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This great big fat person is quite sexy

I generally think visible abs are bit overrated. The fitness model types are not that hot in person. But this guy is more than just "thick" -- he's definitely fat -- but... he carries it so well. It's kinda fascinating the way people of the exact same body fat percentage can look dramatically different. I guess it's all down to the distribution of the fat and your natural frame. He must be at least 30% body fat, but, he also has some definite muscle underneath and it somehow looks 'right' on him. He carries it well. Like, he looks like he'd be fun in bed. I guess being handsome helps, too.

Anyone else? I know the priss pots on here usually hate fat people.

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by Anonymousreply 46July 16, 2025 11:17 AM

And I know some people can't see Streamable links for some reason, so here's a link to the actual Instagram video as posted above. And just so that you recognize this is not a Lens Dunham thread...

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by Anonymousreply 1July 15, 2025 8:37 AM

I can smell the sour milk sweat from here.

by Anonymousreply 2July 15, 2025 8:40 AM

How vivid, R2

by Anonymousreply 3July 15, 2025 8:44 AM

I think it helps that he's got all his hair and isn't greying. If he was balding/greying that extra weight would make him look a lot older.

Plus, while he's obviously overweight, he's not in morbidly obese territory (yet).

I never quite understand when people like him obviously care about their appearance to the degree that they like shopping for clothes and experimenting with outfits, but they don't seem want to just lose a bit of weight.

by Anonymousreply 4July 15, 2025 8:54 AM

He looks like your average, run-of-the-mill basement dwelling, anti-trans gay incel.

by Anonymousreply 5July 15, 2025 8:57 AM

He actually IS morbidly obese if he's over 40 BMI which he obviously is.

by Anonymousreply 6July 15, 2025 9:05 AM

I think he's well over 30%, no?

I like his confidence and he is indeed cute. If he had the literal face of Paul Newman or someone extraordinarily handsome, I would be obliged to fuck him.

In order of importance for me: 1) face, 2) dick, 3) over hygiene, 4) good kisser, 5) nice ass, 6) Soft Soapy cum

by Anonymousreply 7July 15, 2025 9:38 AM

What an interesting hierarchy, R7.

I was guessing low 30s, R7, because while he does have a big belly, he also looks relatively tall and looks like he has a good amount of muscle under the fat. That all affects overall body fat %.

A man who were shorter, and had less muscle, but had the same amount of body fat would look a lot worse than him.

by Anonymousreply 8July 15, 2025 10:38 AM

OP

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by Anonymousreply 9July 15, 2025 11:07 AM

I have a friend who isnt bad looking; chunky, thinning red hair and hates his teeth, which arent great but hes always gotten the hottest guys; mostly fit latinos. He has incredible confidence; he believeshes a 9. Plus, he says things like, im a good person, im successful. He adds all those qualities into making up his ranking. What do we say about this? Ive heard so many gays say they cant find a bf but not only are they lookinging for looks, fitness, compatibillity but job too. It never bothered me what someones job was, once theyre wofking or trying to follow their dream career. Surely that way too many variables to find The One? Str8s only need about 40% compatibility, (he likes football, she likes shoe shopping) gays need about 80% or higher. So, if, like this guy in OPs post isnt slim, he seems to have a lot of those other qualities; but a DL rating wud be purely on looks?

by Anonymousreply 10July 15, 2025 11:12 AM

He's got "bitch tits" plus a bad case of "side boob". Pass.

by Anonymousreply 11July 15, 2025 11:30 AM

At least 35 lbs overweight.

by Anonymousreply 12July 15, 2025 11:33 AM

I'm more into fit-fat than child-bearing hips.

by Anonymousreply 13July 15, 2025 11:46 AM

That's way more than 35 lbs overweight. More like 60.

by Anonymousreply 14July 15, 2025 11:47 AM

60? More like 80.

by Anonymousreply 15July 15, 2025 11:50 AM

80? At least 150.

by Anonymousreply 16July 15, 2025 11:55 AM

150? No, 300. Easily.

by Anonymousreply 17July 15, 2025 11:56 AM

I like his decor and picture placement in the background. He's chunky, but not morbidly so, maybe 60 lbs overweight. His grooming seems to be on point trimmed, hair and beard. The tattoo placement on the leg is unfortunate. He likely has bed and bath linens of moderate quality that are matching. I would hit that especially if he is 6'2 or taller!

