Employers now hiring etiquette and hygiene coaches for Gen Z brats
In a December 2024 survey of 1,000 employers by Intelligent.com, 12.5% said a Gen Z candidate had brought Mom or Dad to a job interview. The bosses are fed up. In the Bay Area, the culture clash has led employers to a new solution: hiring etiquette experts to train young employees in basic workplace manners. Rosalinda Randall, a Marin-based etiquette coach, said inquiries have risen 50% over the last two months. The requests come from tech campus managers, winery execs, and even country clubs. All are a variation on the same complaint: Gen Z employees are treating the office like an extension of their homes.
One supervisor told Randall a new hire repeatedly left food wrappers scattered on the communal lunch table, assuming janitors would clean it up. “Their manager didn’t know how to handle it, as they didn’t want to sound like a parent,” said Randall…
… The friction isn’t limited to corporate offices. Hospital managers have told Randall that newly hired nurses are showing signs of apathy and entitlement, that they bristle at overly chatty patients or try to shirk “dirty” tasks. “They demand to be released from bedpan duty,” she said. “They don’t like it, so they think they shouldn’t have to do it.”
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 31 | June 30, 2025 9:57 PM
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They can’t even wipe their own asses. They smell.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | June 29, 2025 1:34 PM
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Training Indian employees on how to use deodorant/ antiperspirant would be a start.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | June 29, 2025 1:35 PM
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Enjoy, employers!
If you're too chickenshit to get tough with these little cunts, then it's your own goddamned fault.
Keep treating them like little snowflakes.
You'll see where that gets you.
Here's a helpful hint: You're the employer. You tell THEM how it works, and not the other way around.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | June 29, 2025 3:02 PM
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The problem with these types of stories is that you're talking about 15 and 30 year olds. I'm sure a bunch of teenagers bring mommy when they go to interview at Taco Bell but that doesn't mean the whole generation behaves that way. Same with the hygiene thing.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | June 29, 2025 3:05 PM
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r4 I don't believe inter-generational warfare is covered by the terms of the Geneva Convention ban on shared guilt and collective punishment.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | June 29, 2025 4:31 PM
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This is proactive and a solution to an ongoing problem
by Anonymous | reply 6 | June 29, 2025 4:32 PM
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It is a shame it has come down to this - I could not wait to grow up and be a self-sufficient adult.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | June 29, 2025 4:35 PM
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Some of us did not have home training from parents who were too involved in their own lives.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | June 29, 2025 4:38 PM
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[Quote] Training Indian employees on how to use deodorant/ antiperspirant would be a start.
Off topic, but I admire your commitment to racism.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | June 29, 2025 4:41 PM
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Once again, this is mainly about Gen Z from liberal households. Liberalism considers anyone under age 25 "kids" and teaches them to be anti-tradition and always fight the (white) man.
On the other hand, Gen Z from conservative homes are usually more mature and industrious and wiling to follow orders. Also, many young conservatives tend to be married/settled down by age 25.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | June 29, 2025 4:45 PM
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This has got to be gen-wars clickbait. “Young job seeker mommy to the job interview” is the new gerbil myth. Yes, yes, there are Gen Z workplace readiness issues but come on.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | June 29, 2025 4:47 PM
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Typo/ omitted word — “Young job seeker brings mommy to the job interview” is the new gerbil myth.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | June 29, 2025 4:48 PM
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Anecdotally, my stinkiest hookups were all white.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | June 29, 2025 4:50 PM
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I don't understand who complains here. The managers hiring the coaches, aren't they also the ones who failed to teach these skills to their kids at home?
by Anonymous | reply 14 | June 29, 2025 4:52 PM
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[quote] On the other hand, Gen Z from conservative homes are usually more mature and industrious and wiling to follow orders. Also, many young conservatives tend to be married/settled down by age 25.
