Scott Wolf's marriage is DEAD to me!

Kelley, 48, also emphasized the importance of protecting their kids and moving forward as a family in her announcement.

“It is with a heavy heart that Scott and I are moving forward with the dissolution of our marriage,” she wrote. “This has been a long, quiet journey for me—rooted in hope, patience, and care for our children. While I will not speak publicly about the details, I feel peace knowing that I’ve done everything I can to walk this path with integrity and compassion.”

“Scott Wolf is one of the best fathers I’ve ever known and one of the best partners a woman could have the privilege of sharing life with,” The Real World: New Orleans alum added. “He is kind, thoughtful, funny, and beautiful in spirit. We both look forward to an extraordinary life centered around the most extraordinary children. My priority has always been their wellbeing—and my own healing. That will never change.”

She concluded: “I am stepping into a chapter of peace, freedom, and protection—with grace. Thank you to the many friends, family, and professionals who have held space for me with love. Please respect our privacy during this time. May we all remember: healing isn’t loud. It’s sacred. 🤍”

Both Scott and Kelley seemed to be struggling in their relationship in the time leading up to the divorce through social media posts.

To commemorate their milestone 20th anniversary in May 2024, Kelley told a story about a moment when she recalled telling her then-husband: “I love you. I love you more than I’ve ever loved anybody. I almost loved you enough to stop loving myself. But I remembered that nothing in life is going to last if I leave myself behind. I can see the future of that scenario and one day you’ll wake up and wonder what happened to that girl and I won’t even remember who she was. Well, I had promised her that I would never ever leave her again. so when you’re ready, I’ll be here, but I will not stick around while somebody tries to excavate fault in me.”

She went on to explain that while she “was ready to walk out the door,” Scott fought to stay together. “He said, ‘You are really going to leave. I believe you. I can see it. I can feel it. And there is no chance in hell I am going to let that happen, so let’s do this. Let’s do this hard part, the uncomfortable part. The part where I have to look in the mirror and see my old pattern where I have tried to find fault in somebody in the hopes that I would prove that nobody can really do the hard stuff and stick around.’”

Scott hinted that he was at his "lowest point" less than a month before news of his separation.

In a more cryptic post, which didn’t include a caption, Scott shared a video about getting through challenging times just two weeks before the split.

“Your lowest point is the doorway to your highest self,” the narrator said as a slideshow of spiritual images appeared in the background. “For when the heart breaks, something far deeper is taking place than mere misfortune. We often don’t realize the value of the darkness until it has passed. For only in the absence of light that we learn to become the light. The human mind seeks comfort but the soul stirs for change. It longs to grow, not to stay the same.”

“As I’ve said before, the meaning of life is just to be alive,” it continued. “And yet we resist the very currents that are pulling us into deeper awareness of that aliveness. You’re not here to chase happiness like a dog chasing its tail. Happiness is a byproduct of becoming whole. Wholeness requires continuous dark and light. Sorrow and joy. Breaking and rebuilding. So when it hurts, let it hurt. Don’t run. Sit with it. Listen to it. And when you finally rise from it, you’ll realize the joy was never in the outcome, but in the transformation.”

It concluded: “Feed the soul, not the ego. Choose evolution over escape. And the light you’re searching for will no longer be something you can find. It will be something you are.”

This is such important news. He's such an enormous star.

This is what happens when people stop being polite, and start getting real.

For some reason, the way it's all worded, it makes me think SHE cheated on him, rather than his cheating on her.

Aww I liked them as a couple. Her friendship with hot fucker Danny on The Real World New Orleans endeared her to me.

C'mon be my baby tonight....

Why is it that after several years of marriage, spouses start looking like each other?

It's so weird - they both have the same thin, pinched nose, same smile lines on either side of their mouths, similar eyes.

[quote]I will not stick around while somebody tries to excavate fault in me.

Miss Kelley has stated her boundaries.

R7, they had similar plastic surgery

He looks like MJ Fox

Wolf

Fox

Loved him in the movie GO and always thought he was absolutely adorable

R5 Apparently someone was interested in them after all.

It's gross to post quotes about your relationship online - talk to each other, don't talk at each other over social media. Blech. Nobody wants to hear it.

