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Why has hooking up become so hard?

In the days of Craigslist you sent a pic and what you were looking for and you had a hook up that evening. Now you have to spend hours chatting and sharing picture albums only for the guy to no show or ask if you’re free 3 weeks from now. It’s like it’s just performative now. Everybody wants to chat and swap pics or sext but nobody actually wants to meet. Nobody’s dick works anymore it’s all just middle aged bottoms with ED.

by Anonymousreply 2August 5, 2025 8:49 PM

I would be guilty of chatting about hooking up, while wankng and then cumming, so i don't have to go to the lengths of the hook up. I honestly thought it was just me. Ive met a few hot guys who just laid there doing nothing and after about 15 mins I just made polite excuses to stope. (Is there a way to tell a guy he needs to be more proactive, and it work?) Ive mer a few guys who weren't interested and they stopped after a few mins and left; that hurt the ego. And to be honest has made me fear rejection) (I wasn't feeling it either but the guys had travelled and it wasn't really their fault so Im always willing to give it the aul try. ) Most guys seem to want a Total top, masc, big dick... and handsomeness isn't a priority. They just wanna be ploughed. Is this new, years of hooking up and just having fun ..and didnt need to get to anal. Its like sex nowadays is just about scratching the itch.

by Anonymousreply 1August 5, 2025 8:02 PM

OP, what in hell are you yapping about? Hooking up has never been easier. Go to Sniffies and you’ll find ten billion cruising sites with people actually there.

by Anonymousreply 2August 5, 2025 8:49 PM
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