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The Puppy Thing and other sexual things I don't understand

I see many a guy- usually young- wearing a puppy mask, or being put in a cage in a puppy mask, or hypnotized in a puppy mask. I am 60 and I am probably too old -fashioned for words- but WTF? It's demeaning, it's childish( diapers guys too), and it has nothing to do with positive sex. Like scat, splitting, piss, and spanking, one can say to each his own but somethings don't say healthy or enjoyable. They appear to reflect trauma of some sort that is being worked through with sex.

by Anonymousreply 40July 24, 2025 4:29 AM

I don't believe it's an age thing. I've seen more older than younger guys engaging in the things you list for fetishes.

by Anonymousreply 1July 21, 2025 4:59 PM

None of what you listed is demeaning (unless both parties want it to be and get off on that), it's all about playing in that primal, uninhibited space, free of the countless masks we wear in everyday life. Also, working stuff out through sex has been going on since forever, both with straight and gay people. There's nothing wrong with it since no one's getting hurt.

I'm not going to blame or shame you for being vanilla your entire life, but that's your personal preference that I respect. You should learn how to respect the preferences of others, even when you don't understand them. If I managed to get there mentally and I'm under 40, you should have the wisdom to do so at 60 as well.

by Anonymousreply 2July 21, 2025 5:12 PM

“Like …. splitting”

If you don’t 🍆 that 🍑, how you gonna 💦?

by Anonymousreply 3July 21, 2025 5:13 PM

OP, you started off OK y acknowledging that you don't understand it. Maybe next time you can just ask to have things explained to you that you don't understand. Nothing wrong with asking for an explanation to better understand.

by Anonymousreply 4July 21, 2025 5:26 PM

What I don't understand are people who feel joy to voluntarily expose themselves online, with name, driver ID and everything. Would love to know what type of urge that satisfies.

by Anonymousreply 5July 21, 2025 5:28 PM

Narcissism. Provocation. Etc.

by Anonymousreply 6July 21, 2025 5:43 PM

You can probably find articles on cosplay sex. I know nothing about it either, but it seems like another harmless fetish-kink.

by Anonymousreply 7July 21, 2025 5:54 PM

It’s all stupid

by Anonymousreply 8July 21, 2025 5:58 PM

R2 Well aren't you just!

by Anonymousreply 9July 21, 2025 6:00 PM

I don’t think it’s sexy but less the dog aspect and more the arsthetics of the masks. Like a lot of gay underwear and fetishwear the dessign feels lowbrow and tacky and not sexy. A hot guy in a really sexy jackal mask could conceivably be very hot but these thick neoprene huckleberry hound masks do nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 10July 21, 2025 6:16 PM

I don't care what other people are into. But I'll pass on this.

by Anonymousreply 11July 21, 2025 6:20 PM

The puppy thing is a way of pretending to be someone else and having disinhibited sex. I would feel too silly to do it but I completely understand.

by Anonymousreply 12July 21, 2025 7:30 PM

TOTALLY get it

by Anonymousreply 13July 21, 2025 7:42 PM

Apparently, there are guys in master-slave relationships who like to be "treated like dogs" and are locked in cages like dogs and even eat out of a dog bowl. They might wear a dog tail butt plug while they wait around for their master to pay attention to them.

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by Anonymousreply 14July 22, 2025 1:03 AM

Doesn't anyone simply suck dick nowadays?

by Anonymousreply 15July 22, 2025 1:49 AM

Not my thing at all, but I couldn't possibly care less if others are into it.

by Anonymousreply 16July 22, 2025 2:28 AM

Same, r16. But I look on that sort of thing the same way I look on heterosexual sex. -- Puppies

-- Muscle worship

-- Pumping

-- Diapers

--Caged cocks

--Scat

by Anonymousreply 17July 22, 2025 11:31 AM

I always thought it would be very hard on the knees.

by Anonymousreply 18July 22, 2025 11:35 AM

Wait until OP reads Marquis de Sade

by Anonymousreply 19July 22, 2025 11:35 AM

OP, MARY!

by Anonymousreply 20July 22, 2025 11:38 AM

OP, the great thing about other people's fetishes is that they're easy to avoid. Find something else to occupy your mind, you'll be happier.

by Anonymousreply 21July 22, 2025 11:44 AM

The funny thing about R2's comment is that they speak of being "free of the countless masks," yet most of contemporary kink requires wearing some combination of costumes, masks and accessories. In my experience, kink means you are limited in your emotional repertoire, and you are also likely to be bad at actual sex.

by Anonymousreply 22July 22, 2025 3:42 PM

I agree with r2

by Anonymousreply 23July 22, 2025 10:28 PM

[quote] Apparently, there are guys in master-slave relationships who like to be "treated like dogs" and are locked in cages like dogs and even eat out of a dog bowl. They might wear a dog tail butt plug while they wait around for their master to pay attention to them.

Do they actually have sex with wearing all that? It sounds like it's closer to cosplay than a sexual fetish.

by Anonymousreply 24July 23, 2025 12:43 PM

Do they wear it to the grocery store?

by Anonymousreply 25July 23, 2025 12:55 PM

Take my poll, OP. It's right up your clenched ass alley.

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by Anonymousreply 26July 23, 2025 12:59 PM

Some gays feel the need to respect shit like puppy play because they are afraid of “first they came for puppies but I was not a puppy ….”

And good for them. I think it’s a stupid form of sex and I revel in looking down on those who engage in it.

by Anonymousreply 27July 23, 2025 1:04 PM

And you also revel in W&W yourself 10+ times, r27

by Anonymousreply 28July 23, 2025 1:29 PM

That was popular acclaim, dear

by Anonymousreply 29July 23, 2025 1:41 PM

I don't understand it either, OP, but it's harmless.

by Anonymousreply 30July 23, 2025 1:44 PM

Caroline Schermerhorn Astor at R27 🙄🤡

by Anonymousreply 31July 23, 2025 2:49 PM

R31, lol! 🤡 😂!!!!

by Anonymousreply 32July 23, 2025 3:24 PM

What a bunch of whores! 🐾

by Anonymousreply 33July 23, 2025 3:29 PM

If the "puppy" looked like this... maybe.

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by Anonymousreply 34July 23, 2025 3:38 PM

Well! I never in all my life.....

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by Anonymousreply 35July 23, 2025 3:44 PM

OP--why does it even matter if there's "a reason"

by Anonymousreply 36July 23, 2025 3:48 PM

[Quote]“first they came for puppies but I was not a puppy ….”

🤣

by Anonymousreply 37July 23, 2025 5:14 PM

I mean, I can maybe see the appeal--submission to your "master", being "tamed", the protocol, being bred, etc...

by Anonymousreply 38July 23, 2025 5:18 PM

Better not wear it around flyoverstan whore Kristi Noem she might shoot you!

by Anonymousreply 39July 24, 2025 12:37 AM

The puppy on our left in the picture I posted at r35 is also a cutter. Scars all over his arms.

by Anonymousreply 40July 24, 2025 4:29 AM
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