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WHET Fibromyalgia?

It was so widespread 20 years ago but now everybody is neurodivergent. In between, millions diagnosed themselves with celiac disease.

I want to know why.

by Anonymousreply 85June 5, 2025 11:48 PM

It’s been overshadowed by Long Covid.

by Anonymousreply 1June 4, 2025 1:10 AM

"Anxiety" and "gluten intolerance" became much more glamorous.

They're much more dramatic and call much more attention to the person than a non-directional pain to the touch.

by Anonymousreply 2June 4, 2025 1:21 AM

When I was a kid, my Aunt had fibromyalgia and was unable to work, so she got disability. My Mom would always talk shit behind her back about faking it so that she could remain forever unemployed.

by Anonymousreply 3June 4, 2025 1:22 AM

A friend of mine was always complaining about his fibromyalgia but he never talks about it anymore.

by Anonymousreply 4June 4, 2025 1:43 AM

[quote]It’s been overshadowed by Long Covid.

And POTS, hypermobility syndrome, AuDHD, etc.

by Anonymousreply 5June 4, 2025 1:46 AM

So tender to the touch….

by Anonymousreply 6June 4, 2025 1:50 AM

Wee awl heave plaque psoriasis neow.

by Anonymousreply 7June 4, 2025 1:58 AM

Yep Ehlers Danlos for the win

by Anonymousreply 8June 4, 2025 1:58 AM

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is so much more than just being a tired person.

by Anonymousreply 9June 4, 2025 1:59 AM

Well don't look at me, I just have early trauma

Just sitting here, doom scrolling with my developmental trauma yo

by Anonymousreply 10June 4, 2025 2:00 AM

Karenface Thread.

by Anonymousreply 11June 4, 2025 2:01 AM

What does WHET stand for?

by Anonymousreply 12June 4, 2025 2:09 AM

R12

Whatever Happened To but someone long ago transposed the E and the H and a legend was born.

by Anonymousreply 13June 4, 2025 2:16 AM

Ah, thanks NPO. Wasn't quite sure that was it's meaning.

by Anonymousreply 14June 4, 2025 2:19 AM

One of the primary drugs initially used to treat fibromyalgia was originally developed as an antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication in addition to pain reliever.

by Anonymousreply 15June 4, 2025 2:21 AM

It's been overshadowed by incompetent Pete Hegseth.

by Anonymousreply 16June 4, 2025 2:22 AM

R15 Like Traxadone which was developed for depression but now is used primarily as a sleep aid.

by Anonymousreply 17June 4, 2025 2:26 AM

Everyone now being somewhere on the Spectrum has distracted them from physical pain.

by Anonymousreply 18June 4, 2025 2:28 AM
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by Anonymousreply 19June 4, 2025 2:43 AM

I was molested.

by Anonymousreply 20June 4, 2025 2:46 AM

fibromyalgia is one of the fastest growing autoimmune/syndromes/illnesses on the planet. men are even being diagnosed, and we’re not even hysterical!

by Anonymousreply 21June 4, 2025 2:51 AM

[quote]men are even being diagnosed, and we’re not even hysterical!

Well, get with the program!

by Anonymousreply 22June 4, 2025 2:53 AM

They all died.

by Anonymousreply 23June 4, 2025 3:06 AM

Fibromyalgia was one of the most talented imaginary illnesses ever. She also (claimed to have) had a lot of pain and struggle throughout her life. Despite that, she had a good heart, which is hard to encounter in a feigned disease. At a time when gay people were oppressed beyond belief, they identified with her struggles for validation, and she theirs.

by Anonymousreply 24June 4, 2025 3:09 AM

Most parents test for it in utero now and have elective abortions if the genetic test is positive. .it's gradually disappearing.

by Anonymousreply 25June 4, 2025 3:14 AM

It makes me happy that people are no longer tender to the touch!

by Anonymousreply 26June 4, 2025 3:30 AM

What about gluten intolerance?

by Anonymousreply 27June 4, 2025 3:33 AM

Quelle surprise R23

by Anonymousreply 28June 4, 2025 3:49 AM

Everyone I know who has fibromyalgia thinks it's an autoimmune (or inflammatory) disease but it's not. It would be easier to successfully treat if it were, but the research has never gone anywhere.

Weirdly, autoimmune diseases are trendy right now, especially lupus. A rheumatologist friend is confused by the number of young female patients she sees who are crestfallen when they're told they don't have lupus, which isn't only rare but is also one of the nastiest diseases she treats.