So? They'll still be replaced by robots.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | June 29, 2025 5:22 PM
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if you have to learn this stuff later in life, it's embarrassing but necessary. take the free lessons and move on
by Anonymous | reply 16 | June 29, 2025 5:27 PM
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I call bullshit on a lot of this. I teach Gen Zs in college now. Sure, there are differences across generations, but there more minor than significant. I have students who work hard and are willing to go the extra mile. I have lazy students who won't do anything. And I have entitled students. And I had the same mix as I did 25 years ago. I will admit that Gen Z has a harder time communicating face to face. That is a mix of the influence of technology, social media, and Covid.
And R9, that's not racism. It's a cultural issue. Many Europeans need to be introduced to deodorant as well.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | June 29, 2025 5:57 PM
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Thanks for posting this, r17. This entire discussion about Gen Z not pulling its weight feels rather made up. And very US-American. I don't think Europeans or other countries have this type of discussion, other than the usual 'the younger ones don't want to work hard anymore'. And that's a sentiments older generations have toward the younger generations for millennials.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | June 29, 2025 6:29 PM
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[Quote] On the other hand, Gen Z from conservative homes are usually more mature and industrious and wiling to follow orders.
This is gaslighting of the purest strain 👏
People who sit home playing killing games all day, listen to Andrew Tate, and are angry that beautiful girls don’t magically show up in their bedroom and fall in love, so they become enraged at girls and go out and shoot them, are sub-ideal employment candidates.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | June 29, 2025 6:44 PM
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I’ve worked with a few who had terrible body odor. I’m old and I’ve worked with young ins with bad manners who were slobs before but this is the first time I’ve encountered people in the workplace who seem to not wear represent or bathe regularly
by Anonymous | reply 20 | June 29, 2025 7:14 PM
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[quote]I don't think Europeans or other countries have this type of discussion, other than the usual 'the younger ones don't want to work hard anymore'.
They do, but it's different.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 22 | June 29, 2025 11:32 PM
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[quote]Off topic, but I admire your commitment to racism.
Oh, please R9...even Indians themselves recognize this:
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 23 | June 30, 2025 9:05 PM
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Perhaps you shouldn't believe everything you read, OP
by Anonymous | reply 24 | June 30, 2025 9:08 PM
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Thanks for the article r23. Anyone who lives in a city with a lot of Indians knows many of them smell. I always wonder why they don’t just wear deodorant. And it’s not the garlic and curry smell. That is completely different than being a stinky bitch
by Anonymous | reply 25 | June 30, 2025 9:17 PM
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Sounds familiar. 11 years ago, millennials were entitled, lazy and/or lack a strong work ethic. Now Gen Z has no manners and can't communicate? Different complaint if we're being fair.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 26 | June 30, 2025 9:32 PM
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R17 Not arguing for or against the validity of this article, but I am calling a bit of bullshit on the "Covid" excuse. You're saying that one year of mixed homeschooling in one's teen years is enough to warrant this magnitude of social ineptitude?
I'm a millennial. I was technically homeschooled for a year when I was 15 out of necessity (my parents separated and my mother moved somewhere inside of a dangerous school district because it's all we could afford). My mother worked 14 hours a day, so my "homeschooling" consisted of her buying me a stack of books about philosophy and Emily Dickinson and birdwatching from Barnes and Noble and sitting out on the front porch reading them with me for a couple of nights before she got bored. After that I got myself a full-time job at a record store in town (lied about my age) and that was that. I went back to school the following year and fell right back into the swing of things academically. I didn't socialize with much of anyone that year but my brothers and sisters and the old dudes who worked at the record store. Somehow I managed to come out of that experience not irreparably damaged.
There are also plenty of kids who are homeschooled all the way until high school, and sure, some of them are a little weird, but they're still able to talk to waiters and make phone calls and go on job interviews without curling up in the fetal position and rocking in the corner.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | June 30, 2025 9:34 PM
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R26, what type of millennials were only entering the workforce 11 years ago? I had my first job in '98.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | June 30, 2025 9:41 PM
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R28 Right? I'm 37 and have been working since 2003/2004.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | June 30, 2025 9:48 PM
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[quote]...some of them are a little weird, but they're still able to talk to waiters and make phone calls and go on job interviews without curling up in the fetal position and rocking in the corner.
You are obviously referring to young people other than Barron.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | June 30, 2025 9:54 PM
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