“Ten days before she died, I asked her how I should be to the public,” O’Shaughnessy tells PEOPLE. “I was holding sort of a public celebration of her life, and then a national tribute at the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C. And it was like, ‘So who am I?’ ”
“Our friends and family knew, and people guessed. It didn’t feel honest,” she continues. “She told me, you decide what you want to say, how open you want to be about our relationship.”
O'Shaughnessy doesn't hold back on sharing her and Ride's intimate moments in the documentary. Since Ride was such a private person and the couple only had a few photos together, Sally director Cristina Costantini says they relied on filming recreations of actors that were “all inspired directly from Tam’s memory.”
O'Shaughnessy, whose childhood friendship with Ride became romantic in 1985, says she hopes the film will help people understand their relationship and ultimately portray an American hero “as who she really was.”
“We had a wonderful relationship from the time we were kids until we became lovers,” O'Shaughnessy says. “I think it's something to be proud of.”
“Sally is so closed off in her communication that Tam was the closest and most intimate voice that we could get to Sally,” the film’s producer, Lauren Cioffi, adds.
O’Shaughnessy says there are a few moments in her Sally interview reel “where I sort of break down.”
“When I was describing my relationship with Sally, and especially when Sally got sick, I got teary-eyed, and it just got me all the way through to my heart and guts,” she says. “And that was a little bit of a surprise.”