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by Anonymousreply 29June 4, 2025 3:58 AM

There's so much processed garbage foods and microplastics everywhere, it's no wonder we have all kinds of new diseases. I'm just glad to be on the downhill slide, this world has gone down the shitter.

by Anonymousreply 30June 4, 2025 3:58 AM

About 20 years ago I painted several rooms in my house and the ceilings. I woke up one morning a my chest felt smashed - or like a boa constrictor was wrapped around my chest. It was agony. It was hard to breathe, drive, sit, awful. I thought I was dying. I went to several doctors that acted like I was crazy or a drug seeker. On good doctor diagnosed me with costochondritis. It lasted exactly 10 months and then it went away and never came back. It was awful while it lasted.

by Anonymousreply 31June 4, 2025 4:24 AM

Fibromyalgia is too difficult to put in a tweet or Instagram post or TikTok hashtag. It’s all about short acronyms now. #ADHD #neurodiv

by Anonymousreply 32June 4, 2025 4:26 AM

Agreed. And the spelling’s tough to remember, too.

We could see if [bold]#myalg [/bold]catches in - but I don’t have high hopes.

by Anonymousreply 33June 4, 2025 7:27 AM

R33 made me laugh. You could also add #warrior.

by Anonymousreply 34June 4, 2025 8:34 AM

I built a cozy ski chalet in Saas Fee with my Morgellons fibres

by Anonymousreply 35June 4, 2025 8:36 AM

People might be able to remember the (partial) spelling “myalgi” … MY + ALGI. It even kind of rolls off the tongue.

[bold]#MyalgiWarrior [/bold]

As a tattoo it could be quite the icebreaker!

by Anonymousreply 36June 4, 2025 8:43 AM

I have fibromyalgia. I havent told many people. Ive maneuvered my work life around it, so im not on disability or anything. There's 3 parts to it; low mood, exhaustion and pain. If i go out for a night drinking, i have to make sure theres nothing the following day that is very important. I never have energy. The pain just appears in the most randomn parts of my body. Sometimes i could cry with the tiredness, and at one point I thought i had Narcolepsy as my body slowly goes to sleep, like someone slipped something in my drink. My mood is generally low. I find myself trying to save energy so its there for work stuff. Theres been a new idea, that We dont ever go into REM sleep; and so our bodys dont regenerate properly. Ironically i eat so well, as diet is the Only thing to give you a decent start. So i look really good; which doesnt help people understand that youre actually sick. I dont tell people, i just get on with things, but since covid (lockdown was a godsend, i was so burnt out) ive started to say No to people. Before i used to believe if i said no, it was beating me. Ive just woken up, mood is ok, tiredness is ok but ive been in bed since 5pm yesterday) but the pain in my body has me lying here, even though i need to pee. I spend a fortune on rubs like Deep heat and Voltarol but u start rubbing it on one body part then another and its gone so quickly; at 14 quid a tube. A pill called Tramadol helps, but its hard to get, only on prescription but also makes me very sleepy. Mostly i wud beat myself up, believing im not as motivated as others or even that im lazy or depressed. My DR was old and didnt believe in Fibromyalgia so i only got diagnosed a few years ago. Anyways, i think this may be the post i eventually put on my social media as it wud make life a lot easier if people just know im Still getting life done, achieving, being successful despite this crap. But today is a good day. 😁

by Anonymousreply 37June 4, 2025 9:49 AM

It’s all about Gender Dysphoria today.

by Anonymousreply 38June 4, 2025 10:46 AM

Ehlers-Danlos is where it’s at!

by Anonymousreply 39June 4, 2025 10:47 AM

Team ‘Chronic Anal Warts’ here.

by Anonymousreply 40June 4, 2025 10:54 AM

If I ever developed the symptoms that people diagnosed with fibromyalgia describe, there is no way I’d accept that diagnosis. If I was that sick and unable to function, I’d say keep looking until you find something.

by Anonymousreply 41June 4, 2025 11:15 AM

…and over this BS.

by Anonymousreply 42June 4, 2025 11:15 AM

What about my child's peanut allergy??! If they even SMELL peanuts, they go into a coma!

by Anonymousreply 43June 4, 2025 11:36 AM

A college has CFS. He's always been an energetic overachiever, so it's easy to dismiss the skepticism that accompanies the diagnosis. He 's an academic and has made the study of it one of his life's works--like I said, he's an energetic overachiever, so it's just one of multiple lines of reserach.

by Anonymousreply 44June 4, 2025 11:44 AM

R29: Autoimmune-related diseases are not easy to treat.

by Anonymousreply 45June 4, 2025 11:45 AM

There’s nothing more annoying than people whose weaknesses and limitations do not mirror your own.

