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Has Sylvester Been Intentionally Erased?

Sylvester has been largely erased from today’s LGBT narrative, not because he wasn’t trailblazing, but because he doesn’t fit the story being told now.

He was a successful, openly gay Black man in the mainstream during the 70s and 80s, one of the very first mainstream gay celebrities at a time when visibility came at great personal risk.

He lived unapologetically, embodying gender fluidity and camp in a way that was authentic to him, but his personal view of gender contradicts the rigid ideologies that dominate queer politics today.

As a result, his influence is downplayed, and the credit for what he introduced into the mainstream 40 years ago is now handed to others. Sylvester isn’t just a piece of history, he’s a reminder that much of what we call “progress” today is built on ground he already broke.

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by Anonymousreply 71August 25, 2025 7:42 PM

I don’t know how to vote here, but I miss both Sylvester and Joan Rivers.

by Anonymousreply 1August 23, 2025 2:31 PM

And before someone says “oh there was a documentary”.

No.

He has been erased. If the LGBT community and agenda was so genuine, he should be regarded as a Numero Uno.

People under 50 barely know him, especially the LGBT community.

by Anonymousreply 2August 23, 2025 2:31 PM

There is a difference between being erased and just being forgotten. Few entertainer, celebrities and figures from 50 years ago are still widely remembered. Moreover, I am not sure how big Sylvester even was back then outside the big city (NY) club scene.

by Anonymousreply 3August 23, 2025 2:41 PM

There are plenty of Youtubers posting reactions to his music, but they're generally a bit shocked and surprised.

by Anonymousreply 4August 23, 2025 2:49 PM

R3 I’m saying it’s weird a black openly gay man who did drag would have been forgotten in the political climate in the last decade.

Out of all the gay and “trans” icons of the past, Sylvester has been forgotten.

And he absolutely was.

by Anonymousreply 5August 23, 2025 2:50 PM

Didn't Sylvester throw the first rock at the cops at Stonewall?

If they're "not queer-they disappear" The B-T-Q's have spoken!

by Anonymousreply 6August 23, 2025 2:52 PM

R6, I think I follow you.

Sylvester could be lauded as some sort of Marsha P Johnson 2.0 had he claimed to be a real woman. He didn’t, and as such is of no use to the gender ideologues who’ve dominated discourse, both in academia and popular discourse, for the past decade.

Not intentionally erased: just not an efficacious figure in contemporary propagandizing and thus ignored.

by Anonymousreply 7August 23, 2025 2:55 PM

R2 "People under 50 barely know him"

People under 50 barely know anything

by Anonymousreply 8August 23, 2025 3:21 PM

I'm 40 and I know of Sylvester. I have a beautiful animation style portrait print of him in the living room. I do agree with the OP that he doesn't fit a particular mould and so is not remembered in the "popular on X" way. But he was truly fabulous and a great artist who embodied his true self and showed it at a time of huge danger. Definitely a numerous uno as another poster said. I know many gays who see Sylvester as a singular kind of artist, who was there when they needed someone like them on the TV.

by Anonymousreply 9August 23, 2025 3:28 PM

His erasure isn’t about obscurity, it’s about inconvenience: he complicates the neat historical arc activists and institutions prefer to tell.

by Anonymousreply 10August 23, 2025 3:33 PM

Sufferin' succotash, ya better not erase me!

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by Anonymousreply 11August 23, 2025 3:34 PM

His erasure WOUNDS and is a literal holocaust.

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by Anonymousreply 12August 23, 2025 3:36 PM

Great minds think alike, r11

by Anonymousreply 13August 23, 2025 3:37 PM

What? They removed his statue from the stairs of the Philadelphia Museum of Art?

by Anonymousreply 14August 23, 2025 3:46 PM

I don’t think he’s been erased, but, unfortunately, he had a short career, with a horrible death by AIDS in the early 80s.

by Anonymousreply 15August 23, 2025 4:11 PM

I love his music, but most disco and Hi-NRG artists have faded into obscurity, regardless of their race, gender, or orientation. It's no great conspiracy.

by Anonymousreply 16August 23, 2025 4:14 PM

Nah. He's a legend.

by Anonymousreply 17August 23, 2025 4:17 PM

R7 It’s worth noting that Marsha P Johnson never claimed to be a woman. In fact, HE was interviewed on film referring to himself as a gay man and a transvestite/drag queen. The whole “Marsha P Johnson was trans” schtick was invented after he already died.

by Anonymousreply 18August 23, 2025 4:21 PM

Sylvester also died of AIDS-related illness. That is it's own thing. It is still painful for us -- those of us who lived through it -- to think about it or remember it. It also casts a shadow over all who succumbed during that dark time.

by Anonymousreply 19August 23, 2025 4:27 PM

Forgotten? When you get a tribute concert at Lincoln Center 35 years after you die, you’re hardly forgotten.

