Why was this woman IGNORED in a gay bar?

Who cares about this incident or her?

Oh, honey. Get over it! It was nothing personal. It was a male gay bar where men go for men. They don't want to chat with women. For all they knew, you could have been a lesbian who took a wrong turn. Of course, you felt uncomfortable as this wasn't the time or place for you. Just move on, dearie.

Drunk fat girl wanders into a gay bar, expects instant attention from the patrons, cries when she isn't universally adored.

This woman is the epitome of toxic narcissism.

Victim culture + narcissism + body positivity movement + TikTok addiction = dis bitch

Oh, honey. If I had a dollar for every time I, as a gay man, walked into a gay bar and was ignored, I'd have enough money to buy my own bar.

Get over yourself, bitch.

You were drunk, lost and wanted a safe place, which you found. The bartender served you and you weren't bothered, roofied or raped. Don't press your luck, toots.

She should hook up with that trans Disneyland "influencer" and together, they can go around to gay bars and record themselves being shocked and outraged over not getting attention.

We’re still complaining about straight women invading gay spaces? Is it 2006?

If we're still complaining, obviously it's not 2006...

Jeez-us

She has more comments than likes.

But...but...EVERYTHING is for straight, white women!!!!!!

Hun, gay bars ain’t about you.

Why is her ceiling crumbling?

I condole her

I hope r4 drops that exact comment on her post. She'll have a meltdown.

The good thing is that she's generally getting roasted in the comments.

We're not complaining about her. [italic]She[/italic] is complaining about [italic]us.[/italic] And, as far as I can tell, for no particular reason.

She really things this is about her.

God what an annoying whiner.

Years ago, my coke dealer was a dyke and often did business out of a women's bar. When I'd go to find her, the bouncer had her spiel ready at the sight of a male: "This is a woman's bar. The law says we have to serve you, but our patrons would prefer that you leave." I'd just smile and say, "I'm here for Myra" and the door would open wide. She was an equal-opportunity dealer in that she'd sell to anyone. Probably paid off large Marge at the door in product, too.

Don't even want to click the link as it is cringe. These straight women need to just stop.

Die, you fat needy cunt.

…..,,

I hate that word “spaces”.

The video's already been removed, apparently. Who did the halfwit think she was, Carrie Bradshaw? Did Kim Cattrall throw a drink in her face at the bar?

Anyone save the video? I want to see.

To quote Glenn Close again “I can smell your nappy pussy”

R24 I'm guessing she got ratioed into oblivion in the comments section and took the video down herself.

That'll teach her.

R25 You didn't miss much. In a nutshell, she talked about how she had been out one night and was drunk and was trying to get an Uber, but didn't want to be out on the street waiting, so she saw a gay bar and went in to wait for the Uber because she thought she'd be in a "safe space." So she got a drink and sat down and felt "bad energy" because no one was talking to her, and she was instantly offended because she considers herself an "ally" of the gay community and she felt excluded by the gay community in that moment.

And then well barfed.

Please, there's too many straight women in bars catering to gay men as it is, and she's one of them. We were recently at one of the bars in Palm Springs for happy hour, and apparently after 7:00 PM you need seat belts on the bar and table stools to brace yourself for all the bachelorette parties passing through the place. It's not a fucking zoo. We're men that want to be with other men. This bitch in the tik tok is part of the problem. Go somewhere else.

Why is she bitching? She found a safe space to be ignored by men to wait for her ride.

I HATE how Santa Monica Blvd between La Cienega and Doheny went from being gay men to EVERYONE (gay men and ugly str8 fat broads.)

NO YOU ARE NOT WELCOME far as I'm concerned. Get your own fucking spaces.

"I needed to go in because I was really drunk and needed shelter"

Proceeds to order a drink.

Also wtf are you doing alone at night drunk in the streets? Does she not have friends?

R7, that guy is sick! You only have to look at him to know he’s a fetishist, but the last video I saw where he was talking about going to the toilet and just had to let us know that he stood up to pee in the ladies room confirmed he’s beyond help.

Sister, I hear you!

First, they complain about men in straight bars who won't leave them alone (a stretch in her case, admittedly) and now they complain about men in gay bars who DO leave them alone.

It's literal violence!

She probably envisions herself as some kind of "Sex and the City" girl who can just waddle into a gay bar and instantly become the life of the party.

That ain't real life.

Gay bars should start having secret passwords and entrances like speakeasy’s did

This isn’t just about how gay men were treated in that bar — it’s a reflection of how some women treat men in general.

She walked into a space that wasn’t about her, didn’t get attention, and suddenly felt “excluded.” That sense of entitlement isn’t unique — it mirrors what straight men deal with constantly.

A man talks to a woman = he’s a creep unless he’s attractive. A woman expects validation just for being present. If she doesn’t get it? The space is toxic, the people are rude, the vibe is “off.”

This kind of behavior gets brushed off because it’s coming from a woman. But men — gay or straight — are allowed to have boundaries. They’re allowed to not engage. They’re allowed to exist without catering to someone else’s emotional needs.

Sometimes men are the victims of manipulation, double standards, and emotional games. And it’s about time we started saying that out loud.

These bitches, skinny or fat, fucking HATE that they're not the center of the universe when they're surrounded by gay men. I have a friend who used to do Cycle Sluts drag and they always drew a crowd at the shows, including clueless straight cows who would get completely out of control during the shows, especially when they got drunk. I've seen women stand up and flash their tits, crash the stage during a performance and shit like that, which always blew up in their fat faces because the bouncers, who learned to watch those groups would throw them out.

[quote]NO YOU ARE NOT WELCOME far as I'm concerned. Get your own fucking spaces.

ESPECIALLY here, R31. Fuck that queen who thought it'd be cute to tell his hag about this site.