by Anonymousreply 46June 4, 2025 11:50 AM

Since Ginny in Billing became George in Billing and had his prosthetic cock installed, the fibromyalgia symptoms have magically disappeared.

by Anonymousreply 47June 4, 2025 12:14 PM

It went the way of multiple personalities.

by Anonymousreply 48June 4, 2025 12:18 PM

I suffer from GAD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I'm literally crying and shaking in response to EVERYTHING!

by Anonymousreply 49June 4, 2025 12:53 PM

Sticking with my Lupus

by Anonymousreply 50June 4, 2025 1:06 PM

R29 I blame Flannery O’Connor—but I blame her for most thingsx

by Anonymousreply 51June 4, 2025 1:17 PM

I can only speak for myself, but my neurodivergence takes precedence over my fibro.

by Anonymousreply 52June 4, 2025 1:21 PM

[quote] A pill called Tramadol helps, but its hard to get, only on prescription but also makes me very sleepy.

Same here! My fibro melts away when I get my hands on schedule 4 drugs. What's even better is 20 mg of Vicodin chased by a mug of white wine. (Not red, because red gives me migraines).

by Anonymousreply 53June 4, 2025 1:23 PM

[quote][R29]: Autoimmune-related diseases are not easy to treat.

Quite a few are easier to treat now than they ever have been in the past. I've had one since I was a toddler in the 1980s and there was little in my doctor's arsenal then but steroids and a few ineffective DMARDs. My quality of life was terrible for decades and I spent a lot of time in the hospital. Biologics have been a huge game-changer for many autoimmune conditions, with the added bonus of being targeted therapies that aren't always as harsh on the rest of the system as older treatments.

by Anonymousreply 54June 4, 2025 1:30 PM

I'll have fibromyalgia again when I need some extra attention

by Anonymousreply 55June 4, 2025 1:33 PM

She had fibromyalgia and her body is in a ditch by the railroad tracks.

by Anonymousreply 56June 4, 2025 1:36 PM

Disease du jour rotation has been going on forever.

I am fortunate enough to have avoided fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, lupus, multiple personality disorder and even restless leg syndrome.

My real fear is being crushed by falling space junk.

by Anonymousreply 57June 4, 2025 1:50 PM

Stanky puss.

by Anonymousreply 58June 4, 2025 2:02 PM

Are you tender to the touch op?

by Anonymousreply 59June 4, 2025 2:16 PM

I had a doctor incorrectly suspect I had lupus once. I had some tests done and I didn’t. It was just a rosacea rash which is much easier to take care of. That shit is terrifying and you could die. I don’t know why people want lupus.

by Anonymousreply 60June 4, 2025 2:20 PM

I have a TRANS KID! Aren't I doing enough?

by Anonymousreply 61June 4, 2025 2:57 PM

Marry me, R51.

by Anonymousreply 62June 4, 2025 3:00 PM

I have all of these diseases!

by Anonymousreply 63June 4, 2025 3:54 PM

Claim brain cancer or go home.

by Anonymousreply 64June 4, 2025 8:05 PM

People call it chronic pain now

by Anonymousreply 65June 4, 2025 8:19 PM

I think there are a few people who abuse the system, so to speak, but auto immune diseases are real.

by Anonymousreply 66June 4, 2025 8:43 PM

Rheumatoid arthritis is very real. I have permanently deformed joints to prove it.

by Anonymousreply 67June 4, 2025 9:25 PM

[quote]Rheumatoid arthritis is very real. I have permanently deformed joints to prove it.

That's one of the biggest things people don't understand about autoimmune diseases, the magnitude of the damage they can cause. Among Lena Dunham types on social media there's also a lot of confusion about how flares work and how the immune system works in general.

by Anonymousreply 68June 4, 2025 9:43 PM

[quote] I had a doctor incorrectly suspect I had lupus once. I had some tests done and I didn’t. It was just a rosacea rash which is much easier to take care of. That shit is terrifying and you could die. I don’t know why people want lupus.