That said, there was a time when he was on top (late 70s) that I wished I’d forgotten to buy tickets to his NYE show. He was supposed to be onstage when the ball dropped at midnight. He showed up at 1 am, fucked up, lip-synched for 20 minutes and then left. He did not make the audience at the Paradise feel “Mighty Real” that night.

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by Anonymousreply 20August 23, 2025 4:28 PM

Sylvester didn't die in the early 80s. He died in 1988 & was releasing new music practically right up to that year. He was a true gender bending pioneer, choosing to express his feminine aesthetic without declaring himself an actual woman. The idea that a biological male preferring to present himself as what is stereotypically associated as female with the full understanding of being a male is a formidable challenge to social norms/expectations. Preferring an opposite visual of what is socially acceptable for a person's biological sex while assuming he/she must in fact be the sex they are presenting as is actually not progressive at all. It's reinforcing the stereotypes that Sylvester boldly, obstreperously & authentially went against. So no, I don't think Sylvester has been cancelled. I just think that perhaps his life & what he stood for may be a bit too literal for the current gender/queer activists to wrap their flimsy, smoky dialog around.

by Anonymousreply 21August 23, 2025 4:35 PM

Sylvester was unique but also messy and his chart success was very brief. Also his disco hits didn’t cross over well to pop… “You Make Me Feel Mighty Real” lasted just a couple weeks in the bottom of the Top 40 back in 1979, and “Do You Wanna Funk” didn’t even get onto the Hot 100.

He died in 1988 but we 80s teens and college students had never even heard of him. For us “gay 70s disco” was the Village People, end of story.

by Anonymousreply 22August 23, 2025 4:41 PM

OP - you’re trying too hard. You start by asking a question, but then you repeatedly (and emphatically) answer the question with YOUR answer. You didn’t really want to know what others think - you’re just making your one-sided point, over and over.

by Anonymousreply 23August 23, 2025 5:04 PM

R22 "we 80s teens and college students had never even heard of him".

But cross-over gay act Jimmy Somerville charted with You Make me Feel in 1989 (US Billboard Dance #34)?

I'm Every Woman is the 70's disco track. Village People? Really?

by Anonymousreply 24August 23, 2025 5:10 PM

He died in 1988, but was ill several years prior to his death, which affected his output and touring. His partner died in 1987, and his friend and co-writer Patrick Crowley died in 1982., both of HIV infections.

I agree with R23, no one is going to change OP’s mind.

by Anonymousreply 25August 23, 2025 5:20 PM

[quote]For us “gay 70s disco” was the Village People, end of story.

Bless your heart.

by Anonymousreply 26August 23, 2025 5:25 PM

I knew Sylvester from the Cockettes. He isn't erased, for those of us who recognize where we come from in our battles....as per usual, young kweens can't see past yesterday's douche and a mirror. Watch Sylvester on Merv Griffin....he was out and fierce and talented. Look it up yourself you lazy Gen Z whatever

by Anonymousreply 27August 23, 2025 5:26 PM

Why is every gay icon a drug addicted cross dresser? I mean, there have to be some normal ones somewhere.

by Anonymousreply 28August 23, 2025 5:41 PM

R23 I don’t think everyone understands my point.

I’m not talking about the gays that grew up with him forgetting about him, I’m talking about him being erased as a figure for contemporary LGBT history and politics.

It’s for example, exactly why Billy Porter can get on a soapbox and talk about being the first gay black trailblazer and no one under 40 or social media / media questions him.

by Anonymousreply 29August 23, 2025 5:45 PM

[quote] You didn’t really want to know what others think - you’re just making your one-sided point, over and over.

♫ ♪ "Over and o-ver / Time and time again / you can't be nobody's love til your somebody's friend" ♪♬

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by Anonymousreply 30August 23, 2025 5:51 PM

Because they’re young and idiots, R29.

by Anonymousreply 31August 23, 2025 5:53 PM

Hahahaha! No. I think I’m articulating it wrong.

They have combed through LGBT history to fit the narrative contemporary politics and their agenda.