R14 I agree, It's tacky. Social media is not your doctor, your lover or friend. Why give it your time and emotion? I am surprised that none of you think that either of them are playing for a different team. "The human mind seeks comfort but the soul stirs for change. It longs to grow, not to stay the same.” What kind of new age bullshit is that, and what could it mean. Am I suppose to believe that he is a deeper thinker and more reflective on self? They both sound insecure and self- obsessed. Also whenever someone brings there children into the picture and then shouts out how much they love them I think that they are trying to make themselves look good- " Hey I am leaving the mother of my kids to stare at my navel, but I love them more than the mirror." Why tell the world how great a parent the other is- so the custody doesn't get bad, so they don't grow up thinking their parents only cared about themselves- they know who you really are because they see your marriage ending, and dragging the family with it. Because you don't want people to think you Joan Crawford and Bing Crosby. Shared custody is a joke and insulting to children- being a ping-pong ball in their parents game. And I don't understand splitting after 20 some years. You couldn't changed that much. And after 20 years you should know your mate- the good, the bad , and the ugly.

The real source of tension? He's not making big bucks as an actor anymore and wifey is sick of downgrading her lifestyle.

Wifey’s very MtF looking. She has that scoured, Katharine Hepburn cast to her face.

What a bunch of word salad, AI-chatbot speak! If you spoke to each other the way you posted your 'thoughts,' no wonder you're splitting up. "Excavate fault in me" sounds like she used the Word online thesaurus to find a different word.

As John Mayer sang, "say what you need to say."

[quote]R7 It's so weird - they both have the same thin, pinched nose, same smile lines on either side of their mouths, similar eyes.

They may share a plastic surgeon.

Wolf will always hold a special place in my, er, heart, for parading around in his tights whiteys for the duration of White Squall.

Is R19 also R9?

He was hot as hell in White Squall

I can read right through the lines. Husband has a mid-life crisis, gets a little frisky, needs a little more spice in his sex life, wants to explore the backdoor, consider some three ways; wife posits i was never that girl, will never be that girl, I would lose myself, I would hate myself. If this is what you want, then be that way, but I'll stick to blow jobs (well mostly from the finger tips) and the missionary position. He can no longer consent to more of the same, no more sex drive for vanilla sex, how many more years does he have to experiment, it's no longer negotiable. Curtains down.

Has he worked recently?

[quote] Wolf will always hold a special place in my, er, heart, for parading around in his tights whiteys for the duration of White Squall.

And the Terms of Endearment sequel The Evening Star.

I told him to shut up once at Lyle Lovett concert. It was an outdoor show and I was sitting on the grass in his group of friends was behind me and they wouldn't stop with their incessant chatting him especially.

Is DL now People Magazine? I'm not a frau, so why would I give two shits about this?

Shocking

Bailey, NO!!

I jerked off to this picture of Scott Wolf and Ryan Phillippe in White Squall so many times as a horny 90s teen.

R27, how did they/he react?

[quote] Has he worked recently?

He’s a main cast member of the hit show, “Doc” on Fox which premiered earlier this year.

The show was renewed for a second season.

Might Kelley have a future as a member of Trump’s cabinet?

People who want privacy shouldn’t publicly announce their divorce.

WHO??????

Her statement was strange enough that I looked her up out of curiosity and found a Real World subreddit thread about the split announcement. There are quite a few comments that say she's been unraveling on social media for a couple years now.

If he was cheating on her, I don't think she would have been so hesitant for years to end the relationship. Seems more like he's been spending his more frequent unemployed days drinking and she's finally giving up.

Wow, that’s a lot of over explaining for an event almost no one cares about.

You’re so brave, R26.

r3 One of the greatest Real World casts! Ugh life was so fun and simple back then.

They need privacy!

R26 = Julia Moder.

I sense years of lukewarm, WASPy lovemaking finally ran its course.

Man cannot live on crustless Wonder Bread and Mayonnaise sandwiches alone.

[quote] I sense years of lukewarm, WASPy lovemaking finally ran its course.

They had WASPy lovemaking even though he’s Jewish?

He looks very young

He's certainly had his nose thinned and shortened since his "Party of 5" days.

Wow, R23.

Just..... Wow.

