Donald Zieben-Hood murders personal trainer influencer husband Jacob Zieben-Hood in NYC

Crazy hot couple.

Emphasis on the crazy, obviously.

I always feel like more is made of this kind of thing and it often has a homophobic twinge to it.

If a man murders his wife, no one ever uses it to talk about the pitfalls of heterosexuality, but if it's a gay couple they sometimes do (albeit with some subtlety).

I wonder if some people involved were afraid to take more drastic steps because they would be viewed as homophobic. Just a hunch.

This wouldn't have happened if they looked like me.

The killer is the less good-looking of the two. Makes sense.

Poor queen died just like Judy! 😭

r4 What would those drastic steps be? He already had multiple court orders out against him, so the court system was doing its job.

I wonder if one of them was a Datalounger?

Eh well, this thread is getting more traction than mine, so —

Interesting and sad comment in the NY Post (though I had to wade through a swamp of cretinous homophobic ones to get to it):

“ NOW MORE TO THE STORY: This alleged killer was arrested back in FEBRUARY for charges including strangulation and felony contempt for violating an order of protection. Low bail was set, and he made it. BUT, DA Bragg has STILL not indicted the case, so it is on for potential dismissal on 8/28. AMAZINGLY, while he was out on that case, he was arrested in JUNE for menacing and another order of protection violation, and a mere $5k bail was set and posted and he was released again. Yet the DA STILL didn’t indict the February case. And now we have dead body. The more you know!”

You’re right, R2. I feel the same way. It’s a huge double standard.

This is all over the news

Definitely a combo of steroids and meth.

Musto has chimed in on Facebook and says he knew one of them

Can you share? I

"I'm the pretty one in this relationship!"

"No, I'M the pretty one!"

I love to imagine what kind of naughty imp I would be if I were born hot. Doubt I’d be this bad though.

No, I'm the Mary and YOU'RE the Rhoda!

[quote] Poor queen died just like Judy! 😭

On the toilet?

He called his model husband "Dumbo" one time too often....

According to the article he was found slumped on his toilet dead from stab wounds

In the latest chilling episode of “Two Bottoms Don’t Make a Top”…

R17, yeah surely for those born hot there’s a lot of sweet stuff on offer in the category of “naughty imp” and no need to become a violent and homicidal husband!

Was he murdered while douching? Horrors!

The NYPost comments are pretty depressing.

But here we are.

This, gentle readers, is why you fuck Mr Hot n’ Crazy once, but you do not date him and you DO NOT marry him.

R26, I say never EVER stick your dick in crazy. Because even once they could go all “Basic Instinct” on your ass.

Actually, I think the murderer is the better-looking of the two. But there’s no accounting for taste.

So who’s dead- the blond or the brunette?

Turning 40 is apparently quite taxing on elite social media starlet gays.

They look different in every photo.

R30 Remember when the line used to be 25?

Seems like they did everything possible to be better looking but neither one is actually good looking when you take a good look at them.

The killer’s prolific and beyond-narcissistic Instagram..

I only read the California Post. 0/10

So many instagrams. There is something off about the both of them. Which one is/was in med school? The younger one? The killer might have been vaguely a model at 20 but that was a long time ago. What fight for months. At least one of them needed to break it off permanently. And how did the Killer keep getting back in the apartment if the dead guy had an order of protection? Whose apartment is it anyway? Questions.

Is his name Donald, or Jason?

I’m confused —Rose

I think he watched American Psycho one too many times.

In Med School at age 34"? Or was he a resident?

Sad in any case.

Orderly!

Stabbed to death on the terlet-what a way to go!

Donald and the Zieben Hoods? Wasnt that a movie with Frank and Bing?

C’mon DL sleuths, where are the dick pics?

R10 that's to the "the justice system was doing it's job!" ...

Girls, exercise kills.

They look....special.

R13 calls it - that's exactly what I was thinking.

[quote]According to the article he was found slumped on his toilet dead from stab wounds

Maybe Donald thought it was a burglar hiding out in there?

You brought home cilantro instead of parsley… for the LAST TIME!

The shorter, pale one is the murderer?

Which inmate will be the first to murder his asshole?

On the

This is why we lock the bathroom door when we do our #2's.

[quote] Turning 40 is apparently quite taxing on elite social media starlet gays.

Who was that guy who was a therapist in NYC and committed suicide after he turned 40? there was a story about it in the NYTimes. When he was in his 20s, he literally had older gay strangers kneeling before him in Mykonos just because of his beauty, but when he aged he freaked out and offed himself.

That describes so many from 10011

R52, you made me do a spit take!

R54, wasn’t it when he turned 50?

Ah yes the tragic tale of Bob Bergeron who tried to write a self help book for ex-twunks-in-denial as they confront their own midlife crises.

Bob killed himself in despair when he realized he didn’t actually believe any of the hollow self help pablum he’d written, rather, he believed at his core that there was no point at all to gay male existence if you have gotten old.

The full length NYT piece on him was quite good.

Torta, you are a treasure to this site. Thank you for all your links and information, regardless of topic.

It’s called Google, mok

Well, it's more than most posters offer, R60, so I'll take it and say thank you.

Ughhh, another victim of “Dancer of the Dance”.