by Anonymousreply 18July 15, 2025 12:07 PM

OP, one nice thing about your fetish is that there are so many fat people around, you don't have to pay them to fuck you regardless of what you look like.

by Anonymousreply 19July 15, 2025 12:17 PM

Ha. That's the thing... it is NOT a fetish of mine. While I certainly generally like guys with a little thickness, I don't usually find someone this fat attractive, but I think this guy is dead sexy.

by Anonymousreply 20July 15, 2025 12:19 PM

R7- I noticed you didn’t mention the body which for me is the MOST important physical characteristic of a guy- I’m into muscular guys. I like slim guys with natural bodies.

by Anonymousreply 21July 15, 2025 12:33 PM

what is his nationality?

by Anonymousreply 22July 15, 2025 12:49 PM

I'm rinsing my eyes with Ipecac.

by Anonymousreply 23July 15, 2025 12:50 PM

OP, he's a nice looking man, but he would be better looking and healthier if he dropped the weight.

And tattoos make him look trashy or desperate for attention.

by Anonymousreply 24July 15, 2025 12:50 PM

I meant to write that I am generally not into muscular guys.

by Anonymousreply 25July 15, 2025 1:04 PM

I think 🤔 he’s French, no?

by Anonymousreply 26July 15, 2025 1:08 PM

I'm more offended by the tattoos. Not that he has them but that they're so stupid looking and poorly placed.

by Anonymousreply 27July 15, 2025 1:44 PM

27 posts and zero mention of the virtually non existent bulge. He looks like he's smuggling two grapes and half a vienna sausage there. Break out your magnifying glass and see,

by Anonymousreply 28July 15, 2025 1:47 PM

If we are rating this guy, and we are,

- Points for his overall build and features

- Minus points for him being 40 lbs beyond fit-fat into outright obesity, and for no crotch bulge

He would look better to me, and probably be better in bed, if he were rocking 20-30 extra pounds rather than 60-70 extra pounds.

by Anonymousreply 29July 15, 2025 1:53 PM

You have such a pretty face-it’s too bad you can’t…

by Anonymousreply 30July 15, 2025 1:55 PM

She’s OK with this or she wouldn’t be there.The End.

by Anonymousreply 31July 15, 2025 1:56 PM

He’s cute

by Anonymousreply 32July 15, 2025 2:05 PM

I looked through his Instagram. I've never seen a fat male fashion influencer before.

by Anonymousreply 33July 15, 2025 2:15 PM

He’s morbidly obese.

by Anonymousreply 34July 15, 2025 2:20 PM

I love him; he is fine.

by Anonymousreply 35July 15, 2025 2:27 PM

Thats a Hell No for me. Not my type at all. Each to their own but I prefer guys lean, even skinny, never mind the abs, or muscles, like R21 I like really slim guys, dot have to be muscular

by Anonymousreply 36July 15, 2025 2:29 PM

His belly belies his future with heart disease.

by Anonymousreply 37July 15, 2025 2:30 PM

This thread brought to you by the Hellen Keller Society.

by Anonymousreply 38July 15, 2025 2:51 PM

You know his inner thighs and butt cheeks are cooked meat color.

by Anonymousreply 39July 15, 2025 3:04 PM

Op, I disagree, but it's not his weight. He needs higher quality classic clothing. Heavy men should NEVER wear t-shirts in public. Polos, v-necked and button down shirts will flatter him. A sports coat, weather permitting, is slimming, and adds style. Also, NO flip flops. Squared eye glasses with thin frames, will slim his face. NO horizontal shirts and pants.

by Anonymousreply 40July 15, 2025 4:00 PM

I like fit fat and chunky men but this doughy, flabby thing? Oh, honey...no. (BTW, is that an FTM?)

by Anonymousreply 41July 15, 2025 4:02 PM

"cooked meat color"

He probably considers that a compliment, as he obviously eats a lot of cooked meat.

by Anonymousreply 42July 15, 2025 5:48 PM

I don’t even want to know about her meat

by Anonymousreply 43July 15, 2025 7:59 PM

What does "cooked meat color" even mean... like... the sear on the outside of a steak?

by Anonymousreply 44July 16, 2025 9:43 AM

Gemma , you've posted to datalounge instead of tumblr!

by Anonymousreply 45July 16, 2025 9:50 AM

I like thick and meaty, but I hate shaved bodies.

by Anonymousreply 46July 16, 2025 11:17 AM
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