Within 6 months he will be in a new relationship with a much younger woman

I didn’t realize there was such an age difference between them.

Dong.

Why do celebrity journalists always say a couple "share" children? It's very Daily Mail. What happened to "have"?

I've got to be a WOMAN again!

WOMYN!

Scott Wolf sucks cocks in hell!!

Screencap of Scott in white undies From "The Evening Star":

Brief view of Scott's naked butt from "The Evening Star":

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Well! I follow Kelley on IG. About 90 mins. ago I got a notification she was going live. I tapped on it, and the screen was black with no sound for about a minute. All the sudden I see a couple cops shot from below. One of them said something like "Your phone is in your right hand." Then I heard her say "Turn it off." Pretty concerning.

COUPLE OF COPS SHOT??? Are you joking?

The plot thickens!

The same Real World fans who've raised concerns about her mental health over the last couple years believe she was detained for a psych hold.

Yikes!

That could explain the crazy word salad from Kelly.

Looks like menopause might be hitting her hard.

People Magazine did a whole bunch of stories and photo shoots for their 20th anniversary, which now makes it seem like the whole thing was a shame.

I have to give it to them, Kelly and Scott have barely aged in 20 years.

It is a shame.

In sickness and in health means nothing to straight men. Wifely gets ill? Has a drinking problem, which is the same thing as being ill, hubby bounces and already has a side piece lined up.

[quote] Well! I follow Kelley on IG

I’m so, so sorry. Hopefully, you will eventually find a meaningful life.

R66- Kelly is her life!!!

Its probably the same gal who was on her Instagram Live earlier today.

I never thought he was hot but he looks the same as he did on Party of five

Shit. Kelly is livestreamig from the Sanitarium!

In the video where she’s being handcuffed, she states that Scott is abusing her. I don’t believe that for one minute. This woman is nuts.

Any photos of him with his original nose?

r71: Whereupon enter the plastic surgery cunts and nose job nerds

R72 = Scott.

This is the most press Scott has received in decades... possibly ever!

[quote] Shit. Kelly is livestreamig from the Sanitarium! —Live From The Snake Pit!

[quote] In the video where she’s being handcuffed, she states that Scott is abusing her. I don’t believe that for one minute. This woman is nuts.

Are you serious???

Where are you people seeing this?

LINK, PLEASE!!

on her instagram page, its still up. very confusing circumstances,

R75 - there's another thread with the longer video. She's cuckoo for coconuts.

Breeders doing what they always do, get married young, pop out a bunch of kids, stick with it for a while (for the children) file for divorce and claim they are both great parents. Rinse and Repeat. 60% Divorce rate.

Honestly after 20 something years of marriage, how could you not figure out long before that you were not comparable?

^^compatible

Thank you, R75/R76.

Wow, that video is really disturbing.

I wonder what's wrong with her? I feel bad, because she wasn't always like this.

Kelly was one of my favorite Real World cast members, mainly because she was the "sane" one.

21 years is a pretty good run. Hopefully nobody is being a dumb bitch about this whole thing and ending it (long, strangled sob!) over something as stupid as infidelity. If you've put in 21 years, you have something worthwhile there and the fact that everybody is bored by the sex with each other shouldn't enter into it.

I found this post on her Instagram.

Kelley sounds like she has been very independent and spontaneous since she was very young, and then becoming a wife and mother was a bit stifling and suffocating for her.

I wonder if she just had a breakdown from feeling so stuck in her domestic life?

[italic]I have traveled solo many times in my life. Cross country road trips, moving to the UK solo at 15, camping alone in the dessert…

I was reminded of this unique and rare ‘feeling’, especially now- with constant access to people. A feeling that holds a bridge between aloneness, awe, awareness and excitement. A place of Self.

I bought a ticket to a Real Madrid game last night, sat among strangers, and let the night unfold.

No plan, no agenda—just trust in the moment.

People ask how I travel solo. Why I don’t plan more. The truth? Because life is happening now. And my life is extremely ‘planned’. No blank spaces on that google-cal, type of life.

The magic, when possible lies, Not in itineraries. Not in expectations. But in a freedom to explore…

Planning anchors me to the mind, but presence moves me with the soul. I’d rather feel my way through the world than control it and this is not always possible and I will accept the moments I have this rare opportunity….