Sylvester crushes it. That’s why not only the public but the LGBT media as well.

by Anonymousreply 32August 23, 2025 5:58 PM

I googled “LGBT trailblazers”

No Sylvester

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by Anonymousreply 33August 23, 2025 6:07 PM

No Sylvester

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by Anonymousreply 34August 23, 2025 6:08 PM

No Sylvester

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by Anonymousreply 35August 23, 2025 6:08 PM

No Sylvester

So my point is, there’s absolutely a reason WHY.

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by Anonymousreply 36August 23, 2025 6:09 PM

What are we supposed to do for Sylvester? Swoon over him as DLers do for that guy with the bulge in his crotch in WKRP in Cincinnati? A forgettable sitcom that ended 6 years before Sylvester's death.

George Michael was a big thing in 1988, and had a much wider audience than Sylvester. He died not even a decade ago and, relative his fame in life, is fairly "forgotten" today.

Sylvester died 37 years ago. Almost 2/3 of Americans are less than 55 years old (I calculated as someone 18+ years old in 1988).

When you died you become a footnote, celebrities, too.

by Anonymousreply 37August 23, 2025 6:21 PM

Oh, if it isn't in Google....what a maroon....In the 60s and 70s, living your life in the open was a huge political act. One who lived on stage and was a successful musical star was a trailblazer...Seriously, citing Google just shows what a short-sighted sited ignorant style of non-critical thinking you have. Youth of the day has no respect or understanding of what we went through...idiots

by Anonymousreply 38August 23, 2025 6:22 PM

Ugh still not getting it, i give up.

I’ll just end it with he debunks contemporary gay and trans politics unlike the people celebrated today from the 60s to 80s during his lifetime and the LGBT and liberal media will keep him forgotten to not disrupt the agenda.

That’s all.

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by Anonymousreply 39August 23, 2025 6:26 PM

[quote] Ugh still not getting it, i give up. I’ll just end it with he debunks contemporary gay and trans politics unlike the people celebrated today

We get it girl. Thing is though: the music is just bad and not memorable. He was never some big important figure in the culture. He is forgotten as are most middling disco singers. There is not some ultra woke trans cabal out there actively “erasing” him, as if that’s something that could be accomplished through some sort of groupthink.

by Anonymousreply 40August 23, 2025 6:39 PM

Was he in Wigstock?

by Anonymousreply 41August 23, 2025 6:40 PM

R37 "George Michael was a big thing in 1988, and had a much wider audience than Sylvester".

George Michael was in the closet in '88, only out because of indecency a decade later, was not a 70s disco act, not black and did not die of AIDS. He was a closeted white Brit. Hardly a gay icon in 88.

by Anonymousreply 42August 23, 2025 7:04 PM

Erased?

Search him on the internet, OP, you typical "lie to get clicks" arse.

Thousands of hits. Thousands of stories. Articles prominently declaring his history, influence, issues, place.

Why do these stooges post like this? Why aren't THEY the erased ones?

by Anonymousreply 43August 23, 2025 7:10 PM

More to the point, Erasure has also been erased. Can you explain that?

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by Anonymousreply 44August 23, 2025 7:17 PM

I spent the pandemic lockdown catching up on my Drag Race so I first caught Sylvester in Season 8.

When I did the research I was amazed at what he was doing during his time. Mother. A true trailblazer. We STILL clack our fans!

Unfortunately, I agree that it's just that pop culture moves on. So Ru did his part and had these girls lip synch for their life & now I know who Sylvester is.

Adam Lambert did a cover of You Make Me Feel, but I guess nobody pays attention to him....

R20, is why I subscribe to DataLounge.

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by Anonymousreply 45August 23, 2025 7:40 PM

R29 - you could list 30 other people from the 70s and 80s that today’s young people are oblivious to. Sylvester hasn’t been singled out.

And I agree with your point about Billy Porter.

by Anonymousreply 46August 23, 2025 8:02 PM

Thanks, R18. It needed to be said.

by Anonymousreply 47August 23, 2025 9:48 PM

R46 Well if you agree with my point about Billy Porter, then you can see what I’m getting at. I’m not talking about whether kids are “into” Sylvester, I’m talking about why he isn’t part of the historic narrative of today’s LGBT progressive culture.

In the last decade of “woke” LGBT media, they’ve dug up figures like Stormé DeLarverie—who was largely obscure and marginal even in her time—and institutionalized them because they fit the mold of the current agenda. Meanwhile, Sylvester, who was a mainstream, openly gay Black star with global hits, gets left out.