Seriously. Are posters really that clueless about diseases like Lupus? I watched my beloved aunt, a kinder person you will never meet, die of it at 53. It's a painful, prolonged death. Six months later my face broke out in a butterfly rash which is a classic symptom of Lupus. I rush to a doctor (fortunately a good one) in terror. He takes one look at me and says it's rosacea, get outta here.

by Anonymousreply 69June 4, 2025 10:13 PM

Fibromyalgia is not an autoimmune disorder. It's a mental condition that afflicts fat lazy females who want an excuse to avoid working.

by Anonymousreply 70June 4, 2025 10:42 PM

Some claim Epstein-Barr virus can be the cause or play a role. I know I was sore after blacking out at Epstein's bar!

by Anonymousreply 71June 4, 2025 11:14 PM

That Roseanne Barr disease?

by Anonymousreply 72June 4, 2025 11:29 PM

Fibromyalgia developed agoraphobia, and can't leave the house.

by Anonymousreply 73June 4, 2025 11:36 PM

I honestly cannot make up my mind about fibromyalgia. It sounds real to me, and I've known someone who had it, but there is so much stuff out there making fun of it as a "fake" and a psychological syndrome in people who want attention that I can't help doubting. I'm not usually that easily swayed. Is it because there's no incontrovertible diagnostic test to confirm it, or that the diagnosis seems to be based on self-reported symptoms? Maybe people should quit sounding off on things they're not sure about either. If it's real, you're making life harder for the people who have it.

I'm fairly tender to the touch myself, since I have RA (not self-diagnosed, lol), but I'm lucky and it's pretty mild. I get away with the standard baseline drugs and don't have to use biologics.

by Anonymousreply 74June 4, 2025 11:48 PM

What about the gobloots?

by Anonymousreply 75June 5, 2025 1:47 AM

On social media, there's a woman I follow with appalled fascination. She also has "anxiety" and makes it sound like a disease like MS, as well as neuropathy, "chronic pain," long COVID, and most recently ADHD (a form of neurodivergence), which she blames for losing the latest in a long series of jobs. She lives with (lives off) her mother and blames her for many of her problems.

Last August she started a GoFundMe for, just, like, you know, life. Goal was $8,000 and she raised ... $25.

BUT SHE'S NEURODIVERGENT!

by Anonymousreply 76June 5, 2025 1:50 AM

R31

About six years ago, I was in an intense gym class when all of a sudden, I had an excruciating pain on the left side of my chest. I have very low blood pressure, I’m in great health, and have no family heart disease history but it was horrible and sudden. My friends were concerned enough to walk me out of class and make me call my husband, who is an internist. He was concerned by how I sounded - I couldn’t breathe without pain - so sent me to the ER to get tests run.

Of course, nothing was wrong, heartwise, but we ultimately discovered that I had torn an intercostal muscle…similar to your diagnosis, so I completely empathize with that pain. It’s so bad. And it took forever to go away.

Every so often, I’ll feel a twinge in the same spot and get anxious.

by Anonymousreply 77June 5, 2025 2:03 AM

It became “Remote Working,” OP.

by Anonymousreply 78June 5, 2025 2:08 AM

Quit your bitching! A little brain worm didn’t hold me back.

by Anonymousreply 79June 5, 2025 2:41 AM

My cousin died of lupus in her late 50's. It is a terrible way to live and a terrible way to die. Very sad.

by Anonymousreply 80June 5, 2025 6:12 AM

Science happened.

[quote]Brain imaging can distinguish fibromyalgia patients from healthy controls with high sensitivity and specificity, according to two papers published nearly simultaneously in Pain late last summer, by groups at the Universities of Colorado and Michigan, respectively.

"distinguish fibromyalgia patients from fakes" - FIFY

However, this test is not considered final and is used in conjunction with other evidence (patient interviews). New technologies need time to be adopted. 😂🤣😂🤣

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by Anonymousreply 81June 5, 2025 6:40 AM

That reminds me of Lupus Hochenfloogen, the first and only massage therapist for livestock in Minnesota history. We lost him in the great cramp.

by Anonymousreply 82June 5, 2025 7:21 AM

Ok I’ll own up to it. I have fibromyalgia. It sucks. It’s real.

But now that most doctors won’t Rx opioids for it anymore the number of people who have it are…fewer. Markedly fewer. Back when it was an excuse to get opioids there were a lot more people who were “tender to the touch”.

by Anonymousreply 83June 5, 2025 11:44 AM

Fibromyalgia may be real, but I bet 95% of the people claiming they have it are fakes.

by Anonymousreply 84June 5, 2025 2:28 PM

The "neurodivergent" gal at r76 has had a busy 24 hours:

[quote]I'll just be crying for the rest of the foreseeable future if anyone needs me I guess

[quote]I had a credit for Uber Eats and I used it and the person delivered my food to the wrong house. And now they won't bring it back or give me a refund. I'm so hungry and I'm going to cry.

She also set up an Amazon wish list for her nine-year-old, which strangely includes several $40 Kiehl's beauty products.

by Anonymousreply 85June 5, 2025 11:48 PM
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