And also, so I may truly enjoy the mundane, the planned… the predictable.

We cling to predictability as if it offers safety. The same road to work, the same lunch, the same routine.

Then again and again, I notice, control seems an illusion. The car still crashes. The lunch still spoils. The power still goes out. Life will pull you into the unknown—so why not walk into it yourself?

Go alone. Let wonder lead. Keep the novel part of your mind awake. Because one day, when the distractions fall away, you will find yourself standing with the only feeling that has always been with you.

In that moment, see it as love. Let it be deep, unwavering, soul-shaking love.

Because the great secret is this: The love of your life must first be you. From that place, then can we truly love.. This is what drives me. To love more.. to feel more and be alive… In order to give more love, to offer more love and to come from love!!! 🦅🦬🐍🪄❤️🔑

Go plan that small or large solo mission. It may be the grocery store or Rome. Remember to…. Enjoy![/italic]

[quote] Scott Wolf’s estranged wife Kelley ‘taken against’ her will by cops after allegedly making ‘concerning’ comments to family

Scott Wolf’s estranged wife, Kelley, was allegedly detained by police just days after the “Party of Five” alum filed for divorce — and the incident was caught on video.

In the blacked-out clip shared on Kelley’s Instagram live on Friday, June 13, the mom of three is heard saying, “Oh my God. Don’t. Oh my God, this is not happening.”

At the end of the video, a concerned Kelley, 48, is seen on camera with two police officers.

She’s then heard telling the cops she’ll “go on my own” before what appears to be the sound of handcuffs in the background.

“This is shameful, gentlemen,” she tells the officers. “Look at this, look at this woman, this is shameful. Be ashamed, be ashamed of yourselves, gentlemen.”

At one point, one of the authorities informs Kelley that she’s “not going to jail,” adding they are going to get her “some help.”

“I know what I’m doing, I’ve done this. This is my job,” Scott’s ex replies.

It’s then that police tell Kelley she’s “made some comments to your dad and comments to people that are concerning,” and they “want to make sure you’re okay.”

The video ends by showing Kelley with the two police officers behind her.

Scott’s estranged wife later added a post to her Instagram Stories about the incident.

“This is horrible. I have been taken against my will. Please check in on my kids,” she wrote alongside a photo of her open purse in what appears to be a private waiting room.

“Also … I am happy!! Happier than I have ever been,” Kelley continued. “I have NO idea why or how this is happening in AMERICA.

“I am compliant, calm and respectful, and hopefully this is all sorted very quickly. In the meantime, be kind to each other. This is one of the darkest things I’ve ever experienced.”

The details and nature of her detainment are unclear.

Us Weekly confirmed that Scott filed for divorce in Utah on Monday, June 9, which included a “proposed parenting plan.” However, that plan is sealed, so no details are available.

He was young and pretty for a year or two, but never amounted to much as an actor.

In Trump's America, once a straight couple separates, the female is detained for processing and re-education.

It's very HANDMAID'S TALE.

Hi looks like a GI Joe after my six month old sister had it for a while

[quote]I’m so, so sorry. Hopefully, you will eventually find a meaningful life.

You're here too, cunt.

Scott was 28 playing 18 on Party of Five.

R82 all of that made a lot of sense. She’s not a stupid woman.

Wow, that video where she gets arrested, mostly audio sounds exactly like someone I know. If I had to guess I would say A LOT of prescription drugs are involved. Not the kind that get you high and relax, those psyc drugs really do make people act off especially when they start layering them one for each mood or issue. Drug Addict.

R80 stupid comment. Of course she wasn’t always like this. Most people who lose their minds with time weren’t like that once.

It's exhausting living with a drug addict like that. I could see why Scott decided to cut the cord. Probably for the best, most never get off of them, especially when they are legal and they can claim they need them because of their "chemical imbalance" in the brain.

If I had a dollar for every time I heard this: I am not a drug addict, I have a chemical imbalance.

WHET Danny from the Real World?

Billy Bush is sharing an update hours after Kelley Wolf was detained by police and taken to a hospital in Utah.

