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What's the saddest movie you've ever seen?

As a complement to the other superlative movie threads.

I'm not exactly sure it's objectively the saddest, but Wendy and Lucy certainly seemed like it the first and only time I watched it. I don't think I could watch it again.

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by Anonymousreply 41June 11, 2025 3:04 PM

Another entry would be 'Night, Mother

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by Anonymousreply 1June 9, 2025 11:17 AM

"I Smile Back," with Sarah Silverman in a surprisingly dramatic role as an alcoholic, drug addicted wife and mother.

It was so devastatingly sad, I don't think I could ever watch it again. Silverman was excellent in it, though, and should've received an Oscar nomination.

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by Anonymousreply 2June 9, 2025 11:25 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 3June 9, 2025 3:13 PM

Secrets and Lies

by Anonymousreply 4June 9, 2025 3:15 PM

"Au Hasard, Balthasar" and "Mouchette": Robert Bresson's saddest masterpieces.

by Anonymousreply 5June 9, 2025 3:29 PM

Wendy and Lucy, OP? You crack me up.

You remind me of that book "Nickle and Dimed" that came out in 2001. I was at my bff's place (near the Cloisters) and she had that book on her coffee table. She usually slept until noon (I was always up at 7), so I picked it up and read the whole thing in one sitting, my mouth agape the entire time.

Like, hunh? People don't know that half the US population lives like this? They assign this book to college students? How oblivious the middle and upper (etc.) classes are to the plight of the everyday American! Honestly, you could have knocked me over with a feather.

Son, if you think Wendy and Lucy was depressing, you need to get out more, and learn a little about how the other half lives. In fact, you can come by my place; I'll be happy to take you on a tour of the neighborhood.

by Anonymousreply 6June 9, 2025 3:48 PM

That's a whole hell of a lot of assumptions in a tiny little post, r6.

by Anonymousreply 7June 9, 2025 3:53 PM

Come Back Little Sheba and Sophie’s Choice.

by Anonymousreply 8June 9, 2025 3:57 PM

[quote]Like, hunh? People don't know that half the US population lives like this? They assign this book to college students? How oblivious the middle and upper (etc.) classes are to the plight of the everyday American!

No, they don't. That's the whole point of books like NICKELED AND DIMED: to educate people about what they don't know.

I would think you'd be happy that wealthy college students would be reading about a socioeconomic world not their own. How else are they going to learn about it?

by Anonymousreply 9June 9, 2025 4:01 PM

Pretty much any Lars von Trier film. Dancer in the Dark was devastating.

by Anonymousreply 10June 9, 2025 4:04 PM

I don’t remember if it’s the saddest movie I’ve ever seen, but I remember SOBBING after watching The Deer Hunter. In first run——obviously, I’m an elder gay.

by Anonymousreply 11June 9, 2025 4:04 PM

Come Back Little Sheba is a good one too r8

by Anonymousreply 12June 9, 2025 5:03 PM

Cries and Whispers is up there

by Anonymousreply 13June 10, 2025 8:09 PM

Deer Hunter is pretty bad

Grave of the Fireflies

Never Let Me Go

Schindler's List (Obv)

Another vote for Sophie's Choice

Max and Mary

by Anonymousreply 14June 10, 2025 8:18 PM

Marley & Me. Yes, I was sobbing.

Don't you MARY! me.

by Anonymousreply 15June 10, 2025 11:10 PM

come and see

by Anonymousreply 16June 10, 2025 11:38 PM

When I was a young gay boy: Somewhere in Time, with v Christopher Reeves and Jane Seymour

by Anonymousreply 17June 10, 2025 11:49 PM

All Mine to Give

by Anonymousreply 18June 10, 2025 11:55 PM

I love a tearjerker but I was ugly snot-crying during Hachi:A Dog's Tale.

by Anonymousreply 19June 10, 2025 11:57 PM

Original Wuthering Heights with Olivier. At Cathy’s death I was sobbing hysterically in front of my TV.

by Anonymousreply 20June 11, 2025 12:00 AM

House of Sand and Fog

Where the Redfern Grows

Sophie's Choice

by Anonymousreply 21June 11, 2025 12:01 AM

Why has no one mentioned Brokeback Mountain?

by Anonymousreply 22June 11, 2025 12:02 AM

As an adult: Requiem For A Dream, Jacob's Ladder, Indecent Proposal, Bridges of Madison County, Terms of Endearment.

As a child: E.T. and Dumbo had me crying so hard I couldn't breathe.

by Anonymousreply 23June 11, 2025 12:05 AM

Old Yeller

by Anonymousreply 24June 11, 2025 12:08 AM

When I was a kid in grammar school they showed us Sounder. That film affected me so deeply, I can't watch it to this day. If I'm flipping channels and I realize it's on I can't flip fast enough. Born Free also got to me.

by Anonymousreply 25June 11, 2025 12:12 AM

I wouldn't say it's the saddest, but my go-to good cry movie is We Are Marshall. All of these people in small town, trying to soldier on & recover from a devastating accident and Ian McShane is a good as the the town asshole who can't really put words to his grief.

by Anonymousreply 26June 11, 2025 12:13 AM

Au revoir les enfants

by Anonymousreply 27June 11, 2025 12:18 AM

Two documentaries. One by Todd Verow called Bottom. 2011 or 2012. It's a cum pig bottom. The other is about gay hustlers in Montreal - Men for Sale (2008). It's very beautiful, and sad. Bottom is ugly and sad. Achingly sad.

by Anonymousreply 28June 11, 2025 12:30 AM

You can watch Men for Sale here: It is respectful and simple. The men are young and mostly tender and it's heartbreaking.

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by Anonymousreply 29June 11, 2025 12:32 AM

One guy said that Marvin’s Room was the only movie that ever made him cry no another one told me that My Life was the only one that ever made him cry. The Fountain had me sobbing. I believe all of those movies are about cancer.

by Anonymousreply 30June 11, 2025 12:45 AM

Bambi. I don’t want to give it away,

by Anonymousreply 31June 11, 2025 12:45 AM

SIX WEEKS!

by Anonymousreply 32June 11, 2025 1:23 AM

Madame Bovary

- Such a sad story.

by Anonymousreply 33June 11, 2025 1:25 AM

Leaving Las Vegas

by Anonymousreply 34June 11, 2025 1:26 AM

Sex And The City 2 - something that was a big part of my life died on the screen.

by Anonymousreply 35June 11, 2025 1:27 AM

"Dawson's 49 1/2 Load Weekend"

by Anonymousreply 36June 11, 2025 1:39 AM

"Brian's Song". A TV movie from the 1970s. James Caan and Billy Dee Williams

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by Anonymousreply 37June 11, 2025 1:42 AM

Not familiar with it, r37, but I am intrigued.

by Anonymousreply 38June 11, 2025 2:58 PM

Bicycle Thieves

by Anonymousreply 39June 11, 2025 3:03 PM

R38 It's the true story of Brian Piccolo, who played for the Chicago Bears and died of cancer at age 26, and his friendship with teammate Gale Sayers.

The final scene is absolutely devastating. And to this day, I can't listen to the movie's theme song by Henry Mancini without tearing up.

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by Anonymousreply 40June 11, 2025 3:03 PM

Another good one, r39

by Anonymousreply 41June 11, 2025 3:04 PM
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