DL should be a forum for LGBT, not just for gay men

Oh just fuck off.

OP, YOU'RE the one not as inclusive as you should be.

The CORRECT acronym is 2SLGBTQQIA+

Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and other sexual and gender diverse identities.

GOT IT NOW?

"L and G" only please.

R2 men and women are also gender diverse. Why leave str8 people out?

Gays only.

[quote]It’s not inclusive as it should be

Should be?

Would you tell people that a forum created specifically for Latinos should include Asians because in the US, they're both categorized as POC?

The old format kept us in our respective ghettos. Those were savage times.

OH, can't we all just get along and feel the love.

Nah, I don't even want to see most of the L and G in here. Too many have a real stick up their ass, and not in the fun way.

I want a small but haggard band of vulgarians, cock-whores, dirty old men, bareknuckle bull dyke protesters, gourmands, and Soap Opera Digest subscribers. If you paid real money to see Tab Hunter's cock, you're in. If you secretly wrote a jukebox musical about Hootie & The Blowfish, you're in. If you can channel The Ambassadress AND Mrs. Ramsey AND Beth Jarrett with good taste, you're in.

If you can't take a joke, leave. This isn't a safe space, and you're not among friends. You're among judgmental and dateless old queens who smell like a bowling alley and are only talking to you because they think you're a regular Tom Sizemeat.

^^^Well Smell You Miss Thang^^^

G B L only Thank you

This is place is too inclusive.

We let in too many MAGA trolls and too many Boris trolls. And too many straight women.

Keep it gay and lesbian.

Drop the T!

Go fuck yourself..

I like the LBT, but find that as a G, practically speaking, I don’t share much in common, culturally—other than being an “other.”

In my mind, the L is specifically about same sex attraction and the collateral marginalized lifestyle, and the G is about same sex attraction and the collateral marginalized lifestyle .; all the others really don't qualify to be in our tent, we're just being ridiculously tolerant.

Screw you. This place has always been about cock and ass.

I really think L and G and B covers it. If a T is an L or a G, then come in.

No, B gets to play their 'get out of jail card' anytime they want to reap the benefits of mainstream lifestyle, and they do so without looking back

[quote]we're just being ridiculously tolerant.

and naive

R7? You think the 1990s were "savage times" for gay people?

In 1999, I was dating a 19-year-old (I was 40), who once said to me, "It's so hard to be gay!"

I told her, "You think it's hard to be gay [italic]now?[/italic] It wasn't even that hard to be gay in the 80s or even the 70s. You know when it [italic]was[/italic] really hard to be gay? In the 50s. You should be grateful you didn't live through that."

That shut her up.

I'd like a BLT right about now. I'm hungry.

It is laughable the way some talk about the need to be inclusive of bisexual people. Have any of you ever actually met a “bisexual” man? The vast majority of them are self hating gay men who can’t admit to themselves what they are, so they use gay men for sex, but wouldn’t be caught dead hanging out with us in public.

For a short period of time, I would play regularly with this Indian guy. He was absolutely paranoid about his roommates finding out that he was “bisexual,” to the point that he wouldn’t even save my phone number in his phone because he was paranoid that somebody might see it. I have no idea why it would even matter that he had me as a contact in his phone. But anyway, he swore up and down that he was bisexual because he had a girlfriend that lived in another country, even though he was only ever interested in seeking out men for sex, not women. Fuck these hoes.

Inclusivity is overrated.

We like being exclusive.

The Bs are boring me with all their talk about being “valid.”

[quote]hey use gay men for sex, but wouldn’t be caught dead hanging out with us in public.

This.

I always told people that I would [bold]never[/bold] date a woman who was bisexual, because sooner or later, she's going to leave you for a man.

However, I did sleep with a number of them.

Just shut the fuck up, OP.

[quote] I want a small but haggard band of vulgarians, cock-whores, dirty old men, bareknuckle bull dyke protesters, gourmands, and Soap Opera Digest subscribers.

Bravo! Never has there been such a truly accurate description of DL denizens.

After all of this, I'm craving a BLT

G and L. Everyone else, get your own.

Whatever is to be done, it must include Sr. Lesbian, who is my favorite verified poster.

OP can fuck off.

[quote] I would play regularly with this Indian guy

Dot or feather?

MARY!!

We need all the friends we can get in this time of a fascist takeover.

All I know is I have to scroll through nearly 20 threads these days to find an interesting one. The best ones are: death/murder/missing persons; movies (not TV); gay rights; nostalgia; relationships/dating/sex; and pointless bitchery.

R34 "The ones who become blackjack dealers, or the ones who think cows are gods?"

I used to play with a Sri Lankan man.....not my usual type but he was beautiful, hung and knew how to fuck. Tantric fuck, indeed!

This is a silly thread and I want no part of it.

That is to say that I want no part of it beyond declaring that I want no part of it.

By which I mean …

Oh , never mind.

Where do the Fraus belong and what exactly is a Frau?

R41 Pearl-clutching, humorless old clams who can't take a dick or a joke. They claim to love gay men, but they're so easily grossed out that they are actually no fun at all. Send them back to their flat husbands.

I couldn’t care less about bisexuals. After five decades plus of being in the gay world, I’ll stick with what I’ve always found to be true, bi men and women lack the fundamental courage to be gay. Simple as that. Bis are usually kids who haven’t come out yet, or Gen Z that doesn’t know which end is up, poor things. I don’t give them the time of day. Frankly, they barely exist in the real world. Straight people certainly don’t take them seriously. They aren’t really a subject worth worrying about. Even less than the Ts.

Since this has become a pay to post only site, it is whatever the people who pay want it to be. If OP wants it to be more inclusive, get more people to pay.

To R34-He was a DOT, not FEATHER. Met in in the Tom-Cat ABS in Philly on 13th St. (down the street from Woody's) in 1985.

He looked Innocent, huge cock-10 inches hard-he tasted like curry. Grad student at Drexel U. He lived 2 bks. away from me in West Philly when I was at Wharton.

Now that we're piling on to poor OP:

"Oh, DO shut up, Portia!"

[quote]Screw you. This place has always been about cock and ass.

That's patently untrue. We've always had a lesbian contingent at DL, and they're welcome by everyone except one or two cranks like you.

R45 Lucky you, Phillywhore.

I do love a little currywurst now and then.

This place would be unbearable without Elderlez.