In an Instagram video on June 13, the Extra host, 53, shared that he is good friends with Kelley's estranged husband, actor Scott Wolf. Scott and Kelley announced their split after 21 years of marriage earlier this week and share three kids: Jackson, 16, Miller, 12, and Lucy, 11.

“I know both Kelley and Scott very, very well,” Bush said. “Scott is truly one of my very best friends, and was just here recently watching the Masters with his children. We went to the LAFC soccer game with the kids.”

He called Scott “the kindest, sweetest person,” adding, “He's everything you see and think you know about him when you see him. He is all of that and more.”

“And Kelley is getting the help she needs,” Bush noted. “And I can tell you, I talked to her, talked to her myself, one on one personally about it. She's got excellent parents. They're on it.”

“She's a beautiful person, and so is Scott,” he adds.

Bush’s message comes hours after Kelley, 48, was detained and handcuffed by sheriffs in Utah County, Utah.

I hope Scott gets comforted by his former 'White Squall' co-star Ryan Phillippe:

Yes. It’s obvious she isn’t well.

I’ve been following her for years on Instagram, and her posts are usually very curated. Over the past few months they have been histrionic and all over the place. There is something wrong with her and she clearly doesn’t wanna get help.

That’s two NOLA cast members who are certifiably nuts, and Julie isn’t the second.

Tokyo “David” is nuts too and I think his mental health has led him to become homeless. He posts random ramblings on IG and is random. Kelley has become the same but difference is she’s a wealthy white woman so no one views it nearly the same as Tokyo.

Julie is nuts too but she’s always kinda been.

Danny has AIDS and lots of health issues and he too can be a bit manic in real life, but he doesn’t post it online at least.

Jamie, Matt and Melissa are the only NOLA cast members who seem completely fine and normal and healthy.

Danny lives in Vermont now, and he still looks great.

Party of One

R99 we know what he looks like. No one said he doesn’t look good. He looks fine.

[quote] Tokyo “David” is nuts too and I think his mental health has led him to become homeless. He posts random ramblings on IG and is random.

Poor guy was mercilessly mocked over that ridiculous song he wrote during the Real World New Orleans season.

The producers played it over, and over, and over again and had a good laugh at his expense.

I'm not saying that it wasn't funny, because it WAS funny. The guy took himself so seriously, and he was absolutely clueless about how he came across.

But yeah, his mental health must have taken a beating after that.

I doubt his mental health struggles have to do with a song he did in his early 20s.

He’s proud of that moment. As he should be. He had a viral moment before viral moments were a thing.

I thought Jamie was the handsomest RW cast member.

I don’t think he’s the most handsome of all time but I did find him most attractive on his cast r105.

There have been MANY attractive men (and women) throughout the shows run. I mean, I think Eric Nies today is still hotter than a lot of those men were 30 years ago.

People shocked by her spiraling don’t follow her on Instagram. Sis has been on a downward spiral for a long time now, but it’s been really bad the last few months. Her stories and posts scream unhinged and wacko.

R97, what’s wrong with you? Danny doesn’t “have AIDS.” HIV is not AIDS.

Julie (RW NOLA) posted about Kelley and made it about herself. Of course.

He needs to start taking testosterone.

[quote] In sickness and in health means nothing to straight men. Wifely gets ill? Has a drinking problem, which is the same thing as being ill, hubby bounces and already has a side piece lined up.

TF are you talking about?

What kind of crazy stuff has she been posting to social media?

How does she have her phone and plastic objects in a psych ward?

Her word salad makes it sound like she’s maybe bored or feeling trapped (honestly, it sounds a bit dyke-ish), and probably equates his wanting to stay together as “abusive”. Straight people are the downfall of the sanctity of marriage

He’s the one who filed for divorce. Not her.

A small detail, R114.

That small detail is very telling. Trying to flip the story doesn’t change reality

This is DL. There is no reality.

DL is a forum. You choosing to not post truths is a choice. But that’s not the case for everyone.

Let it go, R118. No one comes here for hall monitors either. Move on.

[quote] That small detail is very telling. Trying to flip the story doesn’t change reality

Huh?

People think the post at R82 sounds sane? It's just rambling and self-promoting. And seriously - "alone in the dessert"?

I don't think she sounds sane there at all.