He’s like the Claudette Colvin of modern LGBT history. Colvin was the first Black woman arrested for refusing to give up her bus seat, but Rosa Parks fit the chosen narrative better. Sylvester broke ground 40 years ago, but because he doesn’t line up with today’s politics, others get the credit for what he already embodied.

by Anonymousreply 48August 23, 2025 10:05 PM

I swear to God, I thought this was about the cat.

by Anonymousreply 49August 23, 2025 10:10 PM

R49 See R11 and R12.

by Anonymousreply 50August 24, 2025 12:28 AM

12 replies from OP?! Blocked

by Anonymousreply 51August 24, 2025 12:40 AM

I had a gummy and a glass of wine, R50. I completely missed those! Thanks!

by Anonymousreply 52August 24, 2025 2:07 AM

I stopped reading at “queer politics” - I loathe that the OP and people like her have made this vile term “normalized” again despite how offensive it is to generations of us, just to suit their bullshit need to be edgy and different why still trying to control the LGB narrative.

by Anonymousreply 53August 24, 2025 2:15 AM

This somehow doesn’t seem important right now.

by Anonymousreply 54August 24, 2025 3:13 AM

Uh, as opposed to what, R54 the really urgent content in other threads on this site?

by Anonymousreply 55August 24, 2025 8:13 AM

R55, are you suggesting Reba’s new AI-generated lip and the reason behind all the Dexter iterations isn’t urgent?

by Anonymousreply 56August 24, 2025 2:54 PM

Sylvester hasn’t been erased; the entire disco era was basically been erased. He just happened to fall into that

by Anonymousreply 57August 24, 2025 3:15 PM

If he'd lived he would have transitioned to 'Sylvia' by now.

by Anonymousreply 58August 24, 2025 6:14 PM

….And back again!

by Anonymousreply 59August 24, 2025 11:51 PM

A friend of mine once recognized him at a gay bar in the 1980s and went up to say hello. Sylvester broke into a big smile and said, "Kiss my hand, honey... you'll be glad you did!"

by Anonymousreply 60August 25, 2025 12:34 AM

Just wait, in 10 years, he will be reimagined as a Trans or Nonbinary Woman of Color who probably threw a brick at something in the Castro. Then she'll be labeled an icon!

by Anonymousreply 61August 25, 2025 6:47 AM

R29, I don't think Billy Porter stood on any soapbox and said any such thing.

by Anonymousreply 62August 25, 2025 6:50 AM

Billy Porter portrayed Sylvester decades ago in the musical Radiant Baby about Keith Herring.

It was a fantastic energetic musical that never got to Bway—but Porter was stunning in it.

by Anonymousreply 63August 25, 2025 3:29 PM

R63 Thanks for weighing in, Billy.

by Anonymousreply 64August 25, 2025 5:04 PM

[quote]It’s for example, exactly why Billy Porter can get on a soapbox and talk about being the first gay black trailblazer and no one under 40 or social media / media questions him.

He may not be the first, but Billy is a trailblazer. He's the first black openly gay Emmy and Tony award winning actor, and the first openly gay man to win an Emmy. Sylvester and Rupual broke down doors, but Billy is taking it to another level.

The hate for him on the site is getting tiresome.

by Anonymousreply 65August 25, 2025 5:42 PM

Stop bashing millennials or Gen Zers for not knowing who Sylvester was. Some of you expect them (and all gays) to have a well-thumbed edition of a "Who's Who in LGBT Culture" handy for easy reference.

Many Americans would be hard pressed to name other luminaries of the Civil Rights movement beyond Rosa Parks and MLK, jr.

It just is.

And Sylvester was spot on. You can be a man, identify as a men, and still shatter gendered expectations.

by Anonymousreply 66August 25, 2025 5:59 PM

Nobody has erased Sylvester. This is shoddy shit stirring.

by Anonymousreply 67August 25, 2025 6:11 PM

R65 We heard you the first time, Billy.

by Anonymousreply 68August 25, 2025 6:25 PM

It is probably related to the fact that there is very little video footage available of him, and what I've seen on YouTube has been like watching through a shower curtain.

by Anonymousreply 69August 25, 2025 6:34 PM

r69 that could be a reason why. When you think of performers from decades ago who are still well-known, it's because there is tons of video of them from their prime. Elvis, the Beatles, etc.

by Anonymousreply 70August 25, 2025 6:42 PM

R66 "Some of you expect them (and all gays) to have a well-thumbed edition of a "Who's Who in LGBT Culture" handy for easy reference".

I expect it, and when I was their age I (and all gays) did. It's the laziness of the social media generation; all knowledge at their fingertips but no curiosity.

by Anonymousreply 71August 25, 2025 7:42 PM
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