Mom who lost 9-month-old son in hot car warns parents amid US heatwave.
Why do I have no sympathy for this?
Yes I know this is DL and not some parenting site but this makes me furious. I mean these parents cook their children to death and get off free because 'I forgot.' It's like jumping off a cliff and on the way down thinking oh I forgot this was dangerous or sticking a knife in your I eye going blind and then saying I forgot this was not a good idea.
You remember to go to work or go shopping but you forget there is a baby in the car? These people cooked an infant to death. They deserve the full punishment the law allows.
Ok I've never been a parent. I've never had an infant. But I know on this site gay or straight there must be people who have or have had infants. Can you explain to me how this happens? When I was a boy we had lots of big families all around with mothers constantly overwhelmed by so many children but I never heard of this happening. Maybe it did but we did not have the internet back then. 'I forgot' seems the lamest excuse there is for leaving a baby in a car. I couldn't even imagine leaving a pet in the car.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | June 29, 2025 2:00 AM
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I would assume that we don't know about it because the internet did not exist back then and temps were not so high that people could cook to death in cars.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | June 25, 2025 11:23 PM
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Clearly the cookies were ready. I hope they were Little Debbies.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 3 | June 25, 2025 11:56 PM
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I never heard of this before 2000 either and I have always watched and read new stories.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | June 26, 2025 12:00 AM
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"I've never been a parent...but let me lecture people on parenting anyway!"
by Anonymous | reply 5 | June 26, 2025 12:03 AM
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But OP, did you hear about the baby that was locked in a car when it was 100 degrees out, broke out the car window, stormed inside the supermarket, found his mother, and beat her to death with his bare hands?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | June 26, 2025 12:11 AM
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Yes, R6! And then he went home, bitchslapped his dad and said, I'm the man of the house now!
by Anonymous | reply 7 | June 26, 2025 12:17 AM
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This case from last year was infuriating as fuck. Guy left his 2 year old daughter in a parked car in his driveway in a Tucson surburb. It was 109. Wife later comes homes and finds the toddler in the car.
Investigation revealed a lot of crazy shit leading up to the toddler's death.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 8 | June 26, 2025 12:18 AM
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[quote]I mean these parents cook their children to death and get off free because 'I forgot.'
I'm the victim here! It could happen to anybody!
Please donate to my GoFundMe.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | June 26, 2025 12:19 AM
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There's a large casino right outside of Northeast Philly that has its security guards patrol the parking lot for kids who have been left in the car while mom or dad pops in for a few spins of the roulette wheel or a few pulls on a slot machine.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | June 26, 2025 12:22 AM
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R8 I read recently that Scholtes refused a plea deal and will go on trial in October for first-degree murder.
Did you notice how both his wife and his mom defended/enabled him and made excuses for him? He must have been hot before the beer weight. Why did he steal beer? For the thrill? Did all the stores cut him off? Was he personally penniless and on a parsimonious allowance? Guys like him - risk taking, domestic violence, substance abusing esp. alcohol - are closet cases.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | June 26, 2025 4:19 AM
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I can't believe that she allowed him to be alone with those children after leaving them in the car more than once I mean you're in f****** Arizona for God's sake and you're a doctor.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | June 26, 2025 4:50 AM
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My dad was a drunk and always pretty negligent but he somehow managed to never kill any of us. It’s hard to see how it’s possible for people to be this reckless with their kids
by Anonymous | reply 13 | June 26, 2025 4:55 AM
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Not interested in her excuses
by Anonymous | reply 14 | June 26, 2025 5:04 AM
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The first time I heard about this happening was probably 20 years ago and I still remember feeling angry inside when hearing people express understanding for the father who left his two children in the hot car. The description of what those small children went through before dying was horrifying. I've blocked most of it out but it included the little girl pulling out her hair. I hate to even repeat that, but it is a horrible death for children to endure beforehand. I don't read any more of these stories when they happen, but I'm strongly of the opinion that it's inexcusable to forget your child is in the car. Truly, no excuses.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | June 26, 2025 5:10 AM
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You people are incredibly ignorant
by Anonymous | reply 16 | June 26, 2025 5:21 AM
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I left a box of chips in the car after grocery shopping and felt guilty.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | June 26, 2025 5:27 AM
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I have nothing but sympathy when this happens. Horrible horrible horrible. I really hate that it happens, and I feel terrible for all parties involved.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | June 26, 2025 5:53 AM
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Op makes it sound like an online challenge gone wrong.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | June 26, 2025 6:09 AM
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R6 and R7 have double-handedly saved this mess of a thread.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | June 26, 2025 6:53 AM
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That's all well and good when it's 100 degrees outside but in the winter you'll have to improvise
by Anonymous | reply 23 | June 26, 2025 7:47 AM
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I. az it has happened many times over the last 70 or so years
by Anonymous | reply 24 | June 26, 2025 7:54 AM
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Patsy, how long do you leave the baby in the vehicle to ensure that it's evenly cooked? I wouldn't like to eat an undercooked infant.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | June 26, 2025 8:46 AM
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I can't believe this cretin was released from prison.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 26 | June 26, 2025 8:49 AM
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WE STILL HAVE NO LINK.
