply 49August 30, 2025 6:56 AM

She had it comin.

by Anonymousreply 50August 30, 2025 7:31 AM

Exactly, R49. This is a Jersey bimbo with her ass hanging out in see-through pants at her husband's birthday.

She needs BIG DICK, she needs it now and on the regulah!

by Anonymousreply 51August 30, 2025 7:39 AM

Women are just too high maintenance.

by Anonymousreply 52August 30, 2025 8:24 AM

It’s brilliant how he got the ring back.

by Anonymousreply 53August 30, 2025 9:35 AM

Fake and gay!

by Anonymousreply 54August 30, 2025 10:33 AM

R49 is sadly correct and straight men don’t get it.

Are some women heartless whores?

Absolutely.

But most cheat because they’re emotionally neglected.

She’s horrible for cheating, especially with small children at home, AND he’s lousy for humiliating her publicly, too.

by Anonymousreply 55August 30, 2025 10:39 AM

White men in general have big cocks.

by Anonymousreply 56August 30, 2025 11:42 AM

Crap...did I miss the Table flip?

by Anonymousreply 57August 30, 2025 11:49 AM

Trashy NJ Eyetalian drama.

by Anonymousreply 58August 30, 2025 11:53 AM

The fuck is she wearing???

by Anonymousreply 59August 30, 2025 12:07 PM

These people have no class. To do that in the middle of a celebration? Really?

And the Post article linked above says they are still living under the same roof. That’s the sickest part of all of this.

by Anonymousreply 60August 30, 2025 12:11 PM

Control freaks abound

by Anonymousreply 61August 30, 2025 12:33 PM

Prostitution Whore!!!

by Anonymousreply 62August 30, 2025 12:34 PM

Some things are better left behind closed doors and this would be one of them. Husband was so intent on shaming his wife, he didn't care he was involving his family and friends in a domestic abuse scene.

Would you attend any future parties with this guy?

by Anonymousreply 63August 30, 2025 12:41 PM

I love all you experts in how straight men think about women and what women want in a man. The heart of Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 64August 30, 2025 12:54 PM

Yes, it's trashy of him to make a public spectacle out of his marriage problems. Yes, she deserved it.

It's possible for both things to be true.

by Anonymousreply 65August 30, 2025 1:14 PM

Even though the video was maybe three minutes, it still felt padded.

by Anonymousreply 66August 30, 2025 1:22 PM

[quote]Yes, it's trashy of him to make a public spectacle out of his marriage problems.

They're Italian. It's what they do.

by Anonymousreply 67August 30, 2025 1:26 PM

Those Eyetalians are always dramatic.

And the Jersey just leapt out to make it even trashier and more dramatic.

by Anonymousreply 68August 30, 2025 2:02 PM

[QUOTE]Point is, attractive with an ok job ticks two very small boxes.

And speakins of "small" ...

by Anonymousreply 69August 30, 2025 2:05 PM

I still don't believe this is true. I cannot believe anyone in their right mind would talk like that to his wife in front of their family and friends.

It's northern NJ ...it's a publicity stunt from a couple of pasta fazoos, because they want to be the next Sopranos or Jersey housewives

by Anonymousreply 70August 30, 2025 2:08 PM

Future romantic partners will surely be excited to consider how Nick might treat them.

by Anonymousreply 71August 30, 2025 2:08 PM

r71 Maybe they won't cheat

by Anonymousreply 72August 30, 2025 2:12 PM

r64 Glad you love it?

by Anonymousreply 73August 30, 2025 2:12 PM

Sure, R68, but for better or worse, semi nutty people & completely crazy people, are FANTASTIC in bed.

That’s what these folk who are shitting on this, tend to forget.

She was very likely a great fuck, & that’s why he’s soooo pissed off.

by Anonymousreply 74August 30, 2025 2:18 PM

I gave up halfway through the video. I couldn’t understand most of what he was saying.

by Anonymousreply 75August 30, 2025 2:21 PM

They probably are well matched, emotionlly.

by Anonymousreply 76August 30, 2025 2:35 PM

Stunted emotionally.....

by Anonymousreply 77August 30, 2025 2:38 PM

[quote]he was involving his family and friends in a domestic abuse scene.

What domestic abuse, R63?

