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Have you tried celibacy voluntarily?

What is it like?

by Anonymousreply 13August 18, 2025 12:42 PM

I did, and I slapped faces viciously and randomly

by Anonymousreply 1August 18, 2025 2:40 AM

It's peaceful and calm.

by Anonymousreply 2August 18, 2025 2:40 AM

Yeah - It lasted about a week

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by Anonymousreply 3August 18, 2025 2:42 AM

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by Anonymousreply 4August 18, 2025 2:44 AM

Hell no!

Just old and desperate.

by Anonymousreply 5August 18, 2025 3:01 AM

No, why should I?

by Anonymousreply 6August 18, 2025 3:03 AM

It’s fine.

by Anonymousreply 7August 18, 2025 4:02 AM

I was voluntarily celibate for 18 months in my mid-20s after going through a horrendous breakup. I could actually feel myself losing my mind towards the end. Basic physical contact with another person is really important to me. I don't know how people do it for years.

by Anonymousreply 8August 18, 2025 4:25 AM

I wouldn’t say voluntary, more like a large contingent of options creep me the fuck out.

by Anonymousreply 9August 18, 2025 4:33 AM

Pursuing dating is exhausting to me and I can have an antisocial streak at times. If I get THAT horny I’ll just have a good wank. Which is a hell of a lot more preferable to being caught up in a bad relationship.

by Anonymousreply 10August 18, 2025 6:58 AM

R10 same.

by Anonymousreply 11August 18, 2025 7:10 AM

Yes, in 1983, New York City. Horrible news on every front. Lasted about 6 months until Michael Callen's book came out about safer sex.

by Anonymousreply 12August 18, 2025 8:38 AM

I was for approximately 6 to 7 months at one point. All I remember was I started rinsing the dishes before putting them in the dishwasher and started buying dryer sheets.

by Anonymousreply 13August 18, 2025 12:42 PM
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