The gay ideal man has changed

Ok cool

Thanks for letting me know!

OP- It was slim pretty boys back then. Now it is guys with huge muscular arms and chests plus lots of ugly tattoos.

Nice for me. Too bad I'm pushing 60 (but look 45)

And in the 1920s, it was Rudolph Valentino. Your point?

Not sure how old you are OP but, as someone who came out at that time, I don't recall blonde Ken doll types being held up as the "ideal".

Too wide a net, doll.

We were fed what the porn producers found attractive. Lots of hairless blond twinks and waxed bodybuilders.

Yet social media disagrees with OP. White brunettes rule the gay world. Maybe a hot blond here or there but white men continue to be at the top of the gay food chain. A latino or Middle Eastern gay man would have to work 3x as hard as an equally attractive white man to get half the attention online.

In person it's a toss up with a white man will still be almost everyone's preference, globally. It's fucked up but the truth is the truth.

I have nothing to say about Italians because most look and are just white.

R9- Spaniards are white and Latino too. Latinos are sometimes white. I have had sex with guys that could be described as White Latinos.

I don't think what you're saying is true about Latinos and Middle Eastern guys - they are often considered very hot but for Asian guys I think that would apply- having to be far more attractive to still get half the attention of a White or Latino guy online.

R10 Spaniards are not Latino. Latinos are from Latin American countries (Mexico, Central America, South America, Caribbean).

Hispanics are from Spanish-speaking countries including Latin America and Spain.

There are white Latin Americans due to colonialism, but Spaniards are European.

Where did you go to school, R11? The word latino is simply Spanish for Latin. You know, the language of Rome? So Italians are latins, pretty much by definition. The phrase "latin lover" could be an Italian, a Spaniard, or someone from South America.

Middle Eastern guys and 50% of Latinos are white

What, no Black men?

Your loss.

The gay ideal man has changed - the uncut, thicker dick has become the norm. Not a lot of foreskin, and ideally it fully retracts when hard, but in so much porn I see, that's what's attached to the ideal man.