Poor Bob Bergeron was another shallow scenester gay who wasn't bright enough to take the counsel he enjoyed doling out.

And the kicker of course is that on his best day, he wasn't all that in the looks department.

This is why they hate us.

R58 I looked up Bob Bergeron and he was rather plain even when young. He must have had deep seated psychological issues.

The killer Donald was a bartender at Splash for a while

Can't find any nudes. Shame.

[quote]The killer Donald was a bartender at Splash for a while

As long as it wasn't Larry!

I loved him in Splash! He and Darryl Hannah had great chemistry.

R67, did you scroll through all 6564 pages of instagram?

r59 = r58

Why couldn't the killer have gotten obsessed with Peter Thiel?

What?! Not true at all, R71. Try harder.

Was the victim using PFAS-free asswipe in the moments before he was bludgeoned to death?

[Quote] If a man murders his wife, no one ever uses it to talk about the pitfalls of heterosexuality,

But certainly, they do on DL

Based on the pictures neither one of them is particularly hot

"I was a great beauty, once."

Oh hun, whatever you need to tell yourself.

R73 mok, lol. R71 busted us. To compliment is to reveal that one is also the complimented. The secret’s out!

R2 I feel you. This is absolutely a thing.

As a black man I feel exactly the same thing happens with high profile cases involving black men. There’s this weird undertone of guilt by association with the Bill Cosbys and P-Diddys or OJ Simpsons. That I’m a part of some inherent violence that’s being played out.

When does it even occur to WHITE men that they should be associated in any way with the crimes of Harvey Weinstein, Charles Manson or Ted Bundy? They get labeled as bad men, not bad white men.

CourtTV needs to cover this Gavel to Gavel....

I've known a couple of people who have been murdered. One friend was murdered by his boyfriend (who strangled him to death). Another guy I knew picked up the wrong guy who killed him.

I can't keep track of all the gay murderers lately. There seem to be more and more.

They both look so different in almost every photo shown of each other.

Donald Zieben-Hood is in more trouble than George Santos.

No big loss where both are concerned.

This is why we never should have had gay marriage. Makes you nuts.

On the toilet?

Tacky.

Will Rosie love this murderer?

^^^ Only if he talks about being abused as a child

This really reminds me of the Nick Gruber case, which didn’t end in a murder but could have.

Did Gruber try to murder Klein?

I think Geffen was at much higher risk.

This is not what I meant when I asked him to murder my ass.

I thought the same thing about his looks, r63. I assume he had other psychological issues.

[quote] Will Rosie love this murderer?

Rosie only loves straight male murderers. She's old-school.

Fuck off R86.

I don't understand these good looking Dudes who murder each other. They could probably have 1,000 other men if the relationship was not working out. Not like some fat, slob living in a basement.

R96 it’s not that complicated. Randomness. Some people are good looking. Some people are extremely psychologically unhealthy. And some people are both.

This particular guy (the killer) was a longtime violent domestic abuser. He wasn’t wanting to simply dump the spouse and find new love.

with a judge's order already executed, it's impossible to not suspect there are fight videos -- if not from the fateful night -- and sent to friends-family as well as stored

let alone a healthy stash of on-camera sex

that endless insta account is impressive and wildly exhausting

98 Entries in and the most pressing question has not been asked:

Who has had them?

Narcissists

[quote] I don't understand these good looking Dudes who murder each other. They could probably have 1,000 other men if the relationship was not working out. Not like some fat, slob living in a basement.

So deep!

Sounds like these two homos were upset at not having actual jobs, and murder was the result.

Tale as old as time

[quote]So who’s dead- the blond or the brunette?

I’m curious too. Why hasnt anyone answered this??

[quote] Based on the pictures neither one of them is particularly hot

But who alive can equal your beauty?

Roid rage

This is what passes as a "hot" couple in NY?

r107, since you look down your nose at them, let's see your photos.

I gotta say, the killer is pretty fucking hot. His husband, not so much. Passable, maybe.

Blond kills Brunette. Hope that helps clarify

The taller cute one is the murderer?

Yes, the murderer is the hotter one.

r110 It doesn't, since neither is blond.

I know this is confusing. for the purposes of our reference please use OP photo. If you need further help, the guy on the left side of the photo is blond.

r114 No.

They’re influencers, or Jacob was — the hair color on each of them shifted around from blond to brunet and back again several times over the years.

What products did the push? Hair gel? Wife beaters? Protein shakes? I don't think they were doing a book of the month club or reviews of classic movies.

[quote] Yes, the murderer is the hotter one.

This is too confusing. R6 said the murderer is the ugly one. Which is it?!?

Hey, Vera. We got another stiff in the john.

[Quote] What products did the push? Hair gel? Wife beaters?

Husband killer.

Did they find traces of feces on the knife?

This thread died faster than Zieben-Hood.

Can you imagine the stench of cologne in that apartment?

Too bad the dead one, who seemed at least smart and certainly good looking enough, couldn't break free of his abuser. The lesson to be learned is to RUN at the very first sign of physical abuse. And never look back, no matter how tasty that cock might be.

And the murderer is really going to have an awful time adjusting to life in prison. No protein shakes. No spray tans. No hair coloring... and worst of all, no cologne.

R119 wins