This event the OP noticed may have happened 11 years ago but it just popped up yesterday on OP's screen.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | June 26, 2025 8:55 AM
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Is that J.D. Vance at R26?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | June 26, 2025 9:06 AM
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I am so glad that so many of you think leaving a baby in a car like putting a roast in the oven and we are supposed to feel sorry for the parent is funny. You can kill your own child and it's not so bad because the parent suffers so much.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | June 26, 2025 9:33 AM
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[quote]I am so glad that so many of you think leaving a baby in a car like putting a roast in the oven and we are supposed to feel sorry for the parent is funny.
Shut your gaping pie hole, stupid frau bitch R29. Leave.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | June 26, 2025 1:43 PM
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R30 Close your butt hole for once and stop your hurricanes which can blow away 18 wheel rigs.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | June 27, 2025 11:11 AM
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Here is the stupid mom who probable never forgot a lunch date, a job report or a Downton Abbey episode.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 32 | June 27, 2025 11:14 AM
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Girls! Girls! You BOTH sound insufferable.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | June 27, 2025 11:47 AM
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Ive never bought this bullshit excuse they "forgot" their baby. Its murder,plain and simple. Who forgets a fucking baby ??? Notice the majority arent on drugs or drunk when this happens. You could almost understand if they are fucked up ,but to be sober as a judge ? Nope.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | June 27, 2025 12:19 PM
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R31, that’s your best shot? Really?
You fucking stupid frau bitch.
Best,
R30
by Anonymous | reply 35 | June 27, 2025 1:23 PM
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R34 I also don’t buy it. It is manslaughter at minimum.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | June 27, 2025 1:24 PM
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It’s nice that everything’s plain and simple in your world R35
by Anonymous | reply 37 | June 27, 2025 1:42 PM
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[quote] I can't believe that she allowed him to be alone with those children after leaving them in the car more than once I mean you're in f****** Arizona for God's sake and you're a doctor.
Christopher Scholtes' wife is an example of how someone can be very well educated, but still be stupid as fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | June 27, 2025 3:26 PM
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Mom who lost 9-month-old son in hot car warns parents amid US heatwave
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 40 | June 27, 2025 4:12 PM
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Baking a baby isn't the same thing as losing one.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | June 27, 2025 4:28 PM
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I always feel sympathy when this happens. I don't have kids, but I have done some absent-minded things that shocked me.
A simple change in routine usually causes these things. A different parent takes the kid to preschool; they leave at a different time or take a different route. The brain goes on automatic pilot and goes back to its normal routine. A few years back, there was a case where a dad shot himself to death after realizing that he had accidentally left his baby in his car, where it died.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | June 27, 2025 4:35 PM
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Maybe if you’re so dumb you forget a living being in a hot car you don’t need kids
by Anonymous | reply 44 | June 27, 2025 8:38 PM
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[quote]A Florida man accused of leaving his young son in a truck for hours while he went to the barbershop and out for drinks at a bar — [bold]and then went back to the same bar later that night after his son died[/bold] — has been arrested in the toddler's death.
Yep, the kid fried while he was in the bar, he was arrested and set free, then he went straight back to the bar WITH HIS MOM.
Did he have a "memory lapse" and forget he'd just killed his kid a few hours before?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | June 27, 2025 8:43 PM
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[quote]I read recently that Scholtes refused a plea deal and will go on trial in October for first-degree murder.
[quote] Did you notice how both his wife and his mom defended/enabled him and made excuses for him? He must have been hot before the beer weight. Why did he steal beer? For the thrill? Did all the stores cut him off? Was he personally penniless and on a parsimonious allowance? Guys like him - risk taking, domestic violence, substance abusing esp. alcohol - are closet cases.
I lived in Tucson years ago and I still follow news/media outlets as I have relatives there and visit every fall. I got sucked into the Scholtes case for awhile and there are a bunch of Reddit threads about it. In one of the Reddit threads, a poster claimed that she/he knew Scholtes in high school and that he was a spoiled rich kid. If that was poster was telling the truth, it fits well with Scholtes' entitled asswipe attitude. I'm going to guess he was shoplifting beer because maybe the wife was checking receipts to see what he was buying. Who knows? Maybe, he was shoplifting beer for thrill
The wife is POS too. If Scholtes' side of the family is indeed wealthy, I wonder if they paid for the wife's medical school tutition and that could maybe explain why she is defending him.
Scholtes' teenage daughter from a previous relationship seems to have a good head on her shoulders and knows what a POS he is. I hope that daughter decides to cut off all contact with Scholtes and his family.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | June 28, 2025 2:11 AM
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Well you leave a child in the car or you don't. It's not rocket science.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | June 28, 2025 4:19 PM
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That's right R46, Scholtes' behavior is that of a spoiled person who always gets what he wants. After reading a couple stories about the case, I take back my guess that he must have been hot. Thin or thick, in photos he always has a mildly FLK thing going on. Looks-wise, he's matched to his wife though. It must be about the money.
The teenaged Scholtes girl was taken from dad's custody due to being beat on if I remember correctly. She was probably a scapegoat for the family's dysfunction. They usually become truth-tellers since they have a conscience and they have nothing to gain by being silent.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | June 28, 2025 8:36 PM
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There must have been an easier way to become an expert on the subject, Mother.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | June 29, 2025 1:59 AM
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