Never mind, you won’t answer. All you do is fly around the room and shit on everything, you worthless frau shitstirrer.

by Anonymousreply 78August 30, 2025 2:48 PM

I'm betting he has cheated on her as well - no doubt. Very hot guy.

I work in a psych hospital and there's an old saying among workers (nurses, doctors, social workers, mental health workers) when cops and firefighters check in for treatment:

Firemen cheat, while cops beat.

by Anonymousreply 79August 30, 2025 2:53 PM

Good audition reel for “The Real Housewives of New Jersey”.

by Anonymousreply 80August 30, 2025 2:57 PM

R70 I dunno, no one is angrier than a man wronged by a woman who he believed he totally had in the bag.

by Anonymousreply 81August 30, 2025 2:59 PM

R63 Someone touch a nerve?

Domestic abuse can be behaviors other than physical violence.

[Quote] Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure, or wound someone.

I wouldn't be surprised if this wasn't the first time he talked to her like this, at home. Or worse.

This level of anger directed from one spouse to another must have brought discomfort to many of the people in the room, maybe reminding some of them of their own parents fighting or situations of abuse they've lived through.

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by Anonymousreply 82August 30, 2025 3:56 PM

[quote] the Post article linked above says they are still living under the same roof. That’s the sickest part of all of this.

Probably only for the kids.

Even New Jersey trash think about their little kids, every now and then.

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by Anonymousreply 83August 30, 2025 4:11 PM

[quote]This level of anger directed from one spouse to another must have brought discomfort to many of the people in the room, maybe reminding some of them of their own parents fighting or situations of abuse they've lived through.

You wouldn't know that, you weren't there. Stop projecting your empty life on this thread R82.

[quote]Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure, or wound someone.

R82 conveniently ignores the fact that this occurred because SHE was fucking around on HIM.

by Anonymousreply 84August 30, 2025 5:27 PM

All we have control over is our own behavior. He chose to act like an ass in front of everyone instead of handling his business privately, with maturity. That's all on him.

by Anonymousreply 85August 30, 2025 5:35 PM

r85 " That's all on him."

What's all on him?

by Anonymousreply 86August 30, 2025 5:36 PM

Behaving badly at his party in front of family and friends

by Anonymousreply 87August 30, 2025 5:39 PM

This is the way.

by Anonymousreply 88August 30, 2025 5:41 PM

So - no cake?

by Anonymousreply 89August 30, 2025 5:47 PM

According to Shaun (BF) that is typical North Jersey behavior. He was "born & raised" in that area.

He told me that area is like "old South Philly& now Delco." I told the BF It's just like "old East Falls, Roxborough, Manayunk, Wissahickon and Andorra" in NW Philly. All those VFW halls, school gyms used as halls to host parties, there were always fights, drunken brawls, men cheating, women cheating, the stories still go around with the Boomers. This is WAY BEFORE social media, we had the old women who never forgot a good juicy story to spread all over the neighborhoods.

by Anonymousreply 90August 30, 2025 6:09 PM

But can she make a good Sunday gravy?

by Anonymousreply 91August 30, 2025 6:55 PM

Sauce!

by Anonymousreply 92August 30, 2025 7:13 PM

[quote]So - no cake?

So what, no fuckin’ ziti now?

by Anonymousreply 93August 30, 2025 8:44 PM

This is so Italian-American.

by Anonymousreply 94August 31, 2025 1:24 PM

If the guests knew, he was doubly humiliated.

Team Nick.

by Anonymousreply 95August 31, 2025 1:30 PM

They very well may still be living together because the cost of two households is prohibitive.

by Anonymousreply 96August 31, 2025 1:43 PM

Gross people. What are they Italians of gypsies? So low class. Glad I don't know people like that.

by Anonymousreply 97August 31, 2025 2:26 PM

[quote] According to Shaun (BF) that is typical North Jersey behavior. He was "born & raised" in that area.

No. I'm from North Jersey and don't know anyone who acts like this. I guess it depends on what circles you hang out with.

by Anonymousreply 98August 31, 2025 2:45 PM

I think it's fake because a female wouldn't stand there and take abuse in front of a crowd.

by Anonymousreply 99August 31, 2025 4:54 PM

100!

by Anonymousreply 100August 31, 2025 5:08 PM

Whew chile, the white ghetto.

by Anonymousreply 101August 31, 2025 5:24 PM
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